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  • Ahr shut up people! worst song EVER MADE i looooveee CA's songs BUT this just sucks dick big time! "uhh im so afraid..... help me.... i know what you've been through" and so on!XD ahaha--- dang people THUMBS UP:D

  • He changed for about five minutes. And then he turned around and I'm still so afraid.. I'm so afraid...

  • this song is so beautiful and is giving every person out there hope. Thank you Christina x

  • It made me feel sad and happy at the same time

  • Same -___-

  • Somebody tell me please.

  • It gets really hard to keep going after the one man in your life whom you trusted lays his hands on you or watches you while you sleep. I should know. What do I do?

  • Sometimes there's fear inside me to become parent one day,cause of the demage inside.Glad to see the others have been trough the same hell like i did,somewhere deep inside me it helps,but also,the sadness is lot bigger than satisfaction when i realise that half of our dreams are based on the same nighmares.Sometimes late at night,i still hear the screams,even i know they're not real anymore.Hope the time heals the pain, and brings all those nightmares to some other dimension.Strenght to us all !

  • No, they don't understand the damage they have done, for them it's just the memory, but for us it still lives on.

  • fuck

  • @largerthanlife296 HAHAHA, I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN

  • My god, i can relate to this song so much.

  • Change it to grandfather, and look what he's done to my family.

    Thank you, Tata.

  • I used to change father to stepfather.. this album is so powerful.. it got me through the days when i was young..

  • i think Xtina is reading my diary ! ♥

  • if you change the words from father to mother then that would be me.

  • I made a video sharing a story.

  • This happens every week

  • Depression, PTSD, panic disorder and fear of the man I once loved. That's what you gave me dad. But to you, it's just a vague memory that has ceased to breathe.

  • this really went straight to my heart and I started bawling my eyes out

  • this video was recorded with a potato

  • hearing all the yealling i would cry up in my room. . . with my little brother & little sister. . . still living in the war called "home"</3

  • @MuSiC4EvEr727 If you EVER need to talk to someone, I'm here. I understand sweetie<3

  • Don't relate,but it's still a beautiful song!

  • I relate..

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  • if you growup in this kinda situation you endup screwed up.

  • @staceysk1 u would!the difficulties in our lives make us stronger and wiser!btw i dont think that christina ended screwed up :)

  • @staceysk1

    NOT COMPLETELY TRUE, THERE IS THAT SMALL PERCENT THAT FIGHT THROUGH IT, AND FIGHT TO MAKE IT BETTER FOR THEMSELVES. THERE ARE THOSE THAT VOW THEY WILL NEVER PUT THIS TYPE OF TORTURE ON THEIR OWN CHILD. SOME COME OUT BETTER THAN YOU OR ME BECOUSE OF WHAT THEY WHENT TO. SO DONT CATAGORIZE EVERYONE INTO A SET REALITY COUSE THEY ARE THE ONES WHO CAN CHANGE IT. I WOULD KNOW BECOUSE MY DAD IS ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE AND I NEVER WENT THRU WHAT HE WENT THRU AND THATS CUZ HE DIDNT WANT TO.

  • @staceysk1 i hear you, hon, but please just know you don't have to stay there. do what you must to let those feelings out of that box inside you, a little at a time. go online, write in your journal, exercise or long walks, hot baths, whatever you gotta do. Even the amount contained in one YT comment is that much more of your burden lifted off of you. It's only scary when it's in the dark. Let it out into the light and like a vampire it will be powerless over you.

  • I love when songs express your life

  • This gave me chills :(

  • Who is she to put my life in her lyrics :$

  • This song makes to be sad and only who have not good relationship with the father, can understand it more.

    I've got to say that I do and I hate my father and he doesn't know it.

  • my half sister hits and beats her son.her son is mean to me but i feel bad for him. he lives in poverty and his mother hits him.

  • @countrygal1674 Quit whining and call the authorities on your half sister.

  • @countrygal1674 Please tell me you've called the cops.

  • five people have no emotions.

  • @vanessa700ily act like christina and always listen to beautiful. it helped me ALOT

  • 5 people are the fathers.

  • i hate home

  • I'll never be okay.......

  • Glad I'm not alone but still living in a war

  • Look at all these comments, it reminds me im not alone <3 other people have gone through what i have..

  • @EmoXxTayXxFlowerXx that made me smile :)

  • This song knows my pain.

    #AgainstDomesticViolence

  • hell? if there was a such thing thin im living thro it everytime i open my eyes ...everytime me an mom are walkin the streets to get away from tht drunk bastard...

  • You can never forget these things that happen,...i've tried..but then the memories come back...i still do live in a war callled "home"

  • This is the story of my life, except my dad never laid a hand on my mom. I would have killed him if he did.

  • @Bremen25 yeh same here he just put his hands on me

  • this is the live version right?

  • "For you it's just a memory, but for me it still lives on".

    My father sometimes used violence against me from I was eight 'til I got twelve. I'm fifteen now. He also did other things to me, except from violence, 'til I got fourteen. We still have our small fights. I've tried to talk with my mom, but she wouldn't let me move from him, and she has said to me that I haven't spoke of anything else in the last two years. 

  • same here

  • Fathers like that are cunts.

  • stay strong abuse victums stay strong and plz report im prying for all of u dont keep it a secret tell tell any one plz

  • story of my life.

    thanks to my dad i now suffer from anxoity (however you spell it) P.T.S.D and depression, ive tried everything to make it go away, including cutting.. but the pain doesnt go, but you have to act okay.

  • Desgraciadamente , es la historia de mucha gente.

    Felizmente muchas mujeres son valientes y alejan a sus hijos de situaciones de maltrato.

    Ella dice estar bien, yo no lo creo.

    Es una fenomena!!

  • so deep

  • hurts . hurts so bad .

  • Sad and true

  • Fuck .. I meant kicked her out

  • My dad called my mom a whore and kicked her ass . My mom isn't like that . She didn't cheat . Idk what she did to deserve it .. Because of him we moved to Alabama . A state that's across the country from where we lived. California . But I'm ok .

  • @guccibaybe58172 interesting I'm from Alabama and moved out to California because of my parents divorce...

  • @hsg2012 Hmm, what part of California? And where in Alabama are you from..?

  • @guccibaybe58172 San Dimas, CA is where I live now and I was born and raised in Birmingham, AL :)

  • @hsg2012 I lived in San Diego lol (:

  • @hsg2012 I lived in San Diego lol (: and I live in Birmingham, AL. Did I tell you this O.o I don't keep track

  • @guccibaybe58172 not about the birmingham part but about the San Diego part you :)

  • @hsg2012 ooohh. well yea

  • story of my life. just wish i could be okay

    

  • 4 fathers disliked this

  • She GIVES me hope!!!!! She is what i wanna be

  • this is toatatllly not the stories theme but it makes me cry because my parents are divorced and they wont talk look or email each other and i remember when i was 7 i woke up and my mom was on the kitchen table crying.

  • my lil sis says : "thats daddys song"

    && lots of memories come up when i hear this song!

    trin to erase those memories but cant erase the scars

  • @yollie760 is he gone??

  • @yollie760 oh wow im soo sorry to hear that. I hope your ok now. Its horrible how the one man in someones life u should trust and look up to and feel safe can make you feel the complete opposit. I love my father but i can never be around him im so scared.

  • story of my life

  • i think the same ,she is the best.

  • This song is very sad nd whenever I hear this song I remember everything when I was a litter girl

  • The history of my life...

    when i show this to my mom she say .. oh my gosh how u could remember?

    its sad ., .

  • this song is just beautiful...

  • whoever disliked dis is fukinq stupid !

  • me averguenza que el padre sea ecuatoriano creo q xtina nunk vendra aka por ese baboso q la maltrataba ( SOI D EECUADOR) x_x

  • apparently we had the same childhood with xtina :(

  • Relates to my life.. alot. The thing is, my bruises havent faded, or the scars and the memories wont go away :/

    Just made me stronger, and who I am..

    Coming from a 13 year old girl (:

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  • Yup , This Song Just Makes Me Cry Everytime i Hear It -|3

    Reminds Me Of My My Alcholic "Father" Who Was Alwayss Beating Me Up .

    But EVERYTHING Made Me

    STRONGER *

    And Im Just 14

  • i could only get to 1:25 before wanting to cry my eyes out

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  • por eso me identifico con ella, vivimos cosas muy muy parecidas... cada vez que escucho esta canción recuerdo parte de mi niñez ...

  • reminds me of my alcoholic father and the beating.. :|

  • @MinnaTho im so sorry...

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  • Im crying

  • STRENGTH is my mother...

  • i get so emotional every time i hear this.. but my father was so long forgiven..

  • This is sad ;c

  • this song is about her father right?

  • @ilovesnsdshinee yes, kinda obvious???

  • @ilovesnsdshinee no its about her dog;)

  • que triste te queremos christina y tienes una familis que te apoya y tus fans que te quieren y te admiran mucho

    tu puedes superar todo christina eres una persona fuerte y sensible a la vez sabras como enfrentar las cosas...

  • Wow that's deep

  • anyone who actually would dislike this song is a horrible person...

  • this is so sad

  • Those last words.. It breaks my heart into a million pieces.

  • Wheres the love button?

  • 4 people have no heart, this song is beautiful.

  • Omg this song is soo sad :'( this reminds me of my childhood ♥

  • I miss the old Christina Aguilera. =(

  • Awwwww :( :)

  • i luv this song cuz it realy helps me get through all o the abuse tht i went through b4 and am still partically going through just not as bad. it cms like no matr wut i do i will always b stuck here with these abusers it SUX!!!!!! iv tried all kinds of things iv tried 2 run away iv tried 2 tell othr ppl about it but they j laughd at me as if i were making it all up im j sick of this i think i just need sum help 4m any1 willing 2 help me im only 13 and iv xperienced abuse a lot, plz any advice

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  • @AwsumAnna13 I was in your shoes once. I'm 13 too so I know how you feel. My mom's Ex-Boyfriend/My bother && sister's dad abused my mom. Well the story is kinda long I'll send it to you in a message.

  • @AwsumAnna13 @Jessikaf111 It makes me cry so hard realizing that almost a month ago I was 13 too, but that I haven't ever faced anything alike:'c I really respect all of you that have gone through that for keeping strong and keep on. I really,really respect you and admire you.So young yet so strong. Seriously. I hope all that pain and fear ends soon:'c Just don't ever forget that you have people beside you:') Please always remain this strong and don't let your kids go through the same~ Fighting!

  • Yes dad, you may have hit her aload of times, you're lucky shes still here. Worst thing is..i saw it all.

  • She sings with so much emotion and her song express so much of her, of her life, of her terrible childhood! I LOVE HER!!!!!!!!

  • ive never heard this song, and it just made me cry :( its beautiful, somehow, it relates to me by something that happened to someone i know..well...someone i knew

  • i love christina aguilera

  • it makes me cry too!

    hate my family !!

  • @ichhalteinfach wow im so sorry

  • @dakotaHUFFY it doesnt make you feel sorry... the people who should feel sorry doesnt feel sorry anytime.. they dont know how much pain i feel... but anyway .. thank you!

  • @dakotaHUFFY it doesnt should you make feeling sorry... the people who should feel sorry doesnt feel sorry anytime .... thei dont know how much pain i feel .. but anyway.. thank you!

  • Strength is my mother for all the love she gave </3

  • i left so that my daughter wont have to find herself related to this song...

  • dear father,yes the pain always remain the same. sadly it does.

  • i kno exsaclly know how she feels = (

  • @pink3514 I hope you are all right. <3

  • diiviina!

  • she sings about the real things in life//pain

  • it's live. Woah.

  • Thank you for this song.

  • I cry when I hear this song like everytime!!She gives you exactly the situation!So real!It makes you feek like you lived it too!!Amazing!

  • I cry with this song like everytime!!!!She makes you give exacly the situation!Like you lived it too!!Amazing!

  • Wtf is up with this crappy audio?

  • i hate my dad..... he is fuckin crazy, everyday he comes home.. and start with yelling on my mother, me and my sister.. i just can't take it no more... i'm so tired of him.. he destroys everything...

  • @FentyN2111 oh... just like me;/...

  • It's about her like childhood, she went through abuse n stuff <33

  • @EatSomeParsnips where did u hear that?

  • @yasminejadallah Wikipedia :D

  • i always cry when i listen this song :(

  • 4 people aren't ok..

  • Im crying everytime i hear this..

  • This song makes me rember things that ended just a mear month ago.

  • This song always makes me cry but I always feel better afterwards because this song explains me so well.

  • I have gone through the same thing too.. Beautiful song, thanks so much Christina

  • im cryin rite now OMG ): im going through the same thing..your not alone christina..

  • story of my life.

  • @RIOTinyourface you're not alone.

  • @RIOTinyourface

    i kown exactly what you mean ..

  • @RIOTinyourface

    * know

  • @RIOTinyourface same,

  • @RIOTinyourface

    mine to... :(

    but its all okay now since my mum got a divorce 10 years ago...

  • LOOVE Thiss Sonqq !!! ;DD

  • this is so the story of my childhood

  • When she was recording this, she was laying on the floor in the studio crying. Linda Perry was there and said "Get a mic in there right now". You can hear it the most from 2:50 to 3:00. This song is amazing and I love that they used such raw material on the album.

  • OMG! That song is so deep. Thank God my parents are happily married.

  • DONT GET ME WRONG, this is a great song but the start of the song just creeps me out..sorry.

  • @shuttleRocket if your talking about the lyrics i agree with you...once upon a time sounds kinda weird for a VERY deep and personal song like this...

  • @rOdriigO1997 personally i think its spossed to represent a childhood because most happy childrens books start with once upon a time...but that is just from my veiw

  • OMFG this bitch cud sing!

  • she sang this while she was crying on the studio floor..

  • beautiful

  • damm made me cry!!

  • 3:06 <--- best line in the song, in my opinion.