I was expecting to see something really painful! Were you experiencing any pain at the moment you were pushing? It dosen't seem like you were, or maybe you were just handling well. I don't know, pain is just something I've been concerned about.
@belindalucero yes, it's painful but after going through labor it's NOTHING as for pain goes, lol. I've had three kids now this one, my1st at a hospital & 2 at home natural and the pushing is the easiest by far! It actually feels good, b/c it relieves all that pain & pressure
So in hospitals, they tell you to push. And with the delivery & birth of Peyson, your midwife was telling you not to push, to just let her slide out. So which one is it supposed to be?
@aldacoTM It's best to NOT push to prevent tearing but that doesn't mean to tense up & keep baby in, it just means to surrender to your body & let your body do it while you relax & let it happen
So in hospitals, they tell you to push. And with the delivery & birth of Peyson, your midwife was telling you not to push, to just let her slide out. So which one is it supposed to be?
This looks a lot like my delivery. I did it natural too. They didn't make me turn my camera off though. Giving birth hurts like hell but I am actually excited to do it again. I have a channel about my daughter and my family in Japan, watch if you have time thanks.
this is weird...but is there a possibility of accidentally pooping while giving birth. I mean when you push does it only work on the vagina or your entire behind is pushing? Unless there's a rule to poop before giving birth. Sorry this is weird but It's been something I've been concerned about
@sweetbiella Of course it's possible for woman accidentally pooping while giving birth. It's actually more common for a woman giving birth to poop while pushing out the baby. About 80% of all women accidentally poop when they give birth. It's all natural and the nurses are more than prepared for it to happen.
The only thing you `shit out` durin childbirth is the child LMFAO ... are you worried than when your having a kid and the doctor tells you to push your gonna accidentally shit all over his face? LMFAO.. Your post has made my day Biela ha ha ha.......
NO LABOUR IS THE SAME......... who cares who screams and who doesnt it hurts like hell either way!!!!!!! and epi isnt exactly easy it can be for some, very hard to push without feeling contractions... and some people have to have an epi to prevent c-section :) good work its beautiful!!!!
Are you freaking kidding me? Sexual arousal from childbirth?? Here, let me cram a Buick in your ass and you tell me how aroused you are. Breastfeeding?? Arousing?? Allow me to clamp some electric eels to your nips and you tell me how aroused you are.
The reason mothers go through this is for the love of their child, a pure love that assholes like you could never understand. I assure you, being ripped on half is not arousing. Idiot.
You should have pretended to turn the camera off and still secretly had it on. Something went wrong and they didn't want you to sue them for it so they told you to turn it off. Oh ho no way If I was recording I would make sure they got in trouble if anything happened to my baby!
This was a calming birth unlike mine lol. I was screaming and cursing out doctors, I'm surprised I didn't kick one of them or maybe I did not sure. God bless!!
Do you not have a midwife to deliver? They are experts in their field. All pregnant women should be cared for and delivered by a midwife when possible.
awww,well done you!! :D,i love watching babies being born,always makes me cry, mine is due 19th aug!!!2011,not long after your baby No3!! good luck!! xx
I'm not sure why you think the nurse wanted you to turn the camera off b/c of the baby's color: a blue baby is a good thing! Pale or grey is when they aren't getting enough oxygen. Maybe she saw the bruising and THAT's why she wanted you to turn the camera off? I haven't even watched the whole vid yet...downloading...but Glad that you two held your own. props to ya :)
WELL CHILD BIRTH IS PEDOPHILIA because the women are extremely sexually aroused by the feeling of a baby trying to come out of her vagina. Talk about being born in a pedophilia world or what as women continue to feel sexual arousal during breastfeeding.
I had natural child bith and i didnt scream and it honestly didnt hurt that bad so yea i would say she probably did she was probably just a little more worried about her baby than screaming. not everyone has to go beginning stages of the exorcist in the delivery room to have a natural birth and by that i mean the screaming and cussing and crying. She did a great job
I could have swore you have said in videos that you did get an epidural with Jacelyn? am I wrong... cause i am almost positive you did so why would you lie about it?
@Felton0509 As soon as I entered the hospital an epidural was administered, but (depending on how u view the situation) fortunately epidurals don't last 24 hrs ;) It wore off LONG BEFORE labor was over. I had begged for more at 8 cm as I had regained all feeling back at that point & it hurt like hell, lol. BUT b/c the epidural had put my labor on stop & I couldn't take pitocin b/c I had a negative reaction to it, soon as the epirudal was completely gone my labor picked up full speed on it's own.
@Felton0509 PART 2 So between that & the crappy nurses I had I didn't get any pain medicine from that point forward despite my cries & puke for help, ha. By the time I gave birth the epidural had been long gone out of my system. It was completely natural, vaginal non-medicated birth. Unlike Kacen's birth Jacelyn's wasn't by choice though, ha. Directly after getting stitched up I was out of bed walking to the potty to go pee & clean my self up. I even walked my self to my postpartum room.
I didnt yell all that much during mine. HypnoBirthing, meditation, a strong threshold of pain...every birth and woman is different. Just because she didnt scream her head off like in the movies doesnt mean she wasnt in pain or did/didnt have meds. as a sugestion to all the pregnant woman who are afraid of childbirth or just need support try seeing if there are Doulas in your area. I am a doula in training and it can really help with pain management stress and support.
I have seen TONS of women tolerate the pain of childbirth as well as she did without meds. I keep looking at videos like this one because i think i could do the same. Im due in 2 weeks!! hopefully i do! i hope i can record mine too! I have actually seen a woman on...i think the show was "A Baby Story" on TLC and she barly even sqinted her eyes... but you could tell she was focused.
This is NOT a "natural birth" at all. She needs to be left alone to birth and allowed to stand up or mover around. Her baby came out "blue" (they all do, by the way) because she probably had an epidural. What a lie to say "natural childbirth". How sad for her.
@MidwifeAnn She was BRUISED & the cord was wrapped around her neck & knotted. How sad for you to make sure horrible assumptions about a child & mother. Shame on you.
@xxxjoelpolexxx aw you did a great job! I understand it was hospital procedure, but to me it just seems rude.instead if taking time to say that just attend to the babY! maybe I'm low intolerant to nurses, bc i had a horrible experience after labour(during was good). i had high blood pressure due to preeclampsia,i didn't scream but I DID have a epidural.& you stupid ppl!do you see the epidural stand?! she dosnt look drugged..Next time i'll go natural. I had no emotion when giving birth/and after
@trayfiel I agree, how can anyone that has just delivered a baby vaginally say this is a natural childbirth??!! What a scam!! If you can't tell, i'm being sarcastic......Fool!!!
IDK why everyone is dissing her......why would she lie about this???? What matters is that her baby was healthy, considering everything that happened especially. People manage pain differently, and even if she didn;t scream you can tell by her face that it hurts. I applaud you and I think you did an amazing job! :) Congrats on ur pretty girl :)
I think that all you sould just shut the fuck up how do you know were you there????? And yes some women are strong and can handel natural child birth and i might hurt but she prolly has a strong pain tolerance so leave her alone if you dnt like the video dnt watch it and please leave her alone its not like she has a reason to lie so shut up!
My god you people have nothing else better to do but knit pick. If she says its natural, its natural. Were you there? Did you see her with an epidural? Get a life. I have had 2 natural childbirths, and it hurts like hell, but if you concentrate and listen, and have a higher pain tolerance, it isnt that hard. Go cause problems with someone else about they did, or they did not.
I had an epidural 4 minutes before I pushed my baby out and it didnt start working until after I gave birth when they were doing the stitches. I felt everything and I couldnt stop pushing to take a break, it was hell! The worst pain ive ever felt in my life.. but once that baby comes out it is such a relief! All the pain just goes away (or maybe my epidural just started to work lol). They told me it was way too late to get an epidural and that it prolly wouldnt work, but I MADE them.
@xxxjoelpolexxx I understand, because I was told not to push during my labor once my daughter's head was out... it was the way you asked about the pushing. quite a few other women were here to watch it & asked the SAME thing as if you didn't have a clue about what was going on. kudos to you if it was 100% pain free.
My son was born 2-2-10 :) they have the same birthday:) i watched your video before i had my son and it was the only thing that really prepared me for childbirth thank you so much for sharing your experince!!!
The anesthesia placed my son to sleep during the csection I had. HE came out blue, and was sound asleep...they had to FORCE him awake. They started with a spinal, but it wasnt working, so they ended up placing me to sleep. I believe they are trying to use to much meds for child birth any more. Lucky we videod the birth, so I was able to see it. My husband at the time was FREAKED as well.
natural child birth i a vaginal delivery with out any pain meds and u do not just keep pushing u have to take breaks in between pushing so that they can monitor the baby coming out ,,,,,,everyone has a different pain level when i had my son i didnt feel te pain like everyone said they did but each person is different and each pregnancy i am 28 weeks and i have been having more pain with her than my son ........
i know when i might have a child i will have enough pain killer to knock out a elephant and i wont want a guy doctor cause i dont want a guy certified or not looking and feeling around my vjj
It isn't good to put anyone in a box. Every birth is different. My step sister didn't make a sound with her first birth, but her second was two pounds heavier and 13 years later, and she screamed. However, her first was born in a hospital, flat on back, feet in stirrups thing and even though he was much smaller she tore. Her second was born in a birth center with a midwife and since she was a a better birth position, she didn't tear. Both births took place no IV or pain meds of any kind.
love how everyone is commenting on how she MUST of had a Epi when she already said she didnt. Everyone is different, my aunt's last baby she didnt have an Epi or anything and she didnt scream at all. Then there was my step sister who didnt and she screamed her eye balls out.
I'm sorry, but that is NOT natural child birth. She would NOT be able to just stop to take a break & ask "I need to push again?". I had natural child birth..that is child birth with an epidural.
@Ambrielle69 Sry but ur wrong & it is. What you don't see/hear are the parts that are taken out. My Dr/Nurse had basically scared the beegeze's out of me and said I couldn't push or I could cut off all oxygen to my daughter. Her cord was knotted & wrapped around her neck twice, and my dr said NO PUSHING until I tell you too, just breathe & grunt through the contractions until she got things under control. So yes it's pretty easy to NOT push when this is said to you.
Yes you are definitely right they told my fiance not to push with our daughter and she said the feeling or need to push was absolutely unbearable but her plaucenta had ruptured and she was 31 weeks at birth but a whopping 40pds and 3 feet tall at 19 months lol......but beautiful baby and great job
@xxxjoelpolexxx I'll tell you what, some people say pushing out period is natural some say, no epideral is truly natural. So which is it, cause when they tell you that you cant get the epideral cause its too late and you start feeling like your hips are being pulled in two different directions and the baby's head just might be the size of a watemelon, I guess you let me know then........holla...then again we're all women so its natural unless you get sliced.....i guess
Hi did you give birth naturally or did you had epidural? seems pain is nothing to you and I admire you for that, I'm about to give birth next week and I'm scared of the pain..
i cant blv they told u to turn ur camera off thats BS!! its true they do it to cover their own asses if they fuk up its all on camera lol which is fukd up, that was your moment n good on ur hubby for tellin that bitch off. This only happens once n u want to keep memories like that for a life time. Sucks u still couldnt record it.. but good job either way. hope my labour goes easy as urs looked =)
@GUAVELLA by the looks of this video, she must have had an epidural or something. I had both of mine without anything and it's almost impossible not to scream, but you'd be amazed at how your body somehow finds the strength to handle it anyway. They might try to give you PITOCIN if your labor is progressing too slowly. This makes the contractions MUCH WORSE. They are so pushy about the pitocin. Tell them no unless it's absolutely necessary.
sjacks87 hope every thing will go smothly inshalla but take my advice I had five children 4boys and 1 girl always girl gives hard time in delivery boys are easier I took injection in my spine in My first boy I didnot feel any pain but so hard to push the baby no feeling in body but I advice you to use some thing called a laughing gas mircale by allmeans when you start having contruction pain you snif the gas paradice believe me and no harm for you or for the baby
sjacks87 hope every thing will go smothly inshalla but take my advice I had five children 4boys and 1 girl always girl gives hard time in delivery boys are easier I took injection in my spine in My first boy I didnot feel any pain but so hard to push the baby no feeling in body but I advice you to use some thing called a laughing gas mircale by allmeans when you start having contruction pain you snif the gas paradice believe me and no harm for you or for the baby ask your doctor and godbless
I am 4 months pregnant with my first and enjoyed this video. I love how calm you were. I think I will remember this video over many others I have seen. You did a wonderful job. Thanks for putting this up to give us new mothers some inspiration that it doesn't have to be so dramatic.
They shouldn't have asked or told you to turn off the camera. Obviously you 2 wanted to record it so you can look back on it which is a great idea!
Congrats on your baby-girl! You did a wonderful job! Might I ask how you stayed so calm? I'm due with my 2nd in Feb. and the 1st one I thought I was gonna DIE towards the end LOL. So I was wondering if you had any good pointers?
@TJnJadasmommy well we just had our second daughter on thursday 25th nov... we had it on our couch with no assistance...she just came too quick so my advice is just enjoy the experience and let the proffessionals worry bout the rest... believe me they are a god send wen they are there :)
Samuelito747 that was so rude of u id like to see what u look like being 9 months pregnant! u jerk! but anyways back to the video... this was so beautiful it made me tear up. i just had my daughter 2 months ago and unfortunitly i didnt get to excperience the actual birth because i had to have an emergecy csection after 4 days of being in labor. shes beautiful this may be later but congradulations.
I don't understand why women are made to labour/give birth on their backs - it seems to be so common in the USA, is that where you're from? It's so much better NOT being on your back! I've had two babies, both very quick labours (4 hours first baby, 1 & a half hours second baby) so had no time for pain relief (esp the second as he was an unplanned home birth). I would definately recommend trying to have a drug free birth/labour where possible, even though I asked for it both times.
Yes, it's because of malpractice issues. If you film them doing something crazy, you have evidence against them and they don't want that, so that's why they don't want you to film. In my opinion, if they didn't have anything to hide, they wouldn't ask you to turn the camera off in the first place. ;-)
I agree, you made it look so easy! I am 4 months pregnant with my first and I've been on here watching video's like this, kind of to get to see what I'm in for. I don't know if it was a good or bad idea lol, some of the lady's make it look HORRIBLE, but you eased my nerves lol.
@caitieandty201209 Well each labor is different, no two are alike. The my labors w/ my children were NOTHING alike! Some women get pain up front, some in the back, some don't know how to deal/cope w/ the pain so there are so many factors that play into it. Through education & knowing your body you can minimize your pain.
@caitieandty201209 ya my aunt is almost hitting her 6th month and shes like i dnt know what im in for like is it gonna go smooth or is it going to be torture
@prettyntheface the pain had basically reached a point that it makes u numb...it was pretty bad. lol it was just easier to mask than it was w/ my son who I had nothing but back pain with and the only thing that helped w/ him was to moan & grown deep & loud through each contraction.
Why did they want the camera off? Sorry, didn't read your explanation. Yeah, you tell them how it is. I never understand how nurses or doctors want to "direct" some one, especially the woman who is having the baby, what to do. Back off, the woman knows what she's doing. Very nice video by the way. =)
@shybettigurl Yeah, that's called 'birthing' and it's different to giving birth. The mother controls the action and the midwife or doula is there more for moral support.
I thought that a natural birth was with no epidural. So how is it that youre in no pain at all from the contractions? when you say natural do you mean you didnt have a c-section or what?
@xxxjoelpolexxx Why would you have bled to death? Was there a problem or was it just hospital policy? Were you strep B positive? Is that what the antibiotics were for? IV fluids? Were they not allowing you to drink?
@dkzmom There was a problem, my body wouldn't stop bleeding. I was GBS+, the fluids they gave routine to everyone. I was no allowed to drink in case of a c-section to not aspirate on the fluids if a surgery was needed. I wasn't allowed to eat either. There were a TON of interventions which is why I would NEVER give birth in a hospital again.
@xxxjoelpolexxx Pitocen is not to keep you from bleeding to death. It is to help bring on labor and can make contractions stronger. It can cause hemmoraging if too much is given which happened to me during delivery of my son. Good luck with your growing family!
@muttandmandy The pitocen was used to stop the bleeding. They were also injecting it into my thigh w/ shots, as well as manually contracting my uterus. For the next 48 hrs every 15 minutes to an hour they would come into my room, manually contract my uterus and check the clots/bleeding. At first it was every 15 minutes, then towards the 2nd day it was every hr. I bled for 18 weeks postpartum.
@xxxjoelpolexxx My mistake then. I guess everyone is different. I hemmoraghed after giving birth to my son and the doctor said it was partly because of the babies large size and the large amounts of pitocen they had given me. They tried two different drugs to stop my bleeding but I do not remember what they were.
@muttandmandy They weren't positive why I started bleeding so badly, but my 2nd pregnancy I had a MW & she had my 1st birth records & suggested getting my iron up big time before delivery to PREVENT the hemmoraghing especially since we were having a homebrith. I took floradix & it WORKED! As for the bleeding for 18 weeks, she thought part of placenta or something must have still been in me.
@xxxjoelpolexxx My mistake then. I guess everyone is different. I hemmoraghed after giving birth to my son and the doctor said it was partly because of the babies large size and the large amounts of pitocen they had given me. They tried two different drugs to stop my bleeding but I do not remember what they were. Did you have to get a blood transfusion after? My body was unable to produce enough milk right away due to the blood loss and then I ended up with a blood clot in my leg.
@muttandmandy I went through 3 ob/gyns before finding one I liked w/ my dr & we didn't bother telling the one we used to deliver with that this pg/birth u watched, was originally a twin birth (emotionally we just didn't want to have to go through it all again w/ another dr) so at birth (i think she says it in this vid) you can hear her shock & amazement in the size of the placenta & cord, which come to find out the womb continued 2 grow 4 our twin girls even though one had passed 1st trimester
@xxxjoelpolexxx Isn't it funny how we can remember delivering our kids like it was yesterday. I remember my husband would not let me look at Tanner when he came out because he was not breathing and the nurses had to use an ambu bag on him. Once they got him breathing his apgar scores improved and he was fine. The pediatrician said he would not move his arm for a couple of days due to shoulder dystachia (sp?) When the doctor left Tanner had both arms waving in the air:)
I was expecting to see something really painful! Were you experiencing any pain at the moment you were pushing? It dosen't seem like you were, or maybe you were just handling well. I don't know, pain is just something I've been concerned about.
belindalucero 2 months ago
@belindalucero yes, it's painful but after going through labor it's NOTHING as for pain goes, lol. I've had three kids now this one, my1st at a hospital & 2 at home natural and the pushing is the easiest by far! It actually feels good, b/c it relieves all that pain & pressure
xxxjoelpolexxx 2 months ago
i cried, i want to be a mom so bad.
paneappleapple 4 months ago 2
So in hospitals, they tell you to push. And with the delivery & birth of Peyson, your midwife was telling you not to push, to just let her slide out. So which one is it supposed to be?
aldacoTM 4 months ago
@aldacoTM It's best to NOT push to prevent tearing but that doesn't mean to tense up & keep baby in, it just means to surrender to your body & let your body do it while you relax & let it happen
xxxjoelpolexxx 4 months ago
So in hospitals, they tell you to push. And with the delivery & birth of Peyson, your midwife was telling you not to push, to just let her slide out. So which one is it supposed to be?
aldacoTM 4 months ago
This looks a lot like my delivery. I did it natural too. They didn't make me turn my camera off though. Giving birth hurts like hell but I am actually excited to do it again. I have a channel about my daughter and my family in Japan, watch if you have time thanks.
HannahInJapana 4 months ago
The one holding the camera has the strangest accent.
lordjinnai 5 months ago 5
@lordjinnai From Texas
xxxjoelpolexxx 5 months ago 2
M@Glad:great woman
bndgmurali 5 months ago
I dont even know why I am watching this, I for one hate children.
gamerx112 6 months ago
oh my....I didn't realize when you said it was a hospital birth that it was a natural birth too. Man, you are one brave and strong lady!!!!
3gojane 6 months ago in playlist Jacelyn - Weeks 0-4
way to go! great job momma, youre amazing!
sarlove001 8 months ago
lol @ 4.7 million views so they can see a vagina
Gannondalf 8 months ago
I kept hearing Rob Schneider shouting "You can do it!"
Kailinn92 8 months ago
that is not natural
18pp4t 9 months ago 2
aww were those happy tears? <3
meganoconnor1234 9 months ago
this is weird...but is there a possibility of accidentally pooping while giving birth. I mean when you push does it only work on the vagina or your entire behind is pushing? Unless there's a rule to poop before giving birth. Sorry this is weird but It's been something I've been concerned about
sweetbiella 9 months ago 2
@sweetbiella Yes. More often than not women do.
xxxjoelpolexxx 9 months ago
@sweetbiella Of course it's possible for woman accidentally pooping while giving birth. It's actually more common for a woman giving birth to poop while pushing out the baby. About 80% of all women accidentally poop when they give birth. It's all natural and the nurses are more than prepared for it to happen.
solonelyable 9 months ago
@sweetbiella
The only thing you `shit out` durin childbirth is the child LMFAO ... are you worried than when your having a kid and the doctor tells you to push your gonna accidentally shit all over his face? LMFAO.. Your post has made my day Biela ha ha ha.......
TheFlyingScotsman01 8 months ago
@sweetbiella It's actually standard procedure for all obstetricians to take pictures of the turd and upload to failblog.
funkgerat 8 months ago
@sweetbiella it happens and i heard its ok... it happens... prolly dont want to poop before giving birth because the baby may come out lol ! !
nikki280325 5 months ago
i agree with u bt mosy hospitals like the one i wrk for dnt ley u havr pix or video at all tinlme cuz u dht kb wath could happeja
mymelissais1 9 months ago
NO LABOUR IS THE SAME......... who cares who screams and who doesnt it hurts like hell either way!!!!!!! and epi isnt exactly easy it can be for some, very hard to push without feeling contractions... and some people have to have an epi to prevent c-section :) good work its beautiful!!!!
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zaboravisrce 8 months ago
@domram12
Are you freaking kidding me? Sexual arousal from childbirth?? Here, let me cram a Buick in your ass and you tell me how aroused you are. Breastfeeding?? Arousing?? Allow me to clamp some electric eels to your nips and you tell me how aroused you are.
The reason mothers go through this is for the love of their child, a pure love that assholes like you could never understand. I assure you, being ripped on half is not arousing. Idiot.
MsNatarella 9 months ago 2
You should have pretended to turn the camera off and still secretly had it on. Something went wrong and they didn't want you to sue them for it so they told you to turn it off. Oh ho no way If I was recording I would make sure they got in trouble if anything happened to my baby!
zadose 9 months ago
why is he counting as you push??? Do they still do directed pushing in the US???
MissCarly84 9 months ago
This was a calming birth unlike mine lol. I was screaming and cursing out doctors, I'm surprised I didn't kick one of them or maybe I did not sure. God bless!!
KswifeyM 10 months ago
easy 4 u to say 1,2,3,4, lol
qonjoooo 10 months ago
wtf!!!!mom
snowtrash16 10 months ago
She was beautiful I can't wait until august 2011 our new arrival is only months away :)
beutifulnightmare1 10 months ago
Do you not have a midwife to deliver? They are experts in their field. All pregnant women should be cared for and delivered by a midwife when possible.
hostsurrogate 10 months ago
@hostsurrogate Chaaaatoo
Paulo42219 10 months ago
y am i being censored?
mathdude28 10 months ago
man she looks exhausted. i guess its a mix of menstrual type pains and kidney stone type pains those are the kind of pains that make you tired
mathdude28 10 months ago
You have a nice pussy lol..
LUI2AGUIRR2 10 months ago
awww,well done you!! :D,i love watching babies being born,always makes me cry, mine is due 19th aug!!!2011,not long after your baby No3!! good luck!! xx
clairecabbage 10 months ago
really good mam
hassan9918 10 months ago
I'm not sure why you think the nurse wanted you to turn the camera off b/c of the baby's color: a blue baby is a good thing! Pale or grey is when they aren't getting enough oxygen. Maybe she saw the bruising and THAT's why she wanted you to turn the camera off? I haven't even watched the whole vid yet...downloading...but Glad that you two held your own. props to ya :)
XAhoney 11 months ago
im was pregnant.
BerryBlueBerry1 11 months ago
she makes it look so easy!!....but its really not that easy huh? :( poo
josiejss 11 months ago
WELL CHILD BIRTH IS PEDOPHILIA because the women are extremely sexually aroused by the feeling of a baby trying to come out of her vagina. Talk about being born in a pedophilia world or what as women continue to feel sexual arousal during breastfeeding.
domram12 11 months ago
@domram12 There is nothing about child birth or breastfeeding that is sexually arousing you pervert.
PinkRain82 10 months ago
@domram12 are you freaking serious???? have you ever had a baby or breastfed you mentally insane person!
MissCarly84 9 months ago
I had natural child bith and i didnt scream and it honestly didnt hurt that bad so yea i would say she probably did she was probably just a little more worried about her baby than screaming. not everyone has to go beginning stages of the exorcist in the delivery room to have a natural birth and by that i mean the screaming and cussing and crying. She did a great job
emmydoll99 11 months ago
I could have swore you have said in videos that you did get an epidural with Jacelyn? am I wrong... cause i am almost positive you did so why would you lie about it?
Felton0509 11 months ago 7
@Felton0509 As soon as I entered the hospital an epidural was administered, but (depending on how u view the situation) fortunately epidurals don't last 24 hrs ;) It wore off LONG BEFORE labor was over. I had begged for more at 8 cm as I had regained all feeling back at that point & it hurt like hell, lol. BUT b/c the epidural had put my labor on stop & I couldn't take pitocin b/c I had a negative reaction to it, soon as the epirudal was completely gone my labor picked up full speed on it's own.
xxxjoelpolexxx 11 months ago
@Felton0509 PART 2 So between that & the crappy nurses I had I didn't get any pain medicine from that point forward despite my cries & puke for help, ha. By the time I gave birth the epidural had been long gone out of my system. It was completely natural, vaginal non-medicated birth. Unlike Kacen's birth Jacelyn's wasn't by choice though, ha. Directly after getting stitched up I was out of bed walking to the potty to go pee & clean my self up. I even walked my self to my postpartum room.
xxxjoelpolexxx 11 months ago
Oh boy , I think I understand otherwise about Natural Birth.
Some friends of mine have Home birth it's very very different !
beafrisin 11 months ago
@beafrisin I have homebirths now
xxxjoelpolexxx 11 months ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx
Oh good, I think you can understand now what I would say before.
I hope you will enjoy this home birth.
It's so beautiful, an another atmosphere, very close and peaceful.
beafrisin 11 months ago
@beafrisin I've had one homebirth already & planning #2 in July/2011
xxxjoelpolexxx 11 months ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx I wish you a beautiful birth for the baby and the father also and before a beautiful pregnancy.
beafrisin 11 months ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx
Oh good, I think you can understand now what I would say before.
I hope you will enjoy with this home birth.
It's so beautiful, an another atmosphere, very close and peaceful.
beafrisin 11 months ago
People can be real jerks on here!
ITHEREONETHATHASNT 11 months ago
sounds like she is taking it in the ass hahahahaha
Womanizer5150 11 months ago
:')
xsHarppz 11 months ago
omg wtf is wrong wif u people like god
ChloeCaoimhe 11 months ago
she had an epidural :) why feel the pain ;)
mamabebe82 11 months ago
Omqee that looks like it hard. I hope i'll be able to tolerate the pain like yu did. Childbirth scares me. How did yu tolerate it??
tinkernene 1 year ago
I didnt yell all that much during mine. HypnoBirthing, meditation, a strong threshold of pain...every birth and woman is different. Just because she didnt scream her head off like in the movies doesnt mean she wasnt in pain or did/didnt have meds. as a sugestion to all the pregnant woman who are afraid of childbirth or just need support try seeing if there are Doulas in your area. I am a doula in training and it can really help with pain management stress and support.
LizStokes21 1 year ago
I have seen TONS of women tolerate the pain of childbirth as well as she did without meds. I keep looking at videos like this one because i think i could do the same. Im due in 2 weeks!! hopefully i do! i hope i can record mine too! I have actually seen a woman on...i think the show was "A Baby Story" on TLC and she barly even sqinted her eyes... but you could tell she was focused.
jryse14 1 year ago
That is definately not natural child birth. Why would someone lie about this. I don't get it!
trayfiel 1 year ago
@trayfiel NOT EVERYONE SCREAMS in childbirth...just b/c YOU can't tolerate pain or know how to channel it doesn't mean I'm a liar.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago 4
@xxxjoelpolexxx fair play to ya cuz i screamed like bitch lol, x
taraessa 11 months ago
This is NOT a "natural birth" at all. She needs to be left alone to birth and allowed to stand up or mover around. Her baby came out "blue" (they all do, by the way) because she probably had an epidural. What a lie to say "natural childbirth". How sad for her.
MidwifeAnn 1 year ago
@MidwifeAnn She was BRUISED & the cord was wrapped around her neck & knotted. How sad for you to make sure horrible assumptions about a child & mother. Shame on you.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx aw you did a great job! I understand it was hospital procedure, but to me it just seems rude.instead if taking time to say that just attend to the babY! maybe I'm low intolerant to nurses, bc i had a horrible experience after labour(during was good). i had high blood pressure due to preeclampsia,i didn't scream but I DID have a epidural.& you stupid ppl!do you see the epidural stand?! she dosnt look drugged..Next time i'll go natural. I had no emotion when giving birth/and after
WHOWHAT13 11 months ago
@MidwifeAnn YOU are incredibly rude.
abra819 1 year ago
@trayfiel Calm down fool.
abra819 1 year ago
@trayfiel I agree, how can anyone that has just delivered a baby vaginally say this is a natural childbirth??!! What a scam!! If you can't tell, i'm being sarcastic......Fool!!!
xxkiexx 11 months ago
I love moms who're crying when their baby is born. Its so sweet :)
MyAndrea321 1 year ago
IDK why everyone is dissing her......why would she lie about this???? What matters is that her baby was healthy, considering everything that happened especially. People manage pain differently, and even if she didn;t scream you can tell by her face that it hurts. I applaud you and I think you did an amazing job! :) Congrats on ur pretty girl :)
agodbey0004 1 year ago
I think that all you sould just shut the fuck up how do you know were you there????? And yes some women are strong and can handel natural child birth and i might hurt but she prolly has a strong pain tolerance so leave her alone if you dnt like the video dnt watch it and please leave her alone its not like she has a reason to lie so shut up!
aiden0202 1 year ago 2
My god you people have nothing else better to do but knit pick. If she says its natural, its natural. Were you there? Did you see her with an epidural? Get a life. I have had 2 natural childbirths, and it hurts like hell, but if you concentrate and listen, and have a higher pain tolerance, it isnt that hard. Go cause problems with someone else about they did, or they did not.
jmfong76 1 year ago 3
that bitch right there is a pro cause i was raising hell
angel116010 1 year ago
Honey, congrats! Did you have an epideral??
MsHMChai 1 year ago
I had an epidural 4 minutes before I pushed my baby out and it didnt start working until after I gave birth when they were doing the stitches. I felt everything and I couldnt stop pushing to take a break, it was hell! The worst pain ive ever felt in my life.. but once that baby comes out it is such a relief! All the pain just goes away (or maybe my epidural just started to work lol). They told me it was way too late to get an epidural and that it prolly wouldnt work, but I MADE them.
MadameDesmonique 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx I understand, because I was told not to push during my labor once my daughter's head was out... it was the way you asked about the pushing. quite a few other women were here to watch it & asked the SAME thing as if you didn't have a clue about what was going on. kudos to you if it was 100% pain free.
Ambrielle69 1 year ago
My son was born 2-2-10 :) they have the same birthday:) i watched your video before i had my son and it was the only thing that really prepared me for childbirth thank you so much for sharing your experince!!!
aiden0202 1 year ago
The anesthesia placed my son to sleep during the csection I had. HE came out blue, and was sound asleep...they had to FORCE him awake. They started with a spinal, but it wasnt working, so they ended up placing me to sleep. I believe they are trying to use to much meds for child birth any more. Lucky we videod the birth, so I was able to see it. My husband at the time was FREAKED as well.
MonikaKozmik 1 year ago
natural child birth i a vaginal delivery with out any pain meds and u do not just keep pushing u have to take breaks in between pushing so that they can monitor the baby coming out ,,,,,,everyone has a different pain level when i had my son i didnt feel te pain like everyone said they did but each person is different and each pregnancy i am 28 weeks and i have been having more pain with her than my son ........
keymiah1 1 year ago
i know when i might have a child i will have enough pain killer to knock out a elephant and i wont want a guy doctor cause i dont want a guy certified or not looking and feeling around my vjj
tarrah100 1 year ago
hey waht was with the doctor telling you to turn off the camera?
dizzleblackizzle 1 year ago
It isn't good to put anyone in a box. Every birth is different. My step sister didn't make a sound with her first birth, but her second was two pounds heavier and 13 years later, and she screamed. However, her first was born in a hospital, flat on back, feet in stirrups thing and even though he was much smaller she tore. Her second was born in a birth center with a midwife and since she was a a better birth position, she didn't tear. Both births took place no IV or pain meds of any kind.
voxmel 1 year ago
love how everyone is commenting on how she MUST of had a Epi when she already said she didnt. Everyone is different, my aunt's last baby she didnt have an Epi or anything and she didnt scream at all. Then there was my step sister who didnt and she screamed her eye balls out.
Candielette 1 year ago
I'm sorry, but that is NOT natural child birth. She would NOT be able to just stop to take a break & ask "I need to push again?". I had natural child birth..that is child birth with an epidural.
Ambrielle69 1 year ago 5
@Ambrielle69 Sry but ur wrong & it is. What you don't see/hear are the parts that are taken out. My Dr/Nurse had basically scared the beegeze's out of me and said I couldn't push or I could cut off all oxygen to my daughter. Her cord was knotted & wrapped around her neck twice, and my dr said NO PUSHING until I tell you too, just breathe & grunt through the contractions until she got things under control. So yes it's pretty easy to NOT push when this is said to you.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago 13
Yes you are definitely right they told my fiance not to push with our daughter and she said the feeling or need to push was absolutely unbearable but her plaucenta had ruptured and she was 31 weeks at birth but a whopping 40pds and 3 feet tall at 19 months lol......but beautiful baby and great job
tarkenton72 11 months ago
@Ambrielle69 Child birth is DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE, SHE IS NOT YOU!!
Tshimollo 1 year ago
@Ambrielle69 Thats right, thats not natural baby
izatrini4eva 1 year ago
@izatrini4eva That's wrong, it is
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx I'll tell you what, some people say pushing out period is natural some say, no epideral is truly natural. So which is it, cause when they tell you that you cant get the epideral cause its too late and you start feeling like your hips are being pulled in two different directions and the baby's head just might be the size of a watemelon, I guess you let me know then........holla...then again we're all women so its natural unless you get sliced.....i guess
izatrini4eva 11 months ago
Hi did you give birth naturally or did you had epidural? seems pain is nothing to you and I admire you for that, I'm about to give birth next week and I'm scared of the pain..
missladygoodman 1 year ago
wow i cant belive you didnt curse at your hubby... but why natual childbirth? werent u scared?
WickedOne2Three 1 year ago
@WickedOne2Three why should she be afraid of natural childbrith? i would be way more afraid of un-natural childbrith.
stefanierose88 1 year ago 2
i cant blv they told u to turn ur camera off thats BS!! its true they do it to cover their own asses if they fuk up its all on camera lol which is fukd up, that was your moment n good on ur hubby for tellin that bitch off. This only happens once n u want to keep memories like that for a life time. Sucks u still couldnt record it.. but good job either way. hope my labour goes easy as urs looked =)
lexxin18 1 year ago
Ah... Cute really great job!
Nelena252 1 year ago
Awww soooo adorable. I had mine in jan 23, 10 and omg it was a pain LOL. Mine didn't cry
when she came out she was very clam LOL.
ameriebby 1 year ago
So beautiful! Thank you both for sharing and good luck with caring for your lovely family. Regards from Sweden, Petra
IrminsulRM 1 year ago
Hey im due in april n i was just wondering if u had any pain meds like an epidural or anything??? i cant stand needles n im scared that i will move.
GUAVELLA 1 year ago
@GUAVELLA by the looks of this video, she must have had an epidural or something. I had both of mine without anything and it's almost impossible not to scream, but you'd be amazed at how your body somehow finds the strength to handle it anyway. They might try to give you PITOCIN if your labor is progressing too slowly. This makes the contractions MUCH WORSE. They are so pushy about the pitocin. Tell them no unless it's absolutely necessary.
SodaWaterification 1 year ago
@SodaWaterification lots of women dont scream actually
MissCarly84 9 months ago
do wot ?
dxbguy82 1 year ago
My son`s birth - 2.02.2008 too :)
neti8301 1 year ago
sjacks87 hope every thing will go smothly inshalla but take my advice I had five children 4boys and 1 girl always girl gives hard time in delivery boys are easier I took injection in my spine in My first boy I didnot feel any pain but so hard to push the baby no feeling in body but I advice you to use some thing called a laughing gas mircale by allmeans when you start having contruction pain you snif the gas paradice believe me and no harm for you or for the baby
cokguzel100 1 year ago
sjacks87 hope every thing will go smothly inshalla but take my advice I had five children 4boys and 1 girl always girl gives hard time in delivery boys are easier I took injection in my spine in My first boy I didnot feel any pain but so hard to push the baby no feeling in body but I advice you to use some thing called a laughing gas mircale by allmeans when you start having contruction pain you snif the gas paradice believe me and no harm for you or for the baby ask your doctor and godbless
cokguzel100 1 year ago
Omg, the voice of the husband made me want to punch him. I'm surprised you didn't want calming music in the back ground.
rdlovesej 1 year ago
I am 4 months pregnant with my first and enjoyed this video. I love how calm you were. I think I will remember this video over many others I have seen. You did a wonderful job. Thanks for putting this up to give us new mothers some inspiration that it doesn't have to be so dramatic.
sjacks87 1 year ago
They shouldn't have asked or told you to turn off the camera. Obviously you 2 wanted to record it so you can look back on it which is a great idea!
Congrats on your baby-girl! You did a wonderful job! Might I ask how you stayed so calm? I'm due with my 2nd in Feb. and the 1st one I thought I was gonna DIE towards the end LOL. So I was wondering if you had any good pointers?
Thank you and much love to you and your family!!
TJnJadasmommy 1 year ago
@TJnJadasmommy well we just had our second daughter on thursday 25th nov... we had it on our couch with no assistance...she just came too quick so my advice is just enjoy the experience and let the proffessionals worry bout the rest... believe me they are a god send wen they are there :)
Bulltilt31 1 year ago
Samuelito747 that was so rude of u id like to see what u look like being 9 months pregnant! u jerk! but anyways back to the video... this was so beautiful it made me tear up. i just had my daughter 2 months ago and unfortunitly i didnt get to excperience the actual birth because i had to have an emergecy csection after 4 days of being in labor. shes beautiful this may be later but congradulations.
RuntedRose 1 year ago
fat bitch white girl
Samuelito747 1 year ago
Well done :O)
I don't understand why women are made to labour/give birth on their backs - it seems to be so common in the USA, is that where you're from? It's so much better NOT being on your back! I've had two babies, both very quick labours (4 hours first baby, 1 & a half hours second baby) so had no time for pain relief (esp the second as he was an unplanned home birth). I would definately recommend trying to have a drug free birth/labour where possible, even though I asked for it both times.
MsFoosh 1 year ago
WTF the baby is all blue and shit
zzCorruptedzz 1 year ago
you look calm!?
biggdaddy3m 1 year ago
u did so good wow
jujub428 1 year ago
سبحان الله العظيم
seham21 1 year ago
THAT ist what you call a natural childbirth???
I pity you so much.
SavNachtfrau 1 year ago
(No offence) May I ask why were you crying at the last part of the video?
alin543 1 year ago
(No offence) May I ask why were you crying at the last part of the video?
alin543 1 year ago
Yes, it's because of malpractice issues. If you film them doing something crazy, you have evidence against them and they don't want that, so that's why they don't want you to film. In my opinion, if they didn't have anything to hide, they wouldn't ask you to turn the camera off in the first place. ;-)
voxmel 1 year ago
seventy one seventy two seventy three, seventy foar, seventy five, seventy six
Dimexwiiii 1 year ago
seventy one seventy two seventy three, seventy foar, seventy five, seventy six, seventy, seven, seventy eight, seventy nine, eighty
Dimexwiiii 1 year ago
i speak for every man on the planet...
THANK GOD I WAS BORN MALE!
RNGSR2010 1 year ago
A private moment shared with more than 3 million people....gsus.
chelilandia 1 year ago
that was awesome
Amaizying 1 year ago
I agree, you made it look so easy! I am 4 months pregnant with my first and I've been on here watching video's like this, kind of to get to see what I'm in for. I don't know if it was a good or bad idea lol, some of the lady's make it look HORRIBLE, but you eased my nerves lol.
caitieandty201209 1 year ago 11
@caitieandty201209 Well each labor is different, no two are alike. The my labors w/ my children were NOTHING alike! Some women get pain up front, some in the back, some don't know how to deal/cope w/ the pain so there are so many factors that play into it. Through education & knowing your body you can minimize your pain.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago 2
@caitieandty201209 I not so sure there isnt an epidural involved here. She doesnt seem to be feeling contractions.
Missylou 1 year ago
@caitieandty201209 ya my aunt is almost hitting her 6th month and shes like i dnt know what im in for like is it gonna go smooth or is it going to be torture
curtandashfan01 1 year ago
natural emo mom loves the pleasure to give birth xD
i keed , the baby looks healthy i hope he or she gets to be a good kid !
Wolfy2k10 1 year ago
wow i have had three kids now and i was never that calm, you id great and daddy should be proud hun
MrAngeltimez4 1 year ago
You don't seem to be experiencing any pain you look very calm
prettyntheface 1 year ago
@prettyntheface the pain had basically reached a point that it makes u numb...it was pretty bad. lol it was just easier to mask than it was w/ my son who I had nothing but back pain with and the only thing that helped w/ him was to moan & grown deep & loud through each contraction.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
How were you able to be so calm ?
WILCOX331 1 year ago
This lady giving birth is so calm and brave!!
dangeroustrouble 1 year ago
gj "mom" =)
brumakriders 1 year ago
You were crying more than the baby ^^
NorwegianDaydreamer 1 year ago
Why did they want the camera off? Sorry, didn't read your explanation. Yeah, you tell them how it is. I never understand how nurses or doctors want to "direct" some one, especially the woman who is having the baby, what to do. Back off, the woman knows what she's doing. Very nice video by the way. =)
shybettigurl 1 year ago
@shybettigurl Yeah, that's called 'birthing' and it's different to giving birth. The mother controls the action and the midwife or doula is there more for moral support.
Asxhmoula 1 year ago
Why did they want the camera off?
shybettigurl 1 year ago
@shybettigurl Read description box please ;)
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
omg this is amazing!! im 36+2 and finally geared myself up to watch some of these videos. did you do this all with no pain relief?xx
mailoveshallie 1 year ago
ur babies life is gonna suck
my life is gonna suck
mrFragaz 1 year ago
disgraceful to put on the net
cobbax9916 1 year ago
I thought that a natural birth was with no epidural. So how is it that youre in no pain at all from the contractions? when you say natural do you mean you didnt have a c-section or what?
prettyntheface 1 year ago
@prettyntheface Who said I wasnt in pain???
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
Brings tears to my eyes, god bless :)
KentuckyFriedHuman 1 year ago
how rude to tell you to turn it off!
bubblesxxxo 1 year ago
we have the same birthday
christine70360 1 year ago
poor video
MrBo586 1 year ago
Look at her, with her legs all spread...like a whore!
mattrmc19 1 year ago
why did they turn the camara off.i did not see anything
dblockcouture 1 year ago
Vaginal, but certainly not natural. She's hooked up to every medical contraption under the sun!
dkzmom 1 year ago
@dkzmom I had fluids, & antibiotics.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@dkzmom oh & pitocin to prevent bleeding to death
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx Why would you have bled to death? Was there a problem or was it just hospital policy? Were you strep B positive? Is that what the antibiotics were for? IV fluids? Were they not allowing you to drink?
Those are a lot of interventions.
dkzmom 1 year ago
@dkzmom There was a problem, my body wouldn't stop bleeding. I was GBS+, the fluids they gave routine to everyone. I was no allowed to drink in case of a c-section to not aspirate on the fluids if a surgery was needed. I wasn't allowed to eat either. There were a TON of interventions which is why I would NEVER give birth in a hospital again.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx Pitocen is not to keep you from bleeding to death. It is to help bring on labor and can make contractions stronger. It can cause hemmoraging if too much is given which happened to me during delivery of my son. Good luck with your growing family!
muttandmandy 1 year ago
@muttandmandy The pitocen was used to stop the bleeding. They were also injecting it into my thigh w/ shots, as well as manually contracting my uterus. For the next 48 hrs every 15 minutes to an hour they would come into my room, manually contract my uterus and check the clots/bleeding. At first it was every 15 minutes, then towards the 2nd day it was every hr. I bled for 18 weeks postpartum.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx My mistake then. I guess everyone is different. I hemmoraghed after giving birth to my son and the doctor said it was partly because of the babies large size and the large amounts of pitocen they had given me. They tried two different drugs to stop my bleeding but I do not remember what they were.
muttandmandy 1 year ago
@muttandmandy They weren't positive why I started bleeding so badly, but my 2nd pregnancy I had a MW & she had my 1st birth records & suggested getting my iron up big time before delivery to PREVENT the hemmoraghing especially since we were having a homebrith. I took floradix & it WORKED! As for the bleeding for 18 weeks, she thought part of placenta or something must have still been in me.
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx My mistake then. I guess everyone is different. I hemmoraghed after giving birth to my son and the doctor said it was partly because of the babies large size and the large amounts of pitocen they had given me. They tried two different drugs to stop my bleeding but I do not remember what they were. Did you have to get a blood transfusion after? My body was unable to produce enough milk right away due to the blood loss and then I ended up with a blood clot in my leg.
muttandmandy 1 year ago
@muttandmandy I went through 3 ob/gyns before finding one I liked w/ my dr & we didn't bother telling the one we used to deliver with that this pg/birth u watched, was originally a twin birth (emotionally we just didn't want to have to go through it all again w/ another dr) so at birth (i think she says it in this vid) you can hear her shock & amazement in the size of the placenta & cord, which come to find out the womb continued 2 grow 4 our twin girls even though one had passed 1st trimester
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
@xxxjoelpolexxx Isn't it funny how we can remember delivering our kids like it was yesterday. I remember my husband would not let me look at Tanner when he came out because he was not breathing and the nurses had to use an ambu bag on him. Once they got him breathing his apgar scores improved and he was fine. The pediatrician said he would not move his arm for a couple of days due to shoulder dystachia (sp?) When the doctor left Tanner had both arms waving in the air:)
muttandmandy 1 year ago
@muttandmandy Awwwwwwwwwww that had to make u want to jump for joy to see him do that w/ his arms!
xxxjoelpolexxx 1 year ago
wow the father can count to ten ,.......... totally helpfull ,........ he sounds little like kletus from the simpsons lol
baumliebhaber 1 year ago
hey i was just wondering when the doc told your husband to turn off the camera, was your baby actually blue and not breathing?
stutterfly21 1 year ago
u're a great woman,, i loved ur video :')
theheaventear 1 year ago
Oooo Boy..Im 17weeks Prego N Lukin At Diz..Omgee.IDK IF ILL 2 TAKE IT=/
gunther916 1 year ago
I was born on Feb. 2 as well.
iteachvader 1 year ago
i thought this is educational o.O ow.
x0xDiamonds 1 year ago
whats the age of the child now
kiranchuth 1 year ago