How to Potty Train Toddlers : Dealing with Potty Training Accidents

[SouthernBell4Christ]

I wish you ppl would stop arguing with each other. Why can't ppl get along anymore. I'm trying to learn how to potty train my boy cause I love him and I want to do what's best for him but all I see is parents arguing instead of working with each other. :(

[TheMickeyDog1]

um ok



[tusky123456]

yeah but my little sister sits there and doesnt mind

[lemonrind]

Whatever you do, don't tell them about the monster that lives in the toilet.

[SuperPeewee101]

im with u both

[MrsTinkerbellCIA]

now every1 remember she is not telling u what to do. the whole point u r on this video is advice. now weather u take it or leave it or dont even agree with it is ur on issues.. take what u hear and tweek it to fit yours and ur childs life style..THERE R OTHER WAYS..

[SamanthaJD09]

Oh and who gives a damn what age they start potty training? They will let you know when they are ready.

[SamanthaJD09]

Omg really? Either you people are a bunch of teenage girls or your very immature. Letting them feel the accidnet is in no way abuse or making them feel bad. It let's them know they don't like the feeling. And if your kid gets a rash after 5 minutes then your doing something wrong. I they are clean and properly hydrated it will very rarely occur in so short a time. Grow up people!

[copnite12342]

oh please overseas kids go to school when there're 3 and they start getting trained when they're about 1 1/2.

[mommieof03]

THIS WOMAN WAS A GOOD POINT. IT ISNT CHILD ABUSE IF IT IS ONLY 10-15 MIN. WHAT DO YOU DO FOR CAR RIDES STOP AND PULL OVER ON THE SIDE OF A HIGHWAY AND CHANGE HIM/HER. AND WHEN THEY ARE ASLEEP TO YOU CHANGE THEM WHILE SLEEPING. COME ON PEOPLE SERIOUSLY. I HAVE POTTY TRAINED MY GIRLS THIS WAY AND GOING THROUGH IT WITH MY SON.

[mama2manny1]

such cruelty to make then sit in their underwear for that long..I understand making them understand when it's time to go but if you're saying "it's okay you've had an accident no big deal" aparently it is if you're making them sit in it that long..I'm just learning how to potty train my child..and every child is different...I've had some friend tell me to put him in underwear...don't think he's ready for that as he barely understands when to go to the potty..

[CAT18999]

Maybe 5 minutes..but 10? I'm not so sure about that..it's rather extreme ne?

[WiredArizona]

hey lady would like to sit in your piss and shi* for 10-15? how do all these tools end up on "expert" village anyways?

[angrymonkey123]

10 to 15 minutes is a long time. Plus, I really don't want my carpet and couch to have feces and urine on them. seriously!

[til4lyfe]

that is so wrong i can tlet me baby run around with poop or pee on her babies skin are very sensitive im just now learnin how to potty train my baby its different for the both of us dont listen to that damn idot its best when u use the restroom put them on the potty an do it like every 30mins i say i mean everybody baby is different but this is what i do an this is my first child she is catching on thank god

[falnngel]

the 10 to 15 mn rule was the worst idea i have ever heard..! not just worst, but stupid, the child will either get nfected, or feel abused, or just see oh he can just sit in his shit and noone will care, and momy says its ok! it happens!!!

[hypershorty]

"never make them feel bad"

I don't know about you, but sitting in shitty underwear for 5-10 minutes would make me feel pretty damn bad. She's an idiot.

[susannehutch]

Well, she has a good point there, but it's not possible! My son 2yr & 4m. just takes his wet pants off & puts on a dry one! So, what do I do????

[ApexApexPredator]

shelby u r cute

[Tihbialdunav]

This is wrong. Babies should be trained at 6months when they can't feel any guilt if they make a mistake. In US you wait waaaaay too long! At age 1 my nephew uses almost no diapers.

[timtak1]

@Tihbialdunav

In Japan they wait even longer.

[seenaroxon]

Those who can't (don't), teach.

[duckfart77]

To not want to use the toilet because they will view it as a form of punishment. My opinion is...potty train in a similar way you would a dog (I know that sounds bad haha). After they eat or drink something, put them on the toilet...after they have done vigorous playing...put them on the toilet...this has worked a couple of times with my daughter thus far so I would say we're making progress :)

[duckfart77]

Almost immediately after my daughter has made an accident she tells me....I just think that she is having a difficult time associating the toilet with going potty...she sees others do it but I don't think she has made that connection yet...but all the potty training books I have read said that when a child is ready they will go...but it is on THEIR time, not ours...by getting angry or frustrated at your child only makes them think that going potty is a BAD thing which will further cause them...

[duckfart77]

First off...if you hydrate your child properly you should not have a problem with any kind of rash...it is the acidity in the urine and feces that causes rash...when properly hydrated the acidity levels are not usually high enough to cause this. Secondly...I would say 10-15 minutes is a bit long...but most kids after sitting in wet or dirty clothes will come up to you and let you know that they are dirty...in my opinion when they do that it would constitute as being uncomfortable...

[mizzp16]

is she crazy i would never leave a child in a dirty nappy

[OfTheCrows]

She didn't say to leave them in it forever...she was just stating that it is a good reason to let them know why NOT to go in their pants...it's like how most kids don't understand you the first time you say "Don't touch that, it's hot." They touch it anyways and learn just what "hot" means. Same thing with potty...if you always clean it up right away, they don't have to experience the yuck. I might not agree on 10-15 min., but I do agree with letting them know what it feels like.

[angebak8]

Pretty sure she's saying if they have an accident in they're underwear, don't necessarily clean it up the instant it happens. Then they can come to the realization on their own that going on the potty, and not in their pants is better. If mommy cleans it up right away, why not just keep going in their pants? It's no different than in the diaper. It's a good way to let them learn the natural consequence.

[madnessniamh]

This woman is a freek,don,t make your children feel bad if they have an accident!!!

Just let them sit in wee and poo????

Not great advice and all mothers wouldn't dream of doing this.Bet she ain't got kids!!!!

[lgooding1]

Damm prople settle down!!!! I dont see any of your videos up there!!!! Everone raises their children differently. Thats why some have trashy mouths (LatinPrincess1988) and some have broken English (uby43). If yall knew it all, you would not have felt the need to watch this video. GOOD ADVIVE ALL IN ALL, TAKE WHAT YOU LIKE AND LEAVE THAT WHICH YOU DONT!!!!

[uby43]

this did not help.

this laady should be in jail looks like she dnt care about her kids

[innervision0730]

@uby43 In jail for what???? How eles will they LEARN?? OMG you people are mad! flipping out over a small stupid thing when you leave your kids in pee and poo ALL NIGHT.

[LatinPrincess1988]

let thm sit in it for 10-15 min???

wtf u thinkin?!?!?

they could get a fuckin rash 4rm that shit!

[AnimeLover12321]

Here's a thought.... don't make them sit in it. That's gross and cruel. Make them cleam up the mess with you.

[KawaiiKikio]

my nephew poops like a goat T_T

[secretami]

let them sit in it?

[lilysinlove4]

ok how can you say not to use negative riforcement but let them sit in their own urine or feces that is contracdicting. that is child abuse to make them sit in urine or feces for 10 - 15 minutes as well as a great way to cause infections and low self esteem you can not say do not use negative reiforcement but make your child uncombfortable but letting them sit in feces or urine this is excreted from the body for a reason I hope no one does this to their child seriously

[spiderrooster2]

true

[32barna]

I totaly agree with you -it is child abuse! I would never dream of leaving my child in urine or feces. I think that this should be taken off.

[timtak1]

@lilysinlove4

Here in Japan they have special potty training nappies (diapers) which are not so absorbent. They keep the excrement in the nappy, but since they are no so absorbent, they let the child feel it. I guess that you would recommend against using those nappies too.

Perhaps the videographer means that one should not use negative social reinforcement (ie from the care giver), but it is okay to let them feel the reality, not by "telling them" anything.

[whatever1824ff]

@lilysinlove4 Your exxagerating ......

[tatsudoshi65]

@lilysinlove4 When they poop or pee in their diapers, most times the parents aren't aware right away and they end up sitting in their pee/poop for a little bit anyway. - It's no different. It's really not child abuse and I doubt sitting there for a few minutes is going to cause any infections. And kids aren't that complexed at that age for them to think that hard about it for it to cause low self esteem....I think you're being a little mellow dramatic.

[tjoady]

@tatsudoshi65 I was going to say the same thing as this commenter. Worst case you might have some diaper rash, same as a baby. No big deal. But the point the woman is trying to make is don't berate the kid for an accident, and especially don't humiliate them in public when they might already feel bad, BUT, at home, you have more leeway to let them have the sensation of the pee/poo in their pants so they get trained over time to get to the toilet faster to avoid that unpleasant feeling.

[wyrda222]

@lilysinlove4 don't over-react love, how long do they wear dirty nappies!? saying that is child abuse really offensive to those who may of suffered real abuse. If a child is old enough to not wear nappies they are probably old enough to be able to take off their own pants anyhow

[missHURTem]

i dont think that it is creul to let them sit in it.its just a way to get them to know that it is wrong and if u just simply say hey its not okay to .....then they may continue.........so i say great advice but i wouldnt exactly do 10 mins

[mariorocks64]

my brother has that same problem. but its harder because

1. he is 14 years old. he isn't a toddler.

2. his brain functions way more differently. I think he learned to deal with pooping his pants.

[llamarockparty]

let them sit in it thats cruel

[amalthea25]

Wouldn't this be considered child abuse?

[noeTorrez]

I bet this woman doesn't even have a child! She went to school for child development and now thinks she is an expert. If I leave my son in his soiled underwear, he takes off his own underwear and then proceeds to running around naked, and rebels to wear any underwear at all! so yeah, I couldn't even do that if I wanted to.

[MissSexyJada]

that's true my 20 month old takes her diaper off if its too soiled or wet, i just bought a potty today n i'm clueless this video probably isn't goin to help me much. i need god's help to potty train my daughter lol

[morenasa1]

I did let my toddler sit on it once, not for that long, but believe me, you do it once and they learn not to pee on them the second time :)

[fatdame77]

FUCK SOCIAL SERVICES!!!!!

[tassis82]

My son knows it's uncomfortable when he wets his pants, he comes and tells me straight away..what do i do, say "sorry son, you need to sit in your wet pants for 15 minutes". Just putting them in training pants instead of nappies is enough to teach them to feel when they've wet themselves

[babygrlisme]

wow this chick needs to know that when you let a child sit in they're own pee and poop that it maked horrible rashes so if you listen to this woman u may have to send u'r baby to the doctor about 6 times a month so ya................. ♥someone♥

[babygrlisme]

OMG! is this woman crazy? YES. let them sit in it? whats that all about?

[SsoundingClay]

what the.... have them sit in it OMG

[XXXpisces6a6yXXX]

this women's advice is weired..... I would never leave my child in a soiled diaper for 10 minutes at all.... WTF is that about

[peterstu82]

her advice is bullshit. my mom potty-trained me when i was 2 by using nothing but negative reinforcement. after 6 whole days of this, i was fully potty-trained. fear is a great motivator, believe me. especially when it comes to potty-training a toddler. if the toddler is afraid of being yelled at, or disciplined in any sort of way, they more than likely will learn very quickly to not go in their pants.

[teacherofpeace]

You cant say that kind of stuff on the record. Social services will take your kids from you. lol.

Jesus is Lord.

[peterstu82]

lmao social services can't take my kids away from me for merely disciplining them. giving a child a good verbal ass chewing when they misbehave isn't what most people would call child abuse theres a HUGE difference between abusing them and disciplining them

[teddy0577]

This advice is full of mixed messages. We should be teaching our children that there words and actions should be consistant. Telling a potty training child that an accident is no big deal is great advice. After all even adults have the occasional accident. Making a child stay in wet or soiled pants is cruel how would you like to have to keep your dirty or urine soak pants on after an accident and be forced to go about you life?

[BAF0507]

I am shocked that some of you have children and are making the comments that you are making. Her hair is in a pony tail and she has her growing bangs tucked behind her ears. What is wrong with her advice? Making a child feel bad will only make the problem worse.

[RyanBani]

OMG, she is so annoying. I mean have she ever tried to potty train a kid?????!!!!!

[heavennoseven]

I know

[rkd13]

Does this lady know anything about kids??? Dumb!!!!!! And yes I took a chainsaw to her head but missed and only got her hair. :P

[pipread]

pike, dat iz not fair

hannah

(Pipread iz ma dad)

[usta4070]

Did someone take a chainsaw to her hair?

[mdk2117]

i never thought about having them stay in it.

question thou: i babysit this one family and their 5yr old doesnt like to take the time of going potty when he is playing. so he will just go right there and it might be 5 to 20 min before i notice or smell somthing, he can go potty when he wants to but if he playing he wont go. since i babysit i can just giv him a timeout, is ther anyway i can encourage him to go potty. prizes dont work, they got a box full. parents hav tried every thing also

[pike9111]

hello bitch you are so ungly

[OhDearItsFelix]

LOL you mispelled ugly. UNGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!