That verse in Hosea about Samaria, was telling what was going to happen to it for all the wickness it had done. It was not telling the Jews (and the term "Christian" didn't exist yet) to do that to themselves. Also, I'm not sure how you twisted Numbers 31 to have anything to do with rape - the Is...
Any weakling can lust after someone - it takes no effort. A real man will stand up and say that lady is made in God's image and worth my respect.