Healing Your Marriage After an Affair

[Jrezky]

I can heal just fine on my own, thank you. Never have I gotten back with a partner, regardless of forgiving them.

[bornblond9gb]

Men cheat with your wife it's safer and cheaper.

[Hollins23]

Some interesting points but I still believe it all comes down to a moral code and respect. Some "new age" thinking is just an excuse to be selfish. If a person doesn't have self-discipline, if another person's happiness isn't worth more than their gasps at ego gratification, they aren't really marriage or long-term partner material anyway!

[xxxAngelikaxxx]

I so agree with you and that is exactly why I felt like nothing when my bf cheated on me. I felt like I was disrespected...

[brittneywyche]

very interesting ,not in total agree but definetly makes a lot of sense.

[taoistcowboy123]

The last time I revealed... I got arrested for indecent exposure. I told the Police I was feeling lusty and bored and want to reveal and heal... and so I did, and the unfeeling bastards threw me in jail. All I wanted was to reveal, feel, and heal ya know?

[topquarkbln]

LOL, this is funny! ;-) anarchy!

[Avatar1122334444]

It takes courage to even begin the process above. Ego vs growth. This is aimed at conscious people who want to develop their relationship and a deeper love connection than maybe they had when they first got married.

Peter

[elkinrod]

it has been hard for me and my husband. We both had affairs. the ego is so stubborn. The Ego wants you give up on your marriage. We are still revealing and sometimes its healing and sometimes it feels like I need 100 sleeping pills to kill the pain especially the guilt I feel.

[framecut]

"this is the worst advice I've ever heard."

Hey, if it can get a dude out of the doghouse by shoveling this 'new age advice' hogwash down her throat...then why give it a try?

"Honey, I felt out of touch with my creative flow, so I shagged a 19 year old cheerleader, I need to reveal and heal!"

Btw, the guy's name is GAY (no joke)

[wasisdas1979]

How about "don't get married and just fuck around as much as you like"?

[litza07]

I really like it because I been having problems with my marriage,it is seems that before we had a lot in common but now,I feeling we are to different that, we are constanting fighting.I stop drink and smoke and I am more into activity that involved

body,mind at work,and he still doing the samething he been doing for 20 years of marriage and worse now he spended to much time

watch T.V. and laying down.

[elkinrod]

Marriage is hard. i have been with my husband for 11 years. He is flying in his carreer as I knew he would. I just feel little at his side. I used to be this big time Actress in South America. Now my creativity is lost and. having an affair IS all about the Ego, and does not help your life at all. I have hurt my husband to the max. And I can;t take it back I wish I could.

[tessabianca]

this is the worst advice I've ever heard.