Ok my first guess about this is that you maybe u weren't really ATTRACTED to him on a GUT GUT Level, Don't worry about whatever he eats too much IF ur Attracted to him,. maybe he was too "nice" lmao i know what that does, if he was REALLY NICE, chances are thats a turnoff LMAO!
If a guy ever does not want to accept your diet then he is not worth it. I would personally date vegans, vegetarians, and not just raw food people - because at least you have something in common and you might even change to suit each other's diets learning more about them. Hugs are the key to building trust further into the dating, as they release oxytocin which is the "trust drug" of the body.
dude , checking and being all intrusive and needy is a turn off, and 3 months w/o sex is unhealthy for BOTH PEOPLE! reality folks, aabd thheers nothin wrong with lookin at porn, girls look at it 2
The color is called "Cinnabar". I don't know for sure the company posibly "American" something. Picked it up at a Lowes or Home Depot. Funny, I painted the wall before I had the pictures, they just fit so well. I got lucky! :)
Great honest account of getting back on the 'dating horse'. Resonates with my life 7 yrs ago after yrs of empty relationships. Tried the exercise, writing down exactly the women I could see myself loving-insightful part was it showed how to be the person I really was, capable of loving 'this women' back. I met her soon after and we've been married 4 years and have a beautiful daughter. She's also a non-animal eater (some values can't be compromised). Good luck and enjoy the growth experience.
After three years of not dating, I went out on the "first date" last month. One good thing about the whole encounter was that I learned that I am a zero tolerance kinda of girl now. I was hard pressed to compromise on anything. I guess I'm not yet ready to date. All healthy relationships strart with GIVE and TAKE. So I've stepped back to TAKE more time to heal the past relationship wounds. No worries. This is a fascinting period of self discovery. bon voyage
Dang... this guys got it made if he knows that your makin YT vid's about the things you like & don't like about him / the date / and basically an overall opinion of the date as a whole! haha
Ya know, he knows I make videos, and has seen one or two, but I don't think he really watches them. I may need to ask if it is ok that I even share these stories publicly.
Nah, I don't think u have 2 ask, especially if they're gonna b like this vid, cause u didn't like step over any lines as far as revealing 2 much about the guy or wutev...
I was just thinkin how lucky / the advantages a guy could have if he knows he'll b able 2 watch a YT vid w/ all the girls thoughts (likes & dislikes) about the 1st date, and by the time the 2nd one comes he's able 2 "fix" whatever it is he did wrong, or whatev happened that the girl didn't like haha.
Only so long as its a good challenge of course..something that inspires you to grow, as opposed to just being challenged by something they are doing that irritates you...which would be bad lol
I loved your insight about dating. I can so relate to you 100%. I haven't dated for over 4 years now. I am divorced with 4 kids. A big issue for me is definitely finding a man who is either raw or even vegan! I live in an area where this way of eating is not common at all. My husband was a meat eater and I don't want to end up with another meat eater.
It's nice that there are other people out there going through the same thing, but it would be amazing that a raw or vegan lifestlye was the norm. Hmmm..what to do?
The key is obviously having a synergistic connection. Unconditional love will lead to physical action comfortably and without worry. Honesty and directness is great. Making a Raw meal together could be a good way to bring this connection to the date.
Chivalry isn't dead...sadly...its just not required anymore
jkiser1 2 months ago
never has there been a girl who takes so long to say so little.
isdfgbsdf 1 year ago
Ok my first guess about this is that you maybe u weren't really ATTRACTED to him on a GUT GUT Level, Don't worry about whatever he eats too much IF ur Attracted to him,. maybe he was too "nice" lmao i know what that does, if he was REALLY NICE, chances are thats a turnoff LMAO!
Fierysasuke 2 years ago
LOL! You are wise!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Lori he definately wants you in a romantic in a way dont fall for it
beeks442 2 years ago
wow your a mother i would have never known with that body congrats girl
beeks442 2 years ago
Thank you!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
If a guy ever does not want to accept your diet then he is not worth it. I would personally date vegans, vegetarians, and not just raw food people - because at least you have something in common and you might even change to suit each other's diets learning more about them. Hugs are the key to building trust further into the dating, as they release oxytocin which is the "trust drug" of the body.
LierreKeithPwned 2 years ago
I agree! Interesting info about the hugs! :)
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
the dating scene nowadays is tough! especially for honest guys.
xingjitsu 2 years ago
Yes brother you are truly right.
rajinderpalg 2 years ago
I love that you share so much! You are so positive!
fooferkitten 2 years ago
We can assure you that Chivalry certainly isn't dead.. ;)
Best of luck with your dates.
THG (Kev & Rick)
TheHonestGuys 2 years ago
Men NEVER respect as EASY PEICE OF TAIL
ALWAYS date for at least 3 months... that is when the mask comes off!
ALWAYS have him go for an STD test... herpes can be indicated by a blood test.
ALWAYS meet his friends....they will be forced upon you later.
Check the debt!!! Check the movie favorites, too.
RUN from all me who look at PORN...any PORN....RUN!!!!!
MoronFreeZone 2 years ago
That's what I'm talking about!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
dude , checking and being all intrusive and needy is a turn off, and 3 months w/o sex is unhealthy for BOTH PEOPLE! reality folks, aabd thheers nothin wrong with lookin at porn, girls look at it 2
Fierysasuke 2 years ago
@MoronFreeZone what about exotic dancers? should men RUN from exotic dancers too...?
Come on now....dont be so silly
SOCRATES012 1 year ago
Just remember who your first was. ; )
LovingRaw 2 years ago
Hey Lori...I know this is totally off topic, but what color is the wall behind your couch & piano? I love that color, and the paintings go perfectly!
ksrgarber 2 years ago
The color is called "Cinnabar". I don't know for sure the company posibly "American" something. Picked it up at a Lowes or Home Depot. Funny, I painted the wall before I had the pictures, they just fit so well. I got lucky! :)
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Great honest account of getting back on the 'dating horse'. Resonates with my life 7 yrs ago after yrs of empty relationships. Tried the exercise, writing down exactly the women I could see myself loving-insightful part was it showed how to be the person I really was, capable of loving 'this women' back. I met her soon after and we've been married 4 years and have a beautiful daughter. She's also a non-animal eater (some values can't be compromised). Good luck and enjoy the growth experience.
Srieire 2 years ago
After three years of not dating, I went out on the "first date" last month. One good thing about the whole encounter was that I learned that I am a zero tolerance kinda of girl now. I was hard pressed to compromise on anything. I guess I'm not yet ready to date. All healthy relationships strart with GIVE and TAKE. So I've stepped back to TAKE more time to heal the past relationship wounds. No worries. This is a fascinting period of self discovery. bon voyage
herBeautifulMassage 2 years ago
Dang... this guys got it made if he knows that your makin YT vid's about the things you like & don't like about him / the date / and basically an overall opinion of the date as a whole! haha
JFHEALTHYandFit 2 years ago
Ya know, he knows I make videos, and has seen one or two, but I don't think he really watches them. I may need to ask if it is ok that I even share these stories publicly.
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Nah, I don't think u have 2 ask, especially if they're gonna b like this vid, cause u didn't like step over any lines as far as revealing 2 much about the guy or wutev...
I was just thinkin how lucky / the advantages a guy could have if he knows he'll b able 2 watch a YT vid w/ all the girls thoughts (likes & dislikes) about the 1st date, and by the time the 2nd one comes he's able 2 "fix" whatever it is he did wrong, or whatev happened that the girl didn't like haha.
JFHEALTHYandFit 2 years ago
love the log analogy.
your a hottie.
so what did you eat?
StrawberryBigMac 2 years ago
LOL... I forgot to mention that. I ate salad, sauteed carrots and broccoli & about 1/4 cup of some rice dish. So, I ate some cooked food.
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
The challenge could be a good thing...might suggest potential for personal growth within the relationship. Best of luck with it all :-))
rawph0enix 2 years ago
Yeah, I can see where a challenge is a good thing. A great way to see what I am made of. :)
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Only so long as its a good challenge of course..something that inspires you to grow, as opposed to just being challenged by something they are doing that irritates you...which would be bad lol
rawph0enix 2 years ago
brilliant distinction..thank you
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
Good for you,that sounds really cool and interesting to let yourself get back out there again. So inspirational and motivating.
wishiremembered 2 years ago
So UNpredictable...lol
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
I loved your insight about dating. I can so relate to you 100%. I haven't dated for over 4 years now. I am divorced with 4 kids. A big issue for me is definitely finding a man who is either raw or even vegan! I live in an area where this way of eating is not common at all. My husband was a meat eater and I don't want to end up with another meat eater.
itsallconnected 2 years ago
It's nice that there are other people out there going through the same thing, but it would be amazing that a raw or vegan lifestlye was the norm. Hmmm..what to do?
Inspire2Act 2 years ago
The key is obviously having a synergistic connection. Unconditional love will lead to physical action comfortably and without worry. Honesty and directness is great. Making a Raw meal together could be a good way to bring this connection to the date.
CAlex6977 2 years ago
wow, that is a fabulous suggestion for a date :) Thank you!
Inspire2Act 2 years ago