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  • So i have one question for u...

    Your name is Zuzanna, u speak with eastern europe accent, so I'm interested do u come from Poland?

    Because u said in one of your tutorial, that in the place where you come from, people go murshrooming quite usual so this is true in Polan we go murshrooming when we just can do that ;p

    And i have many friends with your name so i'm interested.

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    Thanks for reply

  • One with weight issues: I think its best to say if you really love someone you'll do everything in your power to be around for that special someone, as well as the other people in your life. That means eating healthy, working out and respecting yourself as an individual.

    Its not a matter of be shallow of deep, its a matter of feeling secure about one anothers future. Plus I think we all have 30 minutes a day or so to spare.

    On that note Take Care everyone

  • It's like you are trying to motivate people doing the 20min workout. If people cannot find the "discipline" (i can't call it discipline to do a 20min workout each day but whatever) to do a workout of a stupid 20min, they don't disserve to have a nice physique. Commo'n FFS, it's 20 lazy ass minutes each day. If you can't even do that, then you are a complete loser imo.

  • concept : shallow & depth;

    philosophy and morality are concepts;

    alpha determines behavior patterns;

    behavior varies w/ tribe & location, thus so, set patterns are irrational for comparison.

    the girl asked, tho' she already decided. she's searching for justification to get the guy to exercise; but majority doesnt make the sky green from a majority show of hands.

    body(dna) temples god(electricity),

    so i worship charliejames and project her to priestess my body & give moral support

  • unless you're in a relationship and the other person makes you feel like crap... then you start to believe it and then you give up! Which is so so so sad. So I think you should take care of yourself for YOU! Putting time and effort into eating well and exercising and grooming is an investment in your own future, no matter who is or is not in it.

  • I get alot of good ideas off your videos. Thank you.

  • you make the best youtube videos ever :)

  • Tasty, delicious and full of joy ... and the food looks good, too :)

  • Well, I have been married for three years. When I got married, my wife was in decent shape. I think I was in the best shape of my life at the time. But now we have kind of settled and put on a little weight. We arn't FAT. Just a bit bigger. But I don't think we ever felt any different about each other. I feel like if you really love that person, you won't even notice. Not saying she doesn't love him. But that's just my relationship. We still love each other as we did the day we got married.

  • You don't love them if it was their looks. If you're concerned with their health then help them. If you're going to leave don't try to justify yourself, just straight up say you were only in it for their looks, and now that they're gone you're out. See where you end up when you're older, your metabolism slows, and you don't have a shred of personality.

  • I think she can kick my ass

    that weird but I don't mind :)

  • It's not a good thing to just let your self go any time not just if you are in a relationship you should always look your best for yourself... it isn't a good enough reason to break up with him but i thin it is disrespecful an something that has to be talked over.

  • I feel if you have a mate who just lets themselves go it is a good basis to consider leaving them...it's probably an indicator of something deeper...they no doubt have other issues. If you honestly love them you'll try to help them, but if they choose to continue with their path then it means they are more interested in themselves than they are of teh relationship. It's an act of selfishness ultimately. Thats my take on it..peace.

  • It can be a complicated scenario, she might want to consider thinking about how she would want to be treated if the roles were reversed and she was the one who let herself go. I'm a realist and I know people get attracted to each other based on physicality, but the flip side is if that is the only thing holding the relationship together its not a very good relationship for either one.

  • it depends on the person and how much he lets himself go... I'd like to say that you must love your partner anyway, but there's a limit... and it's only the interested person to deciede where that limit is :)

  • people get comfortable in relationships and it happens, I think she shouldn't be so shallow and love him for him. Maybe try constructive ways to get him active again instead of whining or leaving him

  • ...the guy may have serious physical and/or psychological issues he may not be aware of...i suggest an outside third party, plus a very thorough physical exam...

  • In many cases people's lives make them depressed or physically unable to work out. Maybe work has made them very tired and sore so that the motivation is not there. It's not always a simple, 'he/she doesn't respect themselves.' Usually it is far more complicated. We also live in a 'eat on the run' society here in America so it may not affordable or even time wise possible to eat healthy. Most people are working AT LEAST 40 hours a week just to make ends meet with today's economy.

  • great workout suzana

  • Wow ....that shirt looks great good taste.

  • If i were just dating, and my girlfriend went from active / fit to lazy / fat, i would for sure break up, but only after encouragement and patience....however, it would have to go REALLY far for me to be so grossed out to break up.

    If you are married then none of this applies, and you should stay together until one of you dies. My feelings on the subject.

  • i think it's normal that you want all best for the person who you care about.. so you want him/her to be healthy and strong and good-looking for him/herself.

    on the other side it's very individual because you can't just say to them "Just do it!"..

    I know that my goal is to look at least in 1/2 good as you :)

  • False advertising is sufficient justification for a break up if you ask me, but only as a last resort.

  • to be honest, you only need 30 minutes a day to stay fit like that

    just goes along with what you eat, and how often,

    ---here's my proof , last Saturday, i set a challenge for myself to work out every day for at least 30-40 mins a day.--first 10 mins is for warming up,--20 minutes of intense workout,

    last 10 mins cool down -pratice whatever,

    in my case i practice gymnastic tricks,

    and i see results already.

    my entire body feels so much better and stronger,its all in your mind, MOTIVATION

  • of course not man, its all in your mind off, i dont think 40 kg of fat is in your brain.

    u need great workout not only take it easy with 30 min a day

  • When a person lets their appearance go it a sign of disrespect to the relationship. You should not be with someone who doesnt respect your relationship. Your friend is right to break up with someone who does that.

  • Many times men lose track to what they look like and let them selves go. Either due to there mates wanting to control them a little too much or sometimes men get caught up in to much work. Encourage them to go to the gym. When they make advances in the way they look make a big deal out of it. Men need something to work for and let them know there is a reward at the end of the rainbow and watch the burn that gym up. I think you know what I am getting at. Remember why you fell in love with them.

  • Excellent comment.

  • i wish i could have you in my house to help me exercise every day D: but i dont think your in the USA hahahaXD good work! you inspire me to be sexy.

  • its good to be attractive asbeashly if that's the way they met' like they say u cant help who u fall in love with but u also cant help if u fall out of love if he as let him self go that's wrong in my eye's because its like he as given up on the Relationship and also him self he just aint the guy she 1st met so why should she stay if she aint happy its wrong to stay but before she jumps the gun she needs to talk to him about the way she feels.

  • If you let yourself go after a while in a relationship it is like you are getting into a relationship under false pretenses. You shouldn't have to assume or guess that whoever you are with is suddenly going to stop caring about his/her appearance.

    Therefore I think it'd probably be "fair" to give said person a chance to shape up, actually tell them "I am less attracted to you than before" and if not, you have a reason to break up with them I see as legitimate

  • its not shallow. because looks is the first thing that attracts people to each other. I'm sure you all have seen a person male/female and said wow they are hot . now imagine you getting with that person and you get along great but as time goes by that person changes their appearance by becoming lazy and not taking care of themselves. Then you see other people who do take care of themselves and say man I remember when so and so took care of themselves in fact thats what first attracted me to them

  • I love the twisty thing's at the end.

  • I wonder if she's taking any kind of protein supplements to keep those muscles from burning out.

  • been there...I was the one who stopped caring about her appearance.

    a lot of times, woman really take care for they're looks when they're single, cause they have to be attractive enough to find the "perfect" partner, and when they find him they let themselves go, cause they feel like they're already being loved and they don't need to take care anymore so without even noticing, they gain weigh, stop wearing make-up,it happen to me, and my partner told me he's not attracted to me anymore.

  • unattractive...and fat lol

  • I envy your interval timer ;o)

  • i envy you

  • HI BEAUTIFUL!

    I'am a women and i would like to know How can get your stomach press in 4 MONTHS? :)

    please answer me or make a new video .. PLEASE :)

  • you ahve to stop eating bread and kalbasa

  • Another good workout, love ya!

  • im pretty sure she can kick my ass

  • I LOVE YOU !

  • what kind of  endurance sport are you doing additional to your work out. Running or cycling?

  • People are commenting on shallow?

    It's par of the course folks. External beauty and shallowness go hand in hand.

    Having a very hot gf or wife tends to heighten a guy's insecurities, unless he is totally shallow as well. lol.

  • HEY! you didn't say anything about needing rings for pullups. who has those things in their house?

  • visit her site for additional info. :]

  • good...............

  • I think it is more important to be attractive to each other emotionally than physically. I have seen enough long marriage couple take each other for granted

  • @theknowall3000 Agree :)

  • Clearly you don't date hot people lol

  • Unconditional love is stupid. Then they cry about getting abused in a relationship, or cry about how they feel neglected. Stop crying and stop loving unconditionally.

  • I think it is more of a lifestyle question, and less of a shallow question. I think it is important to be with someone who shares a similar activity level as you, in order to share interests.

  • Looks like a fun, but kick ass workout, thanks Zuzana!

  • Oh my god... I think I would have been dying and out of breath after the first minute

  • remember if lives longer with great health and saves money for health problems but if she really loves him she wouldn't break up with him

  • i would just encurage your partner to get p and start doing workouts, walking or whatever with you. if you say you will do something with them (whether you are in great shape or not) it will be more likely for them to start being more active. so accept who they are, but try to bring out who they could be.

  • insightful

  • I love my boyfriend the way he is. He loves me the way I am. We both arent super skinny, but we both arent obese either. He doesnt work out but I dont care. I do work out, but that's so I feel good about myself, it doesnt hurt to look sexy for him either, that's just a bonus for me.

  • well im a guy and of course i like my girl to have a attractive body like she does. if she gained alot of weight and got fat yea it would bug me a lil but id still be with her andstill love her and want to hold her and love on her. i do agree that if you are in a relationship you should try to look your best for your partner but your partner should love you no matter how you look and not expect you to look good. its shallow to be with some1 just 4 looks.but her bf should get back in shape 4 her

  • Hi gorgeous.

    It is a good question, and it depends on how fat and how lazy.

    If he is clearly not putting in the same amount of effort as she is, that's unfair.

    I recommend you, sorry I mean your correspondent, should have an affair.

  • In my world, there are far more serious things to worry about.

  • My question is what is the reason why he "let himself go." If there was some sudden change in lifestyle, there is usually a reason. Maybe he just doesn't find it important anymore, maybe he's depressed, not enough energy, or doesn't feel engaged by his girlfriend/wife anymore.

    And there are instances where people are disabled and aren't really able to do anything anymore. I gained weight when I stopped dancing because of an ankle injury that I kept to myself. I didn't not care.

  • My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year.

    He doesn't pressure me on dates to not eat this or that or to work out at night to stay fit.

    That's nice of him.

    I know lots of girls who just lose their self-image, and it's horrible.

    When I'm out on a date, I try to put on my best look.

  • well you cant expected someone to want to be there if they are no longer physically attracted to them anymore

  • I don't get how female/male can lose their body image when they are with someone.

    They should just maintain whatever they've been doing before the relationship without a problem.

    If you were a girl who tried to lose weight to find a guy, then you should try to maintain your weight during the relationship.

    It's not fair towards your bf to let go of your image.

  • Sometimes, it happens that there are people who work very hard at getting in shade just to get someone. But once they get someone, they let themselves go to hell. I feel that if someone is going to go to all the effort of being in shape just to get with someone, aren't they misrepresenting themselves when they fall out of shape? I don't think it's shallow to dislike someone because, after being fit, they're decided they'd rather be fat and lazy. I think it's the fat person who's being selfish.

  • I tried this workout.

    I fell down and passed out.

    It must be working.

  • how much do u weigh?

  • It's not about who someone WAS, it's about who they ARE. You ever hear someone say "they're not the person I married/fell in love with?" there's a reason for that.

    If someone doesn't care enough to take care of their own body, i have doubts they are trustworthy when it comes to other stuff. You only get 1 body, 1 life, if you waste it, or you let yourself go.. it announces to everybody how weak you are.

    That's what I think. For me, it's about the mindset, but also the looks...because i'm a guy

  • what if you get sick and your body goes.

    It is more important to look at the persons

    heart

  • Im 22 yrs old,Ive been with my bf for 7 yrs. I used to take care of my self, but over the last 3 years Ive gained a lot of weight,He has been supportive and treats me just like before always says Im pretty,he's affectionate and passionate like if I still looked like I used to.I think I have been selfish and I know Im a lucky girl, am so greatful to be with such a wonderful guy! Im getting back in shape and taking better care of my self,I also know for a fact he truly loves me for who I am.

  • id love to train with Zuzana. If you read this please come to Australia. =-)

  • I agree with the fact it is kind of selfish to let yourself go.. but as one ages there might be other pressures which are demanding like work etc.. a person should try their best..

    But yeah.. somehow the whole idea of letting yourself go after being in a relationship seems even manipulative.. because it is like showing that you are person A to be in a relationship with somebody while are you are not.

  • hahahah sexy workout...

  • I dont think its shallow at all If the person was not fat when they met its not ok to become complacent and let them self go . I told my wife when I met her if she gets fat i'm gone I dont like it if I did I would of maried a fat girl. - just saying - oh and i do have a few extra pounds on me exbodybuilder eating habits are hard to change - love your motivation - it helps me

  • It sounds like he is suffering from depression, he should probably see a doctor.

  • You look so cute and sexy in that shirt!

  • you're THE woman.

  • She is such a sweet little girl

  • This has to be the best looking girl in the world.

  • she gots some awesome workouts. moves/routines i never seen before. thanks for the vid

  • What make and model timer is that? Could you share that with us in your next video? Maybe make a review? (and give a shout out to me, Parsa :D )

  • Does this put to much stress on your lower back?

  • What kind of video camera and lighting system do you use?

  • Relationship... relation... relate... if they are compatible to where ever they are in their life.... they are relating to what ever they are thinking, doing, going in life... then there isn't much of a problem. This is my opinion.

  • Zuzana it's been great to watch your training but I wonder if you are breathing in the right way while you are doing your exercices. I normaly breath out when I'm doing the effort movement and I breath in when I'm letting go. :-) kisses

  • Its obvious we live in a society which praises almost perfect individuals. But putting that aside, I believe that you should love a person for who they are. Isnt that why you fell inlove with them in the first place? because of who they are. When it comes to health however, if your partner/ spouse has very bad eating habits i think that you should explain to them the importance of leading a more healthy and active lifestyle. Not for the looks but for the longevity of their own body

  • I think people should do whatever they feel is right in the relationship, you shouldn't have to change yourself for somebody. If you don't like what the other person is doing, you don't have to! Let the other person know how you feel, of course. However, accept people for who they are, and what they do, don't force anybody to change for you.

  • I want what I bought: The rest is BULLSHIT.

    Good appearance implicates much more things than the look. Implicates an style of life that you not only what for you, but for your children too.

    Imagine the situation that this girls told! OMG!

    I don't want a lazy partner neither children than learn that from her (in my case).

    You change: You are OUT! There are much more women in the world from who choose.

    I can't find the words to say what this implicates because I'm not an english speaker. Sorry.

  • your right it is selfish becuz they should want there partners to be attracted to them as they are to the other person.

  • This, like all questions in life is full of gray areas. I think that there may be more to it than just the physical appearance thing. Maybe this is just a symptom and he has become careless around other aspects of the relationship?

  • i noticed everything you have if from lululemon lol

  • I just finished my workout and I am a little chaffed....

  • I want u 2 b my girlfriend LOL LOL!!

  • (continued from previous post) Staying fit/healthy as long you can (assuming no illness/injury is involved in that person stopping) is like any other promise that one makes at the beginning of a relationship promises like being monogamous or being financial responsible. If a person cheats on their partner with someone else or squanders all of your savings, he has betrayed you, and leaving is justified. Well, breaking a promise to stay fit is a similar betrayal, thus justifying leaving.

  • Zuzana, great workout video. With regards to your question, early on, I used to think that leaving someone; because they let themselves go, was being superficial and callous. However, I have thought about the question more deeply and I have to say that if the person was at one time dedicated to fitness, and both of you expressed the idea that living a healthy lifestyle and staying fit were of paramount importance early in the relationship, then I think leaving is justified (continued).

  • i don't know if you guy know but she doesn't respond to any of the comments/questions on this yt channel..only on her website..

  • I think everyone has their ups and downs though, so i can't imagine breaking up with a guy because he let himself go for a year or so. I've had years when I was fat or chubby, but now I'm thin. 105 pounds and 5 foot 4 =)

  • Well, she should honestly let him know how she feels, once. Phrase it in a way to centering it on herself, not putting him on the spot. Don't nag him about it, let him know once, politely, saying how it makes her feel and possibly encourage him by working out with him. Even if he doesn't change she shouldn't get a divorce!

  • You can play beer pong off Her abs.

  • I think that both people should do their best to be their best for eachother. I think its disrespectful to the other person if they let themselves go. Especially if the other has made that effort. Sure you'll always have love for that person and that you will accept them for who they are but its important to want to try to be your best for someone who cares so much about you.

  • you are gorgeous, sexy and so beautiful...Would you like to marry me???

  • It is BOTH partners' responsibility to remain attractive for each other and for themselves as individuals. If one let themselves go and it bothers the other, say something!!!!! If someone doesn't care about their looks, then don't get involved in a relationship. We have control over what we look like weight-wise and, to an extent, cosmetically . This is very different from I-was-in-a-catastrophic-car-ac­cident. You don't have control over how people drive! That argument is a total cop out.

  • You would make a good wife for me, or for any man. = )

  • Well if the said couple are just in a dating thing or a friendship thing. It really doesn't matter too much. Sure you should try to be a good example but we can't change anyone... So leave or stay you're both just trying to figure eachother out. However if married then What do people mean when they say for better or worse? for richer or poorer ? or in Sickness and in health? Till death do you(us) part? Do people mean what they say or treat their word as something to be changed at an inconvience

  • as long as your partner is living healthy then it shouldn't be a problem

    i mean if your girlfrind/boyfriend use to have muscles or had an athletic build and then lost them, but still maintains a healthy weight, then its fine

    if they are a lil overweight thats okay too, but to become obese is totally not cool

  • I partially agree. It is in the best interest of the relationship to look attractive for ones partner. If someone was in shape before then let themselves go it is usually a sign of a mental disease like depression. But I don't think it's grounds for devorce or a breakup. That's a little extreme.

  • Nice workout very helpful 5Stars

  • I think both partners should stay in good shape, not just for the other partner, but for themselves, but I dont think they should break up over it. Try at least to work it out and it does not work then at least you tried.

  • I had a partner who let go of her body and she became very unattractive. I found her exceptionally striking when I met her and the gradual change gradually turned me off because it is not only her body. Maybe she became comfortably lethargic when she stopped impressing me but it is not shallow if you want to be physically attractive to your partner. It is a responsibility to stay in notable shape for a partner. Later.

  • she's so hot...

  • What are you writing down on the paper?

  • hmmm.. I think I can do this one :P. I'll try it after work tmr. what can I use to substitute for the ceiling bar/weight thingy?

  • WOW now I see why girls love guys abs. Female abs have me going crazy.

  • I Agree!!!!! X3 im in love with her abs.

    Im motivated to get them, a long time ago, now she makes me want to get them MORE

  • @KCrenshaw09 Indeed

  • If someone truly loves someone they accept them as they are. I would not be so worried about their looks just their health. If someone wants to be unheathly and eat junk and not exercise they will and when they want to change they will try their best. Most of the time the more their partner tries to change them the more they cling to their bad habit. I know so many physically "beautiful" people and they can be so shallow because physical appearance is all they think about.

  • that works for a few months or if you yourself are the same way

  • ugly people promote cheating.

  • Those abs are looking awesome!!!

  • nice workout Zuzana

  • thats shallow

  • she needs to tlk with him and let him know that he is not caring for himself she needs to tlk with him to motivated so he can start working out the best way is to get a membership card together and if that dose not work them he really does not care for her .

  • i think she should tell him he needs to support her in being healthy, by being healthy with, and if he chooses not to support her, then they should deffinetly break up.i hope it works for them :]

    GREAT videos btw :D

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  • the person doesnt sound emotionally happy in the relationship to begin with as such they will jump on other flaws such as physical appearance to fixate on. The reality is ppl are bound to change physcially over time (i.e become fat) but if both partys have their emotional needs met its all good.

  • Throwing in the "Twist" was great. Your amazing.

  • its circumstantial. if its just about appearance iots kindA Shallow but say when u got together u walked alot and it was no problem but now u cant do that your partners outa shape then its a problem.

  • Just a quick question where do you work? You seem like you're always exercising, when do you have time for a job?

  • find out why they have let themselves go. obviously it's not selfish since they aren't taking care of themselves

  • I bet guys don't watch just cause they need a workout....

  • Love is unconditional, however the gain of weight and lack of energy could be a sign of a unhealthy relationship or depression. Maybe something dramatic happen in his life, such as lack of money or etc.. Suggest communication for that couple.

  • she should SUPPORT him and help him to get motivated to get healthy again....and keep trying if you love him.

  • I agree with you but what if he thinks she is nagging him and breaks up with her because he feels she is only concerned about his looks?

  • love yor work tip n vidz

  • Make me a sandwich.

  • @Payaso0090 ahaha good idea

  • simple answer to that relationship question.. DEPRESSION!! Just time for a round table talk between the two people.

    Great workout...going to try this every other day

  • lov......

  • lov.....

  • sweet

  • I would confront them in a way that isnt so blunt but just like asking them/convincing them to do activities together that will help you lose weight and starting cooking healthier meals until he notices lol

  • So how about accepting her the way SHE is. I mean, men are not the only ones guilty of letting their bodies go. Women do it too. I say, fall in love with someone when they are not terribly healthy or in the best of shape to begin with. Then, help your partner get in shape along with your help. Then, the cosmetics do not matter.

  • zuzana - i have an avid thirst for working out myself, as well as studying, learning, etc. and a healthy guy such as myself knows how important exercise is.one of my ex girlfriends and i made a cute couple but after she became lazy, things went downhill. she didn't work, she stopped going to the gym and put on a bunch of weight. not only that but she became a less happy person and her fun and bubbly personality, which is what i liked about her in the first place, went away. jhmo

  • She's got the best exercise regimen that should be used in martial arts clubs.

  • i like broccoli and king prawn fried :)

  • Greetings from a fellow Canadian!

    My opinion is:

    If someone is active, and then all of the sudden doesnt, THERE MUST BE A REASON. The person might be depressed, unhappy with the relationship, or another factor. I think the reasons WHY the person let themselves go is the most important.

  • hey i was wondering where could i get that timer you have at?

  • @princeg4 check her blog :)

  • Hey, i love your workouts, but i really want to know how you warm up. Can you do a video about that? xx

  • see last video

  • thats so cool u can hear the sea in the bakground =]=]

  • I kind of agree with the girl Zuzana was talking about. It just doesn't feel right.

    I think before you break up, though, at least work out together.

    If they're not willing to do that and really are just going to be a lazy fat ass, then they don't deserve a hot lady/hot man. Really.

    That's my input.

  • If you fall in love with somebody, you must realize that people change. You however do not have to accept that change if it becomes drastic. As long as you try to encourage them, and have dialouge about the change and how it affects the relationship, you have done the best you can do. You do not have to accept a different person than you fell in love with.

  • yea tht wat i think

  • how do you suggest that we work up to the level workout your are doing? because all of the exercises that you are doing look very advanced..any chance you could do a vid with different levels, so we could work up to your level??? thanks!

  • On her channel and on her blog, she has work outs for beginners. They're a great place to start and really work :D

  • cool

  • I had that happen during a three year relationship that I was in. He gained a good bit of weight - I still loved him just as much as I did before the weight. I also think he looked a little better with added weight instead of being totally skinny, however I think our sex life was better when he was more fit. We have since broken up & he has lost the weight haha! His mother always said it was a good thing that he gained weight b/c it meant he was comfortable no matter what with me.

  • In your early videos you used to use a lot of equipment and now you rarely do (which I love by the way!), I was wondering...is there a reason why you changed your workout style? I noticed that you are actually more fit/toned now that you are not using as much structured equipment (stability ball, small weights, medicine ball, etc.). Thanks for showing us all that you can get an amazing workout without ever using equipment or machines!!!

  • You have at hot body !!

  • We get in love with a person because there's affinity: physical, mental, similar interests. If he/she lets him/herself go to the point of being a completely different person unable to enjoy what we used to enjoy together, to keep up with our vitality and dynamism, developing a lazy personality, starting to hate what we used to love together, staying at home where we'd rather travel and do things... it'd be like being in a relationship with a stranger to me, no matter how things used to be

  • getting better every minute....k rica k estas omaaaaa!!!!

  • well if you love your partner then you will try to stay attractive and healthy. if the guy does not care and becomes fat and lazy i guess it means that he does not care anymore.

  • personaly,i will say you dont just break up because syour partner get fat,and not taking care of himself,herself

    you sinply talk about it,and make sure he/she do at last try to change,because real love is all about understanding his/her other part at egual part,and to do so will never be made magically,you need to talk

    each person is diferent,so to me,people saying leave him/her just because he get fat is no good,no reel love there

    hope it helped

  • sometimes it saddens me because i automatically think one loves the other for who they are and the other just likes them for their looks (i know this isn't always true, it's just what comes to mind.)

    i don't think they need to split up, but i do think it's important to keep yourself attractive and healthy. this doesn't mean wearing your make up 24/7 or having yourself put together all the time but just maintaining your appearance.

  • Jumping Jacks, Crunches woow this Exercise looks great.. im gonna trie it out babe! Thanks Zuzana!

  • I'd have to say that breaking up is a little dramatic. I've recently gone through this with my better half and her and I have both gained weight, I'm still in better shape because I've always done sports, but she doesn't. Instead of breaking up/divorce we talked about it and now we've been going through exercises together. So now we're both getting in better shape and not resorting to separation. If you're going to break up because of lazy/fat then you generally don't want to be with them anyway

  • Nice workout. I try to follow most of them, but your posting schedule is a bit strange!

  • Wow

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  • Thanks for bringing the importance of exercise and diet to our attention.

  • i think she should be honest with him and tell him to go to gym or they both go together

    thanks

  • I plan on being in good shape for the remainder of my life (im 32yr old male), when I settle down I would also like the person that im with to plan on being in shape as well. Attraction is a huge part of a relationship...thats not shallow at all in my book. If someone is attracted to you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you why would you then turn around and let one of the aspects (notice that I said "ONE" of the aspects) that attracted that person to you fade away? Ya feel me?

  • I love your shirt zuzana.

    What are you cooking?