DID Alters Introduction

[andrewgtaylor1]

Amazing guys! so so impressed! You guys keep working it! You be the family that you always needed and keep loving each other. You are inspirational. I loved the pictures of both boys and girls.. We have boys and girls in our system too. BE yourself. accept NO (ZERO) compromises!

[manyinone1]

Good video. We may do this with our system so our 'friends' can see who 'we' are. :) hope you are well.

[ThiadTobias]

@manyinone1 It is nice to be able to be who you are with friends. We are not really able to show them the real us. Only the ones really close to us. It ain't easy to life among those who don't believe in DID. For the circumstances we're doing fine. Hope you well as well. Take care Fiynbar

[MsBwaaah]

my mother and i are both diagnosed with d.i.d, what the hell is wrong with us. were just normal people.

[ThiadTobias]

@MsBwaaah Indeed we all are just normal people. Nothing wrong with natures own way to protect the brain and soul of any harmful thing.

Be strong and Take care , Tobias.

[mosaixify]

good video guys. thanks for sharing

[Myfriendismultiple]

Also a bit concerned about someone being a Dad figure with your little ones. Imparitive that everyone is safe. Are all the adult personalities happy with this man. Can you write asking what others feel about it and they can write back to you about it. Please be carefull and stay safe.

[ThiadTobias]

@Myfriendismultiple --- Thanks for being thoughtful. I really like my dad, and I am not little. We have a book to write thoughts feelings opinions in to communicate. He is two year older than the body and he is friend of Fiynbar. Still we will be careful, and try to stay safe. You be safe as well. Tobias

[mosaixify]

@Myfriendismultiple I'm curious why you found someone being a dad figure to the littles concerning?

[Myfriendismultiple]

@mosaixify Thanks for the question. I was concerned on a safety level not knowing if older personalities were also in contact with the Dad figure. That is why I asked if they could communicate with each other and know that everybody concerned is happy with the relationship. I'm sorry if I offended anybody it was not my intention and anybody who is a genuine Father or Mother figure to the littles is an asset to their healing.

[mosaixify]

@Myfriendismultiple - not at all offended, just wondered. Nice of you to think about that :)

[ThiadTobias]

@mosaixify and @Myfriendismultiple - It is not offended indeed, and very nice to consider safety of others. Tobias

[itbbe]

Evanecence helped me soooo much through this. x_X this hits home, deeply. thank you.

[ThiadTobias]

@itbbe I agree there Songs do help. Take care Tobias

[LadyMultiple]

Thank you to all who helped make this movie, it was beautiful and well put to gether and it brought a tear to our eyes stay safe and take care of your selves :)

-The Out 5

[ThiadTobias]

@LadyMultiple  Thank you! Take care and stay safe as well

[FirefliesMulti]

Wow thank you. We believe in you :) (Warrior Princess, primary personality)

[ThiadTobias]

@FirefliesMulti  Believe in one other is important, thank you therefore!

[FirefliesMulti]

@ThiadTobias There is this really cute song that my littles love sang by Robin the frog of the Muppets and Bernadette Peters. It's titled something like "if just one person believes in you" Look it up. I think you will love it.

(Warrior Princess, Primary personality of Fireflies)

[ThiadTobias]

@FirefliesMulti That is a nice song, Thanx for sharing with us!

Icarus likes Elmo's song.

We all like Fivel (Fivels little song, some where out there and never say never). I do like the Bare Necessities.

Take care, Tobias

[FirefliesMulti]

@ThiadTobias I lik Coni Talbot an Hi five as wel as mupets! (Elsie)

[ThiadTobias]

@FirefliesMulti Talbot I like as well, the others I will look up. The mupets I dont know wel.

[AndThenSome1174]

Thanks so much for making this and sharing it with us, Tobias. Beautifully done! ~M & Co.

[ThiadTobias]

@AndThenSome1174 Thank you. Appreciate the supportive words. Take care Tobias

[lmollot]

@triptoheaveandho have you read the book iroquois women-w spittal by native women-its all in there how children were protected- also youtube dakota women -enjoy- h.i.c. recommends that religious corporations transfer their land titles to womens farm collectives- how dare they!!? ! LOL and wow -lets ask our local churches- like obama says - we can do it- maybe an int l petition or political party for fun? begentle with yourself-keep in touch

[lmollot]

assaulters will always call victims liars- thats their legal defence from being locked up-heres hope--TAKE ACTION /WHY Abused woomen still support patriarchy -coupleup- go to religious or spiritual distractions- so women wont have to ACT and build their OWN territories

- much hope and how to comes from IROQUOIS WOMEN and the book shows how prevention of child abuse can be organized and exist

by imitating women who owned their longhouses and lands-

any one willing to ACT?

[triptoheaveandho]

@lmollot this sounds very interesting!

[lmollot]

i must be so well repressed- i function normal-but i avoid stress such as jobs-i get bored- i try different styles of roles- but hospital records show at 13 mos old i was operated on for venereal infection and had blood transfusion for infected blood-its my aunt who insisted i go to hospital after she changed my diaper and saw- only remember a recurrent dream as baby where my mother head is spinning and she s crying-was that a memory of being put under bfore surgery?father sexabuse me/sis later

[ThiadTobias]

@lmollot The mind creates it way to survive. The outside can look totally normal, while the inside fades away. The past can't be changed, we can only focus on creating a future.We can't see as brightly if the past still follows us. Jet making closure isn't easy done as said.

If you want someone to talk to, just let me know.

Take care,

Tobias

[triptoheaveandho]

@lmollot oh i am sorry

child abuse is the most horrific crime and if there was a hell to go to i wish them all to be sent there

may you find the help you need

[triptoheaveandho]

i am noit sure what you mean baout finding someone to be" the dad to the little ones'..but be careful who you trust and i wish you all the very best

[ThiadTobias]

@triptoheaveandho Thank you for your concerns.

Thrust has to be earned. After several years I thrust him a bit. He is my friend and slowly he became their father, bit weird perhaps, but life is odd.

[triptoheaveandho]

@ThiadTobias yes it sure is for all of us! and especially if one has to deal with something that is difficult to understand =

blessings on you and hoping you will from now forward be safe and at peace

[ThiadTobias]

@triptoheaveandho Thank you. Difficult to understand and or difficult to accept indeed. For you be save as well.

[sainajubayer]

dat is so touching.....best wishes for u dear..

[ThiadTobias]

@sainajubayer  Thank you. The best wishes for you as well.

[wellthatsnotenough]

Good job on explaining this,be safe,and courageous,I know the media stereotypes DID and it confuses others ,it is NOT like Sybil or United Stes of Tara or anyother hollywood production.

[ThiadTobias]

@wellthatsnotenough Thanks. Lots is confusing indeed. be safe, be strong.

[cheriesmystery]

I was misdiagnosed for many years. My alters are sneaky and I lose time. Losing time is the worst side effect actually. Diagnosed at age 38. Alters switch either suddenly or are proceeded by a bad headache. Hope this helps.

[cheriesmystery]

Thank you, I was diagnosed a year ago with DID. Be well.

[ThiadTobias]

@cheriesmystery be well to, take care.

[multiversedancer]

Thank you so much for the courage you had to make this video! I'm in the works of making mine right now. Many blessings to you and your healing journey. Have you read the book "Waking The Tiger" by Peter Levine?

[ThiadTobias]

@multiversedancer

Thanks for the comment. Good luck with making you vid. I haven't read the book. Where is it about?

Take care Tobias

[multiversedancer]

@ThiadTobias You're welcome <3

It's a mind-body therapy it focuses on the healing of trauma from a very different perspective (physiologically). Just Youtube "Peter Levine" and listen to some of his videos on "Somatic Experiencing". It is literally saving my life.

[Tiggmanning]

Neat video... So glad that you found a new dad. It is so imperative and cruicial to your healing. Way to go! Keep up the good work and don't give up!

[ThiadTobias]

@Tiggmanning

We are also glad to have found him. Healing is difficult. We are survivors and we will manage, we will never give up.

Thanks for the replay

[jennag210]

i have some questions for people who have alters. what is it like when your alter is comming out what happens to you. do you and your alters connect with each other and how?. how does it feel that you dont have ful control of yourself? is there any up sides of having alter? do you get jealous of your alters? thanks

[Orenotter]

Very true. I have one alter who is very bitter and has not yet learned to cooperate. He alone makes life difficult for himself.

[ThiadTobias]

@Orenotter

Indeed. It is sometimes difficult to work together. Not always only for himself, for me it is sometimes also difficult, cause I can't do all by myself.

Take care

[WitchesProductions1]

Wow i was impressed with all the different personalities and all the different ages. Ive been researching DID and i've always wanted to ask some questions to someone with this disorder. You dont have to answer all of these or any of them if you dont want to. But if you dont mind me asking:

1. How old are you?

2. Were these all your personalities or is there more?

3. When did you discover you had so many different people inside of you?

And 4. How long have they been with you?

Nice Vid!

[ThiadTobias]

@WitchesProductions1

Thank you.

Sure do I want to give you some answers.

1. 22

2. more

3. I didn't discover, some one else did. He tried to tell me but in first I did not believe.

4. I can't remember

Tobias

[WitchesProductions1]

@ThiadTobias

Wow awesome thanks for answering!

And i think its so cool that you have so many!

[awesomeastrid]

bravo ya all did a wonderful job, love this song with representatuin, glad ya found someone who understand you all as you are and our expressing Peace Blessings Kudos Astrid and Mosaic gang

[TashaRichardsonFan]

Beautiful:)

[ThiadTobias]

Thank you

[UsInOnE]

great video...such detail in the pictures of each one...i have been trying to do the same with all of my others but just haven't gotten around to it yet. but ya, this video is really great. I can feel the emotions of each one

[ThiadTobias]

Thanks.

It was really hard to find the proper pictures indeed. I haven't found al of them jet.

It is how the are, but jet no one can see them this way, except us.

[Jesusismyfriend2006]

Isn't the song called "My Immortal?" I love it. And the video is sad and touching.

[ThiadTobias]

The song is My Immortal indeed.

The video is (like) my life, sad, but also with a bright side.

[Princess3887]

I can truely identify with your beautiful video. I need to know the name of the song you are playing. Thanks;

I am with you in spirit as you learn to love each other.

[ThiadTobias]

Thank you.

The name of the song is unknown, it a hidden number on the cd Fallen of Evanescence. The original number is 4:33 minutes.

[carolshewolf]

@ThiadTobias God, I love this song! Video was well done Also!

[ThiadTobias]

Thank you

[infinitywon]

Such a beautiful video. I hope you learn to love each other :)

[ThiadTobias]

Thank you very much,

we are learning, but the progress is slow.

[Fiynbar]

Lovely video. Life is a struggle. I wish I could help in some way. The healing progress takes time. I know how you must feel. Take the care of yourselfs.

If you need someone to talk to...

[ThiadTobias]

Thanks. That's very kind of you.

School requires a lot of time, but we manage.

We have made new friends as well.

[castorgirl]

Nice to meet you all :)

Take care,

Sophie :)

[ThiadTobias]

Thank you very much