I think it's great that you're feeling more purposeful/spiritual (there isn't a but coming!). I'm sorry I couldn't leave a positive comment about the military thing. I was worried for you and I thought if I said that you'd be bummed as you were so enthusiastic. I'm glad to hear you be more reflective about that. I do respect your desire to serve it's just the politics of world events and the nature of war and the military mindset that disturbs me. Organised religion too if I'm honest... (Sorry.)

I have an unusual surname too and hardly anyone ever pronounces it right and it's not like it's not phonetic. I've had many variations of it but I've never had someone just give up and say whatever! I would be furious.

Hope doctor can help.

Wow - I must have missed those scenes when the show aired here or maybe these shows haven't yet - ? Where are you up to with Voyager? Hasn't the show ended now? I know we have reruns if you search for them.