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  • This isn't just a song - it's absolute perfect poetry and speaks to everyone that knows how to hear it. I'm amazed every time I hear him.

  • He sounds perfect live, doesn't use auto tune AND actually sings about how HE feels wow go Justin! 

  • This isn't about a meth addiction you idiot retard. It's about his relationship with his mother. Christ, your stupid

  • @DamianBahr its about how his addiction to heroin and mental disorders ruined his life at the time and how it affected all those around him whether it be friends his mother or a girlfriend this is his apology to them all and his promise to do better

  • 4 people really hate him...

  • he sings like hes British, 

  • I love how he can basically have an epileptic seizure while performing and still be sexy...and sing perfectly...

  • Awesome song and performance, but lay off the crack pipe!!!

  • This song deals with his meth addiction.

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  • @rxlex1 heroin 

  • The best vocalist in America and best performer. It's time for your Grammy Justin.

  • more musicians should have justins passion, it's what makes blue october amazing, I've never seen anyone as passionate as him.

  • "you never doubt my warp opinion on things like suicidal hate". Finally some body sings about something REAL in this world not like effin lady gaga, ew she is not an artist in my mind

  • this is AWSOME! NO WORDS! EVERY TIME i listen to it, it's a new experience!

  • Justin is such a great advocate for suicide prevention and his lyrics as well as paintings are so brilliant and transends to other situations...for example...x amount of words i can relate to based on my chronic pain condition and fear of having to live on pain pills for the rest of my life..as well as the other pyschological affects that go with it. The entire band-the music is brilliant and im greatful that they are taking negative situations and transforming it into a positive outlet.

  • @holford1977 actually on a blue october DVD Justin talks about this song and its about an ex live in girlfriend whom he lied to about his drug abuse and how while he did achieve sobriety from alcohol he had his demons he had to deal with and felt she deserved more than what he could offer her. The recording of his mothers message at the beginning of the actual song pertains to the message she had left after the break up had happened and he called his mother but didn't respond.

  • Great song

  • well sacred heart a jesus christ and st. Georgia peaches somebody get the bible and da holy water and douse this devil sent from hell.

  • @MrNewfiie that's a pretty gay way to say you like a song. unless of course your bat nuts crazy then that's fine. either way, stay away from my children.

  • cool!!!

  • The song is him talking to his mom not a girlfriend 

  • @holford1977 who gives a damn who he's talking to. the whole point of this song is a person realizing the harm they've done to people they love, and realizing t hey don't deserve who they have in their life and telling them to "hate me." I know I can relate to this song. This is my song for my friends.

  • If you voted dislike on this song or any Blue October song GTFO you are a moron! Justin is the best performer songwriter this industry has seen! Oh yeah and is the greatest live does not sound like shit like 99% of the bands out there! He sings from the heart and is REAL!

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  • Sort of an underrated band but simply AMAZING!

  • beautiful song <3

  • Damn I love Blue October. I love how intense Justin gets when he sings this song.

  • Awesome song

  • This song represents EXACTLY the thoughts and feelings of a major relationship I shared with a particular person. Roger ~ If you ever read this... YOU this song feels like it represents the END of us. (All the way down to "little reels of a tape" we always spoke of.....

  • emo cut cut cut cut cut cut

  • @pulsepunder your a moron. they are not emo.

  • I love Justin!

  • WOOT :D

    

  • i love how he gets hiss full body and facial expressions in on his performance really brings the feeling

  • deff the best lead singer of our time!!

  • the battle is won, the war rages on....

  • amazing song! if you hate it you just don't understand it. ppl tend to hate shit they can't comprehend. if you like this song you know how it feels to feel like this.

  • This is by far my favorate live version of Hate me. =D

  • This guy is so intense

  • I like him at this weight. He seems to be more loose and willing to perform. He's mesmerizing.

  • i think people with depression will get this song especially.

  • @jodycrown

    100%! you're NOT alone.

  • @jodycrown like me!

  • this song was written to his mother, interpret or hate all you like

  • this song was written to his mother, hate all you want

  • My ex girlfriend whom I still love just told me to listen to this, this hurts man

  • anyone who sings with emotion makes faces while they sing.. blue october is the best .. PERIOD

  • Fucking damn it someone shoot me, i put a thumbs down by accident! ='C!! I'm sorry Blue October, i love your song as much as i love my heart to keep beating. My Lifeline. Thank you.

  • @Forgrite lol its ok that means there are only 2 thumbs down

  • what a fucking good song. I love it

  • this is an incredible live performance band!!! is soo close to the final recording cut !!! amazing!!!!!

  • He puts so much emotion into his singing!! He's amazing!!

  • just heard that song live for the first time yesterday and i cried.

    i think everyone there was about to cry.

    amazing song!

  • so eine geile stimme ♥

  • @DarthBerryhill What the hell does being bipolar have to do with facial expressions?

    My dad was bipolar long before it was even called bipolar and he didn't make odd facial expressions. Turrets maybe, but not bipolar. Troll.

  • Hate me today, Hate me tomorrow, Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you, Hate me in ways hard to swallow, Hate me so you can finally see whats good for you. I love you mom, I'm sorry.

  • this song is about the love he has for his mother, and the guilt she has unintentionally instilled on him. she has ALWAYS been right by his side, and in doing so, she has shared his pain immensely. he is torn inside because he realizes, that through his depression, he has deprived her of her of her own happiness.

  • To all who think he has a "problem" (because of his facial expressions or throwing his head about) , haven't you ever watched a classical pianist play? Watch the musicians that aren't just singing to entertain but feeing the lyrics they are singing.

  • Blue October rocks! Gonna see em' in Vegas at the Hard Rock!

  • This is a good song does he gave some mental problems cas he doesent seem to calm? It's like he's on drugs or sumthin??

  • this song has giving me so much over the years ive listened to it through this song ive become one of biggest fans of this group justin furstenfeld has given me so much hope for writing my own music and expressing myself through music thank you blue october!

  • I hate to say it...but i think his drug addiction and bipolar disorder helped his career and his schizophrenia did too...it adds emotion and makes him an AMAZING song writer

  • Badass man!

  • Love Love Blue October! I have been obsessed with them for a few years now. And I totally agree with the last comment. Justin is a Poetic Genius!!!

  • He sings from his heart. A human body has a hard time with raw emotion. We've been conditioned to hide it. Justin let's it all hang out. I love his voice, lyrics, poetry, everything. (But, I don't like the cursing, it keeps my little boy from hearing a genius)

  • @atlvocalist Your Philistine masters taught you to dislike "cursing" so you do it.. You teach your son the same.. Tell me, if they told you to dislike Blue October, would you?

  • @atlvocalist the cursing will make ur little boy grow up ;D

  • @atlvocalist Let him hear it. Cursing is just a way of showing emotion. It's only offensive if it's directed at a person and meant to be hurtful. But that's the same with all language

  • @atlvocalist Hmm no your keeping your little boy from hearing genius.

  • @atlvocalist He expresses his emotion from the heart, and cursing is often an excellent way to display the hate, anger, sorrow, or anything else you feel.

  • Nice :)

  • i love this song like creepz80 F*CK THE HATERS ITS BEAUTILFUL SONG

  • The band is cool, who's to argue, but the frontman is somewhat painful to watch O.o

  • GREAT SONG!

  • Good band, they just don't have the attention they deserve yet.

  • Wow this song make me emotional.

  • Why does he move his head like that? Anyway I love his voice and I love the band.

    Blue october for ever.

    Visca el Barça.

  • Because he has bipolar mania and fucking schizophrenia. Buddy. I'd love for you to be Justin. For you to be me. Its a daily struggle. I twitch like Justin also. Please GTFO.

  • i'm gonna see them live fuck yeah

  • good

  • Powerful song

  • I love it!!

  • my God, they're amazing...

  • nice to see that they let you use the computer at the idiot camp

  • Thumbs down and a really vapid response from this mook above, all because of my opinion. What a shock. Lame. I did preface my opinion by saying that I wasn't being ugly. It was just my opinion but if you're going to call me an idiot for having an opinion then allow me to stoop to your level. Fuck you. Oh and the Red Sox suck.

  • yes they do.... lmao....

  • @DigitalJuno: well honestly his voice is really good live if you consider a lot of the other bands out there lol

  • damn right man this song in it self just has pain on it damn go band

  • Anyone who doesn't appreciate this band obviously hasn't experienced full out, heart crushing pain.

  • same great band liked em since 06ish

  • i love his voice live lol. sounds pretty lol

  • never say that you love birdie just to put in my face. hate me today, hate me tomorrow, hate me so you can finally see what's good for you.

  • these guys rock hard core.......

  • yes, they rock hardcore, and yes, they are better live than in studio. justin has often said that performing the songs live for him is more intense because he knows that all the people that are there to see blue october, are there because they all have things in common..they have all gone through a major shitty time in their life, and they can all relate to these situations. Justin feeds on that.thats why the performances are better live than on album.because there is real raw emotion involved!

  • I agree. Cool band

  • I think this band is actually better live, which is saying something, because their studio music is amazing. If you guys haven't watched Argue With A Tree you should. Not only is the music good but it's never boring visually. :)

  • OMG Justin is SOOO !@#$%^&* Gorgeous!! I find it hard to watch him. I Love all his movements & jerks!! He is by far one of the HOTTEST guys ever!!! Yum!!! Please Santa, bring me justin under the tree!!!

  • @Furymager... LOL... yeah, true enough, Justin is ad odd looking dude, but damn, he can sure write music!!! Besides, he's the one getting paid for it, and I'm one of the ones paying for it, eh?

  • @furymager i think that he is very very hot.... and when he sings he is awesome.....

  • wow..

  • he should have put that vibrato in the album

  • this is quite simply a tune!! x

  • why does he shake his head usually while he is singing?

  • He's putting emotion into it. It's all part of the performance, and also it's an emotional song.

  • ya know, now that i noticed that justin kinda resembles johnny cash on stage. their stage presence is similar.

  • an amazing song from an amazing band. powerful words to those that have been in similar or other passioned situations. for others merely just a song. either way i'm just enjoying this fricken awesome tune.

  • This song is amazing. I can't really relate to it personally, but I know several others can.

    There's so much meaning in this song. Justin is so passionate about his music. I was sad to hear that he's in the hospital. Hopefully he'll be better soon.

  • he is absolutely amazing.....

  • ok first of all u dont know me and u have no clue what i have been through and a song can mean whatever it does to each person...keep your opinions to yourself and until you have walked in my shoes dont u dare stand in judgement of me...nobody is perfect, we all slip... and btw i BEGGED his wife to stay with him because thats what love is...SACRIFICE...giving up something u love because its the right thing to do and that is exactly what i did

  • girl i know this.... trust me... i am a thirty nine year old woman whos first husband cheated on me.... god years ago... and went to jail for almost killing the bitch... so be careful.... it is playing with fire... i am now married to a wonderful man but it took me a long time to trust again. sleeping with someones husband is not an accident..

  • this is the woman bwolf who commented on your thingy... and no i have not walked in your shoes... i have not ever cheated or slept with a married man... but i have walked in the shoes of a wife whos husband cheated on her... and it hurts more than just you...

  • i just cant stop watching this.. it is like my morning cup o java.....

  • i love love love love love you justin...best performance ever......

  • ok blondiegonered... omg dont ever admit to being with a married man.. i am happy that it did not work out... and as far as the lead singer justin and his odd ways if singing.. if yall knew why and the real meaning of the song you would understand. he is now hospitalized for lots of things.. but this is one of the best live versions i have seen and i think that it is sexy how passionate he is when he sings... pray for justin furstenfeld

  • Kick ass

  • there is a very good version of this... hate me blue october (breaking dawn nyc)

  • i cry every time i hear this song...it describes my situation with this guy...he is married n so am i n we have been trying to just be friends but we were too attracted to each other n kept fooling around...recently i made a decision to make him tell his wife about us n i lost him...he was my best friend n now he wont talk to me...i miss him so much but i had to make him hate me so he would see what was good for him...i love u shane n i always will

  • and please do not ever disgrace a song as beautiful as this with your disgusting behavior... this song means nothing to your behavior... nothing...

  • i thought that was a pretty good performance...the lead singer is kinda nutty tho lol but i respect what he been threw

  • I love this band they changed my life unfortunately they'll never come to MExico.....

  • IT WAS OK

  • this song kicks ass, and "Say it" kicks ass, <3 this band

  • Did you get to?

  • SOO GOOD!!

  • :(!

  • fuck the haters here,,,its a beautifull song

  • @Creepz80 damned right dude

  • @Creepz80 Um...dude theres only 3 dislikes, relax. The 1000's of us that watch this vid know its amazing.

  • @Creepz80 awesome song but no matter what no matter how good it is dumbass haters are gonna hate

  • I'd love to see them live <3

  • I'm an addict and this song fits my situation everything about this song is me everything he wants I want jus because this one girl who really cares I want her to hate me for what I've done to her

  • Dude. No one cares. Just shut up.

  • lol owned...

  • Blue october rulam mesmo!

    Grande música, grande letra!

  • this song like orgasm

  • One of my favourite american bands,

    and a great song as well

  • 1 of their best songs but they should lower the microphone

  • nah i think it's a good mix.

  • this is my song pretty much...i dont mean i wrote it, hell no i could never write anything this good. but it kinda explains how i feel...

  • "I'm Sober now for 3 whole months, that's one accomplishment you've helped me with. The one thing that that always tore us apart is the one thing I won't touch again." from that point on i ang to my ex after she broke up with me cause of my drinking

  • tourette's

  • This is a great song. Great band too. It sucks I couldn't get their CD... Out of all the song I've heard from blue oct. this one is my total fave.! Thanks for posting. =)

  • i love this song

  • amazing how he sings this song, makes me miss my wife wish i could tell her

  • not trying to be offensive, great song, but does the singer have terrates? dont know hoe to spell it, tirrettes?

  • no he doesnt at all. he just gets so into it when hes up there, he just goes crazy. its absolutely amazing.

  • tourettes. Nah, he just really gets into it as bas8749 pointed out

  • billy joe armstrong from green day does the same thing. its awesome. they just get into their music. it is awesome!! i wish we all could have this much passion!!

  • I believe i heard someone mention he has bipolar. Not sure if it's true but it could be a symptom of that.

  • "I'm Sober now for 3 whole months, that's one accomplishment you've helped me with. The one thing that that always tore us apart is the one thing I won't touch again."

    I just want to say thank-you to this band for writing this song and most importantly to my mother who did exactly what's written. It's been 6 months clean now after 12 long years of ruining my body. I cried the first time I heard this song. And then played it for my mom who cried too.

  • I love this song..... Ive cried to this song. i love the band its a great band.. My friend shane interduced me to this band. Ive been fighting depresssion for awhile.. and the these songs make me smile and cry all thru the cds..

  • This song is so numbing sad

  • Fucking...brilliant.

  • fantastic singers

  • I love this song... Especially this part:

    "And with a sad heart I say bye to you and wave

    Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I had made"...

    I couldn`t describe it better..

  • i agree! that part is amazing!

  • Gotta love his facial expressions while he sings, lol.

    Great song. <3

    Where'd the bisexual thing come from? lol.

  • lol yeah

    i'm quite blurred when i read about the bisexual thing

    i'm still wondering what bisexual got to do with dark attires?

  • hate me 4 every thing

  • im gonna see blue on mar. 22 in anaheim I CANNOT WAIT they are so awesome and justin gets so into the music, a quality you don't find with most bands

  • Yes, and girls like that don't seem to understand that (to me) when you are dating someone, it's cheating to makeout with ANYONE, including confused people of your own gender. I don't take kindly to that bullshit. Don't say it's not cheating just because people accept it as normal.

  • Wow nicely said

  • such a quality song. and a really good live performance: )

  • one of the best bands ever u can never listen to just one song by them

  • Everytime i listen to this song

    it inspires me and i listen to it over again(:

  • I cried when I watched this

  • i love this band with all my heart , they are a true musical talent , well written and well performed

  • i love his head jerks they just add so much more to the song somehow

  • But I don't care how anybody look as long as they create such amazing music. It's only eye shadow, but I also see a tie:)))

  • I agree, great music, but the eye shadow... weird, I don't get it. But at the end pants were designed only for man but nowadays we wear them too

  • I'm sorry, great song, but what is the semi-sudden fad with men wearing eye shadow and other such feminine products? What?

  • That would be because gothic "style", which is wear men with makeup sorta started to be a fad, has leaked into many different fashion/music styles. The question I would ask would rather be when did a clothing style become completely associated with a music style. They are two completely different things.

  • Precisely. And, furthermore, when did teenage girls begin associating bisexuality with a dark clothing style? This world is pathetic, haha.

  • Better question would be when did teenage girls begin to think its cool to be bisexual. It is a fad now to be cool. It is aggrivating as shit.

  • Well I'm certainly glad I found someone that agrees with me. It's not bisexuality, it's a fucking fashion trend. That's why I have trouble accepting bisexuality as anything more than a damn joke. Pick a gender, for fuck sake.

  • no edward and Bella.......JUSTIN

  • what the fuck do edward and bella have to do with ANYTHING