Keeping a Conversation Flowing - Dating Advice from Top Pick up Artist

[MeetWomenOnline]

Great tips man!

[youfun7777]

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[ComedianNicky]

you're video is very crappy!!!! i think u should take ur shirt and show me ur chest please and forget about the dating advice!!! =))))

[ToxicCupcake1]

this btw is the best converstation advice ive ever been given

this just might change my life.

[ToxicCupcake1]

really really good, thanks alot. Mean it<3

[Fjerid]

Best advice in one minute, ever.

[HugoGoulding]

SQUIRREL AIDS !

[greycloud24]

good advise. making a statement and than asking a question allows her to feedback your statement as it applies to her life. in a way you are qualifying yourself and than asking her to qualify to you.

i wouldn't use this method myself unless i am in the qualifying phase and already have a couple IOI's. its easy to get IOI's and you can usually get the first two in the first 30 seconds.

[MrStein10]

best advice in 1 min 14 secs

[AagiiOogiii]

very clear and useful, thanks

[cocowut]

Soooo seeexxxxxy

[300MUSIC]

i wanna learn to talk like you :)

[assbanditio]

I bet this character gets to second-base 80% of the time... every single time.

Oh yeah!!!

[MathLessonsForFree]

When you started, did you do it all alone or with other guys?

[123bathinapes]

That'll help me

thanks

[garradkins]

nice ty

[knoyyn]

its hard to understand because of the traffic -.-

[spiderjack7]

awsome tips

[melki348]

thx for the tip

5/5

[Jonotinker]

Spot on man!

No-one wants to be interrogated, its like being raped of information.

[youngb1ood]

yea man.... raped of information - the best way of describing interrogation

[1md21]

INNIIITT

[jtking2504]

@Jonotinker, a conversation takes 2. What stops you asking them a question to get the conversation flowing? It's only an 'interrogation' if you site back and give them nothing.

[Christopherziegler]

After the approach the conversation is one of the most important things, in my oppinion. He uses a great method, but in sales-course its called bonding (You know)

Ask her normal things as a starter, so she can see that you are interested in her - like "How are you, how old, where from. etc"

Then go to the statement-question building, then go to personal questions, then phone-close and walk away, she will find you later and SHE will make the kiss-close

(For bar set only) replies please

[Ladykiller0711]

Reply ? Here u go: She knows you're interested from the moment you approach (may vary depending on the approach you choose). Sure, if your approach is asking the way, then yeah, in the beginning she won't be aware of it, but as you keep talking and talk about different subjects you should just both be interested in each other. Your way isn't half bad, but it isn't half good either. ;-) If it was, there would be no need for this video.

[Ladykiller0711]

Thumb down is not from me btw.

[caithead]

I love how this channel is sexually ambiguous. It's handy for both men and women. : )

[Paperb0y112]

tru, guys are not the only ones that need to know this stuff.

[jashy1990]

the idea that this guy is the 3rd best pua in the world is a joke. Aside from mystery and style. There is also matador, lovedrop, j-dog etc that are far better than this guy. But he's still okay.

[misterbumbles1]

adam lyons is a genius.

mystery, matador, lovedrop, jdog are just marketing conmen. and the pickup artist tv show was fake. mystery's book was good. thats it.

[rocksuperstarnyc]

ok jashy its obvious you are talking rubbish....Id like to see you in a top hat with make up all peacocked LOL

[visionimagify]

I like Adam and Lovesystems stuff. Puts it all in perspective and built more around Daygame in my opinion. Mystery, mata, j-dog, style and lovedrop would be better in a club type of situation.

[brocklanders1984]

you haven't seen this guy in action (I have!). Mystery and style and all of those guys rate him so I'm not sure how you're qualified to argue otherwise. Who the fuck are you?

[xjih78]

there is another way. if you took a salesman's course you'd know there are personal questions which are too personal and questions like "do you like beer?" and stuff like that...

[SirRob7]

i saw exactly what i did wrong last night from this :D thanks

[zhukaching]

helps me alot, thanks man

[19zxcvbnm19]

too bad he wasn't attacked by a pack of angry squirrels

[CamoranSWG]

I think I'm understanding the idea of having interesting conversation like you would with a friend. I'm just not entirely sure of what kind of stories we can tell. I'm the kind of guy who stays inside a lot so I don't see a lot of interesting things happen outside. What things can I talk about to have interesting conversation?

[rgrbaw95]

Then get out of the house and go do stuff. Live life and make your own stories!

[InsanityManifest]

Projects you are working on.

Interesting books you've read.

Movies.

Television.

Doesn't matter, point is that you are talking. As long as you are animated and passionate you can pull it off.

I had a 56 minute conversation with a chick about movies. I mentioned I was writing a screenplay, and asked her what movies she was into. It was like clockwork from there. We passed in and out of movie convo, talking about leading actors. Eventually I got her to tell me what kind of men she was into. Easy

[zzsharka]

You can talk about something interesting on the news or current affair, esp related to people/celebrities or relationships,as the majority of women talk more about people, "celebs" feelings, relationships, health, psychology, spirituality, philosophy etc also listen very carefully to what she says & talk about something related to it eg she says she went to france, listen to her properly & then tell her anything that relates to any of what she says & ask her what she enjoyed in france etc

[ljohnson79]

this guy reminds me of the geico gecko somehow

but he makes great points I hate being interrogated by ppl for their lack of convo skills

[colacocala]

lol at the red guy behind ya masturbating on birds

[dreamerboyinnyc]

nice

[dreamerboyinnyc]

nice

[jhottie07]

dont worry about that one thing girls like to do is talk about themselves the people around them and their experience you dont have to force them to tell you about themseleves eventually youll build enough comfort with her and she will tell you about herself just listen youll hear alot more I's and me's later into the conversation

you can control the conversation easily make her fit into your frame

[Bobzeaux]

This has nothing to do with avoiding awkward silences.

[jhottie07]

It has everything to do with avoiding awkward silences. What he is doing is multi-threading and doing it gives you more topics to discuss which minimizes awkward silences. Everyone asks a question to stop silences but this way is a lot better.

[Bobzeaux]

Then he needs to SAY that. All I get from this vid is a different conversation technique while the topic of awkward silences is only inferred then ignored. He doesn't say that the question-answer technique is what causes awkward silences.  What happens if you're talking like he is and silences comes about anyway? :P

[jhottie07]

Its hard to explain w/o basic PUA knowlege silence interview U: so how was your day other: fine silence again bad com. ques. AFCAL: THe greatest thing happened to me today how was yours btw other: okay blah blah so what happened AFCAL: well *tells story* no silence talk about stuff the you barely talked about she says she likes horses, then talk about Clydesdale, then Budweiser, then funny drunk stories if you run out of things to talk about go back and talk about other horses, SHIFT get it

[Bobzeaux]

So the only way to keep a conversation going is to continue talking about yourself, which is supposed to be a big social no-no?

[jhottie07]

NO how did you come up with that I'll give you an example after she asks how was your day me: well I was going to my job interview so I get in the taxi and the taxi driver has a Pomeranian puppy in the first street her: r u serious me: yeah and did you notice how many girls are carrying that type of dog especially famous people her: her I know linsey lohan has one me: shes supposed to be in rehab her: she got out again (silense) me: yeah it reminds me of celebrity rehab w/ dr drew clear enough

[jhottie07]

NO how did you get that ex. she asks how your day was me: well I was going into a meeting so I got in a cab and the driver had Pomeranian puppy in the front seat her:no way me: yeah is it just me or does every female celebrity have one her: I think linsday lohan has 1 me: isn't she in jail her: no shes in rehab *she stops talking* me: it reminds me of the show celebrity rehab with dr. drew talk about one topic then shift talk about another shift if you hit complete silence do what he does clear

[Bobzeaux]

Perfectly clear, but it's still not refuting the idea of keeping the focus of the conversation on yourself when everyone says you're supposed to keep it on HER.

[dreamerboyinnyc]

awesome thanks!

[mildseven2006]

Good tip, thanks.