Attract Men: How To Embrace Your Body And Instantly Create Attraction

[dreamcatcher5201]

Awww poor Kim :(

[HayItsLynzy]

This guy is just talking common sense,... none of this is new?

[CoraMarie1000]

damn bus...

[applegreen7777]

@deroseg. Thank you for the reply, deroseg. if you think that "thin is in" or thin girls have it easy - OMG. how far from true. I cann't tell you how much nastiness you get from just being naturally thin - "oh, eat a sandwich", "oh, u don't look like a "real"woman" and etc. I just wish they will leave us alone!!! WHY in the world it is Ok to say "why are u so skinny" (mind you, I m not even THAT skinny) and why it's NOT Ok to say "oh, why are you so fat"? EXACTLY-feel good about yourself,

[applegreen7777]

BUT DO NOT put other people, who do not have your body type down (I'm referring to David Wygant)

[Konstiin]

@applegreen7777 wow dude you think he's putting her down? fuck no, thats the whole point - that he isn't. she may not think her legs are attractive, but men do.

[applegreen7777]

Honestly, this is rather politically incorrect. OK, it is great that he wants to make "curvy" woman feel good about herself, but WHY in the world make naturally slim and slender women feel like they are "not it", why call them "sticks"? I don't think that is very flattering term AND he is contradicting himself, when saying that EVERY body type is attractive. SOOOOO inconsiderate, if you ask me. So, slim girls are supposed to have a complex now? or fatten up pronto?

[deroseg]

@applegreen7777 I think he isnt so much sticking up for the curvy girl as he is showing all of us that skinny isnt the total answer: like most people think (thin is everywhere, right)so this guy is giving us a perspective to say that not everyone wants thin chicks, just like not everyone wants fat. No one should fatten up as much as no one should starve themselves. I personally like someone and not every body part on them is perfect, either. Feel Good about yourself no matter what your type is.

[charliewheeler21]

DAvid loves to serve others. Service to others is also invirgorating. But you also need to practice. I suggest watching "Defending your life", and "The Peaceful Warrior" for tips on understanding how we are wired.

[SkinnyGirl125]

And secondly, LOTS of white girls are suggested to date black men if they are on the curvier side, so why when I say it is it racial (PSI AM HALF BLACK)

I was just making a suggestion. It is easier to date someone who accepts you for your body type than it is to change your body type.

[SkinnyGirl125]

Okay for the record I am not racist, I am part African American thank you. So my comment was only based on MY PERSONAL life observations by the black or white guys that approach me.

[Erickito17]

Hey David I would like to let you know that IT IS POSSIBLE for women to change their body figure, it's gonna be pretty tough in terms of discipline, but it can definately be done. I found out about Dr Nicholas Perricone M.D., he's a research scientist focused on helping people lose weight and helping them gain skin rejuvenation wit health benefits. I invite interested people to search for this doctor on youtube for getting a head-start in learning how to lose fat and gain muscle mass.

[baretillo]

that dude wants to do em>>>

[prettylittlecupcakes]

''so many men like curvy women'' this is such b.s! All men want women to look like a super model... which means they want skinny women!

[richradtylr4]

@prettylittlecupcakes you should say some, because i don't find skinny women at all attractive, women who are skinny remind me of 12 year old boy. i prefer women with beyonce type body over paris hilton body type, and the woman in the in video that said she is curvy is more on the fat side than anything else.

[Sogwa]

WHERE IS THE MIC? I CAN HEAR MORE CARS THAN WHAT THE GUY SAYS!!!

What l could hear (w/OUT the use of a decent mic) was how many guys (mostly Black, Central Amer. Caribbean, African, & men from the Indian subcontinent) prefer thick curvy women!

& others (such as he, a prof. white Amer., white men from N. Amer., zombified, professional black & ghetto Latino Amer, Asian men, S. Amer., & European) like thin, boney women.

That of course doesn't stop them from privately fucking big fat women.

[Sogwa]

WHERE IS THE MIC? I CAN HEAR MORE CARS THAN WHAT THE GUY SAYS!!!

[SkinnyGirl125]

This video is only half right. Yes she should be confident and dress for her body but the truth is,

Only black guys like "curvy" girls. I hope she likes chocolate.

[TearfulShadows]

@SkinnyGirl125 That's a pretty absurd statement. Racial profiling much?

[superstareva]

@SkinnyGirl125

yes you are so wrong. Jealous because deep down inside you WISH you had curves with your bony "I need a hamburger" self. I have dated PLENTY of guys that aren't black and says they like guys that are thick. INCLUDING my current puertorican boyfriend who loves every inch of me. where is your man?

[Sogwa]

@superstareva

SkinnyGirl is basically on pt. here in Amer.as l GENERALIZED in my statement above. Yes, it's a generalization. & As l mention, these prof, white men, S. Amer, or WHOEVER won't date a BBW in public but would quickly screw her behind closed doors like dating a fat chick is as humiliating as dating a man.

As my gay friend said, he would never stoop 2 & sneaking around 2 screw MARRIED men who'd NEVER be seen with him in public. He wants a relationship NOT just a booty call.

[SkinnyGirl125]

Thank you. Finally someone who understands. Back to the gym I go!

[Sogwa]

@superstareva

But my question based on ur quote (I have dated PLENTY of guys that aren't black and says they like GUYS that are thick.) is r u speaking of GAY or Straight men?

B/c a fat man is NOT stigmatized by western media & there r many women & men who'd date a fat man so if ur statement is based on gay men who r attracted 2 fat guys, how does that represent fat women?!?!

Unless it was a typo & ur speaking of straight men.

[rring88]

Yeah, i have to say, tall thin women are the best.

[AngieKiss02]

next time, try to record somewhere more quiet.

other than that, good advice :)

[theestrogenius]

they're just ripping on this poor woman

[mattyec2007]

What's wrong with the guy shorter than the girl... as long as you stil love him and he loves you .. that is all that matters ^^

[24Shiva24]

psh i like my guys short. just not shorter then me ;D

[Cyrusk4]

Girls don't like short guys and guys don't like girls who are not just 'curvy' but obese.

The plus side is that any physical ailment can be completely made up for with charisma and personality.

If you don't believe me look up Sean Stephenson

[Totallycool2008]

ITA Bellydancing give you a waist line and grace. Plus as a social dance it will ALWAYS be a step above raunchy hoochie dancing. Men LUV it, straight or gay,lol. Look up Jillina Bellydancer on youtube!

[Sogwa]

@Totallycool2008

l LOVE Bellydancing & have taken Bellydancing classes 4 yrs yet my waste is still the size of the equator.

[Robo1415]

I think most women today look like barrels going over Niagra Falls...Yes,I think there is someone for everyone,but I think most guys would like a gal who is slim and shapely...So many women today look and dress like lesbians at a NOW rally....

[theNeverangel]

I've always wondered how a lesbian dress?

[mss3141]

I like David Wygand and his common sense views. Look forward to see more.

[mss3141]

Learned alot. Would be interested in what took place in the store as the vedio was ending.

[rongam]

Great video. Please take this advice ladies. Feel good with what you got, get that self esteem up. Guys and people in general can sense if you are confident with your body how you carry yourself. It can be very attractive.

[Sogwa]

@rongam

What if ur shy?

And why is lack of self confidence ugly.

I prefer shy, slightly self conscience men. They usually r not arrogant, snobbish, & pricks.

l know loads of women who prefer passive, non aggressive guys. They r ideal if ur going out alone somewhere. U feel WAY more comfortable around him b.c u KNOW he has great self control & won't molest & rape u like some arrogant alpha male.

[spartanman123]

@Sogwa A lack of self confidence is not appealing to men or women. If a woman is extremely self conscious about herself I generally will not find that attractive because it all points to the fact that she doesn't like herself. And if a woman doesn't like herself why should I? And the same goes for men. And in regards to your other comment there are guys who are confident and not jackasses such as Mr. Wygant.

[Sogwa]

@spartanman123

So is the self confidence thing in men/women similar to suggestive ads or passing out flyers at a subway? If s/he thinks s/he's dumb, ugly, unable then obviously s/he must be right & thus l agree w/ him.

Like if 1-person won't take a flier or date some person then no one else will either b/c the mass/majority of humans prefer 2 go w/ the crowd vs. think 4 them self?

1 problem, many folks who r perfect 10's can fell that way, such as Hally Berry.

[spartanman123]

@Sogwa

I think the opposite is true. As long as there is one person in the world willing to date me then any woman has the potential to think the same way. Attractiveness comes down to being comfortable with who you are and not caring what anyone else thinks. And making your appearance reflect that.

[Sogwa]

@spartanman123

Sure but l still don't get why shy, self conscience, insecure men/women would be a turn off.

[spartanman123]

@Sogwa

Because when someone is shy, insecure, etc. they also tend to be needy, clingy, and self hating which are huge turn offs.

[915585]

I liked the advice, but it was a little hard to hear with the traffic. I would like to have seen the suggestions that were given in the store.

[Satori1800]

thanks for great video:)

[JarHead0311SS]

That poor old guy walking by "Excuse me!" hahaha

OMG that was priceless. I agree David, its all about chemistry and you have to continue to find those that have it with you. You cant make everyone like you and you shouldnt either.

[Skylinesandsunsets]

The secret for looking and feeling sexier?

It's such a no-brainer: LEARN BELLY DANCING (cabaret, not tribal). Turkish style rocks!

Seriously, belly dancing hypnotizes men. Ever been to an ethnic restaurant where they feature belly dancing? While she's dancing, take a look at the faces of the male customers. They're spellbound!

Furthermore, belly dancing keeps you looking young and gives you supermodel abs.

[Sogwa]

@Skylinesandsunsets

l LOVE belly dancing. lt;s also low impact & is OK 4 bad knees as u don't do much jumping, etc. & it's 100x's betta than yoga!! lt;s GREAT for back pain or cramps as it massages ur core muscles as u dance & thus u feel much better afterward. lf u actually think of how folks squirm when their tummy hurt, it has similar movements as belly dancing. l have taken many classes yet my belly is still the size of the equator.

[kickboxr72]

Love curvy women...David you can have all the stick figures. Give me the woman who works out every day and is muscular every time! Hope lots of women watch this.

[Lawgirl1023]

love this video and i can totally relate to the woman they are coaching on it! we forget so many times that men like more than one body type.