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  • People may see this as too old fashioned and even funny, and by today's standards it may be.

    But I like it anyway...

  • You would think if all families acted like that in those times that we (baby boomers) would have grown up fairly problem free- what happened ?

  • Dad's head should've been in the freezer. Surprise!

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  • The daughter's voice sounds like she's mildly retarded.

  • Being thoughtful is important, but especially to yourself, so that you understand what you require in order to bring that same respect to other people. You can't be selfless until you know what a self is

  • I love how back in the 50's they used way too many words...."I went downtown to pay the insurance premium." "Take the ground beef out of the freezer compartment." In real life and in 2011, the words "premium" and "Compartment" would NOT be necessary! LOL

  • My Nana used to say about me, "She's the thoughtful one." Of course it did me no good, but desire not the fruits of thy labors! I had to turn tricks to help my family and get through university, but actually, it was very healthy work! NY was so exciting then. Good video, uprated.

  • The son keeps putting his hand over his face when he's frustrated. My grandmother, dad and my brother all do this....reminds me of them haha!

  • how is this fun?

  • You want to be thoughtful? Put on your knee pads and prepare for a marathon.

  • I was born in the 50's. I watched these films when I was in school back in the 60's and 70's. The 60's and the 70's may have been a time of rebellion, but these films still teach the same things today as they did back then. What's wrong with having good manners and being thoughtful?

  • what is this stepford high school?

  • I'm ready! I am wearing my red high heels!

  • Does Coronet use the same dining room in every film? I recognize that slanted mirror hanging above the dining table from other films.

    Amy is going to be unhappy when she comes home from Grandma's to find Eddie is going out with another girl.

    Did Mom and Dad have Eddie when they were 60 years old?

  • Don't sweat that gound beef Eddie...just chuck it in the "nuke-o-wave" and everything will be FINE! It would seem that things in the 50's were so simple and working through all the day in,day out things didn't seem all that hard to deal with. I would welcome simpler times like these....even if it's just not possible in this day and age....Sheeeesh!,I must be gettin' old!

  • what was wrong with the 50s

  • They need to show movies like this in the schools today. They were valuable then and they're valuable now.

  • Without the truth, there can be no real morality, justice, equality, success, freedom, love, security, peace, spirituality or even survival. Without the truth mankind is lost and heading for certain disaster in the near future. Go to TruthContest(dot)com, open The Present, and read what it says to learn the truth.

  • Jane's great, but her bro might need to be guided more....typical of men! :D

  • Gosh what happened to the world? It was nature's mistake I wasn't alive back then because I feel I'm the only one thinking about 'being thoughtful' and ofcourse don't get me started on the mannerisms back then..

  • Golly life was sure swell back then! Especially if you were rich, white and heterosexual!!!

  • Although people are generally inconsiderate pricks nowadays, I'd much prefer them to the robotic creeps featured in this video. Who the hell sits down and thinks about how to be thoughtful? The fuck?

  • the word thoughtful has just lost all meaning...

  • It looks all innocent and swell and all but everything was not better back then. Racism, sexism, homophobia, all things we're still trying to get rid of, and it was much worse back then.

  • Golly gee, swell! I wonder if they sleep in the same room still!

  • fine, thoughtful freaks

  • holy fuck holy fuck, if the world was like this i would shoot myself. this is the most soulless conformity-oriented bullshit i've ever seen. i mean it kind of is like that now except everyone think's they are unique cause the like lady shithead or lil gayne, and watch jersey whore. anyways this film(yes yes i know the 40s and 50s weren't like these films) if this how it really were. fuck that.

  • What amazing accents they have.

  • ''Yes, everywhere you go people talk about thoughtfulness'' what planet is this??

  • I like the old-style vending machine!!!

  • wow i think i just got diabetes from this show

  • crying over a dress?! xP bahahaaaaahahahaa

  • 00:23

    jimmy hopkins from bully!

  • Eddie said he was setting the table and then he went to call that girl! What a liar! And the parents lied about why they went downtown! Is this video condoning lying?! And why was the girl so concerned with getting the table set when she hadn't even started cooking yet? I guess she never watched the instructional video about prioritizing.

  • @Veerawk And she should have done her homework straight away after she got home.

  • "Dear Jane, be thoughtful and put the raw meat out on the counter.

    Love, Mom."

  • That's some high quality acting, right there.

  • I'm surprise it wasn't mandatory to have a smile botoxed on your face back then. These people seem way to happy, like a giant cult

  • Ever wonder why they had to have so many instructional videos like these on how to just get through a normal day? Seems like people must have been pretty miserable if they needed government films to tell them how to get along.

  • @shaunette9 It's called 'propaganda', dearie!

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  • All men are dogs. Some of us can just be trained better than others!!! LOL

  • At around 7:00, the dad looks like Malcolm Turnbull

  • Believe it or not, that's a candy vending machine at :33, 'andy'. At that time, vending machines often had a mirror on top if you wanted to "touch up" as well.

  • Is it just me or does Eddie talk like a dweeb? Even dweebish for the way they spoke then.

  • Eddie is a Cheatin Whore!

  • What is that machine in :33?

  • woah. Who whistles at their sister and says their hot?! Back up, there Eddie, that's nasty man! lol

  • @littlehouse15 Bet he got a boner there too...

  • "Say, you're things are all over the place, why don't you pick up?"

    Screw you, Eddie.

    And, what, is Jane mental or something?

    "Take your jacket along, save a trip."

    "Yeah, books too! Lets see, jacket, books, scarf upstairs." She's staring right at them! What does she need to say aloud next? Pick up one foot at a time to walk up the stairs?

  • the 2nd guy is how everyone thinks today. Look at the trouble we're in !

  • it would be thoughtful to introduce her to the others...THE OTHERS???

  • "Yes, everywhere you go, people talk about thoughtfulness."

    Boy, I can't tell you how many times my friends and I have discussed ways we should be more thoughtful to everyone. Gosh, it's such a fun thing.

  • I'm not saying that the world should be like "Leave It To Beaver" and shows from back then, I'm just saying that the world, especially here in the U.S., have lost the 3 main things in life, morals, respect and manners. It's all about common sense.

  • @Idoljunky32 Amen!

  • @Idoljunky32 Have we ever had any of those things?

  • idoljunky 32 is totally, 1,000% correct.

  • "Look at my little sister... Jimmy's a lucky fella".....kind of creepy especially if my brother did the wolf whistle.

  • His dad crossdresses?

  • thoughtfulness. YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG.

  • Argggh! These people are too nice!!!

  • It was a whole different world back then, it's ashamed that some of these videos aren't shown in school today. This world has become so hateful, especially here in the U.S. Yes I sound old-fashion, but I'm in my mid 30's and even thou I don't have any children, I believe children today needs to be taught some of these things and it needs to start when they're young. It seems some kids today don't have manners or morals and that some parents today just don't care. Anyway, I love these videos.

  • @Idoljunky32 the world was NEVER like "leave it to beaver". this was always the "ideal", just like it STILL is today.

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  • "son, put yourself in the other person's place..." - "in fact, sometimes I even put myself in your mothers clothes! It's fun!"

    yes, obsessing about thoughtfulness is a swell way to hide the bitter resentment of your drab, joyless life.

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  • dats a swell idea

  • I have a feeling that Amy wouldn't think its so thoughtful to ask another girl out because her grandma got sick!

  • Wow. In the 50s they made films about EVERYTHING. We only had... geometry or sex ed or... wildlife of the sahara or something. Not "How to be Groomed" or "What to do on a Date"

  • Thank you SO much for your thoughtfulness!

    This video is truly beneficial to a society in need of thoughtful caring for their brothers and sisters.

    PEACE

    Please Educate All Children Everywhere

    FOCUS

    For Our Children United Strong

  • God, the acting is terrible! And everything is so unrealistic...

  • Wasn't that the neighborhood that was used for the filming of the 70's version of "Halloween"?

  • It would also be 'fun' to take some acting classes.

  • How long does it *take* Mom to pay the insurance premium, for gosh sakes?!!

  • This is one of my favorite movies with the young Ronald Reagan ever!!!

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  • "everybody tells me to be more thoughtful, well..i like to be more thoughtful..if i only knew what it meant"

    i don't know kid, why don't you think about that one?

  • My, but how can he?  He's thoughtless!

  • eddie, how did you forget to take the ground beef out of the freezer? you were just sitting on your ass in dad's easy chair, not doing anything. video games havent even been invented yet. no excuse.

  • I like being thoughtful and I like helping people too! :D

  • i guess he wont be pounding amys ass over the weekend.

  • Wolf whistling at your sister. Yeah, that's healthy.

  • He's just being thoughtful. ;p

  • If that's how this family show thoughtfulness, I shudder to think about how they show affection.

  • Think I saw a German film about just such a thing once.

  • How come the generation who grew up being deluged by all these social cohesion training films grew up to be the instigators of the moral disintegration of American society?

  • No that's a fair question. An honest understanding of history could answer it, but if you ask me they were seeing a sharp decline in morality already, just the existence of all those films is proof. In reality the 50's wasn't Pleasantville, and the hope behind the films was perhaps to turn things around, which in retrospect looks like slapping a bandaid over a gaping wound. The foundation of the family was already collapsing, people were already turning away from God, which explains the 60's.

  • Foundation of the family? Research just how long the model of the 'standard family' has been around, and where in the world. You'll be terribly disappointed.

    And turning away from god? That sort of thing's been happening for centuries thanks to critical thinking and science. And the world's a fair bit better for it. Otherwise things would regress back to the dark ages. My, wouldn't that be wonderful..

  • Turning to God does not make one regressive, going back to the "dark ages" as you put it. Where in the world are lives better for turning away from God? China? The Soviet Union? And I wonder, what countries under atheist governments have borders packed with people trying to get in? The countries with the most freedoms and rights are those influenced by religion such as Christianity, Judaism, and people flock to enter them. You are wrong. Intact Godly families, that's what we need more of.

  • Sweden? The country with pretty much the highest intake of refugees on Earth?

    Whoops.

  • Sweden has a large population of atheists, granted, but Sweden is not an atheist government and is influenced by religion and has the largest Lutheran church in the world I believe. Thanks for helping me make my point.

  • Yes, because we all know that people go to Sweden for the Lutherans.

  • And those "refugees" are turning Swedish cities into third-world style ghettos. Yay, progress!

  • Jag vet, de är skit.

  • You are one smart woman.

  • Irony

  • the ideal of society portrayed in these films is a fucking nightmare, what kind of crack are you smoking?!!

  • Your comment itself displays some symptoms of societal decay: the liberal use of profanity in everyday speech, and a drug reference reflecting the widespread use of street drugs like crack, meth, etc..

  • they were taught to believe that how something looks (e.g. family ,church, government) is more important than how it really is, so lies and deception became part of the fabric of everyday life.

  • BS! People understood that the way things looked ought to reflect how things either were or should be. They were taught that there is actually something real called, "respectability." People were motivated to do their best, and work as a team, with integrity. There was a lot at stake. There was no massive government Nanny to bail your stupid ass out with funny money if you took dumb-ass risks and ended up doing a financial face-plant. It was sink or swim.

  • how things looked DID NOT reflect how things were. homosexuality, child abuse, preidential infidelities, lesbian first ladies, all of this was to be hidden and covered up in the name of respectability.

    a lot of what the 60's was about was integrity, truth and openness.

  • I don't disagree with that, as people have always been messed up and selfish. My point was that in those times, society understood the goodness and sense of upholding standards of decency and respectability, even though those standards were not examplified in everyone. The main difference these days is that the standards are ignored. You call that "openness."

  • people haven't changed at all in the last 40,000 years or so. so i really disagree with you about 'respectability'. respectability is a quality we bestow on other people and we can take it away from them too, like with Tiger Woods.

    i disagree with you less about 'standards of decency' but there isn't just one standard of decency. different people, who are good, well meaning etc. have different standards and that needs to be respected. there are few people who ignore all standards of decency.

  • Well I think Tiger Woods removed his own veneer of respectability, but the former veneer reflected something real that exists outside of Tiger Woods, an absolute standard of morality that everyone, regardless of culture knows about, but which some callously disregard for their own purposes.

  • TIger wasn't one person one moment and someone else when his wife reached for a golf club (and who wouldn't?). you use the word veneer and that's all 'respectability' is to me. it's a veneer that tells you nothing at all about a person. Bernie Madoff's another good example. but i say again that there is not one standard of morality. polygamy's a good example. south africa has just gained a Third Lady and apparently there's a Fourth Fiance. and we have no right to pass judgement. none at all.

  • Well of course there's true respectability (Harriet Tubman) and false respectability (T Woods). We can see the difference.

    I say there is a gold standard of morality. For the instance you gave, polygamy may not be "all that bad," but I will bet you that each of those wives of the polygamist knows in her heart that monogamy is far better.

  • that's your opinion and you're entitled to it. i don't say that to be dismissive. it's your view and i certainly expect everyone to have a strong sense of what's right and wrong in life.

    but it can be extremely dangerous for any individual to assert that their personal view represents a gold standard of morality. know what i mean?

  • I agree with that!

  • ...except for Jesus. The Sermon on the Mount is pretty much the gold standard of morality. So much so that no one can maintain it. If you lived by that you'd be more perfect than Ghandi.

  • yeah, don't disagree with you there : )

  • I bet you that you have no reason to suspect that. They could just as easily (easier because they belong to a culturally different society) believe that it would be wrong or greedy to want a man for themselves.

  • This standard of morality is not absolute. It is restricted to a large subset of agricultural or industrial civilizations.

  • "Let's follow Jane Proctor into her home." Sounds like stalking to me.

    Jane and Eddie both have really strong

    Chicago accents...like most Coronet Film actors. I'm sure these films were all made there.

  • hey, isn't Jane the wife from The Shining?!?!

  • Eddie looks a very young Joe DiMaggio.

  • Man, this reminds me of the "A Date With Your Family" short featured on Mystery Science Theater 3000, especially near the end. Kinda creepy.

  • Innocent time or not I like the birth of the american teenager in the mid to late fifties much better.

  • jane is borderline psychotic

  • You can always find someone like that in these shorts. Hilarious.

  • Eddie is kind of hot. What a thoughtful boy :P

  • haha yes i agree! he's a cutie

  • Sure it's thoughtful for him to ask the new girl. But how does poor Amy feel after she hears that he went to the party with another girl?

  • Not very thoughtful is it? ;) LOL these old films.

  • Lol, I wondered that, but I remembered that other PSA's from, the time discourage teenagers from "going steady" and encourage them to go out on dates with different people. One way to prevent premature weddings, I imagine.

  • Mike! Kevin! Bill!! Have you guys at Rifftrax seen this one!?

  • Wow, Dad helps Mom with the dishes. That's very nice, actually.

  • 1.  How is it "thoughtful" for Eddie to cheat on his girlfriend while she's taking care of her sick grandmother?

    2. How does Eddie automatically know the new girl's phone number?

  • 1. I thought the girl he was originally taking was a date, not necessarily a girlfriend.

    2. Eddie called information but never did call the new girl. He went over to her house at the end to ask her.

  • @stevos999 How did he know where she lives?

  • @EmilyA1984 Things were different...back then, you "dated" (going out with different girls). If u fell in love, u "went

    steady". If you were steady, you didn't date other girls.

    But "dating" was casual. U both dated other people & u didn't get jealous.Just like u don't get jealous if your best friends have other friends.

    No sex involved, so it wasn't a big emotional issue of "cheating". Dating was just having fun.Parents DIDN'T want their kids going steady (=more likely to have sex)

  • @EmilyA1984 I think Eddie is casually dating... seems like he hasn't been on a date or many with his 'girlfriend' yet... Also he's being thoughtful since the new girl won't have anyone to go with and he's ensuring she's included. He didn't automatically know her phone number he dialed the operator and asked for her family number.

  • @EmilyA1984

    1) Apparently, its not serious. Besides, obviously his lying girlfriend wants to dump him. What a load of crap that SHE has to take care of the grandma. What teen girl gets sole responsibility for the health and wellness of the grandma. She might as well have said she was washing her hair. ( :

    2) He calls information.

  • @EmilyA1984 Emily, you're not being thoughtful.

  • I saw these films in school and it has always stuck with me that they represent a great time and a more innocent time in America. I try to fill my world with all things from that era from movies to clothes to how I deal with everyone around me. I get laughed at a bit for rejecting the 21st century but I think it's catching on.

  • Considering you're watching youtube, a website of the 21st century, I wouldn't say you've completely rejected it.

    Also, would you like to live in a racist society that had blacks separated from whites, and where women were forced to live their life at the kitchen? Would you enjoy living in a society where it was group norm that counted rather than individual drive?

    The 21st century offers unprecedented freedoms for 1st world countries and innovative ideas for helping 3rd world ones.

  • Some things like the internet,computers and high def televisions are inescapable and now a necessity. Your view of the past is skewed perhaps by leftwing media, I don't know. Women were not"forced to "live their life at the kitchen", My own mother was the first female deputy constable anywhere in the state of Kentucky and later an accountant and this in the 1950s! In Arkansas in the south blacks ate at my grandmothers table regularly and the only separation occurred at church as it does now.

  • CrustyConrad.......how is a high-definition television a "necessity?" The Internet may be necessary, but the way I see it, a fancy TV is just an indulgence.

  • lol..it is..the government is changing the signal to digital from analog. remember? it was to happen in Feburary but they put it off til June. So I needed a new TV Just try to go to best buy and get anything with digital tuner but a fancy high def. High Def is all they have, so just like computers and internet they become required appliances. My consolation is Mr. Ed looks great on a 52 inch one.

  • Actually, when I saw the commercial on TV, it just said to buy a converter box. So, you don't have to replace your whole TV. Also, I don't want a huge TV in my bedroom--I have a little TV in there because it fits on my dresser.

  • If you choose to embrace this century go ahead more power to you, I would point out it's innumerable faults but the reply box allows only 500 characters and frankly I don't care, It's not my job to convert you or attempt to dissuade you from your world view.

  • Lol, so who cares if her Grandma is sick...I can't go with her! xD

  • LOL. Gee, mom handeling a household bill; that sure is weird

  • Midwestern accents, Chicago, Michigan.

  • i love these vids!!!! where do you get them???? your right, it goes all over!!!

  • omg lol i love the mothers look and eyes when the son whistles at his sister, i bet shes thinking what a perv LOL. fab video

  • It is so interesting that todays freedom of sex (which I am not saying is bad) has reduced us to viewing a sibling group as actual sexual partners. Also, I am very liberal and I do like the idea of this film. IF we cannot even tolerate and get along with one another in our own family how are we going to be kind to different races and religions? I don't understand how being kind and thoughtful needs to be a Republican concept. Scary, indeed.

  • That Jane, she'll make some lucky fellow a good 50's wife some day.

  • eddie reminds me of eugene from Grease.

  • This something that MST3K would rip on!

  • Funny you should say that. I've been riffing these videos for the last hour - it's hilarious!

  • She won't feel like a second choice at all! :D

  • You conservatives can stop drooling now.

  • lmao

  • The description is right, this thing DOES go all over the place...

  • holy shit, this flick gave me diabetes, it was soo sweet. i think jane and eddie should just come to grips with their incestuous feelings and get busy.

  • Why can't my family be like that?

  • My family isn't like that either. LOL

  • Because this is reality.

  • I wasn't born yet either but these videos make me feel like I was !

  • seminilla ecoli lysteria botcholisim ? if you wanna be thoughtfull dont defrost the ground beef on the counter duh!

  • But back in those days they didn't believe in disease. Thus it did not exist. The Germ Theory was not held as canon by the religious zealots of the '50's.

    ..... Unless it killed them.

  • gee that was surely swell... hahahhahaha, gotta love those retro sytle videos.... VHS those were the days.

  • Wow! The front of Jane's house looks like a Chicago style bungalow - nice sturdy buildings, big basements. Although, the set she walks into is nothing like a bungalow - no windows.

  • Yes, TY so much for posting these films. I know, manners and basic thoughtfulness have gone down the tubes these days. It doesn't take a lot of effort to make someone's day with a kind word or gesture.

  • There's something going on there with Jane and Eddie at the end, a bit more than just 'thoughtfulness' methinks....it's creepy, LOL