I feel that your brother needs to know before too much time passes. It maybe important to you not to rock the boat and share in your brother's joy but isn't that kind of selfish on your part. Besides, what happens when someone asks where your date is our if you'll be next to marry? What do you tell people. You risk tainting an important event for both yourself and your brother. Your choice, truth or lie. Either way, your brother needs to know just who his best man is as do you. Good luck!
I think this is a great option if someone is trying to come out. I saw it with Randy from AreYouSurprised then now with you and in another channel which I can't remember.
I think it makes you look back at how far you've come and be proud of yourself. It's also interactive and helps you speak out and know you have support out there and someone out there cares. It's much less lonely.
More people should do this and coming out will be easier for them and for others who are going through the same.
Clearly you are a lot more confident, not just happy. I can see a chin, complete with stubble, a mouth and some pearly white teeth. Won't be long before we get a full reveal. I'm so very pleased that everything is going so incredibly well for you. Your new found confidence is even evident in your voice. Congratulations. Stay strong!
I'm happy your best friend is cool with it. Cool video. I'm glad your not trying to drive while making the video. happy new year. Your doing a great job. Its taking me a looooong time just to say im gay in normal conversation. Wish i did it a long time ago. Will you be showing your face? What do you use to record the video?
Congratulations on your progress! I've been wondering how you were doing. Every time you tell someone and it goes well, it gives you that much more courage to tell someone else. I have found that the more you say it the easier it gets, and the older you get the less you care what other people think, which all works toward making it easier. Well done my friend, and with a little more time, it will become much less of an issue in your life.
@HatebeingBORNthisWAY depends on who you're talking to. But, when I was coming out to the first couple people I told, I would ask them if they're open minded and a good friend and then I'd go into the whole "I'm gay" shpeal
Congrats on coming out to your friends! It's never easy but as your finding out most are going to be okay. Those who love you will always love you. Glad you made an update... I wish you the Best in 2012!! ~Russ
I'm glad for you.
Gay♥ from Steven of HOLEBITV (and Holebis ♥♂♂,♀♀♥)
HOLEBITV 2 weeks ago
I feel that your brother needs to know before too much time passes. It maybe important to you not to rock the boat and share in your brother's joy but isn't that kind of selfish on your part. Besides, what happens when someone asks where your date is our if you'll be next to marry? What do you tell people. You risk tainting an important event for both yourself and your brother. Your choice, truth or lie. Either way, your brother needs to know just who his best man is as do you. Good luck!
JTsCathexis 1 month ago
I've basically done the same as you.
TheDS4000 1 month ago
I think this is a great option if someone is trying to come out. I saw it with Randy from AreYouSurprised then now with you and in another channel which I can't remember.
I think it makes you look back at how far you've come and be proud of yourself. It's also interactive and helps you speak out and know you have support out there and someone out there cares. It's much less lonely.
More people should do this and coming out will be easier for them and for others who are going through the same.
fckingkim 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Keep it up man, so proud of the progress so far.
ClosetLocked 1 month ago
Congrats, great they responded positive :)
sander91nl 1 month ago
I've miss you ~ I'm so glad that you uploaded a video
I'm so glad that your telling some friends went pretty
well ~ I know that it will all turn it for the best for you.
-gary <3 Thumbs Up! Happy New Year ~
gwall121 1 month ago
Congrats Man! really happy everything worked out!
RoomsForSquares 1 month ago
Been missing your videos. Glad things went well with your friend.
Hugs
HotMissa 1 month ago
Clearly you are a lot more confident, not just happy. I can see a chin, complete with stubble, a mouth and some pearly white teeth. Won't be long before we get a full reveal. I'm so very pleased that everything is going so incredibly well for you. Your new found confidence is even evident in your voice. Congratulations. Stay strong!
JTsCathexis 1 month ago
congrats! even telling random ppl can be difficult and it makes for good practice. Hope you stick to your new yr's resolution :)
lizamem 1 month ago
Great work... yeah I need to get used to thinking it lol... let alone saying it out loud...
roadtou 1 month ago
Congratulations bro! We are all so proud of you!
AsianQT562 1 month ago
good luck man... like the very end lol
sleekcartim 1 month ago
Way to go. I like the where you describe how to "just say it".
samgsea 1 month ago
Glad to see you. coming out gets easier. The more you feel comfortable with yourself, the less you will care about telling people.
ERAUPRCWA 1 month ago
I'm happy your best friend is cool with it. Cool video. I'm glad your not trying to drive while making the video. happy new year. Your doing a great job. Its taking me a looooong time just to say im gay in normal conversation. Wish i did it a long time ago. Will you be showing your face? What do you use to record the video?
peace.
gvcdkg 1 month ago
Congratulations on your progress! I've been wondering how you were doing. Every time you tell someone and it goes well, it gives you that much more courage to tell someone else. I have found that the more you say it the easier it gets, and the older you get the less you care what other people think, which all works toward making it easier. Well done my friend, and with a little more time, it will become much less of an issue in your life.
caseyflorida 1 month ago
Cool im glad you are taking steps
depfox 1 month ago
Hey, for your next video or as a reply can you tell me what you actually say to come out? Obviously "i'm gay" but leading up to it!
HatebeingBORNthisWAY 1 month ago
@HatebeingBORNthisWAY depends on who you're talking to. But, when I was coming out to the first couple people I told, I would ask them if they're open minded and a good friend and then I'd go into the whole "I'm gay" shpeal
ERAUPRCWA 1 month ago
Congrats on coming out to your friends! It's never easy but as your finding out most are going to be okay. Those who love you will always love you. Glad you made an update... I wish you the Best in 2012!! ~Russ
Rfritz09 1 month ago