as long as a man works, he is contributing. The government wants men to keep working.
If you are at the edge, start demanding. The government does know, a working man that demands, but still works, is better than a man that is not working at all.
men walking away from their families, wife and kids! lol yer right more like men being forced out of the home, because the wife planned on getting rid of him but wanted to play the victim, I have known a lot of wemen who plan ahead in a relationship in this way, because in their minds men are only a means to an end.
That Daniel Monk chap needs a good kick in the nuts, if he has anything there to kick that is. I can't stand his patronising feminist apologetics. Listen to him listing off examples of horrible men who don't deserve paternal rights. No mention of single mothers who abuse their children emotionally and physically. No that's completely unheard of, right....
I grew up in a single parent home, or rather, with no dad, just mom and grandma. I turned out ok, but, we would have been FAR, FAR, FAR better off had my parents been together. Things would have been so much easier. I would not have been so poor in college that I had to wash up with dishwashing liquid because I could not afford books AND soap.
It really is no surprise at all that more and more men in the UK now regard women very much in a negative light - in fact, misogyny is increasing and many men now really hate women altogether and refuse to have anything to do with them. And who can blame them? Certainly not right thinking men.
Far too many women are far too selfish. Women really are the selfish gender - it is undeniably women. We see it in daily life, umistakably so. Noway are single mothers to be considered "victims". They are anything but - they are simply selfish perpetators of crime visited upon their poor defenceless babies. The UGLY side of women is now far too evident in UK society.
Getting my degree in English Literature has given me the insight that if it's a Marxist interpretation, the exact opposite is true. Take for instance the nature of Sin. After dealing with Postmodern Feminist interpretations of the Bible I decided to read it for myself. After reading it, it's obvious the Feminists were wrong. The reason Satan turned to Eve is when you corrupt the woman, you corrupt the whole of humanity. Apply that to the modern world and you'll see it's spot on.
@Clevergirl2011 oh get over yourself you bitch....nah nah it hurts, so all you care about is how you feel and i dont blame you thats how women are, you are selfish by your very nature but to not care about your own baby is HORRIFYING!
@jnven you win the argument between you and her you really do, but please don't generalize genders! saying "women are selfish, because they are women" is just the same as saying "men are pigs, because they are men".. thats all :)
@Clevergirl2011 Also. How on earth can formula even compete with breast milk with regards to immunological benefits. Breast milk contains all the mothers antibodies that provide protection to the child, there isn't a formula yet (to my knowledge) that has antibodies inserted into it, so I'm puzzled as to how you came up with that.
@Clevergirl2011 Women are given maternity leave for this very purpose. So that you can properly look after your newborn without the worry of finances.
So, either a man is ostracized from his children in favor of the mother b/c of the court system OR he becomes a wildboy, knocking women up and abandoning them.
Either way, WESTERN society has created the idea of a single-mother family and often wants to throw a symPATHETIC ear to them.
Anecdotal as it may be, my sister lied about being on the pill and got pregnant, he didn't want the child and signed away his paternal "rights" she still maligns him today which I find ironic. My cousin is marrying a mother of 2 (soon to be 3) after she lied about being on birth control recently... Thinking about it, why don't you explain all those high school girls who intentionally got pregnant in a way that leaves women blameless and men blamed if you believe what you say?
Aside from all the misandric ranting in your comments and your desire to hold everyone but yourself responsible for citing evidence and sources what exactly is your point? There are plenty of baseless man bashing feminist videos you can watch here if you don't like these. You accuse him of using a fake psychologist but I'd wager you don't have thing one to say about all the self serving feminist "research" to be found throughout every western nation.
If the man makes it clear he has no desire to parent and signs papers giving up his paternal rights before birth he shouldn't have to pay child support. Call it male abortion. But the easiest thing is to wear a condom!!!
If the father wants the child and the woman wants an abortion, she should have to have the baby and sign over her rights with no child support paid to him. She is not forced to mother and his right to father is protected.
@BurnTheBurka Interesting, except men have no "paternal rights" in the practice of law, only "paternal financial responsibilities". Go to any family court to see this in action.
No society as misandric as ours would ever allow a man to abdicate responsibility for a child in the way a woman can, no matter how legitimate his position.
It's the consequence of living in such a male-dominated society, I suppose.
@Clevergirl2011 Why do you breastfeed if formula is so fantastic? Because it isn't, that's why.
I commend you for breastfeeding your babies but to be honest, this is like commending someone for not feeding them sand. It's what mothers are supposed to do, it's generally easy and is no big deal. Except for the modern toxic mother that is.
If you have difficulty for the reasons you describe, that's how it is sometimes, but at least you tried to do what was right for as long as possible.
@Clevergirl2011 You must be an advertisers dream. Did you know that Nike shoes make you run faster and drinking Coca Cola makes you more popular and a McDonalds is a healthy nutritious meal for the whole family? Good grief.
Your excuses are amusing but the reality is that mothers who choose not to breastfeed are irresponsible, lazy and uncaring.
@Clevergirl2011 Your opinions (merit-less as they may be) are your business. But this is your only warning regarding misandry such as "half the man he ought to be" etc. Take your crass shaming language elsewhere.
Ironically, the rest of your comments apply to women FAR MORE than than they apply to men.
@Clevergirl2011 Just goes to show how incredibly strong, tough and amazing women have been throughout history to endure the agony of feeding their own children in the way nature intended. My heart goes out to the billions of brave females who have somehow managed to endure what you say is near-torture. And animals do it too. My respect for female pigs, dogs and kangaroos has just dramatically increased.
Your best bit? Breast feeding advice is "propaganda". This video was made for you.
i have really observed single mothers, one of them who im close to and is my aunt, and wow..i can see that her poor kids (my cousins) are severely lacking in discipline and just proper healthy upbringing. my aunt does not know how to really discipline her kids or maybe she wasnt meant to because its the fahter's job. so sad to see...
people you can not even imagine how fucking mad i while watching this....women are nothing but PURE EVIL at their best, these women should be locked up in jail for the rest of their fucking lives...how can you even do that to babies you FUCKNG WHORES!
Feminism is a revolt against nature, reason and decency. As such it is destroying our economy, society and culture. Can't build a prosperous and stable society on a foundation of lies.
I know women who knew the boyfriend was leaving and deliberately got pregnant in order to keep him. I tell my men friends who complain to me that they now unhappy with their present girlfriends to act like it is business as usual but immediately stop having sex with the girl and move on before she sees it coming on the horizon and gets pregnant.
these are great videos..many, many people are terrified of saying anything against mothers becasue they're brainwashed to think that ALL mothers are incredible and full of love which is just not true. there are many abusive and narcissistic mothers out there, one of them being my mother. its impossible unfortunatley
Women can act in an irresponsible,thoughtless manner simply because the UK's welfare system entitles them to do so,and this same system with all of its associated offshoots is a major impediment to men's rights and active participation in mainstream society.
I suggest cutting this same system right back to the bare bones and then lets all watch how many of these so-called "independant women" are truly independant.
I grew up without a father present, not entirely my mother's fault, my dad pretended to be someone he wasn't, they were married but until my mum was pregnant with me (2nd child), he didn't show his true colours, he said he wanted kids but in truth he didn't want to be a parent. One thing I do know though, growing up as a boy without the influence of a father still affects me now, in my thirties. The only criticism I have of my mother was marrying my father after only knowing him for 6 months.
I really hope that men realise there there ARE stil good women out there. There are still a lot of us who want a proper husband to have a family with, that children need to be raised in the home not by the government and/or strangers, that believe in stable, more traditional lives! We aren't all these fucked up libertard brainwashed jackasses. To be fair to a lot of these women though, the men are also libertard jackasses and won't be men. Society is poisoned and has no honour or respect.
@TwyztdValkyrie "the men are also libertard jackasses and won't be men."
Well men should be worried on shacking up with women these days, thousands of men have been screwed over by women. Cannot really blame men for not wanting to be around women sometimes, walk in our shoes once and you would get a real idea why.
As they always say "If you are going to smash the monkey's hand with a hammer every time he reaches for the banana, its going to eventually learn and stop reaching for it.
Just look at the statistics for percentage of criminals who come from single mother households vs criminals who were raised by both parents. I think it''s like a TEN to ONE ratio. Ten criminals raised by a single mom for every one criminal raised by both parents. And That may be conservative. I wouldn't be surprised if it were closer to 20:1. Children desperately NEED their FATHERS to guide them. Most single mothers that I've met have been drug addict pill popping neglectful whores.
SOLUTION: END welfare, alimony, child support, affirmative action and make abortion ILLEGAL. Women will only value hard working men and only have unprotected sex (or sex period) with their husbands. Single moms and divorces will disappear because there would be no incentive. Single moms act as Matriarchies in that they are in charge of how the next generation of kids are raised and are bad in that they produce non productive men and failing communities.
@wetdream09 True. When people look at a slut, they assume, "Her father really failed." This is because of the widespread notion that a slut is a woman who 'missed a few hugs'. Yeah, well, how come innocent girls become sluts overnight as they enter college?
The truth is the absence of a father figure, as in single motherhood, and peer pressure are responsible for sluttiness. In fact, the single mother (especially in the festering cesspool of ghettos) was a slut herself and made a poor example.
If I get pregnant out of wedlock, that child is of MY responsibility. I chose to accept the terms of motherhood, when I laid down with a man and had unprotected sex.
If you are not adult enough to handle the consequences of sex, unprotected or not, you shouldn't be having sex at all. If you are that horny, wack off or use a dildo.
Irresponsible mothers are solely responsible for the OOW child birth epidemic and the high number of deadbeat and absentee fathers in Western society. They make the reckless decision to open their legs up to multiple men and then blame men for being dogs and its due to the system granting women immunity from their own actions and decisions.
feminists love the idea of single motherhood because it allows the sigle mother to be both pitied as victim and applauded as heroine. it's like a dream come true for them.
It's too bad women that you wanted it all, and didn't have the foresight to see that you can never attain it! Women had more power and privileges when there were traditional gender roles, but you can thank manginas and insane women for fucking all that right to hell!
@cragmac1000 I agree. Females have been so caught up on getting the luxury life, that they don't stop to think of the negatives that can happen.
I'm happy just being a make up artist and living a simple life. You could not pay me to be a CEO of a company. Too much stress and not enough time to enjoy anything.
I agree with those who are saying BOTH young men and women have got to start thinking about sex as something more than a pleasurable adventure. Children are a gift, not a curse. They deserve to be loved by mum and dad when they arrive on this planet.
"There is actually no such thing as primary caregiver."
Yes there is. A caregiver is one who takes care of the children, and the primary caregiver is the one who does it most of the time.
Conceding primary care of the children to the mother within a marriage directly leads to the primary care of the children, in the form of custody, being accorded to the mother after divorce.
Fathers are still expected to be the suppliers of cash post-marriage: their 'traditional role'.
Child support is just another form of alimony. It's free money for women. If the woman can't afford to pay for a child, why is she having the child? A woman should have to have a man sign on to be a father before the child is born. And if he doesn't want to, then she should be totally legally responsiblity. She has the choice to HAVE a chilld, then he should have some CHOICE in going along with it.
keep up the good work guys...these topics are hard for the general public to digest, but its necessary. Opening up eyes one by one changes our world for the better. Keep going with your mission, you have my support.
Interesting thing about breastfeeding and convenience. Here we have a problem with breastfeeding in the most inappropriate places (like restaurants) saying they have every right to do so. So, they're saying "we wont breastfeed for self-serving reasons but if we decide to then we want complete carte-blanche for our convenience!" And to the effeminate guy in the vid saying "fathers shouldnt automatically have rights like mothers because what if he's a rapist."? Ugh, I dont know what to say!
So according to that dude in the video, I wasn't able to sign a consent form at the hospital for my son to have his hearing test (don't know if you're aware of that one), because as I am unmarried, it is irresponsible to give me the same rights over my own child as his unmarried mother, as I am likely to be either a stranger rapist, or irresponsible?
Why does society look down on us dads so much? And why are we all punished because of the actions of a very small minority?
@WhiteKnight20111 There is actually no such thing as primary caregiver. Its just an excuse for women to deny rights of their child to the man and to extract his money
The problem is that what the man does for the child is not evaluated when deciding if he is a good father
If he is working to provide for that child then he is being a good father, he is doing his job.
Him providing for that child enables the mother to care for it. (Food and diapers and other necessities are not free you know.)
@WhiteKnight20111 Its intentionally set up to have the mother look like the better parent from the start by only evaluating the things she does for the child as important.
Things like be the financial provider for that child, putting a roof over its head and money for medicine when its sick, and other things men do for their kids is never evaluated.
He is sacrificing time with that child to provide for it.
Single parenthood is the new thing. I look back on the previous generation in my family and only my aunt had a child outside of marriage but the father was actively involved in my cousin's life. All of my aunt's brothers and sisters(6 in all - including my mother) were married before they had kids. My generation is a different story and it's sad. I'm the oldest at 36 and I do not have kids. My brother, sisters, and cousins all have kids and none of them are married. Very sad!
And who the f*ck all of a sudden decided that fathers are no longer needed, but more importantly, why do we go along with that irrational decision? I don't know exactly what, but something must be done. We men have been pushed far and long enough into a corner. We have yielded too much ground and there's now very little ground left to yield. Something is about to give.
@Godfred78 Don't forget to fill the condom with spermicide (or my favorite, hot-sauce) before disposing of it. Women commonly take condoms from the trash and turn them inside out to impregnate themselves with (or maybe that is just here in North America).
@chrixthegreat'' Women commonly take condoms from the trash and turn them inside out to impregnate themselves with.'' I'm beginning to believe that is what women do. Ha ha ha
@kos66t , You solve that by putting habanero or tabasco sauce in the spent condom after sex. She goes to inseminate herself and she ends up in the E.R. for being a psychopathic bitch!
@cragmac1000 Better yet, just flush the condom down the toilet. Even better, don't have sex until you know her very well. Would she be the kind of woman to do such a thing? If you get even an mote of a notion that she would, dump her. Just dump her. No fanfare, no discussion, no debate.
Single and proud, i can't tell you how many mothers and women I know that take the single status as if it was something special. Like they are club going women, who want to party on the weekends, but then want to have kids too, but not give up that lifestyle. I can tell as when they date, they still don't give up that lifestyle. They go to a bar to meet a guy, hook up, then return there WHILE dating the guy.
every man should KNOW that this is the correct DEFAULT position to have about single mothers. you may be wrong, but you have a far greater chance of being RIGHT if you assume that the single mother in question has issues, and is a single mother either by choice (the toxic female, feminist, "man hater", etc) or is in this position as a result of her own poor decision making and actions (shes a liar, cheater, etc and the father left her for a REASON.)
@knowthingman Absolutely correct, the odds favour that a given single mother is single by choice (bad choice).
You will never, ever, hear a single mother admit that she is in that position due to her own selfish actions. It's always half the story: "he left when I was pregnant" or "he split when the kid was 2" or "he abandoned us" etc.
It's never: "I thought getting pregnant would keep us together" or "he said he didn't want kids but I thought he would change his mind once I became pregnant".
patrick henry once said "i have but one light, the light of reason, and one lamp to guide my feet, the lamp of experience".
ive known TONS of dads that didnt have their kids....and prob about half were "deadbeats"....i have only known THREE women in my whole life that were moms that didnt have custody, and they were ALL "deadbeats".
it all comes down to this: "a woman needs logic/reason like a fish needs a bicycle"
@knowthingman There *are* cases of abuse and neglect; it can be hard to realise how damaging a relationship is until its over, or until children are involved. I just got out of an emotionally harmful relationship (thankfully shortlived) and didn't even realise how hurt and miserable and harmed I'd been until I looked back -- at the time, I had no active clue. Also, the social poisoning of women is also poisoning men and emasculating them and ruining the very *idea* of family as being "evil".
of course there are poisonous relationships. some due to bad combinations of people and mutual actions, some due to the wrongs committed primarily one partner...either male or female. people also have a way of "editing" their past and their memories to fit their current frame of mind, to either mitigate their own responsibility or to deal with trauma...or both. its a complex issue, but your last sentence is 100% FACT.
My mum was so mental he drove my dad away.
brownie1982ad 1 week ago
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Single mothers are 75% more likely to physically abuse their children than any other parent.
Anon371 3 weeks ago
Single mothers are 75% more likely to physically abuse their childrenthan any other parent.
Anon371 3 weeks ago
@Anon371 Please tell me where you got that statistic from, thanks appreciated. Ideally a isbn or url or hardvard ref, would do
TableWolfMusic 1 week ago
@TableWolfMusic childwelfare gov/pubs/statsinfo/nis3 cfm
Anon371 1 week ago
@Clevergirl2011 blah blah blah.. If you arent willing to suck it up and raise a baby the correct way. Dont have a baby.
RunfromtheHeathen 1 month ago
as long as a man works, he is contributing. The government wants men to keep working.
If you are at the edge, start demanding. The government does know, a working man that demands, but still works, is better than a man that is not working at all.
ultraverydeepfield 2 months ago
8:04 that is actually the core of the whole problem. If men cannot pay, they are homelss.
women get shelter, men end up under the bridge.
If you are on that edge, do not despair.
Refuse to pay and start demanding, now.
ultraverydeepfield 2 months ago
men walking away from their families, wife and kids! lol yer right more like men being forced out of the home, because the wife planned on getting rid of him but wanted to play the victim, I have known a lot of wemen who plan ahead in a relationship in this way, because in their minds men are only a means to an end.
mansuka1 2 months ago
That Daniel Monk chap needs a good kick in the nuts, if he has anything there to kick that is. I can't stand his patronising feminist apologetics. Listen to him listing off examples of horrible men who don't deserve paternal rights. No mention of single mothers who abuse their children emotionally and physically. No that's completely unheard of, right....
Sambucca 3 months ago
I grew up in a single parent home, or rather, with no dad, just mom and grandma. I turned out ok, but, we would have been FAR, FAR, FAR better off had my parents been together. Things would have been so much easier. I would not have been so poor in college that I had to wash up with dishwashing liquid because I could not afford books AND soap.
openfist247 4 months ago
this deserves more views!!!
Rospandan 4 months ago
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When a man isn't ready to be a dad, he's a deadbeat father.
When a woman isn't ready to be a mom, she's pro-choice
smoking1212 5 months ago
we as men need a male birth control pill
allhailmegatron1 5 months ago
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commonloon0 5 months ago
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commonloon0 5 months ago
It really is no surprise at all that more and more men in the UK now regard women very much in a negative light - in fact, misogyny is increasing and many men now really hate women altogether and refuse to have anything to do with them. And who can blame them? Certainly not right thinking men.
Gavestonful 6 months ago
Far too many women are far too selfish. Women really are the selfish gender - it is undeniably women. We see it in daily life, umistakably so. Noway are single mothers to be considered "victims". They are anything but - they are simply selfish perpetators of crime visited upon their poor defenceless babies. The UGLY side of women is now far too evident in UK society.
Gavestonful 6 months ago
Getting my degree in English Literature has given me the insight that if it's a Marxist interpretation, the exact opposite is true. Take for instance the nature of Sin. After dealing with Postmodern Feminist interpretations of the Bible I decided to read it for myself. After reading it, it's obvious the Feminists were wrong. The reason Satan turned to Eve is when you corrupt the woman, you corrupt the whole of humanity. Apply that to the modern world and you'll see it's spot on.
thomaserossi 6 months ago
@Clevergirl2011 oh get over yourself you bitch....nah nah it hurts, so all you care about is how you feel and i dont blame you thats how women are, you are selfish by your very nature but to not care about your own baby is HORRIFYING!
jnven 6 months ago
@jnven you win the argument between you and her you really do, but please don't generalize genders! saying "women are selfish, because they are women" is just the same as saying "men are pigs, because they are men".. thats all :)
Rospandan 4 months ago
@Rospandan i know i generalized there a little but she just pissed me off so much :)))
jnven 4 months ago
@Clevergirl2011 Also. How on earth can formula even compete with breast milk with regards to immunological benefits. Breast milk contains all the mothers antibodies that provide protection to the child, there isn't a formula yet (to my knowledge) that has antibodies inserted into it, so I'm puzzled as to how you came up with that.
limetang 7 months ago 2
@Clevergirl2011 Women are given maternity leave for this very purpose. So that you can properly look after your newborn without the worry of finances.
limetang 7 months ago 2
So, either a man is ostracized from his children in favor of the mother b/c of the court system OR he becomes a wildboy, knocking women up and abandoning them.
Either way, WESTERN society has created the idea of a single-mother family and often wants to throw a symPATHETIC ear to them.
ApollosInsight 7 months ago 2
@Clevergirl2011
Anecdotal as it may be, my sister lied about being on the pill and got pregnant, he didn't want the child and signed away his paternal "rights" she still maligns him today which I find ironic. My cousin is marrying a mother of 2 (soon to be 3) after she lied about being on birth control recently... Thinking about it, why don't you explain all those high school girls who intentionally got pregnant in a way that leaves women blameless and men blamed if you believe what you say?
MTguy1 7 months ago
@Clevergirl2011
Aside from all the misandric ranting in your comments and your desire to hold everyone but yourself responsible for citing evidence and sources what exactly is your point? There are plenty of baseless man bashing feminist videos you can watch here if you don't like these. You accuse him of using a fake psychologist but I'd wager you don't have thing one to say about all the self serving feminist "research" to be found throughout every western nation.
MTguy1 7 months ago
@Clevergirl2011 stop polluting
thisgame2 8 months ago
If the man makes it clear he has no desire to parent and signs papers giving up his paternal rights before birth he shouldn't have to pay child support. Call it male abortion. But the easiest thing is to wear a condom!!!
If the father wants the child and the woman wants an abortion, she should have to have the baby and sign over her rights with no child support paid to him. She is not forced to mother and his right to father is protected.
BurnTheBurka 8 months ago 11
@BurnTheBurka Interesting, except men have no "paternal rights" in the practice of law, only "paternal financial responsibilities". Go to any family court to see this in action.
No society as misandric as ours would ever allow a man to abdicate responsibility for a child in the way a woman can, no matter how legitimate his position.
It's the consequence of living in such a male-dominated society, I suppose.
manwomanmyth 8 months ago 12
@Clevergirl2011 Why do you breastfeed if formula is so fantastic? Because it isn't, that's why.
I commend you for breastfeeding your babies but to be honest, this is like commending someone for not feeding them sand. It's what mothers are supposed to do, it's generally easy and is no big deal. Except for the modern toxic mother that is.
If you have difficulty for the reasons you describe, that's how it is sometimes, but at least you tried to do what was right for as long as possible.
manwomanmyth 8 months ago 3
@Clevergirl2011 You must be an advertisers dream. Did you know that Nike shoes make you run faster and drinking Coca Cola makes you more popular and a McDonalds is a healthy nutritious meal for the whole family? Good grief.
Your excuses are amusing but the reality is that mothers who choose not to breastfeed are irresponsible, lazy and uncaring.
manwomanmyth 8 months ago 3
@Clevergirl2011 Your opinions (merit-less as they may be) are your business. But this is your only warning regarding misandry such as "half the man he ought to be" etc. Take your crass shaming language elsewhere.
Ironically, the rest of your comments apply to women FAR MORE than than they apply to men.
manwomanmyth 8 months ago 2
@Clevergirl2011 Just goes to show how incredibly strong, tough and amazing women have been throughout history to endure the agony of feeding their own children in the way nature intended. My heart goes out to the billions of brave females who have somehow managed to endure what you say is near-torture. And animals do it too. My respect for female pigs, dogs and kangaroos has just dramatically increased.
Your best bit? Breast feeding advice is "propaganda". This video was made for you.
manwomanmyth 8 months ago
i have really observed single mothers, one of them who im close to and is my aunt, and wow..i can see that her poor kids (my cousins) are severely lacking in discipline and just proper healthy upbringing. my aunt does not know how to really discipline her kids or maybe she wasnt meant to because its the fahter's job. so sad to see...
patriciacarrasco 8 months ago
people you can not even imagine how fucking mad i while watching this....women are nothing but PURE EVIL at their best, these women should be locked up in jail for the rest of their fucking lives...how can you even do that to babies you FUCKNG WHORES!
jnven 8 months ago
WE CALL IT LYKES 101. DTB, AND HIT N RUN.
mesauh 9 months ago
Feminism is a revolt against nature, reason and decency. As such it is destroying our economy, society and culture. Can't build a prosperous and stable society on a foundation of lies.
carcabe 9 months ago 12
I know women who knew the boyfriend was leaving and deliberately got pregnant in order to keep him. I tell my men friends who complain to me that they now unhappy with their present girlfriends to act like it is business as usual but immediately stop having sex with the girl and move on before she sees it coming on the horizon and gets pregnant.
lillie1990am 9 months ago
these are great videos..many, many people are terrified of saying anything against mothers becasue they're brainwashed to think that ALL mothers are incredible and full of love which is just not true. there are many abusive and narcissistic mothers out there, one of them being my mother. its impossible unfortunatley
patriciacarrasco 9 months ago 3
Women can act in an irresponsible,thoughtless manner simply because the UK's welfare system entitles them to do so,and this same system with all of its associated offshoots is a major impediment to men's rights and active participation in mainstream society.
I suggest cutting this same system right back to the bare bones and then lets all watch how many of these so-called "independant women" are truly independant.
sixstringsforever 10 months ago
I grew up without a father present, not entirely my mother's fault, my dad pretended to be someone he wasn't, they were married but until my mum was pregnant with me (2nd child), he didn't show his true colours, he said he wanted kids but in truth he didn't want to be a parent. One thing I do know though, growing up as a boy without the influence of a father still affects me now, in my thirties. The only criticism I have of my mother was marrying my father after only knowing him for 6 months.
pete2778 10 months ago
I really hope that men realise there there ARE stil good women out there. There are still a lot of us who want a proper husband to have a family with, that children need to be raised in the home not by the government and/or strangers, that believe in stable, more traditional lives! We aren't all these fucked up libertard brainwashed jackasses. To be fair to a lot of these women though, the men are also libertard jackasses and won't be men. Society is poisoned and has no honour or respect.
TwyztdValkyrie 10 months ago
@TwyztdValkyrie "the men are also libertard jackasses and won't be men."
Well men should be worried on shacking up with women these days, thousands of men have been screwed over by women. Cannot really blame men for not wanting to be around women sometimes, walk in our shoes once and you would get a real idea why.
As they always say "If you are going to smash the monkey's hand with a hammer every time he reaches for the banana, its going to eventually learn and stop reaching for it.
ManSpeakOut 9 months ago
Just look at the statistics for percentage of criminals who come from single mother households vs criminals who were raised by both parents. I think it''s like a TEN to ONE ratio. Ten criminals raised by a single mom for every one criminal raised by both parents. And That may be conservative. I wouldn't be surprised if it were closer to 20:1. Children desperately NEED their FATHERS to guide them. Most single mothers that I've met have been drug addict pill popping neglectful whores.
Njderig 11 months ago 2
4:35
And the best way to assure that is marriage which worked in the past but there's quite obvious reasons with it now.
thecreepyguy 11 months ago
SOLUTION: END welfare, alimony, child support, affirmative action and make abortion ILLEGAL. Women will only value hard working men and only have unprotected sex (or sex period) with their husbands. Single moms and divorces will disappear because there would be no incentive. Single moms act as Matriarchies in that they are in charge of how the next generation of kids are raised and are bad in that they produce non productive men and failing communities.
Tsugua21 11 months ago 3
Awesome video!
foreskinforest 11 months ago
lol why when a girl doesn't have a dad in her life and grows up to become a slut do they blame that on the dad when the mother raised thy slut?
wetdream09 11 months ago 4
@wetdream09 True. When people look at a slut, they assume, "Her father really failed." This is because of the widespread notion that a slut is a woman who 'missed a few hugs'. Yeah, well, how come innocent girls become sluts overnight as they enter college?
The truth is the absence of a father figure, as in single motherhood, and peer pressure are responsible for sluttiness. In fact, the single mother (especially in the festering cesspool of ghettos) was a slut herself and made a poor example.
JunnyICurosi 11 months ago
If I get pregnant out of wedlock, that child is of MY responsibility. I chose to accept the terms of motherhood, when I laid down with a man and had unprotected sex.
If you are not adult enough to handle the consequences of sex, unprotected or not, you shouldn't be having sex at all. If you are that horny, wack off or use a dildo.
AbsintheGlasses 1 year ago
Irresponsible mothers are solely responsible for the OOW child birth epidemic and the high number of deadbeat and absentee fathers in Western society. They make the reckless decision to open their legs up to multiple men and then blame men for being dogs and its due to the system granting women immunity from their own actions and decisions.
MarkTheGreat555666 1 year ago
feminists love the idea of single motherhood because it allows the sigle mother to be both pitied as victim and applauded as heroine. it's like a dream come true for them.
TheBigBadWoIf 1 year ago 3
You women have made your bad decisions all by yourself, now you have to suffer the consequences for your utter stupidity!
cragmac1000 1 year ago
It's too bad women that you wanted it all, and didn't have the foresight to see that you can never attain it! Women had more power and privileges when there were traditional gender roles, but you can thank manginas and insane women for fucking all that right to hell!
cragmac1000 1 year ago 2
@cragmac1000 I agree. Females have been so caught up on getting the luxury life, that they don't stop to think of the negatives that can happen.
I'm happy just being a make up artist and living a simple life. You could not pay me to be a CEO of a company. Too much stress and not enough time to enjoy anything.
AbsintheGlasses 1 year ago 2
I've Found that women are No better than men.Simply put.A child needs a mother and father for the best outcome.
bathwhoreE 1 year ago 3
I agree with those who are saying BOTH young men and women have got to start thinking about sex as something more than a pleasurable adventure. Children are a gift, not a curse. They deserve to be loved by mum and dad when they arrive on this planet.
Jesuisquejesuis 1 year ago 3
@ManSpeakOut
"Things like being the financial provider for that child....and other things men do for their kids is never evaluated."
Yes it is. In evaluating it, the value assigned is: "father = cash in the marriage, father = cash post-marriage".
Do you expect anything other than that 1:1 correspondence?
Why?
"He is sacrificing time with that child to provide"
True and thus he is expected to keep on doing so.
Why is that surprising?
WhiteKnight20111 1 year ago
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@ManSpeakOut
"If he is working to provide for that child then he is being a good father, he is doing his job."
That is the critically flawed presumption. Being there in person and being good to the children is what makes a man a good father.
Supplying money is just supplying money: it's easily replaceable by a child support system, or welfare, or the woman working.
WhiteKnight20111 1 year ago
@ManSpeakOut
"There is actually no such thing as primary caregiver."
Yes there is. A caregiver is one who takes care of the children, and the primary caregiver is the one who does it most of the time.
Conceding primary care of the children to the mother within a marriage directly leads to the primary care of the children, in the form of custody, being accorded to the mother after divorce.
Fathers are still expected to be the suppliers of cash post-marriage: their 'traditional role'.
WhiteKnight20111 1 year ago
Child support is just another form of alimony. It's free money for women. If the woman can't afford to pay for a child, why is she having the child? A woman should have to have a man sign on to be a father before the child is born. And if he doesn't want to, then she should be totally legally responsiblity. She has the choice to HAVE a chilld, then he should have some CHOICE in going along with it.
SmokeRingsPipeDreams 1 year ago
keep up the good work guys...these topics are hard for the general public to digest, but its necessary. Opening up eyes one by one changes our world for the better. Keep going with your mission, you have my support.
iiablaze 1 year ago 5
Interesting thing about breastfeeding and convenience. Here we have a problem with breastfeeding in the most inappropriate places (like restaurants) saying they have every right to do so. So, they're saying "we wont breastfeed for self-serving reasons but if we decide to then we want complete carte-blanche for our convenience!" And to the effeminate guy in the vid saying "fathers shouldnt automatically have rights like mothers because what if he's a rapist."? Ugh, I dont know what to say!
boydebrook 1 year ago 3
So according to that dude in the video, I wasn't able to sign a consent form at the hospital for my son to have his hearing test (don't know if you're aware of that one), because as I am unmarried, it is irresponsible to give me the same rights over my own child as his unmarried mother, as I am likely to be either a stranger rapist, or irresponsible?
Why does society look down on us dads so much? And why are we all punished because of the actions of a very small minority?
6oodfella 1 year ago 2
@6oodfella
"Why does society look down on us dads so much?"
Because fathers are viewed as the ones who are not there for the kids, since mothers are usually the primary caregivers.
WhiteKnight20111 1 year ago
@WhiteKnight20111 There is actually no such thing as primary caregiver. Its just an excuse for women to deny rights of their child to the man and to extract his money
The problem is that what the man does for the child is not evaluated when deciding if he is a good father
If he is working to provide for that child then he is being a good father, he is doing his job.
Him providing for that child enables the mother to care for it. (Food and diapers and other necessities are not free you know.)
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago
@WhiteKnight20111 Its intentionally set up to have the mother look like the better parent from the start by only evaluating the things she does for the child as important.
Things like be the financial provider for that child, putting a roof over its head and money for medicine when its sick, and other things men do for their kids is never evaluated.
He is sacrificing time with that child to provide for it.
Yet we never look at the situation this way.
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago 4
@WhiteKnight20111 Most women know of this drawback to being a provider.
If they have to provide for that child she has to sacrifice time with that child to provide for it.
Which is why a lot of women quit their jobs when they have kids, cause they want to spend time with them, not work.
A lot of women know that is the sacrifice the man is making but bends the situation to make the man look like the bad guy.
ManSpeakOut 1 year ago 2
Single parenthood is the new thing. I look back on the previous generation in my family and only my aunt had a child outside of marriage but the father was actively involved in my cousin's life. All of my aunt's brothers and sisters(6 in all - including my mother) were married before they had kids. My generation is a different story and it's sad. I'm the oldest at 36 and I do not have kids. My brother, sisters, and cousins all have kids and none of them are married. Very sad!
daimon7 1 year ago
And who the f*ck all of a sudden decided that fathers are no longer needed, but more importantly, why do we go along with that irrational decision? I don't know exactly what, but something must be done. We men have been pushed far and long enough into a corner. We have yielded too much ground and there's now very little ground left to yield. Something is about to give.
pedrom41 1 year ago
cut the welfare off for these lazy bitches. Down with the nanny state, we can't afford it any more.
justgetsome 1 year ago 5
Preach Chris!!! PREACH!!!
TheBigSuegroski 1 year ago
If you don't want a child use a condom and pull out befor ejaculating... Never trust women...
It is not 100% safe, but it helps... ;)
Godfred78 1 year ago
@Godfred78 pulling out never works. Get some of your sperm frozen then get a vasectomy. Ultimate freedom.
NudistInTheRye 1 year ago
@Godfred78 Don't forget to fill the condom with spermicide (or my favorite, hot-sauce) before disposing of it. Women commonly take condoms from the trash and turn them inside out to impregnate themselves with (or maybe that is just here in North America).
chrixthegreat 1 year ago 4
@chrixthegreat'' Women commonly take condoms from the trash and turn them inside out to impregnate themselves with.'' I'm beginning to believe that is what women do. Ha ha ha
kos66t 1 year ago 3
@kos66t , You solve that by putting habanero or tabasco sauce in the spent condom after sex. She goes to inseminate herself and she ends up in the E.R. for being a psychopathic bitch!
cragmac1000 1 year ago
@cragmac1000 Better yet, just flush the condom down the toilet. Even better, don't have sex until you know her very well. Would she be the kind of woman to do such a thing? If you get even an mote of a notion that she would, dump her. Just dump her. No fanfare, no discussion, no debate.
MikeTMerciless 1 year ago 2
If you don't want a child use a condom and pull out befor ejaculating... Never trust women...
It is not 100% safe, but it helps... ;)
Godfred78 1 year ago
If they weren't raped they need to suck it up.
MrSuperJuden 1 year ago
Single and proud, i can't tell you how many mothers and women I know that take the single status as if it was something special. Like they are club going women, who want to party on the weekends, but then want to have kids too, but not give up that lifestyle. I can tell as when they date, they still don't give up that lifestyle. They go to a bar to meet a guy, hook up, then return there WHILE dating the guy.
bluefootedpig 1 year ago 10
every man should KNOW that this is the correct DEFAULT position to have about single mothers. you may be wrong, but you have a far greater chance of being RIGHT if you assume that the single mother in question has issues, and is a single mother either by choice (the toxic female, feminist, "man hater", etc) or is in this position as a result of her own poor decision making and actions (shes a liar, cheater, etc and the father left her for a REASON.)
start THINKING! it might save your ASS
knowthingman 1 year ago 44
@knowthingman Absolutely correct, the odds favour that a given single mother is single by choice (bad choice).
You will never, ever, hear a single mother admit that she is in that position due to her own selfish actions. It's always half the story: "he left when I was pregnant" or "he split when the kid was 2" or "he abandoned us" etc.
It's never: "I thought getting pregnant would keep us together" or "he said he didn't want kids but I thought he would change his mind once I became pregnant".
manwomanmyth 1 year ago 34
@manwomanmyth
patrick henry once said "i have but one light, the light of reason, and one lamp to guide my feet, the lamp of experience".
ive known TONS of dads that didnt have their kids....and prob about half were "deadbeats"....i have only known THREE women in my whole life that were moms that didnt have custody, and they were ALL "deadbeats".
it all comes down to this: "a woman needs logic/reason like a fish needs a bicycle"
she easily gets what she wants without it lol.
knowthingman 1 year ago 2
@knowthingman There *are* cases of abuse and neglect; it can be hard to realise how damaging a relationship is until its over, or until children are involved. I just got out of an emotionally harmful relationship (thankfully shortlived) and didn't even realise how hurt and miserable and harmed I'd been until I looked back -- at the time, I had no active clue. Also, the social poisoning of women is also poisoning men and emasculating them and ruining the very *idea* of family as being "evil".
TwyztdValkyrie 10 months ago
@TwyztdValkyrie
of course there are poisonous relationships. some due to bad combinations of people and mutual actions, some due to the wrongs committed primarily one partner...either male or female. people also have a way of "editing" their past and their memories to fit their current frame of mind, to either mitigate their own responsibility or to deal with trauma...or both. its a complex issue, but your last sentence is 100% FACT.
knowthingman 10 months ago