Anyone else get told they're selfish? Or whilst having a normal loving conversation, you say one thing like I'm a bit tired I'm going to go to sleep, girl changes into evil rage mode and screams at you '' DON'T LEAVE ME THIS IS OUR TIME TOGETHER HOW CAN YOU BE TIRED?' You're so selfish you don't care about me I feel awful now I'm so ugly I'll never get married no one will put up with me!'' Like she's expecting sympathy straight after insulting me for no reason. Sound familiar?
This kind of toxic women like to be sexy for cheating on men. They actually do not like to be feminine and they do not like to act as human females too. They are in the business of making a healthy social background for promoting feminism. They like to be sexy up to they are cheating on men and establishing feminism.
Part of the trick of dealing with such women is in being carefully diplomatic. The other is in pointing out that the woman isn't being fair, giving clear cut examples, using the correct wording. Leaving the word 'you' out of it when possible. Another bit is realizing what age the woman is internally/psychologically. I agree that cutting one's self loose is often the best option.
@lancethrustworthy "Another bit is realizing what age the woman is internally/psychologically. I agree that cutting one's self loose is often the best option." ...... Well said my friend. well said. I am going to have to quote those words of yours and input it in my future videos.
@lancethrustworthy unfortunately you can point out to her as many examples of her unfairness as you want, she will still look for a way to spin it and make it your fault. The truth is women are just not wired to see themselves as being guilty of any wrongdoing.
@drlove1972 " The truth is women are just not wired to see themselves as being guilty of any wrongdoing." Be careful, i heard people get assassinated for speaking the truth...
Hello Richard, I can clearly tell you've been hurt and need a shoulder to cry on. I have been there before. I want to let you know it's going to be ok. The beautiful woman was never the problem. The problem was, and probably still is, You. I'll advice you and your audience to listen to the cd "Eliminating Toxic Relationships."
@MindsetElevation Thanks for the comment. And yes, i do agree with you somehow i also play some part of the dynamics in the toxic relationship. But i am free now :) I no longer look back. Thanks for your comforting words.
@ispyspeed Don't listen to Mindset Elevation. She is just another woman trying to pin all the blame on you. Count your blessings that you didn't get married and waste anymore time on your ex. That could've resulted in a disaster!
This to me sounds more like a person trying to end a relationship but cannot express it themselves. They then pile on you many negative attacks in hopes that you get tired of the abuse and walk away yourself. Narciccists hide themselves and mask their emotions while showing you all the things they think you need so you can place them on a pedastel. Until they no longer have use for you.
Excellent video. For me, it is my sister. There is no question in her mind that I am the enemy. I am cruel, she says. I am insensitive. I am weak. I am hurting her. My side of it? Sleepless nights. She has criticized my haircut, my clothes, the way I eat potato chips, the way I watch television, etc... Then I told her `please don`t yell at me.`` Her response? ``You are cruel, mean-spirited, insensitive, and hurtful. Stop your cruelty!`` Thanks to counseling, I have lines now.
hey ispyspeed. You were able to explain your situation well. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a person. They truely are masters at brain washing and munipulation. After they are done with you it's hard to tell which end is up. Good job on recounting things. Hopefully those of us that bring attention to this problem will save others from dealing with people such as these. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER and PREVENTION IS KEY... Good job buddy !
@begood4000 it seems to be 90% of them that act this way, i do not follow anyone much less a woman and that makes them so angry they go insane and make up false realities to become the victim, they also create false realities for each person and keep people separated from each other so they dont see the truth of their insanity
@usabookz you are very right. This is what keep this toxic situation going, and can lead to real ugly situations such as men being killed at the hands of women such as this, and the woman getting away scott free. Even if this doesn't happen they move from one victim to the next without missing a beat. Why ? Because they keep everyone confused and in control like a puppet master.
My ex girlfriend had this disorder one day i just snapped and told her to fuck OFF!
mesa134 3 days ago
Anyone else get told they're selfish? Or whilst having a normal loving conversation, you say one thing like I'm a bit tired I'm going to go to sleep, girl changes into evil rage mode and screams at you '' DON'T LEAVE ME THIS IS OUR TIME TOGETHER HOW CAN YOU BE TIRED?' You're so selfish you don't care about me I feel awful now I'm so ugly I'll never get married no one will put up with me!'' Like she's expecting sympathy straight after insulting me for no reason. Sound familiar?
MrGazmcfaz 2 weeks ago
Great video! "It's all just about ME ME ME ME" Lol You described my soon to be ex-wife to a T!
Amocee 2 months ago
This kind of toxic women like to be sexy for cheating on men. They actually do not like to be feminine and they do not like to act as human females too. They are in the business of making a healthy social background for promoting feminism. They like to be sexy up to they are cheating on men and establishing feminism.
dulanthad 3 months ago
i just got out of a relationship like that and she tryed putting the blame on me for everything
fifafan1 9 months ago
amen you not alone
MrNightshade69 11 months ago
Part of the trick of dealing with such women is in being carefully diplomatic. The other is in pointing out that the woman isn't being fair, giving clear cut examples, using the correct wording. Leaving the word 'you' out of it when possible. Another bit is realizing what age the woman is internally/psychologically. I agree that cutting one's self loose is often the best option.
lancethrustworthy 1 year ago 3
@lancethrustworthy "Another bit is realizing what age the woman is internally/psychologically. I agree that cutting one's self loose is often the best option." ...... Well said my friend. well said. I am going to have to quote those words of yours and input it in my future videos.
ispyspeed 1 year ago
@lancethrustworthy unfortunately you can point out to her as many examples of her unfairness as you want, she will still look for a way to spin it and make it your fault. The truth is women are just not wired to see themselves as being guilty of any wrongdoing.
drlove1972 5 months ago 4
@drlove1972 " The truth is women are just not wired to see themselves as being guilty of any wrongdoing." Be careful, i heard people get assassinated for speaking the truth...
liljamin 3 months ago
Hello Richard, I can clearly tell you've been hurt and need a shoulder to cry on. I have been there before. I want to let you know it's going to be ok. The beautiful woman was never the problem. The problem was, and probably still is, You. I'll advice you and your audience to listen to the cd "Eliminating Toxic Relationships."
MindsetElevation 1 year ago
@MindsetElevation Thanks for the comment. And yes, i do agree with you somehow i also play some part of the dynamics in the toxic relationship. But i am free now :) I no longer look back. Thanks for your comforting words.
ispyspeed 1 year ago
@ispyspeed Don't listen to Mindset Elevation. She is just another woman trying to pin all the blame on you. Count your blessings that you didn't get married and waste anymore time on your ex. That could've resulted in a disaster!
MontereySands 4 months ago
This to me sounds more like a person trying to end a relationship but cannot express it themselves. They then pile on you many negative attacks in hopes that you get tired of the abuse and walk away yourself. Narciccists hide themselves and mask their emotions while showing you all the things they think you need so you can place them on a pedastel. Until they no longer have use for you.
frankg3rd 1 year ago
Excellent video. For me, it is my sister. There is no question in her mind that I am the enemy. I am cruel, she says. I am insensitive. I am weak. I am hurting her. My side of it? Sleepless nights. She has criticized my haircut, my clothes, the way I eat potato chips, the way I watch television, etc... Then I told her `please don`t yell at me.`` Her response? ``You are cruel, mean-spirited, insensitive, and hurtful. Stop your cruelty!`` Thanks to counseling, I have lines now.
chrisman737 1 year ago
what program are all these videos made with?
alexwolff1990 1 year ago
@alexwolff1990 xtranormal . com
kwhardin 1 year ago
hey ispyspeed. You were able to explain your situation well. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a person. They truely are masters at brain washing and munipulation. After they are done with you it's hard to tell which end is up. Good job on recounting things. Hopefully those of us that bring attention to this problem will save others from dealing with people such as these. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER and PREVENTION IS KEY... Good job buddy !
begood4000 1 year ago
@begood4000 it seems to be 90% of them that act this way, i do not follow anyone much less a woman and that makes them so angry they go insane and make up false realities to become the victim, they also create false realities for each person and keep people separated from each other so they dont see the truth of their insanity
usabookz 8 months ago
@usabookz you are very right. This is what keep this toxic situation going, and can lead to real ugly situations such as men being killed at the hands of women such as this, and the woman getting away scott free. Even if this doesn't happen they move from one victim to the next without missing a beat. Why ? Because they keep everyone confused and in control like a puppet master.
begood4000 8 months ago