I totally used to like shinee but when i saw jaejoong it was 360 CHANGE and now i'm his fangirl i'm 17 and i have a boyfriend but i still go crazy over jaejae that man is just FLAWLESS <3~
personally i don't get sad if they publicly announce they're in a relationship or the paparazzi rudely catches them. i'm actually like good for them. it's lame when fans get mad and hate on the person they're dating, we aren't married to the idol, but then again they are IDOLS they should have expected it really.
i've always been aware that the idol industry is manufactured heavily and the way they act on shows doesn't reflect real men. its fanservice and it makes money but at the end of the day i'm still fangirling like crazy. i'm escaping reality when i watch kpop.
I think the fact that I've been in a really stable relationship that started before my K-Pop love did has distanced myself from getting too personally attached to them. I love Kyuhyun, but I'm of the mindset that he needs to be with a good, gorgeous girl, instead of falling into the archetypal "OPPA IS MINE!" I've always been very aware of how the idol industry caters to a possessive mindset, eg. Donghae's tweets of "ELF are my girlfriends". It's a bit ridiculous.
miss lindsey, i really hate watching this video. that does not mean i do not LOVE it. i do but i feel so uncomfortable watching it. so many points hit home! i am completely guilty of using shinee as my personal boyfriend set. when jonghyun got a girlfriend, i was torn to pieces and i had no idea why. it wasn't until i watched this video that it really hit home. i felt cheated on. for the first time in my life i lied on my couch and cried. so today, i'm asking my friend to go out to lunch with me
I like Jaejoong because of his personality. The fact that he is so feminine, unlike many Korean idols. Nickhun, Yunho, Baro - none of them act feminine in the slightest. Jaejoong's an oddity even in the K-Pop world, which is why we like him so much. xD
I don't have a bf b/c I'm shy, not b/c of Kpop. But I Love feminine guys b/c there's more to relate to! The fact that JJ is girly is such a turn on for me! I just want to go up& hug him. ;)
True, Jaejoong's mom on an interview commented that Jaejoong was always so feminine b/c of his like 8 or 9 older sisters. They used to pass down their clothes to him. Cultural aspects most kpop artists from aboard like Nichkhun and Jaebeom dont act at all like this.They get weirded out with such ideas like skin ship or bromance.
I'm glad you brought up Twilight and the Bieb for the comparison... I've always had this theory about androgynous pop icons being tween/virginal female friendly.
maybe cuz you're hanging out with AMERICAN-koreans idiot. and theres no such thing as a REAL man. all guys are men no mtter if straight, gay, bi, whatever. you think everything should be how americans see things. pathetic.
@Cretana17 a) Lindsay has stated that she was actually talking about KOREAN-Korean men she's hung out with. b) She didn't mean "real man" as in "oh, feminine/gay men aren't men." She was saying that real men are different from FICTIONAL men--that is, from the semi-artificial IMAGE that many idol men portray in the media. c) Did you miss the part where she said all these ideas apply to American idols as well--i.e., Justin Bieber, Twilight?
Yes, thanks to K pop I prefer adorable guys with somewhat feminine qualities(but not more feminine than me!) rather than muscular. I'm a 14 yr old (shhh!) who's never even been kissed, but whatevs I'm not like, obsessed with boy bands since I mostly listen to girl groups. But, I know many fan girls who are obsessed :P
my last bf was pretty jealous on my asian boys, and it's not like i was sharing with him, when i was with him i was.. me... ok i might have talked about them every now and then but you can't count that. it's true that now i really dont want a bf until i get to japan but... well, it's just me. i say no to the guys. im happy about it, really...
I have really complex (and sometimes unpredictable) taste in men, so while I think Taemin is adorable, and would give an arm and a leg to sleep with Jaejoong, G Dragon, and/or Jonghyun, I also go for men like Gackt, a subtle mix of masculine and feminine, Orlando Bloom, cute but not girly, and even Alex O'laughlin, who is a tattooed body builder. And after all that, I find myself in a stable relationship with a tall, muscular, rather average looking (I think he's cute :3) white-american boy.
East Asian is changing, evolving, embracing male-femininity and rejecting the aggressive thick hairy macho masculinity. There is nothing wrong with men being feminine.
And I may not have a boyfriend, but I really don't think it's due to kpop. (Not very popular in the first place...) If I knew some of these kpop idols, I think I'd be kinda creeped out by some of their "intrests" (i.e. Jaejoong's cat). Kpop has only done one thing to affect what kind of boyfriend: He has to be interested in (or at least open to) kpop. LOL
Haha, my friend's boyfriend is Korean and he always looks pissed but he's very nice! He's 25 and he's manly and stuff. But one time, he was looking at puppies to buy and he went feminine! Lol. He was all "awh, look at the cute little puppy's eyes! It's so cute and small!!" etc.. So I think it's okay for JJ. Hehe. But the industry feeding off single, lonely ladies is a good point! I personally don't have a bf and I do love JJ but he's not the reason for it! I interact with guys really well but m
uh well, I have a boyfriend, we're been together since December 2010,..Actually we are fangirl and a fanboy (he loves SCANDAL) couple that's why he understand me well (who's addicted do k-pop)..
This challenge is easy. I dont read fanfics, I dont know anything about by biases except their names. I love idols, but I would never date them in real life. I don't have a boyfriend, but its bc I have high expectations. I want my bf to cook and clean for me. I dont want them taking drugs, smoking, or gettin drunk. I have been told no man like this exists =(
it's kinda true i mean i'm one of the girls that wishis that there is more guys like TVXQ or SUPER JUNIOR but that dosent actualy stop me from being with normal guys , i mean as much as i wish i can get a guy like those idols i still know that it wont heppen coz it's like 1 in a milion chanse, beside the boys in my school are kinda cute , so eventhough i dream too much i still can tell reality, from imagintation
why do you still "love" those idols if your logic of not doing so is more convincing? your argument does make a lot of sense but you contradict yourself greatly at the same time. or do you think the word "love" does not have enough significant meaning to it?
But I'm also a fan girl (been one since I was 14)...
I have no problem with talking to boys... because I grew up with boys (my cousins, my elder brothers) and I'm an only girl.. and just like Jaejoong, when I was young I follow my brothers everywhere, I borrow their things and I act like a boy... XD
And yeah, it's true, some fan girls go crazy when their bias goes and dates... I totally accept that though. XD
I'm 19. Over half my friends are guys. I have had 2 boyfriends and have had sex. But I must also point out that I really didn't get into the scene of fan girls until Late 18.
However, I have a friend who is the same age and has been a k-pop fan girl for... I really don't know. She has not had a boyfriend once. Definitely hasn't had sex. I can't think of a single friend of hers that is a guy. I have also heard stories where she is too shy to talk to a guy.
i'm 27 y.o, married and 'beautifull' woman... and i am TOTTALLY in love for JAEJOONG ♥ ..thats makes me a FREAK ??? lol~ (i really think jaejoong is perfect guy in the world, feminism or not, gay or not, he is just extremelly GORGEOUS) ^^
@TohoshinkiSaranghae :: hahahhaa... yeah~~ i know i look weirdo~but what can i do! jaejoong is so damn sexy! O___O and i really feels like teenager.. is that so bad? i dont think so! ^^
@waddleNguin ... really??? i'm not alone in my crazyness ?? thats good! yeah, i really have naugthy fantasys with JJ even married... lol ~~ kind of normal , i guess.... but yeah~i'm crazy about jaejoong...^^ i feels like teenager girl~ ^^
Woaah talking about my future hubby xD :D Well I think you need to do some more research about him cuz he is alot more dif then your thinking,he is now the director of JYJ and I'm so proud so he isnt any k cute boy! But I couldnt agree more when you say the music industry is evil! IT IS! The Illuminati are taking over our kpop, they are using the boys!! So as a fan I would like you to open your eyes girls...We r all 1! (btw I advise you to write on google ' illuminati infiltracion on kpop' )see
I like that you bring up rather sensitive topics up and share your view on them. And yes, there are prob moments in all our lives where we wished we could have a guy/girl that resembled someone we admire. hopefully that doesn't jeopardize anyone's chance of actually searching beyond just that.
It's fun to be a fangirl, but in a healthy way ;)
Actually, I have got a bf , i made out many time with him bu still I'm in love for jaejoong behavior... he's different...but yeah when I think about him i don't feel stuff like with my bf (mising him now XD)
To be honest, I think with girls and idol worships, it's pretty much the same thing as boys and their comics/nerd paraphernalia. Many will grow out of it, or continue to retain some semblance of an emotional/nostalgic attachment, but there's the others who just can't function socially and will continue to exist in their own bubble because the real world can and occasionally will screw you up the ass.
The only reason Jaejoong is so feminine is because he grew up with 8 older sisters. You can't generalize about all the idols masculinity based solely off of him. You said yourself that about half of the responses were between 19-24. So, doesn't it make sense that such a large percentage of your results hadn't had sex or a boyfriend before, especially considering that some of the respondents were even younger? Moreover, your data is biased simply because only the people who felt strongly replied.
@dazzled505 my male cousin grew up with one older and one younger sister, and just his mom and doesn't act or look feminine in any way. You're right that it's not good generalize based off of one person. But to assume who someone grew up with plays a huge factor in thier behavior is wrong as well. There are many factors that may influence someones behavoir. I don't see how the data could be biased, you either felt strongly for or against the topic. :/
@Teatime4life ok maybe it isn't really biased, but as for Jaejoong's femininity, he said himself that when he was little, he always wanted to be just like his sisters. He looked up to them and he would borrow their clothes sometimes and other things. It's just the environment he grew up in. And I think it makes sense that his personality is feminine considering he was constantly around nine older females who would baby him.
@waddleNguin Well, you can't prove that, can you? Because that definitely wasn't his image at first at least. At the beginning, he was just supposed to be the quiet one who sings really well. You can't prove that SM told him to be feminine. It is perfectly likely that he just is that way
HAHAHAH WHEN MY MOTHER SAYS "ARE ALL OF THEM ASEXUAL." I LAAAAAUGHED your lying to your self when a man acts like a woman wants a man....9:24 hahahahahaha none of them (us) hahaha 9:24 HAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA
HAHAHAH WHEN MY MOTHER SAYS "ARE ALL OF THEM ASEXUAL." I LAAAAAUGHED your lying to your self when a man acts like a woman wants a man....9:24 hahahahahaha none of them (us) hahaha
I agree with your points, and have thought about them alot. I have had boyfriends. My...second to last boyfriend got pissed about my obsession with Korean guys,I dumped him. Then I dated a Korean American & he was awe full. Idols have ruined my view on real guys. I can't settle with anyone less than them. and knowing that pisses me off. I am 19, I have trouble communicating with anyone outside of the fandom, & I know I will never be in a happy relationship. Now I feel sad & lonely... -.-
"There are no real men on earth that will give you the fantasy you get from Edward Cullen, Justin Bieber, or any Korean boy band" I'm making that into a shirt.
Only korean idol group i know that acts like actual guys are 2pm xD they're perverted, wierd, beats each other up for fun, acts dumb at times and actually have manly muscles xD
well i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend before it's not because of TVXQ or any other Idol (coz i know a looooot of girl here too who doesn't even know TVXQ and they have never had bfs before) it's because Boys don't come to me T_T and it's imposible for me to go and tell any boy that i like him or something (i didn't find anyone i like yet ^^" and i live in an Arabic muslim country sooooo ^^" ) well i know i'm not ugly i'm beautiful but why the hell don't they come to meeee shiiiiit!!!
@Linzer i apologise 4 my comment i get a lil over sensitive when a person like JJ (ppl that come off as weird) gets poked fun @ i dont alwayz handle jokes vary well.
XD so true there are fangirls that go crazy and attack who ever even stands near their idol, and well for me i love kpop music, and no its not just the cute boy bands that i like, ive been in a relationship before, i can talk normaly to guys, i talk to at least 4 guys each day (the not-perfect, perverted, un-scripted, REAL type) ... there is a small percent of fans that go crazy and the reason they seem to be a lot larger percent of the fans is becuase they make the news
@linz JJ iz weird yes i like that about him 2 me hes like the hyung u wishn 4 but never get. I grew up as the only girl and the oldest of 5kidz. If u livd my life JJ and his cat wont seem so weird.
Thank you for having the balls to talk about this!! This video definitely deserves to be on my favorites, a thumbs up and I'm subscribing to your channel. This is the second video I've seen on you channel and I posted a comment on the first one I saw. Not sure if that makes sense but anyway, I talk about these things to people and they look at me like I'm an insane conspiracy theorist. People need to wake up to the reality that the entertainment industry is a wolf in sheep clothing.
i have to see Big Bang in person before anything else esp. TOP! after i did that i'll have my normal life back and most of all i'll get my own boyfriend! XD
I'm 37, married, and have never had a problem talking to/relating to real life men. In fact, I get along better with men than with women. In fact, there are many fangirls I interact with in real life and online who are married/in relationships. We really do exist ;)!
I've always been interested in men on a psychological level for instance watching the way a group of guys interact with each other based on variables. I think that's why i'm so attracted to male idols. The variables of I know I'm being watched probably by girls with somewhat warped perceptions of sex and human interaction creates a totally different interaction from I don't know I'm being watched or I'm too drunk to realize I'm being watched. It's fun to compare the two.
lol I'm married, I was in relationships when I started liking tvxq=) and yup, I'm working in office with about 100 men, and 3 women XDDDD Hush, I need a cute idol in my life to stop this crazy manliness around XDD
and... well... my husband buys me stuff with JJ, because he can't stand looking in my sad eyes^^ lol But well, I'm a crazy person with crazy education and I love being myself XD
Anyways, thanks))) it was funny to listen to some of your videos^^ Thanks for hard work!
(: I"m a huge fan girl. I have a boyfriend and I am totally still in love with the kpop boy bands, because of their music of course....and their hotness....*drolllsssss..................
My perfectly normal manly Korean husband gets a little feminine when he is with our cats. I can totally see him doing everything you showed Jejoong doing. Cats do that to you.
I do think you have a point about the idol industry feeding off the loneliness of single women though.
@JazmynDynamite exactly! that also means fans teeeechnically should not fantasize with this false persona. its worse than pretending to date a cartoon character
omg ! i gotta send ur video to all the fangirls out there ! The sad thing is that when people dislike the video they dnt realise u've just said the truth .
The purpel nails are a protection for the nails or better for all what is in Jejungs arpartment ,..., I find it really cool okay for a guy it´s a littel odd but he is a star I find he can do such things and Jiji looks good with purpel nails and when anyone is gay than the cat the cat is guy he has purpel nails and wear pink shirts,...but this is JJ I find it cool when he do such things he is a littel ferminin but with 7or 8 sisters it´s no wonder,....
I don't really care thats much about TVXQ but I'm a fan of them ... and talking about jaejoong like that ... sorry but did u do some research about him? r u sure he wasn't in a relationship during these 7 years?? .... anyway i liked what u said about the obsessing thing but the things u said about jaejoong umm well its ur opinion afterall and i respect that ... its not like am obsessed with that guy XD but really when u know his personality u might change ur might about him =D
tengo 23 años y me gusta mucho el kpop porque es una estilo diferente ya que en la actualidad se escucha musica que es para mi de poco agrado asi que me uni a varios grupos coreanos porque me gustan como cantan, asi que les doy mi apoyo pero no significa que me obsesione con ellos. Porque es inreal pensar que estos artistas te haran caso. Si alguien me dijiera que escogiera entre mi artista coreano favorito y mi novio, yo por supuesto que eligiria a mi novio ja
i believe that there is two types of fans. the fans that change their view on reality to fit the idols into their lives and believe that they acctually will someday b with them. nd then fans like who enjoy watching them and even thought we wish that ur partner could resemble an idol, we still keep our feet in reality and know the chances of that are low. Do i wana date someone like Taemin, GD or Mir...sure. would i be happy with a regular guy that i like and likes me back, also true, nd.
I think you did not even searched about jaejoongs background why he is "SO FEMININE" and started saying things and pointing out that he is gay.
He is the only boy in the family as much as i know as a cassie. So i think its natural right? Stop using kpop idol's issues so that your channel will have thousands of views.
And those you mentioned "teen girls" getting angry or should we say the proper term "jealous" when their idols having a relationship with others...I THINK ITS NORMAL TOO.
I am a heterosexual male who follows the K-Pop industry for the music. And I agree that a lot of female K-Pop fans seem to judge real-life guys by the images idols present. I cannot count the number of times I have seen this comment on a YouTube video:
"Oh, [idol] is sooo hot!! Why can't we have boys this sweet/hot/amazing in [country outside Korea]/my school/my town?"
Girls come to think of normal guys (like me) as scum, because they don't live up to the standards the idols present.
@Shyyrn well think of it. "normal"= standard. "idol"=object of worship. the definitions make sense so by default, normal guys will be lower than an object of worship. sorry if you can't match up.
I had thought this issue before. It is so true!! But after i woke up and realized from my fantacy i still loved Jaejoong. BUT, i lived normal in my daily life. I alos agree with that idols protray the unhealthy and unrealistic protray of men. SO TRUE! So many girls feel upset becaus of the realities come out.
LOL, i thought this was hilarious b/c i am a fangirl and most of what she said is the awful truth. haha i mean really, i always ask myself, are these guys for real? but one thing that's wrong (at least for me) is i have guy friends who i talk to and it's not awkward at all. and b4 i used to be suuuper obsessed not with JJ, but yunho, but i think cuz i had this strong obsession for awhile, it's become more of an admiration of wat they do rather than the whole idol image "worshipping" from b4.
there's just so many factors about jaejoong (as an example). the cultural argument can still be used because it depends if you're hanging out with koreans who did not grow up in korea for the most part. he might also be gay or just feminine. he's rich and might be consumed by vanity (hence the pampered cat b/c he wants everything associated with him to be beautiful). idk about jaejoong but i dont think you can fully assume what perspective he has on relationships since we dont really know him.
and I don't really have a problem with this except with the fact that 75%-90% of fan girls go crazy when ever an idol gets a girlfriend I mean is not like he will ever look at you or anything you are just making their lives miserable because when ever they want to go out with someone they have to be hiding under benches and stupid stuff like that and they are human beings they have the right to date just like any other person
Well, I have two friends who are a couple. Now, both of them are fangirls of these korean idols (one's a Yoochun fan and one's a GD fan). Now when they got together, the yoochun fangirl gradually put her girlfriend over yoochun. Which is a normal thing. What's ridiculous is that her girlfriend STILL puts GD over her, and when asked to make a choice between her REAL girlfriend and GD, she can't make a choice. unfortunately, that's what they ALWAYS argue about.
Ok I am subscribing to you. That was just awesome. Sadly enough I will have to say I am older than these guys, but still fan girl over them at times. Who wouldn't? But I am in a relationship. To your viewers... No you won't find a guy that's perfect but you can skim one a little more real off the top if your lucky. My guy will not go away, no matter what. Trust me I've tried, but he is loving and faithful. So hold out hope, but I wouldn't hold out for Jae, I think he's in love with his cat. ;p
I love Jaejoong and Yoochun, the rest of DBSk and other K-POP groups like everyone else. But there are some girls I just want to punch in the face. The girls that SCREAM NONE STOP DURING THE CONCERTS TO THE POINT WHERE I CAN'T HEAR THE GROUP SING! The girls that call them they're 'boyfriends.' NEW FLASH GIRLS, YOU PROBABLY WILL NEVER BE WITH THEM OR MEET THEM. They aren't interested in you. Stop obsessing and find your own man. If anything, the K-POP guys are annoyed of ALL the girls like you.
I'm happy you think so. I mean. I'm not 100% doubting that a fan will end up with a K-POP boy. It's very possible. But some of these girls, live and breath obsessing over and dreaming only for something like that to happen. I think the more you are obsessed and stay single. The less of a chance you have being with anyone even close to any of these boys.
I rather have an unrealistic dream about Jaejoong or any other DBSK member, cause in reality all guys are jerks and DBSK is just a way for me to get away from those jerks
In my opinion, the Idol Industry snares impressionable females with celebrities that resemble something that they would really like, like puppies and kittens. Hence, Justin Bieber looks like a puppy. Neither man nor boy, A puppy.. The Korean Idol's behaviour may not be too bizarre: he probably looks like a kitteh, hence his communion with another kitteh. Soon, Bieber will get replaced by another lost-looking puppy as soon as he matures into a full fledged dawg. And more girls will get ensnared.
as long as Super Junior, SHINee, TVXQ(now JYJ and HoMin, i guess :( ), 2PM, etc., etc., are out there being amazingly wonderful and gorgeous and the closest thing to perfect, no real guy is ever going to be able to compare and i will happily stay in my fantasy world...
btw, I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU! WANNA KNOW WHY???
because everything you said is totally true and ive realized just how pathetic my life really is *weeps while reading/writing yaoi fanfiction*
@iLUVphelps haha poor you darlin....but well I think I use to have the same problem... I also realized that about my self after watching this video... I laughted at me a lot
Dude no offense but I got shit to do lol As a college student (and someone in your age range) I really can't waste time with real guys anymore xD Jae's a good sub for right now, but even then I don't idolize him it's more like "you're attractive, talented and straight? If I ever met you in person I would so try to hit that!" It's weird I know but at least for me it hasn't kept me from stable relationships. But isn't everyone kind of guilty of idolizing those of the opposite (or same) sex?
It's actually quite true. I used to be OBSESSED with Jaejoong but now I have this guy that I really like and he likes me as well and I actually don't really care about Jaejoong, or any other kpop idol guy as much as I used to. Once you get an actual boyfriend, these idols aren't nearly as great as they seemed to be before. I still like them but maybe my love for them is a little more healthy...?
@cherrylyrics5 oh... that's a good relief... i'm still obsessed with jaejoong, hyun joong and yamapi but... well may be when i get to have a real boyfriend I'll get over them...
I have no idea what to say because I'm a fanfic reader and writer, but I'm a lesbian, so boys aren't really a problem for me. I'm seventeen and have had several girlfriends, (two of them Cassiopeia). But One of them was bi and she was completely obsessed with Jaejoong, and I found it a little weird...
I see the boys as amazing artists and fun characters to write about :/ But if it wasn't TVXQ I wrote about, it would just be something else. I like to write, and fandoms are an outlet.
I totally used to like shinee but when i saw jaejoong it was 360 CHANGE and now i'm his fangirl i'm 17 and i have a boyfriend but i still go crazy over jaejae that man is just FLAWLESS <3~
XItsxANGELbaby 2 days ago
I was getting read to get pissed off but I totally agree with everything you said
BethaneePop 5 days ago
personally i don't get sad if they publicly announce they're in a relationship or the paparazzi rudely catches them. i'm actually like good for them. it's lame when fans get mad and hate on the person they're dating, we aren't married to the idol, but then again they are IDOLS they should have expected it really.
llllllllllllily 1 month ago
i've always been aware that the idol industry is manufactured heavily and the way they act on shows doesn't reflect real men. its fanservice and it makes money but at the end of the day i'm still fangirling like crazy. i'm escaping reality when i watch kpop.
llllllllllllily 1 month ago
I think the fact that I've been in a really stable relationship that started before my K-Pop love did has distanced myself from getting too personally attached to them. I love Kyuhyun, but I'm of the mindset that he needs to be with a good, gorgeous girl, instead of falling into the archetypal "OPPA IS MINE!" I've always been very aware of how the idol industry caters to a possessive mindset, eg. Donghae's tweets of "ELF are my girlfriends". It's a bit ridiculous.
HeyItsBatman 1 month ago
miss lindsey, i really hate watching this video. that does not mean i do not LOVE it. i do but i feel so uncomfortable watching it. so many points hit home! i am completely guilty of using shinee as my personal boyfriend set. when jonghyun got a girlfriend, i was torn to pieces and i had no idea why. it wasn't until i watched this video that it really hit home. i felt cheated on. for the first time in my life i lied on my couch and cried. so today, i'm asking my friend to go out to lunch with me
IImrdiamondII 1 month ago
3:16 I'm a gay guy. Be jealous. ;P
sorachiyu252 1 month ago
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sorachiyu252 1 month ago
I really hope for Jaejoong's sake. He doesn't watch this video, let the guy be what he wants without him being analysed ffs.
GamerGirlEmily1 1 month ago
I like Jaejoong because of his personality. The fact that he is so feminine, unlike many Korean idols. Nickhun, Yunho, Baro - none of them act feminine in the slightest. Jaejoong's an oddity even in the K-Pop world, which is why we like him so much. xD
KodaKumiTVXQAlways 1 month ago
...I totally agree... But I'm sure about 95% fangirls like the feminity.... xD It's a good thing.... Lolol.
Aznl3xtch4Life 1 month ago 3
I don't have a bf b/c I'm shy, not b/c of Kpop. But I Love feminine guys b/c there's more to relate to! The fact that JJ is girly is such a turn on for me! I just want to go up& hug him. ;)
heroaddict1 2 months ago 3
True, Jaejoong's mom on an interview commented that Jaejoong was always so feminine b/c of his like 8 or 9 older sisters. They used to pass down their clothes to him. Cultural aspects most kpop artists from aboard like Nichkhun and Jaebeom dont act at all like this.They get weirded out with such ideas like skin ship or bromance.
IDKdoIneed1 3 months ago 3
I'm glad you brought up Twilight and the Bieb for the comparison... I've always had this theory about androgynous pop icons being tween/virginal female friendly.
beatnix99 3 months ago
women i willing to have jaejoong as my BF then 'some' other guy that only love girl b'cuz of their body
MsMinnie1004 4 months ago
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tambermelon58 4 months ago
I wanted to like this video, but as soon as I heard "real men", I knew it was over :\
Spassbremse123 4 months ago
maybe cuz you're hanging out with AMERICAN-koreans idiot. and theres no such thing as a REAL man. all guys are men no mtter if straight, gay, bi, whatever. you think everything should be how americans see things. pathetic.
Cretana17 4 months ago
@Cretana17 a) Lindsay has stated that she was actually talking about KOREAN-Korean men she's hung out with. b) She didn't mean "real man" as in "oh, feminine/gay men aren't men." She was saying that real men are different from FICTIONAL men--that is, from the semi-artificial IMAGE that many idol men portray in the media. c) Did you miss the part where she said all these ideas apply to American idols as well--i.e., Justin Bieber, Twilight?
karateinvalids 3 months ago
Oh thank God, this made me realise that my fangirling isn't as bad as I thought is was xD
LaSmuffyDeWulf 4 months ago 3
Yes, thanks to K pop I prefer adorable guys with somewhat feminine qualities(but not more feminine than me!) rather than muscular. I'm a 14 yr old (shhh!) who's never even been kissed, but whatevs I'm not like, obsessed with boy bands since I mostly listen to girl groups. But, I know many fan girls who are obsessed :P
philosophy75 4 months ago
... -stops reading fanfic- tomorrow... -goes to school: hey friends- .... -go home reads fanfic- sorry all my friends are guys XD
LoveAbleTVXQ 4 months ago
my last bf was pretty jealous on my asian boys, and it's not like i was sharing with him, when i was with him i was.. me... ok i might have talked about them every now and then but you can't count that. it's true that now i really dont want a bf until i get to japan but... well, it's just me. i say no to the guys. im happy about it, really...
daviddesrosiersrulz 5 months ago
because of asian media i cant be attracted to the typical adult male
only cutesy 16 year old boys
and im 20...=/
Onlygodknows1001 5 months ago 7
69 percent said they never had sex. they were too busy doing 69!
dumbasffff 6 months ago
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dumbasffff 6 months ago
you look great here!
GiaMusician 6 months ago
You're great, Linzer!
BluTrilobite 6 months ago
I have really complex (and sometimes unpredictable) taste in men, so while I think Taemin is adorable, and would give an arm and a leg to sleep with Jaejoong, G Dragon, and/or Jonghyun, I also go for men like Gackt, a subtle mix of masculine and feminine, Orlando Bloom, cute but not girly, and even Alex O'laughlin, who is a tattooed body builder. And after all that, I find myself in a stable relationship with a tall, muscular, rather average looking (I think he's cute :3) white-american boy.
ariserrocks 6 months ago
East Asian is changing, evolving, embracing male-femininity and rejecting the aggressive thick hairy macho masculinity. There is nothing wrong with men being feminine.
wadejq 6 months ago 3
And I may not have a boyfriend, but I really don't think it's due to kpop. (Not very popular in the first place...) If I knew some of these kpop idols, I think I'd be kinda creeped out by some of their "intrests" (i.e. Jaejoong's cat). Kpop has only done one thing to affect what kind of boyfriend: He has to be interested in (or at least open to) kpop. LOL
kurayamidesu 7 months ago
Amazingly, while I find most kpop male idols gorgeous, I'm still highly attracted to plain looking guys. ><
kurayamidesu 7 months ago 2
It really depends on the fans. I know some people who enjoy kpop and kpop idols, and they are married and happy in their relationship.
zainlovesmusic 7 months ago
My dad is strict about it.
chewyandpangsterr 7 months ago
Haha, my friend's boyfriend is Korean and he always looks pissed but he's very nice! He's 25 and he's manly and stuff. But one time, he was looking at puppies to buy and he went feminine! Lol. He was all "awh, look at the cute little puppy's eyes! It's so cute and small!!" etc.. So I think it's okay for JJ. Hehe. But the industry feeding off single, lonely ladies is a good point! I personally don't have a bf and I do love JJ but he's not the reason for it! I interact with guys really well but m
chewyandpangsterr 7 months ago
uh well, I have a boyfriend, we're been together since December 2010,..Actually we are fangirl and a fanboy (he loves SCANDAL) couple that's why he understand me well (who's addicted do k-pop)..
dhanchii 7 months ago
This challenge is easy. I dont read fanfics, I dont know anything about by biases except their names. I love idols, but I would never date them in real life. I don't have a boyfriend, but its bc I have high expectations. I want my bf to cook and clean for me. I dont want them taking drugs, smoking, or gettin drunk. I have been told no man like this exists =(
lilian23910 7 months ago
"Go to the kitchen, get your Pizza Rolls, and SIT DOWN!!!" LOL... I 'm totally eating Pizza Rolls right now.. Hahaha. You are awesome LINZER DINZER!!
xAsiaxLovex 7 months ago 4
here is proof that Kpop idols aren't that glorified seoulbeats[dot]com/2011/04/u-kiss-reminds-us-why-twitter-matters/
waddleNguin 8 months ago
please don't say naughty stuffs in your vids again
KPopIsMyLife19 8 months ago
I'm pretty sure that it's safe to say that it works out the same way with the boys obsessing over k-pop girls...... (FACEPALM)
pong224 8 months ago
..............I LOVE JONGHYUN! *reads fanfic and masturbates* XDD
Dreamariexoxo 8 months ago
I've had the same boyfriend for 3 years, we're in a hpyy and healthy reltionship.
But that doesn't change the fact that I am stil completely OBSESSED with k-pop!!
...and my idols.
So there's your answer, lol.
Ai071408 8 months ago 4
AGREED
BUT This could be a good thing:
eg. the decrease of teen pregnancies :D
mpeiris12 9 months ago 32
@mpeiris12 I LOL-ed
Dreamariexoxo 8 months ago
interensting topic
drsnowmon 9 months ago
it's kinda true i mean i'm one of the girls that wishis that there is more guys like TVXQ or SUPER JUNIOR but that dosent actualy stop me from being with normal guys , i mean as much as i wish i can get a guy like those idols i still know that it wont heppen coz it's like 1 in a milion chanse, beside the boys in my school are kinda cute , so eventhough i dream too much i still can tell reality, from imagintation
loveumniyahl0ve 9 months ago
so freaking true! :)
alimacchannel 9 months ago
bro ur good
MIMILOVE1234567891 9 months ago
that is true... people do imagine themselfs with these idols! me n friends. but is it bad to believe we would have a chance? we are beautiful... lol
dottieVIP777 9 months ago
why do you still "love" those idols if your logic of not doing so is more convincing? your argument does make a lot of sense but you contradict yourself greatly at the same time. or do you think the word "love" does not have enough significant meaning to it?
auesr 9 months ago
I'm 18, I have a boyfriend.. :)
But I'm also a fan girl (been one since I was 14)...
I have no problem with talking to boys... because I grew up with boys (my cousins, my elder brothers) and I'm an only girl.. and just like Jaejoong, when I was young I follow my brothers everywhere, I borrow their things and I act like a boy... XD
And yeah, it's true, some fan girls go crazy when their bias goes and dates... I totally accept that though. XD
So yeah I think it differs on every person...
zhienezzz 9 months ago
@zhienezzz Haha :D
jokkiejoker 9 months ago
I'm 19. Over half my friends are guys. I have had 2 boyfriends and have had sex. But I must also point out that I really didn't get into the scene of fan girls until Late 18.
However, I have a friend who is the same age and has been a k-pop fan girl for... I really don't know. She has not had a boyfriend once. Definitely hasn't had sex. I can't think of a single friend of hers that is a guy. I have also heard stories where she is too shy to talk to a guy.
This has a degree of truth.
MidoriGal17 9 months ago
i'm 27 y.o, married and 'beautifull' woman... and i am TOTTALLY in love for JAEJOONG ♥ ..thats makes me a FREAK ??? lol~ (i really think jaejoong is perfect guy in the world, feminism or not, gay or not, he is just extremelly GORGEOUS) ^^
julianakrewer 10 months ago 4
@julianakrewer lol are you really 27? You sound like a 13 year old fangirl o_O.. sorry
TohoshinkiSaranghae 9 months ago
@TohoshinkiSaranghae :: hahahhaa... yeah~~ i know i look weirdo~but what can i do! jaejoong is so damn sexy! O___O and i really feels like teenager.. is that so bad? i dont think so! ^^
julianakrewer 9 months ago
@julianakrewer are you trying to imitate martina? shes 27. married and appears to be obsessed with top...
waddleNguin 9 months ago
@waddleNguin ... really??? i'm not alone in my crazyness ?? thats good! yeah, i really have naugthy fantasys with JJ even married... lol ~~ kind of normal , i guess.... but yeah~i'm crazy about jaejoong...^^ i feels like teenager girl~ ^^
julianakrewer 9 months ago
WHATS UP WITH THE SHOWER HEAD, DO CHICKS REALLY USE THAT???
dragoon1023 10 months ago
@dragoon1023 first time hearing it...
Cristupiti 10 months ago
@dragoon1023 ive never heard of girls using shower heads for anything. but judging by the context of the vlog, im assuming its something dirty...
waddleNguin 9 months ago
Woaah talking about my future hubby xD :D Well I think you need to do some more research about him cuz he is alot more dif then your thinking,he is now the director of JYJ and I'm so proud so he isnt any k cute boy! But I couldnt agree more when you say the music industry is evil! IT IS! The Illuminati are taking over our kpop, they are using the boys!! So as a fan I would like you to open your eyes girls...We r all 1! (btw I advise you to write on google ' illuminati infiltracion on kpop' )see
RitinhaMatsuura 10 months ago
I like that you bring up rather sensitive topics up and share your view on them. And yes, there are prob moments in all our lives where we wished we could have a guy/girl that resembled someone we admire. hopefully that doesn't jeopardize anyone's chance of actually searching beyond just that.
It's fun to be a fangirl, but in a healthy way ;)
Singmoi 10 months ago
THUMBS UP to all crazy fangirls who are crazy about their idols and still have a stable, healthy boy/girl relationship... I'm one of them..
ZinAKTF 11 months ago 4
I like the way you talk @linzerdinzertv
Actually, I have got a bf , i made out many time with him bu still I'm in love for jaejoong behavior... he's different...but yeah when I think about him i don't feel stuff like with my bf (mising him now XD)
enigmaticma 11 months ago
You reminds me of my professor.
StrwberryRoro 11 months ago
So effing true.
lmfao
Diamondza25 11 months ago
To be honest, I think with girls and idol worships, it's pretty much the same thing as boys and their comics/nerd paraphernalia. Many will grow out of it, or continue to retain some semblance of an emotional/nostalgic attachment, but there's the others who just can't function socially and will continue to exist in their own bubble because the real world can and occasionally will screw you up the ass.
hellenistic 11 months ago
The only reason Jaejoong is so feminine is because he grew up with 8 older sisters. You can't generalize about all the idols masculinity based solely off of him. You said yourself that about half of the responses were between 19-24. So, doesn't it make sense that such a large percentage of your results hadn't had sex or a boyfriend before, especially considering that some of the respondents were even younger? Moreover, your data is biased simply because only the people who felt strongly replied.
dazzled505 11 months ago 69
@dazzled505 my male cousin grew up with one older and one younger sister, and just his mom and doesn't act or look feminine in any way. You're right that it's not good generalize based off of one person. But to assume who someone grew up with plays a huge factor in thier behavior is wrong as well. There are many factors that may influence someones behavoir. I don't see how the data could be biased, you either felt strongly for or against the topic. :/
Teatime4life 10 months ago
@Teatime4life ok maybe it isn't really biased, but as for Jaejoong's femininity, he said himself that when he was little, he always wanted to be just like his sisters. He looked up to them and he would borrow their clothes sometimes and other things. It's just the environment he grew up in. And I think it makes sense that his personality is feminine considering he was constantly around nine older females who would baby him.
dazzled505 10 months ago
@dazzled505 the only reason jaejoong is so feminine is because thats his job or he was trained to give off that image.
waddleNguin 9 months ago
@waddleNguin Well, you can't prove that, can you? Because that definitely wasn't his image at first at least. At the beginning, he was just supposed to be the quiet one who sings really well. You can't prove that SM told him to be feminine. It is perfectly likely that he just is that way
dazzled505 9 months ago
@dazzled505 thats also why she said this wasnt good data.
waddleNguin 8 months ago
i talk to boys and i used to have a boyfriend...but i will admit i loved the Korean boy bands more...lol
doodytrain 11 months ago
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tuv65 11 months ago
HAHAHAH WHEN MY MOTHER SAYS "ARE ALL OF THEM ASEXUAL." I LAAAAAUGHED your lying to your self when a man acts like a woman wants a man....9:24 hahahahahaha none of them (us) hahaha
tuv65 11 months ago
I sometimes watch kpop videos with my boyfriend...fangirl win? :D
That said, really interesting points about fandom; it seems like the internet makes falling into that kind of fantasy all too easy.
karateinvalids 11 months ago
I agree with your points, and have thought about them alot. I have had boyfriends. My...second to last boyfriend got pissed about my obsession with Korean guys,I dumped him. Then I dated a Korean American & he was awe full. Idols have ruined my view on real guys. I can't settle with anyone less than them. and knowing that pisses me off. I am 19, I have trouble communicating with anyone outside of the fandom, & I know I will never be in a happy relationship. Now I feel sad & lonely... -.-
MissKpopJunkie 11 months ago
"There are no real men on earth that will give you the fantasy you get from Edward Cullen, Justin Bieber, or any Korean boy band" I'm making that into a shirt.
0neRoomDisco 11 months ago
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luvzax5566 11 months ago
that was a really good question , I 'm personally scared to answer that ... becuase I know I wouldn't like the answer :)
thanks for your videos , I love them ...
PS : your hair is awesome !
5005LUNA 11 months ago
Only korean idol group i know that acts like actual guys are 2pm xD they're perverted, wierd, beats each other up for fun, acts dumb at times and actually have manly muscles xD
SmileLoveImUrs 11 months ago
well i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend before it's not because of TVXQ or any other Idol (coz i know a looooot of girl here too who doesn't even know TVXQ and they have never had bfs before) it's because Boys don't come to me T_T and it's imposible for me to go and tell any boy that i like him or something (i didn't find anyone i like yet ^^" and i live in an Arabic muslim country sooooo ^^" ) well i know i'm not ugly i'm beautiful but why the hell don't they come to meeee shiiiiit!!!
lanaW91 11 months ago
@lanaW91, you know why? YOUR TOO DAMN HOT thats why! Why would an average guy go up to you when they know their replaceable?
guardman12345 11 months ago
@guardman12345 thanks ^_^ that's sweet from you XP
lanaW91 10 months ago
I highly enjoyed this, you smart cookie!
I just realized how many fangirls I know who've never had a bf before.
BobchiEater 1 year ago
@Linzer i apologise 4 my comment i get a lil over sensitive when a person like JJ (ppl that come off as weird) gets poked fun @ i dont alwayz handle jokes vary well.
kristina43eo 1 year ago
XD so true there are fangirls that go crazy and attack who ever even stands near their idol, and well for me i love kpop music, and no its not just the cute boy bands that i like, ive been in a relationship before, i can talk normaly to guys, i talk to at least 4 guys each day (the not-perfect, perverted, un-scripted, REAL type) ... there is a small percent of fans that go crazy and the reason they seem to be a lot larger percent of the fans is becuase they make the news
xEternalSoul 1 year ago
@linz JJ iz weird yes i like that about him 2 me hes like the hyung u wishn 4 but never get. I grew up as the only girl and the oldest of 5kidz. If u livd my life JJ and his cat wont seem so weird.
kristina43eo 1 year ago
OMG! I´m 17 and I´m like this xDD...
PerfumeAChan 1 year ago
Thank you for having the balls to talk about this!! This video definitely deserves to be on my favorites, a thumbs up and I'm subscribing to your channel. This is the second video I've seen on you channel and I posted a comment on the first one I saw. Not sure if that makes sense but anyway, I talk about these things to people and they look at me like I'm an insane conspiracy theorist. People need to wake up to the reality that the entertainment industry is a wolf in sheep clothing.
strava86 1 year ago
i have to see Big Bang in person before anything else esp. TOP! after i did that i'll have my normal life back and most of all i'll get my own boyfriend! XD
cutiepot 1 year ago
I'm 37, married, and have never had a problem talking to/relating to real life men. In fact, I get along better with men than with women. In fact, there are many fangirls I interact with in real life and online who are married/in relationships. We really do exist ;)!
corinnajune 1 year ago 5
I've always been interested in men on a psychological level for instance watching the way a group of guys interact with each other based on variables. I think that's why i'm so attracted to male idols. The variables of I know I'm being watched probably by girls with somewhat warped perceptions of sex and human interaction creates a totally different interaction from I don't know I'm being watched or I'm too drunk to realize I'm being watched. It's fun to compare the two.
Kimiko1387 1 year ago 4
lol I'm married, I was in relationships when I started liking tvxq=) and yup, I'm working in office with about 100 men, and 3 women XDDDD Hush, I need a cute idol in my life to stop this crazy manliness around XDD
and... well... my husband buys me stuff with JJ, because he can't stand looking in my sad eyes^^ lol But well, I'm a crazy person with crazy education and I love being myself XD
Anyways, thanks))) it was funny to listen to some of your videos^^ Thanks for hard work!
Milisante 1 year ago
yes
micshia1306 1 year ago
(: I"m a huge fan girl. I have a boyfriend and I am totally still in love with the kpop boy bands, because of their music of course....and their hotness....*drolllsssss..................
but yeah, YOU'RE SO SMART! (: love the videos :D
RandomGils 1 year ago
My perfectly normal manly Korean husband gets a little feminine when he is with our cats. I can totally see him doing everything you showed Jejoong doing. Cats do that to you.
I do think you have a point about the idol industry feeding off the loneliness of single women though.
cats173 1 year ago 2
@JazmynDynamite exactly! that also means fans teeeechnically should not fantasize with this false persona. its worse than pretending to date a cartoon character
waddleNguin 1 year ago
omg ! i gotta send ur video to all the fangirls out there ! The sad thing is that when people dislike the video they dnt realise u've just said the truth .
gpbeatz 1 year ago
....and Jiji is soooo cute/beautiful I love his color!!!!!
kathypped 1 year ago
The purpel nails are a protection for the nails or better for all what is in Jejungs arpartment ,..., I find it really cool okay for a guy it´s a littel odd but he is a star I find he can do such things and Jiji looks good with purpel nails and when anyone is gay than the cat the cat is guy he has purpel nails and wear pink shirts,...but this is JJ I find it cool when he do such things he is a littel ferminin but with 7or 8 sisters it´s no wonder,....
kathypped 1 year ago
Great ending =]
adorabledork89 1 year ago
looked cute , till ya opened ya mouth
dancetool 1 year ago
mind*
hoshibyul1 1 year ago
I don't really care thats much about TVXQ but I'm a fan of them ... and talking about jaejoong like that ... sorry but did u do some research about him? r u sure he wasn't in a relationship during these 7 years?? .... anyway i liked what u said about the obsessing thing but the things u said about jaejoong umm well its ur opinion afterall and i respect that ... its not like am obsessed with that guy XD but really when u know his personality u might change ur might about him =D
hoshibyul1 1 year ago
tengo 23 años y me gusta mucho el kpop porque es una estilo diferente ya que en la actualidad se escucha musica que es para mi de poco agrado asi que me uni a varios grupos coreanos porque me gustan como cantan, asi que les doy mi apoyo pero no significa que me obsesione con ellos. Porque es inreal pensar que estos artistas te haran caso. Si alguien me dijiera que escogiera entre mi artista coreano favorito y mi novio, yo por supuesto que eligiria a mi novio ja
Midoyo2010 1 year ago
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Midoyo2010 1 year ago
ha ha reguler koreans don't act like korean idols good point there lol
tochjo772 1 year ago
i believe that there is two types of fans. the fans that change their view on reality to fit the idols into their lives and believe that they acctually will someday b with them. nd then fans like who enjoy watching them and even thought we wish that ur partner could resemble an idol, we still keep our feet in reality and know the chances of that are low. Do i wana date someone like Taemin, GD or Mir...sure. would i be happy with a regular guy that i like and likes me back, also true, nd.
momoja92 1 year ago
I don't think that every fangirl that doesn't have a boyfriend, doesn't have one because she's into kpop...
sofiasilvaable 1 year ago
I think you did not even searched about jaejoongs background why he is "SO FEMININE" and started saying things and pointing out that he is gay.
He is the only boy in the family as much as i know as a cassie. So i think its natural right? Stop using kpop idol's issues so that your channel will have thousands of views.
And those you mentioned "teen girls" getting angry or should we say the proper term "jealous" when their idols having a relationship with others...I THINK ITS NORMAL TOO.
sesangi 1 year ago
@sesangi *DID NOT EVEN SEARCH.
sorry for the grammatical error.
sesangi 1 year ago
@sesangi LOL.
linegenrou 1 year ago
A BIG NONSENSE.
sesangi 1 year ago
lol
sevorine 1 year ago
I am a heterosexual male who follows the K-Pop industry for the music. And I agree that a lot of female K-Pop fans seem to judge real-life guys by the images idols present. I cannot count the number of times I have seen this comment on a YouTube video:
"Oh, [idol] is sooo hot!! Why can't we have boys this sweet/hot/amazing in [country outside Korea]/my school/my town?"
Girls come to think of normal guys (like me) as scum, because they don't live up to the standards the idols present.
Shyyrn 1 year ago 45
@Shyyrn well think of it. "normal"= standard. "idol"=object of worship. the definitions make sense so by default, normal guys will be lower than an object of worship. sorry if you can't match up.
waddleNguin 9 months ago
I had thought this issue before. It is so true!! But after i woke up and realized from my fantacy i still loved Jaejoong. BUT, i lived normal in my daily life. I alos agree with that idols protray the unhealthy and unrealistic protray of men. SO TRUE! So many girls feel upset becaus of the realities come out.
pianofly2010 1 year ago
LOL, i thought this was hilarious b/c i am a fangirl and most of what she said is the awful truth. haha i mean really, i always ask myself, are these guys for real? but one thing that's wrong (at least for me) is i have guy friends who i talk to and it's not awkward at all. and b4 i used to be suuuper obsessed not with JJ, but yunho, but i think cuz i had this strong obsession for awhile, it's become more of an admiration of wat they do rather than the whole idol image "worshipping" from b4.
Toomuchlaffing 1 year ago
Lol you guys remind me of Zim and Gir
omgiitsmai 1 year ago
OH MY GOD! Somebody shares my opinion :O
iAreHaych 1 year ago
there's just so many factors about jaejoong (as an example). the cultural argument can still be used because it depends if you're hanging out with koreans who did not grow up in korea for the most part. he might also be gay or just feminine. he's rich and might be consumed by vanity (hence the pampered cat b/c he wants everything associated with him to be beautiful). idk about jaejoong but i dont think you can fully assume what perspective he has on relationships since we dont really know him.
erincarnaudrey 1 year ago 2
I used to be obbssesed with G-Dragon..I even added his sister on twitter >.> *cough*
TheShinedOn 1 year ago
I love Jaejoong,but it seems that the way he acts might seem bizarre if you think he is straight.If you think he is gay,yeah,not so weird.
linegenrou 1 year ago
I liked the Matrix sequels too... :(
cyanbohemia 1 year ago
I dont get your point , stars are not supposed to have rights but what about the ones who uses those peoples rights.
IkutoyKristty 1 year ago
@IkutoyKristty i'm sorry but i just want to know who said that stars are not supposed to have rights?
dizbehme 1 year ago 2
@dizbehme Whell if your point is that one, probably an selfish person said it.
IkutoyKristty 1 year ago
this is so true
and I don't really have a problem with this except with the fact that 75%-90% of fan girls go crazy when ever an idol gets a girlfriend I mean is not like he will ever look at you or anything you are just making their lives miserable because when ever they want to go out with someone they have to be hiding under benches and stupid stuff like that and they are human beings they have the right to date just like any other person
daliaivone 1 year ago
Well, I have two friends who are a couple. Now, both of them are fangirls of these korean idols (one's a Yoochun fan and one's a GD fan). Now when they got together, the yoochun fangirl gradually put her girlfriend over yoochun. Which is a normal thing. What's ridiculous is that her girlfriend STILL puts GD over her, and when asked to make a choice between her REAL girlfriend and GD, she can't make a choice. unfortunately, that's what they ALWAYS argue about.
KenshinSensei 1 year ago
@KenshinSensei and I'm always caught in the middle of it.
KenshinSensei 1 year ago
"and in korea, this training begins at a really young age". Not just in Korea, but in Japan too.
KenshinSensei 1 year ago
so true so true looolll!!
angeltheya12 1 year ago
so true so true
angeltheya12 1 year ago
OMG you are soooooooooo right! I just subscribed. I have less of a life and don't care as much since DBSK. LOL. TVXQ and a shower head.
douknowyunhocuzido 1 year ago
your a bigot bitch
TheAsianReviews 1 year ago
I always fantasize with those sexy asian guys but I never masturbate my self... no way
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago 2
that is true... once i tasted what real men like, my fantasy over bigbang seems to fade a way gradually
whatsgoingonyall 1 year ago
Ok I am subscribing to you. That was just awesome. Sadly enough I will have to say I am older than these guys, but still fan girl over them at times. Who wouldn't? But I am in a relationship. To your viewers... No you won't find a guy that's perfect but you can skim one a little more real off the top if your lucky. My guy will not go away, no matter what. Trust me I've tried, but he is loving and faithful. So hold out hope, but I wouldn't hold out for Jae, I think he's in love with his cat. ;p
Jadeicewolf 1 year ago
@Jadeicewolf agree
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago
I love Jaejoong and Yoochun, the rest of DBSk and other K-POP groups like everyone else. But there are some girls I just want to punch in the face. The girls that SCREAM NONE STOP DURING THE CONCERTS TO THE POINT WHERE I CAN'T HEAR THE GROUP SING! The girls that call them they're 'boyfriends.' NEW FLASH GIRLS, YOU PROBABLY WILL NEVER BE WITH THEM OR MEET THEM. They aren't interested in you. Stop obsessing and find your own man. If anything, the K-POP guys are annoyed of ALL the girls like you.
xNikkaX3 1 year ago
@xNikkaX3 omg you're so right
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago
I'm happy you think so. I mean. I'm not 100% doubting that a fan will end up with a K-POP boy. It's very possible. But some of these girls, live and breath obsessing over and dreaming only for something like that to happen. I think the more you are obsessed and stay single. The less of a chance you have being with anyone even close to any of these boys.
xNikkaX3 1 year ago
I rather have an unrealistic dream about Jaejoong or any other DBSK member, cause in reality all guys are jerks and DBSK is just a way for me to get away from those jerks
FindSS501 1 year ago
In my opinion, the Idol Industry snares impressionable females with celebrities that resemble something that they would really like, like puppies and kittens. Hence, Justin Bieber looks like a puppy. Neither man nor boy, A puppy.. The Korean Idol's behaviour may not be too bizarre: he probably looks like a kitteh, hence his communion with another kitteh. Soon, Bieber will get replaced by another lost-looking puppy as soon as he matures into a full fledged dawg. And more girls will get ensnared.
EcksAddikMcAddik 1 year ago
@EcksAddikMcAddik discusting... i prefer the hunks
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago
@EcksAddikMcAddik Key does look like a kitten... and Onew looks like a kitten too D: I LOVE KITTENS
/foreverparanoid
LovleyXBones 1 year ago
Omfg i love you !!!
Damn if all the 17'-20' girls would think as you, i just might have a relationship longer than 2months xD !
iojDRE 1 year ago
as long as Super Junior, SHINee, TVXQ(now JYJ and HoMin, i guess :( ), 2PM, etc., etc., are out there being amazingly wonderful and gorgeous and the closest thing to perfect, no real guy is ever going to be able to compare and i will happily stay in my fantasy world...
btw, I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU! WANNA KNOW WHY???
because everything you said is totally true and ive realized just how pathetic my life really is *weeps while reading/writing yaoi fanfiction*
iLUVphelps 1 year ago
@iLUVphelps haha poor you darlin....but well I think I use to have the same problem... I also realized that about my self after watching this video... I laughted at me a lot
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago
favourite line: I don't have a showerhead but if i did i would name it JaeJoong.
brilliant!
MiiChanSings 1 year ago 4
Kara aigoo
angusleilomo 1 year ago
fuck, your camera woman is hilarious.
chasingcookies 1 year ago
Dude no offense but I got shit to do lol As a college student (and someone in your age range) I really can't waste time with real guys anymore xD Jae's a good sub for right now, but even then I don't idolize him it's more like "you're attractive, talented and straight? If I ever met you in person I would so try to hit that!" It's weird I know but at least for me it hasn't kept me from stable relationships. But isn't everyone kind of guilty of idolizing those of the opposite (or same) sex?
shippo318 1 year ago
I am a fangirl.. I guess... (especially with SHINee :'D).. but I have a "real life" and a wonderful girlfriend.. so I don't really care ^^
LolitaRecords 1 year ago
i thought you are gonna talk about illumnati gradually emerging in kpop industry.
but still, i find your vid interesting.
i once talked about mnet media destroying lee hyori..
Jimbominbo 1 year ago 3
you got cat's eyes
itubedya 1 year ago
I am obsessed with SHINee but I have no problem talking to guys and I came close to having a boyfriend, but sadly he's an ass. >.>
KawaiiStarberry 1 year ago
It's actually quite true. I used to be OBSESSED with Jaejoong but now I have this guy that I really like and he likes me as well and I actually don't really care about Jaejoong, or any other kpop idol guy as much as I used to. Once you get an actual boyfriend, these idols aren't nearly as great as they seemed to be before. I still like them but maybe my love for them is a little more healthy...?
cherrylyrics5 1 year ago 32
@cherrylyrics5 oh... that's a good relief... i'm still obsessed with jaejoong, hyun joong and yamapi but... well may be when i get to have a real boyfriend I'll get over them...
Clausita26preciosa 1 year ago
@cherrylyrics5 Haha... i'm in a total exact same situation with you... Haha... my bf even bought me Jaejoong merchandise.. XP
ZinAKTF 11 months ago
I have no idea what to say because I'm a fanfic reader and writer, but I'm a lesbian, so boys aren't really a problem for me. I'm seventeen and have had several girlfriends, (two of them Cassiopeia). But One of them was bi and she was completely obsessed with Jaejoong, and I found it a little weird...
I see the boys as amazing artists and fun characters to write about :/ But if it wasn't TVXQ I wrote about, it would just be something else. I like to write, and fandoms are an outlet.
arrowdon 1 year ago 2