I'm not trying to play the mangina or save-a-hoe role here just devils advocate, but I think if a bratha doesn't have a car, shouldn't he be focusing on stacking his chips?. Whether that's working 2 jobs or what ever hustle (legal of course). I'm looking at it from the standpoint of coming up (car, crib, etc) not from the standpoint of getting pussy.
Part 4. I admit I have things I need to work on but a great man knows his flaws, I'm a little shallow and I am timid to let women who are unattractive to me know that I'm not interested to protect her heart.
Part 3, people ask me why am I single all the freakin time..I say it seems like the pussy slowed down when I changed my life and started thinking for my future and held my self responsible for my actions,life and relationships...some women tell me I look like a player, that's how I know I am being judged all the time, without any opportunity to show what in my heart.
Part 2,I carry myself well,I don't have a car and since I moved back to minnesota I've had it hard, no car and I'm back with my mom.it kills my confidence even more when women back off when I'm honest, at the same time it shows me whoa real and fake...I have a handful of other women who are interested but they have too much baggage and some I'm not attracted to..the so called "independent BW" are really shallow and I see right through the mom on the rebound game.
I'm 25, don't have a car, and it wouldn't be beneficial to have one right now,I work and go to school gas for that alone would be crazy on a brotha,women tell me all the time I'm handsome they are interested,I seem like I got every thing together.
LaVeyan philosophy helps me to be stronger, but it also states that its important in relationships to listen to men & dress correctly & not try to show more intellectual power with dominant type men, who need to be worshipped & listened to.
I've dated 2 guys without a car, i fell hopelessy in love with one, but he got me sucked into his witchcraft beliefs & ended up confused & crying over him all the time, running around him all the time, i don't wish to be a victim of men again, it's not important that a guy has a car or money, but caring all the time for a guy who just treats you bad because he's ill is bad news cos you just end up hurt and a victim.
As a man I would like to date a woman with a car. But I wouldn't hate on her if she's trying to get a car. But with a lot of these hoe's it's not enough to have a car it's got to be 2012 version..
As long as he was a gentleman and at least offered me some gas money, and didn't expect me to be his taxi service for the rest of my life, I wouldn't mind. However, if we were both carless, the relationship would be unproductive for both of us, since two broke people don't make for a good relationship.
also let me say that the 2 guys although they were cool they kept throwing it in my face as if I were the reason they didnt have a car, more of a self pitty thing that became very unattractive. I love my black men & would struggle with you day in & day out but dont pitty yourself..there's nothing more unattractive than a weak man!
I have dated 2 guys that didn't have cars & we weren't that serious but I enjoyed them & their company so it didn't matter. I have came across to some as boogie, stuck up & etc b/c I have always been independent & had my own things but @ the same time I know my place. I recognize when I have a man & when to step down & let him be that man. However I've discovered men usually are intimidated by the Independent woman. There's nothing more beautiful than building a union with a BLACK man!
@Mahoganni Men are not intimidated by independent women, they just don't see an independent career woman having romantic time for them because they're always chasing after their careers and professional achievements to the extent that they may not even have time for sex, so no man want to be with such a woman and that doesn't mean we're intimidated by them. It's because we can't see ourselves being happy with a woman who is always in company meetings.
I don't need to be spending $100 a month on insurance for a car that just sits in the driveway while I avoid becoming a fat lazy bastard who hops in his car to drive half a mile or end up spending even more money on a gym membership to go walk in place on a treadmill.
I could be a billionaire and I'd still walk, I'd still wear the same kind of clothes, and I'd be happy to know that those gold-diggers would write me off to prey on someone else.
I would if he treated me like I was the best thing since ice cream!!!! We can find a way to get where we have to go....I mean he will eventually have his own transportation. You gotta work with him if he is trying to do the right thing.
Yes, he MUST be mobile in order for me to date him. But I do think it's a matter of preference. I don't live on a busline nor can he catch a train. So that means anytime I want to see him or vice versa I HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN or it won't happen at all... that's too much. That should be a shared responsibility in dating.
This is the real shit man I am a single father raising my 5 year old daughter by myself and I get shitted on by women because all they want is a man with a car and a nice place by themselves they always ask if I have a car or if I live on my own they don't see that I am a man taking care of my responsibilities going to school going to work to support me and my daughter yes I live with my mom but I am working on getting my own car and place women these days are just shallow and are spoiled.
@cnadyapple53 good for him, only an idiot would take care of another mans little bastard. Now I'm not saying you did anything wrong or that you being a single mom makes you a bad person. Perhaps the father died though more than likely you were off banging a guy you didn't really know or a bad boy, then got knocked up and now want to put the problem you made on someone else, that is the usual case with single moms. You could be an exception. Either way though no one wants the crumb cruncher.
@cnadyapple53 Now since it has been made clear it's not a mistake and you did have this child on purpose it doesn't change the fact it's a problem. It's time consuming and financially restricting which is amplified by your single status, and no man with a brain would put up with your baggage for stretched out pussy and another mans bastard. What do you have to offer that another woman without a child could not give and then some? If your rich, that would make a great deal of difference.
@cnadyapple53 When a man doesn't want to deal with some other guys left over jizz spot it does not mean he hates women. He just knows he can do better for himself and his family. Why would a man want to be used by a baby daddy and a single mom? Basically taking care of responsibility without the benefits of it being his. As for you not needing a man, well...you do, without a man banging your brains out you wouldn't have your rugrat. As for men trying to get at you, some men will pork anything.
@cnadyapple53 A man wise enough to not get with another mans family is doing so because he doesn't want to take care of a child not his. You can go on and do all your name calling and what not, but the fact remains your life is burdened by being a single mother because your time and finances are restricted to the point it will be impossible to become wealthy without another man to pick up the tab the childs father left behind. Why would another man want to pay for what you and another man did?
@crivera1211 maybe no one wants to have to put up with your problems when they can get someone without them, basically someone better. Why don't you stop being a little bitch and just admit you screwed up. lol I just read your 27, and still living with your mom? Your a loser. Maybe you have moved out since you posted this though, I sure hope so. I hope your not going to be pathetic for all of your life.
She should have enough money to buy her own car and drive it to go and meet the man if it's such an important issue to her instead of making demands to men about what they should possess to impress/interest her. Let's turn the tables and ask, what do these demanding women have to offer? Beyond sex...
Materalistic women will never really know love are be happy any way. They will never really know love. It's really not important to them. Also women that love money men don't care to have him with other women. But really i think a gold digger is very low in my book and if there quest for money men blows up in there face then so be it.
@nativemrv19722--I know the feeling, Man. I recently ran into one. When she started with problems with past lovers, I told her I did not want to hear it and I walked away. I should've given her the finger. Americunts are sorry-asses beyond belief. Not to mention they are ugly both mentally and physically. I hate it when I have to see them in other countries. They should literally drop dead off the face of the earth.
rite idnt understand why a girl would rather have money than love u would expect the guys to be like that but it sad to say that women love money more than anything
@myronthe12 Yeah, and money can't really buy happiness. And a rich man, women don't really understand can really have any woman. And most have this way about them.They may not treat them that special.
gentlemen, if a woman won't date you if you don't have a car, then it is obvious she's not really that into you to begin with. basically, she really wants you to be her personal taxi driver, who drives her around everywhere for free. do you want to be this guy? remember-kissing her ass, will not get you laid.
Well, I DO own a car, but when I date a woman, I never use the car or even let her know I own one. This is a test that I give to all the woman I date. I have dated 7 girls and presented this test to them, and only 1 girl out of 7 passed. It's all fucked up brother.
it not shallowness in all cases because i wont date a guy without a car because its all about survival of the fittest a dude with a car might not be doing to well & if he tryna get with me its goin to be a negative because I fell ike a relationship is 50/50 if u aint doin good 4 u how u gonna do good 4 us? the guy with the car is obviously doin better and there gets the grl and that gives the guy with no car time 2 start doin better 4 himself and there 4 get the girl and do good 50\50 4 them
I agree with all of this. women are needy and think that they should be driven around and given everything on a silver platter. I used to HAVE to have a car to make my life work. But recently i have had my licence revoked due to madical conditons. So I have come accustomed to not having one. I sold my car so I didn't have to pay for issurance, or make payments and maintence. Why pay for a dead horse, right? the funny thing is I can get around just as fast as I did when I did have a car.
@mitstud sorry you do deserve some girl that would love u still if my man had to give his ride up for medical reason i have a car he would ride as long as i was riding
what the fuck does a car have to do with how he may treat you and honor you?u see thats why women always wind up with shit, their values are so distorted
yes i woud if he treated me like a queen and showed me love and respect I would ride a bus with the brotha or cab hell it wouldn't matter it's all about the love
hmmm....if he's in the process of saving up for a ride, i dont mind. as long as i know he's a responsible, hard- working person who's a careful driver, im cool.
If you don't have a car and she does she may not be interested. The best thing to do would be would be to just work on your game tight until you feel confident enough to approach her.
I don't have a car and I've had some women go deaf after I tell them that. So while some of them lay out more than $800 months and ignore me I bust my ass and my net worth goes up by more than that a month.
FUnny I hear you my man on this. the funny thing is I know a lot of women of other races who date other good guys and mos tof the time these guys dont have cars also. No wonder more guys are hoping the fence. I know plenty of ladies of other races who ahve cars and their man dont yet they stil together after 5 years .
There are going to be women who are not going to hear any positive things you say in the video, They are just going to attack you saying they are not here to take care of a man. But they are women, get it.
believe it when i see it.
Terrealimthetruth 1 month ago
I'm not trying to play the mangina or save-a-hoe role here just devils advocate, but I think if a bratha doesn't have a car, shouldn't he be focusing on stacking his chips?. Whether that's working 2 jobs or what ever hustle (legal of course). I'm looking at it from the standpoint of coming up (car, crib, etc) not from the standpoint of getting pussy.
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Part 4. I admit I have things I need to work on but a great man knows his flaws, I'm a little shallow and I am timid to let women who are unattractive to me know that I'm not interested to protect her heart.
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
Part 3, people ask me why am I single all the freakin time..I say it seems like the pussy slowed down when I changed my life and started thinking for my future and held my self responsible for my actions,life and relationships...some women tell me I look like a player, that's how I know I am being judged all the time, without any opportunity to show what in my heart.
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
Part 2,I carry myself well,I don't have a car and since I moved back to minnesota I've had it hard, no car and I'm back with my mom.it kills my confidence even more when women back off when I'm honest, at the same time it shows me whoa real and fake...I have a handful of other women who are interested but they have too much baggage and some I'm not attracted to..the so called "independent BW" are really shallow and I see right through the mom on the rebound game.
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
I'm 25, don't have a car, and it wouldn't be beneficial to have one right now,I work and go to school gas for that alone would be crazy on a brotha,women tell me all the time I'm handsome they are interested,I seem like I got every thing together.
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
I like tough american guys a lot though, in our culture (england), a lot of men are kinda gay, lol.
lilyeve222 2 months ago
LaVeyan philosophy helps me to be stronger, but it also states that its important in relationships to listen to men & dress correctly & not try to show more intellectual power with dominant type men, who need to be worshipped & listened to.
lilyeve222 2 months ago
I've dated 2 guys without a car, i fell hopelessy in love with one, but he got me sucked into his witchcraft beliefs & ended up confused & crying over him all the time, running around him all the time, i don't wish to be a victim of men again, it's not important that a guy has a car or money, but caring all the time for a guy who just treats you bad because he's ill is bad news cos you just end up hurt and a victim.
lilyeve222 2 months ago
As a man I would like to date a woman with a car. But I wouldn't hate on her if she's trying to get a car. But with a lot of these hoe's it's not enough to have a car it's got to be 2012 version..
theright1allthetime 2 months ago
I went on a date in a cab once, because we were both bent on getting extremely drunk that night, and neither of us wanted to get a DUI.
gwenshin 3 months ago
As long as he was a gentleman and at least offered me some gas money, and didn't expect me to be his taxi service for the rest of my life, I wouldn't mind. However, if we were both carless, the relationship would be unproductive for both of us, since two broke people don't make for a good relationship.
gwenshin 3 months ago
lmmfaooo...oh brother.
Spo1ledbratbaby1 4 months ago
also let me say that the 2 guys although they were cool they kept throwing it in my face as if I were the reason they didnt have a car, more of a self pitty thing that became very unattractive. I love my black men & would struggle with you day in & day out but dont pitty yourself..there's nothing more unattractive than a weak man!
Mahoganni 4 months ago
I have dated 2 guys that didn't have cars & we weren't that serious but I enjoyed them & their company so it didn't matter. I have came across to some as boogie, stuck up & etc b/c I have always been independent & had my own things but @ the same time I know my place. I recognize when I have a man & when to step down & let him be that man. However I've discovered men usually are intimidated by the Independent woman. There's nothing more beautiful than building a union with a BLACK man!
Mahoganni 4 months ago
@Mahoganni Men are not intimidated by independent women, they just don't see an independent career woman having romantic time for them because they're always chasing after their careers and professional achievements to the extent that they may not even have time for sex, so no man want to be with such a woman and that doesn't mean we're intimidated by them. It's because we can't see ourselves being happy with a woman who is always in company meetings.
wamnicho 4 months ago
I have public transit, a bike, and my feet.
I don't need to be spending $100 a month on insurance for a car that just sits in the driveway while I avoid becoming a fat lazy bastard who hops in his car to drive half a mile or end up spending even more money on a gym membership to go walk in place on a treadmill.
I could be a billionaire and I'd still walk, I'd still wear the same kind of clothes, and I'd be happy to know that those gold-diggers would write me off to prey on someone else.
theshillelaghlaw 7 months ago 2
I would if he treated me like I was the best thing since ice cream!!!! We can find a way to get where we have to go....I mean he will eventually have his own transportation. You gotta work with him if he is trying to do the right thing.
Tanisha0782 8 months ago
This is proof positive that WOMEN ARE WHORES! The only thing that they have to offer is...what.....PUSSY! EXACTLY
YET, ALLLL OVER THE BOARD THEY DEMAND THAT A MAN HAS THIS, THIS, AND THIS AND THAT THEY HAVE TO ACT LIKE THIS AND NOT TALK ABOUT THAT, ETC.
THE ONLY THING THAT THEY HAVE WHICH IS THE MAIN GOAL FOR THE MAN IS...PUSSY!
SO..BEING THAT THEY WANT GUYS TO HAVE $, A CAR, ETC..AND ALL THAT THEY BRING TO THE TABLE IS PUSSY?...
DO YOU SEE WHY THET ARE WHORES NOW?????
WAKE UP
iYEMTheGreatest 8 months ago 4
Yes, he MUST be mobile in order for me to date him. But I do think it's a matter of preference. I don't live on a busline nor can he catch a train. So that means anytime I want to see him or vice versa I HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN or it won't happen at all... that's too much. That should be a shared responsibility in dating.
mslady30117 10 months ago
hell yeah they will as long as he's a thug and a jail bird.
326Ka 1 year ago
I am with a guy with no car. Good thing I like to travel ;)
However, if we have a family...Then I need to start getting a car and so does he.
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
This is the real shit man I am a single father raising my 5 year old daughter by myself and I get shitted on by women because all they want is a man with a car and a nice place by themselves they always ask if I have a car or if I live on my own they don't see that I am a man taking care of my responsibilities going to school going to work to support me and my daughter yes I live with my mom but I am working on getting my own car and place women these days are just shallow and are spoiled.
crivera1211 1 year ago
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cnadyapple53 8 months ago
@cnadyapple53 good for him, only an idiot would take care of another mans little bastard. Now I'm not saying you did anything wrong or that you being a single mom makes you a bad person. Perhaps the father died though more than likely you were off banging a guy you didn't really know or a bad boy, then got knocked up and now want to put the problem you made on someone else, that is the usual case with single moms. You could be an exception. Either way though no one wants the crumb cruncher.
ATENakaATON 7 months ago
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cnadyapple53 7 months ago
@cnadyapple53 Now since it has been made clear it's not a mistake and you did have this child on purpose it doesn't change the fact it's a problem. It's time consuming and financially restricting which is amplified by your single status, and no man with a brain would put up with your baggage for stretched out pussy and another mans bastard. What do you have to offer that another woman without a child could not give and then some? If your rich, that would make a great deal of difference.
ATENakaATON 7 months ago
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cnadyapple53 7 months ago
@cnadyapple53 When a man doesn't want to deal with some other guys left over jizz spot it does not mean he hates women. He just knows he can do better for himself and his family. Why would a man want to be used by a baby daddy and a single mom? Basically taking care of responsibility without the benefits of it being his. As for you not needing a man, well...you do, without a man banging your brains out you wouldn't have your rugrat. As for men trying to get at you, some men will pork anything.
ATENakaATON 7 months ago
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cnadyapple53 7 months ago
@cnadyapple53 A man wise enough to not get with another mans family is doing so because he doesn't want to take care of a child not his. You can go on and do all your name calling and what not, but the fact remains your life is burdened by being a single mother because your time and finances are restricted to the point it will be impossible to become wealthy without another man to pick up the tab the childs father left behind. Why would another man want to pay for what you and another man did?
ATENakaATON 7 months ago
@crivera1211 maybe no one wants to have to put up with your problems when they can get someone without them, basically someone better. Why don't you stop being a little bitch and just admit you screwed up. lol I just read your 27, and still living with your mom? Your a loser. Maybe you have moved out since you posted this though, I sure hope so. I hope your not going to be pathetic for all of your life.
ATENakaATON 7 months ago
She should have enough money to buy her own car and drive it to go and meet the man if it's such an important issue to her instead of making demands to men about what they should possess to impress/interest her. Let's turn the tables and ask, what do these demanding women have to offer? Beyond sex...
JayArgonaut 1 year ago
a woman not wanting a man with no car is the same as a man not wanting a fat woman it called preference
2hottric 1 year ago
Dang I need a new web cam and mic. I have so much to offer to this convo. THanks for this video!
AfreeQueen 1 year ago
Materalistic women will never really know love are be happy any way. They will never really know love. It's really not important to them. Also women that love money men don't care to have him with other women. But really i think a gold digger is very low in my book and if there quest for money men blows up in there face then so be it.
nativemrv19722 1 year ago
@nativemrv19722--I know the feeling, Man. I recently ran into one. When she started with problems with past lovers, I told her I did not want to hear it and I walked away. I should've given her the finger. Americunts are sorry-asses beyond belief. Not to mention they are ugly both mentally and physically. I hate it when I have to see them in other countries. They should literally drop dead off the face of the earth.
Interests2009 1 year ago
rite idnt understand why a girl would rather have money than love u would expect the guys to be like that but it sad to say that women love money more than anything
myronthe12 1 year ago
@myronthe12 Yeah, and money can't really buy happiness. And a rich man, women don't really understand can really have any woman. And most have this way about them.They may not treat them that special.
nativemrv19722 1 year ago
gentlemen, if a woman won't date you if you don't have a car, then it is obvious she's not really that into you to begin with. basically, she really wants you to be her personal taxi driver, who drives her around everywhere for free. do you want to be this guy? remember-kissing her ass, will not get you laid.
sasquatch13ja 1 year ago
Well, I DO own a car, but when I date a woman, I never use the car or even let her know I own one. This is a test that I give to all the woman I date. I have dated 7 girls and presented this test to them, and only 1 girl out of 7 passed. It's all fucked up brother.
FoshizzoRizzo 1 year ago
@FoshizzoRizzo thats smart ass shit,im gonna use ur test in the future brother.peace
YouKnowItzTTime81 1 year ago
I honestly would nnot want to date a man with no car... even a broke down car with a hole in the roof is better than no car at all
MurakamiTenshi 1 year ago
@MurakamiTenshi then go fuck urself and we dont care,go get yo money hoe
YouKnowItzTTime81 1 year ago
it not shallowness in all cases because i wont date a guy without a car because its all about survival of the fittest a dude with a car might not be doing to well & if he tryna get with me its goin to be a negative because I fell ike a relationship is 50/50 if u aint doin good 4 u how u gonna do good 4 us? the guy with the car is obviously doin better and there gets the grl and that gives the guy with no car time 2 start doin better 4 himself and there 4 get the girl and do good 50\50 4 them
Air33uhlsAttic 1 year ago
I agree with all of this. women are needy and think that they should be driven around and given everything on a silver platter. I used to HAVE to have a car to make my life work. But recently i have had my licence revoked due to madical conditons. So I have come accustomed to not having one. I sold my car so I didn't have to pay for issurance, or make payments and maintence. Why pay for a dead horse, right? the funny thing is I can get around just as fast as I did when I did have a car.
mitstud 2 years ago
@mitstud sorry you do deserve some girl that would love u still if my man had to give his ride up for medical reason i have a car he would ride as long as i was riding
give and take
cnadyapple53 1 year ago
what the fuck does a car have to do with how he may treat you and honor you?u see thats why women always wind up with shit, their values are so distorted
tristensfather 2 years ago 4
why won't a black man date a woman with no car answer that
cnadyapple53 2 years ago
@cnadyapple53 id date a woman with no car,she probably wont be so stuck up like most women are 8- )
YouKnowItzTTime81 1 year ago
yes i woud if he treated me like a queen and showed me love and respect I would ride a bus with the brotha or cab hell it wouldn't matter it's all about the love
cnadyapple53 2 years ago 7
@cnadyapple53 stop lying
oscie1 8 months ago
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cnadyapple53 8 months ago
*lol*
Sad, but true. There is so much truth in this video such that words can't express. 5 stars.
The LAST thing I want to hear some USA CUNT run their mouths about is past lovers.
Interests2009 2 years ago
Not only would I date him, but he'd have a tremendous advantage over a man with a gas-guzzling Hummer.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
I'm an environmentalist, so hell yeah I'd date a guy with no car.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
hmmm....if he's in the process of saving up for a ride, i dont mind. as long as i know he's a responsible, hard- working person who's a careful driver, im cool.
piscesariescusp121 2 years ago
10/10
Holidayfunk 2 years ago
If you don't have a car and she does she may not be interested. The best thing to do would be would be to just work on your game tight until you feel confident enough to approach her.
I don't have a car and I've had some women go deaf after I tell them that. So while some of them lay out more than $800 months and ignore me I bust my ass and my net worth goes up by more than that a month.
I DO laugh all the way to the bank.
saintcaffeine 2 years ago 3
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NO!!! if he has no car that means i have to drive him around!lol
BLACKMENAREFAILINGUS 2 years ago
creepy motherfucker
Y85colette 2 years ago
FUnny I hear you my man on this. the funny thing is I know a lot of women of other races who date other good guys and mos tof the time these guys dont have cars also. No wonder more guys are hoping the fence. I know plenty of ladies of other races who ahve cars and their man dont yet they stil together after 5 years .
artbunker 2 years ago
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muncher420420 2 years ago
There are going to be women who are not going to hear any positive things you say in the video, They are just going to attack you saying they are not here to take care of a man. But they are women, get it.
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He's a muderer
BugottiGirl 2 years ago
the bitch deserved it
12tribesdeep 2 years ago
shut up. you deserve it. wanker
BugottiGirl 2 years ago