This video really hit home for me, because I have a buddie who is doing this actually (sleeping with a married man) and I just want to commend you on putting the truth out there....... Good Job Mz Jia........Love it!!!
this is off topic but you mention ms jia LLC and i just wanted to know how did you create that? i thought a LLC could only be formed if there are 2 or more ppl. im asking because i been working on my business plan and the only option for a person starting a business alone was a sole proprietor? and im not even comfortable with that cause i have no protection when it comes to assets
Mofo chicks like that will always be the side chick sneak me some ass chick don't want to take her out unless it's dark chick jump off chick ... I don't know why in the hell you would be that type of chick.. Thinking that man will be a man to you silly B*** tricks are for kids...Chicks like that have no life no motivation to stand on there own needy guutterish ways. Get your own identity and stop trying to take someone else sheessss... What goes around comes around
i like what you had to say and i really think that real men (like my self) love and respect a women that has a open minded knowledge about life. I'm married and love my wife and would never play her in any form or faction b/c of the love and care we have for each other. love your message.
Jia, you spoke the truth on this one. Truthfully speaking, women need to take their power and respect back for themselves and needs to rediscover what it means to have "self-worth". Keep speaking the truth girl. By the way, I was wondering what is your ethnic background?
I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's hard for me to feel sorry for a woman thats involved with a married man sexually. She doesn't need pity, she needs a behind whipping.
Thank You... I was about to start a "friendship" with a married man thinking there was no harm in it. You helped me reconsider. Friendship or relationship- Still the same outcome. There will be no Karma coming back on this one!
ur past has nuthing to do with anything, ms. jia. U ARE RITE (AND U KNO IT). Fantasia was in the wrong in the first place. She fucked herself from jump street.
My ex boyfriend Scottie Lijon (age 36) cheated on me wit this hoe named Kandice Lopez for two weeks before he got caught cheating and knocked her up ... to make a long story short their not together and that tramp is raising that baby by herself while he goes bar hoping every weekend . And I can't stop laughing !!!!!
i am single i don't care what anyone thinks about it i am definitely waiting for someone who is 100% available and in love with me. i am in no rush. i know too many people who get with anyone with to say they got a man. no thanks
Fantasia is a code breaker. Every side chick knows the shit is supposed to be hushed. Alicia Keyes was a whore too, but she never broke the code. She never broke her silence about her affair. Fantasia caught feelings with a married dude (mistake number 1) and believed he would leave his wife. That was mistake number 2. Then calling his wife was mistake number 3. All these mistakes led to her downfall. If she knew the job was dangerous and still took it...shame on her. Good Post.
@coreyaustin1 Yes dha hell Alicia broke dha damn code..... she broke dha code, made a new ne and broke dhet shit too.... she dha one who went and married dha fuckin guy.... dhets y i hate light skinned bitches right today.. mutha fuckas thnk dey betta den sumbdy
@mrallaboutme25 alicia keys,swizz beats,and wateva his wife name was,already said alicia keys had nothing 2 do with he break up it just soo happened that after swizz and his wife got the divorce he met alicia and they hit it off and dn't hate light skinned people just because u dark skinned and can't get a man and keep them like they cann
speak girl! He either will never be theirs 100 % or will leave them for someone else when he gets tired of their dumb a**! Lame....if you cant get ya own....why bother and be like ooohh whoa is me he dont want me... he wont leave his wife and kids ....whaaaa booo whoo.
a chick like that sounds desperate and confused. lmao @ plat puss.... they will try to befriend the wife to cover up. REAL WOMEN know when they man is hoeing and when a hoe is on the seen.
MAN! You ain't said nothing but the truth...call me mean...but I laughed...b/c it was some stupid mess.....I REFUSE to attempt to kill myself over a man....I love me too much for that!
Man this is some of the realest shit I have heard bcuz Im in the situation and see'n and hearing what is really real make me open my eyes! I respect all this video and thats come'n from the FORMER 2nd chick. Thanks Jia for give'n me insight!
Im a huge Fantasia Fan but real is real and you hit the nail on the head. She cant expect for her relationship with him to be great when he belongs to someone else. Bad things happen when you commit adultery. I still love Fantasia.
I have a friend that is in that type of relationship(but is the "Cheater" not the Sideline)
I can't do that drama! I had to tell her to not put my name in the mix as an excuse to go hang with sideline dude to keep her BF from knowing something is up.
@Incogneto100 doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. I've let comments simply "go through" before. A couple bad apples spoiled the bunch. So now I regulate.
@JiaTV Please comment on Dr. Laura's latest drama concerning the word "nigger". Would really appreciate your perspective. BTW... know that I did in fact vote for you.
You speaking a lot of truth got give you that I'am a Fantasia fan because I'am from Charlotte N.C. I will always be a fan I don't think she did the whole nine, with the tape and all,but whatever happen she still my gurl love you always Fantasia
point blank period. I FEEL YOU. Some chick was tryin to f**k wit me and she had a man i was cool. They got eights in and i only got 8 days in????? i was cool on it. I feel you
I appreciate your direct honesty when telling these mistresses they are wrong for sleeping with married men. It is wrong and there is no other way around it. I feel sorry for the wives and the children and the families who have to deal with the aftermath of a mate committing adultery. If a married man cheats on a wife with whom he took vows he will cheat on you. Simple. How desperate are these women?
Thank you for this, Jia...you have no idea how much I needed to see this today. It's been very lonely lately and I have been SORELY tempted but this brought home two sayings I've been meditating on: 1) Never make anybody a priority who's only going to make you an option. 2) If he can cheat with you, he can cheat on you. Fantasia, you deserve and can attract better...and so can I. Thanks again.
I can't understand how she could get so caught up with emotions over a married man to the point that she is willing to take her own life! What about her daughter? Did she even consider how her daughter would be affected by this? People need to check their priorities!
AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN!!!! Jia, THANK YOU... this is a VERY sensitive subject for me. You said every word I could ever want to say on the subject. Thank you.
@JiaTV I know one homewrecker that was "doin'" some married guy here in Ohio... and all she could think about - when I asked her would she be hurt if he decided to cut her loose and go back to his wife - ( as told to me verbatim ) was:
"You know what he might do that. Wouldn't surprise me (her), though. I always wind up getting hurt". ??!! :) She was - ultimately - only concerned with the prospect of getting hurt. Comical.
YOU GO GIRL!!!! I totally agree with what you are saying. And I do hope and pray that Fantasia will be alright. I don't know what is true or not about her situation but IF it is true then hopefully Fantasia will learn her lesson,
YOU GO GIRL!!!! I totally agree with what you are saying. And I do hope and pray that Fantasia will be alright. I don't know what is true or not about her situation but IF it is true then hopefully Fantasia will learn her lesson,
Preach MissJia.....can't stand these scandolous hoes that have no respect for themselves. I go to bat for mine, so if the other woman want to deal with a crazy ass female like myself then come with it. I'm ready for his ass and hers.....lol..good video.
@CamoraLei1 I agree. Females now a days dnt have no respect for themselves. They will smile in your face but behind ya back they dealing with yo man. And these females are sooo brave now a days they will find your number, fb, twitter, bbm, whatever and they will let you know they wit your man, and wanna fight you for your man. Like bitch please, grow some class. And these bum ass dudes dont deserve a woman to be faithful to them either
I recently left a SEEMINGLY loving and stable 5-year relationship over some mess like this! My guy found a girl, slept with the girl, and forgot to erase the messenger convo they had before their rendevous on his Ipod touch (which, by the way I bought for his bday..ain't that a bitch)! We all know that there is no rest for the wicked, so I obviously found out. *Sigh* If only I could email this "video of truth" to her! Thank you so much Jia!
Gotta co-sign with you on this one. Shit CAN'T be that bad where a chick (especially one with some fame) has so few options in men to be with where she has to deal with an attached dude.
That was good. The last minute of this was like going to "Relationship Church", I practically jumped up in the last 30 seconds and almost screamed "PREACH IT!!!", lol. All kidding aside, I can think of a few people who need o see this video, for.real.
I'm so glad you've been making youtube videos (yay youtube is fun again) anywho. Yeah that whole situation was crazy and everything in this video you said was true. Some people like to say " well you can't help who you fall in love with" well I'm guessing they was f**king far long before they was loving. Side note, you can talk about whatever you want this has nothing to do with your past this is a totally unrelated topic. Good video. I'll be around!
All of ya'll that agree with Jia....YA'LL FULL OF SHIT! If the RIGHT NIGGA was talking the best game you ever heard; He got the right looks; He got the right money, He got a big dick; I mean his status is A-1, TOP OF THE LINE.....married or not, you gonna open up yo legs to him too. QUIT.....FRONTIN'!
also, if she was bold enough to blatantly mess with dude AND come at his wife all disrespectful-like in the ways i've been hearing online, then dammit, she should be bold enough to deal with the consequences. you gonna jeopardize the chance of leaving your CHILD without a mother all over some NEGRO??? she seems to like to learn the hard way--then again, learning was never her strong suit anyway. lemme stop lol. i just hope she REALLY learns.
that "meanwhile back at the ranch" gets me every time! lol. not one 'man' on this earth is worth killing yourself over. i wish i could feel sorry for her, but it's impossible. how many times must this lesson be taught before females get the concept? can't teach a person self-worth...
I have no sympathy for Fantasia. He's just a dirty ass hoe just like the nigga she was messing with. She got exposed and tried to take the easy way out.
I do hope a speedy recovery for her, since she has a child. However, in terms of the situation she got herself in, I could careless.
She didnt really get exposed everyone knew she was dating him, and supposedly believed that he was seperated. I feel bad for her, she been doing too much. She taking care of all of these people.
I have to disagree with a comment made earlier on this page...AKeys lied about the whole situation in the beginning playing the "but we're just friends" card. BULLSHIT! LOL Wrong is wrong and no matter how you wanna cut it Swizz BEAKS was still married and Alicia knew all of this going in.
*wonders will there be a "Life is not a fairytale Part II"*
my two cents: I feel like these "side-line hoes" need to know their position. When the hoes on the side start demandin' "wife type shit" that's when said hoe tries to do crazy shit i.e. suicide attempts, pregnancies, etc. When they start doing stuff like callin' and cussin' the wife out and shit...all I can think of is, "So what the hell you think you just did... right, not a damn thang." He gone still be with his WIFE.
We don't know anything about Fantasia's situation. We also don't know that the overdose was intentional or an attempt at suicide. There's so much misinformation being put out there when none of know what's REALLY going on. People can be so judgmental. At the end of the day, we all human, we make mistakes, and we live our lives the way we see fit.
@DateOfBirth422 We do know. Her manager confirmed that she took sleeping pills and aspirin, hid her stupid ass in the closet, and left herself there to die.
You don't just accidentally slip and land your p_ssy on some other chicks husband's penis. That's not the way it goes.
@Jia I so agree with you...lol.. because my aunt deals with a married man and she gets pissed when she finds out that he is sleeping with another woman other than his wife...DUH!!!!!!! WTH he is cheating on his wife with you so what do you expect????....I just feel like some people are so naive to the fact that 9 times outta 10 a man his not going to leave his wife for the chick on the side....I am so glad that you posted this because a lot of women needed to see and hear this...
So why hasent anybody talked about alicia keys?? Took an others husband on top of that got pregnant for him and marry the dude...Like thats worst than the whole fantasia incidento to me
@patralatifa b/c even though folks don't like or agree with AKeys, at least she never lied about her bullshit. She just chose not to talk about it. Fantasia, on the other hand, chose to sit back and lie each and every time someone asked her about it, only to have photos pop up of her out with the dude. She really thought folks were stuck on stupid.
I just think if women are going to have sex with a dude that has another woman then you just have to accept the fact that you're a jump off. There is nothing wrong with being a jump off. Just realize that is what you are to him and there will be no confusion.
She claims that he was separated when they met and was in the process of ending his marriage; but seperated = married. If her intentions were truly righteous, she would have told him to holler at her only after he received that final divorce decree in the mail.
Then she had the audacity to "tell off" the wife". But like the saying goes " When you play with fire, you will get burned". Rocsi, Alicia Keys, Gab Union, its only a matter of time b4 the rest of 'em feel the same type of sting.
Thank you for your words. You say what so many of us are thinking but would not dare to say. I posted this to my facebook in hopes of helping to reach another female in need. Many Blessings...T
I love you Jia. I've been a big fan of yours even before you did youtube vids ;-) But let's get down to the real nitty gritty. "FANTASIA!!" I just discovered this last night. That she had made this so called sex tape with a married man. Out of all the people I would never expect her. She seem like a sweet heart. Like it seems she wouldn't be caught up with that type of scandal. That just lets you know never judge a book by it's cover. But the way this world is, all celebrities are caught up.
I LOVE This video!! Thank YOU! These women just don't get this at all. But they want to call you with all that drama! I don't feel sorry for them either Girl!
Jia ur the damn truth! i respect this video cause u basically spoke what needed to be heard. these females need to wake up and smell the bullshit and do a lot better than what they doin. i dont blame u for not havin sympathy for a anyone goin through this bafoolery.
I totally agree. I dont at all condone cheating from any angle. I am a Fantasia Stan but wrong is wrong and she should know better. I pray she is okay but a sorry ass cheating piece of crap dude is not worth taking your life over.
These stupid women who are coming in defense of Fantasia take shit like this for granted until that shit happens to them. If Mr. Cook doesn’t even honor his wedding vows and would cheat on his own WIFE you think he ain’t going to do the same to Fantasia? That bitch was a side hoe…some weekend pussy as Eddie Griffen would say. The way you found him is the way you lose him. Mrs. Cook deserves every penny she may get from Fantasia and I hope she gets every penny!
I'm late on this video; but tell it girl! Thirsty B's
misthangnumber1 1 month ago
And I just subscribed :) hahaha I love you!
EthanCole15 1 month ago
Lol
THOMASTCT3 1 month ago
Right I agree!
sophisticatcovergirl 3 months ago
This video really hit home for me, because I have a buddie who is doing this actually (sleeping with a married man) and I just want to commend you on putting the truth out there....... Good Job Mz Jia........Love it!!!
MzShaybutta 4 months ago
Loved it! Sub :)
IamMochaGlam 6 months ago
@JiaTV girl make one on Bishop Eddie LOng Stroke lol
TuTu99o 6 months ago
this is off topic but you mention ms jia LLC and i just wanted to know how did you create that? i thought a LLC could only be formed if there are 2 or more ppl. im asking because i been working on my business plan and the only option for a person starting a business alone was a sole proprietor? and im not even comfortable with that cause i have no protection when it comes to assets
SoulPurposeProducts 7 months ago
You need your mouth washed out with soap,
Respect yourself and expand your vocabulary.
iqgray 7 months ago 2
@iqgray Kiss ass, bitch.
Was that expanded enough?
JiaTV 7 months ago 22
Mofo chicks like that will always be the side chick sneak me some ass chick don't want to take her out unless it's dark chick jump off chick ... I don't know why in the hell you would be that type of chick.. Thinking that man will be a man to you silly B*** tricks are for kids...Chicks like that have no life no motivation to stand on there own needy guutterish ways. Get your own identity and stop trying to take someone else sheessss... What goes around comes around
pcooks24 9 months ago
Lmaooo "Bitch Let It Go" haaa Gotta Love Miss Jiaaa
CourtneyEmonTv 9 months ago
I LOOOOOVVE this video!! This is so true.
EStoryBook 10 months ago
i like what you had to say and i really think that real men (like my self) love and respect a women that has a open minded knowledge about life. I'm married and love my wife and would never play her in any form or faction b/c of the love and care we have for each other. love your message.
Ruffdhc 11 months ago
i love this you go girl done very well.
cherryfilling7 11 months ago
you cute even when you mad
lilzale2423 11 months ago
well you cant tke a man who doesnt want to be taken, but i hear you jia x
SheyGrantNotts 1 year ago 2
I LIKE BEING THE MISTRESS
sexuhpeal 1 year ago 2
I'm the 600 like lol great video,
folks bringing up your past, need to sit the hell down!!
everything you stated was the truth, like I told this one chick
dick don't pay the bills, have fun being a jumpoff...
KARMA is a beyotchhhhhhhhh=)
lovelyti2002 1 year ago 2
well said, i know some one who.goes and damn nare break they neck to talk to a married man. i think its sad.
geminiloves 1 year ago
Jia. You BETTA CLOCK the T where it needs to be CLOCKED! You said nothing but the real right here.
Vivalacious 1 year ago
Word.
jg95mia 1 year ago
You are 1 sexxy woman dayum...hmmmmm!
ElleBeeisme 1 year ago
*Applause* Especially @ 7:44, lol!!!
blackcherrybliss 1 year ago
yesssssssss : ) miss jia has spoken lol; so true! preach...
TheEuropeanlove 1 year ago
U LOOK SEXY WHN UR MAD LOL
twins0510 1 year ago
good vid
Samueladams88 1 year ago
Jia, you spoke the truth on this one. Truthfully speaking, women need to take their power and respect back for themselves and needs to rediscover what it means to have "self-worth". Keep speaking the truth girl. By the way, I was wondering what is your ethnic background?
SoSeductive1981 1 year ago
very pretty... you got it goin on girl..
1matth3w1 1 year ago
I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's hard for me to feel sorry for a woman thats involved with a married man sexually. She doesn't need pity, she needs a behind whipping.
mimi109011 1 year ago
@mimi109011 mutha fucka you cant blame everything on the woman kuz bitch it takes TWO!!!... in case u didnt know
mrallaboutme25 1 year ago
Thank You... I was about to start a "friendship" with a married man thinking there was no harm in it. You helped me reconsider. Friendship or relationship- Still the same outcome. There will be no Karma coming back on this one!
techneique 1 year ago
@techneique Bitch yuh no damn well u still gon kall dhet fuckin man... especially when ur hormones start jumpin like a damn rabbit
mrallaboutme25 1 year ago
This is soo true
EZGurl08 1 year ago
15 who dislike must be the other chick lmao
Jejohns 1 year ago 11
lmfao, man this vid is the truth, love it
Jungleweaver111 1 year ago
Preach sister! All I can say is AMEN! I agree with u 100% As NeNe would say Keep ur legs closed to married Men!
makaylis 1 year ago
LMAO @ platinum pussy card holdin bitches... priceless
PKDJsQueen 1 year ago
and thats what im saying.. preach them meat and potatoes about being taken....
fatheadfatso 1 year ago
ur past has nuthing to do with anything, ms. jia. U ARE RITE (AND U KNO IT). Fantasia was in the wrong in the first place. She fucked herself from jump street.
elementblaster 1 year ago
My ex boyfriend Scottie Lijon (age 36) cheated on me wit this hoe named Kandice Lopez for two weeks before he got caught cheating and knocked her up ... to make a long story short their not together and that tramp is raising that baby by herself while he goes bar hoping every weekend . And I can't stop laughing !!!!!
blowoutbeauty 1 year ago
i am single i don't care what anyone thinks about it i am definitely waiting for someone who is 100% available and in love with me. i am in no rush. i know too many people who get with anyone with to say they got a man. no thanks
acestarone 1 year ago
@acestarone This is the PERFECT way to go. Keep yourself busy and the right man will come along!! Don't ever settle to be someone's second best.
SoSeductive1981 1 year ago
Fantasia is a code breaker. Every side chick knows the shit is supposed to be hushed. Alicia Keyes was a whore too, but she never broke the code. She never broke her silence about her affair. Fantasia caught feelings with a married dude (mistake number 1) and believed he would leave his wife. That was mistake number 2. Then calling his wife was mistake number 3. All these mistakes led to her downfall. If she knew the job was dangerous and still took it...shame on her. Good Post.
coreyaustin1 1 year ago 7
@coreyaustin1 Yes dha hell Alicia broke dha damn code..... she broke dha code, made a new ne and broke dhet shit too.... she dha one who went and married dha fuckin guy.... dhets y i hate light skinned bitches right today.. mutha fuckas thnk dey betta den sumbdy
mrallaboutme25 1 year ago
@mrallaboutme25 alicia keys,swizz beats,and wateva his wife name was,already said alicia keys had nothing 2 do with he break up it just soo happened that after swizz and his wife got the divorce he met alicia and they hit it off and dn't hate light skinned people just because u dark skinned and can't get a man and keep them like they cann
MsAlicia654 1 year ago
@MsAlicia654 oh hell no!
SheyGrantNotts 1 year ago
@coreyaustin1 there is no such thing as a whore; a woman can sleep with who she wants to
gdoeboi 1 year ago
speak girl! He either will never be theirs 100 % or will leave them for someone else when he gets tired of their dumb a**! Lame....if you cant get ya own....why bother and be like ooohh whoa is me he dont want me... he wont leave his wife and kids ....whaaaa booo whoo.
a chick like that sounds desperate and confused. lmao @ plat puss.... they will try to befriend the wife to cover up. REAL WOMEN know when they man is hoeing and when a hoe is on the seen.
thunderstorm501 1 year ago
platinum pussy card holdin bitches ... PRICELESS!!! :-)
briannaashton 1 year ago
4:06 OMG . . . now THAT'S keeping real, for sure. LMAO. I think I'm in love.
OnlyGreatness007 1 year ago
jia luv luv ya
brickhouse48 1 year ago
Thank you for this video! I was feeling the same way about Fantasia and Alicia Keys. Like said before, wrong is wrong.
SexyChele584 1 year ago
MAN! You ain't said nothing but the truth...call me mean...but I laughed...b/c it was some stupid mess.....I REFUSE to attempt to kill myself over a man....I love me too much for that!
bowlegz 1 year ago
Man this is some of the realest shit I have heard bcuz Im in the situation and see'n and hearing what is really real make me open my eyes! I respect all this video and thats come'n from the FORMER 2nd chick. Thanks Jia for give'n me insight!
Mz100percent 1 year ago
I CONCUR.THIS VIDEO COMMENTARY FOR THEIR OWN GOOD.KEEP UP THE EXCELLENT WORK.
4LOSTSOULSONLY 1 year ago
Im a huge Fantasia Fan but real is real and you hit the nail on the head. She cant expect for her relationship with him to be great when he belongs to someone else. Bad things happen when you commit adultery. I still love Fantasia.
drasticanthemz 1 year ago
I You ON That-Speak!!!
BiHiTriDie 1 year ago
#BOOOOOOOOOOM POW! I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU MAMA!
SOOO AGREE!
CHOCOCAT8444 1 year ago
lol at platinum pussy card holdin bitches.
Anonymous1692 1 year ago 2
It goes the other way around with men and married women too.
DazzOne2012 1 year ago
Tell it girl!!!
chocbeauty1977 1 year ago
Hey Jia,I've been youtube MIA for two years and you still got it, love ya girl!!!!!
charismaticdiva81 1 year ago
I here you on that..sound like Alicia to me
tasha1985 1 year ago
damn jia.. I like how you put things into perspective.. you go girl with ya fine self
kbrooks2001 1 year ago
i like this video and i respect it but wat if the u dont know he has a wife or gf isnt that just his fault
breeny52 1 year ago
thank you jia!
I have a friend that is in that type of relationship(but is the "Cheater" not the Sideline)
I can't do that drama! I had to tell her to not put my name in the mix as an excuse to go hang with sideline dude to keep her BF from knowing something is up.
magnolialilly790 1 year ago
Erykah Badu lyric to live by "I know I'm a lot of woman but not enough to divide the pie
#ThatIsAll
spanishliljon 1 year ago
lol she sai...extra hands and ahaha
fee20luv 1 year ago
CHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCH
FreeHova 1 year ago
"We need to bottle that shit up and sell it" LOL. You are funny and real as hell!
Enray 1 year ago
I always liked your stand on leaving married men alone. Right on point, having an affair with a married man is not cute!!!
mimi109011 1 year ago
I love u woman..u remind me of my college partna. keep it comin luv
Amerieandmyguitar 1 year ago
lol, tru, ur past doesn't matter, i love u. gosh
Incogneto100 1 year ago
I dnt think u shld skim ur comments, jus let them thru, all of them!!!
Incogneto100 1 year ago
@Incogneto100 doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. I've let comments simply "go through" before. A couple bad apples spoiled the bunch. So now I regulate.
JiaTV 1 year ago 5
hahahah platinum pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
Incogneto100 1 year ago
lol. i like u, funny!!!!!
Incogneto100 1 year ago
@JiaTV Please comment on Dr. Laura's latest drama concerning the word "nigger". Would really appreciate your perspective. BTW... know that I did in fact vote for you.
Time2AnteUp 1 year ago
Real shit.....lol...omg some real ass shit
MissBVA 1 year ago
So real-So honest & soo funny --I luv it
GrandviewGirl 1 year ago
Agreed.
krissykat25 1 year ago
You speaking a lot of truth got give you that I'am a Fantasia fan because I'am from Charlotte N.C. I will always be a fan I don't think she did the whole nine, with the tape and all,but whatever happen she still my gurl love you always Fantasia
kenath68 1 year ago
PREACH JIA PREACH!!!!!!!!!!
sweetnectar83 1 year ago
Damn Jia said "platinum p**** cards," and "bottle it up and sell it."
uniquesongstress 1 year ago
point blank period. I FEEL YOU. Some chick was tryin to f**k wit me and she had a man i was cool. They got eights in and i only got 8 days in????? i was cool on it. I feel you
christianjamar21 1 year ago
LMAO!!! "...as he fucks another ho on your ass..." Get 'em girl, please let these foolish women know! Love ya Jia!
Kainaluv 1 year ago
i agree with you! that's why some married folks need to use condoms& all kinds of protection with their husband/ wife!
keta4332 1 year ago
i have a friend who seems to only like taken men... smfh
rocque101 1 year ago
PREACH!
chescaleigh 1 year ago
I appreciate your direct honesty when telling these mistresses they are wrong for sleeping with married men. It is wrong and there is no other way around it. I feel sorry for the wives and the children and the families who have to deal with the aftermath of a mate committing adultery. If a married man cheats on a wife with whom he took vows he will cheat on you. Simple. How desperate are these women?
mariewilder 1 year ago
Thank you for this, Jia...you have no idea how much I needed to see this today. It's been very lonely lately and I have been SORELY tempted but this brought home two sayings I've been meditating on: 1) Never make anybody a priority who's only going to make you an option. 2) If he can cheat with you, he can cheat on you. Fantasia, you deserve and can attract better...and so can I. Thanks again.
LBellatrix 1 year ago
Thank you
TuxedoAllure 1 year ago
You better say that Jia! This video is #realshit!
ludasprincess026 1 year ago
so yeah ur eyebrows look great...now im getting into the programing
SooDejaVu 1 year ago
You preach !!!
Johnch15VS5 1 year ago
I can't understand how she could get so caught up with emotions over a married man to the point that she is willing to take her own life! What about her daughter? Did she even consider how her daughter would be affected by this? People need to check their priorities!
hrsparks1 1 year ago 4
GO GIRL!!! real talk
misstoya04 1 year ago
Speak on it Jia!!! Skool all tha dum brawds out there!
HunniBFli 1 year ago
ahahahhha PREACH IT
Belleiive 1 year ago
AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN!!!! Jia, THANK YOU... this is a VERY sensitive subject for me. You said every word I could ever want to say on the subject. Thank you.
jazzsingerlady 1 year ago
@JiaTV I know one homewrecker that was "doin'" some married guy here in Ohio... and all she could think about - when I asked her would she be hurt if he decided to cut her loose and go back to his wife - ( as told to me verbatim ) was:
"You know what he might do that. Wouldn't surprise me (her), though. I always wind up getting hurt". ??!! :) She was - ultimately - only concerned with the prospect of getting hurt. Comical.
Time2AnteUp 1 year ago
That was beautiful!
Nanadsyl 1 year ago
That was beautiful!
Nanadsyl 1 year ago
YOU GO GIRL!!!! I totally agree with what you are saying. And I do hope and pray that Fantasia will be alright. I don't know what is true or not about her situation but IF it is true then hopefully Fantasia will learn her lesson,
moongal411 1 year ago
YOU GO GIRL!!!! I totally agree with what you are saying. And I do hope and pray that Fantasia will be alright. I don't know what is true or not about her situation but IF it is true then hopefully Fantasia will learn her lesson,
moongal411 1 year ago
Oh wow!!
TheGeneralMoe 1 year ago
Preach MissJia.....can't stand these scandolous hoes that have no respect for themselves. I go to bat for mine, so if the other woman want to deal with a crazy ass female like myself then come with it. I'm ready for his ass and hers.....lol..good video.
CamoraLei1 1 year ago
@CamoraLei1 I agree. Females now a days dnt have no respect for themselves. They will smile in your face but behind ya back they dealing with yo man. And these females are sooo brave now a days they will find your number, fb, twitter, bbm, whatever and they will let you know they wit your man, and wanna fight you for your man. Like bitch please, grow some class. And these bum ass dudes dont deserve a woman to be faithful to them either
princessjj91 1 year ago
Missjia, How do I listen to your radio show on my blackberry?
angelwithxtraa 1 year ago
@angelwithxtraa It should be on beehive fm dot com website.
JiaTV 1 year ago
lmao @ twin size you crazy Jia but i love you
MrWelch313 1 year ago
LMAO I LOVE THIS WOMAN I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
DDISM 1 year ago
Say it I hate that Fantasia overdosed but she shouldve known better. You are right.
crazyman0686 1 year ago
JIA always comes straight from the shoulder. LMBO. Love it.
OrigSupawoman 1 year ago
i agree 100%, you said it all nothing else need to be said
qzthree 1 year ago
Jia thats why I LOVE U!!!! U always keeping it real. Str8 no chaser!
manda0723 1 year ago
Jia, love this vid! You keep it 100!
18KaREDdiva 1 year ago
I recently left a SEEMINGLY loving and stable 5-year relationship over some mess like this! My guy found a girl, slept with the girl, and forgot to erase the messenger convo they had before their rendevous on his Ipod touch (which, by the way I bought for his bday..ain't that a bitch)! We all know that there is no rest for the wicked, so I obviously found out. *Sigh* If only I could email this "video of truth" to her! Thank you so much Jia!
Oh..you know I'm sending it to him, right? LOL
love4triumph 1 year ago
yeah she crazy.
BaldButWigged 1 year ago
The five people who disliked this must be platinum pussy-card holdin bitches lmfao...
autismpete 1 year ago 2
@autismpete: LOL! I know, right? Or maybe they're just pissed because Jia is speaking the truth and nothing but the truth, so help her God.
LissaChelle9002 1 year ago
guro I aint even finna be worried about that mutha fucka
BlondeCbella 1 year ago
Jia I luv ur vids u keep it real.get at me or let me get at u...jrocc05880@yahoo.com
jrocc588 1 year ago
Straight talking girl, cannot take anything away from her. Spot on.
70Mack 1 year ago
Gotta co-sign with you on this one. Shit CAN'T be that bad where a chick (especially one with some fame) has so few options in men to be with where she has to deal with an attached dude.
brnzetyger 1 year ago
That was good. The last minute of this was like going to "Relationship Church", I practically jumped up in the last 30 seconds and almost screamed "PREACH IT!!!", lol. All kidding aside, I can think of a few people who need o see this video, for.real.
stylecollective 1 year ago
jia is the shisnit i love jia woop woop
TheAmbitiousDreamer 1 year ago
WORD!!!
Deseev 1 year ago
& open yer arms to BACHELORS ..hahaha !
Hemulen40 1 year ago
I'm so glad you've been making youtube videos (yay youtube is fun again) anywho. Yeah that whole situation was crazy and everything in this video you said was true. Some people like to say " well you can't help who you fall in love with" well I'm guessing they was f**king far long before they was loving. Side note, you can talk about whatever you want this has nothing to do with your past this is a totally unrelated topic. Good video. I'll be around!
SincerelyGo 1 year ago
All of ya'll that agree with Jia....YA'LL FULL OF SHIT! If the RIGHT NIGGA was talking the best game you ever heard; He got the right looks; He got the right money, He got a big dick; I mean his status is A-1, TOP OF THE LINE.....married or not, you gonna open up yo legs to him too. QUIT.....FRONTIN'!
yourhighness616 1 year ago
also, if she was bold enough to blatantly mess with dude AND come at his wife all disrespectful-like in the ways i've been hearing online, then dammit, she should be bold enough to deal with the consequences. you gonna jeopardize the chance of leaving your CHILD without a mother all over some NEGRO??? she seems to like to learn the hard way--then again, learning was never her strong suit anyway. lemme stop lol. i just hope she REALLY learns.
kedeeky 1 year ago
that "meanwhile back at the ranch" gets me every time! lol. not one 'man' on this earth is worth killing yourself over. i wish i could feel sorry for her, but it's impossible. how many times must this lesson be taught before females get the concept? can't teach a person self-worth...
kedeeky 1 year ago 6
I have no sympathy for Fantasia. He's just a dirty ass hoe just like the nigga she was messing with. She got exposed and tried to take the easy way out.
I do hope a speedy recovery for her, since she has a child. However, in terms of the situation she got herself in, I could careless.
You speak the truth. PREACH!
skinnyJEANking2 1 year ago
@skinnyJEANking2
She didnt really get exposed everyone knew she was dating him, and supposedly believed that he was seperated. I feel bad for her, she been doing too much. She taking care of all of these people.
uniquesongstress 1 year ago
YAAAASSSSS JIA.....from your mouth to God's ears......what do they really expect you to say .....BLANK STARE
vincentlc 1 year ago
I have to disagree with a comment made earlier on this page...AKeys lied about the whole situation in the beginning playing the "but we're just friends" card. BULLSHIT! LOL Wrong is wrong and no matter how you wanna cut it Swizz BEAKS was still married and Alicia knew all of this going in.
MsLooney 1 year ago 3
@MsLooney True. Thanks for clearing that up. You're right...wrong is wrong.
JiaTV 1 year ago
@MsLooney she was prolly just saying they were just friends as a cover up prolly been screwing for years.
thunderstorm501 1 year ago
'a half of a third of a piece of an nth of a man'... that is HILARIOUS.
Sonaturallycool 1 year ago
*wonders will there be a "Life is not a fairytale Part II"*
my two cents: I feel like these "side-line hoes" need to know their position. When the hoes on the side start demandin' "wife type shit" that's when said hoe tries to do crazy shit i.e. suicide attempts, pregnancies, etc. When they start doing stuff like callin' and cussin' the wife out and shit...all I can think of is, "So what the hell you think you just did... right, not a damn thang." He gone still be with his WIFE.
iliciaq 1 year ago
Yes, girl I love your realness!!! Speak your truth!
TIPPI11349 1 year ago
preach sista......
miraclecleo 1 year ago
Yes Jia!! Girl, I love your realness!!
TIPPI11349 1 year ago
YES!!! ..and there is nothing left to be said!
lovedwon 1 year ago
Preach!!!
goldendyme8506 1 year ago
i fuckn love the real raw of Jia, she be unleashing on these fools!
sassykool227 1 year ago
We don't know anything about Fantasia's situation. We also don't know that the overdose was intentional or an attempt at suicide. There's so much misinformation being put out there when none of know what's REALLY going on. People can be so judgmental. At the end of the day, we all human, we make mistakes, and we live our lives the way we see fit.
DateOfBirth422 1 year ago
@DateOfBirth422 We do know. Her manager confirmed that she took sleeping pills and aspirin, hid her stupid ass in the closet, and left herself there to die.
You don't just accidentally slip and land your p_ssy on some other chicks husband's penis. That's not the way it goes.
JiaTV 1 year ago
@Jia I so agree with you...lol.. because my aunt deals with a married man and she gets pissed when she finds out that he is sleeping with another woman other than his wife...DUH!!!!!!! WTH he is cheating on his wife with you so what do you expect????....I just feel like some people are so naive to the fact that 9 times outta 10 a man his not going to leave his wife for the chick on the side....I am so glad that you posted this because a lot of women needed to see and hear this...
Luv ur vids
MzLady1978 1 year ago
Love this video
ronehere 1 year ago
agree 100%
xaireyx 1 year ago
u aint eva lied giiiirl!!!!! fanny overdosed on asprins and a sleep aid.....
nenetoofly 1 year ago
great vid...you stay keepin it real! ..i agree totally.
j3sistasjlc 1 year ago
So why hasent anybody talked about alicia keys?? Took an others husband on top of that got pregnant for him and marry the dude...Like thats worst than the whole fantasia incidento to me
patralatifa 1 year ago 5
@patralatifa b/c even though folks don't like or agree with AKeys, at least she never lied about her bullshit. She just chose not to talk about it. Fantasia, on the other hand, chose to sit back and lie each and every time someone asked her about it, only to have photos pop up of her out with the dude. She really thought folks were stuck on stupid.
JiaTV 1 year ago
this is the truth!
BLACKARAZZI 1 year ago
hilarious! but keeping it real! = )
kzique73 1 year ago
I just think if women are going to have sex with a dude that has another woman then you just have to accept the fact that you're a jump off. There is nothing wrong with being a jump off. Just realize that is what you are to him and there will be no confusion.
MrLocario 1 year ago
She claims that he was separated when they met and was in the process of ending his marriage; but seperated = married. If her intentions were truly righteous, she would have told him to holler at her only after he received that final divorce decree in the mail.
Then she had the audacity to "tell off" the wife". But like the saying goes " When you play with fire, you will get burned". Rocsi, Alicia Keys, Gab Union, its only a matter of time b4 the rest of 'em feel the same type of sting.
tincredible 1 year ago 2
Thank you for your words. You say what so many of us are thinking but would not dare to say. I posted this to my facebook in hopes of helping to reach another female in need. Many Blessings...T
tanishiajackson 1 year ago
The TRUTH! great video
missfamiliar 1 year ago
I love you Jia. I've been a big fan of yours even before you did youtube vids ;-) But let's get down to the real nitty gritty. "FANTASIA!!" I just discovered this last night. That she had made this so called sex tape with a married man. Out of all the people I would never expect her. She seem like a sweet heart. Like it seems she wouldn't be caught up with that type of scandal. That just lets you know never judge a book by it's cover. But the way this world is, all celebrities are caught up.
305Alpha 1 year ago
loved it lol...
mzlauren20 1 year ago
I LOVE This video!! Thank YOU! These women just don't get this at all. But they want to call you with all that drama! I don't feel sorry for them either Girl!
deja669 1 year ago
LMAO! Tell it like it is MissJia!!!!!!!! @TheChevyGirl you already know!
sexychevy 1 year ago
Jia ur the damn truth! i respect this video cause u basically spoke what needed to be heard. these females need to wake up and smell the bullshit and do a lot better than what they doin. i dont blame u for not havin sympathy for a anyone goin through this bafoolery.
DaSkaLar 1 year ago
preach jia preach!!!!!
bettys0sl0w 1 year ago
oh yes! miss jia you were inspired! lol! fa' sho'!
oldschoolsituationz 1 year ago
I totally agree. I dont at all condone cheating from any angle. I am a Fantasia Stan but wrong is wrong and she should know better. I pray she is okay but a sorry ass cheating piece of crap dude is not worth taking your life over.
KENNYBOO504 1 year ago
These stupid women who are coming in defense of Fantasia take shit like this for granted until that shit happens to them. If Mr. Cook doesn’t even honor his wedding vows and would cheat on his own WIFE you think he ain’t going to do the same to Fantasia? That bitch was a side hoe…some weekend pussy as Eddie Griffen would say. The way you found him is the way you lose him. Mrs. Cook deserves every penny she may get from Fantasia and I hope she gets every penny!
Reddz25 1 year ago
Well spoken
Gwendella1 1 year ago