First off, Quit saying, Usually this kinda guy does this & these guy's do that. You profile people when you do that. We are all different people. I'm white & would have no problem approaching a black girl if she sparked my interest. The answer to your question is be yourself, Just like you would ...
@yousured Just a thought, Your comment "why can't I get a hot guy like she can" is the reason why you can't. It's not hard, be someone who you would want to love & you will find what you are looking for.
Wow! That is truly a beautiful mind.