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  • This song stirs up some of the worst memories in my heart. :/ 

  • She says it's another call from 'home' ... assuming she's the 'other' woman.

  • This song is touching, and tragic. I see how many women could relate, BUT no woman should EVER settle for being second best. No woman should ever knowingly be the other woman. Talk about some bad karma. Discuss it once with him, and tell him to call when he's finished with his current relationship. If it's meant to be, he'll leave her and you will connect. A woman that sleeps with someone else's husband deserves it back a thousand times over, and she will get it eventually.

  • I remember this song was just a song that I loved...now it means so much more.

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  • What a beautiful minimalist video.

  • This song is really about my life. Earl Pykett, I love you! Patricia doesn't deserve you or treat you right. She's a drunk & a smoke-aholic, you don't need that in your life. I will treat you right. Come to me, I'm waiting....

  • It was told from the wifes point of view, because her husband left her for another girl. It's also about jeniffer nettles because when this song came out she had just gone through her divorce I'm pretty sure.

  • CAN ANYONE ANSWER THIS FOR MEEEEEEEEEEEEE: Is this told from the point of view of the woman being cheated on or the pov on the woman who is doing the cheating?! Because I think it fits for both?

  • @leonajonasx3 i was told that its from the husbands mistress, not actually the wife, but i agree it could be both

  • @leonajonasx3 she is the girlfriend who wants the man who is married and he keeps promising her he is going to leave his wife for her but doesn't

  • WOW definitely amazing, and Bittersweet :'(

  • Amazing, powerful music!

  • Why do people have to comment rude and mean things on good songs like this? Please take it somewhere else there's no need for that on here.

  • This is very intense! WOW!! <3

  • This is amazing, i know that look on her face, I've had it there before...the first time i saw this video...and even now I cried like a baby. Plus you can't put any more real emotion into her face, into this song and the simplicity of this music video. I love it.

  • Sing it baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Music videos today are all glam, glitter, and special effects...but when you watch something like this, it's a reminder of how simple a video can be that will reach into your chest and pull all of your heart strings. The raw emotion and simplisity of this video is absolutly amazing. My heart aches for her in this, but at the same time, the beauty makes it shine. This video is truely bitter-sweet.

  • brought me to tears the first time i listened to it. she's amazing

  • This song make's me cry!!!!

  • Anthony,please stay.

  • try only gettin a visit from the man u have always held dear in ur heart for a 10 pm booty call every night becuz he had school and work was the late excuse. and while ur entangled in each others arms and ur thinkin this is it he really does love me the way i love him only to look up and see his phone light up and the one calling is the bitch who stole him from u in the 1st place.

  • I dedicate this song to my husband, Maybe one of these days I will mean more to him than big tits and an easy lay. It's easy to think someone is great when you know nothing about them.

  • It is really hard to feel sympathy for woman like that. I know you cant help who you love, but she knew he was married and still got involved...

  • @Hawkeyes551 well in real life it was her husband that cheated on her shr wrote the song from the other womans perspective made a ton o money and he didnt get any soooo...

  • Many years ago this song fit my life. Especially the part where she says "You keep telling me that there will come a time when you will leave her arms and forever be in mine"

  • Oh how I love this video!

  • That guitarist has beautiful eyes.

  • i love your song it made me cry its good fucked song i love you

  • I have ended up in this situation before and this song helped me so much during that situation!

  • "... the next time we'll be here, seems like a million years and I think I'm dying ..." It's just beautiful ... Thank you for posting.

  • this is the second time ive come back to listening to this 100 times because i ended up in this situation.

  • I feel like bitch slapping that douche bag.

  • Being a Real Man , This song makes me want to hunt down the bastard and ......well u nget the point. One of the best videos I have ever seen.

  • Hi this is the bwst

  • this song goes for me n my first husband

  • damn I love this song

    

  • People she was going through a divorce when this song first came out hence the tears. But also a true truth artist can put their heart and sole into every song they write so all i'm saying is even if that weren't the case she is an amazing singer and i'm sure she'd cry anyway so the listener would feel the pain and sadness.

  • @carrielovingfan why is she putting the bottom of her shoe into it? Maybe if she put her 'soul' into it, that'd be better.

  • @jphilipgardner7 piss off alright? kthaxbi

  • @jphilipgardner7 And maybe if you could read right i said sole not shoe so yeah get your eye sight checked

  • @carrielovingfan thats what @jphilipgardner7 was saying. a "sole" is the "bottom of a shoe." you meant "soul..." so no need to be rude it was actually you that was wrong. but i do agree with your comment.

  • @littlemaryhiggins I know I was wrong I know I spelled it wrong people don't need to be rude and point it out to me. And okay

  • We have all been here...hurts like hell...what hurts us makes us stronger.  ~Sabrina

  • love this song soooo much ?????

  • I usually do not like video this simple. I like the for the video to follow the song, but when you look into her eyes and hear pain in her voice....it is all I need.

  • 15 years I had to decide I was not second best@34years old I lived it I got a phone call every morning ,stop by on his way home from work,come visit when she was out,stayed when she was out of town,run to his car to take her calls I had become so used to this life ,but I was not see anyone else I wasted time some of the best lessons are learned the hardest!

  • i hate love when the person you give your heart to doesnt feel the same and goes behind you and cheats...one of the most terrible feelings in the world is betrayal..i love this song though i play it over an over it hits me right where he did an makes me stronger..

  • I'm so glad my life isn't this anymore. ^

    

  • No one needs to read this. I just need to vent.

    There's a guy I've loved for over a year, but I've never let him know I like him as anything other than a friend. I didn't know how, and I figured it was better he never knew. The what ifs are killing me, but I can't tell a man with a girlfriend that I am in love with him. Even if it's a long distance relationship he's in.

  • @homeschoolveggie You can tell him. I told my Fiancee that I was in love with him 2 days after he got with his girlfriend 3 years ago, we have only been together for 8 months BUT that is because he and this other girl were having a baby he wanted to stay with her for the baby's sake It didnt work between them I told him I still feel the same way and now we are together. In order for you to truely recover you have to tell him how you feel He might not feel the same way but you told him how u feel

  • I tell ye this song kills me, i wished i was that strong but I cant let her go and all she causes is pain and the problem is its my wife i guess how i feel is between this and easton corbins I just cant love you back. because i love her to death and can't see myself with anyone else and i guess she walked out along time ago she just stays around cause im not strong enough to throw her out and i guess to watch me cry but i can see throwing away 11 years of your life like its nothing

  • Seeing her cry makes me want to cry. Real emotion and such a good song. I can relate to this and she says it clearly!

  • Everytime I heard this song....it makes me cry. Touches really close to home and to the heart

  • powerful song... this came out as i was going through a divorce.. and can relate to it.. 

  • 10 likes and I'll sing this to my ex fiance who took my innocence, put a ring on my finger for 11 months, and than reveals he cheated with a different girl every night. ): </3

  • @LizzyxLust Honestly, I dont know you but your ex DOESNT deserve you. There is a man for everyone. "Men arent worth your tears, and the one who is, WONT make you cry" my mom used to say that to me, I went througuh ALOT of relationships and when I met my Fiancee, he is the only man who has not made me cry, we have been engaged for 8 months. You deserve someone who is going to tell you that you are beautiful and be totally Faithful to you :) Keep your head held high. That man will come someday

  • @wilekels903 thank you so much. That really means alot. :) and congratulation to you and your fiance. (:

  • @LizzyxLust Um he doesn't deserve to even be blessed with you're presence again let alone.

  • @LizzyxLust lol... u are lame.. get over it

  • @jordanjayz23 typical guy you are. goodluck in life being an asshole dear. (:

  • @LizzyxLust Save yourself the dignity and move on. a) there's no way he could have slept with a different girl every night - that's one hell of an exaggeration. b) you couldn't, better put, shouldn't, want him to stay to begin with. Kick his memory to the curb and find someone better

  • She can ride my mustache any day

  • I WOULD WATE FOR HER I LOVE HER

  • i saw this on music choice and was Amazed on how emotional this is, i even started crying! this is beautiful (:

  • did this realy happen?

  • This is probably one of the most "real" songs I've heard in my life. It's so emotional and the lyrics are genius.

  • They need to keep their politics out of their music business. I will not buy their records or listen to them after they played at the Obama fund raiser a few years ago. I was greatly disappointed in them.

  • the directors of this video decided for her to cry was great for the video and so they decided to keep it and you can see and feel the true emotion in this song thumbs up if you thing she is amazing and the guy who put her aside is sooooooooooooooo stupid for that

  • this song is y life story basically tired of begging for someone to stay when they think someone else is better then me and i am always left waiting for him to come to me

  • man this reminds me of my ex boyfriend we dated then cheated on me we dated cheated dated cheated man im stuped to think he would change and he still has not changed all he wants in this world is sex 

  • the way every music video should be. no make-up. no silly people dancing in the back ground. just pure raw emotion. <3

  • epic performance and a greatly written song

  • I happened upon this Video,clcking channels...I saw this Woman Crying, and I'm thinking "What can I do to help you?" My goodness, as was stated pure raw emotion. She HAD to live this.If this Song/Video don't move you, you have no Soul.

  • i love him.. but he loves her :( .

  • well, all i can say is that this is one powerful message...i have been on both sides of this scenario, and as a male i can tell you it sux for us too...i cried the first time i watched this vid because i really felt for the girl she was personifying...it's a double edged sword that cuts both ways without care....what say the rest of you all...anyone else gone through this type of thing?please let us all know how you feel.

    cheers,

    carl

  • @roadskare63 I've been on both sides... my first fiancee left me after we had plans.. were engaged.. a 2 month and 3 days befor the wedding for his ex he had been seeing and sleeping with while i was planning the wedding. I've been the other women, unknowingly at first but by the time i knew my heart wa their's... I've been cheated on more times then i care to think about and all i can say is that... i'm done. To love or not to love is no longer a question. There is no heart left.

  • @roadskare63 and.. i should also state.. EVERY Fiance I've had was seeing anouther women as well.. I've only had ONE honest man in my life that wasn't with anouther woman and I had one that wanted an open relationship so that he could have us both... I've chosen to be single and alone because I can't take the heartache anymore.

  • this song explains just how i feel about my ex boyfriend and if i could sing then i would definitely sing this to him i wish he was put in my place so he knows the pain im in </3

  • aww i just wanna give her a hug

  • @lovejumprope4 I know right! :)

  • God, it's like the other person just acts like you don't exist anymore, even after a wedding dress still hanging in the closet, plans made, and they're gone, just as he is..hurts to know I loved someone so much, and I was thrown out like yesterdays trash. 4 years wasted on nothing but lies and deceit, but it's so easy for him to move on?? Why can't they hurt the same way??

  • @icblueyez its ok it happend to me to we were supposed to get married but that all changed wen that little stick said pregnate I HATE THE CONDUM COMPANY

  • @icblueyez cause it don't work that way tears still fall and a weddin dress still hangs from ten years ago while the chick he is with is ten years younger will always hurt but you know have fun i was already trained now someone else gets the loyal fruits of my labor lol

  • Re: Misssluttypants, try it being married.

  • Staring at the clock on the waaaaaaaaall

  • man the worst part is when you put to the side... and a memory of another girl is put before you. when you mean less to him then a memory... makes you want to cut your heart out!

  • @13crazybug13 yeah try havin kids to a man that hates your guts

  • i love this video i had a boyfriend that i would have died for but he just caught me gone and packed everything that he had up and took off the next day i caught him with this other girl that broke my heart i dont think ill ever forgive him for this. but in my heart ill love him forever.

  • I love this song and it makes me cry everytime!

  • wow you can see the pain in her eyes. she had to have went through this to touch the inner spirit of someone living during such a hard time. i love this song. pure raw emotion.

  • @misssluttypants84 Actually, Jennifer wrote this for a different view on Reba's "Whoever's in New England". Jennifer never actually went through something like that, but she knew it was something everyone can relate to.

  • @misssluttypants84 - She was going thru a divorce at the time this video was made and it really touched home for her. They tried to stop filming so that she could compose herself but she refused to stop.

  • damn that is the worst pain to endure...loving someone that is with someone else, yet they are begging you to wait for them. and there you sit and wait...and before you know it, years has went by, and you are still the side chick. it hurts like hell and i refuse to live like that.

  • @misssluttypants84 y u still waiting stupid

  • @mempin65 Do you think things like this are logical? If only they were...

  • @mempin65

    ahahha hilarious i literally loled

  • @joycakeboss thanks i thought out that for a couple of hours b4 i posted

  • @misssluttypants84 i can tell by your name you won't agree, but that's karma for trying to come between a relationship like that in the first place not to mention why even want a guy like that in first place

  • @broken87mirror Actually you are judging me simply by name. Guess what? My name is actually a joke. It wa meant to be smarty pants, but my friend typed in slutty pants, so it stuck. And actually I do agree with you.

  • @misssluttypants84 Did you ever consider that it might be your attitude that causes you to attract the kind of men who treat women badly? I have a feeling that the same thought process that results in assigning yourself the nickname "misssluttypants..." might be projecting the wrong energy and thereby causing you to be an asshole magnet. Something to think about.

    Instead of getting mad at me, think about it, huh?? ;)

  • @misssluttypants84 have you ever lost a child? that's the worst .... ^^

  • @misssluttypants84 or the side man...... when you were the original. love sucks ay? lol

  • @misssluttypants84 yeah....i hate it

  • @misssluttypants84 It's hard to imagine that with a name like "misssluttypants" you would be the other woman. It's shocking really.

  • @gbeach85 and there is no reason to judge, grow up and stop being mean there no reason for it.

  • @carrielovingfan Thank you Internet Crusader! You can rest easy now knowing that the public is safe from the wrath of harmless observation.

  • @gbeach85 Being a smart ass doesn't make you cool but hey youre life do as you please.

  • @carrielovingfan Well, nothing to do now except keep living my life I suppose....*shrug*

  • @carrielovingfan And please keep living yours but please please, for christs sake learn the difference between your and you're. Ya know, for the sake of humanity.

  • @gbeach85 Last time I checked I was not in a spelling be. I spell how i want because last time I checked it was a free country in which I live in. I don't know where you live and truthfully I don't give a damn but honey mind over matter I don't mind how i spell and you don't matter. 

  • @carrielovingfan Last time I checked this country spoke/wrote the King's English. Thank you for contributing to the dumbing down of society.

  • @gbeach85 Maybe if you got your head out of your as you'd see not everyone if fucking perfect. Then again you are an ass hole with nothing better to do then be a bitch to everyone who you think is below you. SO STFU AND SHUT UP GEEZ! No one cares what you think.

  • @carrielovingfan Look, I won't waste my time with you anymore because clearly you are retarded. I have never been told to shut the fuck up and shut up in the same sentence before. Clearly you have some sort of brain damage. But keep in mind, you brought this on yourself. In the future just sit there, mind your own business and keep being emo...it seems like that is what you are best at because this whole talking through letters thing is apparently out of your leauge.

  • @gbeach85 Emo? Honey that's just a title it stands for emotional and who wouldn't be emotional after listening to a song like this? I mean if you weren't witch i'm sure you'r not then you must not have a heart. I'm sorry you don't have one. Truly it must suck to be heartless old fool with nothing better to do then hate on the world. I'm fell sorry for you I really do. Well have a nice day.

  • @carrielovingfan Do you find it hard to type when you are drooling all over the keyboard? Okay, that's it, I'm done. Believe it or not I do have a heart and making fun of someone with down syndrome is actually taking a toll on me.

  • @gbeach85 Hahaha you're the one making fun off people with down syndrome and i actually don't have any problems at all except that im not perfect.

    So have a nice day and life I hope you get hit by a truck. :)

  • @carrielovingfan Yea yea yea blah blah blah. You're dismissed.

  • @gbeach85 Awwwe how cute!

  • @carrielovingfan Muah! I love you so goddamn much.

  • @gbeach85 I get that a lot. :)

  • @carrielovingfan ....no you don't.

  • @carrielovingfan So when does the make up sex happen? This is getting beyond ridiculous.

  • @gbeach85 Actually i do get that a lot...and make up sex? I am sorry but I don't have sex with strangers.....that's just gross.

  • @carrielovingfan You are just boring me now. If you had any intersting qualities at all I wouldn't be shy at all in continueing a dialoge but the fact remains that you are boring and dull as shit. Bleh, later. Stop making me pass out.

  • @gbeach85 And yet you still continue to talk to me? Why is that...it must mean something...do I entertain you? I must. :)

  • @carrielovingfan Y....yea but only slightly.

  • @gbeach85 I try :)

  • i absolutely love this song :D

  • This and Sinead O'conners "nothing campares to you" are the most beautiful yet simpliest videos I have ever seen.

  • I fell in love with you and now that your gone i think about u a lot

  • I fell in love with you.....I gave you everything I have..... And now I see her.... I.... I still love you....

  • She seems too small to have such a strong voice, but her voice is beautiful.

  • Amazing!!

  • Her voice is so beautiful. <3

  • This song gives me the chills ! so good :)

  • Now I'm feeling like going to listen to some Janis Joplin.

  • She said this is not base, on a true story if it isn't she needs to start acting in movies because she is doing doing some good acting.

  • this sonnq is so truue ^_^

  • lovely voice

  • cant help who you love. love is fucked up. it will hurt u, confuse u, piss you off, break you, make you, control you, and just fuck you over. its not all beautiful like we all want it to be. sometimes it's just ugly.

  • I started a support group for the other woman and would love for you to join,weather still in,just got out of or a survivor of a affair,we would love to have you with us.

    facebook-in the search box put in "support for the other woman"

  • I said to my boss, Why dont you pay?

  • i watch this video when i'm not even sad. i just love watching the passion as she sings this song.

  • love will unexpectedly come whether we have prepared or not to know the consequences are. Love triangle is very complicated. So whos the one must be blamed? The third person, the cheater or the person who got cheated? However I guess those three are not doing anything wrong, but as a normal human being we are all sometimes being dragged into something that we thought its only a stepping stone, but as time goes by you even cant jump thru that stone because its getting bigger and bigger.So decide!

  • to the lady I am in love with, I miss you and I wish I could hold you right now not only as my lover but as my friend. Please come back home...and stay. I love you MM

  • Sometimes you just have no control in who you fall in love with.

  • get over it

  • the courage it would have to taken to show her soul like that is very brave of her. Thought the video was well done, always loved the song but really thought the video was appropriate for it.

  • I wan't to give her a hug...

  • wha this song is sad :0 this made meh cry and i never cry!!!

  • @Pyrokittycat232 dont cry she got it right and she's moving on to bigger and better

  • Its different when a women knows then it is an equal blame on both the person in the relationship and the person getting involved, but lets all be honest, whomever (man or woman) is in a relationship is the person to blame if the other has no knowledge of the relationship.

  • love this song i no some one whos in ur shoes got help her relationship

  • Unfortunetly this happens more then it should.It kills the heart.I've been the "other woman" unknowingly because of circumstances and had been told they had broken up with their fiancee, gf, divorced,only to find out they are still with them and by that time my heart was fully invested. I feel sorry for Jennifer for having this done to her and yet taking the position to write a song from this standpoint.I wish men and women were honest, cuz lets face it, there are women who do this too

  • @SincitysSweetest not sure if your intrested but i started a facebook group called "support for the other woman" and would be happy to have you join us.I was to a woman in the shoes of the other woman,he had told me he filed....it was a tough pill to swallow when he left me to go back to his wife and kids.This is a safe group where we can come and talk and not be judged :)hope to see you there.

  • @iambabyblue1988 you reap what you sow ionce a cheater always a cheater.

  • I may be to young to know what it feels like to be left but I know pain

  • shes hot

  • a lot of you say you have no sympathy for the other woman blah blah all that. but what if she met him, they started dating and everything and she had no idea he was with another woman until some time after. that's kind of a tough situation if you fall in love with them..

  • can we just enjoy the song

  • I feel no sympathy to the "other women" and I'm sorry to other women & man bashers but it isn't always the mans fault. Unless he lies/uses deception and u r too blind to see the truth the woman is just as responsible as the man as she was willing to get in a relationship when she knew he was otherwise taken(n many chase the man simply not caring). You could be ruining a marriage n the lives of children if there r any. Therefor she has made the choice and no doubt..Karma finds us all eventually.

  • @lynnchristy33 so true the other woman in my husbands life new damn well he was married with 4 children then when she found out baby five was on the way and i asked her to let him be she just pursued him even harder ruining the life of our marriage,, hopefully karma finds her skanky ass and rips her heart in to pieces for the pain i am feeling raising 5 kids while my husband is with her now

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  • @mgorg1 no one said he's married...

  • @mgorg1 Its not like the man walks up to her and is like "Hey I am married wanna fuck?" and I know from experience that its was hard to even think for a while

  • @megan4279 not sure if your intrested but i started a group on facebook called "support for the other woman" and if your intrested would love for you to join :)