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  • she looks like someone sentenced her to death! wow that's not how a wedding should be....

  • also it says la elaaha ela allah and allahu akbar behind her on the wall ,, muslim phrases!!

    but she also speakes tht jewish language

    wth is going on!!!

  • i dont get this

    her family are wearing scarves and she's an israeli woman??!!

  • I just read that Shadya started her training for the next championships and her trainer said that she is is better than before. Looks like that at the end her husband couldn't lock her up forever!

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  •  why is her dress purple? thats weird.

  • @dearborn05 usually arabs celebrate twice, the first celebration is a small wedding and the bride can wear any color, and the second is the biggest celebration and the bride wears white :)

  • I saw the whole documentary! It was amazing! She is very strong. I was mad because at the end she had to let go of her career because she was pregnant!

  • I saw this on tv not too long ago and it was very interesting. I couldn't help but be impressed with Shadya's strength and independence. I also fear for her somewhat, since Muslim men aren't well known for their tolerance of women like Shadya.

  • @FaceInTheRain Shut up. I'm a Palestinian Muslim Man and I'm pro-women's rights. When I saw this film, I wanted Shadya to continue her karate. This isn't about Muslim men, this is about your generalization of them.

  • @FaceInTheRain It is important to make the distinction between Islam and a real muslim man and culture. They are two very different things. Unfortunately it is very easy for people to mix culture and religion

  • I would just like to know WHEN we (women) will be treated like we have some depth & as humans? On many accounts we are not equal to men but since we too are given life shouldn't we honor that by living it to the fullest, living our joy? This is sad and really not unlike The Constant Gardner, though I believe fictional, another great tale about a woman succumbing to the attrocities of her culture.

  • @2tim149

    When ever you want to. Stop being girls and become women! Stop going by tradition and do what needs to be done! This especially is true for those living in traditional societies. I will be watching this the next times it airs on PBS and it should be next week. Unfortunately, I already know the ending now. Really sad. She could have become a self defense instructor to women and girls for the area! She could have taught them more than self defense, also Independence! A shame.

  • God damn control freak muslim man.They treat woman as dogs, as personal slave like they own them. ya, the charia do them well and they sure want to stick to it! bunch of asshole.

  • @TheTourlous this is not islam this is culture, read en learn about islam before you call muslims asshole. i now it can be difficult if you have now brains but read some books about the real islam.

  • @TheNillos alright I'm sorry sir, I admit I kinda lost it there. I was very angry after seeing this. That girl's denied freedom of choice...pfff. I'm not angry against islam, I'm angry at that guy really. That said, any kind of religions/secte spells ''control' for me though I do respect the individuals. As for ''charia''....well don't start me. lol

  • @TheTourlous THAT WAS VERY NICE OF YOU, THANK YOU, BUT IM A WOMAN:),I CANN'T BLAME YOU, PEOPLE ARE SICK, THEY ABUSE THE ISLAM FOR EVERYTHING.

    BELIEVE ME THE CHARIA IN ISLAM IS NOT THE CHARIA WHAT YOU SEE IN SEVERAL MUSLIM COUTRY CHARIA WAS IN THE EARLY TIME AN HONEST LAW, BUT THESE PEOPLE ABUSE THE LAWS, ISLAM DOESN'T APPROVE STONNING, OR KILLING OR SUICIDE BOMBERS.

    MEN WHO BEAT THEIR WOMEN BECAUSE CHARIA SAID SO, IS NOT TRUE, THOSE GUYS WIL BE PUNISHED BY ALLAH FOR BEATING UP THEIR WOMAN!

  • @TheNillos Well; one can only hope Allah is doing a lot of bodybuilding up there coz he 's gonna have a lot of beating to do it seems to me!! ;o\

  • i heard on israeli channel2 news that the director got killed because of this movie!!

  • i think they r majoosi muslim like religion in mid east region . ppl normaly misunderstand them as muslims bcoz of their culture and language

  • LOL that aint arabic, thats fucking kurdish FUCK them i hate them

  • @bazi2009 no that is arabic dipshit

  • jee um sandbell93 u just said -- or i mean I seemed to decipher that you said -- dont judge a book by it's cover and yet you say (gosh to i really say it verbatim??nah)you hate arabic men. you basically ARE judging a book by it's cover.. ..sorry i dont speak .. uh..ur language i hope you can understand what I've said ;p

  • i LOVE Independent Lens.. regretably i haven't had much chance to watch it lately

  • Got to see the entire film about a week ago

    Very moving account of a strong, successful, independent woman who ultimately submits to the culture around her. Very saddening. At times she didn't seem very endearing to herself, but she still didn't deserve to wind up how she did..

    Even her father, who seemed to back her 100%, appears to practically throw her under the bus after her last tournament bout. And that last image of her.. You could just tell that she had been broken inside..

  • Yes, I was so disheartened by the end.

  • @Reaps51 where can i watch this film?

  • I respect customs and creeds but no one can take away your fredoom , you can be a good wive and delevolp your profession properly

  • i hate the shose so late ......not even sesen but like the dress and i fuk hate arabic men but as .... said never joj a book by it cover!!+ he ugly

  • This is a problem in Arab society. The man tell his bride to be one thing, and after the marriage, he take away her freedom. He lied to her. :(

    Khadija

  • too bad she isnt even arab

  • yes she is, but they live in israel so they speak hebrew

  • i assure if she was a palistinian she would not speak hebrew with her family especially not on my wedding day since the israelis are killing her people. i for sure would not speak it and i would only learn to speak it if it gets the israelis off my land and out of my country.

  • She is "Arab 48" and she was speaking ARABIC with her family, so don't make things up. When she went inside she was being interviewed for the film which is made by Israeli producers who are not Israeli-Arab, so she spoke Hebrew because Arab 48 all speak Hebrew outside of home, it's the national language of Israel.

  • @malakmiari she's tired of being palestinian there's no freedom in that! look at those palis where i live then you'll understand how she feels cuz dude it's all boys around me!

  • palestine*

  • thats not always true

  • Kes emek u are a bitch.Eire bel karate o eire b kesem israel..shame on u pitchka te mater.....

    Falastinie al....bahdaltina ya sharmotta...and u know what? eire b kes emek ars.. o eire b jozzek emayarr..

    Forza Juve

  • who the f**k is shadya

  • shadya beautiful girl never give up your dreams!! w2eza jozek msh 3ajbo u can have mee :p

  • this seems a video to further the Israeli propagandists agenda

  • of courseee it is!

    this is how arab do there weddingss!

    :)

    its awesomeee

  • is it real ?!!?

  • her dress is so pretty she is 2 but she looks so sad ...........

  • Is this a film or a documentary? I tried to follow the link, but it requires an authorisation.

  • the movie is titled "Shadya"...very short film but tells so much about her success as a karate champion and the sacrifice she is forced to make to fulfill the role of bride..and at the end, to fulfill the role of mother. very good film, writing a paper about it as we speak..

  • her brother is an ass. She has a beautiful spirit and she has courage to do what she does. but at the end her husband is controlling and insecure. can u post the rest?? plz

  • this seems a video to further the Israeli propagandists agenda

  • in the begining she spoke arabic but when she was inside it sounded hebrew?? it wasnt arabic

  • this girl from what we called arab 48 almost million Palestinian living in israel and she is one of them . they speak arabec and hebrew

  • was this marriage forced? she doesnt look happy at all. what movie/film is this?

  • very pretty bride

    though is she happy or am i just crazy

  • are they speaking hebrew

  • Goodness, she doesn't look happy at all! I feel kindda sorry for her.. :( Is this for real?.. like the stuff they've been saying about her groom? Did they force her to marry this guy????

  • she is Muslim Arab Palasteen I like my people ARAB

  • She is a beautiful bride!

  • its a khoutba (engagment) stupidd.

  • Why is  hochzeits buying your video on the internet just silly since it determines christen

  • shes a beautiful bride....thats really how it is! may allah bless her!

  • auww she doesent look so happy or am i wrong??

  • What a beautiful bride!

  • What a beautiful bride she was!

  • she was speaking hebrow because she was intreviwed bye jwish intreviwer:X i wached that film once in t.v ,,and she stop her sport carer ,,she have achild now,,i feel sorry for her

  • that's NO THE WEDDING, HER DRESS IS PURPLE. i HATE HER HUSBAND HE SOUNDS LIKE A JERK AND HE IS NOT THAT ATTRACTIVE ANYWAYS.

  • Eire fike wel karate. Wa eire b israel ta3ek..Ehke arabe kes em manzarek!

    PALESTINA!

  • HAHAHA

  • mashallah the dresses is so beautifull i loved it...(cuz it's purple my favorit color)

  • I love Palsetianan wedding

  • What happened after the wedding? Did he stop her from continuing her sport career? Or should I better not ask,- I would love to believe that she continued. But "custom" is right, she does not look very happy at all... poor lass.

  • SHO HAL SAKAT

  • doesn't look very happy at her own wedding, does she?

  • yeah i have seen so much interviews for her shes palsetianan but loves to show off she wants to consider her self jewish but shes palestian and muslium iam pal myself

  • there are many Arabs living in Isreal and they speak Hebrew but there are also many Jews that live in Arab countries and they speak Arabic...

  • good thing bout arab weddings u get alot of bling bling lol

  • العروسة للعريس والجري للعزاب...وسلامتكم...

  • she is not jewsh u can see the writing on the wall behind her at 1:43 and at the begging her mum or some one is wearing the scarf she is a muslim!!!!!!

  • she sounds like she was talkin hebrew when they were interviewing her

  • yeah she was talking hebrew at the interview but at the biggning she was talking arabic too,i think she is probely palstainen or something, she might know how to speak hebrew because she lives near Isreal!!!!! but i think she is a muslim

    peace!!

    tc

  • She is an Arabian of the 48, Muslim Palestinian carrying the Israeli ID!

  • yea i know , i'm just sayin it sounds like she is talkin hebrew , and if the writing in the back and the lady wearing the scarf doesnt give it away her name does

  • ummm there Arab of course..never jews...but where is the gurl from likw which balad?????

  • israel...lol...so called ya3ne its really palestine ..bas heikee...

  • I LOVE HER DRESS...WHICH BALAED IS IT?

  • jordan

  • @Paligurl123 she is frm Tamra village and her groom is from Dubria

  • يا اخي هدول عرب ومن الجليل ..... وعقبال الرفاة والبنين والله يسعدهن يا رب...

  • i think he /she understands shes arabic but hes asking which balad which countrey

  • she is palestinian who talks hebrew and its common and usual over there

  • الله مع اخوتها وابوها

  • love this movie very touching, thx for posting!

  • hey where is the next part?

  • oh! i like that so much i play karate too i wish she wouldnot stop.actullay not all arab like her family my family leave me the whole freedomin living the karate or not and even if i got mrried.some of my parteners at trainings are maried and have babies, some are doctors some still study.the arab culture is not the same.every country had its own culture and law.and egypt had the most freedom of all

  • Aww what happens at the end?? where can i see the whole documentry??

  • The documentary aired on PBS in the US about a year ago. Not sure when it will air again, but you can check on the PBS website.

  • Thanks.

  • What is the name of the documentary?? And are they Arab or Jews?

  • It is called Shadya and they are Arabs living in Israel.

  • @PisceanBeautyy The documentory is on right now, on PBS 25/07/2010

  • @PisceanBeautyy can you give me the link because i dont find it thanks

  • Lucky man.............She pretty.

  • Greatt...

  • how can I see the whole movie ?

  • oh i watch this documentary, a couple of days ago, and i really liked, is well done, and show a lot of aspects of arab culture. i love shadya, she has a great personality, and is not submissive like the oyher womans in arab culture , i really fell sad that only her father supported the karate and she gave to give up her carrer just to be a perfect wife and a sad person... i wish that she dont give up their dreams , and keep working to one day be a champion

  • Toda cultura arabe-muçulmana é linda e a conservação destas tradições pelo seu povo também é linda e é o que mais me façina em todo o ISLÃ. Especialmente no Líbano/Povo Maravilhoso.

  • NO NO they didnot use hebrew az first language,,all of them were talking in arabic togother untill she start making the interview ..its nice 2 speak so many languages ...

  • This is ridiculous.

  • confusing clip i didn't understand if it was real or a movie.

  • It's real. It is from a documentary.

  • They're arab israeli and muslims...I'm a Palestinian and I don't understand why they would choose to have Hebrew as their first language, but then again I'm not surprised. There's a lot of things I don't understand about arab-israelis...oh well. I hope she's still doing karate.

  • وبعدين هي حكت بالعبري لانه كانت بتصور فيلم وثائقي عن سيرتها كلاعبه كاراتيه والصحافي الي معها يهودي وهي كانت تحكي معه بالعبري مش لانه نسيت لهجتها يعني احنا بعدنا بنحكي عربي ولا عمرنا راح ننسى لهجتنا

  • انامصدومه من الجهل الثقافي عند العرب يعني ما هو مبين بالمقطع انها عربيه مسلمه من عرب ال 48 الي ب اسرائيل وشي طبيعي كل وحده تلبس هيك بعرسها او بيوك خطبتها

  • actually thats so true right now even real muslim gurls wear cloths like this i mean this is there wedding day and they wanna enjoyit idont mind on ma wedding day i had a nice wedding dress it was showing sum meat ..lol

  • ok, so theyre def Muslim cuz there was a covered lady and it said in arabic in her room "there is no God but Allah, Allah is Great"

    but why were they speaking hebrew instead of arabic

    just cuz they live amongst jews does it mean they must forget their language?

  • What made you say they've forgotten their language?

    You've written in English, should I assume that you've forgotten your mother tongue, and should I say why are you speaking English just because you live in a land where they speak english..

    do you see my point, it's silly to say why are they speaking Hebrew..

  • thats different,, ya we speak english cuz its the native language of america,,,but palestine is an occupied land by israelis,, why speak the language of the people occupying your land?

  • What is the important? the Language or the information? what´s the important? the history of this tallent called shadya destroyed because the people around her are worried in thinking about what the others think of what about being happy.

    I´m really sad...

    Most important of the nation, is the people who make this nation.

  • Are they christians? May be Jews? I don't think Muslims can go around showing off their half naked body.

  • hebrew ofcourse

  • can someone tell what language r they speakin

  • This is an engagement. Boy talk about being cocky. But aye she can karate chop his ass if he doesnt 'let her' keep talkin arabic its much nicer then kheeeebroo

  • this is an engagement party not a wedding

  • she's not Durzi she is from Zoabi family

    hello cousin Shadya !! ;)

  • how old was she when she got married

  • i took part in her movie...my name is diana, too bad that she maried so young.. she was a great karateka... now she have 2 kids..

  • may be dorzyah....

    what ever she looks wild in the bed... hummm....

  • yea i know her..she lives in my area..or used to. iuno where she lives now after that she got married..

    and why the hell shes on youtube?! im still shocked.

  • هذول عرب ال48 اتوقع اللي بفلسطين المحتلة

  • She is an Israeli-Arab

  • That is a shame for someone to do that to her on her wedding day...

  • holly ****

  • الفستااااااااان والبنت كتير حلوووويييييييييييييين

    بس هذووول ايرانييين ولا وشو

  • if she didnt want to marry him, so why did she? i think she is a bitch

  • I don't think she didn't want to marry him. She was under the impression he was supportive of her career, but then on her wedding day finds out he was being deceitful about this. I wouldn't be looking half-thrilled either.

  • well that was disturbing she should be happy and she isnt this wont turn out good ...reminds me of my wedding day lol

  • Ahhh! What happened with your wedding?!?

  • she is probably a palestinian but she talks better hebrew

  • she is not happy at all

  • beautiful. wish her luck

  • she is palestinian and she is living in her homeland even if it is called now israel

  • she is not so happy

  • So fucking pretty. Omg.

  • now i have become obsessed with this woman's life. how is she half isreali/arab? where does she get each from?

  • She's just arab. Arabs who live in Israel (not in the Palestinian territories) are sometimes referred to as Israeli Arabs.

  • man i miss visiting the middle east. jordan is such a beautiful country but im from iraq i hate the fact that it's mostly distroyed.

  • I wore the same silver heels for my wedding! lol

  • I hope you're joking! LMAO

  • Same as in simlar. I still use them, they come in handy :)

  • she is soooooooooooooooooooooo hot

  • nice ... but not arab ...

  • damn so ugly camels and arabs fuckin death to arabs

  • Why r u soo racist frog85 . its not a behavior of educated and cultural person. respect people

  • maybe u look too queer.

  • .....gay husband, u can tell cus all jordanian guys are gay..believe me, i went to a jordanian taxi one time and the driver was about to rape me>>>BEWARE OF GAY JORDAN..PALESETINE 4 LIFE

  • can i get her for one night plzz...i wanna bang the shit outta her

  • she is hot i want to bang her in that dress and teach her karate in bed bang style.

  • stfu

  • it's her choice not bad husband

  • i love when she says 'they got me into this stupid dress' but they wont take karate from me.

    haha ossom.

  • oh shes so pretty i feel bad for her, that she couldnt play karati any more. bad husband.

  • can n e 1 please tell me where i can find this documentary???

  • i wanna know too

  • i totally agree with bendoura........if a good muslim, then he should let her continue pursuing her dream ......shes gone so far.....its haram to put her down after all she went through........all i have to say to u shadya is u shouldve known what u got urself into and what Allah wants for u is what u will get inshallah

  • you can't help "getting into" marriage and social arrangements that promote women's isolation. what woudl her other choices be....stay single, never have kids, never get married...run aroud with a boyfriend, be lesbian. gimme abreak...ignorant.

  • so true i agree.... but im sure if she asked in a right way she can still do what she wants.. You kinda have to think of where he is coming from too i bet all the other guys are telling him crap about his wife kicking his ass and stuff

  • poor baby

  • sorry that was my reply to *ymnshilwa* who said ''she should have knwon what she is getting herself into'' and the poor baby comment was at the poor husband getting mockedby other men. thatis why as a woman and feminist, you cannot speak up against one man only, you must speak up against all of them, the whole system of masculie bullshit.

  • I don't feel any sympathy for him. In the beginning of the doc he said, on camera, that he supported Shadya and wanted her to continue karate, then on her wedding day he all of a sudden switches up. At least be consistant. I have a feeling he never wanted her to continue in the first place.

  • If her husband was a good muslim, he would let her continue to pursue it while balancing marriage and family life. The only reason why a guy wouldn't let someone continue with something like that would be if he is jealous of her or has control issues.

  • Yeah, if you have seen the documentary, it appears certain family members, particularly her older brother, objected to her karate merely out of jealousy.

  • i watched this on PBS and was really sad what happens to her...

  • what happens to her?

  • She was good at karate and her family forced her to get married in early age. Her husband didn't allow her to play for national championship. and the rest you have to fid out on internet or tv...

  • nice...

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