this weekend i am cuting my drinking days, i will only go out friday nite and lock my self sat and sunday home, good luck to me . next weekend i will do the same thing until get use to , you cant quit in just one day , you cut your days of drinking like a schedule and youre ready to go, dont let the alcohol be part or you.
@luverdude if you are an alcoholic, there is no such thing as cutting back. if you feel like you need to cut back you are an alcoholic, period. Either get sober or look forward to years and years of vomiting, getting fired, and a beer belly that is unattractive to women untill your youth is gone forever.
I'm 29, 10 years of hardcore drinking behind me... The last couple years have been hell. I'm 5 days sober, and still going through withdrawals. Have tried quitting countless times, but I can't stand humiliating myself and being a retard anymore. I can't have a friggin' beer without going on 2-3 day bender anymore, its gotten BAD. Grats to you for quitting bro.
Try and remember what it was like to be drunk in a bar, and not try and imagine meeting a girl who is stone sober. Would you feel very comfortable talking to her while you're drunk and she's not? I don't mean would you have the courage to, I mean would you not feel terribly self-conscious about it? I know I would, and I know I *did* feel that way when I would drink and talk to sober people. I felt like a sad case around sober people. Perhaps that girl you met was just embarrassed from drinking?
u are beautiful,honest and genuine..dont wori about the girls that dont drink, u will find one that loves u for exactly who u r..and drink wont even be an issue
Instead of quitting drinking, why don't you control yourselves? No one needs alcohol, drugs, or anything else to have a good time but if you choose to take part in it, be responsible. And the whole "not having control" is a weak excuse. You control you, the alcohol has no mind, no power over you, its your indulgence and your choices. At the end of the night, no one makes decisions for you, you take the action. Take it all back.
Read the emerging scientific literature and then please post. "The Science of Addiction" by Erickson. Or simply do more medical research. period. If you have the "addiction gene" there is a 50% chance you will pass it onto your children. If you do not inherit this gene you are psychologically addicted and not an addict. THEN it becomes an issue of control. If you have the gene you will always be an addict EVEN if you never drink.
i'm an alcoholic. i think you're right. the powerless thing is just an excuse but drinkers don't want to actually quit drinking because they like it so much..
LOL! Drunk girls are pretty sad ain't they? I used to be a f*cking train wreck. I'm glad I don't remember half the sh*t I did .I sure hope none of it is on YOUTUBE...wow, never thought of that before! keep em coming, we like your vids alot :)
I know what you mean about shyness..I was antisocial in the sense that what do I need to do to be accepted, so they "make" me drink or you'll get "what's wrong with that guy"?
As soon as you get comfortable with being sober and your new life everything will fall into place, it will just take a little time but hang in there it will happen.
this weekend i am cuting my drinking days, i will only go out friday nite and lock my self sat and sunday home, good luck to me . next weekend i will do the same thing until get use to , you cant quit in just one day , you cut your days of drinking like a schedule and youre ready to go, dont let the alcohol be part or you.
luverdude 1 month ago
@luverdude if you are an alcoholic, there is no such thing as cutting back. if you feel like you need to cut back you are an alcoholic, period. Either get sober or look forward to years and years of vomiting, getting fired, and a beer belly that is unattractive to women untill your youth is gone forever.
SummernlightningUSA 1 month ago
I'm 29, 10 years of hardcore drinking behind me... The last couple years have been hell. I'm 5 days sober, and still going through withdrawals. Have tried quitting countless times, but I can't stand humiliating myself and being a retard anymore. I can't have a friggin' beer without going on 2-3 day bender anymore, its gotten BAD. Grats to you for quitting bro.
Gregman420 2 months ago
...keep on keepin on..
0004l 4 months ago
Try and remember what it was like to be drunk in a bar, and not try and imagine meeting a girl who is stone sober. Would you feel very comfortable talking to her while you're drunk and she's not? I don't mean would you have the courage to, I mean would you not feel terribly self-conscious about it? I know I would, and I know I *did* feel that way when I would drink and talk to sober people. I felt like a sad case around sober people. Perhaps that girl you met was just embarrassed from drinking?
SubconsciousGatherer 1 year ago
eh? i don't get it... is that video broadcast part of your therapy...? o_O
Mysticsloth 1 year ago
could'nt have said it better myself
johnjohnmorrison 1 year ago
Are you Charlie Day?
domnote 1 year ago
u are beautiful,honest and genuine..dont wori about the girls that dont drink, u will find one that loves u for exactly who u r..and drink wont even be an issue
derothschild62 1 year ago
keep on keepin on, author The BlueribbonArmy
TheBlueRibbonArmy 1 year ago
i got alot of pain under left rib, hurts to lay down on that side, u give hope, thx. im going to see dr. tomorrow....im also 29, good luck evry1
1casper021181 2 years ago
id prolly die if i quit thats all i know. i get sezuires and dts
tjomc82 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing, man
hudstar 2 years ago
Are you on the 12 step program or are you trying to white knuckle your addiction?
vivalastefchablal 2 years ago
right on man keep on. But if you ever want to know yerself more completely check the mushrooms.
envelopevil 3 years ago
ive been thinking about shrooms. explain further on ur statement plzz
DavidTheSilencer 3 years ago
Instead of quitting drinking, why don't you control yourselves? No one needs alcohol, drugs, or anything else to have a good time but if you choose to take part in it, be responsible. And the whole "not having control" is a weak excuse. You control you, the alcohol has no mind, no power over you, its your indulgence and your choices. At the end of the night, no one makes decisions for you, you take the action. Take it all back.
blackwaterdrowning 3 years ago
yup
ninyader 3 years ago
Read the emerging scientific literature and then please post. "The Science of Addiction" by Erickson. Or simply do more medical research. period. If you have the "addiction gene" there is a 50% chance you will pass it onto your children. If you do not inherit this gene you are psychologically addicted and not an addict. THEN it becomes an issue of control. If you have the gene you will always be an addict EVEN if you never drink.
lar6295 3 years ago
Sorry this was my first time posting--this comment was intended to address the comment by blackwaterdrowing.
lar6295 3 years ago
i'm an alcoholic. i think you're right. the powerless thing is just an excuse but drinkers don't want to actually quit drinking because they like it so much..
sovietmarxist 2 years ago
the fact that you don't drink is way attractive. =P
leahwages 3 years ago
good luck.
leahwages 3 years ago
Alcoholism and gays dont mix! Predjudice makes it more evil!
padude64 3 years ago
LOL! Drunk girls are pretty sad ain't they? I used to be a f*cking train wreck. I'm glad I don't remember half the sh*t I did .I sure hope none of it is on YOUTUBE...wow, never thought of that before! keep em coming, we like your vids alot :)
luvhaggis 3 years ago
would that be such a bad thing?
reallydrunkgirls 3 years ago
Best of luck to you Tampa ... keep comin back
bigfathairyonions 3 years ago
Good job, man, and good luck.
fategiver 3 years ago
I know what you mean about shyness..I was antisocial in the sense that what do I need to do to be accepted, so they "make" me drink or you'll get "what's wrong with that guy"?
johnsmdm 3 years ago
well SOMEONES insecure..
ninyader 3 years ago
I am currently trying to quit drinking. These videos help inspire me. Thanks.
alexjs1000 4 years ago
As soon as you get comfortable with being sober and your new life everything will fall into place, it will just take a little time but hang in there it will happen.
manque15 4 years ago