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  • I love your accent

  • Good info here. I like to make eye contact and chum around to see if she moves in or pulls away. Yep, thats how you know.

  • I've been talking to this girl i really like for some time now, we have a strong connection all of our conversations have some deep meaning to it. I don't know if she likes me as a friend or as something more. Idk I always doubt myself. But how can I find out? help please :/

  • ok so i have a crush on this boy in my enrichment class 4 chess and he got introuble and had to clean the floors and my friend got my chess peices and threw them on the floor cuz my friend wanted me to flirt and she thought that would help if i did so when he was walking over i looked away and talked to my friend then i looked bak and was really close to my face and said u dropped ur pieces on the floor and he got all close (and cawincedence his breath smelt like mint and he was breating on me

  • if she does not pull back or she even welcomes you into her space she could just see you as a "friend" and nothing more right?

  • Dear arkady39,

    I started your video.

    Four seconds in, I had tto stop it, and calm down before continuing.

    Your. Accent.

    -faints-

  • @VampireWerewolfe

    Hello, I am not sure I understand. Am I very hard to understand in this video because of the accent?

  • man ur the best guy on earth

  • look my friend i need help plz reply back .... i am 14 years old and i never had a girlfriend what should i do to make someone to love me plz reply back thnk u...

  • @MimisBeido your not the only person iam 17 yers old soon 18 and i dont have a girlfriend but you get somone one day dont give up :)

  • He is very wise.

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  • So simple, yet effective. :] Thanks!

  • THANK YOU CAPTAIN SMARTY PANTS!

  • hey can i take your vocal cords for a day to get the girl of my dreams?

  • YOU = LEGEND

  • he is so sexy!

  • ur accent is romantic i bet getting girl aint a problem for you lol

  • yo i have done everything i can tell that she is interested in me quite abit and i like her alot and i dont know how to make her my girlfriend or somthing like that and im kinda shy so i dont know what to do im in middle school plz help :(

  • @Abstidentreaper get her numberwhen you've established enough comfort. escalate physically a little bit an teaase her to get her attracted to you.

  • @Abstidentreaper oki heres what u gotta do.

    Ask her if she wants to "hang out" with you have some fun and after the "haning out" walk her home and while at the door give her a kiss on the lips and ask her the question.I dunno if this works but give it a try and message me if u did wht i told u.;)

  • Oh my God its in :O

  • Okay I need help I have a huge crush on this girl at school (and no not because she's fit as I am not shallow) but I don't know how to ask her out I sit beside her I class but I am always the first perso the ask her how are you she answers very confindently and calmly so I'm not sure if she has a crush o me as well

  • I'll try this but in the past girls I've liked that I thought liked me back just ended up being VERY flirtatious

  • what if she just broke up with her boyfriend and you have been friends for a while and she laughs at everything you say if you r trying and we text a lot. what does that mean?

  • i need help weve been friends for a while and her boyfriend just broke up with her and we hang out a lot and she laughs at anything i say. what does this mean?

  • This is completly nonrelated to the topic, but I love your accent. :) Where are you from originally?

  • Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank youuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are fantastic!!!

  • oh man!!! this guy knows everything!

  • you have a awesome voice dude!!!!!!!!!!

  • I'm gonna try but I'm a really shy guy

  • nice!!!!!!!! this answers my questions!!!!!! waaahhh!! i'll subscribe!!! :D THANKS VERY MUCH .. you HELPED ME ALOT!!!! waahhh!! :)))

  • Wow, It Worked My crush didn't run away she stared at my eyes and i stared at hers.

    YOU ARE THE BEST THANKS MY FRIEND OR SHOULD I SAY THE LOVE DOCTER!!! LOL!!!!

  • asking her right of the bat hahaha what a dumb mistake to do ! Did that, it makes them feel so uncomfortable, even if they are interested, then they wont be anymore !

  • I like this

  • I wish I could meet you in person, you seem like you are very interesting to talk to

  • thank you so much i needed that

  • your a life saver

  • Thanks sooo much!

  • you are a true american hero

  • i told my crush i loved him and he made the :O expression and the next day it felt like he liked me back cause he kind of stared at me like when u like someone. what should i do

  • Dude Your Fucking Awesome Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • cool voice ill try this and nice hair =)

  • You are awesome!

  • This guy must get lots of punani. Lol. Great vid.

  • Your voice is awesome

  • im going to try hop it works

  • totelly god right

  • short and sweet:) other advice videos are so boring and drag on for ages, your was so short but it told me excately what i need

  • what if the person is someone who always look straight in the eyes?? how am i supposed to know if he's making eye-contact because he's attracted to me or because it's just the way he does???

  • dang!! are u like a love wizard or somthing? ur good!!!!

  • great advice thanks so much

  • Is this God ?

  • this guy is god

  • Great Vid

  • This guy is Brilliant!

  • you are really good!

  • If I really like a guy I pretend I don't. why?

  • Because u r evil!!! jk jk but that makes things so hard for us guys!

  • anyone else feel this guy knows too much? ;P

  • yes...lol

  • very simple and very well said

  • @zamohofo get serious man

  • i came across this video randomly haha but mothafucka knows his shiet!

  • this guy is good

  • but wut if u no he likes u and he still pulls away but he dnt do it alot ???????

  • i'd say they are very shy

    i did something similar 6 years ago when my dream girl showed a lot of interest in me

    i've regretted it every day since...

    it would've helped if she was a little more agressive, even though she was more aggressive than any girl i've ever been around

  • Look I got close to a girl who i kind of liked then I got close too her but she didn't move she just looked at my pants she didn't back away what does that mean

  • lmao lol lamo ok idk mate ask him or pm him lol

  • ur smart

  • What if the person backs away even if they ARE interested just because they are embarrassed? What would you say about that?

  • Then you can usually tell, if they are being shy and/or blushing, this isn't 100% accurate but simply something to look for.

  • i wasn't going to watch this... but the accent made me. hahaha nice video! i really dig it

  • yes they r very interested

  • hehe the dude is funny

  • thanks man your a true ladies man lol

  • nice video thanks

  • lol this guy is funny! 0:16-19

  • I always wondered why everytime i try to ask out a girl it ends up the girl is lesbian.

    It ended up happening 2 times in a row. Damn shouldve listened to the rumors

  • great video! thanks!

  • wat if u are kinda being piked on in class by other people? plz answer

  • Disregard it. The sooner you learn how to ignore it or even laugh it off, the sooner it will end. The only reason picking continues is because you give them the pleasure of seeing your react.

  • It is a russian or slavyan guy 100% Accent is slavyan

  • Man This Dude nust be getting lots of beautifull girls. But he already has experince and has great advise.

  • Yup this is my approach is works 100% of the time even if they dont like you.. YOU MAKE THEM!

  • I gave u a Thumbs up that was funny

  • yeah, you are right dude, thank you for lighten me up :)

  • i love ur accent :D

  • Good points but what if the other person is just naturally flirty

  • fuck yeah dude lol funny

  • Whenever i eye flirt w/a girl, she is aware that i like her, She'll flash a friendly smile at me or say lil things like excuse me when i;m near her in class. If the girl likes me back, she should be the one to initiate the conversation.. wat am i doing wrong?

  • bfore he said that he couldnt choose outta me and her... but now he is choosing her and he always tlks about her..Well only when i start it up..alot of times me and him have fun and chat and make jokes and hahahaha.. u get it .. well yea i just dont see why he doesnt like me??i stayed up late 2 times 4 him becuase he was crying and he was haveing a bad problem

  • the guy i like is somwhat into anothr girl..this girl also likes him..i dont think she loves him that much.. do u know why?..well if u reallly love someone u wouldnt give them up just cuz u felt sorry for a friend right ?...well no u wouldnt! u would fight for his heart!also this guy i like. he is my friend like best friend i geuss..he has my number i have his number .. But get this! the girl he likes doesnt has his number!

    what do u think that means?also...

  • it means he doesn't have her number

  • You are a very smart man keep up the work.

  • Im taking this video quite seriously but oh man... I laughed so hard at that comment wooow haha

  • U are just perfect man!Thanks a lot

  • This guy is actually very smart. I enjoy tips such as these.

  • Well! what if that person is 1000 moles away and you hardly meet him online????

  • wow thanks a lot, if you are right, she is intrested of me!

  • Then go for it ^^

  • was he right?

  • ways i tell is

    she teases me or calls me names

    or if we walk by each other she will touch me or say a random word and she touches me when shes by me

  • when this girl i like and she likes me the ways i tell is:

    she teases me or calls me names

    or if we walk by each other she will touch me or say a random word and she touches me when shes by me

  • thx doktor u helped me get a girlfriend in like 2weeks im dating a woman now and im following ur adwise i dont know what i shuld do without u

  • thanks date docter

  • my god your great!!

  • Thank you for the advice!

  • what if the guy flirts back and all that but says he likes a different girl and that your his bestfriend

  • then he is probably trying to make you jealous or he's a player...

  • either not interested or clastrophobic

  • hey,i got 2 questions for you,1)If the girl already is in a relationship and looks at you when you are not looking and 2)we don't know each other but i know her name and like her but i bet she doesn't know my name,does that mean she's into me?or wat?I haven't made any moves on her.-.-"

  • dude you fukin super rock man i did it to a girl at school at the bus wow ur amazin thx for the listen

  • im 2 shy to talk to him that really sucks

  • i have a question...after knowing a girl for two years all of a sudden for two weeks or so she starts talking to me after i acted macho in a party could she be interested in me because she wouldnt leave me alone but now shes gone and after waching ur other videos i can say the window is open and i cant talk to her exactly now , sadly .what can i do?

  • dude U have been very helpful.. thankx man.... i am subscribing

  • wow u

    sounds like

    you know what your doing=P

    what if the person is rlly shy

    so he/or she pulls away

    cause i don't usually

    make eye contact with

    people, yet i'm not too

    shy

  • some guy bonked me on the head and called me stupid so i half-hit him and called him a jackass. not sure if that counts... what pisses me off is when a guy makes too much of it when i do that kind of stuff. is that a mixed signal?

  • what if i tell her and she says NO WAY!!!! like that, and i say im srrry and then she says why? i think its! cute dont say that!, does that mean she likes me?

  • U R FANTASIC!

  • Yo but what if i dont know her but i like her, and would like to find out if she likes me so i can approch how do i find out if she likes me?

  • Yea but what if a someone if a very good friend with the one he/she likes, that means the other person maybe enjoys being close to a friend and doesn't bother if hes/her friend is close to him/her. I mean, that maybe works on ppl who haven't been together for so long :)

  • I love you bro!<3

    No homo.

  • LOL groping, yea like anyone would do that to show they're interested.

    Good advice overall though. This guy understand it all.

  • Ok, I have a similar situation. I have a friend, who I've been friends with for about a year. I enjoy spending time with her, and, until recently, only saw her as a friend. I flirt with her, tease her, use body language, look in her eyes more, and I stopped talking about other girls. I noticed she's stopped talking about other guys. I feel scared to make a move, because I don't want to feel the sting of rejection. What do you think I should do? Because of this, we haven't talked in over a fewdys

  • bro you sound like your at a good level with her. The easiest and simplist move is to hug her and kiss her but if you are to shy work your way up by kissing her on the cheek. Youll build more confidence that way.

  • if you ask her out you have a chance, if u dont then u got no chance with her and she might feel that you are not interested in her and by knowing her for that long you have earned the right to ask her out.

  • @samiii I think you should go for it man. Call her up around dinner time and asks if she wants to get some food with you. Take her to a nice place and pay for the meal. Talk to her about her current relationships so she knows your intersed and make sure you say it in a future boyfriend manner, not a friend manner. Make some obvious "I like you" moves and see what happens. If she does the same, then you've got a GF. If she doesn't, then start talking to her like a friend so that you stay friends.

  • i personally think you should make a move. If you do and she takes the bait u landed a prize fish! If she doesn't at least you don't have to stand in line at a shop that will never open.

  • just make a move. Sometimes a kid needs a little push to find out. Trust me.

  • WOW. O.O I didn't really think guys worried about if a girl likes them. Like seriously, with me, I tell myself right away that there is no way that that guy will like me so why bother. I just don't say anything and then some more beautiful girl comes up and asks the guy out and he, of course because she is beautiful, says yes. =.=' i guess its nice to know guys worry too.

  • yeah, be confident, if you really like someone, drop some hints, you never know.

  • make the move man. she is waiting for you to make that move. right now you are doing the wrong thing by staying away! make the move or if you are weak then let your fears make you a loser! come on you have to ask her out and tell her what do you feel toward her! SHE IS WAITING!

  • just do it man. take the next step. you will regret it... its now or never, your AT THE APEX.

  • I think that the best way to go about it, is to make sure that she feels the same way, before you go making any brash decisions.

    Talk to her friends, ask them what she says about you to them. The likelihood is that, since you have been close friends for some time, it is unlikely that she will be able to see you in a sexually attractive way. The best way to go about it, would be for you to take her out somewhere, and simply show her how you feel.

  • ha ok i so now i know ethan likes me lolzz

    thxxxx ur the best =D

  • Oh this makes sense! Im a boy but like what he considers flirting i do with my girlmates unwittingly and thats why a few of them thought i was "leading them on" Whats funny is that if i like a girl i generally do the opposite and nothing happens!

  • ohh You're welcome!!

  • NICE TIPS MAN

  • i love ur accent! i hope u love my video response! (:

    -Chauntel

  • hey thanks for the advice i never thought about that.

  • man i have a problem i have u help me please :(((

  • dude, u dnt need to know whether i'm interesting in you: YOUR SOOO FREAKING HOT!! UR ACCENT PLUS UR LOOKS = SEX BOMB!!!

  • nice thats some good advice ill try it on this hot girl:p

  • holy crap. i love your accent ♥

    and amazing advice (:

  • this doesnt work on everyone tho, unfortunately

  • Of course, but then gain - there isn't one thing that works on everyone every time.

  • very true

  • dude you fucking rock!

  • ur cool!!!!!!!! thumbs up!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Arkasha, ti genii----a genius.

  • LOL...what a tip...rofl

  • damn man ur good, im trying that, thx 4 putting that out there bc all mii friends are telling meh 2 just ask him, but idk if that would come across as.... well stupid

  • very mature. and concise. i like

  • Brilliant, and with down to earth practical advice - keep up the good work arkady39!

  • cool.

  • Pulls away? What about shy people?

  • rofl this is totally true. eveyday on my 3rd period two girls are always sitting really close or standing really close to me,and i always take tiny steps away from them to get some space

  • Great Advice!

  • hey theres this girl at my work,but we hardly ever talk to each other,but every time i go to talk to her she blushes and it seems like she gets shy wen i talk to her,she always looks at the ground and stuff while im talking to her.i find that cute and i wud ask her out but if all that stuff means nothing or means something bad,then ill save the embaressment and rejection so i dont feel awkwid at work everyday lol so wot does that mean?u think she likes me or na?

  • simple but true!

  • my god lol that makes so much sense.

  • nice

  • best advice i've herd in my life!!=]]

  • Its so common sense, but yet no one knows this. You are brilliant. love how you just put it out there, plain and simple!

  • I LOVE YOUR VOICE!!!

  • wow...thanks so much

    I am a 8th grader trying to find our if this girl likes me

    Everyday between passing periods i go up and we poke each other than maybe a hug or 2 but i never can tell if she is just being nice or if she is interested

    btw you other videos helped so much.

    they gave me confidence and so tommorrow i am going to gather the courage up and ask her.We are friends afterall so lets see how it goes

  • ID rather have the girl come up to me that way she breaks the ice and says i really like u or ur soo cutee ha ha im confident but not that confidenttt im a shyy prick lol but then least im not a fuckin jerk off ass hole like some guys who abuse there gfs and i dont cheat on women thats a fact yeah ladies not all guys are prickss and to the other guys out there and cheat on there girls fuck youuu and die lol

  • thank you! i am a girl, and you peged it! much better then thouse other idiots.

  • Thanks!

  • this viedo is great! I asked a boy to teach me MAths and i teach him a different subject just to be in contact however I don't know if he is interested on me, he stared at me a lot but he pulls back in short distances, the funny thing is that I sometimes do the same when i am next to him

  • when you guys do math again, just say "you plus me minus the clothes equals multiplication"

  • Fuck.this guy ROCKS!thnx man.

  • well look women dont like guys thats how it is in the real life, men wher ment to be by them selfs ask a women she will tell you i hate men with all my hart i see it everwher school mall be single give up on the enamy wht women

  • Good stuff, thanks!

  • please please help. There's this really nice girl in my music class we talk often and she laughs at most of the stuff i say she pretends to hit me (is that a way of flirting??) and i gave her a hug once now she gives me hugs everytime i see her do you think its worth asking? please reply