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  • Salaams. Sister, great video, keep up the good work, masha'Allaah, and God bless you! :-) Ameen.

  • There is nothing wrong with colours, it's not mandatory to wear black for women all the time, so what's the problem? Secondly, wearing a certain colour on a particular day for a purpose is neither forbidden,nor even makruh,nor anything. Show me an aya or a hadith saying that wearing of purple on the 13th of February is haraam... ;*Everything is innovation for wahhabies and according to them, all innovations go to hell... Well, not really.I know hadith that actually advocates ''good innovations''

  • @aishakafeel ...within the limits of halaal and within an Islamic framework. There are good bida and bad bida. In hadith cited by wahabies it says ''kull bida'ah (...) '' - ''all bidah'' - are in hell - but: ''kull'' in Arabic does not always mean exactly ALL. It also means ''almost all'' which suggests there are things that can be new to Islam but they are not necessarily wrong. Or is it wrong that Qur'an was not printed as one book during the time of the Prophet and only khalif Osman (right?)

  • @aishakafeel ...and only khalif Osman (right?) ordered for the surahs to be compiled in one book after the Messenger has already gone...? ;* Think twice before you follow something without using your common sense because innovations of guidence DO EXIST. :-) End of the question. If you're a true Sunni Muslim, you should understand that there is nothing wrong in having a Purple/Pink/Blue etc. Hijab Day... ;-) Salaamu aleykum. :)

  • Domestic what. Whats wrong with a bit of spanking? Women love to be spanked.

  • @WorldIslamicOrder Who are you to say so?... To speak for all women in the world?... I am a woman and trust me, I don't really like to be beaten at all... ;* Your comment just does not make sense, no point to even answer. It's rubbish talk. I'm just replying to let you know that you're wrong if you think we women love to experience your male chauvinist, sexist attitudes and mistreatment. That's all. ;*

  • My dear Muslim sister, i read the abusive and ignorant comments below left by purusathama. Such people think they r safe behind their computer screens and they don't have the guts to say such things in a crowded place where i'm sure they would be beaten up by the crowd for abusing a respectable woman like that without any rational reason.

  • Go converts to islam!!

  • do not say peace in your mouth. women like you making huge babies by your sharia law to destroy the world. living under veil you are carry evils in your bossom. so, do not say peace. millions death bodies have in your religion mass. sorry to be human.

  • @purusathama1 By simply observing your inability to talk kindly to a stranger, I have to say, your comment is rather ironic. I pray you're able to work past your xenophobia and blind judgments, and see that you are not the only human in this exchange. Valuing all human life, both adult and infant, it a part of my religion and life philosophy. Is it part of yours?

    Peace. (I will say it, even if you don't like it).

  • @purusathama1 Look at yourself; your English is just as bad as your manners. You are full of hate and prejudice. What do you know about Islamic teachings and life in Muslim societies?... Perhaps if you had Muslim friends who are faith-conscious and practising, God-fearing Muslims, then your opinion would be totally different. But nay, you won't understand, unless God guides you - and He guides whom He wills onto the Straight Path... Peace! ;*

  • essallmou alaikoum my allah give you what you want happy to see women muslim working for her religion

  • essallamou alaikoum my allah give what want you do a good work for islam i'm happy to see women like you who are give more from them to allah thanks

  • sounds like you can modify the purpose of wearing a hijab and also add bidah to the islamic calender. I also guess the sisters who dont cover up can take part and then go back to dressing up ignorantly? right?

  • asalamoAlikom Wb

    Jazaki Allahu Khairan for that benefit that mah got inshallah.

  • Salam, sister. I fully agree with your sentiments on this topic; you've elucidated the fine line between discipline and abuse quite beautifully, ma'shalla. Parents should be aware of this nuance, since there are many laws, which are designed to protect children ( and are well intentioned, it must be said) that don't differentiate between the two. What some parents do to their children in the name of discipline can be easily be misinterpreted, and familes can be ruined as a result.

  • We have one month long Siyam, 10 days long celebration for the Quran, one Eid of charity, one Hajj, one Eid of sacrifice every year for extensive exercise.

    It is not a good idea to add a hijab day etc. It will not be effective, sister. You may see some good result but the ultimate outcome will not be very satisfactory. It will cost our proper attitude to life.

    Please forgive me, sister. I indeed learn from you many things what I learn from you only.

  • Assalamu alaikum!

    No need to ask for forgiveness of me. :) You're entitled to say whatever you wish.

    However, Purple Hijab Day is not a "celebration" or "Eid"... it's more social activism.

    It's just an attempt to raise awareness about an unfortunate issue in our community: domestic abuse.

    Even if the outcome is not astounding, I hope that inshaAllah more people become aware of the issue, and try to help those who are victims of abuse in the home.

    That is it's only purpose.

    Salaam

  • Salaam sister,

    I didnt even know that there was such a thing, thanks for informing me.

    Salaam

    ALi

  • i must mention, i grew up with the regular butt whoppings (they were like vitamins daily), as an adult i look back on this and to me i am glad that my parents/grandparents took the effort to correct me or i would not be where i am today, as i compare myself to cousins of mine who are involved in things we might say is haram.

    so there is another side to the coin as well, not every situation is domestic abuse, at least in my case it was not, but from the outside it may appear that way.

  • Wa alaikumus salaam

    Thanks for the comment brother ^.^

    Insha'Allah you and your family are in good health and imaan.

    I grew up in a pretty traditionally strict family myself... I remember a few times getting a wooden spoon across the hand or a slipper thrown at me.

    Or the dreaded belt...

    I think there is a line that you cross when you hit a child without the purpose of discipline, and that's when it becomes abusive. An important distinction to make!

    Salaam!

  • Salaam my sister,

    this is my point many of those that are against abuse, dont draw the line at dicipline, they include this as a part of abuse which to me is wrong.

    as a parent i would beat my child if they did something wrong, becase as my grandfather says, if you cant hear you will feel, and to me that is what made me as i am today, granted there is always the extreme case and there is no denying this, but even a person raising their hands at a child is now considered child abuse

  • it gets out of hand on another extreme from being able to defend the innocent to prosecuting the innoncent.

    dont get me wrong there is a need to fix the abuse problem, but those incharge of this need to realize that there is also the case of dicipline, which i think you agree with, but it is good to bring it up for others to know.

  • Assalamu alaikum my brother

    I certainly realize the difference between discipline and abuse in regards to children.

    My parents were very strict with me until I became of legal adult status... and we have a wonderful, loving relationship now, and I do credit them for how "good" I turned out.

    I know there is a politically correct movement that says any physical discipline of children automatically means abuse, but I do not fall into that category. I do, however, believe in limits.

    Salaam!

  • Salaam aleykom sister... thanks for this video. I experienced this in my past and I am working to move ahead. So it's great when someone in our ummah speaks out against it. Cuz it happens in ALL groups of people.

    This is my new channel...I'm a long time subbie. Just made this enw channel today.

  • Wa alaikumus salaam!

    May Allah(swt) protect you and give you strength throughout your attempts to move forward. Ameen.

    Thank you for the message and support, and insha'Allah the future is full of promising things for you.

    I've added your new account as a friend! :)

    Salaam!

  • Assalamu aliekum, great job sister jazak'Allah khair, may I recommend that you block easyonetwothree, he is clearly only spreading fitnah in the ummah. ;-)

    <3

    Saffiyya

  • JazakAllah Khair for this video!

  • There is no Purple Hijâb day, this is a Bid'ah, and every bid'ah leads to hell fire, so please remove this video!

  • are you serious???

  • May Allâh protect me from being unserious about his deen, of course this is bid'ah if the Salaf didnt practice it!

  • so... you dont drive a car or drink canned mango juice?

  • I dont drive a car bcs I dont have a licence, and I do drink mango juice. Remember that im talking about religious bid'ah, not wordly bid'ah... ok? Do you understand now? Or do I have to elaborate in more special extra super words?

  • well this is not a religious bidah lol so I dont understand at all how you're getting so upset over it. No need to be rude considering you are the one who doesnt seem to understand what the sister is talking about. Just because it has the word Hijab doesn't mean its a religious ruling.

  • Assalamu alaikum brother easyonetwothree,

    I believe it would be beneficial to read this article, which has plenty of worth while information about the concept of Bid'a, and what it is.

    I see no reason to classify bringing awareness about domestic violence as Bid'a. Muslims are told to defend the oppressed and stand for truth and justice.

    May Allah(swt) guide is all. Ameen.

  • Every RELIGIOUS thing which the Salaf did not do, is a bid'ah, every bid'ah is a dalaalah and every dalaalah is in the Fire, you hear this in every Khutbah and almost before every lecture. and Making a special day for domestic violence is something which the Salaf did not do my sister, hence this is a Bid'ah, we only have two days to celebrate, the two eids. If we were to follow your way of thinking, we would celebrate Cancer days, Aids days, etc. Please remove this video sister.

  • Again this is not religious. This is about awareness. And if you are going to speak against this please put down that mango juice and get off your bid'ah computer and this bid'ah youtube. You are talking about Islam on the internet which is religious, and it is not something that the Salaf did so save yourself from hellfire.

  • bro its just like wearing those gay breast Salam alekum . akhi this is just like wearing those gay breast cancer pink bands or something. just cause its a hijab shes wearing (most noticeable thing on her) doesnt mean it has ANYTHING to do this Islam itself or the sunnah :S.

  • It's not a "special day", like an Eid or a celebration. It's about raising awareness about a problem in our community.

  • Are you honestly comparing abuse to headaches? And are you seriously saying that just because we're using hijab to raise awareness that its bid'a? In that case, as I mentioned before which you conveniently forgot to address, you can then certainly not talk about Islam using YouTube or the internet in general, as the Salaf did no such thing.

  • How is this about raising awareness towards OURSELVES? This is raising awareness towards domestic violence. How is using a scarf of a certain color to support a cause Bid'a? And if this is Bid'ah, wearing a colored scarf in solidarity with others to eradicate abuse, then how on earth is you using worldy innovations aka bid'a to promote Islam NOT bid'a considering the Salaf did no such thing?

  • By wearing Hijab we bring attention to ourselves?! WHAT? So if I wear a keffiya to support Palestine I'm going to hell fire cause that is somehow bid'ah?? So silly!

    The thing is that you are doing ISLAMIC THINGS using innovations... how is that not Bid'ah? We are using an islamic mandate of clothing, and choosing to wear a particular color on a particular day. There is a serious double standard. If I wore a purple jacket would you be so upset??

  • As long as domestic violence is ignored in islamic and/or islamic majority countries, the problem of domestic violence will continue.

  • Well done for highlighting domestic violence. As you state it is in all walks of life. Well done. I am not a Muslim but I have experienced domestic violence and I know so too have Muslim women.

    Excellent video !

  • I never knew of purple hijab day

    Interesting

  • I dont know about canada but I know that in the Gulf women are being abused, since we have alot of ignorant men here who out of their ignorance think they have the right to abuse their wife, May Allah guide them and us all, the ummah has nothing to be ashamed of, ignorance is everywhere.

  • @qabandiman What are you talking about ? men in the Gulf are the best :D .

  • yeah theres no such thing as an ignorant khaliji lol

  • salams sister!! thanks for joining this effort!! the more people we make aware of this vil the more chances we have to stop it and restore good morals in our communities. as I said in my response to Raven's video today I dealt with it on the job and I stepped out and reported, can't wait til your next video!! Mila sends meows yur way. :-)

  • Jazaki Allah khair sister. Very good points and very true. We should aknowledge that we have problems that we need to deal with like every society or community no matter how big or small the percentage. The first step is to acknowledge and deal with it and not deny it.

    The purple Hijab day is great idea. We should think of similar ideas to tackle different problems that our community face like Islamophobia day etc..

    God bless you.

  • Assalamo Alaykom,

    Purple Hijab, haha, nice MashAllah. But it will be drowned in all the red of valentines day.

    Also sister, technology has changed, but human nature is the same, our instincts, desires, hope, fears, strengths, weaknesses, are all the same.

  • Wa alaikumus salaam!

    Unfortunately, you're probably right... too much focus on valentines day... but hopefully people will see this video throughout the comings months, too. I guess that's the great thing about the internet. :) It's a great archive!

    And yes, human nature is difficult to alter, but insha'Allah, as we evolve intellectually, we'll be able to better ourselves and how we interact with others, especially those we love.

    May Allah(swt) guide us all. Ameen.

  • marty good job

    im not done i have more vids to make on this issues and more people to pressureize to make a vid aswell mawhahahaha

  • I don't care what you say I will NOT wear a purple hijab! I'm a MAN!

  • i love this vid and i love listening to you. i agree with everything you said!

  • wooow great video

  • dangit! I had no idea about this!

  • What a great idea.

  • Awesome!  I had no idea about purple hijab day.

  • Sadly, I didn't know about it either until youtube!

    I think it's a lovely idea. Activism = awesomeness.

    <3

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