If a male is suppose to be the leader of the female, then the young male who has committed crimes has a better chance of responding to reasoning if the judge is a man rather than some woman who is playing a mother's role- who if she had picked the right man to help raise him- would not be in court!
So rather than listening to the hypocritical "mother", it's no surprise the young black men in her court preferred to go to jail rather than bow down to her terms of probation.
@southboy99 I know more educated, career minded black women than hoodrats so you're completely false by claiming that most black women want a thug. But living in a military town, I'm also aware that military men go looking for women mostly at clubs, bars, and beaches then cry and whine that they can't find a good woman.
@southboy99 I wish you wouldnt generalize though. Would it be fair to say the majority of black men are thugs? No its just as stupid. I would also like to add that just because someone doesnt like YOU doesnt mean the alternative is that they like thugs or someone who is LESS THAN YOU, in your eyes!
@southboy99 Thats just hard for me to believe, I really think you may be seeking the wrong ladies. Ive also lived in several places and I travel weekly and while you may run into that type there are many like me and my friends.
Alot of how a man grows up comes from who raised him. My mom is a short black woman who raised me, and told me a successful man either needs to go to college, the military or own a business. I got smart and did all 3.
@southboy99 No I seriously dont see that everyday. Which further lets me know youre in the wrong crowd or you are the same as the women youre speaking about. I wish you lived here there are lots good black women looking for a good black man. You wont find us at the club though.
@ATJlana I'm in the Army and all the women here want thugs. What city are you in? I've lived everywhere from VA, TX, CA, etc. The only women that seem to be interested me are white or european women.
Powerful vid. The sad reality is...that we, the "skinned" peoples of America, black-skinned, yellow-skinned and brown-skinned, have learned to honor the prison culture. We hold the thug high, aggrandizing his immorality and define it as "King-ship" when in reality, all we do is weaken our communities and ourselves. We teach that the "nerd" is soft, when in essence, it takes power to learn how to conjugate verbs and nouns, and how to solve geometric theorems. We better wake up.
@southboy99 Im an AA female, college educated (Hampton U), no kids, from a 2family home, etc & you couldnt pay me nor any of my friends to date a thug. Ever considered that your choices are where youre failing? You might be too interested in the lady in the video, "IaintTackyandTrifling" to see me and my friends.
@ATJlana I'm nost saying every black women want thugs or guy like this. But I am saying the Majority of Black Women do. Come on, don't sit there and act like you don't see this.
The other sad thing is that this is the type of men most black women prefer. They will give a guy like this chance and chance again, yet wont give a good man one. They see a good educated black man as lame, too nice, or white acting.
Young ladies, be responsible as well! Stop allowing these nuckleheads to father your child! I also teach school and I get SO SICK AND TIRED of seeing our kids be the victim of parents irresponsibility. The black kids perform the lowest of everyone and are the most undiciplined because of poor parenting. You cannot keep a man by having his child. You reap what you sow, if you walk around with attitude, loud, and diva all the time, all you will attract is a retarded thug. Its not fair to our kids!
@Blakmajik78 In truth, it's not only the 'thugs' that are abandoning their children, it's also the 'average' black guy, as well. The majority of black American males are raised in a single parent household. These 'boys' know nothing about manhood, and therefore they are prone to repeat the cycle, whether they are thugs or not...
@Blakmajik78 Did you give your mom that advice? You mentioned that your father wasn't around, so based on your logic, she chose a deadbeat thug right?
@Mary2020VA Either way the cookie crumble, its still a black male not taking care of a child and its nothing to be proud of. And since you have questions I have one for you, what your view of an "average" man? Because an irresponsible man isn't "average" if you ask me (and think before you respond this time baby girl) Also whats the point of asking my mother about MY advice that SHE gave me? Speaking of my mother she also say "An error doesn't become a mistake, if you dont refuse to correct it".
@Mary2020VA So why not shed some light on someone else so that they do not make the same mistakes they made. She learned from what she did AND on top of that produced 3 college educated boys, work, independent, good fathers, and are not criminals.THATS an "average" man to me baby girl! Thats the problem with black folks now days, we take offense to advice we need, try to flip it and question it back from people who have walked down the same path when they are trying to help you. Learn to LISTEN!
THE TRUTH HURTS but it needs to be said! I'm a black male, college educated (Hampton U) never been to jail, independent, work and zero kids. My mother is to take ALL credit for making me the man I am today. My father was a deadbeat and had kids all over. The ones he decided to be a father to, ended up in trouble at some point. We HAVE to fix this problem in our community. Its time to stop making excuses and blaming other folks for not being responsible. This is the #1 problem in our community!
@Blakmajik78 Just saying these are the type of men black women seem to prefer. I hope you have better luck than I do, but i'm college educated, no kids, never been to jail etc. But black women would rather chase some thug than give me a chance at all. But white women seem to like me just fine.
@southboy99 So true, you can't put it all on the men sometimes, a lot of these women need to have some vagina dignity and quit chasing these niggas (not black men NIGGAS) who they think are cute like these hip hop stars (many who poison our community with the shit they talk about) and then when they find out the niggas arent any good, they think its okay or "cute" for their sons to act that way or think its okay for their daughters to run after niggas like that. Its a constant bad cycle man.
@Blakmajik78 It's like black women reward guys like this but consider guys like us lame or white acting just because were educated and don't speak slang. Seems like they only want us when they are older and life is kicking them in the ass and the thugs are done with them. Then they want to come crawling to us all ran through, overweight, and their kids and baggage.
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Now thats Love!! Thats a real Sista and she really said something alot of Black women are scared to even say cause it hurts to even acknowledge that type of pain so we express it in anger.
This brought tears to my eyes I felt that so deeply. I felt glad that someone could articulate how I really feel. I love my black brothers but y'all really need to do better for the sake of ALL of us!
@summerkw i hear you summer, it breaks my heart when I'm home on vacation and the friends i went to school with are still in my home town with multiple kids they can barely take care of. on the flip side I'm in the air force, have several certifications, my associates and all the sisters i date want a gansta brotha who they want to slap them around. i was raised to treat women like queens not punching bags :(
@ brownliwy: " gangbangers, child molesters, theives, murderers, sorry ass fathers, WOMANIZERS/WOMAN BEATERS, etc who raised them & i bet most (at least 80%) will say their mothers raised them... PERIOD!" You are so lost retard. If it werent for their mothers raising them you fucks would've been orphans. Because your punk ass daddies didnt want you. Your lucky to have at least one parent that didnt throw yo ass away. Burn in hell
@MsCorrupt1 being a orphan is better than some of the households many black boys come from. I Known many great man coming from a orphange. no mother to mess there heads.
not to have sex with her within the first week of meeting her and then getting the crazy lowlife bitch pregnant! Yet the brawd gets talked about and we are suppose to feel sorry for the black man? And why is that? Can any brotha answer that question for me? Not AT ALL! I am a young black woman (will not disclose my age) but I never gave not one black male the time of day and never will. Its so many things that are unattractive about alot of black males thats why I choose to date interracial.
@brownlivvy I didn't dog out black bitches, yall muthafuckas ARE DOGS! you fuckin' bitch...
Ask most gangbangers, child molesters, theives, murderers, sorry ass fathers, WOMANIZERS/WOMAN BEATERS, etc who raised them & i bet most (at least 80%) will say their mothers raised them... PERIOD!
I speak facts, what the fuck does me being in an unfavorable relationship have to do with me telling the truth & SIMPLY SPEAKING WHAT I OBSERVE?
You're not on my level so fuck off you tramp cunt biotch
Don't ever in yo worthless fuckin life disrespect me because you are garbage, you naturally don't even like black men so why the fuck are you even comin at me knowin i'm a black man? Why? because you're a miserable ass bitch who knows she's wrong but just like the verbal back & forth... matter of fact, i'm gonna stop paying attention to you.
And wasnt the typical "thuggish rapper wanabee" black male! PLAIN AND SIMPLE there are entirely too many nothing ass black females and black males in the black community that like to go after us good black people and fool us! Because I find it funny that when a sista picks a nothing ass man to be with she is talked about like a dog yet when a good brotha gets some hoodrat he met at a strip club pregnant he gets a pat on the back and ppl feel sorry for him like he shouldnt have known better cont
@brownlivvy Okay first of all bitch FUCK YOU! Third of all, you only got mad at my comment because you're one of them sorry ass NIGGAS i'm talking about!
I didn't say anything wrong or off base so why attack me? NIGGAS (not black people) are sorry, what's so bad about that?
I'm smokin a blunt as i'm typing right now but would my message make more sense if it was a cigarrette? Don't let the doorag fool you because i'm 30,000 times smarter than you on many many levels!!!
I love the message of this video but sadly only most black men and the black community will do is play the blaming game as usual. And aw I am so sick and tired of black males always claiming that us black women go for thugs and deadbeats yet the brotha in this video does not resemble a thug nor does he seem like a deadbeat! I know so many so called "good black men" who do not handle their business emotionally and financially with their families and kids who came from good backgrounds cont.
I agree nor ALL black man are like that (not by a long shot) but this is real and heartfelt. Those within the struggle will overstand - those outside won't get it at all...
I am sittin here tearin up. Wow! WOW! WOW~ FInally...someone said it. WE..black women, kids, wives, sisters, cousins NEED black men to be leaders in our society, family and community. We NEED you to respect, honor and love us; those of US who love, honor and respect ourselves. Fee King
It's time to stop the killing. It's time to stop the stealing. It's time stop disrepecting our women. It's time to come home and rasie our children. It time to really mold our communities.
The black woman is the so-called backbone of our community & they raise the boys into insensitive pricks while promoting this fraudulent thug image! They also teach these niggas that being irresponsible is cool. most of them niggas are FAKE THUGS & females love fake ass niggas!
Most of them niggas are Insecure which is why they keep guns on them! Realistically the black community is fucked up at best. The women are garbage & the fellas are bitch-made for the most part.
The sad part is that too many black women see guys who live right, as corny and soft. But a lot of this has to do with the way American society is being f-ed up by these false images of masculinity, because all races of women living here are attracted to stupid men who wear a fake image. Over in Africa, women there want a guy who is responsible and can provide. We've let this society's nonsense poison our women to the point that seeking a stable partner is frowned on.
@AllPro777 Well American women wants a fuck-up until they get bout 400,000 miles on the "Hoe-domiter" but wants a CAPT. SAVE A HOE to swoop her & her 6 kids up to care for them when she's all used up!
They only mission is to use them then when she can't control him or his money dries up then she divorces him & moves to the next Sucker or so-call REAL MAN! I don't wanna be a real man. Fuck that!
They are extremely Selfish & it's only getting worst so arm yourself bruh cause they're coming!
Unfortunately there is quite a bit of truth in what you said. This applies to A LOT of young women in general but it seems most destructive in the black community. Too many young women are into "roughnecks" because they're told only "bad boys" are real men. They think these dickheads will provide them with a "good time" (they perceive them as good in bed) and perceive them as exciting to be around.
@Lilart1981 - Then when they get in their 30s and 40s the "fun" of these boys has run out. When these women are old and used up, have a litter of kids the useless "bad boy(s)" won't pay child support for, and have emotional baggage from being abused and cheated on by their beloved "roughneck niggas" now they want the "nerds" they wouldn't give the time of day back in school to step in and wife them. Because the "soft" men have made money and the "bad boys" are locked up, dead or broke.
@A86 Yeah they prove how selfish they are ALL THE TIME! That is ironic that she didn't want the nerdy, nice-guy when she was young & fine but when she's used up & not looking so hot anymore or can't use her body to get what she wants anymore then suddenly Mr. Urkel looks delicious!
"Bad boys will be dead, broke or locked up!" They know this shit but when was the last time they chose Logic over doing stupid shit? They live by that creed of Duh...
@Lilart1981 - Can't put it all on the women either, though. These dumbass men contribute to the problem just as much. These boys grow up with no father figure, or no decent father figure (mother having various boyfriends that come and go) and go out into the world as adults set on continuing the cycle their fathers engage in. They hook up women that are either naive or "damaged goods", get 'em knocked up and then run like hell when the baby comes.
@A86 Well I do put 90% of the blame on women because for the most part women raise the type of men they're attracted to. They're attracted to sorry good for nothing niggas & is there any surprise that their sons grow up not to be shit? They can't even raise girls how to be women, they teach them to be prostitutes using a man for what he has!
Some guys are highly irresponsible & these are the same guys that women flock to. If you ain't shit, women will fight over you! They deserve the blame!
@Lilart1981 - I would say they're responsible for their own relationship problems and probably more so responsible for bringing these kids into the world. Fair or unfair even if a man doesn't use protection a woman should use protection since it will be her who gets stuck holding the bags if she gets pregnant, not the man. I would say it's more so the men's fault for growing up to be good-for-nothing niggas in the first place since no one put a gun to their head and made them become bums.
@A86 That's exactly my point. Most of these niggas ain't growing up saying "Oh I wanna be a weak, sorry ass nigga" but that is the way they're being RAISED!!! The women are raising the boys for the most part & they usually get pregnant by a sorry ass nigga!
Think about it, who gets most of the women with no effort? SORRY ASS NIGGAS!
They're attracted to sorry ass niggas & they raise sorry ass niggas! Period!!!!!!
@Lilart1981 - Instead of paying attention in school or getting a job they make a living by living off of various girlfriends until they finally get too old and young girls don't want their old ass (if the men aren't dead or in jail by that point). They finally get a job at McDonald's because that's the only place their uneducated ass can get work, leaving sons and daughters to continue the cycle.
It's pathetic. A generation of Turbo-Breeders and 10 year old boys in grown bodies.
@AllPro777 Your message definitely deserves a "thumbs up". This is the way America view the Black male that is doing the right thin in today's society (corny and soft). The thug mentality is glorified and it's a shame the Black woman is attracted to it and then they wonder why there are no good Black men, then have an attitude about it. Newsflash ladies....you're looking for the wrong type and bypassing the good ones.
So lemme get this straight...by literal translation, are you saying Black women get shitty attitudes towards "good" black men because they hung around "bad" black men (i.e. thugs) for too long?
@AllPro777 THANK YOU!!! This is why most of time all my life that I hate myself being Black male plus wanted to commit suicide because of that reason, I have zero felonies, HS diploma, about to graduate with Bachelors Degree, church going, traveling, reading, work out. None of black women like those type of positive black males, they like dudes who makes quick money by selling drugs, being aggressive with a thuggish swag thinking that's the norm of Black Men. It's got to stop.
The government has made it not only easy & not only acceptable but it's pretty much expected to have kids, kick the father out of the house (or pick a bum ass nigga that was a loser) & rely on them for assistance! They promote irresponsibility in people of all ages but especially the kids!
@Lilart1981 LILart why do you sound and resemble the vary men that you claim most black women go after? You look sorry, you look like the type of little black boy who blames females for everything! More than likely some hoodrat bitch done fucked you over so now instead of understanding the message you point ya raggedy ass finger at someone else and since you can't point it at whitey you point at ur female counterparts. This video and you proves that black males are worthless and helpless.
@brownlivvy and where the fuck is your pic on your page?
I look damn good bitch & if you didn't disagree with me you'd be on my dick just like so many bitches already are! I'm a man & still look better than you & even if i don't, you've obviously been decieved by my looks... I'm the shit because i've got character, integrity & morals... u know, the type of shit that most of yall bitches don't like or in my opinion DESERVE!
Bitch i'm a God, realize that shit you peasant fuck!
I say it all the time that women love WEAK ASS DUDES & there was one on display right before our eyes!
According to women, Thugs are fun & exciting! Gentlemen/Nice guys are boring & predictable!
This society encourages irresponsibility in men & women which is why so many PEOPLE make terrible decisions, NOT MISTAKES because they know what they're doing but it's easier to cope with when you "Sugar-Coat" it by calling it a mistake!
Marriage should be at least a class 4 felony now-a-day!
There are definitely more weak dudes just as there are more trash ass females than classy, dignified ones! It's called Quality and/or Character & there will always more more Quantity than Quality. That's anything in life!
and please don't come at me like you made a point cause I can't simply ask you, "Who raised most of these weak ass niggas?" and who chose the bum ass daddies that left?
@impatientwithdesire All you had to do was answer the question cause that'll solve the CORE PROBLEM but being the slut, skank, butch ass bitch that you are, you just had to skip over the most important part!
There's plenty of Slut, hoodrat females out there! Who raised them? The MOTHER. Now I can understand how it's difficult to raise the boys into women but yall raggedy bitches can't even raise your daughter correctly. Why do most of them grow into hoes? A man has nothing to do with that!
@impatientwithdesire U so conveniently skipped over my question, there are plenty sorry ass niggas out there & WHO'S PICKING THESE BUM ASS NIGGAS TO HAVE KIDS WITH? He didn't put a gun to her head either but yet they fucked! The stupid bitch knows he won't be there but has the child any fuckin way!
Yall got all the power but yet in still get mad when somebody says be responsible.
Cop out? For stating the truth? It's rotten, garbage ass bitches like you that makes masturbation relevant...
@Lilart1981 lol yeah they are always suprised when its raining out and like why am i wet lol if i cut my wrist then jump in a pool full of sharks im not gonna be suprised when they eat my ass lol but what can you do woman are alot smarter than u think they just play dum like oh why did my thug do that lol.
I hate stupid bitches that always has a comment but no fuckin solutions! It's hoes like you that thinks being a hoodrat gives you liberation while simultaneously proving that bitches do as much dirt as men when given the opportunity!
What makes me a faggot because I don't agree with you? U are Worthless. You got offended because you're one of those raggedy bitches that's fucking the world apart! Stop spreading AIDS you scum bitch!
@Lilart1981 and the sad thing about is we have to many thug ass black men in this world if they did not have have thug as men from the get go then women will have no other choice but to get with the good guys and this shit need to stop with these black men because they kill each other as something as simple as u steped on my shoe so if we jus never had thugs to ever exist then women would not have to worry about those type of men
Judge Lynn was spittin some REAL SHIT but women have to be held accountable for choosing these bum ass niggas! They know what type of niggas they dealing with but they still put their blinders on & then surprised if it's raining outside & they just happened to get wet!
COMMON SENSE PEOPLE!
Yes women do NEED love & support but that's not want they want & CERTAINLY DON'T DESERVE IT because they don't provide it! They only ones that I feel sorry for is the children but the women? CHECK PLEASE
To all black men, do not fall for this propaganda. These women love thugs, and they love to have babies by them. Real men are not attractive to black women, which is why this epidemic of ignorance seems to keep going. However they need an excuse to justify them choosing jailbirds. which is why you see this BS speech falling on deaf ears.Don't believe the hype google "blackmenvent" for the truth
@KINGLEGENDIDAS true but at the same time it saddens me to see black men to have i dnt give a fuck atittudes and jus go around fucking and nutting in this and that girl pussy like as if they cant catch nothing commiting all types of crime as if they dnt no better if black women i mean all black women decided to become dikes then we will still have black men killing each other off and that is what she is talikng about black men not caring
@2hottric it's funny how you have a one sided view on this and it's law. Women are the gatekeepers, no one can get in unless they say yes...so if men are going around fucking and nutting it's because the women wanted that. People DECIDE to become homosexual because they are mentally unstable. Black men kill each other off partly because they have no self worth, and society in general (including our very own women) do not have a high value for black males. The women teach, directly and indirect
TO all young black men, if you have no intention of being serious with someone, let them know up front. Dont play games with women, and also be careful with who you give yourself to. Lets be more discerning.
@Rob: Why blame all single mothers? You are well aware of the fact that women from all cultures do have children OOW & their men still marry and provide for them even if they aren't the biolog. fathers? You act like these good black men don't play games, lying about being single & having no kids when they meet these women. If I had a dime everytime a black man in a relationship lied about having a girlfriend/wife & kids while asking for my number, I'd be filthy rich by now. God save black girls.
Black women are all Evil. The game is completely over. They are a bunch of worthless mammals who should be burned. They are poor decision makers and they are suffering with their own burdens of making bad decisions. These jungle-bunny niggars are at the bottom of the barrel for a reason. They are spiritually ugly, physically disproportionate, nappy-headed, insecure, wicked bitches. They will burn in hell for what they are doing to black men. I give the black race 100 more years to extinction!!!.
@Lockjawx27 maybe you should think about the fact that there arent a lot of good men to choose from in a society that pressures women to have men at all times
@jumonsizzle Sorry to be offensive. Please to make with laughing joke. What is more offensive? Monkey-Nigger or Nigger-beast? I want to not offend,. Thank you please for your answer. I am Chinese. lets be friends. no offense
@ind0ctr1n3 Umm... Ok. FYI in our community and culture calling each other brother or sister is a term of endearment. Don't throw out accusations of racism if you are moderately culturally competent.
@ind0ctr1n3 I've never seen white guys call black guys dudes. I have seen black guys call white guys "brother" if they were close to that person, like a long-time family friend, or someone they grew up with. And why are you concerned about what black people call themselves anyway? Shouldn't you be on Jewish vids telling jews not to call each other "bubbala"? Or on Latino vids telling them not to refer to themselves as "mami" or "papi"? Please grow up. You look foolish.
@ind0ctr1n3 Wait, let me get this straight. You were accusing everyone black of being racist for using cultural nicknames to address each other, and now you're resorting to blatant racist tactics to get your point across? Grow up kid, and save the interesting trolling for the pros. You aren't fooling anyone.
wow she devoured this man and all she asked this girl to do was stop being tackie and tryphlin. too much to ask??? probably cuz none of u are tackie and tryphlin right? man fuk this video ur right sexlovegod ill stick to my "white women"......omfg..... -_- fuking retarded
As a Black man I saw this show and I felt the Judge and I respected her as a WOMAN for addressing the topic in a WOMANLY way.
She pleaded to all Black men to try to do better.
As a black man how can we find fault in ANYTHING this woman said knowing that she sits on a bench or worked in a court of law and had to send black male after black male to prison due to mandatory minimum laws.
As a younger black man I heard her when she asked who's going to protect her in her old age?
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But black women love those types of niggas! You go up to ANY county or city jail on vistation days, and you tell me if those niggas locked up ain't got ALL THA BLACK WOMEN!
@BWExposed01 dats a lie as a young blk woman maself if i find a guy who is hard working,caring,has ambition,can make me smile and laugh,wants to go thru life legit and only wants for one woman then ima b where he at!!!!!
you mean to tell me she didn't know he was that type of dude before she got with him? a lot of chicks find this behavior fascinating until they need to depend on a dude; before marriage, never knowing what to expect from a dude is exciting. after marriage, it ranges from annoying to terrifying .
She chose him. Congratulations; you got the swag you were looking for.
I absolutely agree with the judge. A strong, nice looking young man who needs to grow up. He has the privilage of being a Daddy. Those kids don't understand all this mess. They are just hurt and wonder why Daddy isn't around and Momma cries and worries all the time about food/rent. There are always tramps out there who haven't a heart. They don't care that they hurt babies. They have no consciences and are childish. They want what they can get and forget any morals. Man, I hope your turned.
women need all that from a guy and we have to man up but what would a woman do for us that i can't do myself...pussy every where. safe pussy. i can cook clean, make my own money, what the hai need to take care of a grown ass woman for..
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That judge should keep her shit to herself..nothing more offensive when a woman who dont know shit about jack want to lecture men of any group..Being a woman and a black woman is like being a kid a perennial child..They live sheltered lives..now dont get me wrong a lot of these black males she talking about just weak and spinless and yep i know the system and whites on them twenty four seven but that is the naure of the war..Tell me a time when white men have not been on the case of black men..
If a male is suppose to be the leader of the female, then the young male who has committed crimes has a better chance of responding to reasoning if the judge is a man rather than some woman who is playing a mother's role- who if she had picked the right man to help raise him- would not be in court!
So rather than listening to the hypocritical "mother", it's no surprise the young black men in her court preferred to go to jail rather than bow down to her terms of probation.
vincent15641 2 weeks ago
All I can say is "WOW"
reignthomas 3 weeks ago
@southboy99 I know more educated, career minded black women than hoodrats so you're completely false by claiming that most black women want a thug. But living in a military town, I'm also aware that military men go looking for women mostly at clubs, bars, and beaches then cry and whine that they can't find a good woman.
TheGiggles1989 1 month ago 3
@southboy99 I wish you wouldnt generalize though. Would it be fair to say the majority of black men are thugs? No its just as stupid. I would also like to add that just because someone doesnt like YOU doesnt mean the alternative is that they like thugs or someone who is LESS THAN YOU, in your eyes!
ATJlana 1 month ago
@southboy99 Thats just hard for me to believe, I really think you may be seeking the wrong ladies. Ive also lived in several places and I travel weekly and while you may run into that type there are many like me and my friends.
ATJlana 1 month ago
Its called abortion
1988MouseMighty 1 month ago
LOVE THIS!!!
MizSassii 1 month ago
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dmo530 1 month ago
THAT''S REAL TALK::
1mansdream 1 month ago
I love my brothers, even when they are a mess. We will get it together one day!
zurishay 1 month ago
Well said judge!
g3ills 1 month ago
Alot of how a man grows up comes from who raised him. My mom is a short black woman who raised me, and told me a successful man either needs to go to college, the military or own a business. I got smart and did all 3.
1Hero411 1 month ago
@southboy99 No I seriously dont see that everyday. Which further lets me know youre in the wrong crowd or you are the same as the women youre speaking about. I wish you lived here there are lots good black women looking for a good black man. You wont find us at the club though.
ATJlana 1 month ago
@ATJlana I'm in the Army and all the women here want thugs. What city are you in? I've lived everywhere from VA, TX, CA, etc. The only women that seem to be interested me are white or european women.
southboy99 1 month ago
Powerful vid. The sad reality is...that we, the "skinned" peoples of America, black-skinned, yellow-skinned and brown-skinned, have learned to honor the prison culture. We hold the thug high, aggrandizing his immorality and define it as "King-ship" when in reality, all we do is weaken our communities and ourselves. We teach that the "nerd" is soft, when in essence, it takes power to learn how to conjugate verbs and nouns, and how to solve geometric theorems. We better wake up.
GuerillaInThaMidst 1 month ago
@southboy99 Im an AA female, college educated (Hampton U), no kids, from a 2family home, etc & you couldnt pay me nor any of my friends to date a thug. Ever considered that your choices are where youre failing? You might be too interested in the lady in the video, "IaintTackyandTrifling" to see me and my friends.
ATJlana 1 month ago
@ATJlana I'm nost saying every black women want thugs or guy like this. But I am saying the Majority of Black Women do. Come on, don't sit there and act like you don't see this.
southboy99 1 month ago
The other sad thing is that this is the type of men most black women prefer. They will give a guy like this chance and chance again, yet wont give a good man one. They see a good educated black man as lame, too nice, or white acting.
southboy99 1 month ago
Young ladies, be responsible as well! Stop allowing these nuckleheads to father your child! I also teach school and I get SO SICK AND TIRED of seeing our kids be the victim of parents irresponsibility. The black kids perform the lowest of everyone and are the most undiciplined because of poor parenting. You cannot keep a man by having his child. You reap what you sow, if you walk around with attitude, loud, and diva all the time, all you will attract is a retarded thug. Its not fair to our kids!
Blakmajik78 1 month ago
@Blakmajik78 In truth, it's not only the 'thugs' that are abandoning their children, it's also the 'average' black guy, as well. The majority of black American males are raised in a single parent household. These 'boys' know nothing about manhood, and therefore they are prone to repeat the cycle, whether they are thugs or not...
Mary2020VA 1 month ago
@Blakmajik78 Did you give your mom that advice? You mentioned that your father wasn't around, so based on your logic, she chose a deadbeat thug right?
Mary2020VA 1 month ago
@Mary2020VA Either way the cookie crumble, its still a black male not taking care of a child and its nothing to be proud of. And since you have questions I have one for you, what your view of an "average" man? Because an irresponsible man isn't "average" if you ask me (and think before you respond this time baby girl) Also whats the point of asking my mother about MY advice that SHE gave me? Speaking of my mother she also say "An error doesn't become a mistake, if you dont refuse to correct it".
Blakmajik78 1 month ago
@Mary2020VA So why not shed some light on someone else so that they do not make the same mistakes they made. She learned from what she did AND on top of that produced 3 college educated boys, work, independent, good fathers, and are not criminals.THATS an "average" man to me baby girl! Thats the problem with black folks now days, we take offense to advice we need, try to flip it and question it back from people who have walked down the same path when they are trying to help you. Learn to LISTEN!
Blakmajik78 1 month ago
THE TRUTH HURTS but it needs to be said! I'm a black male, college educated (Hampton U) never been to jail, independent, work and zero kids. My mother is to take ALL credit for making me the man I am today. My father was a deadbeat and had kids all over. The ones he decided to be a father to, ended up in trouble at some point. We HAVE to fix this problem in our community. Its time to stop making excuses and blaming other folks for not being responsible. This is the #1 problem in our community!
Blakmajik78 1 month ago
@Blakmajik78 Just saying these are the type of men black women seem to prefer. I hope you have better luck than I do, but i'm college educated, no kids, never been to jail etc. But black women would rather chase some thug than give me a chance at all. But white women seem to like me just fine.
southboy99 1 month ago
@southboy99 So true, you can't put it all on the men sometimes, a lot of these women need to have some vagina dignity and quit chasing these niggas (not black men NIGGAS) who they think are cute like these hip hop stars (many who poison our community with the shit they talk about) and then when they find out the niggas arent any good, they think its okay or "cute" for their sons to act that way or think its okay for their daughters to run after niggas like that. Its a constant bad cycle man.
Blakmajik78 1 month ago
@Blakmajik78 It's like black women reward guys like this but consider guys like us lame or white acting just because were educated and don't speak slang. Seems like they only want us when they are older and life is kicking them in the ass and the thugs are done with them. Then they want to come crawling to us all ran through, overweight, and their kids and baggage.
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I got respect for everything she said. It got to me and im trying hard to leave my past behind and continue to be there
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RawFoodFun007 1 month ago
IT'S SAD TO SEE BROTHER'S WHO DON'T MIND GOING TO JAIL.
vbond40 1 month ago
Now thats Love!! Thats a real Sista and she really said something alot of Black women are scared to even say cause it hurts to even acknowledge that type of pain so we express it in anger.
pwstroud 1 month ago
This brought tears to my eyes I felt that so deeply. I felt glad that someone could articulate how I really feel. I love my black brothers but y'all really need to do better for the sake of ALL of us!
summerkw 1 month ago
@summerkw i hear you summer, it breaks my heart when I'm home on vacation and the friends i went to school with are still in my home town with multiple kids they can barely take care of. on the flip side I'm in the air force, have several certifications, my associates and all the sisters i date want a gansta brotha who they want to slap them around. i was raised to treat women like queens not punching bags :(
yamucha 1 month ago
Yes black men we need you i love you...
licialicous 1 month ago 2
@licialicous ...we need you and love you too :-)
JoNateLive 1 month ago
@JoNateLive Aww that was heart felt thank you! xo!!! :D god bless
*Virtual hug*
licialicous 1 month ago
Right on Judge Toler! This is why I like this woman!
JSpearman4 1 month ago
That was powerful, I love that women. Please pass that on to all Young black men.
studiolphotography88 1 month ago
he hansome and I think it touched him and hes gonna smarting up hes hansome to
butterpecan07 1 month ago
This 1 is 4 all the dog baby daddy's that's always talking about how "Yo baby momma b tripping!!!!" BIG DUMMIES!! Stop the bad blood line.......
jowandaJW 2 months ago
@jowandaJW and stop the bad grammar....
ctiesel 1 month ago
Love Lynn Toler!!!!
april0519 7 months ago
@ brownliwy: " gangbangers, child molesters, theives, murderers, sorry ass fathers, WOMANIZERS/WOMAN BEATERS, etc who raised them & i bet most (at least 80%) will say their mothers raised them... PERIOD!" You are so lost retard. If it werent for their mothers raising them you fucks would've been orphans. Because your punk ass daddies didnt want you. Your lucky to have at least one parent that didnt throw yo ass away. Burn in hell
MsCorrupt1 8 months ago
@MsCorrupt1 I think you responded to the wrong person....
atruhata4real 7 months ago
@MsCorrupt1 being a orphan is better than some of the households many black boys come from. I Known many great man coming from a orphange. no mother to mess there heads.
12pope 4 months ago
i liked the way the judge handled that.
2cadillac 9 months ago 2
@2cadillac Of Course Woman.....
ChantelHammond3 7 months ago
not to have sex with her within the first week of meeting her and then getting the crazy lowlife bitch pregnant! Yet the brawd gets talked about and we are suppose to feel sorry for the black man? And why is that? Can any brotha answer that question for me? Not AT ALL! I am a young black woman (will not disclose my age) but I never gave not one black male the time of day and never will. Its so many things that are unattractive about alot of black males thats why I choose to date interracial.
brownlivvy 9 months ago
@brownlivvy I didn't dog out black bitches, yall muthafuckas ARE DOGS! you fuckin' bitch...
Ask most gangbangers, child molesters, theives, murderers, sorry ass fathers, WOMANIZERS/WOMAN BEATERS, etc who raised them & i bet most (at least 80%) will say their mothers raised them... PERIOD!
I speak facts, what the fuck does me being in an unfavorable relationship have to do with me telling the truth & SIMPLY SPEAKING WHAT I OBSERVE?
You're not on my level so fuck off you tramp cunt biotch
Lilart1981 9 months ago
@brownlivvy Did i mention 'Fuck you bitch?"
Don't ever in yo worthless fuckin life disrespect me because you are garbage, you naturally don't even like black men so why the fuck are you even comin at me knowin i'm a black man? Why? because you're a miserable ass bitch who knows she's wrong but just like the verbal back & forth... matter of fact, i'm gonna stop paying attention to you.
Good Day Sir!
Lilart1981 9 months ago
@brownlivvy congrats on dating interracial....one less ignorant woman to deal with.
atruhata4real 7 months ago
And wasnt the typical "thuggish rapper wanabee" black male! PLAIN AND SIMPLE there are entirely too many nothing ass black females and black males in the black community that like to go after us good black people and fool us! Because I find it funny that when a sista picks a nothing ass man to be with she is talked about like a dog yet when a good brotha gets some hoodrat he met at a strip club pregnant he gets a pat on the back and ppl feel sorry for him like he shouldnt have known better cont
brownlivvy 9 months ago
@brownlivvy Okay first of all bitch FUCK YOU! Third of all, you only got mad at my comment because you're one of them sorry ass NIGGAS i'm talking about!
I didn't say anything wrong or off base so why attack me? NIGGAS (not black people) are sorry, what's so bad about that?
I'm smokin a blunt as i'm typing right now but would my message make more sense if it was a cigarrette? Don't let the doorag fool you because i'm 30,000 times smarter than you on many many levels!!!
Lilart1981 9 months ago
I love the message of this video but sadly only most black men and the black community will do is play the blaming game as usual. And aw I am so sick and tired of black males always claiming that us black women go for thugs and deadbeats yet the brotha in this video does not resemble a thug nor does he seem like a deadbeat! I know so many so called "good black men" who do not handle their business emotionally and financially with their families and kids who came from good backgrounds cont.
brownlivvy 9 months ago
I agree nor ALL black man are like that (not by a long shot) but this is real and heartfelt. Those within the struggle will overstand - those outside won't get it at all...
-G
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it's cool, there's plenty of white or hispanic men willing to take care of 'em, LOL
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MPCHustle 9 months ago
He started crying!this so true!
bubblylys712 9 months ago
Well I aint one of those black men im in college lol
Nelly305ful 10 months ago 20
@Nelly305ful so? You still have to FINISH college. Then again, unfortunately, a lot of black men don't even get past high school.
Dman761 9 months ago
@Nelly305ful Yeah bro, let do this thang!!!
We gotta be the example for the whole community!!!
istudywater 1 month ago
SHe is speaking the truth, this is the real shit only she from the old school. Most respect.
Lemon5eed 10 months ago
now what if Judge Judy was to say that?
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MPCHustle 9 months ago
this some shit EVER black dude needs to HEAR!!!!!
727spida 10 months ago
@727spida shut the fuck up, not black men are like that
masterphene23 9 months ago
2:20 funny as shit b/c she ask'd what would you do....and you fast forward'd that jont lmFao
11six85 11 months ago
I am sittin here tearin up. Wow! WOW! WOW~ FInally...someone said it. WE..black women, kids, wives, sisters, cousins NEED black men to be leaders in our society, family and community. We NEED you to respect, honor and love us; those of US who love, honor and respect ourselves. Fee King
uniquefeesiques 1 year ago
seem like he actually heard her, he might not hold on to that for very long but he heard wut he needed to hear just then
mothapimp 1 year ago
She is 110% Right! Wow! That was good!
paulstrong123 1 year ago
this bum will never get it...she just waisted her breath.
MegaTyte99 1 year ago 3
It's time to stop the killing. It's time to stop the stealing. It's time stop disrepecting our women. It's time to come home and rasie our children. It time to really mold our communities.
buddaman200522 1 year ago
never heard it explained like that before,makes me wanta' call my babies mama and apologize...
maxluxur 1 year ago
The black woman is the so-called backbone of our community & they raise the boys into insensitive pricks while promoting this fraudulent thug image! They also teach these niggas that being irresponsible is cool. most of them niggas are FAKE THUGS & females love fake ass niggas!
Most of them niggas are Insecure which is why they keep guns on them! Realistically the black community is fucked up at best. The women are garbage & the fellas are bitch-made for the most part.
I give up on niggas
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981
The sad part is that too many black women see guys who live right, as corny and soft. But a lot of this has to do with the way American society is being f-ed up by these false images of masculinity, because all races of women living here are attracted to stupid men who wear a fake image. Over in Africa, women there want a guy who is responsible and can provide. We've let this society's nonsense poison our women to the point that seeking a stable partner is frowned on.
AllPro777 1 year ago 34
@AllPro777 Well American women wants a fuck-up until they get bout 400,000 miles on the "Hoe-domiter" but wants a CAPT. SAVE A HOE to swoop her & her 6 kids up to care for them when she's all used up!
They only mission is to use them then when she can't control him or his money dries up then she divorces him & moves to the next Sucker or so-call REAL MAN! I don't wanna be a real man. Fuck that!
They are extremely Selfish & it's only getting worst so arm yourself bruh cause they're coming!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 - Lol @ the "Cap't Save-A-Hoe" part!
Unfortunately there is quite a bit of truth in what you said. This applies to A LOT of young women in general but it seems most destructive in the black community. Too many young women are into "roughnecks" because they're told only "bad boys" are real men. They think these dickheads will provide them with a "good time" (they perceive them as good in bed) and perceive them as exciting to be around.
A86 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 - Then when they get in their 30s and 40s the "fun" of these boys has run out. When these women are old and used up, have a litter of kids the useless "bad boy(s)" won't pay child support for, and have emotional baggage from being abused and cheated on by their beloved "roughneck niggas" now they want the "nerds" they wouldn't give the time of day back in school to step in and wife them. Because the "soft" men have made money and the "bad boys" are locked up, dead or broke.
A86 1 year ago
@A86 Yeah they prove how selfish they are ALL THE TIME! That is ironic that she didn't want the nerdy, nice-guy when she was young & fine but when she's used up & not looking so hot anymore or can't use her body to get what she wants anymore then suddenly Mr. Urkel looks delicious!
"Bad boys will be dead, broke or locked up!" They know this shit but when was the last time they chose Logic over doing stupid shit? They live by that creed of Duh...
Getting fucked is all they're good for!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 - Can't put it all on the women either, though. These dumbass men contribute to the problem just as much. These boys grow up with no father figure, or no decent father figure (mother having various boyfriends that come and go) and go out into the world as adults set on continuing the cycle their fathers engage in. They hook up women that are either naive or "damaged goods", get 'em knocked up and then run like hell when the baby comes.
A86 1 year ago
@A86 Well I do put 90% of the blame on women because for the most part women raise the type of men they're attracted to. They're attracted to sorry good for nothing niggas & is there any surprise that their sons grow up not to be shit? They can't even raise girls how to be women, they teach them to be prostitutes using a man for what he has!
Some guys are highly irresponsible & these are the same guys that women flock to. If you ain't shit, women will fight over you! They deserve the blame!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 - I would say they're responsible for their own relationship problems and probably more so responsible for bringing these kids into the world. Fair or unfair even if a man doesn't use protection a woman should use protection since it will be her who gets stuck holding the bags if she gets pregnant, not the man. I would say it's more so the men's fault for growing up to be good-for-nothing niggas in the first place since no one put a gun to their head and made them become bums.
A86 1 year ago
@A86 That's exactly my point. Most of these niggas ain't growing up saying "Oh I wanna be a weak, sorry ass nigga" but that is the way they're being RAISED!!! The women are raising the boys for the most part & they usually get pregnant by a sorry ass nigga!
Think about it, who gets most of the women with no effort? SORRY ASS NIGGAS!
They're attracted to sorry ass niggas & they raise sorry ass niggas! Period!!!!!!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 - Instead of paying attention in school or getting a job they make a living by living off of various girlfriends until they finally get too old and young girls don't want their old ass (if the men aren't dead or in jail by that point). They finally get a job at McDonald's because that's the only place their uneducated ass can get work, leaving sons and daughters to continue the cycle.
It's pathetic. A generation of Turbo-Breeders and 10 year old boys in grown bodies.
A86 1 year ago
@AllPro777 Good guys like me "rule the world". Sistas, you can never go wrong with a "good guy".
MyDhogan 7 months ago
@AllPro777 Your message definitely deserves a "thumbs up". This is the way America view the Black male that is doing the right thin in today's society (corny and soft). The thug mentality is glorified and it's a shame the Black woman is attracted to it and then they wonder why there are no good Black men, then have an attitude about it. Newsflash ladies....you're looking for the wrong type and bypassing the good ones.
atruhata4real 7 months ago 11
@atruhata4real
So lemme get this straight...by literal translation, are you saying Black women get shitty attitudes towards "good" black men because they hung around "bad" black men (i.e. thugs) for too long?
barber747 1 month ago
@barber747 You need to re-read what I posted....Once you do that, then you will understand where I am coming from.
atruhata4real 1 month ago
@AllPro777 very well said, and very true
photographerireland 7 months ago
Judge Lyn has definately got the right attitude for the job, her words and advice are first class, great video
photographerireland 7 months ago
@AllPro777 THANK YOU!!! This is why most of time all my life that I hate myself being Black male plus wanted to commit suicide because of that reason, I have zero felonies, HS diploma, about to graduate with Bachelors Degree, church going, traveling, reading, work out. None of black women like those type of positive black males, they like dudes who makes quick money by selling drugs, being aggressive with a thuggish swag thinking that's the norm of Black Men. It's got to stop.
knightclassic1 1 month ago
@Lilart1981 well, you also have a bunch of children raising babies and pretending to be grownups
tranurse 10 months ago
@tranurse Yes i absolutely concur!
The government has made it not only easy & not only acceptable but it's pretty much expected to have kids, kick the father out of the house (or pick a bum ass nigga that was a loser) & rely on them for assistance! They promote irresponsibility in people of all ages but especially the kids!
The black community is fucked!
Lilart1981 10 months ago
@Lilart1981 LILart why do you sound and resemble the vary men that you claim most black women go after? You look sorry, you look like the type of little black boy who blames females for everything! More than likely some hoodrat bitch done fucked you over so now instead of understanding the message you point ya raggedy ass finger at someone else and since you can't point it at whitey you point at ur female counterparts. This video and you proves that black males are worthless and helpless.
brownlivvy 9 months ago
@brownlivvy and where the fuck is your pic on your page?
I look damn good bitch & if you didn't disagree with me you'd be on my dick just like so many bitches already are! I'm a man & still look better than you & even if i don't, you've obviously been decieved by my looks... I'm the shit because i've got character, integrity & morals... u know, the type of shit that most of yall bitches don't like or in my opinion DESERVE!
Bitch i'm a God, realize that shit you peasant fuck!
Lilart1981 9 months ago
she broke brother man done so that he can be built up by this teaching. i love her
RealGrownandSexy 1 year ago
what does trifling mean?? did i even spell that right?
soccergurl36 1 year ago
hey was that axl?
aquafishsoup 1 year ago
I hate this lady, cause shealways take a woman side, but this one is the best thing it came out from her mouth.
zethiopia 1 year ago
@zethiopia She don't always take the woman's side. I am a black man saying this.
tlove610 1 year ago 3
@tlove610 no she dnt
2hottric 1 year ago
tell it judge. what's more sad is that most of these men will let those words go in one ear and out the other.
MsDelanda 1 year ago
I say it all the time that women love WEAK ASS DUDES & there was one on display right before our eyes!
According to women, Thugs are fun & exciting! Gentlemen/Nice guys are boring & predictable!
This society encourages irresponsibility in men & women which is why so many PEOPLE make terrible decisions, NOT MISTAKES because they know what they're doing but it's easier to cope with when you "Sugar-Coat" it by calling it a mistake!
Marriage should be at least a class 4 felony now-a-day!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 True is True.
JepMaster8 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 according to what women??
maybe there are just too much weak ass dudes and not enough strong ones
ever thought about that?
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
@impatientwithdesire Yes there is! Tell me something I don't know.
There are definitely more weak dudes just as there are more trash ass females than classy, dignified ones! It's called Quality and/or Character & there will always more more Quantity than Quality. That's anything in life!
and please don't come at me like you made a point cause I can't simply ask you, "Who raised most of these weak ass niggas?" and who chose the bum ass daddies that left?
Ever thought about that???
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 who raised them? none of their father
a woman cant make a male become a man
a man is supposed to help out with that
their mothers didnt put the gun in their hands
the mother wasnt the one they were frustrated at for not celebrating their birthdays
their mother wasnt the one they were angry at when they joined that gang
it was their bum ass dads!
what a cop out your comment is
in any other race of men they would cut their balls off before saying what you said
weak ass nigga
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
@impatientwithdesire All you had to do was answer the question cause that'll solve the CORE PROBLEM but being the slut, skank, butch ass bitch that you are, you just had to skip over the most important part!
There's plenty of Slut, hoodrat females out there! Who raised them? The MOTHER. Now I can understand how it's difficult to raise the boys into women but yall raggedy bitches can't even raise your daughter correctly. Why do most of them grow into hoes? A man has nothing to do with that!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 dont blame the mother for what the father didnt do
what kind of men find excuses not to raise their own flesh and blood?
what kind of men blame women for everything?
fuckin faggot go suck a dick, get aids and die
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
@impatientwithdesire U so conveniently skipped over my question, there are plenty sorry ass niggas out there & WHO'S PICKING THESE BUM ASS NIGGAS TO HAVE KIDS WITH? He didn't put a gun to her head either but yet they fucked! The stupid bitch knows he won't be there but has the child any fuckin way!
Yall got all the power but yet in still get mad when somebody says be responsible.
Cop out? For stating the truth? It's rotten, garbage ass bitches like you that makes masturbation relevant...
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 lol yeah they are always suprised when its raining out and like why am i wet lol if i cut my wrist then jump in a pool full of sharks im not gonna be suprised when they eat my ass lol but what can you do woman are alot smarter than u think they just play dum like oh why did my thug do that lol.
ernk72 1 year ago
@ernk72 Yeah I really hope they're smarter than they're displaying because if not it's gotta be miserable to be as stupid as they seem!
Their logic is shitty at best which is why I treat them as cartoon charcter or a figment of my imagination!!!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 lol
ernk72 1 year ago
@impatientwithdesire and one more thing, FUCK YOU BITCH!
I hate stupid bitches that always has a comment but no fuckin solutions! It's hoes like you that thinks being a hoodrat gives you liberation while simultaneously proving that bitches do as much dirt as men when given the opportunity!
What makes me a faggot because I don't agree with you? U are Worthless. You got offended because you're one of those raggedy bitches that's fucking the world apart! Stop spreading AIDS you scum bitch!
Lilart1981 1 year ago
@Lilart1981 and the sad thing about is we have to many thug ass black men in this world if they did not have have thug as men from the get go then women will have no other choice but to get with the good guys and this shit need to stop with these black men because they kill each other as something as simple as u steped on my shoe so if we jus never had thugs to ever exist then women would not have to worry about those type of men
2hottric 1 year ago
Judge Lynn was spittin some REAL SHIT but women have to be held accountable for choosing these bum ass niggas! They know what type of niggas they dealing with but they still put their blinders on & then surprised if it's raining outside & they just happened to get wet!
COMMON SENSE PEOPLE!
Yes women do NEED love & support but that's not want they want & CERTAINLY DON'T DESERVE IT because they don't provide it! They only ones that I feel sorry for is the children but the women? CHECK PLEASE
Lilart1981 1 year ago
To all black men, do not fall for this propaganda. These women love thugs, and they love to have babies by them. Real men are not attractive to black women, which is why this epidemic of ignorance seems to keep going. However they need an excuse to justify them choosing jailbirds. which is why you see this BS speech falling on deaf ears.Don't believe the hype google "blackmenvent" for the truth
KINGLEGENDIDAS 1 year ago
@KINGLEGENDIDAS or in other words most of you are thugs
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
@KINGLEGENDIDAS true but at the same time it saddens me to see black men to have i dnt give a fuck atittudes and jus go around fucking and nutting in this and that girl pussy like as if they cant catch nothing commiting all types of crime as if they dnt no better if black women i mean all black women decided to become dikes then we will still have black men killing each other off and that is what she is talikng about black men not caring
2hottric 1 year ago
@2hottric it's funny how you have a one sided view on this and it's law. Women are the gatekeepers, no one can get in unless they say yes...so if men are going around fucking and nutting it's because the women wanted that. People DECIDE to become homosexual because they are mentally unstable. Black men kill each other off partly because they have no self worth, and society in general (including our very own women) do not have a high value for black males. The women teach, directly and indirect
KINGLEGENDIDAS 1 year ago
TO all young black men, if you have no intention of being serious with someone, let them know up front. Dont play games with women, and also be careful with who you give yourself to. Lets be more discerning.
Venturi01 1 year ago
Judge Lynn Toler was definitely speaking the truth.
deenage 1 year ago
@Rob: Why blame all single mothers? You are well aware of the fact that women from all cultures do have children OOW & their men still marry and provide for them even if they aren't the biolog. fathers? You act like these good black men don't play games, lying about being single & having no kids when they meet these women. If I had a dime everytime a black man in a relationship lied about having a girlfriend/wife & kids while asking for my number, I'd be filthy rich by now. God save black girls.
Billiegean 1 year ago
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Black women are all Evil. The game is completely over. They are a bunch of worthless mammals who should be burned. They are poor decision makers and they are suffering with their own burdens of making bad decisions. These jungle-bunny niggars are at the bottom of the barrel for a reason. They are spiritually ugly, physically disproportionate, nappy-headed, insecure, wicked bitches. They will burn in hell for what they are doing to black men. I give the black race 100 more years to extinction!!!.
single4themoment 1 year ago
damn thats heart touching
sammylamigus 1 year ago
I blame the women more. If you choose a deadbeat, its your fault too.
If you chose a wife-beater and get abused, well, you are just as sick as him. You chose him.
Women want to place the blame, but they forget that WOMEN control who gets laid and how. Women control any sexual situation, if they don't, it's rape
So I don't believe any of this garbage
Lockjawx27 1 year ago
@Lockjawx27 Exactly. Thats spot on.
Nightshade323 1 year ago
@Lockjawx27 I could not agree more. Bullseye. Right on target!!
itchychinaman 1 year ago
@itchychinaman u seem rather obsessed with black pple, why are u not stuck on kung fu fighting videos or how to make chow mein?
u must really think u r funny
jumonsizzle 1 year ago
@jumonsizzle Chow Mein is American dish, actually.
itchychinaman 1 year ago
@Lockjawx27 maybe you should think about the fact that there arent a lot of good men to choose from in a society that pressures women to have men at all times
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
who is this judge .. ? why to blacks not speak english?
oriocoookie 1 year ago
why to black not speaks english? is that english?
gotgrant99 1 year ago
@gotgrant99 are you quoting? you forgot the nquotes :P
oriocoookie 1 year ago
N.A.A.C.P.
Now Apes Are Considered People.
lol no offense
itchychinaman 1 year ago
@itchychinaman thats not funny, very offensive too
jumonsizzle 1 year ago
@jumonsizzle Sorry to be offensive. Please to make with laughing joke. What is more offensive? Monkey-Nigger or Nigger-beast? I want to not offend,. Thank you please for your answer. I am Chinese. lets be friends. no offense
itchychinaman 1 year ago
Amen, Judge!
aspiringactress8806 1 year ago
see site my so called black slave descendant. HEBREWISRAELITEDOTORG.shalom wake up
wisedomee 1 year ago
This judge is kind of racist.. Stop talking about 'brothers' when you're referring to black guys. Same with sisters.
ind0ctr1n3 1 year ago
@ind0ctr1n3 Umm... Ok. FYI in our community and culture calling each other brother or sister is a term of endearment. Don't throw out accusations of racism if you are moderately culturally competent.
Ayee81 1 year ago
@Ayee81 I meant if your aren't culturally competent.
Ayee81 1 year ago
@Ayee81 A term of endearment, strictly used for BLACK people. She doesn't know the dude. Never seen her say 'brother' to a white guy.
FYI; logic dictates racism. =)
ind0ctr1n3 1 year ago
@ind0ctr1n3 Okay. Then white men should stop calling each other dude. Your logic is flawed.
dadevi 1 year ago
@dadevi Actually, yours is. White guys call black guys dudes. Black guys never call white guys brothers.
Point in case; Racism. =)
ind0ctr1n3 1 year ago
@ind0ctr1n3 I've never seen white guys call black guys dudes. I have seen black guys call white guys "brother" if they were close to that person, like a long-time family friend, or someone they grew up with. And why are you concerned about what black people call themselves anyway? Shouldn't you be on Jewish vids telling jews not to call each other "bubbala"? Or on Latino vids telling them not to refer to themselves as "mami" or "papi"? Please grow up. You look foolish.
dadevi 1 year ago
@dadevi Rofl. Seems like you didn't exactly get it.
No worries, it's expected from the lesser races. =)
ind0ctr1n3 1 year ago
@ind0ctr1n3 Wait, let me get this straight. You were accusing everyone black of being racist for using cultural nicknames to address each other, and now you're resorting to blatant racist tactics to get your point across? Grow up kid, and save the interesting trolling for the pros. You aren't fooling anyone.
dadevi 1 year ago
@ind0ctr1n3 Are you sure you know what racism is?
peachy6969 1 year ago
wow she devoured this man and all she asked this girl to do was stop being tackie and tryphlin. too much to ask??? probably cuz none of u are tackie and tryphlin right? man fuk this video ur right sexlovegod ill stick to my "white women"......omfg..... -_- fuking retarded
platniumalstar06 1 year ago
@platniumalstar06 I think you missed the message.
peachy6969 1 year ago
@platniumalstar06 lol and white women will stick to your credit card and future divorce papers
impatientwithdesire 1 year ago
wow...ok no comment
platniumalstar06 1 year ago
black men ...just dont care...they only care about white women...
SEXLOVEGOD 1 year ago
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black women love crying the victim. fuck them
MRbossman1982 1 year ago
As a Black man I saw this show and I felt the Judge and I respected her as a WOMAN for addressing the topic in a WOMANLY way.
She pleaded to all Black men to try to do better.
As a black man how can we find fault in ANYTHING this woman said knowing that she sits on a bench or worked in a court of law and had to send black male after black male to prison due to mandatory minimum laws.
As a younger black man I heard her when she asked who's going to protect her in her old age?
Just a thought.
215workhard 1 year ago 25
Preach!!
redbonegal 2 years ago 2
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But black women love those types of niggas! You go up to ANY county or city jail on vistation days, and you tell me if those niggas locked up ain't got ALL THA BLACK WOMEN!
BWExposed01 2 years ago
@BWExposed01 dats a lie as a young blk woman maself if i find a guy who is hard working,caring,has ambition,can make me smile and laugh,wants to go thru life legit and only wants for one woman then ima b where he at!!!!!
okwf 1 year ago 4
Not me!!! I am toooooooooo educated to make a choice like that.
A Seattle Engineer
crpdm1965 1 year ago
Whatever. bw don't own bm and vice versa. Let the males screw up and stay in jail if they want, I refuse to baby, cry for OR reproduce for them.
Lyra74 2 years ago 8
@Lyra74 WOW...
fmcneillii 10 months ago
you mean to tell me she didn't know he was that type of dude before she got with him? a lot of chicks find this behavior fascinating until they need to depend on a dude; before marriage, never knowing what to expect from a dude is exciting. after marriage, it ranges from annoying to terrifying .
She chose him. Congratulations; you got the swag you were looking for.
noizefloor 2 years ago
I absolutely agree with the judge. A strong, nice looking young man who needs to grow up. He has the privilage of being a Daddy. Those kids don't understand all this mess. They are just hurt and wonder why Daddy isn't around and Momma cries and worries all the time about food/rent. There are always tramps out there who haven't a heart. They don't care that they hurt babies. They have no consciences and are childish. They want what they can get and forget any morals. Man, I hope your turned.
Songsmirth 2 years ago
women need all that from a guy and we have to man up but what would a woman do for us that i can't do myself...pussy every where. safe pussy. i can cook clean, make my own money, what the hai need to take care of a grown ass woman for..
fuck you< judge judy. fuck you hard.
EQUALITY!!!!!
Omniverse77 2 years ago
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That judge should keep her shit to herself..nothing more offensive when a woman who dont know shit about jack want to lecture men of any group..Being a woman and a black woman is like being a kid a perennial child..They live sheltered lives..now dont get me wrong a lot of these black males she talking about just weak and spinless and yep i know the system and whites on them twenty four seven but that is the naure of the war..Tell me a time when white men have not been on the case of black men..
munchinella 2 years ago
If it doesn't apply to you don't be offended. She needed to tell him and others like him about themselves.
williamskat1 2 years ago
Now if we can work on the sistas who keep putting out all these INDEPENDENT and I don't need a man songs, we can get somewhere.
Cantstopdamuzik 2 years ago 4
I don't want to do it by myself. I will if I have to but I won't be singing it from the rooftops!
williamskat1 2 years ago
@Cantstopd