My parents have been trying to get divorced for 2 years now and it's horrible you really helped me its a big change even with money I'm not poor now I'm still moderately rich but it's still a big change in my life, and again this really helped me.
This is really great advise and it helped me out alot!! I felt like it was my falt and i looked at other videos and they hellped me realize thats its not!! You helped me realize that i need to quit sitting here and crying over the fact that my paretns dont love ech other i need to get out and have fun!! I just wanted to say thank you!!!!!! :)
My parents are divorcing they don't rlly get along... :( times get tough. My mom and dad are both 40 and I think they will be lonely cuz they may be too old to find someone else :( I hope things change cuz we are rlly poor and we can't support ourselves good cuz my da lost his job and we get very little money nowadays D: thumbs up if u wish ur parents were actually happy
We're poor enough with my parents together, I don't know how they're gonna be able to support me or my sister separately. But, I'd give up a few meals a day just to have the constant arguing and the strife end.
Guess it's time to swallow sadness, man up, and face the challenge. Looks like I'll be playing the game of life on hardcore mode from here on out.
i absoutely agree with wot u said in the video. There is nothing you can do if your parents do split up but just remember it is not your fault.And always think in the positive side.
my ex kidnapped my 2 sons at age 3 and 6 and its been 9 months now i havent lived with my dear sons. ;-( im in touch with my sons only through phone calls and i met them once since they got kidnapped.i miss them soo much and i worry how my sons deal with missing me. ;-(
my parents got divoreced when i was 3...then my dad lost his car and his custody of me and my sister...so it has been hard then about a month ago my mom and stepdad just got divorced after i beleived everything was going to be better and last forever... its been hard ecspecially cause i have to go through it a second time and i love my stepdad so much. im only 11 now.... and there are so many questions i wish i could know the answer to:(
@monkeyslikepineapple i very much understand your situation. i am 10 at the moment and the divorce is still going on...there really are thousands of questions that i want an answer to...
I'm sorry for everyone who's parents who are divorced, I know what you're going through and you're not the only one going through it, you aren't alone. I really hope you guys find something that makes you happy and I hope you know your parents divorce isn't your fault. They do love you.
@pinkbelly7123 I'm sorry to hear that =/ but don't worry things will all be okay in the end. They still care about you and love you. Like I said before, it's not your fault. I spent so much time thinking of what I did to make it happen or what I could do to fix it but the truth is you can't fix it. You'll be okay =]
So yea my parents are getting divorced.. its hard cuz my real father passed away when I was 2 and now my parents are divorcing. I'm 12.. one thing that gets my mind off it OS the sport I play... I play hockey.. every game I go out there and I feel like crushing some one
My Wife Left Me, Commited Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalks Me Online Now. Shes The WORST Person I Ever Met... And The Biggest Liar I Knew. I Wish Her Well... Sort of. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. Whoa Your PAthetiC.
for a year i refused to believe tht my parents would really split up and tht they still loved eachother. the moment i realized it wasnt true, i broke down. except it as soon as ya can :(
Same here except I live with my mom. I cant cope either, but i stay strong for my mom because if she sees how i feel on the inside shell be shattered. I cried when they told me they were divorcing, and my dad looked away like he was guilty of something.
my parents are getting divorced my mom cheated on my dad with someone at work. my dad is who im livingwith and for some reason he makes me uncofortable. please any1 give me some advice?
My parents got divorced twice once before i was born and the second i was three. Divorce isn't so bad it helped my family in the end. Since my mother is a crazy bitch and my dad is the sane one.
when my parents got divorced i killed both of them and stuffed their bodies in the dryer then turned it on to evaporate their blood so it wouldnt stink
It's one of those things that you've just got to deal with. It's not going to change, no matter what you do or how hard you wish. My parents split up, and i just let it go. I know that they just werent happy with each other, all you have to do is practice empathy, put yourself in their position.
Hi just wanted to say this video helped a lot , my parents at the moment are going through a divorce and i didn't think it would have affected me in the way it has, just feel a bit lost but have taken your advice of getting out and being surrounded by friends which has helped :)
after church one day my parents called a family meeting and my dad said, "your mother and I are separating." then he started packing up his stuff and just left. I was 9 at the time and didn't get it. a few days later my dad called and when I picked up the phone I didn't know what to say. 5 years later and it still sucks ass. but I made a pact with myself to never shed a tear over it again. to all those whose parents are split, its hell but jsut don't think about it.
I'm 15 years old now. my dad got in jail then I was 1 year old...for 10 years I never saw my dad. I lived with my mother, Then dad came home I though it would be awesome... but no... my parents divorced...
My parents got divorced when u was 12 I'm 13 now but what was terrible is that we were already moving and that was hard so now I had to live in a new house make new friends but also worry about school and life so I didn't want to deal with my parents divorce and now when I see happy couples and families out and around it makes me cry and my grandparents nor my aunts and uncles have ever gotten a divorce so no one really knows how I feel. :(
Damn kid. I've been there before and know how that feels (seeing other families together with 2 parents, it kinda whats you think about shit, ya know? etc.). Things can be rough. Try to find a hobby, music was the only thing that got me through my parents divorce. Just remember, "Tough times dont last, tough people do." Life truly is beautiful,quite simply it's whatever you make it. You can look at life negatively, or choose to still see the beauty.
Hi. you're young, pretty and have your whole ahead of you! It's going to be hard love but think about it like this, atleast your parents wont be miserable together? They have probabily sacrificed a lot for you, and now it's their time to be happy. Hope you're doing ok XX
Thank you so much! My parents got a divorce when i was 9....im 11 right now so its hard! I see families together and I just cry right now my eyes are getting watery. I see my dad every other week my dad is a good dad to both of my parents are. I love my mom and dad so much and they love me and thats all that matters but I miss being a family! God bless! :'(
my parents got divorced when i was younger nd... i dont have contact wit my father... i wish i did... i plan to get him back now tht im older... people i suggest u try to keep in contact with your father... you will regret it if ya dont...
nd my friends parents are getting a divorce... poor thing... i intend to help her,, and try to give her good advice which will probably fail but.. ill make sure she dont feel alone cause thats just the worst....
For the past 11 years, I have listened to many children and teens whose parents divorced and the pain is immense and affects children all their lives. Most kids think at least part of this devastation is their fault. The choice to divorce is not their's; it is an adult decision which damages kids all their lives. Now, I help adult children of divorce and see the affects it has had all their lives. So sad!
I wish I was open and mature as you when my parents divorced when I was 20. Im assuming you are still in either grade school or high school, and I just hope that you will still keep your faith like this when you grow up.
when i came home from school once and when i got trough the door my parents were arguing i went btween them and sed shut the fuck up already this shit goes on my nerves and then suddenly my father punched me right on the nose... i got pisst off at that time i just runned out of the house and rushed to my friend who lived 15 kilometers away from my house -.- oh well i havnt been home for 6 months now and im only 16 well hes a friend who takes care of me atleast which is a good thing i hope xD
My parents have been trying to get divorced for 2 years now and it's horrible you really helped me its a big change even with money I'm not poor now I'm still moderately rich but it's still a big change in my life, and again this really helped me.
happydance80 1 week ago
your a angle sent from heaven
dylan3333333333 1 week ago
and my pets and my dad and well you get my point
RhadaGhast100 2 weeks ago
my parents got divorce i hate it i have to move away from my frends and house with my cool cool room i have be crying for hours
RhadaGhast100 2 weeks ago
Divorce sucks, especially when ur mom has moved out for 3 months with the intention of leaving for good twice, and this time its real.
Mrhanky576 2 weeks ago
Thanks for the advice ^_^
Ball122Fluff 2 weeks ago
She speaks wise for a girl of her age.
trio3d 1 month ago
@trio3d Who?
Ball122Fluff 1 month ago
This is really great advise and it helped me out alot!! I felt like it was my falt and i looked at other videos and they hellped me realize thats its not!! You helped me realize that i need to quit sitting here and crying over the fact that my paretns dont love ech other i need to get out and have fun!! I just wanted to say thank you!!!!!! :)
AlexisTarlton1998 1 month ago
Tg
nickythunder06 1 month ago
Don't u hate it when ur parents treat each other like shit and you think that it future relationship will be like it
Ball122Fluff 1 month ago
My parents are divorcing they don't rlly get along... :( times get tough. My mom and dad are both 40 and I think they will be lonely cuz they may be too old to find someone else :( I hope things change cuz we are rlly poor and we can't support ourselves good cuz my da lost his job and we get very little money nowadays D: thumbs up if u wish ur parents were actually happy
Ball122Fluff 1 month ago 6
@Ball122Fluff my parents are 53 and 52 and getting a divorce :(
SparklingUnicornLove 4 days ago
My parents are splitting up. I'm nearly 17 now.
We're poor enough with my parents together, I don't know how they're gonna be able to support me or my sister separately. But, I'd give up a few meals a day just to have the constant arguing and the strife end.
Guess it's time to swallow sadness, man up, and face the challenge. Looks like I'll be playing the game of life on hardcore mode from here on out.
wish me luck...?
KaiDraegon 1 month ago
i absoutely agree with wot u said in the video. There is nothing you can do if your parents do split up but just remember it is not your fault.And always think in the positive side.
superdupachic 2 months ago
Hey,going through that now. Honestly it's hard. Anyways that was nice. Do me a favor and e-mail me @ konnormorgan@yahoo.com
a1b5gg1 2 months ago
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kelliejo3283 2 months ago
Yeah I am 11 now so it has been 6 years they have been divorced and I am dealing with it fine
lovecarcar123 2 months ago
My parents divorced when I was 5 and That time I did not know what it meant.But I go back and forth to my mom and step dads and my dads house
lovecarcar123 2 months ago
One day after my 6th b-day my parents got divorced.
CoolGuyModder 2 months ago
my ex kidnapped my 2 sons at age 3 and 6 and its been 9 months now i havent lived with my dear sons. ;-( im in touch with my sons only through phone calls and i met them once since they got kidnapped.i miss them soo much and i worry how my sons deal with missing me. ;-(
natzz79 3 months ago
my parents got divoreced when i was 3...then my dad lost his car and his custody of me and my sister...so it has been hard then about a month ago my mom and stepdad just got divorced after i beleived everything was going to be better and last forever... its been hard ecspecially cause i have to go through it a second time and i love my stepdad so much. im only 11 now.... and there are so many questions i wish i could know the answer to:(
monkeyslikepineapple 3 months ago
@monkeyslikepineapple i very much understand your situation. i am 10 at the moment and the divorce is still going on...there really are thousands of questions that i want an answer to...
LightandDarkest 2 months ago
I'm sorry for everyone who's parents who are divorced, I know what you're going through and you're not the only one going through it, you aren't alone. I really hope you guys find something that makes you happy and I hope you know your parents divorce isn't your fault. They do love you.
HoodyHero 4 months ago
@HoodyHero thanks... mine just got divorced today... :'( so heart breaking.
pinkbelly7123 1 month ago
@pinkbelly7123 I'm sorry to hear that =/ but don't worry things will all be okay in the end. They still care about you and love you. Like I said before, it's not your fault. I spent so much time thinking of what I did to make it happen or what I could do to fix it but the truth is you can't fix it. You'll be okay =]
HoodyHero 1 month ago
@HoodyHero thank you...
pinkbelly7123 1 month ago
So yea my parents are getting divorced.. its hard cuz my real father passed away when I was 2 and now my parents are divorcing. I'm 12.. one thing that gets my mind off it OS the sport I play... I play hockey.. every game I go out there and I feel like crushing some one
MrPinkfluffybunnies 4 months ago
My parents are getting a divorce... Never thought it would happen.. they always argue but they never leave.. and now that they are its shocking...:(
MrPinkfluffybunnies 4 months ago
I hate how my parents dont like each other it sucks
happiekeke 5 months ago
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My Wife Left Me, Commited Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalks Me Online Now. Shes The WORST Person I Ever Met... And The Biggest Liar I Knew. I Wish Her Well... Sort of. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. Whoa Your PAthetiC.
KyngMegz 5 months ago
for a year i refused to believe tht my parents would really split up and tht they still loved eachother. the moment i realized it wasnt true, i broke down. except it as soon as ya can :(
XsilverxxroseX 5 months ago
@daisyownz shut up...
nubbytubbys 5 months ago
my parents split up four days ago...i feel like a mistake :l
WangoReads 5 months ago
I want your accent.
AutumnandKatt 5 months ago
@WorldofJessTess im 13 too ...... and the same happened to me..... im just praying :'(
Xorax97 5 months ago
@SagaLovesYou
Same here except I live with my mom. I cant cope either, but i stay strong for my mom because if she sees how i feel on the inside shell be shattered. I cried when they told me they were divorcing, and my dad looked away like he was guilty of something.
Fablebane49 6 months ago
you turn into a maniacal freak of nature and torment all of your future boyfriends with a passion!
PertinaciousGeek 6 months ago
my parents are getting divorced my mom cheated on my dad with someone at work. my dad is who im livingwith and for some reason he makes me uncofortable. please any1 give me some advice?
SagaLovesYou 7 months ago
@daisyownz shutup you are acting rudely
SagaLovesYou 7 months ago
bitch easier said than doneer
LoveAddictX0 7 months ago
my parents are spliting up like right now and its hard
GlendaM14 7 months ago
My parents got divorced twice once before i was born and the second i was three. Divorce isn't so bad it helped my family in the end. Since my mother is a crazy bitch and my dad is the sane one.
ballhog145 7 months ago
easier said then done
2different2care 8 months ago
when my parents got divorced i killed both of them and stuffed their bodies in the dryer then turned it on to evaporate their blood so it wouldnt stink
RebuildReach 8 months ago
@RebuildReach pics or it didn't happen :D
Trexpass 7 months ago
im 16 my parents divorced when i was 3. i feel like i cant make both sides happy. i never could
Ashton1Albright 8 months ago
It's one of those things that you've just got to deal with. It's not going to change, no matter what you do or how hard you wish. My parents split up, and i just let it go. I know that they just werent happy with each other, all you have to do is practice empathy, put yourself in their position.
TheNastyLeprachaun 9 months ago
Hi just wanted to say this video helped a lot , my parents at the moment are going through a divorce and i didn't think it would have affected me in the way it has, just feel a bit lost but have taken your advice of getting out and being surrounded by friends which has helped :)
cpmegastarisdabest 9 months ago
i remeber when i was 2 at 11:47 my dad left my mom and now im 10
maxbigtoe 10 months ago
what do you do when you keep all your stress in your head for so long that all i have is negitive thoughts?
life is to short to be unhappy
SuperFoamman 10 months ago
its better to have at least... 1 good friend to talk with. dont feel sad like: im not gonna talk to anyone. anyway.... good luck
(my parents divorced at my 4th birthday D: R.I.P normal childhood)
1001virus1001 10 months ago
after church one day my parents called a family meeting and my dad said, "your mother and I are separating." then he started packing up his stuff and just left. I was 9 at the time and didn't get it. a few days later my dad called and when I picked up the phone I didn't know what to say. 5 years later and it still sucks ass. but I made a pact with myself to never shed a tear over it again. to all those whose parents are split, its hell but jsut don't think about it.
skybluemarker39 10 months ago
my parents told me they were splitting up two days ago :( thanks this has helped me xx as i was not expecting it xxxxxx
splatatack55 10 months ago
my parents told me they're slitting up today.. :..(
MakeupMeLove 11 months ago
My parents fought to night and are soon leaving each other I have always loved both of them but now I am confused my dad has left and I fell alone
skateerssuck 11 months ago
I just got the bad news a few minutes ago....I hate the feeling of being helpless
J03Y0123 11 months ago
It is quite hard...my parents got divorced last summer..
ClaireDipalo 1 year ago
I'm 15 years old now. my dad got in jail then I was 1 year old...for 10 years I never saw my dad. I lived with my mother, Then dad came home I though it would be awesome... but no... my parents divorced...
pufixas 1 year ago
my parents told me they were divorcing 20 mins ago...
i showed no emotion even now i am stone faced...
is that ok?
Thardoc 1 year ago
@Thardoc
yes...
pufixas 1 year ago
My parents got divorced when u was 12 I'm 13 now but what was terrible is that we were already moving and that was hard so now I had to live in a new house make new friends but also worry about school and life so I didn't want to deal with my parents divorce and now when I see happy couples and families out and around it makes me cry and my grandparents nor my aunts and uncles have ever gotten a divorce so no one really knows how I feel. :(
Mickeymouselover777 1 year ago
@Mickeymouselover777
Damn kid. I've been there before and know how that feels (seeing other families together with 2 parents, it kinda whats you think about shit, ya know? etc.). Things can be rough. Try to find a hobby, music was the only thing that got me through my parents divorce. Just remember, "Tough times dont last, tough people do." Life truly is beautiful,quite simply it's whatever you make it. You can look at life negatively, or choose to still see the beauty.
cockyguitarist 1 year ago
Hi. you're young, pretty and have your whole ahead of you! It's going to be hard love but think about it like this, atleast your parents wont be miserable together? They have probabily sacrificed a lot for you, and now it's their time to be happy. Hope you're doing ok XX
teebster1 1 year ago
Mustang dont fucking insult men i am a young man
And i feel ur pain my parents got a divirce when i was 12. It was really painful cuz they would have huge fights
And my mom always got drunk and would cry and hit my dad):
PoPyOtArT 1 year ago
Thank you so much! My parents got a divorce when i was 9....im 11 right now so its hard! I see families together and I just cry right now my eyes are getting watery. I see my dad every other week my dad is a good dad to both of my parents are. I love my mom and dad so much and they love me and thats all that matters but I miss being a family! God bless! :'(
bratzgirlsrock1 1 year ago
men are stupid ugly beasts.... nt all off em...
my parents got divorced when i was younger nd... i dont have contact wit my father... i wish i did... i plan to get him back now tht im older... people i suggest u try to keep in contact with your father... you will regret it if ya dont...
nd my friends parents are getting a divorce... poor thing... i intend to help her,, and try to give her good advice which will probably fail but.. ill make sure she dont feel alone cause thats just the worst....
mustang99190 1 year ago
For the past 11 years, I have listened to many children and teens whose parents divorced and the pain is immense and affects children all their lives. Most kids think at least part of this devastation is their fault. The choice to divorce is not their's; it is an adult decision which damages kids all their lives. Now, I help adult children of divorce and see the affects it has had all their lives. So sad!
robynbministries 1 year ago
I wish I was open and mature as you when my parents divorced when I was 20. Im assuming you are still in either grade school or high school, and I just hope that you will still keep your faith like this when you grow up.
jx1204 1 year ago
my parents just divorce but my dad still visits, but soon he will visit less.
TheJoey3590 1 year ago
You are so sweet and happy. Hold on to that! We need more positive people in this world.
Zigman876 1 year ago
Im very sorry... Last summer mine devorced and Ive never gotten over it... :( Its a heartbreaking situation to be in...
HawkfeatherWarrior 1 year ago 20
@HawkfeatherWarrior one thing i can tell you is that they will always be your parents
redbull9679 1 year ago
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lPeenz 1 year ago
@HawkfeatherWarrior to me it's like a nightmare mostly when ur being bullied
thecc5987 4 months ago
when i came home from school once and when i got trough the door my parents were arguing i went btween them and sed shut the fuck up already this shit goes on my nerves and then suddenly my father punched me right on the nose... i got pisst off at that time i just runned out of the house and rushed to my friend who lived 15 kilometers away from my house -.- oh well i havnt been home for 6 months now and im only 16 well hes a friend who takes care of me atleast which is a good thing i hope xD
DestoOfWow 1 year ago
you are so beatiful and drop dead graw-juss! and whats your acccent, i love it!? and i love yer advice! :)
TwiggyRice13 1 year ago
U give good advice lol
thekidinthecorner123 1 year ago