Gail Dines Pornland How porn has hijacked Part 1

[nta214]

Modern pornography has already started having negative effects on young relationships, I read about it regularly in relationship discussion forums. All sorts of issues stemming from a boyfriend's or husband's habitual use of porn. Day after day I read heartbreaking stories that are the direct result of Internet porn's intrusion into our lives and relationships.

[lovemyselfforever86]

porn has ruined many things in society

[CognitionPrime]

I've mentioned this often, porn is an EFFECT not a CAUSE of the sexual deviance that occurs in modern society. Now, porn can further PERVERT an individuals perception and reaction to sex and women. To solve the issue of sexual abuse, rape, child trafficking, and the general sexual perversion in the world, you have to refer to the root of the problem: a disconnection from spirit. Sex is self-expression, intimacy, self-transcendence, it's a spiritual, creative act.

[dromycatcher]

I nodded my head when she said the arousal comes from the debasement of women, that is very true! Sex in porn is merely the tool to put women down.

[tronclay]

@dromycatcher So when i get horny from seeing a woman with nice breasts im a sick bastard who debases women? And when you see some fit guy that gets you hot youre what...? Being debased by him because he made you aroused? Sex feels good therefore we get aroused by the thought and images of it. Its not hard to understand. You are insulting and offensive to all men by saying that we ALL get aroused because of the "debasement" of women.

[dromycatcher]

@tronclay

we're talking about porn here, those are not neutral images of naked women and men. And if you're the type that feels more insulted as a man because you hear some sound criticism on porn instead of realizing who's really being offended in porn, you really have no respect.

[tronclay]

@dromycatcher "Sexually explicit pictures, writing, or other material whose primary purpose is to cause sexual arousal." It frankly does not matter what YOU see as pornography. Anything explicit and designed to arouse is pornography. So if you wear a low cut shirt with cleavage showing and send it to your boyfriend so he can enjoy you YOU just produced pornography.

[tronclay]

@dromycatcher Its sad that you cant understand how sexist and hypocritical YOU are. You feel that men cant be degraded or debased or dehumanized. Yeah i guess we are real people like women. I guess men have never degraded in films or anywhere else right? Its only a womens problem right? Who the hell are you to tell me I cant be offended by something just because in your simple mind its YOU who SHOULD be more offended? How can you even believe the bullshit you spew? Its ass backward and sexist.

[tronclay]

@dromycatcher You talk about "sound logic" but in the end all you have is your assumption of how ALL men on the planet feel. You believe in your not so bright little mind that ALL men get aroused at the debasement of women. Frankly if you believe that you are a moron. for anyone to think that they can judge EVERYONE of a particular sex is idiotic. Maybe this is where the real problem here stems, people like you thinking you know everything there is to know when you really know nothing.