He LOVES You...He LUVS You Not (Loft XVA 32)

[jelisatyler]

ewwww this guy is gay!,wish i didnt watch this video!

[Sydwazi20]

Hi, I llove your honesty . But, that is so true keep on doing what u love to do.

[MizzDivineGenius]

Did anyone tell you that you favor Ludacris? Lol I swear you look like you could be be his younger brother :-)

[lindalovesmusic1]

You are amazing! I really got so much out of this! Thank you so much for this. I'm glad I stayed home on a Sat. night.

[pinkorangesoda]

aww damn ur gay..ur too cute =p

[vmach100]

i love this video yuhh really knoww the truth and because of this video i see maybe hes not the one...thank yuhh so much

[marielise86]

its so bad cuz u can like just one time ... but i like like like like like like like like X100000000000 :))

[Bherny11]

That's hot;)I wonder what Cris Crocker thiks about your videos:)?

[AngelFace4ever90]

I agree with what u say in this video, this was a good video. :)

[TheProductofsociety]

I just got out of a 6 month relationship and honestly I needed to hear this, you really know your stuff.Thank you.

[sweetsuzy120]

wow! thank you for your honest advice. Keep up the good work!

[veevee2013]

This Vid really spoke to me thank you xem' <3

[MegaUnknownable]

NICE !!

[myowndon]

Man your all confuse

[myowndon]

Your all confused

[cloverthepoet]

@myowndon Um..but I bet we can spell you're. We're not that confused.

[chidancer86]

hey thissss is the video I was talkin about that helped me move on and your sooooooo on point with this everything you said happen to me thank u

[morethanadyme]

Hey Xemmy. This video is old but it really touch me. I am crying right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend last mnt on the 15th. We would have been 2getta 2 years nxt month I lie 2 u not, I just said that he dnt luv me this morning 2 myself. Watchin this video really made me realize that. U have made me happier than ever because I am in a relationship already n it dawn on me just now that I dnt need to stay stuck on sumone who does luv me n just move on w/ my life. THX SO MUCH XEMMY BEAR

[Sallyakerti]

I just found out this vid by watching some one else vid.

OMG! This vid have really waked up me & thats the fact your amazing.Thank you so much

Subscribed.

[juniortubex]

I only discovered your videos today. I must say I like watchin you. I agree with everything you said but what really got me...."just because you're in love with someone doesn't mean you should be with them. I've been with someone on and off for more than four years. I love him to death and he loves me but....something is broken.

[Ollelinda]

i cried the first time i watched this but it made me realize i must let it go...thank you so much for this video:) helped me alot

[erinnjay]

CAN I ASK U A SERIOUS QUESTION ..........DO U HAVE A MAN cause I have been with the guy I am with for 2 years and I am a 29 year old gay man and I don't do all of these things and we are still together so do u have a Man ??????? That is the million dollar question......

[careennewyork]

OMG u just read my story u speeking the truth i really feel this !!!!!!!!!!

[cultfanatic09]

damn u just open my eyes man

[12233344445555512]

That was deep.........I just started watching your videos one after another and wow am I amazed......u are by far the most influental person I have ever heard. I don't even know what to say.....and that's saying something because I'm a Sagittarius and we like to talk,but this video........I am dumbfounded......great work.

[sawmrc]

omj you are a dream come ture i pray 2 god that i find some one like when the time comes

[blackmalebme]

SAY THAT, SAY THAT my bruh....Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance

[helluvaluva]

OMG...You better tell it boi...I love it!

[tyramano]

wow...........................­.

[nellie99]

Thank-You so much! I needed to hear this.

[MBP1908]

This avice was sooo helpful... keep doin thning boo, ur a beautiful and powerful speaker,

[EclecticTones]

beautiful advice.

[SixtyCentNinetyFour]

Not sure if you realize this, Xem, but you are very, VERY inspiring..

[chrissy15crawford]

"Tribes and tribulation"???...Idk what that mean but that shit sound good tho-Red Man!

[mybro727]

i thank god for X3M, Love you, Greg-

[johnnieboyupt504]

I Like 2 think It's a Potonic Love!

[ciel222]

I love this video, I love the message, Keep it up, you are doing great thing in the gay community.

[xMxYxSxTxIxKxAxLx]

hes cute

[Jbunnyrabbit]

I LOVED IT. I NEEDED THIS TOO, cus I'm breaking up with my boyfriend in 2 days. I know, WHY 2 days right? His grandmother just passed away so I gotta wait till the funerals over.

[SavetheDream]

WOW, thank you.

[colorina1980]

Awesome video! 5*

[jumperbumperr]

very wicked. you know it's so funny...you've got 100% preachers retoric. but a different slant-needless 2 say. ur anointed, basically :P kudos!

[brandon7623]

u should write poetry

[stormmiza]

wat song is playing in the beginning of this video

[Jynefur]

kid cudi - day n nite

[Daphya]

Your skin is fabulous.

[i3allplaya]

as much as I love what you said...

men are men...a man only loves himself

[ososexy24]

ALL I HAVE 2 SAY IS THANKS!!!! WOW.

[leomorr85]

mybaby loves me and he is not asham of me or his family and my family luv's him

[JojoCrazyCat]

"Im not supose to be with some1 just bcuz im in love with him".... thats rly the words that i needed right now

[darkcocoOTA]

This was a great message!

[tymurren5]

when u talked about the x being present that is so damn tru..i never got over or can get over...im sorry but i.v truly been in love but i have to tell u with 12 sis and bro's,nephews and neices im sorry but im the last one 2 remember some1'z b-day..now after a few years yes it comes nat afta that long but anything shorter then a year or 2 im sorry...

[justjayok]

Boy... you is ON IT! Favorited..

[KidKlassic91]

(c) the ending song was veery hot ! what is the name of it ?

[ssstarrr]

Colin Munroe ft. Drake - Cannonball very hot track!!

[KidKlassic91]

(b) before though. Now things have changed a little but I think if I don't find out why I love this person or why they love me I have to figure something out. Also there have been things I think that I have also done to show that i might not love them. At the same time, there were things that do give signs that they might. I donno i think I need time.I agree 100% @ 7:23 I've been in that situation with my ex 2 years ago.

[KidKlassic91]

(a) WOW -- I felt very grounded when i was listening. I feel like I do love someone but I think hearing you out gave me a new view. I think I felt like I love the person but I did not know WHY ! which already gave me reason to think that the feeling i have is just from being constantly involved with the person. Some of the things you said reffering what i should not have been doing to question if the person love you or not were things I've done. I've wondered about things, more in the past than

[carrington45]

Young man you have a good head on your shoulders. You bring hope to the younger generation. Preach to your younger brethren

[BklynScholar34]

Your words are true. The essence of true love is not in mere words, though it's good to hear it at times, but through demonstrative actions. A person's visible acts of love, speaker louder than any audible articulation of the words "I love you" from them.

[hotboiuofm]

I agree. Although I am not in love, I have taken some of your words into my heart.

[hazeleyez8618]

That was deep...and so true..well spoken

[MamiAri17]

damn boy prech im feeling what u say you spoke the truth. damn you is sexy

[Justyn309]

REAL TALK BOO BOO! REAL TALK! Speak on it and to me! I feel EXXXXAAACCTTTLLLY where you are coming from boo boo.

[jronn76]

TRUTH!!!!! WOW, SO MUCH TRUTH!

[MIMIC2468]

Wow, u look like Ludacris. :P LOL

[desih17]

That is deep

[pryncejustan]

very educated! i love it!

[ceeweezey]

awesome video 5 starz please do the same 4 me thanks

[caramel2dabone]

ThaTz RiGht Xem-SaY It!

[sensualbeauty4life]

preach dammit,preach!!!

[MonroviaLIB]

speak da real!

[yungblacknfamous]

Great message, its making me think about my own situation..

[SonnyBoyz773]

Wow.. this is powerful

[bdt1619]

OK, I'm really loving you!

[Pebblies01]

Share the trueth, I live for it. Onces again you have stated what I have been tell my Family. Much Love to you.

[JUDGEWRIGHT]

There you go again. You are decades ahead of your time!

[HouseOfRainbow]

Have you consider Motivational Speaking roles?, I enjoy listening to you and what you have to say. Thanks again, your fan, Rev Jide Macaulay

[itsoscarYO]

I love the way you express your message! AMazing video, man.

[APPLESUGARSUGAR]

WOW!!! You speaking the truth! Thank Goodness for my good man.

[tennislover08]

Why are you speaking my life right now...I hope to one day experience this kind of live in a man :( tear

[MyDestiny007]

Preach my brother, preach!!!!

[debruceter]

they are diffrent levels of love some 1 would love u but not give 100 percent into you

[Sykes4lyfe]

Say it! yes preach it!.. Teach it! do you mind it I post this?

[00Treyy00]

I LIKE THIS ONE!

[RootsRunDeeep]

JUST what i need to hear-thank u brotha

[damon8707]

feel the same way

[stlblkmn]

So true & Very well expressed

[onlyoneofme7]

Awe :) Get it boooo!!!!!

[chicrealness]

wow well put xem i hope that a certain ex of mine has reveiwed this video and it set into his spirt like it has mine ((very powerful)) -chic realness

[Tubular814]

EXACTLY.

[chocolatedreadz]

u r speaking the truth!!!

[dramadupree]

YES... PREACH... SH*T I LOVE IT

[iSTaRbeO]

Very Good Video. Keep up the Work Xem.

GoD bLesS.

[hconforces1922]

whooooooo. felt it so forreal. mad me feel different.

[bat232000]

deep message makes me feel like i need to step up

[csupernature]

Real talk, I love it.

[csupernature]

I had to come back & favorite this one.

[taviusjr]

This message was right on time...I soooo needed those words. Thank you bro.

[KHryssoreal]

I had to put this on myspace page....REAl...one word...

[poet19]

Very well put i totally agree with what u was saying

[spfxeyes]

This is the best of your work yet!You never cease to amaze me!

[prettyboi61]

What is the title of the song playing at the end of Xem's video?

[parrishrturner]

Speak the truth! Just because you love them doesn't mean you belong to them. Don't stay in a relationship just to say I have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend.

You're one of my Original inspirations Xem. Happy New Years and God Bless.

Peace,

Parrish

[Bety3ny]

Xem as always you are a breath of fresh air. Have a happy New Year.

[Sanginknight11]

Yay Xem, I missed you over the break..lol, but I thank you for your words...welcome back! This was a very special message for me.

[rascalloco]

powerfull words. i will share this message with my friend this is something he needs to hear.

[RossclartRETROGRADE]

100% true as usual :]

[Ariana0923]

Your amazing I love you

[scotw2]

I was really feeling the message in this video, man. Good work!

P.S.

I'm loving the new intro.

[mjk0386]

OMG Speak this truth, XEM! OMG this is true , true, true! I LOVE IT OMG! When a man loves you . . . . . WOW it hit home fa real. THANK YOU!

[holyandannointed]

this was well needed

love it, and agree with it, it will stick with me for the rest of my life, that one statement you said

"just because you are in love with someone doesn't mean you are suppose to be with that someone"

that will stick with me

thank you for your words of wisdom

[melancholyguy]

God, this is so TRUE.

[luzbryson]

You took me to church! Amen

[BlueBajan]

i'm glad you posted this video...this is what I have to tell friends all of the time

[alonzolerone]

LOVE IT

[abercromboict]

"just because you are in love with somene, doesnt mean that you are suppose to be with that someone"

[retroe09]

OMg!!!!!! U R THE TRUTH!!!!! THIS IS WAY I SUPPORT AND SUBCRIBE TO EVERYTHING YOU DO...U R DESTIND 4 GREATNESS AND U R GOING STRAIGHT TO THE TOP..SEE YOU THERE...GOD BLESS U AND ALL THAT YOU DO

[denthia]

your a great speaker

[Candi305]

THANKS FOR THAT! :)

[ISoLoveLondon]

AMEN!

[brownkat33574]

Thanks right Xem. The truth is bond bro.

[ChocolateSmooth]

"just b/c ur in love wit sum1, doesnt mean that ur suppose to b wit that sum1" I listened to every word you said, but that phrase is the phrase that caught me. It was like from all that has happend to me ova my christmas break, a light blub wit off. I jus got it all of a sudden. Thank you Mr. Adams for being the great person that you are:D much love

[BRESLINE]

Oh Xem you betta talk about it. You already know that you speak the truth.

[rkglave]

Xem, you are the Harriet Tubman of this time. This is a telling truth spoken so bravely. You are a Vanguard and a Maverick. This piece is one of Critical Acclaim. Wow. Thank You.

[upenzi]

lawd have mercy...i love you!! LOL

you have me sitting here sayin 'amen' 'well' 'hmm'. we have the same views on love and how it should be reciprocated between a couple. this was absolutely perfect!!

[foxxywoxxy]

You are telling the truth! Happy New Year!

[CoreyLove00]

Exposing the *LIGHT* is so luminous to our Soulz:) Thanx 4 da sharing!

[tdottle246]

damn i wish me and u were in a relationship because u want the same things as me x

[deshawn18]

right on my brother!!!

u r always on point

[nine110]

Some people are in relationships that should have only lasted for a "season." Not 2-5 years of "unhealthy" living. Loving someone with integrity is difficult for some. Learning 2 be indepedent of your relationship and standing on your own helps in your self worth and identity. It's not a crime 2 be single, but dangerous 2 be desperate. Surround yourself with people that enrich your life.

[DwayneSophistique]

OMG XemVanAdams Thank You So Much For That Message. This Message Has Really Opened My Eyes!!

[latrece81]

church!!!!! this is the truth. got chills as you were speakin'.

speak on it...yes yes.

will be sending this to everybody i know.

5*'s and fav.

[K7J7P2]

mmm mmm mmm...AINT IT DA TRUTH!!!

[derrickrobertson]

Thank you Xem ... you are giving me life in this video!!!!! ... this is all so true ... the one question is will we ever learn to practice what is presented here ...

[RedSyren]

This was a wonderful way to start out the new year. I hope that everyone will take to what you are sayin and use it. Layin the foundation.

[Adyinbreed]

Man i felt like i was at church! Can i get an AMEN!!!

[sfcalvinaz]

This was superb. And let it also be said, even soulmates are not necessarily supposed to be together.

Thanks for all you do. Much appreciated.

Calvin

Phoenix AZ

[tim2469]

preach...lawd preach.....whew was you in my got dayum mind....hum...whew....praise him ...

[zoshisama]

Happy New Year! Hit the ground running. Speak the truth!

[H3ADY1313]

AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

[Roobin08]

spoken truly and I love it!

[dreamerlover4u]

man you are doing your thing on youtube keep it up and i hope to see a lot more from you

[midnightmlk]

simply brilliant

[jeriel789]

welcome back xem lol

[sarkazzII]

omg!!! you betta preeeccchh!

[XemVanAdams]

In the Video...LOL...I MEANT TO SAY, 'When a Man Loves You, He will Put YOUR NEEDS Before His Own.'

To be 100% Honest, with EVERYTHING I HAVE to do daily; filming, digitizing, blogging, posting, promoting and replying to YouTube, MySpace, Blog, FaceBook and Email Messages, I simply did NOT feel like ReRecording or ReEditing the Footage.

PLEASE UNDERSTAND...

Thankyou for Watching and Supporting The Journey.