Polygyny/Polygamy II: Who Benefits from Polygyny? Part ONE

[mskiki0520]

ummmmmm u posted the video so i was talking to u

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 Okay. What did you mean by pick a religion? What did you mean by be fruitful and multiply? What did you mean about people only having one? Where? I'm very confused. O_O

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 Why should I ONLY speak about polygyny in one religion? What did I mispronounce?

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 because there's polygamy, and there's polygyny...And polygamy is pronounced po-lig-a-mee and polygyny is pronounced po-li-gin-ee... O_o

[mskiki0520]

HERE IS WHAT I THINK.....U NEED TO KNOW HOW TO SAY THE WORD CORRECTLY!!!!!!!! THATS FIRST....SECOND U NEED TO PICK A RELIGION AND THEN DISCUSS POLYGAMY IN THAT RELIGION. ASK ONE OF US B4 U REALLY START TALKING. GOD SAID BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY DID U MISS THAT PART OF THE BIBLE? HOW MANY WIVES DID THEY HAVE DURING THE TIMES OF JESUS OR MOSES

? ARE U SURE THEY ONLY HAD ONE OR HAVE U REALLY DONE UR HOMEWORK? IM DONE NO BEEFING BUT AS A MUSLIM U NEED TO HAVE A REAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE CONCEPT!!!!

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 lol who are you talking to, MsKiki?

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 It's as if you're speaking in code. And you yelled at me too, lol.

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 Ask one of us before you start talking... ask who? You? It isn't as if I didn't ask... O_o "As a muslim" I'm not a muslim.

[DreamGyrl360]

@mskiki0520 I touched on belief systems where polygyny is a marital option because I am talking about polygyny in general. I point out which way *I* think is best but there's no need for me to keep it within one particular religious construct.

[kennethmcdonald100]

What makes you think that a man that has been allowed to indulge his lust in this way will want to have sex with ONLY his wives? Most of these households are on some kind of state sponsored assistance programs and/or some of the wives are helping support a hedonistic bastard that only wants to bust nuts more than anything else....I just wanna know who is gonna take care of all those kids when all the adults have AIDS...

[DreamGyrl360]

@kennethmcdonald100 Actually aside from FLDS the polygynous households I know of personally (about 20) every adult is working and there is no use of welfare or supporting a pimp. As for the AIDS comment, highly ignorant to assume that polygynous households garner more HIV than monogamous ones...especially in a society that promotes monogamy and in some places has more HIV cases than some third-world countries... 0_o

[Marycash43]

I don't want another woman or women in my home looking at them everyday and having to deal with their life issues the work load never ends and it gets even heavier every time a new woman comes with her children or wanting to have her own children the whole idea is a big nasty mess that over sex men created and wrote in books as laws to have more than one wife this is the ulmitate con game played on women to be use and destroyed just to build up a man's wealthmost women today see though the bull

[DreamGyrl360]

@Marycash43 I hear you on the first point. Polygyny is difficult. On the second point, all I can say is that mankind, on the classification of animals, falls on the side of polygynous animals, rather than monogamous ones... that is a fact... and this type of marital option happens every day in more illicit forms -- mistresses, baby mamas and such. So there's no con game, it's just that some are more willing to admit it than others that it's alive and well and preferable for some.

[kre85]

This sound crazy i have three sisters and i don't want them around me at all. And I don't believe in sharing a man. But it sounds like you need a maid and a nanny just my opinion.

[abrahamyah]

Blessings be upon you dear sister for such an inspiring and informative message on a subject that troubles most. It is obvious that you have thought and studied extensively as not to present foolishness, but wisdom. I too believe that it is righteous for a man to have more than one wife, but it must be done with wisdom. Yahweh bless you my young sister!

[DreamGyrl360]

@enlytnd they allow this baby daddy baby mama nonsense where everybody male and female has multiple children by multiple people and that's just OKAY. but a man saying "No thanks, I just want these women here" and those women saying "That's alright, we want to share this man" it's just WRONG and BACKWARD and we're all going to hell.

Yeah right.

Fire pon Babylon and it's backwardness.

[enlytnd]

Thank you for the video & information. U seem to make informed decision on ur preference unlike many others that practice serial monogamy in this (U.S.) society are hypocritical as many of them lie & cheat or are being lied to. Polgyny is not all @ sex but this society over-emphasize sex but family realationships. It is also economically beneficial to facilitate plural marriages. Who is anyone to tell you that you cannot live this way. Keep the govt out of your house. Be autonomous & masterful

[DreamGyrl360]

@enlytnd I mean I don't tell anyone else how to live. At the end of the day they make their own choices on what they want for their family... why can't adult women consentually agree to share a man? Why cant a man agree to be faithful/fidelitous to a group of women? They let gays marry, they let people have mistresses and lovers for years, they let people repeatedly divorce and no on prosecutes these people for it. But a man wants to be faithful to a group of women, and he's the devil.

[enlytnd]

@DreamGyrl360 Indeed; nuff said

[gemac2000]

womens benefit of polygyny. Men dont really he has to work harder. Its not bibically wrong because its praticed then and more than half of the world (3/4 of the world pratice til this day so its normal. The other 1/4 of the world does monogomy so thats not normal . This will help more single women have a father for their kids in the home. Economically it works. USA doesnt practice polgyny yet we have the worst debt and more single parent households

[marcusdhouston]

Polygyny has Biblical roots. the Bible is our blueprint for living righteously and having a prosperous society. We have allowed western religious doctrines and practices to deceive us into believing polygyny is wrong. In a polygynous society as we read about in scripture were prosperous and abundantly blessed. the sins of adultery, fornication, and sodomy will bring a society to ruin. Keeping sex in it's proper place is crucial. Scripture tells us the married bed is undefiled.

[lawani2k]

This video is like therapy i like the honesty

[DIJV79]

Let 70% of white woman be unmarried and single and they will legalize polygamy tomorrow, I put money on it.

[brandon10175]

its polygamy.... lol

[DreamGyrl360]

@brandon10175 What's polygamy? lol

polygamy is a PERSON having more than one spouse. It does not denote gender. Polygny is a husband having more than one wife. And Polyandry is a wife having more than one husband.

[TheRamyk]

Right on sister...be brave many are with you!!!

[DreamGyrl360]

@TheRamyk THANK YOU akh I SO appreciate voiced support!!! (Clearly it gets REAL hard around here lol)

[Slainna]

polygyny gets so much bad press but i think for some people, it's a great idea. women not only outnumber men in most countries but some men, quite frankly, don't deserve a loving wife. it's more than just crazy cults that want this; i'm a jewish, feminist scientist, and i am the one who suggested this to my husband. I introduce him to women and invite them into our homes so they can get to know us. This "only half a man" business is nonsense; poly women may share a man but they gain so much

[220livingtheword]

NO, sister the Lord said in the new testament that a man should have one wife.

[DreamGyrl360]

@220livingtheword This is erroneous -- no where can that be proven.

[DreamGyrl360]

@220livingtheword Say did you delete your stuff? I see it in my email but cannot find it on here on youtube.

If you are interested in the scriptures and what it says on polygyny, please check out my biblical video on the matter.

I'm sorry I can't get your comments up. :-(

[DalaiMama17]

Be for real. Think about your man hugged up, telling some other woman he loves her and he cares for her and he will be with her forever. Above and beyond sex. Think about that for a second. Every woman wants a soulmate, a partner who loves her and completes her. Stop accepting 1/2 a man because you're scared the man will leave you if you don't. And as for another woman coming to clean your house and watch your kids, girl PLEASE!!! Are u looking for some other woman's house to go clean???

[anyabwile12]

me and my wife are looking for a co-wife now. if there are any Hebrew Yisraelite sisters out there who dont mind relocating to Ga, contact me so we can explore this possibility...shalom

[glowbalmind]

Thank you for the info sis.......but, having a friend or a housekeeper is not a benefit. I can make a friend on the street, and hire a maid.....

Also.....If I need to talk to someone about my husband behavior, I can go to my mom, his mom, or my other married sisters.....

[DreamGyrl360]

To each his/her own! Most regular people cannot hire a maid, most people you talk to about your man will only know your side, no matter how fair we try to be. Like I keep saying, it's not for everybody, and Yah didn't commanded. But it is an option for those who can benefit from it. If your family can't, someone else's can!

[DreamGyrl360]

All married people know, the less external entities you have involved in your business, the better.

With a second wife, she would not be external, she would be internal.

A marital relationship works better when it's between a man, his wives, and Yahweh & Yahshua. No where in scripture do you see a man or a woman seeking advice from a man or a woman about his/her marriage. Such a thing is Roman tradition.

[DreamGyrl360]

In the home a young woman is trained on how to be a wife. But after she becomes a wife, seeking external advice is usual detrimental to the marriage...they want to give advice according to what they were told, which is incomplete information.

You cannot judge if you do not know the full story. That's why you have to bring forth not just the accused and the accuser but also the witnesses. This is Torah...

[220livingtheword]

@DreamGyrl360 what happens when he getts mad sat you and decides he does not want to make love with you because after all he has a choce. I guess you just have to focus on getting him back. yeah thats not something a woman needs to be readily availble for her man to do. if you ask me.

[DreamGyrl360]

@220livingtheword What happens when a wife gets mad at a husband and decides not to give him any AT ALL?

I mean dont' people have disagreements in marital relationships anyway? This should not be a deterrent at all; if it is then one should not get married to ONE person let alone more than one. Because it's always going to be some kind of conflict which needs to be resolved in a relationship.

[relly1983]

Black women don't buy into this nonsense. There are plenty of non-Black men out there. You don't have to settle for these selfish Black men.

[nahleejah]

Black Queens need to stay with their Kings.

[DreamGyrl360]

Indeed Nahleejah...We do anyway, even those of us that are sleep exhibit that ultimately, that is what we want...our black Kings... and nobody else...

[220livingtheword]

@nahleejah Black kings need to love thier wives as the mashiack loves the church, and stay with them, and them only, not marring another too as if she is unable to fulfill his needs, and he is enought for her and more. thats a joke. They rearly come into the marrige being everything she needs in the first place, they grow into fufilling one another so why put a woman thrugh the stress of cheating in the home!!!!!

[germanyinthehouse]

@220livingtheword You have no clue about this life and you speak from a bible stand point. How do you think the human race grew? And the bible wasn't always around nor it's theaching.

[DreamGyrl360]

@germanyinthehouse If you have any beef with what she said you'll have to address her on her page.

She won't admit it but she got low in our debates on here and I block rude, disrespectful comments...

Sorry.

[breezyage]

In the Bible, Most second wives or concubines were just for sexual purposes. A woman was no more than property, often taken without her permission. She has to obey her husband so her personality and mood, doesn't really matter, her Job/role is to obey , and have children. Concubines names were rarely if ever mentioned in the Bible. In the Bible it often shows how paligomy has many problems. I believe it's because it was started by the grandson of the first murderer.

[dinamo4889]

ze mishugot shabat shalom

[AsaYah]

HalleluYah ahkot! You have restored my hope in the sistas... Todah rabah!

[bluesky37043]

The devil is so deciptive. Don't go for this.

[DreamGyrl360]

Please be sure to check scripture before you comment.

If you need to, I posted a vid almost 2 yrs ago about Yahweh's approval of Polygyny, found all off and through scripture...

[u235sentinel]

So the Bible prophets who lived this lifestyle were deceived?

Moses, Abraham, Issac and so on.

Are you serious?

[yahshuahdotcom]

Very insightful! Todah Rabah!

[jessomglol]

I'm dying to know if you yourself are in a polygynous relationship, I've noticed you're careful not to divulge that particular information, which is understandable and is the reason I won't ask if you are :P

[DreamGyrl360]

lol Jess omg!

lol

No, not at this time, not yet. My husband says if Yahweh puts someone in his path, he will let me know and he will pursue her. There are issues with the women who my husband runs into lol. My husband is picky lol. He wants a connection with someone and he hasn't found that. He's super intelligent and enjoys mental stimulation. The physical comes after. No one's been able to connect with him at that level...except me... so... I stay in prayer. Someone will fit us.

[NubianKeyuana1]

My husband is the same way , and I am in your postion. But my husband is on a mission and would like a sistawife to do women things like getting our nails down stuff like that lol. Nice see I am not the only one.

[Modacolorist]

Can't disclose info because it is illegal in this country.

[anyabwile12]

excellent analysis ahkowti.

shalom

[yahshuahdotcom]

Your ishi sounds like me, dang!

[Flex5445]

Good post sis. Great information.

[KENDRASCHARLES]

This video is very encouraging for all parties who interestedd in getting into a polygamous relationship. Many benefits and overall a means for better household.

[NoticeOfDefault]

This is a great vid ... polygamy is good for the orphan too ... the orphan has no family at all and joining a family is good for them as well ... your points are solid ... It allows for the orphan man to build his family and the orphan women to join a strong family ...

Thanks for your positivity ...

[Muslimah2Muslimah]

You made some very good points on here, sis! It is nice to see this spoken about from the Christian aspect.

[DreamGyrl360]

Thanks! I'm not Christian, btw, I'm Hebrew. :-) I'm most certainly glad you enjoyed the vid!

[NSLBC]

Thanks.