Hello! I'm subscribing to you, if that's okay with you. Thanks for participating in TSG! This is very thoughtful and diverse. "How do you plan a reaction?" Good point. You would suck the nature right out of the way life goes, I think. Thank you for the new perspective!?
@ChibiGeeBee I mean to say that a chance to react naturally to something is thwarted if you pre-plan how you will react. Briefly, your statement just reminds me of the dichotomy between "nature vs. nurture".
so if it were'nt there , i would have been without the therapy for my problems.....i wouldnt trade being trans for anything, my life would have been empty,much more complicated and confusing, and utterly devoid of growth......and btw, you were being forbearingly nice ,and he is a complete and total dickweed <3
and probably wind up in a half-way house somewhere resenting how my life turned out at the end of the road, instead we both had to resent how our lives began but that beginning was actually a blessing in a way, because being trans makes you think without a goddamn box.....i think i would have had no outlet for my bipolar, i guess that could have made it worse, for me ,since i was five art has been the outlet for my bi polar, my trans, my family problems and everything else..
as far as being cisgendered honey, i agree in an off hand way....i think if i had been born with a vagina and an estrogen based hormonal system...it would have caused me to so take everything for granted, and never question or think outside of the box to the degree that i would have married the first dork that came along,spit out three babies, lived a completely lachadaisical life, had a nervous breakdown, ran off to oregon with my lesbian lover,developed a drinking problem
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Noctalunis 1 year ago
@Noctalunis
uh-huh... The decision's already been made- I made it, and that means I'm a woman, there's no "we" in that. Or bikinis.
ChibiGeeBee 1 year ago
i lke you
nomade16100 1 year ago
Hello! I'm subscribing to you, if that's okay with you. Thanks for participating in TSG! This is very thoughtful and diverse. "How do you plan a reaction?" Good point. You would suck the nature right out of the way life goes, I think. Thank you for the new perspective!?
Be well,
Sama
ufo8mykat 1 year ago
@ufo8mykat Go right ahead and subscribe! BTW, what does "suck the nature right out of the way life goes?"
ChibiGeeBee 1 year ago
@ChibiGeeBee I mean to say that a chance to react naturally to something is thwarted if you pre-plan how you will react. Briefly, your statement just reminds me of the dichotomy between "nature vs. nurture".
ufo8mykat 1 year ago
so if it were'nt there , i would have been without the therapy for my problems.....i wouldnt trade being trans for anything, my life would have been empty,much more complicated and confusing, and utterly devoid of growth......and btw, you were being forbearingly nice ,and he is a complete and total dickweed <3
777Marlene 1 year ago
and probably wind up in a half-way house somewhere resenting how my life turned out at the end of the road, instead we both had to resent how our lives began but that beginning was actually a blessing in a way, because being trans makes you think without a goddamn box.....i think i would have had no outlet for my bipolar, i guess that could have made it worse, for me ,since i was five art has been the outlet for my bi polar, my trans, my family problems and everything else..
777Marlene 1 year ago
as far as being cisgendered honey, i agree in an off hand way....i think if i had been born with a vagina and an estrogen based hormonal system...it would have caused me to so take everything for granted, and never question or think outside of the box to the degree that i would have married the first dork that came along,spit out three babies, lived a completely lachadaisical life, had a nervous breakdown, ran off to oregon with my lesbian lover,developed a drinking problem
777Marlene 1 year ago