Same Sex Parents Not A Marriage Issue.

[videoGAMESgurl]

amazing video. im tired of hearing people say that me and my 6 brothers and sisters are at a disadvantage because we have lesbian mothers. and yeah there was a few ways that my moms got all these kids. some are step kids, 2 of my brothers R from a sperm donor and im adopted from because of severe issues in my biological family that almost killed me as an infant. basically what i want to say is that we dont have a disadvantage and none of us understand why some people feel pity for us. great vid

[rkzenrage]

@videoGAMESgurl Thank you!

[Clearie552]

... so shut the f, oh someone already said it. lol you are an awesome man for sayin this stuff.

[rkzenrage]

@Clearie552 Thanks!

[GaryInMilwaukee]

You are cool dude. Great video.

[rkzenrage]

@GaryInMilwaukee Thanks man!

[rkzenrage]

@GaryInMilwaukee Thanks!

[6527mjap]

I don't care about anything, as long as this married couples love each other, either they are same sex. it doesn't matter at all.

"why will a human being marry or love someone who doesn't want to make love"

bible sometimes makes us so religious, but think of this days?

I'm not a gay, a homo or what else you call it. it's just that if both were meant for each other why will you have to force your self to love or marry that you will regreet for life.

[maciekur]

Your right! We must make gay marriage legalized evry where! This way it will be quicker to legalized rights for pedophiles, zoophiles, people who want to marry their siblings and who want polygamy! They are natural as well, you know.

[rkzenrage]

See people, the idiots can't even watch an entire vlog... I clearly stated that what two people who are old enough to give adult consent do is no one's business.

I see no problem with polygamy or polyandry... again, it is none of your business.

[rkzenrage]

@maciekur This makes no sense. People who are adults who can consent to a relationship are the only people allowed to have sex.

Allowing all consenting adults to marry as they like is in NO WAY related to anything you mentioned.

[spirit469]

Leviticus 18:22 "You shall not lie with a man, as with a woman: it is an abomination." There's old testament proof.

New Testament Proof in Romans 1:18-32. I can't fit that in, just google "Romans 1:18-32 esv" and you'll find it. You asked, so I provided. I will send the full text to you.

[rkzenrage]

Thanks for making my point by including the rantings of that nutty book of bronze age myths. Yadda yadda yadda and bats are birds, the world is flat and snails melt.

If what others do does not directly affect you it is none of your damn business.

[lyndallbaxter]

We will all meet God one day, i know i will go through those pearly gates. Im gay, i do more for my community, my family and friends my partner and our son than most people and you can just preach from an old school comic book. God luck buddy.

[TheIronMole2]

Humanity needs more guys like you!

[rkzenrage]

Thanks you are very kind.

[always424]

Thank GOD someone with the ability to read before making a video..<3

YESSSSSS

[elayn2]

oh,all of you can nothing say than "You go to hell"..blabla!

This is a really good video!!

God creates uss all: Hetero- and homosexual,so what?!

[gardo0910]

marrige is law of god not men your going to hell and you gonna burn then you gonna find out god is real

[rkzenrage]

If it is a "law of god" then, as a secular state, we need to ignore it.

[spirit469]

I don't approve of how he said "You're going to hell" in such a crude manner. However, do you think that we should ignore murder as a secular state? That is the law of God, but it is accepted universally. How about theft? The reason why God created marriage the way He did is because that is the best design, the purest form. He made man and woman fit for each other. When he made a helper "fit for him", it was not a male but a female. God makes things perfect. It is we sinful people who destroy it

[rkzenrage]

Let me be more specific for those who cannot think for themselves.

If it is a law of god we should ignore it. Secular laws are made based on what makes sense, logically, for a human society. If someone's behavior does not directly affect you it is none of your damn business.

[SilentPenumbra]

I love this video. I love how aggressively you attack this topic. Seriously. When you said gays make better parents, my jaw dropped and you earned all my respect. Good arguements!

[ghnunes]

Thanks for posting. I love they way you express your opinions and how honest and intelligent they are. The world needs more people like u -less care about neighbor's business and take care of ur life and family and friends...it's also funny the way u look, pretty rough but a lot of emphaty and conscience on ur words. Thanks again and hugs from Brazil.

[rkzenrage]

Thank you for your kind words!

[celidee]

LMAO "just shut the fuck up"

I did an ethics paper in college on how gay parents are no more likely to have gay children then straights. Gay parents are just more tolerable to diversity. Great video 5 stars!

[mcb514]

You just said everything, and this, very wisely. Thank's!

[NaraSasuke]

hahaha :P I liked the way you said "..so Shut the F**k up~"

Great video, good points ;)

[spirit469]

Well, homosexuality certainly is a sin, regardless of what you might think.

[rkzenrage]

Show one biblical verse that states it is a sin.

[pop3377]

Sure, here's several. Now please note, I'm not against you as a person. Only sin. I care about you just the same as Christ would. That's why I am showing you these. Please take a look at each of these references, and tell me what they say.

Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13

1 Corinthians 6:9-10

Romans 1:26-28

[rkzenrage]

Abomination is not sin... unless you say wearing my polyester and cotton shirt is a sin, eating crab is a sin, plating peas and carrots together is sin. There are 614 abominations... who are you to tell someone which ones are "sins"?

None of them are.

[spirit469]

I encourage you to read the entire chapter of Leviticus 18, to see what it is with. Do you approve of incest and beastiality? Also, I find it hard for you to ignore the entire passage in Romans 1 concerning the "dishonorable passions" and "things contrary to nature". By contrary to nature, it means that God did not create it that way. And if you think man can do better than God, you must not know the God I know. He loves people like you. There is one who hates you, and God. He created bondage.

[rkzenrage]

I approve of any activity between two consenting adults that does not directly affect my... because it is NONE OF MY DAMN BUSINESS.

Based on your above comment you believe that bats are birds, it should be illegal to eat shrimp, wear a poly-cotton blend shirt or wash your car on Saturday.. idiot.

[Fede1980]

Thank you so much for this video... awesome! We need more smart people like you talking with facts not stupid biggotry.

[inioani]

awesome!! i luv the video thanks!!!!

[rkzenrage]

Thank you.

[inioani]

awesome!! i luv the video thanks!!!!

[Exsecrabilis]

Interesting video, rkzenrage, thank you, I hope those self-claim christians get the point. Now I'll go get us some beer, any brand you like is on me.

[rkzenrage]

Gunness and Harp half-&-half please!

[Exsecrabilis]

Gunness and Harp, thats new to me.. sound tasty though..

[rkzenrage]

It is. Give it a try. Pour the Harp first then the Guinness over a spoon and they will separate and you sip them together as you tip the glass.

[Exsecrabilis]

I will, Cheers and Bottoms up!

[pumapaulwaul]

It's pretty weak that you don't provide any documentation of these "facts" you talk about. I guarantee there is not one heterosexual person on the planet that would have wanted to grow up with homosexual parents. Also, these types of families begin with the pretense of selfishness on part of the parents. Young men need a role model of what a healthy relationship is with a woman, not another man. It simply confuses them. It is child abuse.

[rkzenrage]

So, having a single parent is child abuse?

Idiot.

[syadamung]

I happen to know a few heterosexuals who look at modern gay families with envy....don't make such blanket statements, it takes away from the validity of the rest of your argument.

[mymagicrock]

the documentation is available on the American Psychological Association's official website.

[askagaydad]

Thanks for your interesting video.

[rkzenrage]

Anytime.

[SeanGizzle]

"They make great parents.....so shut the fuck Up." Good shit. Is that pipe weed you're smokin'?

[rkzenrage]

Namaste' from Hearth and Home. A great smoke.

Thanks for the comment.

[zacht3939]

they DO NOT make good parents. i had a gay mother and lived with her and her partner. one is my biological mother. u dont know what it is like so youall cant imagine. i recently moved out because i couldn't take it anymore. i dont plan to go back

[rkzenrage]

I never stated EVERY gay person makes great parents. I stated that statistically gay couples that adopt make superior parents and the numbers support that statement.

Of course not every gay human is going to be a great parent... LOL!

Sorry you had a rough time.

[sadending1234]

Fucking great video.

[rkzenrage]

Thanks a-fucking-lot!

[eezyone]

there are no good christains that don't take care of their kids. Maybe bad christians don't take care of their kids. Maybe irresponsible people don't take care of their kids.

[rkzenrage]

Good xians don't teach their kids that if they sin or turn their back on god they will be tortured in hell forever?

That is abuse.

[eezyone]

I agree with you good christians don't teach that. I don't believe it. That's not the God I know. God will save everyone in hell sooner or later. People create ther own hell. He didn't create hell, we did by our hateful selfish behavior

[stepremi]

Its very refreshing to hear a non-homosexual man make such a great argument, thanks. However, it seems "everyone" who makes there statements either for or against sam sex marriage seems to leave out the gay people that where married to someone of the oposite sex and bore children during there marriage, I , being one of the afor mentioned. Maybe this has not baring on the argument, I guess, I just find it strange that "we" are never mentioned. Anyway, great video, very elequently put. kudos

[rkzenrage]

I really don't see it as having any bearing on the topic.

[anishinaabe]

I agree totally Stepremi, It really puts my faith back into the human race and I breathe a sigh of relief whenever I meet someone like this, who chooses logic and rational thought to come to a conclusion rather than bigotry.

[TimothyRed1990]

It's cruel to the the child, plain and not so simple

[rkzenrage]

So you get to say that with nothing to back it up.

How nice for you, but no one is buying it.

[ClemClemens1111]

Tim what is cruel?

[nlightnd07]

enigma - unfortunately, my partner and i have encountered that misconception a number of times. i agree, i certainly hope it is not that common.

[rkzenrage]

Saying that marriage is too messed-up to include same sex relationships is off-topic.

I will not allow any more, they will be deleted.

It is a moronic statement.

[freebyrd07]

marriage in general is fucked up. And its totally possible for it to be fixed bfore its expanded. I dont care who you are you cant take something and make it bigger and better thatn it was if its broken.

[anishinaabe]

It's good to know that there are people like you out there. Thank you.

[rkzenrage]

That is very kind of you. I just wish I was able to to more.

[freebyrd07]

I think a big factor of gay marriage is that the whole married rights issue needs to be reviewed . I think regular married people get to many benifits. Maybe all marriages need to be fixed before we get the possibility of gay marriages.

[rkzenrage]

One has nothing to do with the other.

No, same sex rights are not contingent on "fixing" marriage rights for all.

That is ridiculous.

This is about acknowledging a right they have and are being denied, not giving them a right.

[ClemClemens1111]

Very good, Your right to the point, no flim flam with you.

[rkzenrage]

The more I think about it the higher a compliment it is.

Thank you!

[moondog2323]

I'm a fifth grade teacher who covers the Civil Rights movement and the inequality between Blacks and Whites. I'm questioned by my students year after year- "Why was that"?

I think, unfortunately, we'll always have biases, stereotypes, etc. Who knows, maybe someday same sex couples will be able to use the same restrooms and drink from the same water fountains as we do. Thanks for the video!

[rkzenrage]

I hope you also talk to them about the disabled. We have our civil rights issues as well. A non-accessible business might as well have a "Whites Only" sign with the whites crossed-out with able-bodied written in.

Thanks for doing your job.

[rkzenrage]

Sorry about going off-topic guys.

[Stephanreyu]

Good stuff man. As a Christian I applaud your boldness. Unfortunately, I believed the mis-dotrine that gay was bad for 10 years. I probabely would have gotten defensive torwards this video then.

[rkzenrage]

It is great to hear from you.

I always say, I don't care what you believe, just what you do.

[TimothyRed1990]

what about you rksenrage? did you have a mom? can you imagine never having met her? can you imagine the cold life,the cold cold world, without the nurturing of a mother? the love? the love that you share with your wife? there is a connection!

[rkzenrage]

There is no connection between this and my personal life.

Again, why the focus on one sex.

Just as many same-sex females adopt kids as men.

Both raise great kids.

[rkzenrage]

To answer your question, yes, I can imagine it, easily.

I am a professional actor and writer and we can all imagine each other's circumstances... its called empathy if one has a caring heart.

Being raised by two of the same sex who loved me IMO opinion would have been wonderful, just as wonderful as two loving parents of different sexes.

Love is love, caring is caring.

[TimothyRed1990]

aha! an answer! I knew that question was too good to leave hanging. Thank you for taking the time to answer.

[TimothyRed1990]

so what about a little girl, and she has two "MOMS", what about the bond between father and daughter,all the important things in life that a dad does with his daughter? and when she grows up, her relationships with men, are based on this relationship, whether good or bad, that she has with her father, but wait, this girl had NO FATHER!. its a freakin vacuum! think about this stuff before you make your mass judgements of homosexual "marriage" of which you are not even a part of.

[TimothyRed1990]

I meant to say "Do you know how important the bond is between a male child and his mother!?" Also, wtf is red herring means?

[rkzenrage]

Dictionary/dot/com

[morph39]

TimothyRed1990: The term "Red herring" is in reference to when some one makes an argument based on no supporting evidence to justify their fear of the unknown. Therfore they will just throw out 'red herrings' to distract from the real issue at hand because they know they can't win on anyting that is solid.

[TimothyRed1990]

ah, thank you.

[TimothyRed1990]

If homosexuals are allowed to marry, it could make it easier for them to adopt! aside from the molestation issue, What about the poor child who has to grow up without a mother? Do you know how important the bond is between a make child and his mother!? Even a homosexual would admit a close bond with his mother. The poor kid has TWO DADS! I'm sure a few kids could make it through ok, but the majority would be hopelessly scarred.

[rkzenrage]

Many grow up with two moms.

As I stated in this video and you can find for yourself, your opinion is baseless.

The kids turn out great and have wonderful home lives and turn out better than the average.

[nlightnd07]

Timothy - you are under a common misconception of what it means to be gay. Gay people are NOT pedophyles. If a child is raised by gay parents it is highly more likely that they will have a network of individuals that care for them, bringing a sense of community. As an uncle of a child raised by a gay mother, I can tell you - she is not afraid. You are speaking from homophobia, not true understanding.

[magus12345678]

THere prolly such good parents because 1. They have to really want the child, and unlike hetros who can accidently have a child and not want it but still raise it. 2.) The child is grown in a much more accepting family. 3.) The child isnt confused about homosexuality and it is eaiser for them to grow up. 4.)Most homosexuals fight for there right to marriage and adpot why would they bother if there love wasnt real?

[rkzenrage]

Is that not true of most adoptive parents? I see them as just that.

But, perhaps they are more encouraging of their kids to be themselves, for obvious reasons.

[magus12345678]

Yes i would say all adoptive parents would be that way.

[magus12345678]

Thank you i was watching that one video and i wanted to respond but you did it already.

[NermalsChannel]

Its all about trying control society.

[geroldkid]

Very well said! Extremely sad that same sex parents and their children will face homophobia and bigotry. Hopefully that will change in time(well, when religion dismantles one day).