This is exactly when I find Nonviolent Communication à la Marshall Rosenberg so useful. I know I'm not ugly, nor am I beautiful. I am simply me - if I'm not me, who will be?!
So if someone says to me "you're ugly", I'd guess they are worried because they need reassurance that I can meet my need for acceptance. And of course I can and do!
any woman now that tells me I'm too old or ugly i will just know they have ugly thoughts & are thus ugly for saying so but of course I'd also have to be ugly for thinking this but then again I am not as narcissistic as most people. for a women being told shes ugly can upset her self esteem for a man it can lessen his chances of getting laid.
When someone says youre ugly, make sure youre RESPONSE is not ugly, thats the lesson here, ugly is also a state of mind, remove your uglyness by remaining strong and self-loving at all times.
Sorry dan. I wanted to equilibrate the votes but did a mistake. So that's your feelings. I respect that.
For me, it is wonderful to have the possibility to see such a video !!!!!! And for free !!!!!!!!!!!! I am searching for the explanation of this truth for so long. Cause of course, as you, as all, I knew this deeply inside of me since I can remember.
I haven't gain anything other thing another piece of thought. Just as all the politicians, philosophers, psychologist, and the rest who are selling. You can go and buy more books, its all the repeated same thing.
This is quite right. Nobody has ever hurt us, nothing has ever damaged us. Each moment we can find the perfect love, freedom, and grace; and in that is release from the belief that life has ever been unkind to us. May you all find the truth of which Byron Katie speaks.
yo ms katie.... you rock... if you can platy frisbee, as well as you do your THING... we could actually have a fullfilling life together... LOL.. iloveyou
Thank you Katie for the light . I am continually being enlightened.
buddhagoldie 10 months ago
what's wrong with ugly?
svovi01 2 years ago
If they gave Katie an enema they could bury her in a matchbox!
MohammedbenDover 2 years ago
Katie is beautiful!
Plorel 2 years ago 2
Katie is beautiful.
peace.
chessdude67 2 years ago 6
This is exactly when I find Nonviolent Communication à la Marshall Rosenberg so useful. I know I'm not ugly, nor am I beautiful. I am simply me - if I'm not me, who will be?!
So if someone says to me "you're ugly", I'd guess they are worried because they need reassurance that I can meet my need for acceptance. And of course I can and do!
Does that make sense to you?
louiseromain 3 years ago 2
any woman now that tells me I'm too old or ugly i will just know they have ugly thoughts & are thus ugly for saying so but of course I'd also have to be ugly for thinking this but then again I am not as narcissistic as most people. for a women being told shes ugly can upset her self esteem for a man it can lessen his chances of getting laid.
chockmah67 3 years ago
When someone says youre ugly, make sure youre RESPONSE is not ugly, thats the lesson here, ugly is also a state of mind, remove your uglyness by remaining strong and self-loving at all times.
KolXol 3 years ago 6
thats a really helpful reminder, thanks, XxX
catrugmagiccarpet 3 years ago
i think byron katie is wonderful, but what always amazes me are the people who watch her just to have a go, if you don't understand than don't watch
poetrymaster 3 years ago 2
her words are attacking me....her ugly performance has made me ugly
dan020350 4 years ago
Sorry dan. I wanted to equilibrate the votes but did a mistake. So that's your feelings. I respect that.
For me, it is wonderful to have the possibility to see such a video !!!!!! And for free !!!!!!!!!!!! I am searching for the explanation of this truth for so long. Cause of course, as you, as all, I knew this deeply inside of me since I can remember.
Kisses.
leilac1 4 years ago
Katie is a cool person, but what she is telling is all lies.
dan020350 4 years ago
Can you explain please how for you she is lying ? How her words are attacking you ? How her performance is ugly ? And how it made you ugly ?
leilac1 4 years ago
I haven't gain anything other thing another piece of thought. Just as all the politicians, philosophers, psychologist, and the rest who are selling. You can go and buy more books, its all the repeated same thing.
dan020350 4 years ago
You are beutifull =D
DolphinsSpirit 3 years ago
Im sorry leilac21 hahahahhahahahaha Im new and I mark you as Spam SORRY I dont know how unmark you
DolphinsSpirit 3 years ago
Dolphins as beautiful
dan020350 3 years ago
She has said something along the lines of "All physical pain is projected, always leaving, never arriving. And that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt."
leicbri 4 years ago
This is quite right. Nobody has ever hurt us, nothing has ever damaged us. Each moment we can find the perfect love, freedom, and grace; and in that is release from the belief that life has ever been unkind to us. May you all find the truth of which Byron Katie speaks.
oliness 4 years ago
you can't be seroues
pingo420 4 years ago
love this woman
anhourofvenus 4 years ago
In the moment, feel it -
Inquire about the feeling.
Katie you are beautiful.
My mind loves you.
My life is kind.
My mind is kind.
My mind is love.
therefore I do not hurt
when untruths are spoken.
energyworker 4 years ago
yo ms katie.... you rock... if you can platy frisbee, as well as you do your THING... we could actually have a fullfilling life together... LOL.. iloveyou
SeeMoreBuds 4 years ago
Wonderful truth! :)
reilady 4 years ago
This is what Love does.
spreadinjoy 4 years ago