you know youre full of shit lady, women r shallow to the point where if the "hot" guy is boring, they will come up with any bull shit , he wont marry the bitch but he'll still get the pussy, and if the dick is big, youre doing her a favor... better not say im wrong you fucking bimbo, just accept it, this is a womans perspective: if i cant show you off, if you cant make me orgasm, at least have some cash
you know youre full of shit lady, women r shallow to the point where if the "hot" guy is boring they themselves will come up with something, you may not have the girl for 6 months but youll still get the pussy, not to mention the big dick, if youre johnny is big no matter how much shit she talks, youre doing her a favor
@mazayme XD Way more nicer? 1. If you're a "pretty girl" then at least the "ugly girls" are even somewhat literate unlike you. 2. Looks have nothing to do with personality, it's just a stereotype.
After years of experience I have finally come to a conclusion’ it is not us who choices who we want to be with. It’s our selfish genes within us’ choices who it thinks is strong enough whether by physically of financially to produce and raise fit and healthy offspring to ensure the survival of our species.
Love only exists in the age of innocence’ what I mean by that is true love only happens once and it happens in the very beginning but once we reach certain age our greed will never let us fall in true love.
really good looking guys will get laid without having to say too much...seen that a million times. the other night, girl goes up to a guy at the bar... puts her arms around this guy's neck and says she wants to dance with him. End of the night they're making out. maybe she's a slut? well what girl isn't when the "right guy" has come along.
You don't tell things specifically enough to make them applyable.
For example: "Be more interesting!" - That could mean anything, it vague. I would find it more helpful if you would use verbs of specific actions ;-)
(You may look for "nonviolent communication" if you would like to understand me completely. Also, implementing this communication approach, especially in terms of empathy, into seduction arts - that wld be new challange!!)
AT the beginning of your video called, "(Part 1)3 Secrets About Approaching Women You Don't And Couldn't Possibly KNOW!", there is a cool song that has these words like this, "Its hard, but you cant feel. Its right but not so real. Its wrong but you want more. Let me know what you, want it for. Its good it for your soul......" Could you please tell me who sings this song with these words?
I'm a 35 year old male, never had a girlfriend in my life. I do have Aspergers Syndrome which is a social disorder. I worry that this will get in the way of me trying to find a partner.
What's the prospect for Aspies when it comes to dating. How many women would understand Aspies and be able to be in a relationship with one.
@x3SPYnosx im right behind u man, girls want a challenge and u can not be nice. that would be the thing you would want to do if u want to get rid of her
@x3SPYnosx I saw a movie with a smart guy wich had aspergers syndrome and he got a super hot girl. don`t worry to much about it and be honest about these but is you go to a girl and tell it from the first time you met her you might scare her off
Bullshit. Want to be successful with women? Be an asshole.
Women don't like nice guys because there's nothing for her to work on. They like assholes because all women like to fix problems and make him into a nice guy.
Yeah right, Bill Gates wife married him for his charm and personality,
having 50 billion dollars had nothing to do with it...
im pretty awkward, especially around women i find interesting. do you have any tips to overcome this? I always here be yourself, but I have trouble with this because I just am not myself when the pressure begins.
@JackDangles that's only if she's a good conversation herself. if she sucks and can't contribute anything to an intelligent conversation, then it won't matter, it'll be all about looks. a dumb girl would be intimidated by intelligent conversation. she'll just say "yeah, yeah, cool, cool, really? really?" etc.
I always tell guys be confident in yourself, love yourself. When you build from there you wont be intimidated by ANY Woman. And when you approach her, if she does reject you you won't even care because you can walk away secure in yourself, and will realize that SHE missed out on YOU and not the other way around.
In reality, a lot of Women pass on guys because they THINK they can do better. When years pass and they haven't, they do regret not giving you a chance.
are u a girl or a guy? and i dont really see any reason to be afraid of a girl. growin up i was pretty anti social but now im in college and im ok with meetin people. im very outgoing supposedly so i take peoples word for it. the way i see it everyone should just be themselves and be able to say wat they want when they want. cuz i sure as hell do.
Thats pretty much what you have to do to get an american woman..Women in usa love money more than any other woman in the country..You can find an asian woman that actually cares about the guy and not his money..
yeah , in asia she might care about a guy if she looks like shit , and she doesn't have a chance to get a rich one anyway ..I live in asia , and everyday see so many married couples , pretty ladies escorted by dog faced guys who trying to show money and social status by driving expensive cars .. in this part of world highest bid buys the chick
I think american women are worse at it though when it comes to a guy with money..Not all asian women go for money though but i understand what you're saying..LOL..You have some fine ass asian chicks that dont go for money..Depends how the parents raise the child..
Asia is Big ,I don't know for which country or culture you talk about , however in Thailand those chicks who wanna have foreign BF , 95% of them already slept with several dozens or even hundreds of men (and I mean good girls , not bar girls), and very likely keep doing it if opportunity arise without risk of getting caught by their BFs & husbands. Here, finding a decent ,loyal woman is like catching a lottery .Both, I haven't done, yet , but I like my chances better with lottery :-)
Boy! those Asian friends of yours really like those recessive traits. Ah well, for taste the colors ... do not forget their blond hair.
I am so happy to see that you have gotten over superficial things 1:20, 2:43.
You are very, very good ... but you will help us (and you) more if you even more sincere. Please, remember that many of us have been blessed with dominant, mix, rich, diverse genes.
that's the way it works,unfortunately. Women don't like to do first moves. Sometimes it does happen (happened to me a few times but i was really dumb then) but don't count on it. Women will respect you and feel attracted if you show that you go and get it. And it's not even conscious: women have this hardiwired into them
@psx2514 Why would anyone even bother trying to? American women are losers. They get the guy they want. And "the guy" eventually gets the divorce he wants LOL
She's giving us a European girl's perspective not an American girl's. European women are much more open to meeting new people than American women. American women always have this anti stranger shield up while European women and Europeans in general tend to be much more open and friendly than Americans.
it's not so much about being low confident and laid back, generally, like in conversation. its the approaching you need to do and then its fine even if your not confident. if you ask me its better, then it doesnt make the chick feel like shes competing with the guy, i speack from expirience. its alittle full on and it makes the meeting situation awkward. When you say low confident and laid back i think of calm and alittle reserved. as long as you don't mean hiding behind your fringe or hat!
becasue they don't want to come off desperate or cheap, or perhaps they rekon that the guy isnt that into them so they test it alittle ( guys always go in a second time if you get shot down the first - your more than likely to get a different response than the rejection you got the first time, no joke) agression is always key.
I'd like to know your definition of "interesting" conversation. Probably not the same thing Stephen Hawking would consider interesting, I'd bet. The problem arises when women fail to add anything to the conversation. Men get tired of running bs monologues to women who are devoid of thought.
i think when she says interesting she means comfortable, that it just flows and you can be yourself without feeling awkward, its nt really something you can practice. But never say mhmm in the middle of when shes talking ( it's commonly interprtd as mhmm shut up now...) lol and always respond after shes finished saying something, even if its just yea totally, or i get what your saying.
My point is that 'interesting' is subjective. I refuse anymore to let women dictate to me what makes for interesting conversation, because they may think that recent books she's read is a boring topic and that talking about American Idol is really interesting. That's my cue to move on.
like (my response) i dnt really watch it but the couple i did sit through, the judges were full of crap (not to mention that rat paula feeling all over that pr*ck simon made me sick - inapropriate (sp) for international tv- and the camera people showed it! alot) also, the singers all had little to no talent.
american idol is now too overplayed and out done that they should just keep it to a regular channel screening at a time like days in our lives (would'nt watch that if you paid me) see i just added a fair bit to the convo about how much i DON'T like american idol, very easy to do. and if shes worth anything will repect you difference of oppinion, unless shes a die hard fan?
its nt really abwt finding n intrestin topic, its abwt hw u word it n ur speach isnt all ovr the place - which leads to engaging, repeat engagin, thn interest cums. usually intrestin is learniu somthing you didn't know whether is about a fricken animal and how long they live etc or gossip about a person ( preferably a famous person as such, she prbly wudnt respect u fr talking shit about someone) remembr its all in the delivery, u cnt just blurt out the golopogas turtle live 4 mre than i 150 yrs
Like I wrote before, I know what's interesting to me (not necessarily Galapagos fauna) and I really don't allow women to impose their judgment on that. To many women, the most interesting topic (and the only one they really care about) is themselves. And you're absolutely correct that in all of these situations there is no connection, which means I need to move on. I was kind of lamenting the apparent lack of women who care about things other than pop culture.
You're probably correct. The downward trend in educational standards and social mores in this country indicates that I should probably look internationally to find quality people. Club girls, rednecks and hood rats just don't appeal to me at all.
..."i am gonna give u a clue...it is very obvious to me...and it something all u guys have...BUT a lot of u dont understand it and therefore dont use it to your advantage" ...could it possible be anything other than the ....
ok...i cant help posting this and it might be way off the topic but at 2:44 she has a really funny expression on her face....u should check it out.....
The girls who go to nightclub at friday night n have One night stands sometimes act like virgins when guys approach them in Daytime. They should respect the balls of the guy
Funny how you, one person, can know what every one based on gender likes.
Funny, right?
13andincrediblycut 1 year ago
you know youre full of shit lady, women r shallow to the point where if the "hot" guy is boring, they will come up with any bull shit , he wont marry the bitch but he'll still get the pussy, and if the dick is big, youre doing her a favor... better not say im wrong you fucking bimbo, just accept it, this is a womans perspective: if i cant show you off, if you cant make me orgasm, at least have some cash
Frenchwhore28 1 year ago
you know youre full of shit lady, women r shallow to the point where if the "hot" guy is boring they themselves will come up with something, you may not have the girl for 6 months but youll still get the pussy, not to mention the big dick, if youre johnny is big no matter how much shit she talks, youre doing her a favor
Frenchwhore28 1 year ago
Haha a japnese/ austrailian girl......SEXY!!!
MrBigmake 1 year ago
pretty girls are way more nicer then ugly girls..its a fact
mazayme 1 year ago
@mazayme XD Way more nicer? 1. If you're a "pretty girl" then at least the "ugly girls" are even somewhat literate unlike you. 2. Looks have nothing to do with personality, it's just a stereotype.
IrisGuitar 1 year ago
Thanks This help me a lot! Best tips on youtube!
ZinayH 1 year ago
After years of experience I have finally come to a conclusion’ it is not us who choices who we want to be with. It’s our selfish genes within us’ choices who it thinks is strong enough whether by physically of financially to produce and raise fit and healthy offspring to ensure the survival of our species.
MrShamshar 1 year ago
@MrShamshar hahaha the invention of lying
troyterry2445 1 year ago
Love only exists in the age of innocence’ what I mean by that is true love only happens once and it happens in the very beginning but once we reach certain age our greed will never let us fall in true love.
MrShamshar 1 year ago
"Be confident". Wow. What a secret. I'm glad I didn't pay for that...
AngryPenguin27 1 year ago 2
really good looking guys will get laid without having to say too much...seen that a million times. the other night, girl goes up to a guy at the bar... puts her arms around this guy's neck and says she wants to dance with him. End of the night they're making out. maybe she's a slut? well what girl isn't when the "right guy" has come along.
whowantstogetnaked 1 year ago
blackmailing people to take surveys! SHAME ON YOU GIRL
PowerRedBull 1 year ago
i wonder
are this thoughts yours or read?
plum413 1 year ago
Hey girl!
Nice vids really BUT there is just one problem:
You don't tell things specifically enough to make them applyable.
For example: "Be more interesting!" - That could mean anything, it vague. I would find it more helpful if you would use verbs of specific actions ;-)
(You may look for "nonviolent communication" if you would like to understand me completely. Also, implementing this communication approach, especially in terms of empathy, into seduction arts - that wld be new challange!!)
brasilove 1 year ago
It looks like we just came out of the closet together...
JesseJohn420 1 year ago
Hello.
AT the beginning of your video called, "(Part 1)3 Secrets About Approaching Women You Don't And Couldn't Possibly KNOW!", there is a cool song that has these words like this, "Its hard, but you cant feel. Its right but not so real. Its wrong but you want more. Let me know what you, want it for. Its good it for your soul......" Could you please tell me who sings this song with these words?
yeihezzel1 1 year ago
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Mary555100 1 year ago
Oh, by the way, you look like a substantial woman (which I cannot resist)!
bloodandbones9 1 year ago
Wow, you have sexy eyes, a hot nose and incredible lips and luxurious hair!
bloodandbones9 1 year ago
I'm a 35 year old male, never had a girlfriend in my life. I do have Aspergers Syndrome which is a social disorder. I worry that this will get in the way of me trying to find a partner.
What's the prospect for Aspies when it comes to dating. How many women would understand Aspies and be able to be in a relationship with one.
x3SPYnosx 1 year ago
@x3SPYnosx im right behind u man, girls want a challenge and u can not be nice. that would be the thing you would want to do if u want to get rid of her
smilely0090 1 year ago
@x3SPYnosx I saw a movie with a smart guy wich had aspergers syndrome and he got a super hot girl. don`t worry to much about it and be honest about these but is you go to a girl and tell it from the first time you met her you might scare her off
Zoomzet 1 year ago
Bullshit. Want to be successful with women? Be an asshole.
Women don't like nice guys because there's nothing for her to work on. They like assholes because all women like to fix problems and make him into a nice guy.
Yeah right, Bill Gates wife married him for his charm and personality,
having 50 billion dollars had nothing to do with it...
wartarot 1 year ago
I can't make sense of this through that thick Chinese accent!
Willyboy933 1 year ago 2
im pretty awkward, especially around women i find interesting. do you have any tips to overcome this? I always here be yourself, but I have trouble with this because I just am not myself when the pressure begins.
MrCoolio0760 1 year ago
It' called being a good conversationalist. If you suck at conversation women will not like you no matter how good you look.
JackDangles 2 years ago 4
@JackDangles that's only if she's a good conversation herself. if she sucks and can't contribute anything to an intelligent conversation, then it won't matter, it'll be all about looks. a dumb girl would be intimidated by intelligent conversation. she'll just say "yeah, yeah, cool, cool, really? really?" etc.
GlobalDating 1 year ago
lol a girl giving advice on how to get chics? fail. wat a girl says and wat she wants is 2 completely different things.
exsymphony 2 years ago 25
@exsymphony
Damn right.
I always tell guys be confident in yourself, love yourself. When you build from there you wont be intimidated by ANY Woman. And when you approach her, if she does reject you you won't even care because you can walk away secure in yourself, and will realize that SHE missed out on YOU and not the other way around.
In reality, a lot of Women pass on guys because they THINK they can do better. When years pass and they haven't, they do regret not giving you a chance.
AllPro777 2 years ago
are u a girl or a guy? and i dont really see any reason to be afraid of a girl. growin up i was pretty anti social but now im in college and im ok with meetin people. im very outgoing supposedly so i take peoples word for it. the way i see it everyone should just be themselves and be able to say wat they want when they want. cuz i sure as hell do.
exsymphony 2 years ago
@exsymphony stupid, getting advice from a girls point of view is actually more beneficial to a guy in someways,
Mannypacquia0 1 year ago
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ur cute i bet i can get u =1 cool vid
lesslove12 2 years ago
This advice is pure gold.
SirHappyThe1st 2 years ago
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Shut up bitch...
Chesterfield8 2 years ago
Blah Blah Blah! take off your top, that's what guys want.
Xatruch702 2 years ago 3
lol, that's what I'm saying!
edwardtilburycom 2 years ago
all the girls i like are dating all the jocks
superneep 2 years ago
Jocks? are you in high school or something?
hatersfate2 2 years ago
asian women are pretty dull..the best way to pick up an asian girl is show her your wallet full of cash and CCs, and she's yours
ytertyu 2 years ago
thats with any women
hatersfate2 2 years ago
Thats pretty much what you have to do to get an american woman..Women in usa love money more than any other woman in the country..You can find an asian woman that actually cares about the guy and not his money..
89powerup 2 years ago
yeah , in asia she might care about a guy if she looks like shit , and she doesn't have a chance to get a rich one anyway ..I live in asia , and everyday see so many married couples , pretty ladies escorted by dog faced guys who trying to show money and social status by driving expensive cars .. in this part of world highest bid buys the chick
ytertyu 2 years ago
I think american women are worse at it though when it comes to a guy with money..Not all asian women go for money though but i understand what you're saying..LOL..You have some fine ass asian chicks that dont go for money..Depends how the parents raise the child..
89powerup 2 years ago
Asia is Big ,I don't know for which country or culture you talk about , however in Thailand those chicks who wanna have foreign BF , 95% of them already slept with several dozens or even hundreds of men (and I mean good girls , not bar girls), and very likely keep doing it if opportunity arise without risk of getting caught by their BFs & husbands. Here, finding a decent ,loyal woman is like catching a lottery .Both, I haven't done, yet , but I like my chances better with lottery :-)
ytertyu 2 years ago
a pretty face soo far from me.... oh.... :)*
nemsonhas 2 years ago
Boy! those Asian friends of yours really like those recessive traits. Ah well, for taste the colors ... do not forget their blond hair.
I am so happy to see that you have gotten over superficial things 1:20, 2:43.
You are very, very good ... but you will help us (and you) more if you even more sincere. Please, remember that many of us have been blessed with dominant, mix, rich, diverse genes.
Great work!
ElSoloMar 2 years ago
What song is this? At the start.
Imag3z77 2 years ago
U cut ur hair...
logician3 2 years ago
Whats with woman thinkin that men should do EVERYTHING.. Men should do this and that.. act this way.. that way.. say this.. dont say that.. WTF?
cobht 2 years ago 2
its the way life is men are meant to be in controll, dont like it get a sex change. lol
fireinyoursoul 2 years ago
that's the way it works,unfortunately. Women don't like to do first moves. Sometimes it does happen (happened to me a few times but i was really dumb then) but don't count on it. Women will respect you and feel attracted if you show that you go and get it. And it's not even conscious: women have this hardiwired into them
luigiperso 2 years ago
hardiwired = hardwired, lol
luigiperso 2 years ago
Anyways, American women are some of the most difficult women in the world to pick up.
psx2514 2 years ago 18
@psx2514 : That's why foreign girls come easy to us ;)
chinoichiro 1 year ago
@psx2514 Just give them a double cheeseburger. Problem solved.
greyman2099 1 year ago
@psx2514 not lol
UnitTheWorld 1 year ago
@UnitTheWorld not what?
psx2514 1 year ago
@psx2514 Why would anyone even bother trying to? American women are losers. They get the guy they want. And "the guy" eventually gets the divorce he wants LOL
puppetmasterblaster 1 year ago
this girl is talking shit.
sabdow 1 year ago
@sabdow actually she is right
ahmadzai6 1 year ago
@psx2514 Here's some good advice for ya:
Avoid western women, go to Russia, Cen. America, S. America, or SE Asia.
Those places have our ideal woman.
ApollosInsight 1 year ago
She's giving us a European girl's perspective not an American girl's. European women are much more open to meeting new people than American women. American women always have this anti stranger shield up while European women and Europeans in general tend to be much more open and friendly than Americans.
psx2514 2 years ago
She might me Australian or from New Zealand actually. I can't quite pick up on the accent.
psx2514 2 years ago
Australian and Kiwi gals are the worst of the lot. Try Chile.
kahlschlag17 2 years ago 2
Or Japanese.
Best women on the planet, and I've met them all.
SpeedingStudent 2 years ago
Definately Australian
bukkake2007 2 years ago
its an Australian accent
elmaflora85 2 years ago
i appreciate a female insight. get it from the source.
visionfree123 2 years ago
lol,...all these rules & regs what to and not to do.:-)))
you know what,just be yourself!!!!.
theres a lot of women who like confident guys,but beware!!!,one can be (overconfident),that for sure puts a lot of women off!.
there,s on the other hand a lot of women who like the more shyer type of guys.
its as with everything in life, A PURE MATTER OF TASTE. :-)
goodolt70s 2 years ago
it's not so much about being low confident and laid back, generally, like in conversation. its the approaching you need to do and then its fine even if your not confident. if you ask me its better, then it doesnt make the chick feel like shes competing with the guy, i speack from expirience. its alittle full on and it makes the meeting situation awkward. When you say low confident and laid back i think of calm and alittle reserved. as long as you don't mean hiding behind your fringe or hat!
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
becasue they don't want to come off desperate or cheap, or perhaps they rekon that the guy isnt that into them so they test it alittle ( guys always go in a second time if you get shot down the first - your more than likely to get a different response than the rejection you got the first time, no joke) agression is always key.
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
im rick james
GodTube 2 years ago
umm,... worlds blah blah alb (smack) blah blah blah words words.. (smack).... you smack too much O.o
Crittijr 3 years ago
the secret to women: rock out with your cock out!
batchmister1 3 years ago
how come a sexy man has to have blue eyes. How come they can't be slanted eyes.
batchmister1 3 years ago
I'd like to know your definition of "interesting" conversation. Probably not the same thing Stephen Hawking would consider interesting, I'd bet. The problem arises when women fail to add anything to the conversation. Men get tired of running bs monologues to women who are devoid of thought.
radio187 3 years ago 2
i think when she says interesting she means comfortable, that it just flows and you can be yourself without feeling awkward, its nt really something you can practice. But never say mhmm in the middle of when shes talking ( it's commonly interprtd as mhmm shut up now...) lol and always respond after shes finished saying something, even if its just yea totally, or i get what your saying.
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
My point is that 'interesting' is subjective. I refuse anymore to let women dictate to me what makes for interesting conversation, because they may think that recent books she's read is a boring topic and that talking about American Idol is really interesting. That's my cue to move on.
radio187 2 years ago 2
you could look at that in two ways,
1. a good chance to teach her and share what YOU find interesting
or
2. your just not a good match
its not like you couldn't atleast force out a response to her bringing up the subject of american idol.
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
like (my response) i dnt really watch it but the couple i did sit through, the judges were full of crap (not to mention that rat paula feeling all over that pr*ck simon made me sick - inapropriate (sp) for international tv- and the camera people showed it! alot) also, the singers all had little to no talent.
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
american idol is now too overplayed and out done that they should just keep it to a regular channel screening at a time like days in our lives (would'nt watch that if you paid me) see i just added a fair bit to the convo about how much i DON'T like american idol, very easy to do. and if shes worth anything will repect you difference of oppinion, unless shes a die hard fan?
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
its nt really abwt finding n intrestin topic, its abwt hw u word it n ur speach isnt all ovr the place - which leads to engaging, repeat engagin, thn interest cums. usually intrestin is learniu somthing you didn't know whether is about a fricken animal and how long they live etc or gossip about a person ( preferably a famous person as such, she prbly wudnt respect u fr talking shit about someone) remembr its all in the delivery, u cnt just blurt out the golopogas turtle live 4 mre than i 150 yrs
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
Like I wrote before, I know what's interesting to me (not necessarily Galapagos fauna) and I really don't allow women to impose their judgment on that. To many women, the most interesting topic (and the only one they really care about) is themselves. And you're absolutely correct that in all of these situations there is no connection, which means I need to move on. I was kind of lamenting the apparent lack of women who care about things other than pop culture.
radio187 2 years ago 3
could it be the type of women you go for?
or
perhaps your in the wrong damn country
THICKsmartnPRETTY 2 years ago
You're probably correct. The downward trend in educational standards and social mores in this country indicates that I should probably look internationally to find quality people. Club girls, rednecks and hood rats just don't appeal to me at all.
radio187 2 years ago 3
Hey radio187, same here mate.
kahlschlag17 2 years ago
..."i am gonna give u a clue...it is very obvious to me...and it something all u guys have...BUT a lot of u dont understand it and therefore dont use it to your advantage" ...could it possible be anything other than the ....
Hasssleholm 3 years ago
yes you are talking about the tongue :D
jraybay 3 years ago
ok...i cant help posting this and it might be way off the topic but at 2:44 she has a really funny expression on her face....u should check it out.....
Hasssleholm 3 years ago
Interesting tips. Thanks for sharing :)
Velvet4Gin 3 years ago
The girls who go to nightclub at friday night n have One night stands sometimes act like virgins when guys approach them in Daytime. They should respect the balls of the guy
PositivePractice 3 years ago