@nockuout1 Same thing that makes a man look at breasts and say 'Mmmmmm.' Though somehow society refuses to accept that the chemistry can be identical, even though studies show it again and again.
There's such remorse in my heart when people are gay due to sexual harassment or something further. I'm a lesbian and that's never happened to me, but how sad I am to hear that someone's liking of a certain sex was tampered with by another individual. Not talking about the kids that go looking for another person of the same sex at all. I'm doing something with my life and still want a family and everything I was raised to want. I simply like women...
I'm only like what... 14! And i know more about the issues in the news than my christian mom! My dad has his own belief that this world is just a dream and we're all in heaven lying in a field and some sh*t anyway! I'm going to be a famous director when i grow up and my movies will touch hearts but the people they wont probably penetrate is christians because they are blind to facts and religions are the best at making you feel guilty, fearful, and coming up with excuses. Thats why i left.
God advocates N number of murders in 1 Samuel 15:2-3, Joshua 19:47. God promises more killings in ezekiel 35:7-9. God advocates rapes n slavery i the old testment! He killed 2 nephews of Moses only coz they didnt put up the fire correctly!
So, Murder, slavery, rapes, hate is fine!
But God will toss u to hell, IF U BE YOURSELF N LOVE WHO YOU WANNA LOVE!
Is that the God we worship? Who Induces FEAR, GREED for POWER and HATRED for others but gets pissed of at LOVE!
Let's see, So your point is, that even if I'm a father from a patriarchal society/family and I only have One son, and he turn gay on me, I shouldn't feel angst, guilt, or such, but rather to proud?? Why don't you just ask me to kill myself for being such a failure in raising a child?
@Richard090391 Do some research. Stop being ignorant. If you do some research (we have this new science stuff, it lets us draw educated conclusions), you'll find that homosexuality exists in over 1,500 species, and is completely natural. What's UNnatural is thinking yourself a failure as a parent for having raised a homosexual child, instead of, you know, condemning him for something that's a total non-issue.
@ohseedeemunky I already done that, incest also exist in the animal kingdom (with even greater percentage over homosexuality) but I would never agree with that either.
@Richard090391 That's due to a basic need to populate. We as humans don't have that drive--in fact, we have pheromones that facilitate in our being UNattracted to our family members. I'd like to point out that Adam and Eve were the only people on the planet at one point. Did everyone else poof into existence? Nope. A lot of fucking incest occurred. Also, please learn to conjugate your verbs properly. Reading your comments gives me a headache.
@ohseedeemunky You lost my point there lad. What I mean to point out is, that people while being part of the animal kingdom, shouldn't follow their example period. Even if homosexuality was found in +1500 species, that doesn't make them 'Normal' for us. If you want to push that homosexuality IS "normal" then we should make incest, mate-eating, beastility, polygamy, and all other animal behavior 'normal' too. Why are you people only defend homosexuals?? what about the Mormons??
@Richard090391 What about them? I'm an ex-Mormon. I know all about Mormons. Also, polygamy and incest are condoned in the Bible, along with slavery, prostitution, and selling your daughter to her rapist. The difference is that people aren't naturally inclined to have sex with their families. And I don't have enough resources to tell you whether attraction to animals is inborn or not, but regardless, they can't give consent. Why is it that you insist on hating love so much?
@ohseedeemunky Love, you mean polygamist doesn't love their spouses??? I think you should straighten your mind here. I don't support homosexual just simply because their 'love' as you called it, is as 'abnormal' as those behaviors. would you condone a pedophile if the child consent to the relationship?? they 'love' each other right??? or a polygamy if all party involved consented to it?? I won't so I heavily against your so called 'love'
@Richard090391 Ah, okay, so we can attribute this entire dispute to the your misinterpretation of the word 'love'. Or perhaps a misunderstanding of the concept as a whole. Or, bear with me, maybe you even feel love, and have felt love, and refuse to accept that I may feel the same exact thing for a member of the same sex. THAT is where your ignorance lies.
@ohseedeemunky Okay if you said that I misinterpreted "Love", let me give you my conception of it. If I love my monkey, and I want to have sex with him (yeah double sickness, I know, sorry for the insinuation) and my monkey seems fine with it, as it doesn't fight me back (consent) and let me 'do' him. Is it fit you description of love??? or if I have a son (again double sickness) and I do the same, is it love??? or is it an immoral and abnormal act to behold/think about??
@Richard090391 In every one of those, you're misusing the word 'love'. 'Lust' is the word you're after. They don't call 'em lust songs. Love isn't about sex. Sex is about love. Lust should have no part in it. And again I ask, why do you insist on hating love?
@ohseedeemunky Lust is an integral of love (see the Strenberg's love triangle theory) even if it's a 'platonic love' that you talking about, would you agree on those thing I've wrote before?? FYI I'm not against love, but I'm against abnormalities and immoralities, both which homosexuality are qualified to be included. You know this proverbs "Hate the sins, Love the sinners" that's why I'm not judging you homos, but my rights and duty are to against your sin (homosexuality)
@Richard090391 Ah yes, Leviticus. Good ol' chap. I hope you don't like football. Or shellfish. Or dressing well (probably not, homophobes tend to look like dirt). Or pork. Because those things are all addressed by Leviticus as well. As well as adultery and divorce, but we're gonna pretend those verses didn't matter either, aren't we? You have no duty against any of us at all, because it's none of your damn business. /thread
@ohseedeemunky Here we go again, attacking personality after a civilized talk. I wonder who give you those silly prejudice?? again my whole point is, it's all's well as long as you don't push it too much. don't you ever think the rising prevalence of homosexuals ARE connected to your actions to "humanize" homosexuality?? read this article on mercantor: permissive law, permissive behavior. And you'll know why I'm so against your way of live.
@Richard090391 There are many people in the South that believe that interracial marriage shouldn't be legal, but it is. Because not letting people marry due to the color of their skin is unconstitutional, no matter who happens to be against their way of life. There's no harm in being gay, so why do people have to make such a big deal about it?
If been gay, means that we all gay ppl are going to hell then who cares at least we had a good life, nd most important a life which really made us happy.. and one more thing homosexuality has always existed!
There's a lot wrong with being Gay. The world isn't ready for you guys yet. With what you're doing, I think they will eventually get there, but just not yet. You have my support though. I used to be convinced that gays were Satan's spawn until I broke the chain religious doctrine had on my brain. Not that I'm an atheist or anything. Perhaps just a free thinking Christian.
@PhantomLyric Not free thinking =/= Christian. Just because you're not thinking like Christianity says you should, doesn't mean you're 'free thinking'. I'm not saying I am either. Very few of us are, really, because we are merely products of our experiences, and thus an emulation of those thoughts. But you seem to be under the impression still that homosexuality is some sort of plague that will sweep over the world.
@ohseedeemunky What in the hell are you talking about. What part of my statement made you believe that I believe homosexuality is some sort of plague that will sweep over the world?????
@ohseedeemunky Yes, it is a misinterpretation. There is something wrong with the idea that a child as young as 12 years old made to feel ashamed for having a crush. Shame so heavy it leads to suicide. There is something wrong with parents turning their backs on a child they've raised with all the love in the world until founding out she's gay. There is something wrong with the need for men to beat up and kill another just because he happens to like men. Yes, there is a lot wrong with being gay.
@PhantomLyric Okay, gotcha. By 'There's a lot wrong with being Gay', I assumed you were taking a moral stance against homosexuality, not the societal and social problems that it entails (that it shouldn't). Now we're on the same page. :P
My friend though she was a lesbian until her parents had a nice long talk with her about therapy that can stop her lesbianism thoughts. I feel sorry for her, because i may be a strict Christian teen but i know she should have the right to chose who she loves. I'll show her parents this video.
I was very late in coming out, but I have been blessed that there has not been a single member of my family who has rejected me when I came out to them. Most of them reacted with, "It's about time since I knew a long time ago." My mother cried, but that's only because something else had happened that hurt her, and that I had been afraid to tell her. My father said it the simplest, "I don't care who you love, as long as you are happy."
YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! Me, being a gay teenager, I'm not secure with my real self. But after watching this even though it was directed towards parents. I still felt your message... Now to some of the commenters. If I had the choice to be gay or straight which one do you think I would choose. Straight of course. That way would make life easier. But we can't change. I've tried many a times and it does NOT WORK... We are the way we are.
No HOMOS = NO Problems. 100 bucks says this homo has had MULTIPLE sexual partners. HOMO is a mental disorder. Just like pedophiles and people who have sex with dogs, horses etc. GAY = FAIL If you children come out SEEK HELP ! ! !
@CubanExile I honestly don't know where your research comes from. People's sources seem to be, "RAAAAAWR, DURR DURR, BIBLE BIBLE DURR, GOD HATES FAGS." Also, you failed to show how homosexuality is a problem at all. The only problem I see is that ignorant homophobes are getting uncomfortable because girls like us more.
@CubanExile Your refusal to use any sort of reasoning or source leads me to believe you have absolutely no knowledge on the subject, inherently invalidating your statement. Good try though, bud.
@ohseedeemunky If we were all GAY, life would end in 70 years, the same cannot be said about heterosexuals. This alone invalidates being gay. I have more. But I dont want to insult you any more. i dont hate gay people. I feel sorry for them. But this is a free country, be gay its your choice. Even if its wrong.
@CubanExile 1: We have the means to make life work, even if everyone was gay. This alone certainly does not invalidate being gay. 2: Being gay is NOT a choice, as suggested by every study that's ever gone into it. Really. Do your research.
@CubanExile Oh okay, I'm simply going to agree with "Yes it is" when I've seen plenty of studies showing that no, it is not. Also, there are many conditions that would cripple the repopulation of the earth. So go bitch at people who are sterile. "To argue with one who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead."
Thank you. This is a truly great message, and means so much to me. I am planning on coming out to my own family next week after thanksgiving. I hope that they can understand the message you convey in this video. Thank you so much, for being such a wonderful human being.
@sa32112003 First of all please know that my comments are made out of the love I have for all people, but not love for their lifestyle. The issue here is what we as humans use as an authority for life and all standards related to it. The Bible is the ultimate and only authority, since it is the very word of God. I know that at this point many veiwers, if not all, will not agree. The reality is that , the Bible states this and makes no attemt to convince you. Our opinions are not the truth.
And you're going to see all the recent discovery that gay man's brain is like a femles and Lesbians brains are like males. Scientifictly proven, that is not a choice you are who you are since the night your parents... well... you know... and here we are!
@pppeeeppee If there's something wrong or not with being a homosexual, it's not your bussiness or duty to judge anyone unless you're on the same boat as a homosexual who really understands how it is to be a homosexual. Homosexuality isn't a choice, it's not disability or caused by past experiences. So don't judge if you don't know anything about it. Be understanding and have sympathy for your fellow human being. Besides we're living in the 21 century, if you don't have an open mind, good luck!:]
@pppeeeppee why do people like you go posting nonsense about gay people - is it like a hobby to btch about a minority? hello this is 2011 most find the kind of thoughtless homophobic rubbish you churn out immiture and uneducated - girls find it a turn off and boys question if your secure in your own identity - personaly we find it tiresome the only people it hurts is the young and vunerable - how cowardly is that?
(cont.) Argument. And if that STILL isn't getting through to you, put it this way:
Two people want to be married. They love each other very much and both families approve of the marriage. Would you allow this perfect couple to be wed?
Now how about if the couple is 2 men. Do you still approve?
View people as people, and not man or woman, and you should see why banning gay marriage is wrong
If you don't like homosexuals, that's fine. To order gay activity and other things of the like is not only wrong, but illegal. This is America. Where ALL men (and women) are created EQUAL. Why deny the right to marry just because the both of them are men? And you can't bring in "Homo's go to Hell" to this argument because again, this is America. The first amendment states freedom of religion. Not everyone is Christian and because religion is a set of personal beliefs, religion is not a valid ar
...and I'm not blaming this 20 year old kid, he doesn't know any better, he has learned that the ENTIRE MEANING OF LIFE is proudly proclaiming one's gayness so as to make the world a brighter place.
How deluded can one get.
In the 70s & 80s, gays at least were looking for some fun, excitement. Now they're all 'party-members' regurgitating propaganda DESIGNED BY AUTHORITY.
This is all about social engineering folks, forget the feelgood drivel & poltically correct mantra's.
@suddenlyitsobvious Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past. The idea that you want to place the entire gay population into one mold clearly demonstrates that the entire message has been completely lost on you. The reason why the gay community on YouTube has come together with one voice to convey a set list of messages does not mean that the entire gay population has been programmed or indoctrinated with some prescribed mindset.
'Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past.'
Who cares what someone 'SOUNDS LIKE'? It's a bullshit formula used by those who can't address SUBSTANCE & ARGUMENT.
'Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past.'
You have very severe issues of DEFICIENT READING COMPREHENSION which makes communication with you very tedious and difficult. I was EXPLICITLY REFERRING to the VOCAL GAYS, those who constantly whine about 'hate',
@suddenlyitsobvious how dare you put hate in quotation marks. kids are bullied into thinking suicide is a viable option to remedy their problems. Matthew Shepherd was tied to a fence and beaten to death 13 years ago. Stuart Walker was tied to a lampost and burned to death over this past weekend. all of these stemming from the simple fact that they're gay. that's hatred. in case you were unaware, losing lives over sexual orientation is a bad thing. that isn't propaganda, that's fact.
@suddenlyitsobvious You talk about 'constantly whining about hate' as though it's some plaguing issue. The thing is, it wouldn't be so terrible if there weren't people like you. Everywhere. Commenting on these videos. Calling us fags in the street. Telling us to kill ourselves. Condemning and judging us. Yes, there is hate, and no, we don't put up with bullshit.
@suddenlyitsobvious So you're saying that a majority of gays believe more in hooking up and cruising more than they believe in acceptance and diversity? You clearly must not be gay, since that statement has virtually no basis in reality whatsoever. Time to block this troll, @shep689...
@suddenlyitsobvious I'd understand your complaint if the online gay community were conveying a different message. But the message is not "you need to behave in a certain way". On the contrary, it is "be yourself and don't let anyone else tell you that you are wrong for doing so, and anyone who does tell you not to be yourself is wrong". The gay online community has united behind these messages because they are important messages that young people and their loved ones should hear.
'The reason why the gay community on YouTube has come together with one voice to convey a set list of messages does not mean that the entire gay population has been programmed or indoctrinated with some prescribed mindset.'
The gay community has come together?!
One voice?
U clearly are part of some sort of cult and you don't even realize how intellectually substandard and shallow 'your' discourse is, 'your' in quotation marks cos it isn't even yours. U r regurgitating mantra's.
@suddenlyitsobvious You don't have to be the creator of an idea to find merit in it, and believing in an idea does not automatically make you a member of a cult. People are fully capable of taking mantras to heart because they coincide with their own beliefs. We're a cult? Jumping to such a ridiculous conclusion based on absolutely no evidence is not only "substandard and shallow discourse," it's idiotic. So congratulations, you've managed to make a fool out of yourself. Again.
@suddenlyitsobvious If you were to look past all of the videos with these types of messages, you'll find that the online gay community is actually very diverse. These people have very different views on a variety of subject. They have simply chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which is what makes a community by definition. So don't sit here and patronize someone who clearly understands this fact. Furthermore, expecting others to act according to your beliefs... that's deluded.
'If you were to look past all of the videos with these types of messages, you'll find that the online gay community is actually very diverse'
I don't understand what you mean, 'looking past all of the vids'. If you know of gay threads on youtube that are NOT about either porn & cruising or else, as I said, regurgitation of the kind of propaganda I mentioned in my posts, why don't you simply share them with this thread?
If you're not COMPLETELY DELUDED and/or dishonest...
...you'll easily see 99,99% of threads by and about gays on youtube discuss gayness in the exact same fashion that I exposed. Are you actually denying this?
'These people have very different views on a variety of subject. '
What kind of a dumb line is this? I reiterate that 99,99% of vids by and about gays discuss gayness in the exact same fashion that I exposed.
' They have simply chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which is what makes a community by definition'
Wrong again. There IS NO comuunity and they HAVE NOT CHOSEN. They're simply indoctrinated by propaganda they've ingurgitated from the media and politics, who are all pushing these 'ideals' ('accepting diversity 'and such horseshit)
It is very easy to see that besides reproducing this trip of victimization, there IS NO community whatsoever, since...
...gays in our society's overwhelmingly meet only for cruising and fucking purposes, and it's mainly the more UNAPPETIZING SISSY-BOYS who are too ugly to have a party who have fallen for this propaganda.
The goodlooking guys certainly don't whine 24/7 about 'haters' and 'tolerance', it's the poor little wallflowers who are now screaming their lungs out -OVER THE INTERNET of course- and who'd like to have everybody believe all gays are together on this.
How predictable indeed that you need to resort to lying. A gay community sharing a set of ideals? What horseshit. There is NO COMMUNITY, as any gay man with a glimmer of good sense and honesty knows very well.
'So don't sit here and patronize someone who clearly understands this fact'
What fact is that? That they have' chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals'? Pfft.
'Furthermore, expecting others to act according to your beliefs... that's deluded.'
I don't know what beliefs you are referring to. It also seems to me you just said gays have chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which means YOU ARE in fact expecting others to act according to your beliefs.
I was just pointing out some facts and sharing my views with youtubers. Your reply, that is unintelligent to put it mildly, merely confirms all of my points.
In reality, gays have become extremely 'un-gay', they're not even funny anymore.
Say ANYTHING that's not precisely politically correct and many will scream at you:
'YOU MONSTROUS BIGOT, HOW DARE YOU?!! HOW DARE YOU QUESTION THE GENETIC BASIS OF HOMOSEXUALITY, YOU HATER. WE WILL REPORT YOU TO YOUTUBE AND bla bla bla.'
THIS is how bad it's gotten.
One should also hear them rave about how wonderful it is 6 year olds get indoctrinated in schools with the suitable attitudes.
Today's homosexual doesn't realize he's narcissistically obsessed with himself, his sexuality & the dozen or so of propagandistic themes handed out by the system:
coming out - hate - bigots -accepting diversity - tolerance -oppression -heteronormativity - pride - marriage - AIDS, and soforth.
Substantively, the discourse of gays on youtube is completely void, they are all saying the EXACT SAME THING:
'It's OK to be gay, it gets better, coming out is good bla bla bla'.
If anyone is struggling with the sin and disease of homosexuality, please, seek medical and psychological treatment. Call upon the Lord Jesus Christ and repent for there will never be unrepentent homosexuals in heaven.
@mrchiefofsinners okay you listen to me!! I am a bisexual. God loves us and says come to me like you are.. and If Jesus doesn't love me for who I am, then he isn't my God..
Guglielmo (William/Will) "Amico Mio" again your friend Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here has found yet another instance in which he can take great "Pride" in you!
Science and Religion should stop scrutinizing Gay people. Moms who secretly hate and reject the life growing in their wombs make their children gay. It is time to investigate the moms.
Check out this video on Youtube: "Mom made my sister Gay"
@MrCatracho2424 well you obviously haven't experienced the same struggles we have. struggle and prejudice is what makes different situations a journey, not just your age. and also you can get your message across perfectly without calling me dumb and retarded.
I'm terrified of my children being gay. The gay lifestyle is something i don't want for my future children. No parent wants their child to be gay. They just try their best to deal with the problem.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Wow, such hateful ignorant generalizations. I'm a completely straight teenage guy and I would be happy to have a homosexual child. You think there is a "gay lifestyle"?? Is there a straight lifestyle too?
You've been told lies that all gay people are insane, sex-crazy, disease-riddled abominations but if you ever actually talked to gay people instead of bashing them, you'd understand how wrong you are, but first you have to let go of all those idiotic assumptions.
@bboyFili Im just being honest. I don't want gay children and i believe having gay children is tragic. I want to see my children marry a nice guy(if girl) or girl (if guy) and have children together. Thats my ideal of a family. I know some people(like you) do not agree with me but its a personal choice. I don't want a gay or lesbian child and i see nothing wrong with that. Oh and the gay lifestyle is a dangerous lifestyle and i don't want that for my children.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell you sound like my father. when i came out, he said some terrible things since i wasn't going to be living the life he had planned out for me. however, my life isn't for him to live. he can have all of the expectations he wants, but i am my own person and will live my life as i see fit. like i said in the video, i'm just loving people, i'm not murdering or violating anyone. what's the big deal? why can't you see people for more than their sexual orientation?
@shep689 Because people's sexual orientation matters. I can guess that you believe that Parents should have unconditional love for their children but i see differently. If my future son grew up to be a murderer or a rapists i can not give him unconditional love. I would never kick out my children for being gay but once they hit 18 and they decide they want to live the gay lifestyle. I will not support it. They will be out of my house and making it on their own.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell it only matters if you let it matter. there is so much more to a person than just their sexual orientation, but you're letting it define them. also, saying that murdering and raping is synonymous with being gay is completely asinine. it's sad that the love and concern you could have for your children is contingent upon an attribute that they cannot control. in all honesty, if you can't love and support your children for who they are, you shouldn't be a parent.
@shep689 Well you don't have the right to take away a woman's reproductive rights so too bad. The sexual orientation not might matter to you but it matters to me and i'm done talking about it. You can hate me all you like and call me names but my mind will not change. Bye
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i'm not in any position to tell a woman how to raise her child or whether she should have children or not, but i'm just trying to help you avoid what happened between me and my father. we don't talk anymore because he refuses to accept me for who i am. but it's not my job as a child to cater to my parent's every whim. that's not why i'm on this planet. i shouldn't have to change to be accepted, since i'm not harming anyone. hope this helps.
@shep689 Nope didn't help at all, because my mind is already made up on this issue. Also your father has a right to not talk to you. Your an adult. He doesn't have to cater to you as a parent anymore. Like my parents told me. "If you live in our house, use our money and are depending on us, you will follow are rules." That's exactly what i did. I will have the same rules for my children. Once they hit 18 and they can live the gay lifestyle all they want, but not under my roof.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i didn't choose him as my parent. why should i be punished with an unaccepting father who doesn't accept the way i was born? it's like him not accepting me being born with brown hair. i could dye it to make him happier, but i can't change it. why would anyone choose this lifestyle? to not be able to procreate and deal with constant intolerance for being who you are? it doesn't make sense, but i won't hide who i am to make others happy. i deserve to be happy too.
@shep689 So does your father and he is unhappy because he has a gay son. Also being gay is not like having brown hair. I honestly don't believe that someone is born gay. Doctors have not been able to prove that so gays should stop saying it. If gay people are born gay then why are their so many ex gays.?
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Let's ASSUME they aren't born gay. Even there are studies on it and it has been pretty much proven. Don't ask me, you can google it and find it. It's common knowledge. But even if they choose to be gay, so what? Judge someone on their character and personality. Not on what they like. That's none of your business.
@KingWithoutaCause You didn't read my other comments. I don't have a problem with random gay people. I would have a problem if my future children were gay because that is something that i will not accept and will not support.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell then tell me this - could you ever be homosexual? could you ever find yourself sexually attracted to another woman? (i'm assuming you're female.)
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell sexual conduct is different than sexual orientation. just because you choose to not act on those feelings doesn't make you straight. that's why "ex-gay" ministries are so often ridiculed - they claim to change one's sexual orientation, but you can't. you can only change their sexual conduct. and also, what about those feelings are so dangerous anyway? who are they harming?
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell actually, if you ask a plethora of scientific foundations (like the American Psychiatric Association, National Academy of Pediatrics, American Psychological Association, etc) you'll see that all of them deem sexual orientation as something that cannot be changed.
however, to entertain your argument, let's say that, in addition, there's no proof that straight people are born straight, why should a marriage between two straight people be valued more than two gay people?
@shep689 People are born straight then decide they want to be gay later in life. If everyone was born gay, life would not exist. Because we all know that a male and another male can not create a child. You need a sperm and an egg for that to happen. I hope you know this.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell thanks for the refresher, but i passed all my biology courses in high school and university. and i'm well aware of the fact that homosexuals can't reproduce. but if we valued procreation as much as you do, then sterile people and post-menopausal women shouldn't marry either. and do you have any evidence that people are born straight, or is that just a conjecture?
@shep689 Do you have any proof that people are born gay. My only thought is that if everyone was born gay. LIFE WOULD NOT EXIST. SEX IS FOR REPRODUCTION NO MATTER HOW MUCH PLEASURE YOU GET FROM It. I'm guessing you do not value procreation. Their are woman that can not give birth. Just like they are men who can not impregnate a woman. Marriage has always been between a Man and a Woman so I do not support gay marriage. If you want marriage go to New York. Its a state issue.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i know plenty of gay people who have had sex with the opposite gender to conceive a child, so it's possible for life to continue to exist. again, sexual conduct is completely separate from sexual orientation.
as for proof that people are born gay: ask me. i have never, ever been sexually attracted to women, since i was a child in elementary school. i didn't realize i was gay until i hit puberty, but it just made sense. and it's not a state issue, it's a human rights issue.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Well it's not wrong for a father to initially want normal children, but it is HORRIBLY WRONG to force them to cut out a part of themselves or live a miserable life under your outrageous restrictions. You wrongfully assume all gay people have the same lifestyle and you make it out to be way more dangerous than it is, and i think you just use these ignorant assumptions to justify your petty hostility towards homosexuals. You sir, and all people like you, are textbook bigots.
@bboyFili Yea i heard that word before. Everyone uses it freely against people who disagree with what they have to say. "Ugh, you don't like what i like so your a bigot." "You have a different opinion than me so you are a bigot." Don't call me sir. I'm a female and i don't want gay children. Its a simple as that. You can disagree with me but in the end what can you really do against me. Nothing.
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell That's not at all why i label you a "bigot". You're a bigot because you're intolerant and oppressive, two very inhumane characteristics. People should be able to like what they want to, you wouldn't try to abolish a sport just because you don't like it would you?
You just don't deserve children until you get your insanity cured, mam.
@ufc1498 actually, African American females are the demographic with the highest percentage of HIV/AIDS right now. and sure, parents have a right to discipline their children, but not over something they can't help. nor should children have to change in order to accomodate their parents. would you beat your child for liking asparagus or lasagna? it's the same scenario -- it's all a matter of preference.
@ufc1498 i'm encouraging parents to accept a characteristic of their children that isn't changeable. you're encouraging violence against children. who's in the wrong.
btw, it's spelled faggot. if you're going to insult me, at least have the decency to spell it correctly.
@16bahaboy sexual orientation isn't a choice. if you don't believe me, just check the American Psychological Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the National Academy of Pediatrics, and the American Psychoanalytic Association. or, you could just ask yourself, when did you decide to be straight?
When I told my parents that I had a girlfriend, not a girl friend, they told me to keep it quiet and just call her my "friend" when I talked about her. That acutally disgusts me more than if they had yelled at me. Trying to hide from who your child is, I think, is worse than you giving them a tough time about it.
Will, you fucking DISGUST me. Your lifestyle will leave you dead before your 40th birthday (AIDS) and you want parents to accept their children and encourage them to be sodomites so they can be like you and die an early death? You're a selfish motherfucker. I care about people who engage in the depraved homosexual lifestyle because it only leads to their destruction. Repent! Turn away from this filth!
@bachmann4president sorry, but you're the disgusting one. look at how you treat people. you say you care? if that's your way of caring, then i pray you never have children. children shouldn't have to grow up with such hateful parents in their lives.
Seek help? You make it sound like they are insane. Parents have no control over their children's sexuality. Yes, you gave them life. And raised them. That doesn't mean you can control their thoughts and actions. You don't like their sexuality? Tell them. But don't try to change them.
Wish my parents would watch this. They were accepting, but all they wanted to talk about was the negative social connotations. Why can't they just say "Ok...so?"
@nockuout1 Same thing that makes a man look at breasts and say 'Mmmmmm.' Though somehow society refuses to accept that the chemistry can be identical, even though studies show it again and again.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
There's such remorse in my heart when people are gay due to sexual harassment or something further. I'm a lesbian and that's never happened to me, but how sad I am to hear that someone's liking of a certain sex was tampered with by another individual. Not talking about the kids that go looking for another person of the same sex at all. I'm doing something with my life and still want a family and everything I was raised to want. I simply like women...
missashycake1621 2 weeks ago
All i have to do is make it through school and im already there baby >;D I have a whole line of films i want to make lined up in my head!
Inyourface209 2 weeks ago
I'm only like what... 14! And i know more about the issues in the news than my christian mom! My dad has his own belief that this world is just a dream and we're all in heaven lying in a field and some sh*t anyway! I'm going to be a famous director when i grow up and my movies will touch hearts but the people they wont probably penetrate is christians because they are blind to facts and religions are the best at making you feel guilty, fearful, and coming up with excuses. Thats why i left.
Inyourface209 2 weeks ago
God advocates N number of murders in 1 Samuel 15:2-3, Joshua 19:47. God promises more killings in ezekiel 35:7-9. God advocates rapes n slavery i the old testment! He killed 2 nephews of Moses only coz they didnt put up the fire correctly!
So, Murder, slavery, rapes, hate is fine!
But God will toss u to hell, IF U BE YOURSELF N LOVE WHO YOU WANNA LOVE!
Is that the God we worship? Who Induces FEAR, GREED for POWER and HATRED for others but gets pissed of at LOVE!
subhankarzac 2 weeks ago
Let's see, So your point is, that even if I'm a father from a patriarchal society/family and I only have One son, and he turn gay on me, I shouldn't feel angst, guilt, or such, but rather to proud?? Why don't you just ask me to kill myself for being such a failure in raising a child?
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 because your child didn't just "turn gay" on you. think that you can "turn gay"? yeah... that's what i thought.
shep689 2 weeks ago 6
@Richard090391 People are born gay. You can't just turn into one.
Roccersc 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 Do some research. Stop being ignorant. If you do some research (we have this new science stuff, it lets us draw educated conclusions), you'll find that homosexuality exists in over 1,500 species, and is completely natural. What's UNnatural is thinking yourself a failure as a parent for having raised a homosexual child, instead of, you know, condemning him for something that's a total non-issue.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky I already done that, incest also exist in the animal kingdom (with even greater percentage over homosexuality) but I would never agree with that either.
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 That's due to a basic need to populate. We as humans don't have that drive--in fact, we have pheromones that facilitate in our being UNattracted to our family members. I'd like to point out that Adam and Eve were the only people on the planet at one point. Did everyone else poof into existence? Nope. A lot of fucking incest occurred. Also, please learn to conjugate your verbs properly. Reading your comments gives me a headache.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky You lost my point there lad. What I mean to point out is, that people while being part of the animal kingdom, shouldn't follow their example period. Even if homosexuality was found in +1500 species, that doesn't make them 'Normal' for us. If you want to push that homosexuality IS "normal" then we should make incest, mate-eating, beastility, polygamy, and all other animal behavior 'normal' too. Why are you people only defend homosexuals?? what about the Mormons??
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 What about them? I'm an ex-Mormon. I know all about Mormons. Also, polygamy and incest are condoned in the Bible, along with slavery, prostitution, and selling your daughter to her rapist. The difference is that people aren't naturally inclined to have sex with their families. And I don't have enough resources to tell you whether attraction to animals is inborn or not, but regardless, they can't give consent. Why is it that you insist on hating love so much?
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky Love, you mean polygamist doesn't love their spouses??? I think you should straighten your mind here. I don't support homosexual just simply because their 'love' as you called it, is as 'abnormal' as those behaviors. would you condone a pedophile if the child consent to the relationship?? they 'love' each other right??? or a polygamy if all party involved consented to it?? I won't so I heavily against your so called 'love'
Sincerely
Richard
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 Ah, okay, so we can attribute this entire dispute to the your misinterpretation of the word 'love'. Or perhaps a misunderstanding of the concept as a whole. Or, bear with me, maybe you even feel love, and have felt love, and refuse to accept that I may feel the same exact thing for a member of the same sex. THAT is where your ignorance lies.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky Okay if you said that I misinterpreted "Love", let me give you my conception of it. If I love my monkey, and I want to have sex with him (yeah double sickness, I know, sorry for the insinuation) and my monkey seems fine with it, as it doesn't fight me back (consent) and let me 'do' him. Is it fit you description of love??? or if I have a son (again double sickness) and I do the same, is it love??? or is it an immoral and abnormal act to behold/think about??
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 In every one of those, you're misusing the word 'love'. 'Lust' is the word you're after. They don't call 'em lust songs. Love isn't about sex. Sex is about love. Lust should have no part in it. And again I ask, why do you insist on hating love?
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky Lust is an integral of love (see the Strenberg's love triangle theory) even if it's a 'platonic love' that you talking about, would you agree on those thing I've wrote before?? FYI I'm not against love, but I'm against abnormalities and immoralities, both which homosexuality are qualified to be included. You know this proverbs "Hate the sins, Love the sinners" that's why I'm not judging you homos, but my rights and duty are to against your sin (homosexuality)
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 Ah yes, Leviticus. Good ol' chap. I hope you don't like football. Or shellfish. Or dressing well (probably not, homophobes tend to look like dirt). Or pork. Because those things are all addressed by Leviticus as well. As well as adultery and divorce, but we're gonna pretend those verses didn't matter either, aren't we? You have no duty against any of us at all, because it's none of your damn business. /thread
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky Here we go again, attacking personality after a civilized talk. I wonder who give you those silly prejudice?? again my whole point is, it's all's well as long as you don't push it too much. don't you ever think the rising prevalence of homosexuals ARE connected to your actions to "humanize" homosexuality?? read this article on mercantor: permissive law, permissive behavior. And you'll know why I'm so against your way of live.
Richard090391 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 The number of homosexuals isn't increasing, Love. It's the amount of homosexuals who are coming out of the closet.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391 There are many people in the South that believe that interracial marriage shouldn't be legal, but it is. Because not letting people marry due to the color of their skin is unconstitutional, no matter who happens to be against their way of life. There's no harm in being gay, so why do people have to make such a big deal about it?
shep689 2 weeks ago
@Richard090391
uhh .. why would the what u called "rising prevalence of homosexuals" bother u so much ?
I don't get why at this modern day there r still so many haters like u .. when we r all really one big family of the human race.. u make me sad..
kkdkk7 1 hour ago
how the hell can you dislike this video?
NewZealandisthebest1 3 weeks ago
did anyone else notice that the time bar skips from 2:36 to 2:38?
videocrack246 3 weeks ago
You don't need a boyfriend, you need a midget.
mrhenryleopard 3 weeks ago
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The question was not "Why am I differences from other people?"
but the real question is "Why I have be be like other people?"
klajai 1 month ago
If been gay, means that we all gay ppl are going to hell then who cares at least we had a good life, nd most important a life which really made us happy.. and one more thing homosexuality has always existed!
Cabrerabruno 1 month ago
Sexy
tpatt1996 1 month ago
There's a lot wrong with being Gay. The world isn't ready for you guys yet. With what you're doing, I think they will eventually get there, but just not yet. You have my support though. I used to be convinced that gays were Satan's spawn until I broke the chain religious doctrine had on my brain. Not that I'm an atheist or anything. Perhaps just a free thinking Christian.
PhantomLyric 1 month ago
@PhantomLyric Hate to break it to you, but nothing about that comment said to me, "free thinking."
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky So you're saying my view is the standard Christian view?
PhantomLyric 2 weeks ago
@PhantomLyric Not free thinking =/= Christian. Just because you're not thinking like Christianity says you should, doesn't mean you're 'free thinking'. I'm not saying I am either. Very few of us are, really, because we are merely products of our experiences, and thus an emulation of those thoughts. But you seem to be under the impression still that homosexuality is some sort of plague that will sweep over the world.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky What in the hell are you talking about. What part of my statement made you believe that I believe homosexuality is some sort of plague that will sweep over the world?????
PhantomLyric 2 weeks ago
@PhantomLyric "There's a lot wrong with being Gay. The world isn't ready for you guys yet." Perhaps this was a misinterpretation on my part?
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky Yes, it is a misinterpretation. There is something wrong with the idea that a child as young as 12 years old made to feel ashamed for having a crush. Shame so heavy it leads to suicide. There is something wrong with parents turning their backs on a child they've raised with all the love in the world until founding out she's gay. There is something wrong with the need for men to beat up and kill another just because he happens to like men. Yes, there is a lot wrong with being gay.
PhantomLyric 2 weeks ago
@PhantomLyric Okay, gotcha. By 'There's a lot wrong with being Gay', I assumed you were taking a moral stance against homosexuality, not the societal and social problems that it entails (that it shouldn't). Now we're on the same page. :P
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky :) Np.
PhantomLyric 2 weeks ago
My friend though she was a lesbian until her parents had a nice long talk with her about therapy that can stop her lesbianism thoughts. I feel sorry for her, because i may be a strict Christian teen but i know she should have the right to chose who she loves. I'll show her parents this video.
MsLovelyLittleLuv 1 month ago
@MsLovelyLittleLuv Read: "My lesbian friend was forced into pretending she's straight because her parents are oppressive."
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
Sexxyy
isabelle1400 1 month ago
To the parents of homosexual children: im truly sorry....
boyboy2000ful 1 month ago
@boyboy2000ful lol
J77299 1 month ago
I was very late in coming out, but I have been blessed that there has not been a single member of my family who has rejected me when I came out to them. Most of them reacted with, "It's about time since I knew a long time ago." My mother cried, but that's only because something else had happened that hurt her, and that I had been afraid to tell her. My father said it the simplest, "I don't care who you love, as long as you are happy."
back2ict 1 month ago
Homosexuality is different from being a weirdo that has sex with animals
SuperBlackmaxx 1 month ago
Oh yeah, and your amazingly cute and adorable!! Lol
IanX12345 1 month ago
YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! Me, being a gay teenager, I'm not secure with my real self. But after watching this even though it was directed towards parents. I still felt your message... Now to some of the commenters. If I had the choice to be gay or straight which one do you think I would choose. Straight of course. That way would make life easier. But we can't change. I've tried many a times and it does NOT WORK... We are the way we are.
IanX12345 1 month ago
No HOMOS = NO Problems. 100 bucks says this homo has had MULTIPLE sexual partners. HOMO is a mental disorder. Just like pedophiles and people who have sex with dogs, horses etc. GAY = FAIL If you children come out SEEK HELP ! ! !
CubanExile 1 month ago
@CubanExile I honestly don't know where your research comes from. People's sources seem to be, "RAAAAAWR, DURR DURR, BIBLE BIBLE DURR, GOD HATES FAGS." Also, you failed to show how homosexuality is a problem at all. The only problem I see is that ignorant homophobes are getting uncomfortable because girls like us more.
Bitch, I'm fabulous.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky GAY = FAIL period
CubanExile 2 weeks ago
@CubanExile Your refusal to use any sort of reasoning or source leads me to believe you have absolutely no knowledge on the subject, inherently invalidating your statement. Good try though, bud.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky If we were all GAY, life would end in 70 years, the same cannot be said about heterosexuals. This alone invalidates being gay. I have more. But I dont want to insult you any more. i dont hate gay people. I feel sorry for them. But this is a free country, be gay its your choice. Even if its wrong.
CubanExile 2 weeks ago
@CubanExile 1: We have the means to make life work, even if everyone was gay. This alone certainly does not invalidate being gay. 2: Being gay is NOT a choice, as suggested by every study that's ever gone into it. Really. Do your research.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@ohseedeemunky 1. in a UNNATURAL way 2. Yes it is
CubanExile 1 week ago
@CubanExile Oh okay, I'm simply going to agree with "Yes it is" when I've seen plenty of studies showing that no, it is not. Also, there are many conditions that would cripple the repopulation of the earth. So go bitch at people who are sterile. "To argue with one who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead."
ohseedeemunky 1 week ago
I've never understood how homosexuality is called a choice or not a choice or If they were born that way..soo confusing
laly2608 2 months ago
jeez, im almost glad i dont have parents
palebluedot4ev 2 months ago
OMG if my child was gay i would seriously go crazy.
MiddleFingerToTheSky 2 months ago
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LoneBuck98 2 months ago
@LoneBuck98 Fucking hater! Grow up, it's the 21st century!
jeans234567 2 months ago
@jeans234567 I Dont give a fuck if its the 30th century faggots are going to hell
LoneBuck98 2 months ago
Thank you. This is a truly great message, and means so much to me. I am planning on coming out to my own family next week after thanksgiving. I hope that they can understand the message you convey in this video. Thank you so much, for being such a wonderful human being.
alkitty311 2 months ago 9
can i use your video for my presentation at schooll?
as im doing sth on homosexuality and i want a video that shows the ideas and experience of homosexualssssss ;))
sa32112003 2 months ago 3
@sa32112003 by all means. :)
shep689 2 months ago 2
@sa32112003 First of all please know that my comments are made out of the love I have for all people, but not love for their lifestyle. The issue here is what we as humans use as an authority for life and all standards related to it. The Bible is the ultimate and only authority, since it is the very word of God. I know that at this point many veiwers, if not all, will not agree. The reality is that , the Bible states this and makes no attemt to convince you. Our opinions are not the truth.
24sevenfor33years 2 weeks ago
hottee
eddiebertopsp 2 months ago
You're cuuuute :D
yippedoodah 2 months ago
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Here's a video you should watch here on you tube:
The 'Gay Brain' Explained - Louann Brizendine
Also just google:
GAY BRAIN
And you're going to see all the recent discovery that gay man's brain is like a femles and Lesbians brains are like males. Scientifictly proven, that is not a choice you are who you are since the night your parents... well... you know... and here we are!
NuLaifMusic 3 months ago
I disagree there is something wrong with being a homosexual.
pppeeeppee 3 months ago
@pppeeeppee If there's something wrong or not with being a homosexual, it's not your bussiness or duty to judge anyone unless you're on the same boat as a homosexual who really understands how it is to be a homosexual. Homosexuality isn't a choice, it's not disability or caused by past experiences. So don't judge if you don't know anything about it. Be understanding and have sympathy for your fellow human being. Besides we're living in the 21 century, if you don't have an open mind, good luck!:]
Itsfelipedude 3 months ago
@Itsfelipedude "Homosexuality isn't a choice," If man chooses to lust after another man.... ITS A CHOICE
pppeeeppee 3 months ago
@pppeeeppee why do people like you go posting nonsense about gay people - is it like a hobby to btch about a minority? hello this is 2011 most find the kind of thoughtless homophobic rubbish you churn out immiture and uneducated - girls find it a turn off and boys question if your secure in your own identity - personaly we find it tiresome the only people it hurts is the young and vunerable - how cowardly is that?
trevortrevortsr2 3 months ago
@pppeeeppee, so, by your own criteria, you must be a homosexual.
MattFrame 2 months ago
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@MattFrame "so, by your own criteria, you must be a homosexual." No not "by MY! own criteria" homosexuality is wrong on so many levels
pppeeeppee 2 months ago
(cont.) Argument. And if that STILL isn't getting through to you, put it this way:
Two people want to be married. They love each other very much and both families approve of the marriage. Would you allow this perfect couple to be wed?
Now how about if the couple is 2 men. Do you still approve?
View people as people, and not man or woman, and you should see why banning gay marriage is wrong
Ramen86861 3 months ago
If you don't like homosexuals, that's fine. To order gay activity and other things of the like is not only wrong, but illegal. This is America. Where ALL men (and women) are created EQUAL. Why deny the right to marry just because the both of them are men? And you can't bring in "Homo's go to Hell" to this argument because again, this is America. The first amendment states freedom of religion. Not everyone is Christian and because religion is a set of personal beliefs, religion is not a valid ar
Ramen86861 3 months ago
...and I'm not blaming this 20 year old kid, he doesn't know any better, he has learned that the ENTIRE MEANING OF LIFE is proudly proclaiming one's gayness so as to make the world a brighter place.
How deluded can one get.
In the 70s & 80s, gays at least were looking for some fun, excitement. Now they're all 'party-members' regurgitating propaganda DESIGNED BY AUTHORITY.
This is all about social engineering folks, forget the feelgood drivel & poltically correct mantra's.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past. The idea that you want to place the entire gay population into one mold clearly demonstrates that the entire message has been completely lost on you. The reason why the gay community on YouTube has come together with one voice to convey a set list of messages does not mean that the entire gay population has been programmed or indoctrinated with some prescribed mindset.
rjaguiar1117 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
'Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past.'
Who cares what someone 'SOUNDS LIKE'? It's a bullshit formula used by those who can't address SUBSTANCE & ARGUMENT.
'Sounds like someone still wants to cling to the idylls of a decadent past.'
You have very severe issues of DEFICIENT READING COMPREHENSION which makes communication with you very tedious and difficult. I was EXPLICITLY REFERRING to the VOCAL GAYS, those who constantly whine about 'hate',
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious how dare you put hate in quotation marks. kids are bullied into thinking suicide is a viable option to remedy their problems. Matthew Shepherd was tied to a fence and beaten to death 13 years ago. Stuart Walker was tied to a lampost and burned to death over this past weekend. all of these stemming from the simple fact that they're gay. that's hatred. in case you were unaware, losing lives over sexual orientation is a bad thing. that isn't propaganda, that's fact.
shep689 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious You talk about 'constantly whining about hate' as though it's some plaguing issue. The thing is, it wouldn't be so terrible if there weren't people like you. Everywhere. Commenting on these videos. Calling us fags in the street. Telling us to kill ourselves. Condemning and judging us. Yes, there is hate, and no, we don't put up with bullshit.
ohseedeemunky 2 weeks ago
@rjaguiar1117
...homophobia, tolerance, accepting diversity etc, in other words, the BRAINWASHED TYPES.
Even though you like to suggest the contrary, they DO NOT FORM A MAJORITY of homosexuals at all.
How interesting that you state the following absurd and contradictory banality:...
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious So you're saying that a majority of gays believe more in hooking up and cruising more than they believe in acceptance and diversity? You clearly must not be gay, since that statement has virtually no basis in reality whatsoever. Time to block this troll, @shep689...
rjaguiar1117 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117 Gladly...
shep689 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious I'd understand your complaint if the online gay community were conveying a different message. But the message is not "you need to behave in a certain way". On the contrary, it is "be yourself and don't let anyone else tell you that you are wrong for doing so, and anyone who does tell you not to be yourself is wrong". The gay online community has united behind these messages because they are important messages that young people and their loved ones should hear.
rjaguiar1117 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
'The reason why the gay community on YouTube has come together with one voice to convey a set list of messages does not mean that the entire gay population has been programmed or indoctrinated with some prescribed mindset.'
The gay community has come together?!
One voice?
U clearly are part of some sort of cult and you don't even realize how intellectually substandard and shallow 'your' discourse is, 'your' in quotation marks cos it isn't even yours. U r regurgitating mantra's.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious You don't have to be the creator of an idea to find merit in it, and believing in an idea does not automatically make you a member of a cult. People are fully capable of taking mantras to heart because they coincide with their own beliefs. We're a cult? Jumping to such a ridiculous conclusion based on absolutely no evidence is not only "substandard and shallow discourse," it's idiotic. So congratulations, you've managed to make a fool out of yourself. Again.
rjaguiar1117 3 months ago
@suddenlyitsobvious If you were to look past all of the videos with these types of messages, you'll find that the online gay community is actually very diverse. These people have very different views on a variety of subject. They have simply chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which is what makes a community by definition. So don't sit here and patronize someone who clearly understands this fact. Furthermore, expecting others to act according to your beliefs... that's deluded.
rjaguiar1117 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
'If you were to look past all of the videos with these types of messages, you'll find that the online gay community is actually very diverse'
I don't understand what you mean, 'looking past all of the vids'. If you know of gay threads on youtube that are NOT about either porn & cruising or else, as I said, regurgitation of the kind of propaganda I mentioned in my posts, why don't you simply share them with this thread?
If you're not COMPLETELY DELUDED and/or dishonest...
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
...you'll easily see 99,99% of threads by and about gays on youtube discuss gayness in the exact same fashion that I exposed. Are you actually denying this?
'These people have very different views on a variety of subject. '
What kind of a dumb line is this? I reiterate that 99,99% of vids by and about gays discuss gayness in the exact same fashion that I exposed.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
' They have simply chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which is what makes a community by definition'
Wrong again. There IS NO comuunity and they HAVE NOT CHOSEN. They're simply indoctrinated by propaganda they've ingurgitated from the media and politics, who are all pushing these 'ideals' ('accepting diversity 'and such horseshit)
It is very easy to see that besides reproducing this trip of victimization, there IS NO community whatsoever, since...
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
...gays in our society's overwhelmingly meet only for cruising and fucking purposes, and it's mainly the more UNAPPETIZING SISSY-BOYS who are too ugly to have a party who have fallen for this propaganda.
The goodlooking guys certainly don't whine 24/7 about 'haters' and 'tolerance', it's the poor little wallflowers who are now screaming their lungs out -OVER THE INTERNET of course- and who'd like to have everybody believe all gays are together on this.
What a lie that is!
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
How predictable indeed that you need to resort to lying. A gay community sharing a set of ideals? What horseshit. There is NO COMMUNITY, as any gay man with a glimmer of good sense and honesty knows very well.
'So don't sit here and patronize someone who clearly understands this fact'
What fact is that? That they have' chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals'? Pfft.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
@rjaguiar1117
'Furthermore, expecting others to act according to your beliefs... that's deluded.'
I don't know what beliefs you are referring to. It also seems to me you just said gays have chosen to rise as a community behind a set of ideals, which means YOU ARE in fact expecting others to act according to your beliefs.
I was just pointing out some facts and sharing my views with youtubers. Your reply, that is unintelligent to put it mildly, merely confirms all of my points.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
In reality, gays have become extremely 'un-gay', they're not even funny anymore.
Say ANYTHING that's not precisely politically correct and many will scream at you:
'YOU MONSTROUS BIGOT, HOW DARE YOU?!! HOW DARE YOU QUESTION THE GENETIC BASIS OF HOMOSEXUALITY, YOU HATER. WE WILL REPORT YOU TO YOUTUBE AND bla bla bla.'
THIS is how bad it's gotten.
One should also hear them rave about how wonderful it is 6 year olds get indoctrinated in schools with the suitable attitudes.
It has gotten BIZARRE..
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
Today's homosexual doesn't realize he's narcissistically obsessed with himself, his sexuality & the dozen or so of propagandistic themes handed out by the system:
coming out - hate - bigots -accepting diversity - tolerance -oppression -heteronormativity - pride - marriage - AIDS, and soforth.
Substantively, the discourse of gays on youtube is completely void, they are all saying the EXACT SAME THING:
'It's OK to be gay, it gets better, coming out is good bla bla bla'.
Sad. Gay culture = dead.
suddenlyitsobvious 3 months ago
Homosexual activity should be illegal !!!!!
manyman61 3 months ago
i respect you <3
SammiesLife 3 months ago
Very well said =)
jessica00kimball 3 months ago
YOU'RE PRETTY.
wendeeeer 4 months ago
Thanks for pointing that out! -3
RedzIlluminate 5 months ago
Thank you <3
Mmym101 5 months ago
...I gotta say...you look..."gay."
Cimmantti 5 months ago
@Cimmantti thank you!
shep689 5 months ago 12
@shep689 sorry, it's just a little too..."stereotypical" for my tastes...
Nothing personal or mean, I assure you, I was just sayin'. "I gotta say," well...I gotta say it XD
But that's one thing I'm not so fond of in the..."gay community." Why should one be able to tell if you're "gay" right away? I don't like it. -_-
I think there's far too much emphasis on these things.
Cimmantti 5 months ago
If anyone is struggling with the sin and disease of homosexuality, please, seek medical and psychological treatment. Call upon the Lord Jesus Christ and repent for there will never be unrepentent homosexuals in heaven.
mrchiefofsinners 5 months ago
@mrchiefofsinners okay you listen to me!! I am a bisexual. God loves us and says come to me like you are.. and If Jesus doesn't love me for who I am, then he isn't my God..
JoniAdry 5 months ago
@mrchiefofsinners THIS is not true... Homosexuals can go to heaven. If you were a real Christian, you'd know this.
DaftEnigma 4 months ago
i need to send this to my psycho mother.
PeanutBridle 5 months ago
@shep689
Ciao Bello!
Guglielmo (William/Will) "Amico Mio" again your friend Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here has found yet another instance in which he can take great "Pride" in you!
Bravo "Bello"!
Blaine
blainebill39 5 months ago
/watch?v=PSQSx3OCrXQ&feature=feedlik I'd like to share this with all of you who believe homosexuality is a choice.
eyeHeartJensenAckles 5 months ago
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Science and Religion should stop scrutinizing Gay people. Moms who secretly hate and reject the life growing in their wombs make their children gay. It is time to investigate the moms.
Check out this video on Youtube: "Mom made my sister Gay"
bs1buster 5 months ago
ur 20 and u have lived through a journey?? hahah ur retarded
stop talking and go to college :)
MrCatracho2424 6 months ago
@MrCatracho2424 i'm a college graduate :)
shep689 6 months ago
@MrCatracho2424 being gay IS a journey in and of itself.
thewhatsit104 5 months ago
@thewhatsit104
hahaha dumb being straight is a journey too in that case
being bi is a journey....some people need a life
MrCatracho2424 5 months ago
@MrCatracho2424 well you obviously haven't experienced the same struggles we have. struggle and prejudice is what makes different situations a journey, not just your age. and also you can get your message across perfectly without calling me dumb and retarded.
thewhatsit104 5 months ago
Absolutely beautifully said. Much love to you <3
jessisawesome7 6 months ago
I'm terrified of my children being gay. The gay lifestyle is something i don't want for my future children. No parent wants their child to be gay. They just try their best to deal with the problem.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Wow, such hateful ignorant generalizations. I'm a completely straight teenage guy and I would be happy to have a homosexual child. You think there is a "gay lifestyle"?? Is there a straight lifestyle too?
You've been told lies that all gay people are insane, sex-crazy, disease-riddled abominations but if you ever actually talked to gay people instead of bashing them, you'd understand how wrong you are, but first you have to let go of all those idiotic assumptions.
bboyFili 6 months ago
@bboyFili Im just being honest. I don't want gay children and i believe having gay children is tragic. I want to see my children marry a nice guy(if girl) or girl (if guy) and have children together. Thats my ideal of a family. I know some people(like you) do not agree with me but its a personal choice. I don't want a gay or lesbian child and i see nothing wrong with that. Oh and the gay lifestyle is a dangerous lifestyle and i don't want that for my children.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell you sound like my father. when i came out, he said some terrible things since i wasn't going to be living the life he had planned out for me. however, my life isn't for him to live. he can have all of the expectations he wants, but i am my own person and will live my life as i see fit. like i said in the video, i'm just loving people, i'm not murdering or violating anyone. what's the big deal? why can't you see people for more than their sexual orientation?
shep689 6 months ago
@shep689 Because people's sexual orientation matters. I can guess that you believe that Parents should have unconditional love for their children but i see differently. If my future son grew up to be a murderer or a rapists i can not give him unconditional love. I would never kick out my children for being gay but once they hit 18 and they decide they want to live the gay lifestyle. I will not support it. They will be out of my house and making it on their own.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell it only matters if you let it matter. there is so much more to a person than just their sexual orientation, but you're letting it define them. also, saying that murdering and raping is synonymous with being gay is completely asinine. it's sad that the love and concern you could have for your children is contingent upon an attribute that they cannot control. in all honesty, if you can't love and support your children for who they are, you shouldn't be a parent.
shep689 6 months ago
@shep689 Well you don't have the right to take away a woman's reproductive rights so too bad. The sexual orientation not might matter to you but it matters to me and i'm done talking about it. You can hate me all you like and call me names but my mind will not change. Bye
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i'm not in any position to tell a woman how to raise her child or whether she should have children or not, but i'm just trying to help you avoid what happened between me and my father. we don't talk anymore because he refuses to accept me for who i am. but it's not my job as a child to cater to my parent's every whim. that's not why i'm on this planet. i shouldn't have to change to be accepted, since i'm not harming anyone. hope this helps.
shep689 6 months ago
@shep689 Nope didn't help at all, because my mind is already made up on this issue. Also your father has a right to not talk to you. Your an adult. He doesn't have to cater to you as a parent anymore. Like my parents told me. "If you live in our house, use our money and are depending on us, you will follow are rules." That's exactly what i did. I will have the same rules for my children. Once they hit 18 and they can live the gay lifestyle all they want, but not under my roof.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i didn't choose him as my parent. why should i be punished with an unaccepting father who doesn't accept the way i was born? it's like him not accepting me being born with brown hair. i could dye it to make him happier, but i can't change it. why would anyone choose this lifestyle? to not be able to procreate and deal with constant intolerance for being who you are? it doesn't make sense, but i won't hide who i am to make others happy. i deserve to be happy too.
shep689 6 months ago
@shep689 So does your father and he is unhappy because he has a gay son. Also being gay is not like having brown hair. I honestly don't believe that someone is born gay. Doctors have not been able to prove that so gays should stop saying it. If gay people are born gay then why are their so many ex gays.?
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Let's ASSUME they aren't born gay. Even there are studies on it and it has been pretty much proven. Don't ask me, you can google it and find it. It's common knowledge. But even if they choose to be gay, so what? Judge someone on their character and personality. Not on what they like. That's none of your business.
KingWithoutaCause 5 months ago
@KingWithoutaCause You didn't read my other comments. I don't have a problem with random gay people. I would have a problem if my future children were gay because that is something that i will not accept and will not support.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell then tell me this - could you ever be homosexual? could you ever find yourself sexually attracted to another woman? (i'm assuming you're female.)
shep689 5 months ago
@shep689 Yes, of course but i dont act on dangerous feelings. I have liked many female.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell sexual conduct is different than sexual orientation. just because you choose to not act on those feelings doesn't make you straight. that's why "ex-gay" ministries are so often ridiculed - they claim to change one's sexual orientation, but you can't. you can only change their sexual conduct. and also, what about those feelings are so dangerous anyway? who are they harming?
shep689 5 months ago
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@shep689 their is no proof that gay people are born gay
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell actually, if you ask a plethora of scientific foundations (like the American Psychiatric Association, National Academy of Pediatrics, American Psychological Association, etc) you'll see that all of them deem sexual orientation as something that cannot be changed.
however, to entertain your argument, let's say that, in addition, there's no proof that straight people are born straight, why should a marriage between two straight people be valued more than two gay people?
shep689 5 months ago
@shep689 People are born straight then decide they want to be gay later in life. If everyone was born gay, life would not exist. Because we all know that a male and another male can not create a child. You need a sperm and an egg for that to happen. I hope you know this.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell thanks for the refresher, but i passed all my biology courses in high school and university. and i'm well aware of the fact that homosexuals can't reproduce. but if we valued procreation as much as you do, then sterile people and post-menopausal women shouldn't marry either. and do you have any evidence that people are born straight, or is that just a conjecture?
shep689 5 months ago
@shep689 Do you have any proof that people are born gay. My only thought is that if everyone was born gay. LIFE WOULD NOT EXIST. SEX IS FOR REPRODUCTION NO MATTER HOW MUCH PLEASURE YOU GET FROM It. I'm guessing you do not value procreation. Their are woman that can not give birth. Just like they are men who can not impregnate a woman. Marriage has always been between a Man and a Woman so I do not support gay marriage. If you want marriage go to New York. Its a state issue.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell i know plenty of gay people who have had sex with the opposite gender to conceive a child, so it's possible for life to continue to exist. again, sexual conduct is completely separate from sexual orientation.
as for proof that people are born gay: ask me. i have never, ever been sexually attracted to women, since i was a child in elementary school. i didn't realize i was gay until i hit puberty, but it just made sense. and it's not a state issue, it's a human rights issue.
shep689 5 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell Well it's not wrong for a father to initially want normal children, but it is HORRIBLY WRONG to force them to cut out a part of themselves or live a miserable life under your outrageous restrictions. You wrongfully assume all gay people have the same lifestyle and you make it out to be way more dangerous than it is, and i think you just use these ignorant assumptions to justify your petty hostility towards homosexuals. You sir, and all people like you, are textbook bigots.
bboyFili 6 months ago
@bboyFili Yea i heard that word before. Everyone uses it freely against people who disagree with what they have to say. "Ugh, you don't like what i like so your a bigot." "You have a different opinion than me so you are a bigot." Don't call me sir. I'm a female and i don't want gay children. Its a simple as that. You can disagree with me but in the end what can you really do against me. Nothing.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 6 months ago
@IAmLikeWhatTheHell That's not at all why i label you a "bigot". You're a bigot because you're intolerant and oppressive, two very inhumane characteristics. People should be able to like what they want to, you wouldn't try to abolish a sport just because you don't like it would you?
You just don't deserve children until you get your insanity cured, mam.
bboyFili 5 months ago
@bboyFili thats your opinion and thats ok with me.
IAmLikeWhatTheHell 5 months ago
@ufc1498 actually, African American females are the demographic with the highest percentage of HIV/AIDS right now. and sure, parents have a right to discipline their children, but not over something they can't help. nor should children have to change in order to accomodate their parents. would you beat your child for liking asparagus or lasagna? it's the same scenario -- it's all a matter of preference.
shep689 6 months ago
@ufc1498 i'm encouraging parents to accept a characteristic of their children that isn't changeable. you're encouraging violence against children. who's in the wrong.
btw, it's spelled faggot. if you're going to insult me, at least have the decency to spell it correctly.
shep689 6 months ago 6
@16bahaboy sexual orientation isn't a choice. if you don't believe me, just check the American Psychological Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the National Academy of Pediatrics, and the American Psychoanalytic Association. or, you could just ask yourself, when did you decide to be straight?
shep689 6 months ago
When I told my parents that I had a girlfriend, not a girl friend, they told me to keep it quiet and just call her my "friend" when I talked about her. That acutally disgusts me more than if they had yelled at me. Trying to hide from who your child is, I think, is worse than you giving them a tough time about it.
SoWhatIfIAmCrazy 6 months ago
All this gay bashing makes me sick >:(
RainbowMonkeySock 6 months ago
Will, you fucking DISGUST me. Your lifestyle will leave you dead before your 40th birthday (AIDS) and you want parents to accept their children and encourage them to be sodomites so they can be like you and die an early death? You're a selfish motherfucker. I care about people who engage in the depraved homosexual lifestyle because it only leads to their destruction. Repent! Turn away from this filth!
bachmann4president 6 months ago
@bachmann4president sorry, but you're the disgusting one. look at how you treat people. you say you care? if that's your way of caring, then i pray you never have children. children shouldn't have to grow up with such hateful parents in their lives.
shep689 6 months ago
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GrandInquisitor7 6 months ago
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GrandInquisitor7 6 months ago
@16bahaboy
Seek help? You make it sound like they are insane. Parents have no control over their children's sexuality. Yes, you gave them life. And raised them. That doesn't mean you can control their thoughts and actions. You don't like their sexuality? Tell them. But don't try to change them.
iiSABRINA 6 months ago
@TodaysB34ast really, just really, you're going to say that here... Grow up.
PeachywonderTSS 6 months ago
FUCKING FAGGOT
TodaysB34st 6 months ago
@TodaysB34st Good point!
GrandInquisitor7 6 months ago
@GrandInquisitor7 = Fred Phelps Zombie = Hypocrite. Normally this self righteous asshole condemns people for using the F word.
Andy1000K 6 months ago
My parents say that they wouldn't care if I'm gay.. but I'm still scared to come out, and I don't know why. :/
UberEpical 6 months ago
@UberEpical Be brave. (:
It's a hard thing to do but it, literally, feels like the weight of the world is lifted off your shoulder after you do it.
WrongNumber07734 6 months ago
@de81000 in his defense, you did call us faggots. you're just as bad as him.
shep689 6 months ago
Sorry but I don't feel comfortable around gay people. I don't hate them but I don't like being around them all the same.
LTDViperDeli 6 months ago
@LTDViperDeli how come? you'd be surprised at who around you is gay and they're just afraid to come out. we're not scary, we just know who we are.
shep689 6 months ago 3
@LTDViperDeli maybe u r in the closet and hate yourself for it..or maybe u r just have some other problem
xadam2dudex 6 months ago
@LTDViperDeli don't worry..... nobody cares
RICHLOOK 6 months ago
There is no such thing as normal....It is the setting on a washing machine... :)
disposablefreedom 6 months ago
I didn't give a fuck if she/he is homosexual, as long as she/he being good to me, then it's ok. But, for having a child, I do really care,
RaciouS91 6 months ago
Wish my parents would watch this. They were accepting, but all they wanted to talk about was the negative social connotations. Why can't they just say "Ok...so?"
jdrockchalk 6 months ago
WHY! The FUCKING HELL!
Is there a religious, "You can Convert" Ad up there? -.-
wizardnoodles054 6 months ago
@de81000 never claimed being straight is not normal
i said you were not normal
as a 14 year old nigger
idaman12345 6 months ago