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  • Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..........­...

  • I like your video

  • did anyone else not feel comfortable getting flirting tips for someone who dresses/looks like that ^ -_-

  • the guy i like is sort of an outgoing person, and i want to be that kind of person so i joined my school wrestling team and they have helped me to open up a little bit, but it seems like even when i do talk to him he doesn't really notice or pay attention to me as much as anyone else. is it because he might just not be interested in me at all, or do you think he is just pretending not to notice me so he could sort of hide how he feels about me whether it be good, bad, or neutral??

  • @angierenee97 Try talking with him somewhere where there's no one else around, that way you'll be the center of his attention. The best way to know if he likes you is to give him a kiss on the cheek and see what his reaction is, but be cautious when deciding whether or not you'll try it.

  • I don't usually smile, and I don't know what to do with my hands and face when i see my crush lol that's so low

  • Y'all need to cool it! If you don't like it, then click the dislike button. You don't need to be jerks to her just because you don't understand.

  • Hahahaha @ taking romance advice from this robot

  • yea like this "hottie" would know how to flirt!

  • Flirting tips for shy girls : Stop being shy.

  • @kattowitz4 I try .. But its hard! I just am a shy person. You telling someone to not be shy it like trying to change their personality. I AM SHY. Thats just a part of me. it might suck but yanno what? Ill get through it. I'm working on it...

  • BORNING !!

  • um you suck. you didn't give ANY real tips. you just rambled the whole time.

    you said to be flirty in a subtle way. but didn't give examples. I had no idea what you meant.

  • @xHearterx Hey dude. Chill. You don't need to be so rude about it. If you don't like it then click the dislike button. You don't need to go off at this lady just because you aren't picking anything up.

  • @OneToughLittleCookie all she did is say the most typical crap that anyone cna obiviously think of... srsly.... and its called constructive criticism, i didnt rant or anything.

  • @xHearterx Ok, well constructive criticism is fine but you shouldn't be goin around saying people suck just because you don't like the advice they're giving.

  • @OneToughLittleCookie the problem is she didnt give ANY advice, lol, and this stupid video isnt really worth my time to argue about...

    hahah what's wrong with your youtube name? "onetoughlittlecookie" lolololol!

  • @xHearterx Oh yeah, way to be so immature, go after my name cuz you don't have anything else to make fun of. Good job of making yourself look so pathetic(: I'm done with this conversation. Have a nice day(: -P.S. if you write back, no matter what you say, I dont plan on writing back. Now, have a nice day(:

  • @bianca122341 it might jus be a friend thing... i have a guy friend (who's straight, lol) and i hug him, he sleeps over, we hold hands and he tickles me a bunch... (this sounds likt friends with benifits lol... but its not) i know thats kinda rare, but maybe he's jus like that.:P and irony, he's a year younger, lol

  • @eHow PLEASE HELP I need to know if this guy likes me. We talk all day in school. He gave me his jacket we laugh hit and hug each other. But he asked another girl out right in front of me. SHOULD I TELL HIMPLEASE HELP I need to know if this guy likes me. We talk all day in school. He gave me his jacket we laugh hit and hug each other. But he asked another girl out right in front of me. SHOULD I TELL HIM

  • I'm not shy when I'm around people. But when it comes to that one person I really like, I get shy and can't bring out my inner craziness. Its weird haha... around my friends i can be funny and make everyone laugh. But I get quiet when im around him. And i've noticed he's really shy too. Should I make the first move, or wait until I notice he likes me too?

  • if flirting makes u nervous focus instead on being "friendly". The best way to be friendly w/a guy is to ask him open ended questions about himself.

  • I`m shy too but I`m working on it :) I`m not that shy when it comes to meet new friends but when it comes to boys I just blow away, i can`t say anything, and i feel like it`s super awkward to say anything to a guy because i feel it`s gonna be wrong or something :) but i guess i`m not the only girl that feels that way...maybe....o.o

  • im so shy i dont think i give the guy hints..i kind of avoid them because im scared that they might hate the way i look or something....anyone got any advice? O.O

  • im only shy till i start getting comfortable with talking to them after a couple of minutes,im not shy to flirt but i cant keep a straight face LOL

  • more guys should like girls persality's and not just their looks im like this and a lot of my friends are really nice and stuff but guys only care about looks ... :(

  • @iovitaavelina guys like sluts??..... really since when?

  • It drives me crazy

  • I'm not gonna lie but the way I see it, the only girls a guy will go for are the slutty ones, or the real stupid ones, and they only do so because they're beautiful to look at and easy to lay. I don't care what anyone says, but of the boys I've seen, personality could mean shit just as long as she looked fairly attractive, would be willing to suck balls, and is seen at every party. I know not all men are like that, but the ones I've seen are. I don't know why I always end up liking boys that go

  • The advice is well and good, but you didn't give any examples as to HOW it should be executed.

  • thanks for the info!!!!!

  • Best advice for women if you want to ''keep him''..be fair financially on dates..men hate gold diggers and entitled princesses...and wind up disillusioned which leads them to become ''players''We all know women hate being played for sex..so dont encourage it..show him that you are fair and he may stick around..remember men are easy to get but hard to keep

  • Get fun with beautiful Asian women *lushfmlk.info*

  • i consider myself shy on occasion. it depends on the situation though. i'm 18 and i only had 1 bf for 3 weeks. im crazy with my friends, crazy with certain people even i dont know you that well. even so its like im afraid to show my personality and fear rejection. right now i think this boy likes me but im unsure. im not really into him but im just curious how do u know?

  • This guy in my orchestra class plays the bass and I tried playing it and he grabbed my hands and helped me... does that mean he likes me?

  • um ok well im a guy and i dont think that would work

  • i'm a guy(born august 1995) and there's a girl(born august 1996) in my class,I like her,we are sort of friends, we talk some now and then but that's it,around most people in my class she doesn't act shy at all but around me she sometimes does, also she hugs most of the boys, but not me,can it be she likes me,or do you think she doesn't like me at all or what,and do you have any tips for me because i'm also a little shy.

    if you want more info,I'll answer as long as it's not too personal.

  • @maxdolfijntje that same thing hapend to me but im way yunger than you im 10 and shes 10 her birthday was in oct but i moved befor i culd tell her i like her it make me sad i cant see her any more

  • @maxdolfijntje Nope She Likes U! If She Does That 2 Every1 But U, Then She Like su! It Could Be That She Feels Uncomfortable Around U. U Make Her Really Nervous. If U Talk 2 Her Alot And Touch Her, Like A Little Friendly Shove Ot Tap, She Will Feel Less Nervous Around U

  • @maxdolfijntje that's a tricky one, sometimes when people are shy they give away nervous energy which can make the other person nervous around them (I'm writing out of my own experiences LOL)BUT that doesn't necessarily mean that this person is romantically interested in you BUT on the other hand this girl that you mentioned might as well like you

  • this lady seems like she'd rather be home sleeping

  • do you have sex with your clients?

  • i need help, i dont know why but when i see that guy i like in school i suddently switch from a good, quiet girl to a rebel (tomboy) he gives me mixed signals, also i am veryyyyy shy! and he's propably shy too, i never spoke to him in my life but i feel theres something in the air please help, would be much appriciated.

  • @kupczanka well, you could use the tomboy attitude to your advantage and just talk to him in a somewhat nonchalant way. If he is shy, it might take a couple times for him to get comfortable and reciprocate, so expect that he won't know how to respond at first.

    Too many people use the motto "Never try, never fail" in their lives. ;)

  • I can't look at her face anymore. This chick is just gross.

  • Does she have any video advice for men?

  • @Tyler9137 go to wing girls youtube channel, their channel is dedicated to dating advice for the boys :)

  • i've been told by a few guys that i'm shy.

    But once you actually get to know me, i'm really not.

  • I can agree with her that we have to take risks, even if it means we get rejected but still...that's easier said than done....

    I think for us shy ppl, we're so cautious about letting our own feelings get hurt, cuz we're sensitive like that, that's alot of us are introverts.

  • I'm really shy but when i warm up to people i can be outgoing it's just most of the boys in my class ( One class per grade only 6 boys!) They much prefer slutty girls and I can tell you right now I'm anything but slutty I just dunno what to do about it!

  • @theblueyedsunshine lmao guys don't prefer slutty girls, guys only care about whether a girl is attractive or not. To most guys, it's much better if a girl isn't slutty and attractive. The consequence of being attractive though is usually that the girl gets more guys, and becomes a slut...

  • always be myself? i dont think that'd get me with anyone. exspecially when i cant talk when im next to someone i like.

  • i used to be bullied alot and didnt really get many friends until closer to 10th and 11th grade of highschool. I maybe dated twice [?] but i dunno im really shy and im the person that you wouldnt notice in your class. Im the person who never talks if im not with my group of friends.. The friends i have are uber outgoing and all guys. Everone says im cute and pretty... if its true, why am i usually ignored?

  • i like shy pplz o.o

  • Im shy, but i try to break out of my shell often:D

  • i like this video and i find it useful. 2 b yourself. . .

  • ya im shy ._.

  • Utf5658

    That is sooo true

    People tell me I'm hot/pretty all the time and when i look in the mirror I'm like hmmm

    I've been shy all my life, and people see that as "weird", thus finding something to b mean to me about because they don't understand me. Very very cruel things have been said to me during grade school, not so much in college, and it has really affected my personality ;(

  • Shy girls are awesome.

  • weeeeeeeeeeee im shy.

  • im actually very shy and you wont believe how much i hate it! i want to be flirty and talkative, but all through elementary and middle school, ppl made me feel very ugly . ppl say that i turned very pretty when i got a lil older and i cant believe those comments because i dont see how it could be true. when i talk to ppl i feel like im bothering them with my ugliness and annoyance, but ppl tell me its all just really in my head. it sux being shy because ur constantly ovr thinking about evrything

  • @UTF5658 I know I really get you girl I am so shy to and I just hate it shyness don't let me make my dreams and be who I really am

  • @UTF5658 Story of my life...

  • @UTF5658

    I don't think your shy, but instead self-conscious simply because you tend to over think what people think about you. Trust me, I have the same problem since I am sometimes considered shy in my high school because my mind goes blank when I have a conversation with a girl. That and my self-conscious state cause me to act and feel nervous, which results in me not saying anything simply because I don't want to screw up.

  • @UTF5658

    My advice to you is to gain confidence by believing the positive compliments that were given to you. Overcome your situation by believing that you are beautiful no matter what. In the past I used to tend to believe that I was fat therefore I would work out everyday and eat healthily. It wasn't true that I was fat but the belief that I was had led me into becoming a more slimmer ab-defined guy. These days I still feel that I'm fat regardless of how many people tell me otherwise.

  • @UTF5658

    Overcome your self-conscious situation with confidence and determination.

  • @UTF5658 the thing that i do is to not care about my thoughts i know sounds ridiculous but i just said to myself "i dont give a damn" and i started laughing and havin fun with people i havnt been closed to in awhile :) just remember not to overdo it and by That i mean the Obvious stuff lol just be yourself :) dont worry!!

  • @UTF5658 It actually sounds like you have OCD or Social Anxiety Disorder.

    I have OCD, and I get alot of the same thoughts because it's my obbsession. (OCD is when the mind gets stuck on a certain thought or idea, and you get another idea that if you do something, it'll help.)

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  • @UTF5658 I'm also very shy...but I like myself and I know that I'm just as good as everyone else. Before you worry about the shyness too much, take some time just for you and really, really learn to like yourself - from the inside out. Feeling good about yourself will help you with the shyness and confidence. Good luck!

  • @cheerleadersarenoobs "What do you think?" LOL I think guys are always avoiding questions too! I would ask him something & he'd be like "What do you think?" haha just play the game like he does(:

  • ok im like very shyy and i cant be myself until i get use to them and all IM NOT UGLY but im not hot or watever eitherr..and i was just wondering like do all guys just care about looks..... but yea im not ugly or hot its like cute u know but yea is that all guys care about?

  • @broadcast185 Oh, ditto sister, and other cocky guys make fun of them and make asses of themselves.

  • ummm... could u answer this... k so this guy i realllllllyyy like is on my bus and him and i ushually only glimpse at 1 another from time to time. his seat is always empty but im afriad to sit next to him. what should i do?

  • you should sit next to him.and if your really that shy then sit near to him,and wait for the perfect timing to talk. to him. like if he's listening to his ipod and you like the band then talk about it.If it's a crappy bus then say damn this bus is really crappy huh? and it will surely start a great conversation. Good luck! :)

  • da only thing is that my friends are like do u like him ( B** ) And i said "No" and now he thinks im not intested what should i do now?!

  • Well I think you should still try to talk to him. That actually happened to me too. I liked this guy that I was too nervous to talk to for 2 years. One day, I finally got up the courage to talk to him. Then, one of my friends asked me if I liked anyone and my crush was watching/listening. I got nervous because I noticed that, and said 'No'. He looked at me when I said that, and after that walked off. Today we're really close and he's forgotten about it. So I think you shouldn't worry so much.

  • ASK him if you can sit next to him :)

    you migt even get a conversation going!

    If you're not comfertable with that, I have another tip.

    When your eyes meet again, try to just

    SMILE.

    It really really really works! trust me! please try!

  • umm you should take a chance and go for it it's 90 precent chance for tht he likes it. btw i'm a boy

  • @JemmStudioGirls dam i think u should go or wht i do best....is bump into him and say sorry, and then start a conversation lol

  • Why don't you just moon a full gymnasium/class while someone is giving a speech.. that way you can FLIRT with EVERYONE at once. Don't forget to wash your ass first..

  • Guys don't understand more quiet ways.

  • In actuallity this is an alright video

  • wow be yourself thanks for the advice becuase no one here couldve figured that one out

  • goddd whyyyyy

  • I'm shy and I show my thoughts w/ my eyes. I never said one word to this guy in my class, all I did was smile and look at him. Sure enough he came up to me and said you like me dont you?

  • @LoveSenseDimension I would love to do that too. But the problem is that I'm to shy to look someone in the eyes. I can't even look my friends in the eyes... =S Any tips how to become more confident?

  • @ClaudiaTiella Ive been shy all my life but for me my shyness at first was geared to thinking people didn’t like me or that whenever I talked I would be judged. But if people judge you who cares they are only just bored with their own lives, the way I see it is to never insult someone for the way they act because as long as their happy then they have a good life. My suggestion is to get a job such as retail or anything with customer relations & it will improve your confidence, it worked for me

  • @LoveSenseDimension

    does he like u back?

  • @LoveSenseDimension that's so cute. i used to be shy, i wish i'd tried that then!

  • @LoveSenseDimension then what happened?

  • @LoveSenseDimension Im not shy, but when I flirt, I usually just ask a guy about himself, and maybe hold eye contact more then usual. Let them do the talking and listen. Seems to work for me.

  • @LoveSenseDimension if ire him id probley be cinduv creeped out and i wouldent get that you liked me for like a week lol

  • @LoveSenseDimension

    lol that sounds really cocky of that guy xD

    anyway I think its good if you can speak with our eyes, I believe I can to.. Not always positive however

  • good video well its true....too bad im not shy and ill go far in flirting and i rlly didnt need to watch this its still good

  • I'm trying to know if this guy likes me. We've known each other for about three years and now we've both grown up and have gotten quite flirty with each other. I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me too. The age gap puts me off a little bit, because I'm seventeen and he's fifteen.

  • well first off he prolly likes you too else he wouldn't be flirting now would he? I don't think age is that important if it's not a problem for you it's prolly not a problem for him either, some boys actually preferr older girls just as girls do.

  • Not to burst your bubble... but guys are programed to be the alpha male... and age does have importance when it comes to hierarchy.

  • who the hell cares about hierarchy? loves more important than status. fuck the system.

  • *hug*

  • Old Fart > . >

  • no help here for me, im a boy

  • Thanks for nothing as usual ehow.

  • I resent a lot of these comments. Shy people aren't boring people. Being shy is just like . . . carrying a shield. Just because we're slightly withdrawn, doesn't mean that behind our shields we aren't normal people with individual thoughts, beliefs and opinions. It might be more difficult for our personalities to show through, but that doesn't mean they don't exist.

    The shield metaphor was a little cheesy, but still, when a shy person warms to you, it would be just like dating any other person.

  • EXCELLENT COMMENT

  • what if he doesn' t like ur personality?

  • Then you forget him and find someone who does.

  • i want to flirt with this one guy in high school,but the year just started,were both freshmen and he is always around two or three other guys so i feel shy to just walk up to him and say hello or start a coversation with him somone please give me some help oh and i have never dated anyone before i dont know if he has or not.

  • This is a late response but if you want my thoughts.I have the same problem and I know what you mean but i found that buying a cookie helped hehe im really shy and all i said was i hate this cookie you want it and he smiled and well thats how it started..so find a way to ease your way in trust me there are a lot of things you can do..right now though i have a crush on one of my friends...if it doesnt work out with this guy i say you look for what is in front of you..you might just have something

  • this is coming from a guy who has flirted (and been flirted with) since grade six. what you want to do is NOT stalk him or follow him, and start by saying hi when you walk past. then, find out where his locker is or where he eats or something and strike up a conversation.

  • and when that worked for a while nd u started hugging each other constantly but then all of a sudden it kinda stopped nd then there was vacation nd we dnt rly talk tht much anymore but im still around those places... what now?

  • Who says that dating means any kind of risks ? I would say that dating a shy girl would not be the best choice....but two shy people together would fit all right. They both would find their ways and that is that...Love between shy ones..GeorgeRocky

  • Two shy people is a bad idea because that relationship would be boring for both people. Someone who isnt shy can help a shy person come out of their shell

  • how do you flirt with an older 42yr old black women? thats the most challenging

  • wow im like giving u a lot of advice. im not really sure... maybe ask if hes flirting with you? im srry i really dont know on this 1

  • haha not all perfect guys are fictional u just gotta look hard and give it time take me for example im a perfect guy lookin for a perfect girl but in the city i live in thats really rare to find a perfect girl and it sux lol

  • you should go to paris

  • What tips do you have for shy guys? What body language will a woman use to let you know if she likes you and what language will she use to let you know to kiss her?

  • i can help you there(: ok. tell me bout the girl first.. is she a girlfriend? a friend? a random person? trust me. its important to know

  • a friend. For someone who doesn't know what are the things that the ladies do? Please email me in private. Thanks

  • no i wanna see the rest!!

  • heres a opinion shanti0889 from a guy. Instead of being goofy why dont you be funny but not make a fool of yourself, Im sure you would rather have him laughing with you that at you. And for the approaching part look real good one day and kinda hang around him and if he doesnt see how beautifull you are than one hes blind or 2 gay or 3 too scared and if hes too scared just say hi and he will probably be stunned this chick is talking to him or somethin and it will go from there :P

  • I'm not fictional . . .

  • hahahhahahahhahahahha good one, icecold

  • This is a good video xxxx

  • I'm a very shy person when it comes to flirting. I'm not shy when I'm with friends. I'm actually the goofy type that like to make people laugh! but when it comes to relationships and actually talking to guys I like, I get so nervous! I like a guy right nnow and I tried to get his attention but he never noticed me. how do you think i should approach him and not seem shy and show a little of my goofy personality?

  • omy gosh, i am the same way. normally with my friends and all, i'm the bold one who speaks her mind but when it comes to being around my crush the times i see him i totally freeze up and feel so shy. it feels so helpless. i wish i had th ecourage to ask him if he likes me.

  • REALLY, I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!! Is there any help for us?? i wonder lol!

  • omg i'm sorry but i am exactly the same. i'm so comfortable around friends but around guy's i freeze up and never know what to say!

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  • the problem is in my school I like this guy that is popular. I'm not popular so what do I do???? HELP!!

  • be who you are, be a wholesome girl for the real guys that are good for you don't date a guy who doesn't care about others, don't base your relationship off sex

    from a guy to you

  • thANK you

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