I think that talking about the situation in order to expose the behavior is worthwhile. No, you can't change their minds, but by exposing the stupidity, the nice guys can know that the women are the one with a problem, not them. That will enable the nice guys to move on and do their best to bring up their daughters so that the next generation has a chance of not being as stupid as the women we deal with now.
@williamsket To answer your question, I will give you a little bit of the history of this video. When I first uploaded this, there was a "flag war" going on and any videos by black men that had anything to do with black women were getting flagged. Our channels were getting suspended. If a video gets flagged it will go into the "unsuitable for minors" category. If it gets flagged after that, the video is removed and your channel might be suspended. My channel survived the "flag wars."
I think i still have a chance im not washed up i only have 1 child and shy of 30 my childs father is still in picture i live alone and employed im not looking for someone to take care of my child thats a "NICE GUY" but i did make a mistake and learned my lesson No more thugs for me... all guys are diffrent there are "thugs" with a job and live on their own, wear belts and have no kids and will treat a lady right that's the one some women should look for use birth control! then your good to go
ONE MORE THING.... i liked the thug because deep down he was a nice guy but the streets ran his life as far as NICE GUYS they cant help who they are attracted to they have to learn for themselves just like i did. im not going to look for a nerd because i dated one bad apple everybody is not the same. men that get women that dont like them hes a grown man eventually he will get it and find someone for him. "JUNEBUG OBAMA" are you bitter? sounds like it!
I must admit i did date a "thug" with 5 kids 4 diffrent baby mothers some people say dont judge him like him for him i tried that and he was slowly pulling me down i had to get out we have no kids together and im moving on they are a sad story i am disappointed in myself but we all make mistakes.
@JunebugObama Ok, if we are going to keep it 100%, let's keep it 100%. Black women of all ages go for thugs. I see it all the time where I live and where I travel to. You have corporate black women who defend thugs and all kinds of nigga shit. Now as for white women liking jerks, we all know usually after they hit 30 they look for a good man. However, TOO many black women want thugs well into 60 and will cosign nigga shit till they are well over 70. White women usually upgrade! Not generalizing.
@YababaVideo Man I totally agree with you. I'm in the military and stationed in a small town where you see nothing but the thugs getting these women. At first I listened to Junebug's advice but it does not seem to work for me. I'm not a nerd or corny acting. I just don't carry myself like these thugs do. The only women that do give me any time of day are the ones that the thugs don't want.
Women's # 1 complaint about men in the dating scene:
FAKE BAD BOYS.
They want the REAL THING. Next time you are at a bookstore take a look at the romance novels (female porn). They're all about gangstas, thugs, borderline sociopaths, tyrants, etc. Sure these are fantasies but this is what women respond to. Period.
Women's # 1 complaint about men in the dating scene:
FAKE BAD BOYS.
They want the REAL THING. Next time you are at a bookstore take a look at the ronance novels (female porn). They're all about gangstas, thugs, borderline sociopaths, tyrants, etc. Sure these are fantasies but this is what women respond to. Period.
These vids are funny as hell and you're a trip man, but there's one thing I can't agree with you on. While men may have a primal attraction to certain things there's a difference between that and the mental attraction women have for thugs. Its 100% plausible to think that people shouldn't be attracted to certain mentalities and that is something they can change. Now you'll never make me think these women are ugly, but you'll never make me think the finest deadbeat is worth dating either.
Alot of brothas who turned to this video did it just to look at the fine women. Don't hate cause you know its true. I mean come on man why you showing all these hot women it's distracting. I'm like god damn what does these honies have to do with your rant lol.... Sometimes im not even paying attention to what your saying real talk. This video is more like your average rap video not paying attention to the rapper or lyrics jus more focused on tha ass... No diss
Good video man...Im 26 now and have been through so much with women all through my last year of high school up until College Graduation. Something I notice is that I'm a successful black man whose self sufficient and hard working. Females have a motherly instinct instilled in them since birth and because of that most females out here tend to be attracted to men who need nurturing (i.e. thugs or broken men) neither one of which I am. I started focusing on myself and the good ones show up #Thought
@JunebugObama Now I watched the whole series you did make alot of great points. But when you used Stacey Dash and a thug as examples of not changing an attraction for men and women, it was kind of invalid. Stacey Dash's physical stature attracts men, not her personality traits. I would smash Dash in a sec, but I don't know how she is as a person lol Being a "thug" is a characteristic, a personality trait that women are attracted to. You get what I'm saying?
@Africanslick I think it is a fair comparison because most men place way more value on physical attractiveness than women do and women place way more value on personality, masculinity, income, popularity,etc. The fact that you would smash Stacey Dash in a sec is proof of this. Most women are not going to smash a man in a sec based on looks alone. She has to first know what type of personality he has (or what level of success he has achieved) before she makes a sexual decision.
@JunebugObama When you expalin that way it is a little bit more clear. Its still a god point for me I couldn't add the dots together because Stacey Dash=physical attractiveness and thug=dominant personality. I guess if you meant it as an example of what men like in women, and what women like in men, vice versa. If you mean it that way then I have an idea of the point you were trying to get across.
im 23 yrs old in college and i feel like women go through the same thing. Guys pick females that are superfical and the dudes know that but they continue to give the girl a chance. Its not fair. So the guys believe you are not alone, because every woman or girl is not like that.
Screw dem b*tches. I resent some of them because they r mean and make some bruthas do whatever they do. I know bruthas do the same but I am a man and these mean type women like to stir up alot of crap and then laugh at it like the toilet poop that they r like laquita-crackhead virus cunt-haha-she has no future-b*tch-I'm still standing!-lol!-lelia-that buckroe big booty stinky hoe and her lesbian lover crew!, shit-kara from phoebus high school+the club intrigue whores -haha-they missed out!
Like 4 instance, I had greeted what I thought were ladies and these bitches from decatur, georgia say I don't know u, a bunch of ignorant dumbomumbojumbo, and say I don't want to talk to u so i say the same-lol!-witchwhores!-lol! then later on I pass them and 1 says keep on walking bitch?and I have to defend myself against this hoe so I cuss back as she says this time keep walking u f'n b@#$* so i say the thing back to this ghetto trailer trash low class hoe! and I yeel'd out beee-otch!-lol!
I am glad to see something posted about this topic but f*@k those ignorant hoodrat heffers 4 rejecting me unanimously 4 a majority of my life and 4 making go to the street. Btches!!! Those bitches can eat shit, die, and wake up in hell! those bitches!!!bitches!!!-lol!. The chicks that do appreciate me are outside of my race! and some sistas too. Some of the sistas like me but when I be my self those winches fake the funk !-veneral vanessa-that hooters jonesboro georgia ginger hoe!!!
I am glad to see something posted about this topic but f*@k those ignorant hoodrat heffers 4 rejecting me unanimously 4 a majority of my life and 4 making go to the street. Btches!!! Those bitches can eat shit, die, and wake up in hell! those bitches!!!bitches!!!-lol!. The chicks that do appreciate me are outside of my race! and some sistas too. Some of the sistas like me but when I be my self those winches fake the funk !-veneral vanessa-that hooters jonesboro georgia ginger hoe!!!
1500 to 1950's Blacks were not allowed to be educated. It took the fukn National Guard to get us into school. Today, BW minimize and reduce and feminize BM if they choose to educate themselves and carry books. Black people are fukn pathetic!
You're preaching to the choir here. That's been the story of my entire life. I spent most of my adult life getting a career and an education and couldn't buy a date with all the tea in China. The ladies flocked to me for the roses, the dinner dates, and all the attention; only to run to get some from Big Ray from around the block. I'm not built to be abusive to women or wear jeans sagging of my ass. So the hunt continues...
Too all the Black Women who don't like what he had to say, i'm moving to D.C. and will be out looking for a good black woman to have as my partner. If you decide that i'm not street enough for you, then you will be proving him right.
@Asiaj2006 Lady it's not about hating black women, it's about black women dating shit heads, low lives, and dirt bags, and dissn good black men.. DISSING GOOD BLACK MEN IS HIS POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you take a woman long term but have never experienced her at her PEAK, you are selling yourself short. Don't let some other guy have memories of her at her hottest. Grow old with a woman that you remember at her prime. Don't settle with a woman you never knew her at her sexiest.
most black women in their teens and 20s want alpha males that will fuck them silly, so if you don't show characteristics of an alpha male then your not going to get with them. Unfortunately, I listened to my mom when she said "be a gentleman and respect women". Ever since middle school (in college now)beautiful black girls have been dogging me lol. If I could go back in time I'd slap the hell out my mother lmfao.
@hendsem ok first of all i'm 21 young black woman and in college getting my degree with no kids and plus my parents went to college. I assume your a person who stays on there computer all day and talks shit over the internet. Please grow up and get a life.
@LaurenRenee0813x and i am an astronaut in NASA. hahahahahaa whatever you say here doesnt certify anything. and if you thought your saying so makes any difference , get a brain !! ahaha obviously an overused cum-rag. now at least go back to the kitchen , your fatherless baby bastards are hungry.
@hendsem Seriously your so sad it's not even funny! You troll all day just cause you don't like someone's opinion? wow! Pathetic! Sad! I hope you get help cause if you don't your gonna be lonely one day. Or maybe it's too late. #Done have a nice life you bitch ass loser! ;)
@LaurenRenee0813x rofl. and yet you kept coming back to reply my trolling. truth hurts huh? i guess lol . now go back to your trickin' cuz your black baby needs some white milk :)
This is why black men go for women of other races, because they mature in their 20's and realize they want to marry a good man, while it takes black women til their 30's, 40's, and sometimes even 50's to realize that they fucked their lives up and try to run back to the good black man that they passed up. But now the good black man dont want them because we werent good enough when u looked good, now u ain't good enough now that u look like a fat heap of shit with many kids.
So true. But the difference is that while the sistas can freely date folks of other races, it's deeply frowned upon when a black men does it. I say go for the woman who wants and appreciates you for who you are and not just because you're a more responsible guy than the lowlives they've been banging since they were 19. What's the use of getting a degree and a career, only to get a woman who's past her sexual prime because she spent it getting knocked up by Big Ray?
@waltjrhurd Those are the same ones who pollute the radio and TV with their black men bashing...especially if he dates other races. That's one major hypocrisy that I seldom see being pointed out. They go on about black men being self hating if he is in an interracial romance and yet they OPENLY bash and blame black men for many of their own damn faults. Anyone with sense can see who the hater truly is.
im not talking about all women just most women because some know the deal but its hard to find them cause its not many of them and they are not out on the prowl but you dont just find the others in the hood they are in all walks of life 'nurses, lawyers, teachers,home care givers,judges,walmart at night, church, most times they live double lives the only ones that will comment on this in a negative way is the guilty. peace!
obama this has been going on since the fall in the garden eve followed satan and adam followed eve its the same today men get mad at her the way she is about sex and cheating on him when he still gives her the power by swelling her head with how good she looks and how good and big her butt is men feed her vanity to much some times it back fires on her remember we,re livin in the whore of babylon men shoudnt be suprised about this and her daughters will be like her in every walk of life
Good video if you are a young black man that is on the right path and these chicken heads dont want to be with you , the hell with em, there are plenty of other women in the world.
Damn JB...this is like the story of my life. It's not just black women who do this fo real, it's all kinds of girls/women man! Hence why I need to do more material on this to let good-hearted and strong-willed men know that they aren't alone.
I love your messages but i gotta say Nelly is not a thug most rappers are not thug like naturaly it's just an image that hip hop has adopted these days... some of these rappers are actually nice i aint sayin all of em but some. Keep on doing what you do thought xD
So the women who didn't want me before and are all used up now, will want me when i can take care of them? no dice.
Sorry that was partially uncalled for.
In my case I learned early on how to identify a girl's intent... by age 14 actually. My frustration wasn't what they do but how and why... so damn predictable. They thought their looks always override my brain. lol
(It some fucked up shit in my last post)Look. If you want a good woman in the real world then stop worrying about the women that live in the fantasy world. If you want some dolled up dime piece and your no rich your out of luck, think about it why would a normal women (real women) dress like that and live like that just to be a middle class housewife? shit are you for real? So stop ignoring the cute girl at the store or burger king and say hi. Dumb ass
If you want a hot woman. 1st you have to understand women and he's right don't chase the ones that bums or ones that chase money and don't chase fantasies. So if that doesn't help, its not them its you
This is my first time watching some of your videos. I do have to give credit where credit is due that you are an intelligent man. Some of the information you give(even though you are speaking to men on this one)can also apply to women as well when it comes to dating. You have some guys that will pass up the good girl or the good woman to mess with the hootchie mama. Trust me I know. The only difference is that I'm probably one of the FEW women that could care less.
@SoSeductive1981 Thanks, and I agree it works both ways for both genders. Men will go for the Hoochie Momma because she may have a nice body and be willing to give it up quick. I touch on this a little bit towards the end of my video on George Sodini.
yeah most woman love pain-my best friend cheated on his girl with multiple girls called her a bitch, hit her all types of shit but she loved him its funny how females like that shit forreal race doesn't matter it happens with whites, blacks, some asians woman love to be treated like dog shit -
I think it is funny how women want thugs. Cause as a black woman a lot of thugs be gay. I even have the website on my channel. Just click on it. And no it is not just porn. These dudes in the videos look just like the dudes that these bw be lusting over. Then they say the nice dudes are too nice. But whatever. Good video.
LMFAO!!!! WHY DO U THINK BLACK MEN FAVOR WHITE WOMEN? CAUSE THE BLACK WOMEN THROW THEMSELVES AT THESE THUGS AT THE BOATLOADS. I AGREE THAT WHEN THEY WANT A REAL MAN IT IS TOO LATE THEN THEY WONDER WHERE ALL THE GOOD BLACK GUYS R . i am black young and prefer white women, cause they are not so polluted mentally and seek relationships that are actually worth it. it is the same 4 many black men
JunebugObama, it's not that were trying to change the way black women think. Or trying to change what they think is attractive. It just seems that black women as a whole love thugs and assholes. This is why some of us have to change who we are. A thug will get more pussy than an educated guy with a future. It's a proven fact lol.
@southboy99 You are exactly right, southboy99. People may not want to admit it, but the thugs/dopeboys got everything on lock. Don't get me wrong. I can get a black woman, but she just may not be super fine like the ones the thugs have. The good guys have to settle for whatever is left over or change their style up. The other fine black women who don't want thugs set their standards extremely too high, so it's hell either way for a good black man.
@thuglifegreg24 This is why so many regular guys become fake thugs. You never hear a thug complain about not getting women do you? Hell no. And your right. The black women that don't want thugs have their standards just a little too high and many are not realistic. But for brothas like me, thank god for white women lol. You can find some bad ass white women that appreciate good black men. Trust me.
@southboy99 You're right! It's a lot of guys out there pretending to be something that they're not. A lot of these guys are weak as hell, but portray the image of a thug. This includes these rappers as well as other guys. However, since black women love it and approve of it, guys continue to do it. Yeah, it is some sexy white women out there, but the bad part for me is that I'm more attracted to black women. Black women just run too many games for me though.
@ndc18 I tried in the past when they did'nt want me. But now i'm hot they all on me with their fat wore out asses. They did'nt want me when they was young and fine.
@thuglifegreg24 yea u right,thugs be playing this girls and they still act like a sad puppy running back to the thugs that played them,where im from i know some of my boys got like 5 girls and all of the probably think he loves just them lol,funny as shit,but when i seen the same girls wit nicer dudes they cheat on them ,come with excuses why they did like u wasnt holding me n bullshit like that,afraid to jus admit dat they r fucked up in the head,might as well be prostitutes,got the pimp
@thuglifegreg24 Yep I agree. It's so fuckin hard being a black man in america. If you act thuggish, you can't get a job. If your educated, your own race gives you a hard time. The black women don't want to date you because they think you aren't BLACK ENOUGH. And on top of all that, white people still hate us.
yea women who like thugs are immature and dont know what they want,then later on be complaining and crying how ole boy treated them,no shit lol look who you wit,i think some girls just too bored with their lives that they need drama too mantain everyday,dumbasses,feel sorry for them,be the first ones saying they're aint no good men out there,they are right in front of you,you just aint checking for them,trying to be have some type of rep by being wit a thug,you just a side joint ,
@freeloaderking True. The thugs don't even really be caring bout them like that, yet they still are crazy about them. The thugs laugh among themselves about how bad they dog them out, but these silly ass black women still run back to them every time. It's almost like you have to hate black women in order for them to like you.
@thuglifegreg24 Sadly enough, that's how it is sometimes. In order for black women to like you, you have to dawg them out. I had a friend back in highschool that used to treat all of his women like shit. And yes, these were all black females. These women would be down for this dude harder than any female I ever dated. True story but sad.
@southboy99 Yeah, you're right! You have no choice but to dawg black women out these days or they won't respect you at all. I like hip hop n all, but it is part the problem because it has changed everybody's mindset. Think about it. You didn't see women in the 70's or 80's talking about swag and wanting a thug. The music has made these muthafuckers crazy. The game changed some where between the late 80's and early 90's. Now, black women are damn near impossible to approach unless you're a thug.
Well said. You are speaking the truth! Solid truth. Sadly, June bug Obama ,these 40 - 50 year old.. thug lovers are still out there ...still rolling stupid. They are still stuck in the stupid mode.
yea i feel you; young black women even some women in mid twenties like thugs,its just the swagger of a badboy to them and their morals are messed up,A nice black dude can give dem money for months and they will still treat the nice dude like a back up and go running to some fake thug that dont give a damn about them;but they will learn the hard way when nobody aint lookin at them no more.
@freeloaderking I had it bad for this one female that used to let herself get treated like trash by this one guy. This is when I was 25. But now that i'm 37 she calls me and tells me how good I was to her and shit like that. Now she's the one trying to get serious with me. But now she has two kids by that same guy, she is fat as hell, and looks worn the hell out. I'll pass. Now that i'm dating a white woman she has the nerve to tell me I can do better LMAO!!! I am doing better.
Junebug, love this video. I never commented on this one all this time since I joined but you are preaching to the men church. Too many BF bashers it's laughable with their trying to convincing them to change but you are right never waste time with thug lovers and find those women with less drama and the male church say Amen
@21sttnmemphis Thanks...I was just trying to get these guys to realize that you can't rationalize with irrational people. If a woman is an extreme thug lover, then leave her be. She will find out for herself the error of her ways.
@21sttnmemphis For some of us it's easier said than done when trying to find the black women that DON'T want thugs. Me being in the Army, most of the women come from the projects. Damn near all Army bases are in the worst parts of the US. I probably won't find a decent black woman until I retire and move to a real city.
black women are too emotional too date anybody because they feel that their big booties should give them a free lunch, but their mouths be cashing checks that their banks cant handle. They need to take a deep breathe sometimes and quit blowing up raising the roof with all those hair extensions and just listen to a man for a change because if they keep listening to these thugs, they aint gonna be doin nothin but driving busses for the rest of their lives
@nainaturalbeauty Stay awat from thugs. They love preying on decent women. Find a guy who stands out from the crowd(ie; speaks well, has his own style, treats you well). Look around you, there are so many reasons for you not to date thus.
Ur so right I was like this in teens and early 20s AND Enough is ENOUGH!! Im just happy I didnt have any kids w/ any of those A**holes I dont kno wtf I was thinking!!!! 5 STARS ***** or thumbs up^ Whateva!!! lol
it seem to be a cycle. the girl will take the money from bob or steve, and hang with them soley for the person of getting more money. then she gets googly eyed over mooki who then takes her money. and mooki will take that money and either will spend it on nothing productive or another woman.
wow, you're really good my brother. Thanks for this video, Im 21 years old and I knw exactly whats going on wit our black women wanting to date thugs or crazy dudes. A perfect vid. I would give it 5 stars but I guess I'll click this thumbs up arrow. Peace.
I am one that hates categorizing himself but I guess I'm considered a "nice guy". But I'm an around the way strong black man wit goals. I got many friends i grew up wit that are locked up, multiple bab moms etc..I dont want that... Im far from a pushover but its only black and white with black women they dont believe a dude like me exist. Your either soft or the thuggish of all. Believe it or not there is a medium but you gota be able to recognize it when you see it.
@lumpkins24, being focused and having goals is far more important than getting women. Long term, you will reap the rewards (and have more relationship and sexual options).
Even though I did these videos, I have encountered some women who think only in terms of "black or white" and they are better left alone. There is a medium but it takes a woman with some intelligence, class, and humility to recognize it. Be sure to watch my video called, "Does Her Sexual Past Matter?"
The same can be said about Black men. They want the girl who has her chest and butt hanging out everywhere, they want the girl that will sleep with them only hours after meeting them. If you are not that girl they don't want to talk to you. If you respect yourself and don't act like the status quo they call you stuck up. If you act like a classy lady they say you think u r too good. So there are alot of attractive, classy, blk women out there, but guys seem to overlook them. It goes both ways.
Also women are not setting standards these days. They will get with any ol body. No job, felon, baby mama drama...they don't care. So because women are not setting a standard you get women who date these thugs. If men knew that women wouldn't get with them if they acted like thugs...the men wouldn't act that way. Women set the standard ... unfortunately many don't have any standards. But don't put all Blk women in that category. I always looked for intelligent, ambitious gentlemen..NOT THUGS!
I don't know where guys are meeting these women that like thugs. I NEVER liked guys that acted like a thug. I was NEVER attracted to that. Gold teeth are not sexy. I always like guys who were about something. Guys who had ambition other than cutting a rap album. Maybe it was because I had a wonderful dad who showed me what a good man was. Maybe guys are just picking the wrong women. I think guys are looking for the video girl and the video girl is looking for the next rap star.
black women you know you love thugs dont you deny "uh uh not all just some" thats what all the black girls love to say they just chronic liars and deniar's just because these black girls come on youtube cause you know they will saying "not me none of my friends I dont no nobody that like thugs" thats a lie b/c at the end of the day black women aren't trained to take responsibility for there own actions because its pretty obvisous they like the wrong types of men they always complaining
yeah im a nice guy & i can't stop the flow of females that come 2 me...i got a line at my door...too bad tho..all dey want is a provider & im straight i don't do charity...lol
Good advice. We do want the type of women we see in the videos or on the cover of King, XXL. I also agree that when women get older they do change there tune and seek out the nerd especially if dude is secure, stable and little to no drama, but when she was in her late teens, twenties, she wanted the Thug
To make the long story short. If you really want to attract women. You need to adapt and overcome. If you can't beat them, join them. If Ray Ray and Big Mike are getting all the puzzy. Then maybe it's time to borrow their playbook. Even if it means changing your uniform from a nice shirt and slacks, to some baggy jeans and a throwback.
its kinda like how the nice guys are attracted to "the bad bitch" or the "ho" cause she looks good even though she's a maneater. lol its basically the same on both sides.
Can I ask a question: do you think that this is one of the reasons why a lot of successful black men start to date outside of their race more? That some of the nice black men cannot find a nice black woman so they start to go outside of the race?
This is why some successful black men pursue other races and cultures. Some of the other races are not looking for extreme thuggishness the way some black women are. I want to make it clear that I said SOME not all.
Be sure to listen to part 3 towards the end where I talk about women of other cultures and how they respond.
i think girls that like thugs are encouraging bad behavior what these lil boys gonna think when they see these females lusting over niggas who have an extensive rapsheet
That is exactly why. Black women will overlook or pass up the a brother that is trying to be successful and has goals. By the time that brother goes to college, the only women showing him any love are the white girls. Black women don't want a good successful black man until they are 30-35. But by that time most of the good black men already gotten snatched up by these white women. But why would a good, successful black man want a used up black woman with kids and baggage?
Look at the marriges back then when your grandparents were younger they still married right but look at todays marriges the divorce rate is higher than ever, now im no sexist but these women today done forgot how to be in a womans place, And as far as all of this "hip-hop degrades black women" mess, how is it "degrading" when they shaking they ass on camera in front of everybody please people dont let oprah man hating ass fool you please.
Just like too $hort said " she can care less about a real man all she wants is a man with a meal plan pick her up in a Benz and hope she get to eat everyday its halloween ho trick or treat" But seriously fellas im just going to just flat out tell you black women just crazy it aint no use to help or save any of em, Now dont get me wrong its a few good ones out there but they HARD to find because why, the bad ones always in your face, now when I say bad I dont mean fine I mean one rotten bitch.
I think that talking about the situation in order to expose the behavior is worthwhile. No, you can't change their minds, but by exposing the stupidity, the nice guys can know that the women are the one with a problem, not them. That will enable the nice guys to move on and do their best to bring up their daughters so that the next generation has a chance of not being as stupid as the women we deal with now.
openfist247 4 weeks ago
how the hell is this video unsuitable for minors??!
williamsket 3 months ago
@williamsket To answer your question, I will give you a little bit of the history of this video. When I first uploaded this, there was a "flag war" going on and any videos by black men that had anything to do with black women were getting flagged. Our channels were getting suspended. If a video gets flagged it will go into the "unsuitable for minors" category. If it gets flagged after that, the video is removed and your channel might be suspended. My channel survived the "flag wars."
JunebugObama 3 months ago
@JunebugObama thanks for explaining
williamsket 3 months ago
I think i still have a chance im not washed up i only have 1 child and shy of 30 my childs father is still in picture i live alone and employed im not looking for someone to take care of my child thats a "NICE GUY" but i did make a mistake and learned my lesson No more thugs for me... all guys are diffrent there are "thugs" with a job and live on their own, wear belts and have no kids and will treat a lady right that's the one some women should look for use birth control! then your good to go
BossyGirlEnt 4 months ago
ONE MORE THING.... i liked the thug because deep down he was a nice guy but the streets ran his life as far as NICE GUYS they cant help who they are attracted to they have to learn for themselves just like i did. im not going to look for a nerd because i dated one bad apple everybody is not the same. men that get women that dont like them hes a grown man eventually he will get it and find someone for him. "JUNEBUG OBAMA" are you bitter? sounds like it!
BossyGirlEnt 4 months ago
I must admit i did date a "thug" with 5 kids 4 diffrent baby mothers some people say dont judge him like him for him i tried that and he was slowly pulling me down i had to get out we have no kids together and im moving on they are a sad story i am disappointed in myself but we all make mistakes.
BossyGirlEnt 4 months ago
10:00 Why Couldn't She Be A Dark Skinned Woman? It Seems Like Men Put Light Skinned Woman Before Dark Skinned Woman All The Time Smh
NaDaShE 4 months ago
@NaDaShE I like black women of all shades (dark and light) however it is a lot harder to find pics of dark skinned models.
JunebugObama 3 months ago
@JunebugObama Ok, if we are going to keep it 100%, let's keep it 100%. Black women of all ages go for thugs. I see it all the time where I live and where I travel to. You have corporate black women who defend thugs and all kinds of nigga shit. Now as for white women liking jerks, we all know usually after they hit 30 they look for a good man. However, TOO many black women want thugs well into 60 and will cosign nigga shit till they are well over 70. White women usually upgrade! Not generalizing.
YababaVideo 3 months ago
@YababaVideo Man I totally agree with you. I'm in the military and stationed in a small town where you see nothing but the thugs getting these women. At first I listened to Junebug's advice but it does not seem to work for me. I'm not a nerd or corny acting. I just don't carry myself like these thugs do. The only women that do give me any time of day are the ones that the thugs don't want.
southboy99 2 months ago
@southboy99 Exactly!
thuglifegreg24 4 weeks ago in playlist Black Women and THUGS!
@NaDaShE I like em black as coffee; black as oil.LOL Light skinned sistas are pretty too but that dark skin is so beautiful.
BarbarianLion 1 week ago
Which is why date outside of my race, i am with a woman from Asia and I am very happy
erictbrown1 5 months ago
"Mike Mike" lmao!!!!!
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Women's # 1 complaint about men in the dating scene:
FAKE BAD BOYS.
They want the REAL THING. Next time you are at a bookstore take a look at the romance novels (female porn). They're all about gangstas, thugs, borderline sociopaths, tyrants, etc. Sure these are fantasies but this is what women respond to. Period.
sieracki001 7 months ago
Women's # 1 complaint about men in the dating scene:
FAKE BAD BOYS.
They want the REAL THING. Next time you are at a bookstore take a look at the ronance novels (female porn). They're all about gangstas, thugs, borderline sociopaths, tyrants, etc. Sure these are fantasies but this is what women respond to. Period.
sieracki001 7 months ago 2
@sieracki001 That's american/americanized women for you. Things are so backward and twisted in US society.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
Mike, Mike,...LOL!
anthony15926 8 months ago
That's why I'm a gem now and it's all about me and if a woman want me well show me and earn me. That's me mentality.
jatamode 8 months ago
Why don't you just simplify this shit for us all by saying WOMEN ARE STUPID!!
kltiswhoib 9 months ago 2
@kltiswhoib He said "not driven by logic" meaning they are stupid. Point made right there.
kltiswhoib 9 months ago
These vids are funny as hell and you're a trip man, but there's one thing I can't agree with you on. While men may have a primal attraction to certain things there's a difference between that and the mental attraction women have for thugs. Its 100% plausible to think that people shouldn't be attracted to certain mentalities and that is something they can change. Now you'll never make me think these women are ugly, but you'll never make me think the finest deadbeat is worth dating either.
raventakayama 10 months ago
Where did you get most of the pics of these women? Off junk in the trunk website? LOL
lauvamojada 11 months ago
Alot of brothas who turned to this video did it just to look at the fine women. Don't hate cause you know its true. I mean come on man why you showing all these hot women it's distracting. I'm like god damn what does these honies have to do with your rant lol.... Sometimes im not even paying attention to what your saying real talk. This video is more like your average rap video not paying attention to the rapper or lyrics jus more focused on tha ass... No diss
smoothness1000 11 months ago 2
niggas cry about black women but are gluttons for punishment
DoomCity202 11 months ago
Good video man...Im 26 now and have been through so much with women all through my last year of high school up until College Graduation. Something I notice is that I'm a successful black man whose self sufficient and hard working. Females have a motherly instinct instilled in them since birth and because of that most females out here tend to be attracted to men who need nurturing (i.e. thugs or broken men) neither one of which I am. I started focusing on myself and the good ones show up #Thought
Handsome85 11 months ago 2
Brother you speak the TRUTH! I can totally relate to this. Very intelligent and informative. Keep up the good work.
goscott2 11 months ago 3
@goscott2 Thanks, I appreciate your feedback and if you have time check out parts 2 and 3.
JunebugObama 11 months ago
@JunebugObama Now I watched the whole series you did make alot of great points. But when you used Stacey Dash and a thug as examples of not changing an attraction for men and women, it was kind of invalid. Stacey Dash's physical stature attracts men, not her personality traits. I would smash Dash in a sec, but I don't know how she is as a person lol Being a "thug" is a characteristic, a personality trait that women are attracted to. You get what I'm saying?
Africanslick 10 months ago
@Africanslick I think it is a fair comparison because most men place way more value on physical attractiveness than women do and women place way more value on personality, masculinity, income, popularity,etc. The fact that you would smash Stacey Dash in a sec is proof of this. Most women are not going to smash a man in a sec based on looks alone. She has to first know what type of personality he has (or what level of success he has achieved) before she makes a sexual decision.
JunebugObama 10 months ago
@JunebugObama When you expalin that way it is a little bit more clear. Its still a god point for me I couldn't add the dots together because Stacey Dash=physical attractiveness and thug=dominant personality. I guess if you meant it as an example of what men like in women, and what women like in men, vice versa. If you mean it that way then I have an idea of the point you were trying to get across.
Africanslick 10 months ago
im 23 yrs old in college and i feel like women go through the same thing. Guys pick females that are superfical and the dudes know that but they continue to give the girl a chance. Its not fair. So the guys believe you are not alone, because every woman or girl is not like that.
xugrl2010 1 year ago
They are just whores and are gonna be fat later, not just black girls but white, hispanic, and asian too.
410Libra 1 year ago 4
this is a great dispartity in the black community...women decide who they actually mate with. great vid......
wakeen01 1 year ago
Great video tell the truth man
tyboy0735 1 year ago
Screw dem b*tches. I resent some of them because they r mean and make some bruthas do whatever they do. I know bruthas do the same but I am a man and these mean type women like to stir up alot of crap and then laugh at it like the toilet poop that they r like laquita-crackhead virus cunt-haha-she has no future-b*tch-I'm still standing!-lol!-lelia-that buckroe big booty stinky hoe and her lesbian lover crew!, shit-kara from phoebus high school+the club intrigue whores -haha-they missed out!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
Like 4 instance, I had greeted what I thought were ladies and these bitches from decatur, georgia say I don't know u, a bunch of ignorant dumbomumbojumbo, and say I don't want to talk to u so i say the same-lol!-witchwhores!-lol! then later on I pass them and 1 says keep on walking bitch?and I have to defend myself against this hoe so I cuss back as she says this time keep walking u f'n b@#$* so i say the thing back to this ghetto trailer trash low class hoe! and I yeel'd out beee-otch!-lol!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
I am glad to see something posted about this topic but f*@k those ignorant hoodrat heffers 4 rejecting me unanimously 4 a majority of my life and 4 making go to the street. Btches!!! Those bitches can eat shit, die, and wake up in hell! those bitches!!!bitches!!!-lol!. The chicks that do appreciate me are outside of my race! and some sistas too. Some of the sistas like me but when I be my self those winches fake the funk !-veneral vanessa-that hooters jonesboro georgia ginger hoe!!!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
I am glad to see something posted about this topic but f*@k those ignorant hoodrat heffers 4 rejecting me unanimously 4 a majority of my life and 4 making go to the street. Btches!!! Those bitches can eat shit, die, and wake up in hell! those bitches!!!bitches!!!-lol!. The chicks that do appreciate me are outside of my race! and some sistas too. Some of the sistas like me but when I be my self those winches fake the funk !-veneral vanessa-that hooters jonesboro georgia ginger hoe!!!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
1500 to 1950's Blacks were not allowed to be educated. It took the fukn National Guard to get us into school. Today, BW minimize and reduce and feminize BM if they choose to educate themselves and carry books. Black people are fukn pathetic!
MaxwellPayne84 1 year ago
good vids bruh..
DuAnEXaVieR1 1 year ago
what they look good.
jumpingonglass 1 year ago
You're preaching to the choir here. That's been the story of my entire life. I spent most of my adult life getting a career and an education and couldn't buy a date with all the tea in China. The ladies flocked to me for the roses, the dinner dates, and all the attention; only to run to get some from Big Ray from around the block. I'm not built to be abusive to women or wear jeans sagging of my ass. So the hunt continues...
ratesforless 1 year ago 5
Every since i came homw from Prison all i want is a thug nigguh
CyclopsThugLovin 1 year ago
Dude, there are a lot of smoking hot women in your videos......
lagosbay 1 year ago
Too all the Black Women who don't like what he had to say, i'm moving to D.C. and will be out looking for a good black woman to have as my partner. If you decide that i'm not street enough for you, then you will be proving him right.
jamesdh76 1 year ago 4
@Asiaj2006 Lady it's not about hating black women, it's about black women dating shit heads, low lives, and dirt bags, and dissn good black men.. DISSING GOOD BLACK MEN IS HIS POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jamesdh76 1 year ago 2
If you take a woman long term but have never experienced her at her PEAK, you are selling yourself short. Don't let some other guy have memories of her at her hottest. Grow old with a woman that you remember at her prime. Don't settle with a woman you never knew her at her sexiest.
klined 1 year ago 3
Amen Brotha! You really hit the nail on the head with this video.I couldn't of said it better myself.
kbwarrioir247 1 year ago
most black women in their teens and 20s want alpha males that will fuck them silly, so if you don't show characteristics of an alpha male then your not going to get with them. Unfortunately, I listened to my mom when she said "be a gentleman and respect women". Ever since middle school (in college now)beautiful black girls have been dogging me lol. If I could go back in time I'd slap the hell out my mother lmfao.
neouberx 1 year ago 4
@neouberx LMAO!
bRoWn3y3dGuRl17 1 year ago
who wants to marry a thug? they will funk up your house, eat all the food in your fridge, and give you a headache. I'll take a "nice guy" any day.
KollegeGirl13 1 year ago 13
@KollegeGirl13 oh u know that thug huh!
kambridge967 1 year ago
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@kambridge967 Not from my own personal experience. I have friends who like thugs.
KollegeGirl13 1 year ago
@KollegeGirl13 lol bet you a washed up , over-used cum rag with cellulite now wanting a meek daddy takin care of your 12 kids.
hendsem 4 months ago
@hendsem I assume your a thug huh? loser!
LaurenRenee0813x 3 months ago
@LaurenRenee0813x truth hurts huh cum-rag? found your door mat of a husband to take care of his bastard child yet? lol
hendsem 3 months ago
@hendsem ok first of all i'm 21 young black woman and in college getting my degree with no kids and plus my parents went to college. I assume your a person who stays on there computer all day and talks shit over the internet. Please grow up and get a life.
LaurenRenee0813x 3 months ago
@LaurenRenee0813x and i am an astronaut in NASA. hahahahahaa whatever you say here doesnt certify anything. and if you thought your saying so makes any difference , get a brain !! ahaha obviously an overused cum-rag. now at least go back to the kitchen , your fatherless baby bastards are hungry.
hendsem 3 months ago
@LaurenRenee0813x P.S. , people who goes to college could differentiate between "their" and "there". hahaha who you fooling , you stupid woman.
hendsem 3 months ago
@hendsem Seriously your so sad it's not even funny! You troll all day just cause you don't like someone's opinion? wow! Pathetic! Sad! I hope you get help cause if you don't your gonna be lonely one day. Or maybe it's too late. #Done have a nice life you bitch ass loser! ;)
LaurenRenee0813x 3 months ago
@LaurenRenee0813x rofl. and yet you kept coming back to reply my trolling. truth hurts huh? i guess lol . now go back to your trickin' cuz your black baby needs some white milk :)
hendsem 3 months ago
@LaurenRenee0813x LOL what you still doin here?! get back to trickin you silly woman. your black baby needs white milk lol
hendsem 3 months ago
This is why black men go for women of other races, because they mature in their 20's and realize they want to marry a good man, while it takes black women til their 30's, 40's, and sometimes even 50's to realize that they fucked their lives up and try to run back to the good black man that they passed up. But now the good black man dont want them because we werent good enough when u looked good, now u ain't good enough now that u look like a fat heap of shit with many kids.
waltjrhurd 1 year ago 12
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So true. But the difference is that while the sistas can freely date folks of other races, it's deeply frowned upon when a black men does it. I say go for the woman who wants and appreciates you for who you are and not just because you're a more responsible guy than the lowlives they've been banging since they were 19. What's the use of getting a degree and a career, only to get a woman who's past her sexual prime because she spent it getting knocked up by Big Ray?
ratesforless 1 year ago 2
LMBAO @ fat heap of shit. BW are fukd in the game son.
MaxwellPayne84 1 year ago
@waltjrhurd Hey it's true. The truth hurts like DDT on the concerte.
jatamode 8 months ago
@waltjrhurd Those are the same ones who pollute the radio and TV with their black men bashing...especially if he dates other races. That's one major hypocrisy that I seldom see being pointed out. They go on about black men being self hating if he is in an interracial romance and yet they OPENLY bash and blame black men for many of their own damn faults. Anyone with sense can see who the hater truly is.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
@waltjrhurd Preach!
BarbarianLion 1 week ago
When women r in their 30's;their stocks start dropping when they get older
gemini19662010 1 year ago 2
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BW will go to bed with a complete stranger rather than going on a date with a nice guy
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gemini19662010 1 year ago
im not talking about all women just most women because some know the deal but its hard to find them cause its not many of them and they are not out on the prowl but you dont just find the others in the hood they are in all walks of life 'nurses, lawyers, teachers,home care givers,judges,walmart at night, church, most times they live double lives the only ones that will comment on this in a negative way is the guilty. peace!
jimmyg8884 1 year ago
obama this has been going on since the fall in the garden eve followed satan and adam followed eve its the same today men get mad at her the way she is about sex and cheating on him when he still gives her the power by swelling her head with how good she looks and how good and big her butt is men feed her vanity to much some times it back fires on her remember we,re livin in the whore of babylon men shoudnt be suprised about this and her daughters will be like her in every walk of life
jimmyg8884 1 year ago
mookey lol
surshot56 1 year ago
real talk thanks for this vid. im a young brother goin through some of this stuff
lilgogohead 1 year ago
I agree...
I definatley see what you are talking about...
TheKnowledge4ya 1 year ago
Good video if you are a young black man that is on the right path and these chicken heads dont want to be with you , the hell with em, there are plenty of other women in the world.
mottopower4250 1 year ago
Damn JB...this is like the story of my life. It's not just black women who do this fo real, it's all kinds of girls/women man! Hence why I need to do more material on this to let good-hearted and strong-willed men know that they aren't alone.
davesqueakywheels 1 year ago
I love your messages but i gotta say Nelly is not a thug most rappers are not thug like naturaly it's just an image that hip hop has adopted these days... some of these rappers are actually nice i aint sayin all of em but some. Keep on doing what you do thought xD
ilikethewordrandom 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Do women only go for attractive men?
MrAdidasInBlack 1 year ago
instead of Steve or Bob she going with mookey ray ray pimp juice or trick daddy. LOL DAMN
surshot56 1 year ago
this is real!
super9964 1 year ago
That is why black women's net worth is "0" at age 35!
vblyden 1 year ago 5
@vblyden what?
ndc18 1 year ago
@vblyden It's just like the stock market
gemini19662010 1 year ago
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So the women who didn't want me before and are all used up now, will want me when i can take care of them? no dice.
Sorry that was partially uncalled for.
In my case I learned early on how to identify a girl's intent... by age 14 actually. My frustration wasn't what they do but how and why... so damn predictable. They thought their looks always override my brain. lol
OniNoFro 1 year ago
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OniNoFro 1 year ago
most women are dirt that dont know how to act, world is turning to crap and women are a part of it :(
antdez1 1 year ago
(It some fucked up shit in my last post)Look. If you want a good woman in the real world then stop worrying about the women that live in the fantasy world. If you want some dolled up dime piece and your no rich your out of luck, think about it why would a normal women (real women) dress like that and live like that just to be a middle class housewife? shit are you for real? So stop ignoring the cute girl at the store or burger king and say hi. Dumb ass
RUDEKAIXER 1 year ago 2
If you want a hot woman. 1st you have to understand women and he's right don't chase the ones that bums or ones that chase money and don't chase fantasies. So if that doesn't help, its not them its you
RUDEKAIXER 1 year ago
This is my first time watching some of your videos. I do have to give credit where credit is due that you are an intelligent man. Some of the information you give(even though you are speaking to men on this one)can also apply to women as well when it comes to dating. You have some guys that will pass up the good girl or the good woman to mess with the hootchie mama. Trust me I know. The only difference is that I'm probably one of the FEW women that could care less.
SoSeductive1981 1 year ago 4
@SoSeductive1981 Thanks, and I agree it works both ways for both genders. Men will go for the Hoochie Momma because she may have a nice body and be willing to give it up quick. I touch on this a little bit towards the end of my video on George Sodini.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
yeah most woman love pain-my best friend cheated on his girl with multiple girls called her a bitch, hit her all types of shit but she loved him its funny how females like that shit forreal race doesn't matter it happens with whites, blacks, some asians woman love to be treated like dog shit -
Alta626 1 year ago
thank u for telling the truth
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tyboy0735 1 year ago
a gun to my head couldn't convince me that Stacey Dash is not fine!
msj340 1 year ago 3
I think it is funny how women want thugs. Cause as a black woman a lot of thugs be gay. I even have the website on my channel. Just click on it. And no it is not just porn. These dudes in the videos look just like the dudes that these bw be lusting over. Then they say the nice dudes are too nice. But whatever. Good video.
gmcmim1 1 year ago
LMFAO!!!! WHY DO U THINK BLACK MEN FAVOR WHITE WOMEN? CAUSE THE BLACK WOMEN THROW THEMSELVES AT THESE THUGS AT THE BOATLOADS. I AGREE THAT WHEN THEY WANT A REAL MAN IT IS TOO LATE THEN THEY WONDER WHERE ALL THE GOOD BLACK GUYS R . i am black young and prefer white women, cause they are not so polluted mentally and seek relationships that are actually worth it. it is the same 4 many black men
shazzaforeverthabest 1 year ago 2
JunebugObama, it's not that were trying to change the way black women think. Or trying to change what they think is attractive. It just seems that black women as a whole love thugs and assholes. This is why some of us have to change who we are. A thug will get more pussy than an educated guy with a future. It's a proven fact lol.
southboy99 1 year ago
@southboy99 You are exactly right, southboy99. People may not want to admit it, but the thugs/dopeboys got everything on lock. Don't get me wrong. I can get a black woman, but she just may not be super fine like the ones the thugs have. The good guys have to settle for whatever is left over or change their style up. The other fine black women who don't want thugs set their standards extremely too high, so it's hell either way for a good black man.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
@thuglifegreg24 This is why so many regular guys become fake thugs. You never hear a thug complain about not getting women do you? Hell no. And your right. The black women that don't want thugs have their standards just a little too high and many are not realistic. But for brothas like me, thank god for white women lol. You can find some bad ass white women that appreciate good black men. Trust me.
southboy99 1 year ago
@southboy99 You're right! It's a lot of guys out there pretending to be something that they're not. A lot of these guys are weak as hell, but portray the image of a thug. This includes these rappers as well as other guys. However, since black women love it and approve of it, guys continue to do it. Yeah, it is some sexy white women out there, but the bad part for me is that I'm more attracted to black women. Black women just run too many games for me though.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
@southboy99 Have you ever dated a black women?
ndc18 1 year ago
@ndc18 I tried in the past when they did'nt want me. But now i'm hot they all on me with their fat wore out asses. They did'nt want me when they was young and fine.
southboy99 1 year ago
@southboy99 So very true!!
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
@thuglifegreg24 yea u right,thugs be playing this girls and they still act like a sad puppy running back to the thugs that played them,where im from i know some of my boys got like 5 girls and all of the probably think he loves just them lol,funny as shit,but when i seen the same girls wit nicer dudes they cheat on them ,come with excuses why they did like u wasnt holding me n bullshit like that,afraid to jus admit dat they r fucked up in the head,might as well be prostitutes,got the pimp
freeloaderking 1 year ago
@thuglifegreg24 Yep I agree. It's so fuckin hard being a black man in america. If you act thuggish, you can't get a job. If your educated, your own race gives you a hard time. The black women don't want to date you because they think you aren't BLACK ENOUGH. And on top of all that, white people still hate us.
ndc18 1 year ago 4
@ndc18 Thanks man. I agree with you, too.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
yea women who like thugs are immature and dont know what they want,then later on be complaining and crying how ole boy treated them,no shit lol look who you wit,i think some girls just too bored with their lives that they need drama too mantain everyday,dumbasses,feel sorry for them,be the first ones saying they're aint no good men out there,they are right in front of you,you just aint checking for them,trying to be have some type of rep by being wit a thug,you just a side joint ,
freeloaderking 1 year ago 3
@freeloaderking True. The thugs don't even really be caring bout them like that, yet they still are crazy about them. The thugs laugh among themselves about how bad they dog them out, but these silly ass black women still run back to them every time. It's almost like you have to hate black women in order for them to like you.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
@thuglifegreg24 Sadly enough, that's how it is sometimes. In order for black women to like you, you have to dawg them out. I had a friend back in highschool that used to treat all of his women like shit. And yes, these were all black females. These women would be down for this dude harder than any female I ever dated. True story but sad.
southboy99 1 year ago
@southboy99 Yeah, you're right! You have no choice but to dawg black women out these days or they won't respect you at all. I like hip hop n all, but it is part the problem because it has changed everybody's mindset. Think about it. You didn't see women in the 70's or 80's talking about swag and wanting a thug. The music has made these muthafuckers crazy. The game changed some where between the late 80's and early 90's. Now, black women are damn near impossible to approach unless you're a thug.
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago 6
Isnt Snoop a fake thug though?
shaie74447 1 year ago
Well said. You are speaking the truth! Solid truth. Sadly, June bug Obama ,these 40 - 50 year old.. thug lovers are still out there ...still rolling stupid. They are still stuck in the stupid mode.
txm7721 1 year ago 7
@txm7721 The ones who don't grow out of the "thug fetish" are completely lost. There is no hope for them.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 11
@JunebugObama Yep,like Vivica Fox
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gemini19662010 1 year ago
@txm7721 There's no hope for them
gemini19662010 1 year ago
@txm7721 i agree man
tyboy0735 10 months ago
yea i feel you; young black women even some women in mid twenties like thugs,its just the swagger of a badboy to them and their morals are messed up,A nice black dude can give dem money for months and they will still treat the nice dude like a back up and go running to some fake thug that dont give a damn about them;but they will learn the hard way when nobody aint lookin at them no more.
freeloaderking 1 year ago
@freeloaderking I had it bad for this one female that used to let herself get treated like trash by this one guy. This is when I was 25. But now that i'm 37 she calls me and tells me how good I was to her and shit like that. Now she's the one trying to get serious with me. But now she has two kids by that same guy, she is fat as hell, and looks worn the hell out. I'll pass. Now that i'm dating a white woman she has the nerve to tell me I can do better LMAO!!! I am doing better.
southboy99 1 year ago
@freeloaderking Try all the way up until their thirties they like thugs
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
lol Gonna watch this whole series.
Kalyx 1 year ago
Great points, enjoyed listening.
NappyGurl81 1 year ago
Junebug, love this video. I never commented on this one all this time since I joined but you are preaching to the men church. Too many BF bashers it's laughable with their trying to convincing them to change but you are right never waste time with thug lovers and find those women with less drama and the male church say Amen
21sttnmemphis 1 year ago
@21sttnmemphis Thanks...I was just trying to get these guys to realize that you can't rationalize with irrational people. If a woman is an extreme thug lover, then leave her be. She will find out for herself the error of her ways.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 4
@21sttnmemphis For some of us it's easier said than done when trying to find the black women that DON'T want thugs. Me being in the Army, most of the women come from the projects. Damn near all Army bases are in the worst parts of the US. I probably won't find a decent black woman until I retire and move to a real city.
southboy99 1 year ago
black women are too emotional too date anybody because they feel that their big booties should give them a free lunch, but their mouths be cashing checks that their banks cant handle. They need to take a deep breathe sometimes and quit blowing up raising the roof with all those hair extensions and just listen to a man for a change because if they keep listening to these thugs, they aint gonna be doin nothin but driving busses for the rest of their lives
jcextra 1 year ago
I'm into good guys.
sarena12 1 year ago
@nainaturalbeauty Stay awat from thugs. They love preying on decent women. Find a guy who stands out from the crowd(ie; speaks well, has his own style, treats you well). Look around you, there are so many reasons for you not to date thus.
lemmieatit 1 year ago 3
Ur so right I was like this in teens and early 20s AND Enough is ENOUGH!! Im just happy I didnt have any kids w/ any of those A**holes I dont kno wtf I was thinking!!!! 5 STARS ***** or thumbs up^ Whateva!!! lol
KellyGreene08 1 year ago
it seem to be a cycle. the girl will take the money from bob or steve, and hang with them soley for the person of getting more money. then she gets googly eyed over mooki who then takes her money. and mooki will take that money and either will spend it on nothing productive or another woman.
Raphael2885 1 year ago
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priscille123 1 year ago
the biggest BS excuse I've heard from females to defend their infatuation with thugs is "i want to feel protected" .."i want masculinity"
that argument makes no sense!! why not? Because a dude doesnt have to be a criminal or thug, to display that he can
handle "masculine" duties...and being a thug doesnt make you "manly"...wdf? I guess participating in illegal activities
is the only way to prove ur a real man, and things like actually raising ur children and doing handy man work arent? lol
MacTownGaKuntryBOY 1 year ago 3
@MacTownGaKuntryBOY
This man speaks the truth.
Meta4ce 1 year ago
wow, you're really good my brother. Thanks for this video, Im 21 years old and I knw exactly whats going on wit our black women wanting to date thugs or crazy dudes. A perfect vid. I would give it 5 stars but I guess I'll click this thumbs up arrow. Peace.
7thpowerable 1 year ago 2
@7thpowerable Thank you for your feedback and I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
i am a young women of color and i cant find a good man! im 19 and all i attract is thugs....i hate thugs, what about me?
nainaturalbeauty 1 year ago 2
@nainaturalbeauty hi I'm 7thpowerable, how are you?
7thpowerable 1 year ago
@nainaturalbeauty im right here
gemini19662010 1 year ago
I am one that hates categorizing himself but I guess I'm considered a "nice guy". But I'm an around the way strong black man wit goals. I got many friends i grew up wit that are locked up, multiple bab moms etc..I dont want that... Im far from a pushover but its only black and white with black women they dont believe a dude like me exist. Your either soft or the thuggish of all. Believe it or not there is a medium but you gota be able to recognize it when you see it.
lumpkins24 1 year ago
@lumpkins24, being focused and having goals is far more important than getting women. Long term, you will reap the rewards (and have more relationship and sexual options).
Even though I did these videos, I have encountered some women who think only in terms of "black or white" and they are better left alone. There is a medium but it takes a woman with some intelligence, class, and humility to recognize it. Be sure to watch my video called, "Does Her Sexual Past Matter?"
Peace,
JBO
JunebugObama 1 year ago
The same can be said about Black men. They want the girl who has her chest and butt hanging out everywhere, they want the girl that will sleep with them only hours after meeting them. If you are not that girl they don't want to talk to you. If you respect yourself and don't act like the status quo they call you stuck up. If you act like a classy lady they say you think u r too good. So there are alot of attractive, classy, blk women out there, but guys seem to overlook them. It goes both ways.
theburg727 1 year ago
Also women are not setting standards these days. They will get with any ol body. No job, felon, baby mama drama...they don't care. So because women are not setting a standard you get women who date these thugs. If men knew that women wouldn't get with them if they acted like thugs...the men wouldn't act that way. Women set the standard ... unfortunately many don't have any standards. But don't put all Blk women in that category. I always looked for intelligent, ambitious gentlemen..NOT THUGS!
theburg727 1 year ago
I don't know where guys are meeting these women that like thugs. I NEVER liked guys that acted like a thug. I was NEVER attracted to that. Gold teeth are not sexy. I always like guys who were about something. Guys who had ambition other than cutting a rap album. Maybe it was because I had a wonderful dad who showed me what a good man was. Maybe guys are just picking the wrong women. I think guys are looking for the video girl and the video girl is looking for the next rap star.
theburg727 1 year ago
True that's the type of guys, as you say Pookie
RayRay and Big Mike.Older black women will
not be doing this, and younger black women
seems that's just the thing as they take a piss
and sit on the toilet and you can smell the hum
they have no hygeine so baby wipes get wiped
instead of toilet paper. JunebugObama could you
tell Why black women don't have good hygeine
if hygeine is an issue to some of yall Youtube users.
BigHRD2 1 year ago
This is why i come negatively at Black women. They like it! They like thuggish bad boys.
gulmoh 1 year ago
black women you know you love thugs dont you deny "uh uh not all just some" thats what all the black girls love to say they just chronic liars and deniar's just because these black girls come on youtube cause you know they will saying "not me none of my friends I dont no nobody that like thugs" thats a lie b/c at the end of the day black women aren't trained to take responsibility for there own actions because its pretty obvisous they like the wrong types of men they always complaining
Washanen07 1 year ago
yeah im a nice guy & i can't stop the flow of females that come 2 me...i got a line at my door...too bad tho..all dey want is a provider & im straight i don't do charity...lol
carbin15 1 year ago 3
Good advice. We do want the type of women we see in the videos or on the cover of King, XXL. I also agree that when women get older they do change there tune and seek out the nerd especially if dude is secure, stable and little to no drama, but when she was in her late teens, twenties, she wanted the Thug
11966ericp 1 year ago
So basically, Thugs are sexy and Good Guys are ugly? No matter what they look like?
southboy99 2 years ago
To make the long story short. If you really want to attract women. You need to adapt and overcome. If you can't beat them, join them. If Ray Ray and Big Mike are getting all the puzzy. Then maybe it's time to borrow their playbook. Even if it means changing your uniform from a nice shirt and slacks, to some baggy jeans and a throwback.
southboy99 2 years ago
i drink liquor it makes me believe i can get women
MrBigfreaky 2 years ago
its kinda like how the nice guys are attracted to "the bad bitch" or the "ho" cause she looks good even though she's a maneater. lol its basically the same on both sides.
nanas707 2 years ago
men are not telling women to like ugly men just just pick the john legend over the plies type once in awhile
jambuc828 2 years ago
Can I ask a question: do you think that this is one of the reasons why a lot of successful black men start to date outside of their race more? That some of the nice black men cannot find a nice black woman so they start to go outside of the race?
bdwriley 2 years ago 5
This is why some successful black men pursue other races and cultures. Some of the other races are not looking for extreme thuggishness the way some black women are. I want to make it clear that I said SOME not all.
Be sure to listen to part 3 towards the end where I talk about women of other cultures and how they respond.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
i think girls that like thugs are encouraging bad behavior what these lil boys gonna think when they see these females lusting over niggas who have an extensive rapsheet
emmettmays85 1 year ago 2
@bdwriley
That is exactly why. Black women will overlook or pass up the a brother that is trying to be successful and has goals. By the time that brother goes to college, the only women showing him any love are the white girls. Black women don't want a good successful black man until they are 30-35. But by that time most of the good black men already gotten snatched up by these white women. But why would a good, successful black man want a used up black woman with kids and baggage?
southboy99 2 years ago 6
he always comes up with good topics and discuss them accordingly instead of vearing off (10*)
jumpmanth50 2 years ago
Who wants to marry a ho?
Dakdizzy 2 years ago 22
@Dakdizzy NOT ME!!!!!!!!
gemini19662010 1 year ago
Or had sex with like 758954787487474987458787634090484904 men in their life...
Or has done everything sexually that most of us would be considered a taboo (i.e 3 sums, bustos, anal, a2m, rimming etc )...You get my drift...
Ladies how can you expect a guy to "wife you up" if you aren't "wholesome" yourself?
keepthapinit 2 years ago
image how many dicks she had before you. That would change my mind.
Dakdizzy 2 years ago 7
Damn sounds like this chick who to date...She has been with at least 50 dudes, and she said that they preyed on her when she was younger...
My interest level dropped big time...We still cool though lol
keepthapinit 2 years ago
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illmatic826 2 years ago
Look at the marriges back then when your grandparents were younger they still married right but look at todays marriges the divorce rate is higher than ever, now im no sexist but these women today done forgot how to be in a womans place, And as far as all of this "hip-hop degrades black women" mess, how is it "degrading" when they shaking they ass on camera in front of everybody please people dont let oprah man hating ass fool you please.
could somebody tell me something please
illmatic
illmatic826 2 years ago 3
Just like too $hort said " she can care less about a real man all she wants is a man with a meal plan pick her up in a Benz and hope she get to eat everyday its halloween ho trick or treat" But seriously fellas im just going to just flat out tell you black women just crazy it aint no use to help or save any of em, Now dont get me wrong its a few good ones out there but they HARD to find because why, the bad ones always in your face, now when I say bad I dont mean fine I mean one rotten bitch.
illmatic826 2 years ago