death is not when the body stops but when you stop trying

[nicanewnew]

you didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it, detach with love, go to Alanon hugs

[williambrown007]

Oh sorry for a few grammar errors in the comment posted.(:

[williambrown007]

Sometimes I just after life theres a positive side for everyone including all those who drinks or were abusive. I just wish there is a world where our divine leader would just let everyone start over and live a happy life but that may not be the case. Just continue to be the bigger person and forgive him for what he did to Linda and forgive yourself.

[TheMattwolf]

A friend of mine just went through something similar, and I'll say here what I told him: Forgiveness is earned. If the father did nothing to deserve said forgiveness, then Linda has no reason to feel bad for withholding it.

[annbgc]

Your friend Linda is an incredible person for doing everything she did for her father when she was getting nothing in return. Not alot of people would have done as much as she did. I'm sad for her and am sorry she has to go through all this pain.

-Annie

[SummerBreeze2009]

I just wanted you to know I watched and listened to you, I started typing a response but it went over the character count - by a lot, so I sent you my thoughts about this via a message to you. In friendship, Summerbreeeze

[777Marlene]

you can live ,or you can keep drinkin'his response was to always keep 2 bottles of jack daniels under the front seat of the car,which he usually drove down hot Texas hiways so blinded out of his mind it was a miracle some nights that he didnt kill somebody.he hit my mom one night,and I trapped the mother fucker under the dining table,he had the wimpy freakin' gaul to beg for me not to hurt him. he finally died from an inoperable brain tumor caused by the freakin'poison he sucked down

[777Marlene]

position,in the middle of the floor and puke up what was left of his fucking liver.the bastard was begged by people who cared about his sorry ass,to go to AA,when he failed that he came home and laughed about it,then went out and tied on a 3 day drunk. he put my mother thru hell ,he put me thru hell,he put anyone else who ran across him thru a hell of a lowdown time,but for some inconceivable to me reason,people liked him because he was the life of the party..yeh,they gave him the warning(^^)

[777Marlene]

Hey Arianna,ahhsweetyI can honestly say Iknow how you feel and what yur frind Linda has gone thru. (lets just use his 1st name"bill";he was my stepfather,I had to livein the same house with my mom and that son of a bitch)he was one of the most contemptibly loathesome selfishly pathetic alcoholics in modern fucking history,Good Lord I hated that man.Ihad to clean up his vomit,wash the bedsheets he had pissed all over because he could'nt even hold his urine anymore,watch him lay in the fetal(^^)

[pgy002]

Yeah life is about ups and downs but sometimes it seems like there are too many damn downs!

[alexaralu]

hi i havent posted a comment in a long time , a very sad story , my uncke did the same thing and he died. so i understand her sorrow , the number one enemy is alcohol it takes the mind of alcoholics . And i understand your point olso but when is one of your family that does that you can not be like a rock and you suffer very much, i loved my uncle very much and i know. Take care good care and suport her she needs it. Alexxa