Profound!! makes sense that a woman walks behind... i am soooo going to remind men of this when they want me to walk in a door first! love it... thanx phil
this guy is a racist who believes white people are incapable of seeing past surface level materialism, beware of his teachings: understand that skin color has nothing to do with the soul of an individual and anyone who says so is an enemy of the peace and harmony that this world needs. Please if you are a person of color, stand up to this brand of racism and embrace the idea that spirituality is colorblind.
@KittySugarLips The dream is dead, gansta rap (and government programs that required a woman have no man in the house in order to get benefits) killed it. MLK would suicide seeing what the people he fought for willingly allowed themselves to devolve into.
@KittySugarLips Good move, speaking about it in the past tense...cuz nowadays it tells kids they have to sling, gangbang, or be hoes in videos in order to be successful, or to even be considered men. Gangsta rap has never been positive. It's all young minds can get into because they don't know to look for other types of black music on the internet. All they want is the crap on radio, the rawer, more misogynistic, more sociopathic, anti-community and anti-authoritan, the better.
@yahshuah29 At the same time, these same "men" impregnating misled women then leaving them for another idiot or prison are themselves the product of some guy who is what they are, who did the very same thing he's doing. His child, without a father, will turn to rap for black male guidance, and guess what rap will teach him: fuck hoes, leave em, sling rocks, prison ain't shit. Don't start that "there's positive rappers" shit. We both know that the shit on the radio is what takes the place of dad.
Yes men should protect women. However saying things like men are "acting like women" and with such disgust shows me the disgust that they actually have for women. SMFH...the only psychic vampires are see are the so called male leaders of the conscious community.
@queenlashea That doesnt show disgust,men acting like women is disgusting,thats a faggot.A man is not supposed to act like a woman just like a woman aint supposed to act like a man.
wow i'm seeing the WILLY LYNCH SYNDROME being played out in this chat. wow. we're fighting each other and every other race has their structure done proper and we're here bickering. damn smh
So much anger and emotionalism. These are the signs of effeminzed men. It is true that we are out of balance between the genders. Recovery will involve a syncretization of roles between men and women. Yes women are the backbone of the home and society! But the backbone anatomically is a SUPPORT structure. So men we need to build what they will support and perpetuate in our seeds. None of this is new we just don't have the humility often to look at our true ancestral traditions for guidance.
@brianbmf Only the pussies & bitch made men ever forgot the mans TRUE ROLE! you gay ass niggaz kill me with that shit you pussies scared your balls gone fall of if you KNOW THE WOMANS TRUE ROLE! Bitches!
@yahshuah29 Nigga the only gay ass pussies is the men who do not step into their role as the LEADER,provider and protector...Once again that first one LEADER!The woman's true role is not one of the leader or head of the household and if a man is sitting up under a woman doing that he is a pussie ass nigga.A real man is the head of his family and a leader and his family follows his leadership and direction,thats a real man.The woman's role is not leadership,thats backwards!
@brianbmf Only pussies have to "STEP INTO THEIR ROLE" as the leader & protector that should be as natural as breathing monkey! I laugh at you niggaz the only thing you are leading is your penis if you niggaz are the protectors of your family you bitches are doing a terrible job just look at the condition of our families! No you tired as pussies cant hold a candle to the black woman she has single handily kept us together for hundreds of years & you bitch as niggaz want to play tough lame ass!
@yahshuah29 Yes you do have to step into your role,thats why you have to have your fther around to teach you or other real men around.Even though it is natural it still must be shown to a boy by real men.The black woman single handily has not kept us together,our families are in the worst position because the black woman is out of position being the head and yea that is the fault of the black man because he is the LEADER not her and one the man is out of position everybody is out of postion.
@yahshuah29 So dont call this man a clown because he is pointing out how shit is supposed to be.The only bitch and pussy here is you getting mad because this man is pointing out what the black man is supposed to be doing and pointing out this backwards matriarchal thought.What phil says needs to be said because our families are broken and our boys are becomming fags and our daughters whores because we are out of position in this matriarchal shit.THATS NOT OUR NATURAL WAY!
@brianbmf Look illiterate talking to you is like talking to a goat! Our families are not in the condition they are in because we live in a matriarchal society because we dont dumb ass. Its because the black men are pussies with no ethics loyalty respect or knowledge that is the problem you uneducated mongrels if it wasnt for the black women we would not exist. STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR FAILURES IT IS YOU BITCH ASS NIGGERS THAT IS THE PROBLEM!
@yahshuah29 Yes we are in a matriarchal state dumb ass thats why 70% of our families are led by women and this backwards way was set up by the slavemaster!Read willie lynch dumb ass.I dont blaim others for nothing,i already said its the black mans fault because he is the leader you dumb ass!The woman is not at fault soley because she follows the pattern of the man.Matriarchy is backwards and is not our way,our women were not our leaders thats backwards and not their position!
@brianbmf THIS IS NOT A MATRIARCHY MONKEY! 70% of are families are led by women because U and those like you are bitch made niggaz! Its no coincidence that 70% of children are born & raised with no male (Pussy ass nigga) in the house hold thats your fault LAME ASS NIGGA! Deal with your short comings (BITCH) dont blame our queens for your impotence! YOU THINK THAT THE MOTHER OF THE UNIVERSE IS GOING TO FOLLOW YOU & THOSE LIKE YOU CLOWN? PLEASE US REAL MEN GOT THIS! YOU FAKE PUSSIES NEED NOT APPLY
@yahshuah29 The only bitch made nigga is you talkin shit over a cpu wher nobody can see you or you aint in nobody face.I never left no family behind so im not in that catagorie,and your dumb none reading ass i said its not the womans fault but the mans fault you dumb ass because the man is the leader.The black community is in a matriarchy right now,female led which is backwards and never our way.The black man has always been the leader and must come back to it.
@yahshuah29 I'm gonna have to say that it is more because women don't have any idea of what to look for in a man. They look for "swagger", not substance. Media brainwashing has convinced black women that a desirable black man is one who commits crimes, acts sullen all the time (like an angry woman who doesn't want to talk about a problem), dresses like a gay dude (sagging and dreads in pigtail) and conducts himself like he's in prison, or in a way that will quickly get himself sent (back) there.
so to everyone saying that there were never matriarchal societies in Africa what about the Candace Queens? i dont know much about the line, but i believe they ruled without a king validating their power. to these overly masculine males who say women follow and men lead its bs. true life is balanced. the woman is a nurturer, that takes nothing away from her power. admitting women have power takes nothing away from mens power. men learn ur own truths and love n respect ur women as u do urselves.
@5104560711 The candace queens are apart of the rare event of women sitting on the throne,it was not the normal and it only happened when a man died or for some reason was not ther or a boy was to young.Women following and men leading is not bs that is simply nature,that is the mans role is to lead thats why it is men chosen from birth to sit on the throne not women.Also what phil said on men are the ones who change the society that is correct,men invent everything in society ancient and modern.
@brianbmf men invent everything. that sounds real prideful sir. i know in this day n age we have well documented "facts" telling us that men created everything, just as we have these well documented "facts" telling us that white people created everything and Blacks did nothing...do u c where im going with this? im not going to debate bc neither u or me can go back in time and get the real facts; but dont b so quick to accept something just bc it boosts ur ego.
@5104560711 No we dont have documented facts saying white people invented everything,the documented facts show and prove what black men have invented and it exceeds what white men have invented so I dont know wher you got that from,the documentation on what we did is available.We dont have to go back in time,the historical documentation is ther to see that men created majority of everything.All of our great civilizations were built and ruled by men thats easy facts to look up.
@brianbmf we have documents baby i am a college student i read textbooks for a living boo believe what i say. the scarce info we have about Black truths is just that, scarce. libraries have been burned to ashes, full heads of aged rock crumbled. the true info that we do have came from extensive piercing research. just like the Bible, full texts, unmentioned, A LOT OF THEM PERTAINING TO WOMEN. its easy to accept something as truth when it polishes ur image n ill leave it at that. peace god.
@5104560711 We dont have scarce info,ther is alot of information out ther,yes some is lost like you said but we still have plenty of info and the ancient structures are still ther,the writings on the wall are still ther,so some information being lost doesnt take away the fact that men built and invented majority everything and built civilizations like egypt and all other african civilizations and that is evident right on the walls of egypt and in the glyphs.
@5104560711 cont:It has nothing to do with an ego boost,its just simple fact that black men made everything in the ancient world and men in this time period have made everything as well today almost everything we use was invented by a man and alot by black men,but if we are talking creation overall from ancient times until now the facts show and prove black men made most of everything.Look at all of our great Kingdoms especially egypt.Women didnt design and build the pyramids that was black men.
@brianbmf jealous white boys cross out the names of the ethiopians on famous monuments. u think jealous black boys are exempt from such childesh acts? u say women did nothing. really sound dumb bra n im sorry for the name calling, but ima say what i said in my first post from the gate, find ur own truths. n im gone.
@5104560711 I never said that women have done nothing,i simply said men have done the majority of creating and inventing,that was not to take away from what women have done.
@5104560711 Cont:When you had rare moments like the candaces ruling it was not a matriarchal society,the society was still male dominated,just like when you had a few european queens sit on the throne it was still a male dominated society.
I have some practical advice that has helped me attract money. W/o 9-5s and working from home. Self talk. Whether it's negative or positive makes all the difference. It doesn't matter so much as what you say to others. But what you say to yourself creates who you are. So affirmations work! The only way they don't is if it is coupled with negative self talk. Because it cancels each other out! Remembe it's all about the subconsious. Thats what phil speaks about. NEVER talk to yourself negative!
It's funny when a women thinks she knows more about a man than a man does LOL! My advice to all the brothaz here is lead by example. Women are not leaders, they are followers. PERIOD! So if you're waiting for a female to do something you're wasting your time. All women are good for is sex and chores, a MAN has to do the REAL work that goes into a relationship. Women are bred by their parents to sell their pussy to the highest bidder. In this case the white man. So love yourself fuck whores!
I dont see how anyone follows this guy or takes him seriously. He is a woman hater i have tried to listen to him but I just caint help but notice his anger towards women besides that is the fact that he does not know a damn thing about african or kimetan society and beliefs!
@yahshuah29 Ur problem is that ur used to sissies, posing as men. Men, including Phil, women, but will not stand idly by, as our families are decimated by an alien philosophy which has females looking, acting like men; also sexually-misoriented like men. The anger is real & justified, as our sisters have been turned against us, w/disrespect, disdain and contempt for the leadership of the black MAN. What is passed on today, as African or Khemet, is nothing more than feminist-influenced lore.
@yahshuah29 In fact, what is passed on today, has NOTHING to do w/ Africa, then and now. It's more like African-AMERICAN culture, dressed up in ritual, African clothing, with NO real sense of African manhood and womanhood. So, the males have become Michael Jacksons (weak, soft and overly-pliant) and the females, Rosie O'Donnell (butchy, masculine, unbending and rebellious).
@Soulblackman You know nothing about me so to claim what im use to is a bit ridicules! I however agree totally with your statement that men have become sissies and soft and that our women have nothing but contempt for us which is a result partially of our lack of testicular fortitude! However this erroneous notion that africa was a patriarch society is baseless and false period! How do I know 1st half of my family is african nigeria ghana I would take their word over someone who is not african!
@yahshuah29 Even w/colonialism & slavery, Africans were and are MEN, & there is NOTHING in Africa, that points to matriarchy. NO society follows that. THAT's the imagination that was created by white feminism. I challenge u to bring from ur family, this "evidence" of African matriarchy.
@Soulblackman Brother with all due respect you do not know what the hell you are talking about on any level! You seem to think a strong woman means a weak man it sounds like you brothers are not sure of your man hood I dont except challenges from un educated people they go no where! You are the one making the claim contrary to what is known by those who have studied this so you show your proof of your extraordinary claims because I find this topic childish and not worthy of debate THERE IS NONE!
@Soulblackman Let me correct myself because as black men we must be able to disagree with each other without hurling insults because we are fighting for the same goals and agenda! In my response I stated that I do not except challenges from uneducated people this was uncalled for you are my brother asking me a question and I have no right to insult you for that a 1000 pardons GOD!
@yahshuah29 I accept ur apology,unconditionally. To the pt., BW have allowed WW to define strength as opposing and fighting at every turn the BM, not the WM or WW. Strength means spiritual, moral & cultural development & refinement. CHASITY until marriage is strength. Cooking healthy meals 4 ur man & children, in light of white, feminist influence,is strength. I still aver that it is grossly incorrect, this notion of African matriarchal societies; they don't exist, except in the minds of
@yahshuah29 Of feminist-influenced people, who seek to infuse and project, European, homosexual, atheist, anti-family culture to the black family. That's why black females here r so butchy & masculine; it's getting harder & harder to tell who's a male or female. At least the absence of facial hair helps. I forgot, a BW who shows loyalty & devotion to her BM is STRONG, as she resists the devil-suggestions that she doesn't need one, or should get another female. That's where all this "strength"
@yahshuah29 leads to. Phil hits this stuff hard, as it should be. It's just unfortunate that most black males have become more & more intimidated and sissified, to stand up and challenge these anomalies.
@Soulblackman I think that only men who are unsure of their manhood can be threatened by a woman! The king is the king and the queen is the queen only weak kings could feel the need to prove his kingship thats what im saying YES IF YOU ARE OR HAVE BEEN A WEAK MAN THEN YOU DO NEED TO ASSERT YOURSELF BUT IF YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A STRONG BLACK MAN THEN THAT IS NOT AN ISSUE YOUR QUEEN IS YOUR VIC REGENT NOT YOUR SUBJECTS A NATION CAN ONLY RISE AS HIGH AS ITS WOMEN BECAUSE ALL LIFE COMES THROUGH HER!
@yahshuah29 Ur missing the pt. African societies understood that there r certain roles 4 men vs. women. Women did NOT try to assert themselves vs. their men, to be men, as we have today. Because of feminism, men have HAD to assert themselves against a dyke-inspired energy. Many not being raised by men, are absolutely unsure of their manhood-which was by design. Don't come at me w/all of this stuff about being weak or unsure, as IF ur challenging me to succumb to weakness & feminism.
@yahshuah29 What I'm saying is clear, but u seek to evade and obscure. Contrary to what we've been told, African societies were NOT matriarchal; that's a feminist-inspired myth. Even in theology, the goddesses were NOT at the same level as gods. Notice, I made no comment about my queen being subservient, but I get the sense, due to feminist conditioning, you'd have no problem accepting that BM were and should be subservient to BW. That's the REAL tragedy here. THINK about what I'm saying!
@Soulblackman What im saying is clear! to suggest AFRICA is a homogeneous society is flat out wrong! To suggest that the female deities were subservient to the males is also wrong it is clear you know nothing of which you are speaking! In case you have not figured it out yet my statements come from first hand knowledge not what someone told me and YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN CONDITIONED! Stop thinking we are in total disagreement because we are not I am being specific u r generalizing is all!
@yahshuah29 Then NAME the societies where this matriarchy existed or exists. This is a myth, plain & simple, something feminists & homosexuals have been trying to run 4 yrs, so they can bolster what they've done here, to us in America. Not to say that they aren't actively WORKING on making the African societies matriarchal/lesbian. With their so-called, womens' "empowerment programs, they're full steam ahead, or should I say, "full REAM [to the black man] ahead".
I aint paying Dr. Phil any mind! The men and women are supposed to work together, the problem is that the man stopped working!! Tell them lazy ass excuse filled men to stop making up excuses and get the fuck up and out, be creative while they at it! I aint walking behind no man. If i was so much of a back bone for the man why the fuck am I having to deal with these slug niccas so often.
@MrsDomino you're misunderstanding what he is saying... men & women DO work together but he is saying, before he lets his woman walk into a strange place, he will go BEFORE her to PROTECT her.. hes not saying she must walk behind him all the time physically.. but I do agree men are suppose to lead and women are suppose to follow
@TheRealShortyBrown Please replay that vid,sis, because that's not what he stated here at all. This man waves back & forth more than a flag - one lecture he's talking about the Goddess nature & Her superiority, the next he's saying women shouldn't lead. I've seen vid of him w/my own eyes where he says Black women shouldn't READ (wounded womb series). WTH?! He can't tell me ANYTHING about what a woman should/shouldn't do. UGH.
@MzPriss08 I dunno if it was that particular DVD or series but i've heard/seen him make that same comment about how women shouldn't read or something to that effect. He even tried to explain it away "scientifically" saying how women who read too much become psychologically damaged by doing so. I dig some of the info Brother Valentine comes with but overall he comes off as a waffler and generally an insecure male who feels threatened in regard to his place in society. I'm more a Bobby Hemmitt guy
Bobby Hemmitt is the other extreme when it comes to the gender issue. He went as far to say that men were degenerated females. And he even once boasted to the audience that he would betray men to the benefit of women anyday LOL
Perhaps both Phil and Bobby are using their personal issues a bit too much in this regard
@MzPriss08 U really should not get angry and listen 2 what he is saying word4word...he does not say not to worship and or deify the godess principle..he is simpling saying that the feminine is to be protected by the MAN point blank...our men are thinking like women becuz we are lookin 4 sum1 to take care of us or to save us from sumthing like women should expect from their men...Men need to step up and actually be men and women need 2 get back to the essence u lost after blak men were defeated.
@WahkibaJ He is simply sayin that men need to step up and be leaders,men changes things by leading and the woman conforms to that,its simple and thats exactly what he is saying.He said "the woman does not lead she follows".He also said "because we deified the mother principle they thought the mother principle ruled"?He said that is wron because the mother principle did not rule.
@WahkibaJ Because it seemed like everybody keeps on talking about men just being protectors but never talking about us being leaders when thats what we are supposed to be and thats what phil said in this video.
@shaybunny09 I can't believe the poster of the vid didn't answer. Send a link to him and ask Phil on facebook Phil Valentine El . Look that up and you'll find him.
There are so many black women going through doors by themselves, them and their children, that they have to lead and be strong. Where are you, phil, to open my door? Black women can't be softened up by your speech when 60% of the black women don't have the luxury of needing to be protected.
no, the woman never rules openly but hopefully behind the scenes she manages to keep the community pointed in the righteous direction,,however...if you must lead the way into a room to check for safety then perhaps the both of you need to avoid venturing there.
@lildukibooty Yo! Wigger who the fuck are you calling a bitch you fucking Tamahu wanna be? If you don't understand my comment then get the fuck off this page you asshole freckled face fucktrard!
YYEEEESSSS!!! *claps* Thank you Dr Phil Valentine for speaking the truth.
The black man needs to man up and lead the black women.
SiztahMoon1 2 weeks ago
Profound!! makes sense that a woman walks behind... i am soooo going to remind men of this when they want me to walk in a door first! love it... thanx phil
proimos777 2 months ago
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Compare this with the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 3 months ago
this guy is a racist who believes white people are incapable of seeing past surface level materialism, beware of his teachings: understand that skin color has nothing to do with the soul of an individual and anyone who says so is an enemy of the peace and harmony that this world needs. Please if you are a person of color, stand up to this brand of racism and embrace the idea that spirituality is colorblind.
tymos2001 3 months ago
@KittySugarLips The dream is dead, gansta rap (and government programs that required a woman have no man in the house in order to get benefits) killed it. MLK would suicide seeing what the people he fought for willingly allowed themselves to devolve into.
Rhiorrha 4 months ago
@KittySugarLips Good move, speaking about it in the past tense...cuz nowadays it tells kids they have to sling, gangbang, or be hoes in videos in order to be successful, or to even be considered men. Gangsta rap has never been positive. It's all young minds can get into because they don't know to look for other types of black music on the internet. All they want is the crap on radio, the rawer, more misogynistic, more sociopathic, anti-community and anti-authoritan, the better.
Rhiorrha 4 months ago
Phil Valentine, sounds angry.
septube26 5 months ago
@yahshuah29 At the same time, these same "men" impregnating misled women then leaving them for another idiot or prison are themselves the product of some guy who is what they are, who did the very same thing he's doing. His child, without a father, will turn to rap for black male guidance, and guess what rap will teach him: fuck hoes, leave em, sling rocks, prison ain't shit. Don't start that "there's positive rappers" shit. We both know that the shit on the radio is what takes the place of dad.
Rhiorrha 7 months ago
Yes men should protect women. However saying things like men are "acting like women" and with such disgust shows me the disgust that they actually have for women. SMFH...the only psychic vampires are see are the so called male leaders of the conscious community.
queenlashea 8 months ago
@queenlashea That doesnt show disgust,men acting like women is disgusting,thats a faggot.A man is not supposed to act like a woman just like a woman aint supposed to act like a man.
brianbmf 8 months ago
@brianbmf Dude whatever...
queenlashea 8 months ago
@queenlashea And that answer shows your backwards thinking to think its ok for a man to act like a woman and a woman to act like a man.
brianbmf 8 months ago
lol omg...
queenlashea 8 months ago
wow i'm seeing the WILLY LYNCH SYNDROME being played out in this chat. wow. we're fighting each other and every other race has their structure done proper and we're here bickering. damn smh
nocturnaltongue 8 months ago
So much anger and emotionalism. These are the signs of effeminzed men. It is true that we are out of balance between the genders. Recovery will involve a syncretization of roles between men and women. Yes women are the backbone of the home and society! But the backbone anatomically is a SUPPORT structure. So men we need to build what they will support and perpetuate in our seeds. None of this is new we just don't have the humility often to look at our true ancestral traditions for guidance.
Bizonine 10 months ago
This brother is a clown!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 Everything he said was truth.At least he knows the man's true role.
brianbmf 11 months ago
@brianbmf Only the pussies & bitch made men ever forgot the mans TRUE ROLE! you gay ass niggaz kill me with that shit you pussies scared your balls gone fall of if you KNOW THE WOMANS TRUE ROLE! Bitches!
yahshuah29 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 Nigga the only gay ass pussies is the men who do not step into their role as the LEADER,provider and protector...Once again that first one LEADER!The woman's true role is not one of the leader or head of the household and if a man is sitting up under a woman doing that he is a pussie ass nigga.A real man is the head of his family and a leader and his family follows his leadership and direction,thats a real man.The woman's role is not leadership,thats backwards!
brianbmf 11 months ago
@brianbmf Only pussies have to "STEP INTO THEIR ROLE" as the leader & protector that should be as natural as breathing monkey! I laugh at you niggaz the only thing you are leading is your penis if you niggaz are the protectors of your family you bitches are doing a terrible job just look at the condition of our families! No you tired as pussies cant hold a candle to the black woman she has single handily kept us together for hundreds of years & you bitch as niggaz want to play tough lame ass!
yahshuah29 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 Yes you do have to step into your role,thats why you have to have your fther around to teach you or other real men around.Even though it is natural it still must be shown to a boy by real men.The black woman single handily has not kept us together,our families are in the worst position because the black woman is out of position being the head and yea that is the fault of the black man because he is the LEADER not her and one the man is out of position everybody is out of postion.
brianbmf 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 So dont call this man a clown because he is pointing out how shit is supposed to be.The only bitch and pussy here is you getting mad because this man is pointing out what the black man is supposed to be doing and pointing out this backwards matriarchal thought.What phil says needs to be said because our families are broken and our boys are becomming fags and our daughters whores because we are out of position in this matriarchal shit.THATS NOT OUR NATURAL WAY!
brianbmf 11 months ago
@brianbmf Look illiterate talking to you is like talking to a goat! Our families are not in the condition they are in because we live in a matriarchal society because we dont dumb ass. Its because the black men are pussies with no ethics loyalty respect or knowledge that is the problem you uneducated mongrels if it wasnt for the black women we would not exist. STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR FAILURES IT IS YOU BITCH ASS NIGGERS THAT IS THE PROBLEM!
yahshuah29 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 Yes we are in a matriarchal state dumb ass thats why 70% of our families are led by women and this backwards way was set up by the slavemaster!Read willie lynch dumb ass.I dont blaim others for nothing,i already said its the black mans fault because he is the leader you dumb ass!The woman is not at fault soley because she follows the pattern of the man.Matriarchy is backwards and is not our way,our women were not our leaders thats backwards and not their position!
brianbmf 11 months ago
@brianbmf THIS IS NOT A MATRIARCHY MONKEY! 70% of are families are led by women because U and those like you are bitch made niggaz! Its no coincidence that 70% of children are born & raised with no male (Pussy ass nigga) in the house hold thats your fault LAME ASS NIGGA! Deal with your short comings (BITCH) dont blame our queens for your impotence! YOU THINK THAT THE MOTHER OF THE UNIVERSE IS GOING TO FOLLOW YOU & THOSE LIKE YOU CLOWN? PLEASE US REAL MEN GOT THIS! YOU FAKE PUSSIES NEED NOT APPLY
yahshuah29 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 The only bitch made nigga is you talkin shit over a cpu wher nobody can see you or you aint in nobody face.I never left no family behind so im not in that catagorie,and your dumb none reading ass i said its not the womans fault but the mans fault you dumb ass because the man is the leader.The black community is in a matriarchy right now,female led which is backwards and never our way.The black man has always been the leader and must come back to it.
brianbmf 11 months ago
@brianbmf Fuck you lame ass pussy!
yahshuah29 11 months ago
@yahshuah29 I'm gonna have to say that it is more because women don't have any idea of what to look for in a man. They look for "swagger", not substance. Media brainwashing has convinced black women that a desirable black man is one who commits crimes, acts sullen all the time (like an angry woman who doesn't want to talk about a problem), dresses like a gay dude (sagging and dreads in pigtail) and conducts himself like he's in prison, or in a way that will quickly get himself sent (back) there.
Rhiorrha 7 months ago
@Rhiorrha I would agree with you on that 100% im a very rational person!
yahshuah29 7 months ago
ah man where is? the lecture. blogtalk, youtube or is it for sale?
rdatlasmbrd 1 year ago
WOW!!!! AMAZING!
KarmalBeauty 1 year ago
so to everyone saying that there were never matriarchal societies in Africa what about the Candace Queens? i dont know much about the line, but i believe they ruled without a king validating their power. to these overly masculine males who say women follow and men lead its bs. true life is balanced. the woman is a nurturer, that takes nothing away from her power. admitting women have power takes nothing away from mens power. men learn ur own truths and love n respect ur women as u do urselves.
5104560711 1 year ago
@5104560711 The candace queens are apart of the rare event of women sitting on the throne,it was not the normal and it only happened when a man died or for some reason was not ther or a boy was to young.Women following and men leading is not bs that is simply nature,that is the mans role is to lead thats why it is men chosen from birth to sit on the throne not women.Also what phil said on men are the ones who change the society that is correct,men invent everything in society ancient and modern.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@brianbmf men invent everything. that sounds real prideful sir. i know in this day n age we have well documented "facts" telling us that men created everything, just as we have these well documented "facts" telling us that white people created everything and Blacks did nothing...do u c where im going with this? im not going to debate bc neither u or me can go back in time and get the real facts; but dont b so quick to accept something just bc it boosts ur ego.
5104560711 1 year ago
@5104560711 No we dont have documented facts saying white people invented everything,the documented facts show and prove what black men have invented and it exceeds what white men have invented so I dont know wher you got that from,the documentation on what we did is available.We dont have to go back in time,the historical documentation is ther to see that men created majority of everything.All of our great civilizations were built and ruled by men thats easy facts to look up.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@brianbmf we have documents baby i am a college student i read textbooks for a living boo believe what i say. the scarce info we have about Black truths is just that, scarce. libraries have been burned to ashes, full heads of aged rock crumbled. the true info that we do have came from extensive piercing research. just like the Bible, full texts, unmentioned, A LOT OF THEM PERTAINING TO WOMEN. its easy to accept something as truth when it polishes ur image n ill leave it at that. peace god.
5104560711 1 year ago
@5104560711 We dont have scarce info,ther is alot of information out ther,yes some is lost like you said but we still have plenty of info and the ancient structures are still ther,the writings on the wall are still ther,so some information being lost doesnt take away the fact that men built and invented majority everything and built civilizations like egypt and all other african civilizations and that is evident right on the walls of egypt and in the glyphs.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@5104560711 cont:It has nothing to do with an ego boost,its just simple fact that black men made everything in the ancient world and men in this time period have made everything as well today almost everything we use was invented by a man and alot by black men,but if we are talking creation overall from ancient times until now the facts show and prove black men made most of everything.Look at all of our great Kingdoms especially egypt.Women didnt design and build the pyramids that was black men.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@brianbmf jealous white boys cross out the names of the ethiopians on famous monuments. u think jealous black boys are exempt from such childesh acts? u say women did nothing. really sound dumb bra n im sorry for the name calling, but ima say what i said in my first post from the gate, find ur own truths. n im gone.
5104560711 1 year ago
@5104560711 I never said that women have done nothing,i simply said men have done the majority of creating and inventing,that was not to take away from what women have done.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@5104560711 Cont:When you had rare moments like the candaces ruling it was not a matriarchal society,the society was still male dominated,just like when you had a few european queens sit on the throne it was still a male dominated society.
brianbmf 1 year ago
BRILLIANT brother Valentine 100% on POINT! BLACKMAN LEAD YOUR BLACKWOMAN!
YoungRaWarrior 1 year ago
I totally agree and I am a woman!!!
pwstroud 1 year ago
@pwstroud Your a good woman.
brianbmf 1 year ago
I have some practical advice that has helped me attract money. W/o 9-5s and working from home. Self talk. Whether it's negative or positive makes all the difference. It doesn't matter so much as what you say to others. But what you say to yourself creates who you are. So affirmations work! The only way they don't is if it is coupled with negative self talk. Because it cancels each other out! Remembe it's all about the subconsious. Thats what phil speaks about. NEVER talk to yourself negative!
durealdeal 1 year ago
It's funny when a women thinks she knows more about a man than a man does LOL! My advice to all the brothaz here is lead by example. Women are not leaders, they are followers. PERIOD! So if you're waiting for a female to do something you're wasting your time. All women are good for is sex and chores, a MAN has to do the REAL work that goes into a relationship. Women are bred by their parents to sell their pussy to the highest bidder. In this case the white man. So love yourself fuck whores!
durealdeal 1 year ago 2
damn.YEs Sir!
Redrootsorganization 1 year ago
I dont see how anyone follows this guy or takes him seriously. He is a woman hater i have tried to listen to him but I just caint help but notice his anger towards women besides that is the fact that he does not know a damn thing about african or kimetan society and beliefs!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 Ur problem is that ur used to sissies, posing as men. Men, including Phil, women, but will not stand idly by, as our families are decimated by an alien philosophy which has females looking, acting like men; also sexually-misoriented like men. The anger is real & justified, as our sisters have been turned against us, w/disrespect, disdain and contempt for the leadership of the black MAN. What is passed on today, as African or Khemet, is nothing more than feminist-influenced lore.
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 In fact, what is passed on today, has NOTHING to do w/ Africa, then and now. It's more like African-AMERICAN culture, dressed up in ritual, African clothing, with NO real sense of African manhood and womanhood. So, the males have become Michael Jacksons (weak, soft and overly-pliant) and the females, Rosie O'Donnell (butchy, masculine, unbending and rebellious).
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@Soulblackman You know nothing about me so to claim what im use to is a bit ridicules! I however agree totally with your statement that men have become sissies and soft and that our women have nothing but contempt for us which is a result partially of our lack of testicular fortitude! However this erroneous notion that africa was a patriarch society is baseless and false period! How do I know 1st half of my family is african nigeria ghana I would take their word over someone who is not african!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 Even w/colonialism & slavery, Africans were and are MEN, & there is NOTHING in Africa, that points to matriarchy. NO society follows that. THAT's the imagination that was created by white feminism. I challenge u to bring from ur family, this "evidence" of African matriarchy.
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@Soulblackman Brother with all due respect you do not know what the hell you are talking about on any level! You seem to think a strong woman means a weak man it sounds like you brothers are not sure of your man hood I dont except challenges from un educated people they go no where! You are the one making the claim contrary to what is known by those who have studied this so you show your proof of your extraordinary claims because I find this topic childish and not worthy of debate THERE IS NONE!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@Soulblackman Let me correct myself because as black men we must be able to disagree with each other without hurling insults because we are fighting for the same goals and agenda! In my response I stated that I do not except challenges from uneducated people this was uncalled for you are my brother asking me a question and I have no right to insult you for that a 1000 pardons GOD!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 I accept ur apology,unconditionally. To the pt., BW have allowed WW to define strength as opposing and fighting at every turn the BM, not the WM or WW. Strength means spiritual, moral & cultural development & refinement. CHASITY until marriage is strength. Cooking healthy meals 4 ur man & children, in light of white, feminist influence,is strength. I still aver that it is grossly incorrect, this notion of African matriarchal societies; they don't exist, except in the minds of
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 Of feminist-influenced people, who seek to infuse and project, European, homosexual, atheist, anti-family culture to the black family. That's why black females here r so butchy & masculine; it's getting harder & harder to tell who's a male or female. At least the absence of facial hair helps. I forgot, a BW who shows loyalty & devotion to her BM is STRONG, as she resists the devil-suggestions that she doesn't need one, or should get another female. That's where all this "strength"
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 leads to. Phil hits this stuff hard, as it should be. It's just unfortunate that most black males have become more & more intimidated and sissified, to stand up and challenge these anomalies.
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@Soulblackman I think that only men who are unsure of their manhood can be threatened by a woman! The king is the king and the queen is the queen only weak kings could feel the need to prove his kingship thats what im saying YES IF YOU ARE OR HAVE BEEN A WEAK MAN THEN YOU DO NEED TO ASSERT YOURSELF BUT IF YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A STRONG BLACK MAN THEN THAT IS NOT AN ISSUE YOUR QUEEN IS YOUR VIC REGENT NOT YOUR SUBJECTS A NATION CAN ONLY RISE AS HIGH AS ITS WOMEN BECAUSE ALL LIFE COMES THROUGH HER!
yahshuah29 1 year ago 3
@yahshuah29 Ur missing the pt. African societies understood that there r certain roles 4 men vs. women. Women did NOT try to assert themselves vs. their men, to be men, as we have today. Because of feminism, men have HAD to assert themselves against a dyke-inspired energy. Many not being raised by men, are absolutely unsure of their manhood-which was by design. Don't come at me w/all of this stuff about being weak or unsure, as IF ur challenging me to succumb to weakness & feminism.
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 What I'm saying is clear, but u seek to evade and obscure. Contrary to what we've been told, African societies were NOT matriarchal; that's a feminist-inspired myth. Even in theology, the goddesses were NOT at the same level as gods. Notice, I made no comment about my queen being subservient, but I get the sense, due to feminist conditioning, you'd have no problem accepting that BM were and should be subservient to BW. That's the REAL tragedy here. THINK about what I'm saying!
Soulblackman 1 year ago
@Soulblackman What im saying is clear! to suggest AFRICA is a homogeneous society is flat out wrong! To suggest that the female deities were subservient to the males is also wrong it is clear you know nothing of which you are speaking! In case you have not figured it out yet my statements come from first hand knowledge not what someone told me and YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN CONDITIONED! Stop thinking we are in total disagreement because we are not I am being specific u r generalizing is all!
yahshuah29 1 year ago
@yahshuah29 Then NAME the societies where this matriarchy existed or exists. This is a myth, plain & simple, something feminists & homosexuals have been trying to run 4 yrs, so they can bolster what they've done here, to us in America. Not to say that they aren't actively WORKING on making the African societies matriarchal/lesbian. With their so-called, womens' "empowerment programs, they're full steam ahead, or should I say, "full REAM [to the black man] ahead".
Soulblackman 1 year ago
RIGHT! Phil is a real brotha that will speak truth regardless of how ppl will take it! this is beautiful
WahkibaJ 1 year ago
As a woman, I totally agree!
TheRealShortyBrown 1 year ago
This is pure truth!
brianbmf 1 year ago
He's a woman hater!
hetheru 1 year ago
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Dr9steen 1 year ago
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TheSunRayes 1 year ago
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TheSunRayes 1 year ago
Brother Phil speaking the truth
Wisebrother78 1 year ago
I aint paying Dr. Phil any mind! The men and women are supposed to work together, the problem is that the man stopped working!! Tell them lazy ass excuse filled men to stop making up excuses and get the fuck up and out, be creative while they at it! I aint walking behind no man. If i was so much of a back bone for the man why the fuck am I having to deal with these slug niccas so often.
MrsDomino 1 year ago
@MrsDomino you're misunderstanding what he is saying... men & women DO work together but he is saying, before he lets his woman walk into a strange place, he will go BEFORE her to PROTECT her.. hes not saying she must walk behind him all the time physically.. but I do agree men are suppose to lead and women are suppose to follow
TheRealShortyBrown 1 year ago
@TheRealShortyBrown Please replay that vid,sis, because that's not what he stated here at all. This man waves back & forth more than a flag - one lecture he's talking about the Goddess nature & Her superiority, the next he's saying women shouldn't lead. I've seen vid of him w/my own eyes where he says Black women shouldn't READ (wounded womb series). WTH?! He can't tell me ANYTHING about what a woman should/shouldn't do. UGH.
MzPriss08 1 year ago
@MzPriss08 I dunno if it was that particular DVD or series but i've heard/seen him make that same comment about how women shouldn't read or something to that effect. He even tried to explain it away "scientifically" saying how women who read too much become psychologically damaged by doing so. I dig some of the info Brother Valentine comes with but overall he comes off as a waffler and generally an insecure male who feels threatened in regard to his place in society. I'm more a Bobby Hemmitt guy
brooklynborn 1 year ago
@brooklynborn
I'm more a Bobby Hemmitt guy
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Bobby Hemmitt is the other extreme when it comes to the gender issue. He went as far to say that men were degenerated females. And he even once boasted to the audience that he would betray men to the benefit of women anyday LOL
Perhaps both Phil and Bobby are using their personal issues a bit too much in this regard
sonofthedestroyer 1 year ago
@MzPriss08 aint no woman gone to rule me, period!!!
bassreeves1965 1 year ago
@MzPriss08 U really should not get angry and listen 2 what he is saying word4word...he does not say not to worship and or deify the godess principle..he is simpling saying that the feminine is to be protected by the MAN point blank...our men are thinking like women becuz we are lookin 4 sum1 to take care of us or to save us from sumthing like women should expect from their men...Men need to step up and actually be men and women need 2 get back to the essence u lost after blak men were defeated.
WahkibaJ 1 year ago
@WahkibaJ He is simply sayin that men need to step up and be leaders,men changes things by leading and the woman conforms to that,its simple and thats exactly what he is saying.He said "the woman does not lead she follows".He also said "because we deified the mother principle they thought the mother principle ruled"?He said that is wron because the mother principle did not rule.
brianbmf 1 year ago
@brianbmf i dont see where we disagree...my comment was for MzPriss08
WahkibaJ 1 year ago
@WahkibaJ Because it seemed like everybody keeps on talking about men just being protectors but never talking about us being leaders when thats what we are supposed to be and thats what phil said in this video.
brianbmf 1 year ago
mrs domino, what do you mean by 3d ass?
bassreeves1965 2 years ago
what lecture or tape is this? i want to hear the whole thing
shaybunny09 2 years ago 6
@shaybunny09 I can't believe the poster of the vid didn't answer. Send a link to him and ask Phil on facebook Phil Valentine El . Look that up and you'll find him.
RBGTUBE4TheReal 1 year ago
@RBGTUBE4TheReal
Ok thanks
shaybunny09 1 year ago
Chanlately white ass kissing black ass kicking
MrsADOKAWA 2 years ago
There are so many black women going through doors by themselves, them and their children, that they have to lead and be strong. Where are you, phil, to open my door? Black women can't be softened up by your speech when 60% of the black women don't have the luxury of needing to be protected.
289airborn48 2 years ago
@289airborn48 bitch you can't dunk a basketball" on crip"
lildukibooty 1 year ago
no, the woman never rules openly but hopefully behind the scenes she manages to keep the community pointed in the righteous direction,,however...if you must lead the way into a room to check for safety then perhaps the both of you need to avoid venturing there.
289airborn48 2 years ago
Well then Dr. Phil I need 4 of You men for each and every aspect of my 3D ASS!!
MrsDomino 2 years ago
@MrsDomino yeah bitch wat u mean by 3D ass that shit was lame("dr.phil yellin"put ur diccs up)
lildukibooty 1 year ago
@lildukibooty Yo! Wigger who the fuck are you calling a bitch you fucking Tamahu wanna be? If you don't understand my comment then get the fuck off this page you asshole freckled face fucktrard!
MrsDomino 1 year ago
Damn right Phil!! Tell em!!
Wisebrother78 2 years ago 6
African people are a binary people.We do things,men & women together as a team.We are two sides of one united human expression.The original one.
yorubablk3 2 years ago 3