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  • You should do outfits of the day

  • i agree with you guys about waiting to get married. my fiance and i will be celebrating 7 years together this year and everybody keeps asking up about when we're getting married and when we're having kids. that's fine for them but we're nowhere close to wanting children right now nor are we ready to get married. even though im almost 26 and he's almost 29, it's just not right for us right now. do it when you feel it's right for you. definitely don't do it just because you feel like you have to.

  • You both have a good head on your shoulders.

  • Getting*

  • This video was great :]

    I think you guys r making a good decision of not fetting married at a young age and not rushing my sister and her fiance are engaged but they wanted to get schooled finish with and have enough money so they could raise a family . Its great your waiting to figure out what you want and that gives you time to decide :]

    [that was just my thoughts :] and im 13 lol]

  • I think its great what y'all are doing and I agree 100% y'all are wonderful together :)

  • u guys are just 21!!! omg im 21 too, i go to law school and marriage doesnt even cross my mind!... for my this is not happening until my 30s....not even living together,,, i just need my space, u will share the rest of life living with someone, i just want to enjoy my single life

  • Side Burns; bad...bad..i mean bad idea

  • Actually, living together is probably one of the best things you can do before you marry. It gives you a sense of how the other person is and how clean they are. It helps you spot out some differences with each other and you can find what bugs you most about the other person. My mother and step dad did that and I'm happy they moved in together before they tied the knot! If they've lived together awhile and they still aren't tired of each other then they can start considering marriage AFTER col

  • umm sideburns, not the best look for you jordan, sorrymaybe cut them a little shorter

  • Since you guys already live together, I don't see how being married would alter your ability to travel, get an education etc. If you weren't living together, I could see how marriage would change things. But like you said, marriage wouldn't change much for your relationship. Also, marriage doesn't mean you have to have babies right away. I actually agree with your opinion, and I'm not telling you that I want you to get married, I just feel your justifications just seem a little off.

  • Side burns = bad idea

    Living together before marriage/engagement = bad idea

  • You guys are so cute together. Also, the sideburns has got to go.

  • God bless you both

  • you guys got married!!

  • Hi great vid and great advice

  • Not trying to hate at all or anything... but I'm just curious as to how your parents can be okay with you two living together when you two are not married, when you said they are so "opinionated"..?

  • Side burns no

  • So when are you getting married then...? JUST KIDDING!! hahaha

  • Why are people TRYING to tell them to get married when they're still in college? Why can't they take their time to make that decision?? I could understand if they were like 30 years old and had been together for 15 years... And even then, marriage isn't for everyone.

  • i am 21 and recently got married this past august and we're happy but like you said, everyone does something in different times of their life. don't let anyone pressure you two into get married, when the time is right, it will happen :)

  • No sideburns it was buggin me lol

  • NO SIDEBURNS! 

  • OH MY GOSH. thank you for mentioning the facial (and head) hair. it was distracting me the whole time. haha jordan what were you thinkinggg.

  • you guys are just adorable.

  • how old are you guys

  • @lovebug123456ism i think shes about 1 yr older than him and hes 21

  • She looks like Ginny from HP

  • My parents got married at 23 and 26 and they have been married for 20 years this year

  • Does Jordan smoke?? I saw the lighter in his hand..

  • those side bruns r just too much, i don't mind shorter side bruns but jordan, those are out of control LOL

  • wise words guys

  • I'm going to get married when I'm in my early 30's. I want to live this decade of my 20's up and have fun!

  • why did jordan have a lighter in his hand when you guys were saying bye? O.o

  • I love the moment when she talks about comments on marriage and proposals and you can see complete horror in the eyes of the guy :D 0:54

  • those are some ugly sideburns!

  • u look like ginny weasley !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • You guys really have a great approach to the whole children and marriage thing. Finding yourselves and your ambitions before you commit to anything is definitely the way to go. I'm 29 which makes me 8 yrs older than Jordan and believe me, in those short 8 years you change sooo so much and they go by VERY VERY fast!!I feel like I was 21 yesterday!there's no rush, just enjoy your life and you'll grow into marriage and children without even thinking about it!

  • eugh sideburns. aaarghh horrible!!! why would anyone do that to themselves? lol!! :D

  • so cute together!

  • I don't really like the hair I agree with Erin but I'm not being mean!

  • how old are you (erin)?

  • If you guys to get married, I wouldn't be surprised!

    You guys are super cute. <33

  • i like jordan's hair!

  • thank you so much for sharing your opinion with us . it really helped me :)

  • Jordan looks like the new bf of Britney Spears (the guy in the music video called criminal). I've watched old videos of him, he was way better. Now he looks so avarage, lol. But the girl is still so good looking.

  • Is this Jordan? LOL, he got ugly, i think. He was so handsome when he was younger.

  • It is such a personal thing. Never rush into marriage. I got married at 25 and am now getting divorced at 29. It is sad but that is life! You have to live your life before committing to someone else.

  • whattt is withhh his hairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. 

  • I think Jordan should cut the sideburns a bit ...I'm not dissing them but shorten them a bit

  • I agree with how you see marrige and I'm happy to see you guys talk about it...now I feel I'm not the only one that feels that way b/c in my family get married at 19 and I dnt feel like that I feel like I should when I get in my 20's I want to enjoy it & I'm happy you guys kinda feel the same way as me

  • my parents were 21 and 29 (yes 8 years apart) when they got married. They had my oldest sister when my mom was 23, my other sister at 25, my third sister at 30 and me at 32. Yes they are still married 27 years later even though they married at a young age (well atleast for my mom).

  • Those sideburns... -___-

  • "I'm like wolverine!" ..loose the sideburns, hahahah (:

  • Love the sideburns!

  • jordan is just like my brother, get rid of those stupid sideburns! they're awful things! haha

  • ahaha oh jordan, within the first two minutes you had me cracking up.

  • marriage scares me...

  • That's so true its always good to wait and there's no rush. Your right everyone is different my parents got married when they were 18 and they had 6 kids since then. And they've been married for 37 years now.

    Anyways I wish you guys the best! You guys are a cute couple!

  • Wolverine!! lololol

  • It's good that you both have the same opinion about this or else it could cause problems lol

  • @bieberbroadcast I totally get what you're saying, but a baby by 20? You won't even be legally able to drink yet, if you're in the US. 2 years out of high school? You're gonna take care of a baby in your college dorm? Hopefully you rethink this plan you have because it doesn't sound like fun, sweetie.

  • Wtf is with Jordan's hair and side burns?!?!

  • take ur time and great video, im not even married rite now and i am in my late 20's and we are taking our time.

  • Why are you associating marriage with kids? You live together and so having kids is also a risk.

  • Its the Same, My parents were Married by 20.. and had there first kid 5 months Later, my parenst are still together, my brother is 21, and he would love to be married right now, but his GF, whos parents got married at 28, She doesnt want to get married til like 25-27, so the families and there parents really do have an effect, i mean i want to be pregnant by 20, but im 15 right now, and i know my lifes gonna change.

  • Idc.. Jordan looks SEEEXXXYY with those!!

  • @artemislykos I wouldn't say you have to live with someone to know if a marriage will last. My parents and my fiances parents didn't live together before marriage and theyve been together 25 and 30 years. My fiance and I don't live together right now either and I'm not at all worried about things not working out because we didn't live together. I think if you get to know someone well enough, good and bad you will be able to tell if that's the person for you.

  • I wouldn't say age is everything. I think it's more of when YOU feel comfortable and confident that you're ready to make that kind of a commitement. I'm getting married in March and I'm 23 and my fiance is 27. I still feel like I'm pretty young and I am a full time graduate student, but I know in my heart I am ready to make this commitment. No children anytime soon tho! haha I agree with your opinion on kids. Stable career I think you need some time together as a married couple before kids : )

  • Get rid of the lamb chops!!!!! you guys are such a cute couple!

  • I think it's great to give your opinion, because you put yourself out there and people want to know. I am thankful you said it's YOUR opinion, everyone is different. I married my high school sweetheart 5 days after my 18th Birthday, & we are getting ready to celebrate our 14th Wedding Anniversary, we also have 3 kids. AND are still completely head over heels in love with each other to this day. HOWEVER, it is a huge commitment, & something people should take more serious, it's full time work!

  • Jordan looks like the Wolverine haha

  • Congrats 333th Videoo <3 <3

  • I appreciate you guys sharing your opinions. I didn't realize how young you both were, so I think it's totally understandable that you aren't married yet. Personally,though, I don't think marriage means kids. I know a lot of people who are married but don't have children. I do understand why you don't want kids now, though, because I wouldn't either. Anyways, yes, tell Jordan to shave off the lamb chops, I personally am not a fan of facial hair hahaha. Oh and I request a first date tips video (:

  • you two have the same thing that my boyfriend and i do. like word for word. haha i love this video.

  • HE NEEDS TO SHAVE THAT!!! It kinda looks stupid :p sorry!!

  • this is so cute. :) 

  • thats so cute. i love you, but im not ready for lifelong commitments. jordan your awesome.

  • My fiance and I are 22 and have been dating for 7 years. We feel it's the right time for us to get married, as we have graduated college, have stable jobs, and live together. I definitely agree with you; you need to be financially stable before marrying. I also want to add that we are very emotionally mature for our age and have gone through a lot of hardship together...this is also an important factor. Great video! Best wishes to you two! -Jillian

  • This is absolutely amazing! I'm so glad you two are happy and are sticking to what is right for you! It takes a very mature person to one, realize that marriage doesn't really change anything and two, to share your opinion with everyone on youtube. You two are an inspiration!

  • You somehow remind me of Marianna Makëla (Mariannan). It's a compliment :)

  • @AsiaVegh Actually it's Mäkelä, not Makëla...

  • @pnkddd Your point being ? Anyway ...

  • All is about what happen in your life ans WHEN it happen, I think you can't choose :)

    sorry I'm from France so my english isn't perfect :) bye bye ! great vid

  • Get that side burn outta here!

  • if i didn't know better, i would say you're married now! The only thing that would be different is you guys would have rings. I think you both are such a great couple and so smart about your decisions! I'm 19 and just got engaged to my 4 year boyfriend and i think its super young..but we aren't tieing the knot until we are out of college, so I agree with you guys! My parents divorced and his parents were never together..so we are a little wary so i get exactly what you are saying! great video!

  • You guys are still a cute couple and Erin, what's stopping you from shaving those side whatever they are, off? I don't think it's nice at all.

  • let jordan have those sideburns if he wants to -.- gosh.

  • this could be a series! "Our Opinion" series

  • no jordan, your too cute to have those sideburns, no. just no.

  • after babysitting and tutoring kids, i learned just how hard it is to be a caregiver. we definitely want to travel, play, work and get the party animal out of our system before having children

  • completely agree with u guys

  • I just turned 23 last Sunday (the 22nd) and in a couple weeks it'll be my 3-year wedding anniversary. Sometimes when you know, you know. My husband and I don't feel like we rushed into anything, but then again our parents were married at a young age. His parents are just as much in love as they always have been and mine divorced, so every couple's different. I like that you and Jordan don't feel like you have to get married just because everyone says you should. Do it when it's right for you. :)

  • WOLVERINE!! 

  • Get rid of the chops Jordan... TRUST EVERYONE on here!!!!

  • JORDIE! SHAVE YOUR LAMBCHOPS!!! Sorry honey but they do NOT work on your cutie face!!

  • I don't like the lambchops

  • ERIN! Can you do the my boyfriend does my makeup tag??? I wanna see Jordan do your makeup!! I don't know if u have done this before but if u did u could always do it again!

  • this must've been awkward.

    i personally think you're too young to get married anyway. you guys are happy together thats good enough.

  • your hair color is absolutely GORGEOUS! 

  • i agree! (:

  • does Jordan smoke?

  • jordan looks like a werewolf!!

  • when i said get married I was serious...no i'm just kidding haha ;)...no really, i'm serious...

  • Ive been with my fiance for 5 yrs and im only 21 were getting married in the fall. I think for some people its okay to stay together forever and not get married and for others it works for them.

  • marshall and lily

  • and just because youre married doesnt mean you have to have sex or kids either.

  • ok well then you shouldnt have sex before marriage because accidents happen... and that would be what you were saying about "bringing a baby into the world when youre not ready" sorry just saying.

  • @kptsmusic09 its called birth control love......

  • @kptsmusic09 seriously? :D are you american?

  • nope. bad sideburns

  • My respect for you just increased tenfold.

  • I dont like to sudeburns, but i respect your decision. You are great role models!

  • I think you guys are being really smart about things. a lot of people rush into things and regret them later. and it is smarter to wait until you can financially support yourself before you get married and have children. some of the best advice I ever got was that a person should learn how to live on their own before they try to live with a spouse. and it's so true. you really get to know yourself when you have to do things on your own first. then you can be better in a relationship. :)

  • I agree with you guys 110%

  • I agree with you guys 110%

  • k, jordan looks like therye already married & hes a grandpa~!

  • Lamp chops sorry jordan I agree with erin!!! I respect you guys waiting and your relationship together :)

  • My husband and I have been together since we were 13.... We got married @ 26! I think the best thing is to wait. Go to college, get your careers started. And if your still together after and still want the same things, its meant to be.

  • what does marriage have to do with having children?? you could still have kids and not be married. marriage does not equal children

  • awweeee! you guys are soo adorablee! but you are completely right.. its okay to waittt (: 21 is reallly young.. i wish you guys the besssttt ! (:

  • I mean lamb chops

  • I like your hair but not your "lamb hops"

  • I agree with you guys 100%!

  • you guys are cute. but Jordan needs to get rid of his "lamb chops"

  • My mon was 18 and my dad was 23 when they were married. They will be married for 29 years in march!

  • please shave off the sideburns..you're killing your cuteness

  • I deffiantly agree with not getting married too early but it doesnt always end in a divorce. I know you guys didnt say that, but im making a point. My mom and dad got married when she was 19 and he was 20. Theyve been married for 13 years and are still going. Sure there were bumps along the way, but what marriage doesnt? They knew from the moment they had me (im 14) that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Did they also have a child REALLY young, yeah sure. But they di

  • @EGheartsSSC how old were you when you and Jordan met?

  • For everyone saying they should get married, you all are crazy. Jordan just turned 21. They are still really really young! that have plenty of time to get married.

  • I think your decision is a very smart one. Enjoy your twenties-- they fly by before you know it!

  • @anthrogirl123 they sure do! I just turned 30 three weeks ago.

  • 6:30 was EXTREMELY awkward....

  • jordan reminds me of wolverine

  • Sweet Jesus, the sideburns. Bahahahaaaaaa

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  • 333rd video! congratulations :D

  • You know what?SCRAP the sideburn thing!!!Who cares!!!!This is about YOU and JORDAN.End off :) :)

  • "your so cute, keep going babe" damn i love you both <3

  • The Elvis sideburns are gross! 

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  • I'm 24 and am engaged, but I'll be 26 by the time we get married. My fiance is 7 years older. I definitely think you're doing the right thing, it's about if the 2 of you feel ready and that's all that matters :) We felt ready and that's why we decided to get married, it should be absolutely nothing to do with what anyone else thinks We want kids at some point but will probably wait a few years yet because I definitely don't feel old enough for that yet! lol x

  • Jordan get rid of them haha. I agree with you though I mean get your schooling done and travel and be where you want with a career or at least on the path because yes you wouldn't be able to commit yourself completely to a family and spouse if you still had schooling to get through and what not.

  • you made TOO MANY videos with jordan!!!

  • @CharleneFed Im sorry but it's true!!!!This channel isn't about Jordan!!!

  • I agree with ya! You guys are young and you have plenty of time for marriage and babies. Enjoy each other and have fun!

  • Ew shave

  • lol jordan looks like a grease character :)

  • But you guys are like married already... not officially though. You live together, you love each other. and then is it different from marriage? don't think so. marriage does not just mean a big wedding ceremony plus having babies.

  • My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and were are jordans age and we want to wait to be married until after were are done with school and have careers so we can have a place to live and start our lives. It's no rush. I agree with your opinions completely

  • holy shit! please shave those things off! look like a monkey

  • omg shave Jordan shave boy!!!!

  • sorry jorideee....you have to shave those sideburns(:

  • JORDAN! Y U NO SHAVE SIDEBURNS?!

  • OK YOUR SIDEBURNS LOOK LIKE A BEARD :P

  • my parents have been with eachother since they were 15 married at 21 and still together now at the age of 53 :)

  • I know it hurt her a lot and that isn't anything that I would wish on anyone. It's good that you made a video like this, it shows the younger viewers out there what is important in life and not to feel pressured. Good on you for making this video, you seem intelligent and level-headed. :)

  • Haha you can tell jordan is really pleased with your decision Erin. I know males in this age group are not about getting married (generally speaking), they don't want to be weighed down and set expectations for themselves that are not realistic. This comes from a almost 30 year old that has been with her bf for 6 years (living together for 5 or so). My sister got engaged last year (they were both early twenties) and it broke apart, he "changed" his mind one day and they are no longer engaged...

  • Oh yeah my husband and I met in 2003, got married in 2006 when I was 24. We will have our 6th year anniversary in August of this year. We are very happy and are kid free lol. (I had mentioned earlier the age i got married but not how old I currently am..I will be 30 in April)! Thanks for this video! :)

  • Hahaha those side burns..... Whatever floats your boat Jordan!

  • @sotiwotis People basically have babies at 25 ish... I feel like I'm going to be so old when I have children... :(

  • Pressuring anyone to get married. It absolutely is a sacred bond before God and should never be taken lightly! Also keeping God at the center of our relationship is key! God bless :)

  • Ya'lls take on marriage is spot on how it should be for everyone. Marriage is never something to be rushed into. Wherever you are in ur life..if you feel you are in the right place for marriage then awesome! I married at age 24 and am still happily married with no children. It takes work at times and you can't jump to divorce if you have a bad fight. And whenever I have argued with my husband ..we always end up laughing in the end and closer than ever. I don't agree with people pressuring anyon

  • getting married at 30 is old in america?!

  • @mrsrichardson603 my great aunt got married at 13 and she had a baby at 13 and so did her daughter and then her grandaughter had a baby at 16, i don't why i felt the need to share this but i thought it was like your comment :) (btw they were together until he died, i just dont know when that was)

  • i know this is off topic but wew! jordan put an action to those sideburns! :D

  • you guys are smart to wait:) noo rush

  • shave them off

  • 40 seconds in I had to switch off. Her whiney voice was just too much. There's the reason he doesn't ask het to marry him!