Be yourself. If they do not like it,show them the door. To many people put up fronts and masks to hind who they are. If you are a good person then let that dictate the night to MickyDs. If you take a girl to MDS and they throw a fit kick their butt out of the car.If she does not throw a fit.You can then take her to some place nicer.Test them in all things and sooner or later the true person comes out and looks ugly.A nice girl will be satisfied with just being together sharing the moment with U
@LayDrayMusicTV Amen,Most women do not even put on dresses anymore. It is like hanging out with your buddy as in guy.Most men would love to see them in dresses but they will never do that because they could not look at their butts in the mirror more then five times in a day saying to us Does my butt look to big am I to fat. How is my makeup.They will spend two hours doing their hair and then say I hate it.They are truly never satisfied with the little things worried about the vain things
I suggest you read this article for answers: "Dumb Games, and the Girls That Play Them". You'll find it at: BeingAMan[.]com and search articles for "dumb games".
American girls roll their eyes, changes their voice tine when they talk, think they are the most beautiful queens ever. Well let me tell you something, GET OVER IT BITCHES!!!! you are not worth SHIT!! I hate when some of them hit on me, cant stand the shit out of you.
@nornor06 How about getting your stereotypes right. I am Canadian, not American. Way to generalize the entire American continent. You have two signifiers of "American" girls, both physical and a vague statement which is just the tip of the iceberg. Instead of voicing an opinion on the issue, you try to insult me through my looks. You know what, I am beautiful and I am proud to flaunt it!
@CamoquinProductions My ex was Canadian. Watch my videos on healthy relationships and dating. I give the real & not the phony bullshit perspective on it. Men are not going to show you there real sides. If a man flatters you all the time it is a front. Meaning no person is going to agree with everything. That man is not a man or has a backbone. It's weakness. People have opinions. I don't expect a woman to agree with me on everything. It helps us to appreciate each other & grow deeper.
@ARakaLordBrilliant Hmmm I seem to have that problem with girls. Where they tend to mirror me a ton. The tend to agree with me in so many ways it starts to become annoying or nauseating. They will try so hard to impress me and I do not need the ego boost. I would prefer them to be themselves and not try so hard. But yet they seem to play the male role and i'm wondering if this happens so often, is this some sort of bad indication of me? I always treat them right and am ...
@Sean021122 One of the most empathetic and understanding guys out there. and for th emost part I get women almost as well as I do myself. Only thing is this one issue where I can't understand why they make it their business to treat me as if everything I say and do is gold. I am as far from the typical guy as water is from a desert and do not need them to be anything but the amazing intriguing beings they really are on the inside. Hope someone can help here.
@Sean021122 It is okay to agree to disagree that shows me we are unique. If a woman wants to do things for you that is entirely different then agreeing with you on everything. That means she cares about you a lot. It needs to be a balance. Yet I don't want a woman who fights me on everything either especially if she knows something I say to be logical and common sense that the average person should know. We see the same thing. Peace!
@ARakaLordBrilliant But what if they continuously keep agreeing with you. And show excessive appreciation for everything such as when I will write poetry and give them one. Or other little gestures. They will fall over it like I'm god. beleieve me I am being 100% serious here and it bothers me. I get the feeling I am patronized or deceived and it feels worse to me than someone saying something that is an insult. That's the way I am and I never take things at face value.
@ARakaLordBrilliant Do they do that with you. I will admit I embrace my feminioty very well ok and like I said I'm not typical. I feel very similar to females in many things. Do you think they are instantly picking up on this and just overtrusting me or something. I just don't get why someone would kiss your ass like that when I'm the guy and typically i'm supposed to be falling over them. Why are roles reversed? And why won't they just disagree with me on something?
@ARakaLordBrilliant Another thing, don't overgeneralize anyone. I am a guy and I am always myself. I ahve never changed for anyone nor will I. I always show the real me because it's all I have. I am very honest and open and for the most part have to curtail that a bit so I won't come off giving away too much. But I have a very intense need for emotional connection and to gravitate towards getting that as quickly as possible with females.
@Sean021122 No doubt sean! I had the same problem. You understand exactly where I am coming from. For example I don't eat pork and will never eat it even if that lady looks like a super model. I won't compromise my beliefs just to please them or be accepted. I don't want that lady to change for me we should grow to understand each other naturally.
@ARakaLordBrilliant Definitely, anyone iwll appreciate you more for being genuine, an dnot trying to be someone or somehting you are not. For anyone, good advice would be to stand your ground and stay being uniquely you. Wehther that person is different than everyone else or not. The right girl will appreciate u for u. I always reciprocate that where I want her to beherself and I will like her for who she is and what truly defines her. The things that compell her to standout
@ARakaLordBrilliant And that is far from a problem, I see it as enlightenment. I understand/empathize with/feel/know the female point of view and I incorporate it in my interactions with them. No doubt everyone who knows/knew me seees I get them far better than any guy they have ever met before. And if they eat it up, cool. If they don't Iwill move on. Usually they are sick of the typical sexist machomales and are blown away by me. It's all in how u make them feel #1priority,
@nornor06 You sound like just another sexist idiotic full of arroagance and himself male to me. Get over yourself and stop tearing down women to build your own fragile ego back up. It doesn't work! Nor fool us.
U look ugly as shit!! U have time to play games now, but there will come a time when u gonna pay for this- thats when u hit 30's and lose your " beauty"; when no guy will want you for love except to fuck the shit out of you like a used object. Why dont get your ass off that webcam and go look for a passionate, nice, and a decent guy who would be with you for the rest of your life. Quit acting stupid and being American woman. I really dont know why when u hit 30's you start looking for a reltionp
If a woman is not going to put forth the effort to meet me halfway, then she is not worth my time. Its funny because I always have some woman calling me asking why she has not heard from me in a while. After I call two times and my call is not returned within at least two weeks, then I forget she exists. I chase money, knowledge, and fitness, not people.
things happen or they dont the game is just a temporay distraction that serves no purpose except to itself.listen to your instincts and the rest will take care of itself. when it comes to real love there are no rules or constants. just be honest and natural in your approach cos if you advertise anything but yourself you may get the wrong buyer.
The game really never ends cause, its called the game of life.I think people call it a game in order to desensitize the whole process of attracting someone and not cling on to a certain specific outcome,so that in the end it doesn't get to you.
ohhh, girls love to play games with you, because they lose the leverage when they get into a relationship, they need the flattery and to feel wanted.
what you gotta do is play games right back. have fun with it. send mixed messages and shit. it's actually so awesome. also you can make girls jealous of each other a lot easier ; )
lol hey! Don't give people insight into the crazy girl world! haha just joking.
You know, I think your right about the flattery and feeling wanted. Don't forget about feeling appreciated! I'm a big fan of chivalry and keeping the romance alive.
@CamoquinProductions I already have enough insight into it lol. And I got it just by looking inside myself, taking some personality tests, immersing in my huge interests like psychology and astrology, other things... But mostly just innately knowing, just as most females innately know what they want and how to allow their intuition to fill in all gaPS. Chivalry is only as good as how the guy will see their role in treating women. I take making them feel right very seriously.
The more compatible you are with someone, the less all this bs applies. The more persona you have to slather on, the less chance that you'll ever have anything with that guy.
You are thinking into it too much let me clarify it for you... you can use all the pawns rooks and castles all you like but once we take your clothes off and do what we want then we men automatically have the upper hand!!!
All that game playing is female insecurity making sure that the right man is selected
I must be a bad boy..... I can make you feel a combination of Fear, Tension, Excitement, Curiosity, Security, Love, Surprise, Caution, Desire, Attraction, Awe, Suspense, and Vulnerability at the same time.
This is why I've always said, FUCK GAMES. If people (mostly women) need to play games, then they aren't worth being with, PERIOD. That's why match making websites are great, because they match you on REAL ATTRIBUTES. Attributes are what make and break relationships. Conversations and time flows smoothly if the couple have alot in common. But if you don't have alot in common, that's when people start playing games. If she's not into video games, philosophy, LOST, and Battlestar Gallactica, bye.
Not really. It makes me laugh when I look back on this video. Its funny how quick one's opinions can change overtime. I'm not an angry person, but few things do bother me. This "game stuff" as you put it, was just a thing I noticed when I went on this date and I kept planning my next move. It was quite odd because I never do that! I just go with the flow! So, I thought I should make a video about it to see what people think of it.
well, the video is funny aswell, thans for the warning at the begining, hopefully your next dates everything will flow a bit more... maybe you really liked a lot this guy and you want to do anything possible to keep seing, but i would recomend just be yourself and be natural
this is why women end up gettin raped and beat, bc you view this shit as a game, men have better shit to do then play some "game" with you dumb lil bitches, especially white bitches bc you have been spoiled by society. ask yourself, whens the last time you went out with someone bc you liked them, not bc you wanted to kill your boredom by playin some "cute" lil games. grow up lil cunts. you pussy aint worth what you think it is just bc you been chased around by horny BOYS.
Gotta love how people are so opinionated on this website. This is not why women end up getting raped and beaten. I do not believe I'm a bitch in any sort of way, and I do not appreciate men referring to other women as bitches. Its degrading, and you start to go off about what a woman's worth is?
women are not responible for getting raped. they dont deserve punishing in such a way. if guys were more clever theyd realise the women was playing a game and would walk away rather than letting his petty pride and angry emotions get the better of him.
For all you women playin that dumb ass so called game. "Stop it" because all your doing is drivin your partner away. it's no point in play hard to get if you don't want the person anyway.
Okay,, take for granted: before watching this vid, I thought it was gonna be mean. But, the points made were surprisingly rational. I almost made that previous remark sound offensive to the female gender. Hmmmm....
Haha nah. I'm a cancer! I hear in Korea they try find their match by blood type, like how we do it by our astrological sign. I didn't know this until my Korean co-worker asked me what my blood type was. I told him that I didn't know, and he said that everyone in Korea knows their blood type. Apparently Blood type B is the worst personality for the workplace and is not easy to get along with. Haha, its just funny to me :P.
You are making it too complicated. If you find a guy and you like him and he likes you just be together when you both want to. Guys are really simple. Seriously just relax and have fun together. If you meed someone who plays games drop them like a hot potato. Life is too short for manipulating head games.
lol everyone says that. Guys are simple. I don't like to think so. I think they can be just as complicated as women. I agree with the fact life is too short for manipulating head games. But, its fun to educate yourself through a social science such as psychology to see how the mental process affects the human condition.
Any game other than just being yourself is just a waste of time. I agree, some games might help your "success rate" with the opposite sex, but if you spend the first few dates putting on a show, how are you going to get around to being yourself?
I'm a strong chess player and your metaphor was workable...but needed work. :-) Good video.
Sounds like a whole lot of over thinking to me. Why even "play the game" while you're on a date? Rather than playing, pretending, and trying to use strategy to get what you want from this date (which you really don't make clear) why not be more casual about it? Let thinks evolve, roll with the punches, rise to the occasion. B/c if the date is for sex, that's easy, all guys will answer "YES PLS". If you're looking for THE guy, be yourself completely, move on if it doesn't work, and don't cry-easy
I'm not sure if its all women, but I tend to overanalyze and miss the big picture. Its a horrible habit to get yourself into. A clear strategy does not appear in the video because I don't really have one :P. I went on this date, and then realized how it felt like some absurd game. It was the first time I was thinking of what my next move will be. I usually just go with the flow and hope for the best.
The game is hard but the women always wins on the first date. A guy picks you up, drives you to wherever you want. You sit down at a restaurant & you eat for free as the guy is casually asked questions regarding his social & financial value. Some women drag this routine on for months or forever. It's absurd.
Well, that's a traditional date. The times are changing, and women are starting to pick up men as well! That doesn't mean that men can't ask questions about the woman to see if she is right for him.
I know times are changing. At a snails pace but changing none the less. I agree, a man should ask questions of his date & visa/versa. My issue with the traditional date is it's underlying 'what can I get from you' undertones which hide behind chivalry. A friendship, I've found, is much more honest than the A- typical relationship. It's good to see this is slowly shifting. Good vid & 5 *'s
I find it really difficult to shift from friends to potential lovers. I've always thought about it. I have a few guy friends, but I just don't want to cross that line. Once you see them as friends, then it continues as friends(for me, anyways).
A friendship is more honest in some ways, but it can as many falls as a typical relationship. That is what makes relations stronger.
protip = people who analyze things usually want to be involved in them but aren't. Like when you constantly talk about sex and relationships, it show you want that arround you but it isn't there. I love doing that = )
lol wow. I never thought of it that way. I don't constantly talk about it, but this video was made when I was thinking of this date I went on. The date didn't feel right because I kept thinking of my next move. I felt it should of been more natural.
I do wish sometimes there was more to my love life, but recently more things have happened ;) and changed my perspectives since then.
I really, really like that protip. I'm going to remember that one, that's for sure.
Social Rules are forced down our throats by the media outlet, such as reality shows and just about anything that plays on MTV. Men and Women are shown how to interact with each other within a possible sexual context, and we're pressured to behave like our rich, popular "peers" on TV.
We have social rules shoved down our throats, and we mirror them when we go on things like dates because we don't know what else to do.
I really like the last line "The game is a man-made invention".
Media has the biggest influence and people take the information portrayed by it, while trying to incorperate into their own lifes. The pressure is huge, and it feels like there are no limits left to become the ideal sexy male or female.
All we can be is ourselves, let anyone who would judge be damned. People strive for perfection at the expense of their own individuality. This isn't a bad thing for the media, their pockets get lined.
Here's the biggest scam of them all: The media convinces you that you need to look like your peers, that not looking like your peers is a problem, then sells you expensive junk to help you reach this superficial goal.
We're swimming in a nation of ditzy sheep (Fashionist Men and Women).
Fuck the game. People make things so complicated, it's only bearable for so long before I (And I'm sure plenty of others) just scratch my head and wonder, "What's the point?".
There's a buddy of mine at the office, Jake. He's always going to bars, partying, picking up good looking women, sleeping with them and moving to the next one, and usually the women were expecting a relationship.
He doesn't date, he just looks good and talks smooth.
I also wonder what's the point. Everyone works differently to appeal to the opposite sex. For example, your friend Jake where he moves onto one woman to the next. This is going to be a horrible reference, but I think of the character Samantha from "Sex in the city" because she doesn't want a relationship and keeps having sex with various men. I think Jake just hasn't found the right woman yet, and wants to enjoy the single life. Does that make sense?
You remind me of the girl I'm currently Crushing on.
Anyways, yeah, you're right. We as humans are pulled in different directions by different forces in our lives. For example, fashion, social interaction, having kids, getting married, pulled by our own individuality. We just choose different paths, what else are we to do? But some of us choose less rewarding paths than others, and for that they will never advance themselves psychologically, they will never see the world in which others do.
GAME PLAYING IS AN INVENTION OF WOMEN.IF THEY'D JUST BE HONEST THEY'D END UP BETTER. but they are too stupid to know it!!!!kudos to the rare girl who does't play stupid games!!!
Honesty can only take you so far. You have this whole thing with fibbing, white lies, and lies that protect a person to keep them sane. Would you really want to know the truth all the time? I agree with you on the idea of game playing. Overall.. its stupid, stupider, and just gets more stupid. Maybe, its not a game.. just a system to keep yourself stable and whatever works for you. Protection.
lol good point. I was trying to give an idea about how women think of it. There's this idea that women overanalyze and play these little games, in hopes of getting the attention of the opposite sex.
btw you should use castling as a metaphor for cock blocking
irametdolorem 3 weeks ago
A WHOLE NEW WORLD
A NEW FANTASTIC POINT OF VIEW
irametdolorem 3 weeks ago
guys, go meet foreign women, trust me they are real women.
ShikamaruTKD 2 months ago
I'm pretty sure "The Game" was made by women like the one in this video.
Archedgar 2 months ago
The main thing you said is be yourself and natural. THAT IS THE WHOLE ENTIRE GAME!!!
iaadotlk1 7 months ago
The answer is, the game never ends. Move on to someone worth your
time.
yourimageunreels 9 months ago
Be yourself. If they do not like it,show them the door. To many people put up fronts and masks to hind who they are. If you are a good person then let that dictate the night to MickyDs. If you take a girl to MDS and they throw a fit kick their butt out of the car.If she does not throw a fit.You can then take her to some place nicer.Test them in all things and sooner or later the true person comes out and looks ugly.A nice girl will be satisfied with just being together sharing the moment with U
JohnKillrory 9 months ago
YOU WOMEN ARE FUCKING STUPID YOU DONT DESERVE US...
LayDrayMusicTV 9 months ago
@LayDrayMusicTV Amen,Most women do not even put on dresses anymore. It is like hanging out with your buddy as in guy.Most men would love to see them in dresses but they will never do that because they could not look at their butts in the mirror more then five times in a day saying to us Does my butt look to big am I to fat. How is my makeup.They will spend two hours doing their hair and then say I hate it.They are truly never satisfied with the little things worried about the vain things
JohnKillrory 9 months ago
your confusing yourself becuase people like u are fucking idiots...(male or female)
mysticman07 10 months ago
I want my 5 minutes back
thehassaankhalid 11 months ago
girls need to grow the fuck up...i have a girl right now that is doing that to me...i already check mated her and dumped her
guesswho811 11 months ago
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I suggest you read this article for answers: "Dumb Games, and the Girls That Play Them". You'll find it at: BeingAMan[.]com and search articles for "dumb games".
dwneder 11 months ago
American girls roll their eyes, changes their voice tine when they talk, think they are the most beautiful queens ever. Well let me tell you something, GET OVER IT BITCHES!!!! you are not worth SHIT!! I hate when some of them hit on me, cant stand the shit out of you.
nornor06 1 year ago
@nornor06 How about getting your stereotypes right. I am Canadian, not American. Way to generalize the entire American continent. You have two signifiers of "American" girls, both physical and a vague statement which is just the tip of the iceberg. Instead of voicing an opinion on the issue, you try to insult me through my looks. You know what, I am beautiful and I am proud to flaunt it!
CamoquinProductions 1 year ago
@CamoquinProductions My ex was Canadian. Watch my videos on healthy relationships and dating. I give the real & not the phony bullshit perspective on it. Men are not going to show you there real sides. If a man flatters you all the time it is a front. Meaning no person is going to agree with everything. That man is not a man or has a backbone. It's weakness. People have opinions. I don't expect a woman to agree with me on everything. It helps us to appreciate each other & grow deeper.
ARakaLordBrilliant 4 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant Hmmm I seem to have that problem with girls. Where they tend to mirror me a ton. The tend to agree with me in so many ways it starts to become annoying or nauseating. They will try so hard to impress me and I do not need the ego boost. I would prefer them to be themselves and not try so hard. But yet they seem to play the male role and i'm wondering if this happens so often, is this some sort of bad indication of me? I always treat them right and am ...
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 One of the most empathetic and understanding guys out there. and for th emost part I get women almost as well as I do myself. Only thing is this one issue where I can't understand why they make it their business to treat me as if everything I say and do is gold. I am as far from the typical guy as water is from a desert and do not need them to be anything but the amazing intriguing beings they really are on the inside. Hope someone can help here.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 It is okay to agree to disagree that shows me we are unique. If a woman wants to do things for you that is entirely different then agreeing with you on everything. That means she cares about you a lot. It needs to be a balance. Yet I don't want a woman who fights me on everything either especially if she knows something I say to be logical and common sense that the average person should know. We see the same thing. Peace!
ARakaLordBrilliant 2 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant But what if they continuously keep agreeing with you. And show excessive appreciation for everything such as when I will write poetry and give them one. Or other little gestures. They will fall over it like I'm god. beleieve me I am being 100% serious here and it bothers me. I get the feeling I am patronized or deceived and it feels worse to me than someone saying something that is an insult. That's the way I am and I never take things at face value.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant Do they do that with you. I will admit I embrace my feminioty very well ok and like I said I'm not typical. I feel very similar to females in many things. Do you think they are instantly picking up on this and just overtrusting me or something. I just don't get why someone would kiss your ass like that when I'm the guy and typically i'm supposed to be falling over them. Why are roles reversed? And why won't they just disagree with me on something?
Sean021122 2 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant Another thing, don't overgeneralize anyone. I am a guy and I am always myself. I ahve never changed for anyone nor will I. I always show the real me because it's all I have. I am very honest and open and for the most part have to curtail that a bit so I won't come off giving away too much. But I have a very intense need for emotional connection and to gravitate towards getting that as quickly as possible with females.
Sean021122 2 months ago
@Sean021122 No doubt sean! I had the same problem. You understand exactly where I am coming from. For example I don't eat pork and will never eat it even if that lady looks like a super model. I won't compromise my beliefs just to please them or be accepted. I don't want that lady to change for me we should grow to understand each other naturally.
ARakaLordBrilliant 2 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant Definitely, anyone iwll appreciate you more for being genuine, an dnot trying to be someone or somehting you are not. For anyone, good advice would be to stand your ground and stay being uniquely you. Wehther that person is different than everyone else or not. The right girl will appreciate u for u. I always reciprocate that where I want her to beherself and I will like her for who she is and what truly defines her. The things that compell her to standout
Sean021122 2 months ago
@ARakaLordBrilliant And that is far from a problem, I see it as enlightenment. I understand/empathize with/feel/know the female point of view and I incorporate it in my interactions with them. No doubt everyone who knows/knew me seees I get them far better than any guy they have ever met before. And if they eat it up, cool. If they don't Iwill move on. Usually they are sick of the typical sexist machomales and are blown away by me. It's all in how u make them feel #1priority,
Sean021122 2 months ago
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@nornor06
you're so kind :)
kavora16 5 months ago
@nornor06 You sound like just another sexist idiotic full of arroagance and himself male to me. Get over yourself and stop tearing down women to build your own fragile ego back up. It doesn't work! Nor fool us.
Sean021122 2 months ago
U look ugly as shit!! U have time to play games now, but there will come a time when u gonna pay for this- thats when u hit 30's and lose your " beauty"; when no guy will want you for love except to fuck the shit out of you like a used object. Why dont get your ass off that webcam and go look for a passionate, nice, and a decent guy who would be with you for the rest of your life. Quit acting stupid and being American woman. I really dont know why when u hit 30's you start looking for a reltionp
nornor06 1 year ago
@nornor06 Shut the hell up and crawl back under that insanely shallow rock of yours....
Sean021122 2 months ago
If a woman is not going to put forth the effort to meet me halfway, then she is not worth my time. Its funny because I always have some woman calling me asking why she has not heard from me in a while. After I call two times and my call is not returned within at least two weeks, then I forget she exists. I chase money, knowledge, and fitness, not people.
nichirenx 1 year ago
Your video highlights the main difference between a man and a woman.
A man is looking for an ideal mate and partnet.
A woman is looking to increase her long term assets.
Games is for kids.
kbdkbd99 1 year ago
Music: Titranic- breakdown
Lol
Nostang3 1 year ago
Well-put.
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
things happen or they dont the game is just a temporay distraction that serves no purpose except to itself.listen to your instincts and the rest will take care of itself. when it comes to real love there are no rules or constants. just be honest and natural in your approach cos if you advertise anything but yourself you may get the wrong buyer.
boosomentity 2 years ago
*claps enthusiastically in aggreement*
Mathman1ac 2 years ago
The game really never ends cause, its called the game of life.I think people call it a game in order to desensitize the whole process of attracting someone and not cling on to a certain specific outcome,so that in the end it doesn't get to you.
tupanatato 2 years ago
ohhh, girls love to play games with you, because they lose the leverage when they get into a relationship, they need the flattery and to feel wanted.
what you gotta do is play games right back. have fun with it. send mixed messages and shit. it's actually so awesome. also you can make girls jealous of each other a lot easier ; )
AllmightyTexas 2 years ago
lol hey! Don't give people insight into the crazy girl world! haha just joking.
You know, I think your right about the flattery and feeling wanted. Don't forget about feeling appreciated! I'm a big fan of chivalry and keeping the romance alive.
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
@CamoquinProductions I already have enough insight into it lol. And I got it just by looking inside myself, taking some personality tests, immersing in my huge interests like psychology and astrology, other things... But mostly just innately knowing, just as most females innately know what they want and how to allow their intuition to fill in all gaPS. Chivalry is only as good as how the guy will see their role in treating women. I take making them feel right very seriously.
Sean021122 2 months ago
you are a goddess
hippystonerwierdo 2 years ago
I LOST
kuzikus 2 years ago
It's a jungle
The strong win
The weak lose . Good looks always is an advantage If you dress with style it is a plus for men and women.
If you are older than 18 and wearing a baseball cap backwards it's time to stop doing that
HYPNOTICVIDEO 2 years ago
lol agreed about the baseball cap style
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
i couldnt even focus on what she was saying...her eyebrows. holyshit
LoveTwistBuzzz 2 years ago
what about them?
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
i dont know lol they distracted me
LoveTwistBuzzz 2 years ago
They are horrible.
publicmayhem 2 years ago
Nobody is perfect.
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
women who play game with men's feels are evil just like some people test God's love.
purplezemeckis 2 years ago
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bitch, you're right!
hieristjetzt 2 years ago
The more compatible you are with someone, the less all this bs applies. The more persona you have to slather on, the less chance that you'll ever have anything with that guy.
Sierra688 2 years ago
You are thinking into it too much let me clarify it for you... you can use all the pawns rooks and castles all you like but once we take your clothes off and do what we want then we men automatically have the upper hand!!!
All that game playing is female insecurity making sure that the right man is selected
Emotions = the female weak point
soulfulLuva 2 years ago 2
I get straight A s at passing shit tests and I would never put you on a pedestal.
sonatadude 2 years ago
there's tests about shit?
Congradufucklations! You've just proven that your a complete dickhead!
CamoquinProductions 2 years ago
I must be a bad boy..... I can make you feel a combination of Fear, Tension, Excitement, Curiosity, Security, Love, Surprise, Caution, Desire, Attraction, Awe, Suspense, and Vulnerability at the same time.
sonatadude 2 years ago
This is why I've always said, FUCK GAMES. If people (mostly women) need to play games, then they aren't worth being with, PERIOD. That's why match making websites are great, because they match you on REAL ATTRIBUTES. Attributes are what make and break relationships. Conversations and time flows smoothly if the couple have alot in common. But if you don't have alot in common, that's when people start playing games. If she's not into video games, philosophy, LOST, and Battlestar Gallactica, bye.
ghostgate82 2 years ago 6
@ghostgate82 Yep!! Girls play to much nowadays.They really need to grow up.
cilwaycofe 1 year ago
you tried too hard at the end of your video. :P
mrwormburn 3 years ago
how to kill the game? simply be sincere and honest
uffdethut 3 years ago
I hate this video. lol
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
hey women why don't you just try to be honest, enjoy and resppect?!?! are you really that mad with that game stuff?!?!?!
karliuxkley 3 years ago
Not really. It makes me laugh when I look back on this video. Its funny how quick one's opinions can change overtime. I'm not an angry person, but few things do bother me. This "game stuff" as you put it, was just a thing I noticed when I went on this date and I kept planning my next move. It was quite odd because I never do that! I just go with the flow! So, I thought I should make a video about it to see what people think of it.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
well, the video is funny aswell, thans for the warning at the begining, hopefully your next dates everything will flow a bit more... maybe you really liked a lot this guy and you want to do anything possible to keep seing, but i would recomend just be yourself and be natural
karliuxkley 3 years ago
this is why women end up gettin raped and beat, bc you view this shit as a game, men have better shit to do then play some "game" with you dumb lil bitches, especially white bitches bc you have been spoiled by society. ask yourself, whens the last time you went out with someone bc you liked them, not bc you wanted to kill your boredom by playin some "cute" lil games. grow up lil cunts. you pussy aint worth what you think it is just bc you been chased around by horny BOYS.
mistasirr 3 years ago 12
Gotta love how people are so opinionated on this website. This is not why women end up getting raped and beaten. I do not believe I'm a bitch in any sort of way, and I do not appreciate men referring to other women as bitches. Its degrading, and you start to go off about what a woman's worth is?
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
women are not responible for getting raped. they dont deserve punishing in such a way. if guys were more clever theyd realise the women was playing a game and would walk away rather than letting his petty pride and angry emotions get the better of him.
KatyKamu 3 years ago
most guys aren't petty like that, but if you play games you are asking for trouble
thesniffysniffy 2 years ago
For all you women playin that dumb ass so called game. "Stop it" because all your doing is drivin your partner away. it's no point in play hard to get if you don't want the person anyway.
disappears 3 years ago 3
Uh, ok. What if you do want the person?
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
If u want that person, then get him. some people don't have time for that hard to get S@#t.
disappears 3 years ago 3
Okay,, take for granted: before watching this vid, I thought it was gonna be mean. But, the points made were surprisingly rational. I almost made that previous remark sound offensive to the female gender. Hmmmm....
davehiggod 3 years ago
surprisingly rational?
Oh boy, be careful lol.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
Why can't all women think like this?
You're beautiful by the way.
Robyn923b 3 years ago
they don't?I guess their not educated :P.
Really? Why, thank you kindly :).
*Goes back to studying for psych midterm*
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
By the way you wouldn't happen to be a Gemini would you?
:o)
agile1111 3 years ago
Haha nah. I'm a cancer! I hear in Korea they try find their match by blood type, like how we do it by our astrological sign. I didn't know this until my Korean co-worker asked me what my blood type was. I told him that I didn't know, and he said that everyone in Korea knows their blood type. Apparently Blood type B is the worst personality for the workplace and is not easy to get along with. Haha, its just funny to me :P.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
You are making it too complicated. If you find a guy and you like him and he likes you just be together when you both want to. Guys are really simple. Seriously just relax and have fun together. If you meed someone who plays games drop them like a hot potato. Life is too short for manipulating head games.
agile1111 3 years ago
lol everyone says that. Guys are simple. I don't like to think so. I think they can be just as complicated as women. I agree with the fact life is too short for manipulating head games. But, its fun to educate yourself through a social science such as psychology to see how the mental process affects the human condition.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
Just because you don't have EVERYTHING in common it's over? I don't think so.
Chewtoy2008 3 years ago
Any game other than just being yourself is just a waste of time. I agree, some games might help your "success rate" with the opposite sex, but if you spend the first few dates putting on a show, how are you going to get around to being yourself?
I'm a strong chess player and your metaphor was workable...but needed work. :-) Good video.
EternalEnigma314 3 years ago 2
Haha thank you.
I think the being yourself routine can initiate some interest, but maybe there has be some elements to ensure security.
lol I'm not really thought-provoking today :P
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
Sounds like a whole lot of over thinking to me. Why even "play the game" while you're on a date? Rather than playing, pretending, and trying to use strategy to get what you want from this date (which you really don't make clear) why not be more casual about it? Let thinks evolve, roll with the punches, rise to the occasion. B/c if the date is for sex, that's easy, all guys will answer "YES PLS". If you're looking for THE guy, be yourself completely, move on if it doesn't work, and don't cry-easy
sr4free 3 years ago 3
I'm not sure if its all women, but I tend to overanalyze and miss the big picture. Its a horrible habit to get yourself into. A clear strategy does not appear in the video because I don't really have one :P. I went on this date, and then realized how it felt like some absurd game. It was the first time I was thinking of what my next move will be. I usually just go with the flow and hope for the best.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
The game is hard but the women always wins on the first date. A guy picks you up, drives you to wherever you want. You sit down at a restaurant & you eat for free as the guy is casually asked questions regarding his social & financial value. Some women drag this routine on for months or forever. It's absurd.
FranklenWylder 3 years ago
Well, that's a traditional date. The times are changing, and women are starting to pick up men as well! That doesn't mean that men can't ask questions about the woman to see if she is right for him.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
I know times are changing. At a snails pace but changing none the less. I agree, a man should ask questions of his date & visa/versa. My issue with the traditional date is it's underlying 'what can I get from you' undertones which hide behind chivalry. A friendship, I've found, is much more honest than the A- typical relationship. It's good to see this is slowly shifting. Good vid & 5 *'s
FranklenWylder 3 years ago
I have a good quote for you (I'm paraphasing)
"A date is like a night long job interview"
-Jerry Seinfield
I find it really difficult to shift from friends to potential lovers. I've always thought about it. I have a few guy friends, but I just don't want to cross that line. Once you see them as friends, then it continues as friends(for me, anyways).
A friendship is more honest in some ways, but it can as many falls as a typical relationship. That is what makes relations stronger.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
I AM THE GAME
colouredbills 3 years ago 2
shit. the game. it never ends.
Knoxroxmysox 3 years ago
The game game is sex!?!?!!?!
ledzeppelinjulian 3 years ago
the only winning move is not to play
dennist3hmenace 3 years ago
..we should date?
Bobby240z 3 years ago
you lost the game by making this video....
iamraz 3 years ago
THE GAME DOES NOT END
xmk1991 3 years ago
fuck i lost the game
limatimeforever 3 years ago
You all lost the game.
StarbucksCoffeh 3 years ago
protip = people who analyze things usually want to be involved in them but aren't. Like when you constantly talk about sex and relationships, it show you want that arround you but it isn't there. I love doing that = )
Lucid91 3 years ago
lol wow. I never thought of it that way. I don't constantly talk about it, but this video was made when I was thinking of this date I went on. The date didn't feel right because I kept thinking of my next move. I felt it should of been more natural.
I do wish sometimes there was more to my love life, but recently more things have happened ;) and changed my perspectives since then.
I really, really like that protip. I'm going to remember that one, that's for sure.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
you just lost the game
pullytheawesome 3 years ago
Social Rules are forced down our throats by the media outlet, such as reality shows and just about anything that plays on MTV. Men and Women are shown how to interact with each other within a possible sexual context, and we're pressured to behave like our rich, popular "peers" on TV.
We have social rules shoved down our throats, and we mirror them when we go on things like dates because we don't know what else to do.
Never Forget: The game is a man-made invention.
topchris 3 years ago
I really like the last line "The game is a man-made invention".
Media has the biggest influence and people take the information portrayed by it, while trying to incorperate into their own lifes. The pressure is huge, and it feels like there are no limits left to become the ideal sexy male or female.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
All we can be is ourselves, let anyone who would judge be damned. People strive for perfection at the expense of their own individuality. This isn't a bad thing for the media, their pockets get lined.
Here's the biggest scam of them all: The media convinces you that you need to look like your peers, that not looking like your peers is a problem, then sells you expensive junk to help you reach this superficial goal.
We're swimming in a nation of ditzy sheep (Fashionist Men and Women).
topchris 3 years ago
Fuck the game. People make things so complicated, it's only bearable for so long before I (And I'm sure plenty of others) just scratch my head and wonder, "What's the point?".
There's a buddy of mine at the office, Jake. He's always going to bars, partying, picking up good looking women, sleeping with them and moving to the next one, and usually the women were expecting a relationship.
He doesn't date, he just looks good and talks smooth.
PS: Tantric = Days of the new with Bad haircuts.
topchris 3 years ago
Nice! You caught the music at the beginning!
I also wonder what's the point. Everyone works differently to appeal to the opposite sex. For example, your friend Jake where he moves onto one woman to the next. This is going to be a horrible reference, but I think of the character Samantha from "Sex in the city" because she doesn't want a relationship and keeps having sex with various men. I think Jake just hasn't found the right woman yet, and wants to enjoy the single life. Does that make sense?
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
You remind me of the girl I'm currently Crushing on.
Anyways, yeah, you're right. We as humans are pulled in different directions by different forces in our lives. For example, fashion, social interaction, having kids, getting married, pulled by our own individuality. We just choose different paths, what else are we to do? But some of us choose less rewarding paths than others, and for that they will never advance themselves psychologically, they will never see the world in which others do.
topchris 3 years ago
you enjoy analysis hey...?
answerplz3000 3 years ago
lol yeah. I can be very analytical sometimes.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
GAME PLAYING IS AN INVENTION OF WOMEN.IF THEY'D JUST BE HONEST THEY'D END UP BETTER. but they are too stupid to know it!!!!kudos to the rare girl who does't play stupid games!!!
megabopp 3 years ago
Well then...
Honesty can only take you so far. You have this whole thing with fibbing, white lies, and lies that protect a person to keep them sane. Would you really want to know the truth all the time? I agree with you on the idea of game playing. Overall.. its stupid, stupider, and just gets more stupid. Maybe, its not a game.. just a system to keep yourself stable and whatever works for you. Protection.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
its dating not chess lol i think it crap too the sole mate thing
paveltv007 3 years ago
lol good point. I was trying to give an idea about how women think of it. There's this idea that women overanalyze and play these little games, in hopes of getting the attention of the opposite sex.
CamoquinProductions 3 years ago
Love is like Quantum Physics - if you THINK you understand it - then you don't understand it.
DavidRandallCurtis 4 years ago