I'm Stable. I'm Okay

[kingpolaris]

everybody is different. take it one step at a time . do what works for u

[filmdekrentz]

Sam, I am just now watching this. I don't know what to say...i'm so sorry! I feel awful too, because we haven't talked in a loooong while! Do know I'm thinking of you and your family!

stay strong, bud.

xoxo em

[BooderMcDoo]

all is well with my mom actually. about a month after this video everything was fine. she had a full mastectomy and doesnt need chemo or anything. everything went perfectly fine but thank you for the concerns and thoughts! we really do need to chat it up some time soon! its been too long.

[TurtlesTheClown]

I find that I keep my feelings and problems to myself, but that's just because I haven't found any person to talk to about anything. All my 'friends' generally tend to shrug off my problems, and if I actually come straight out and say "I have a problem in my life, can you help me?" then they tell me I am whiny and clingy and annoying and egotistical.

I've given up trying to talk to anyone besides god. I can relate to how you're feeling, both my grandmothers, and my mother have breast cancer.

[Kaeboy78]

I'm one to sort myself out on my own, but through life experiences I know that there are just some things that you cannot do by yourself. I know personally that when I don't show emotions, it's not because I'm trying to stay strong, but that I'm in denial of what's going on around me. Take time for yourself and then go and talk it out with your mom. Mom's always know what to say and it may comfort you no matter the outcome. You and your family are in my prayers. Take care my friend.

[caithead]

I can somewhat relate in that one of my childhood best friends got cancer (leukemia) and it was a long-drawn, scary process. But it really shifted perception in that each day was more sacred and valued, and each loved one became even MORE loved through her fight.

I hope that you can continue to be the strong, funny, intelligent Sam I remember from 888 through this difficult time and let things unravel the way they're meant to

An earth-shattering proportion of a hug is sent your way from Canada.

[tiffanymondesir]

we'll chat soon kay ^_^

[tagalicious2789]

<3 all I can say.

[pinki8503]

First let me just say that I will be praying for your mom. Having been through a similar situation in my life I had that time of not knowing how to feel or why I wasn't having feelings I thought I should...those came later, after shock went away. Cancer is a very hard thing to understand & my best advice is to pray & fight along with her! Support her & just treat her as you always have...as Mom! We serve an awesome God & He will help you & your family get through this. Hope this helps somehow

[Playjex]

If something devastating happens I usually do not talk it out. I should but I don't because my personality is "reserved". Not just because of that, but because I am very analytical so I think upon the subject for hours. But knowing your personality, you should let your feelings out. Dont' feel angry, there's no one who to blame. You never HAVE to feel everything. My advice is, pray. God is on our side as well as hers. I'll be praying for her.