lmfao so cute...Yea yea Im sure guys ur age find you hot and beautiful...but listen, Im a 23 year old pedobear aight, so to me you look like a baby sister and theres nothing you can do about it! hahahhahaha....cutie...cutie...baby....baby....born yesterday,,,have you changed your diapers?
Absolutely stunning! You have one fan out there regardless of what your going through personally. I have met several shy girls, i judge them on personality not shyness :)
actually its weird funny sickness i got severe social axiety disorder i tell you,about 10-20 hrs.now even at home
the truth,,simply its hard to smile cause its awkward,even in one person then it would result to bi polar disorder to deppression,its like you are performing to a person if you experience this way tell me what is your real axiety who ever you are cause someday you will destroy this world
just stumbled across your videos. Gonna look through them all seems like you have alot of useful advise and that you actually know what it's like, coming from a young woman with social anxiety. thanks:)
Maybe if someone's yelling at you, a technique to try might be to imagine them as if they were a baby. They were once a baby, so imagine their baby form yelling at you. Or their kid form yelling at you. Or imagine them as their 80-year old form yelling at you.
I've never tried it before, but I wonder what happens if, instead of imagining your peers or normal people, what if you imagine that the people in front of you are in their elderly forms. Hehe. That'd be trippy.
for me it's like, if there's one person i'm at ease with, i usually manage to be somewhat sociable. but if there's someone really impressive i become extremely shy again.
i've been called to a bday party, by a girl i hardly know, the rest i don't know
i'll try out your technique there
btw. u musta heard this a million times but : u're beautiful!!
SAD people are just SO self-centered they want MORE attention than is given; can be give .they are all narcissists. thats what I`ve gathered.("o look at me -everyone stares at me- dont look at me -hey- hi, i am so socially anxious-everywhere i go people stare at me-ME ME ME..." you are NOT a nice person.
@alifelesscritic You sir have no idea how stupid you sound...Most people with SAD have low confidence and self esteem. They tend to focus on the other person and how they feel instead of themselves. Most people with SAD only want people to like them and to be excepted to the point where it's unhealthy. Also most people with SAD DO NOT WANT ATTENTION FOCUSED ON THEM AT ALL! You sound like a typical ignorant/uneducated and misinformed DOUCHEBAG
@tren979797 so..."they want people to LIKE THEM"- "them" that they "dont" care about- u sound so "smart", sir.so "educated" .so "informed"-wow! ...i KNEW id get a reply from one of YOUR kind on this (ps.thank You,SIR- for making me laugh :D)
@BehindFor17Hours a lot of attractive people have social anxiety because they feel that they have to be perfect and flawless which adds pressure and anxiety
@pinkorangesoda totally agree with you . attractive people with social anxieties are more common . sometime being invincible is better . you dont have to care how people think of you because they dont focus on you .
@pinkorangesoda totally agree with you . attractive people with social anxieties are more common . sometimes being invincible is better . you dont have to care how people think of you because your not the attention . but again every girl wants to be pretty . and by being pretty means getting used to attention .
Obviously we are not alone, but the thing is that it is very hard to control and especially overcome situations where you get anxious. Great technique/video though. I will definitely use this the next time I get anxious. Wait, is this the only technique you use?
Your technique is great, because thoughts are energy, they give you what you attract. I can see you are very socially intelligent person and you have a big heart.
Anxiety is fucked up because i know/ we know it makes no sense but its almost impossible to stop it. Its like over stimulation, constantly anaylzing shit you know its stupid. For example if im driving in my car im always surveying everything form looking in the review mirror i see someone notice me noticing them. Now oh shit they see me looking at them i gotta look away oh no they see me looking away now theyre wondering why im looking away so ill look back but then what if they see me WTF!!
@broadcastmyass4u Anyone who thinks that NLP and other methods of changing your outlook are brainwashing is an idiot. The definition of brainwashing is having your thoughts/outlook being manipulated by someone other than yourself (tv, radio, news, an interrogator, etc.). People who use words without knowing what they mean are stupid.
LOOK PEOPLE IN THEIR EYES no one gave you SAD, not even you did. its just are bodies reaction to things we dont wanna say or do...when u care too much of what people say YOU ARE GIVING THEM POWER THEY DONT DESERVE. just bounce back, and i promise the biggest thing that will help and helped me. look people in their eyes, i know its uncomfortable but you will notice they are doing the same thing to you..eye contact..simple and effective, you will notice yourself connecting, a wonderful feeling..
@EWalk131 this is my issue i have, i cant look people in the eye.. i feel im going to scare them as i feel nervous & anxious from the social anxiety.. in my eyes will show im not comfortable & im anxious & i just feel if sum1 catches my eyes theyl maybe be scared.. or made uneasy as im looking in theyre eyes with an anxious look, so now i go out with either sunglasses, or clear lens glasses to try hide my eyes, its upsetting for me as i know im a nice mannerd guy just S.A.D makes me feel so bad
Damn. I can't remember the last time I saw someone this beautiful. Love the way you speak clearly. Keep it up; these videos are no doubt helping a lot of people.
wow this is exactly how i feel sometimes. thanks for talking about this, ive always felt like people are judging me at all times, are you comfortable with yourself now?
Pills, therapy, books about the subconcious mind etc you name it. In my experience I can truly testify that only The Living GOD has healed me. Medications from doctors helped me a little and it was temporary. God's healing power is ETERNAL! Now Im not an antidepressant pill dependent. The cure for fear is FAITH! Fear limits you. FAITH ENABLES YOU! People, THE ALMIGHTY GOD IS YOUR ONLY HOPE. READ THE WORD OF GOD, HAVE FAITH AND OBEY! God loves you and He wants you to LET HIM...
I have learned to use techniques such as that on my own over the years, and I've made significant progress. It's always good for people with S.A.D. to know that their not alone. Good advice, although it is definitley easier said then done, especially for individuals with more severe cases. I gotta say you are extremely beautiful by the way. I gotta agree with what that other guy said. It is ridiculous how good looking people end up with such disorders. If your ever in Hawaii girl, look me uppp.
great outlook! , and yes your right , it is human nature to look at others, although a feeling of 'standing out" is not always comfortable.. weather that's by being attractive or just plain weird.. lol...... sometimes it would be nice to "blend in"
I think you will grow to be a VERY wise person!, hope you continue your path to helping others. Keep reading your books, you should check out
Just remember you do not have to be PERFECT.. It is true, very attractive people do tend to feel more anxious, as they feel they are being watched constantly... Sometimes it might feel like you can't just have a OFF day, or feel grumpy, or not worry..
Never try to be perfect, as you ALREADY are.. don't mix yourself up with your IMAGE, always remember your naturally beautiful!!......even on shitty days :) there are many of other reasons however..
Hey =) I have changed my interpretation of people looking/staring at you. Now I think, It is simply human nature to look at & stare at people, & don't judge others, & it's none of my business what others do. Sometimes I look at or stare at people too, I think for me it's because I admire their fashion or think they are cool, or cause I'm curious about the all different types of people. I just have to accept it is human nature to look & stare & theres better things to do than worry about it :)
you are very pretty. if you look at me on the eyes i probably just blush and i become very serious. that will be funny because i would never imagine that you also have SAD. I think we should just loosen up...
wow. I thought that whole fear of "staring into the eyes of an image of someone" thing was just a silly thing only i did. doesn't happen to me with videos, but it does with pictures in an album or yearbook or something of the sort. Great video, i'll definitely try that technique next time i'm feeling anxious.
Thanks for the unique technique and advice, but people with severe anxiety, trying to out think something just won't work.... Of course, if you are comfortable with something obviously you won't feel anxiety, but it's not so easy. I think it's like toastmasters..
Oh yes, I understand what you mean, and perhaps you are right. Maybe a person cannot feel comfortable with a situation until their belief that they have an irrational attitude about it is strong enough which may take time. I don't know. But You can do anything in your imagination including bringing up an image of what you are afraid of, and seeing yourself not caring or feeling comfortable and experiencing it in your imagination.This just helps with the outer experience.
"Narcissism describes the trait of excessive self-love based on self-image or ego, as well as lack of empathy for others." So no it isn't narcissistic to put your own video as a favourite because it does not include lack of empathy for others. I think I have good videos for helping social anxiety!
Thankyou very much for the feedback =) Yes. I recommend buying it. I have it myself there's some really good practical things in there that will only help & have helped me. (Some techniques I hadn't heard of anywhere else) Dr Thomas Richards Overcoming Social Anxiety is also excellent & I recommend it too.
Oh right, thank you; I've now bought the strategies, although don't have time to listen just yet. You mentioned that you had tried therapists -- I was just wondering, may I ask if that was in any way helpful, please? I've been thinking about doing that or medication or something but have no idea if they are helpful. No problem if you don't know.
Hey, That's awesome. All the best and I hope you get a lot out of The Social Strategies there are some good techniques! I have visited a couple of therapists, not one health professional, including doctors, seemed to understand or know what social anxiety disorder is. My own research, reading, and other products have been the real cause of my recovery. Therapists - yes, but find one that people with S.A recommend. Dr Thomas Richards in the USA is very good.
I know what you mean about walking down a road with cars driving past. You can't see the driver because of glare on the windscreen and you feel like people can see you without seeing them back.
I think a good attitude might be something like "Oh people might be able to see me from their cars...so what?" And just feeling like this is normal, no big deal, & enjoying your walk with a good mood & care-less attitude cause what they think doesn't matter, you have to care about yourself & you're out for a nice walk to enjoy the exercise, or sights & sounds, not to impress people
So helpful thanks.
mrnetvideos 4 weeks ago
Shy girls are often much more attractive than the damn self-confident ones.
tankeest 1 month ago
lmfao so cute...Yea yea Im sure guys ur age find you hot and beautiful...but listen, Im a 23 year old pedobear aight, so to me you look like a baby sister and theres nothing you can do about it! hahahhahaha....cutie...cutie...baby....baby....born yesterday,,,have you changed your diapers?
UCantHandleTheTruth3 1 month ago
Absolutely stunning! You have one fan out there regardless of what your going through personally. I have met several shy girls, i judge them on personality not shyness :)
66kaisersoza 1 month ago
Step 1: Start lawn mower with broken muffler.
Step 2: Start video
Step 3: Speak choppy and soft
Step 4: Post video and let viewers modulate distracting background noise on their own.
Havaseet 1 month ago
the wright brothers were performing their first flight in the background...
MrCajole 1 month ago
you are so beautiful why did you have SA??
AKBeazBoi 2 months ago
i don't get it.you are so pretty and ....
MrAdi9820 2 months ago
a lesson about i learn about social anxiety disorder is to never look on
personality cause its sucks
rockwitchdrunk 3 months ago
actually its weird funny sickness i got severe social axiety disorder i tell you,about 10-20 hrs.now even at home
the truth,,simply its hard to smile cause its awkward,even in one person then it would result to bi polar disorder to deppression,its like you are performing to a person if you experience this way tell me what is your real axiety who ever you are cause someday you will destroy this world
rockwitchdrunk 3 months ago
just stumbled across your videos. Gonna look through them all seems like you have alot of useful advise and that you actually know what it's like, coming from a young woman with social anxiety. thanks:)
rokkelbc 4 months ago
good gracious. I cant see you having social anxiety. ahh you're a CUTIEE y cant there be more socialy akward pretty gals in the world :) lol
codemiesterbeats 7 months ago
thanks for all your vids. when i think about the social anxiety, i try to get comfortable with it. so i feel more comfortable around others.
sphynx105 8 months ago
Look into Neurofeedback.
Diane9773 9 months ago
Maybe if someone's yelling at you, a technique to try might be to imagine them as if they were a baby. They were once a baby, so imagine their baby form yelling at you. Or their kid form yelling at you. Or imagine them as their 80-year old form yelling at you.
I've never tried it before, but I wonder what happens if, instead of imagining your peers or normal people, what if you imagine that the people in front of you are in their elderly forms. Hehe. That'd be trippy.
animals0feel1pain2 10 months ago
Sounds a lawnmower being dangled from a helicopter just over your head.
Kincajou 10 months ago
for me it's like, if there's one person i'm at ease with, i usually manage to be somewhat sociable. but if there's someone really impressive i become extremely shy again.
i've been called to a bday party, by a girl i hardly know, the rest i don't know
i'll try out your technique there
btw. u musta heard this a million times but : u're beautiful!!
sn3192 10 months ago
Thanks for everything! I'll try to follow your advice :)
E7HeL 11 months ago
SAD people are just SO self-centered they want MORE attention than is given; can be give .they are all narcissists. thats what I`ve gathered.("o look at me -everyone stares at me- dont look at me -hey- hi, i am so socially anxious-everywhere i go people stare at me-ME ME ME..." you are NOT a nice person.
alifelesscritic 11 months ago
@alifelesscritic You sir have no idea how stupid you sound...Most people with SAD have low confidence and self esteem. They tend to focus on the other person and how they feel instead of themselves. Most people with SAD only want people to like them and to be excepted to the point where it's unhealthy. Also most people with SAD DO NOT WANT ATTENTION FOCUSED ON THEM AT ALL! You sound like a typical ignorant/uneducated and misinformed DOUCHEBAG
tren979797 6 months ago
@tren979797 so..."they want people to LIKE THEM"- "them" that they "dont" care about- u sound so "smart", sir.so "educated" .so "informed"-wow! ...i KNEW id get a reply from one of YOUR kind on this (ps.thank You,SIR- for making me laugh :D)
alifelesscritic 6 months ago
@alifelesscritic No problem...your extremely shallow troll
tren979797 6 months ago
@tren979797 thanks,again...you, extremely "spiritual" dingus
alifelesscritic 6 months ago
@tren979797 what no reply R u shy or smth!!! ha ha haaaaa(u make moi sick)
alifelesscritic 5 months ago
@alifelesscritic Sorry I dont speak or understand "retard"
tren979797 5 months ago
@tren979797 no need to apologise,your "retard" is FINE
alifelesscritic 5 months ago
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are you a porno girl? .. also can you talk more quicker and not like a slut..
chocomocha 1 year ago
i subcribe for your beauty and voice
ultraphoennix 1 year ago
How can someone as pretty as you have social anxiety?
BehindFor17Hours 1 year ago
@BehindFor17Hours a lot of attractive people have social anxiety because they feel that they have to be perfect and flawless which adds pressure and anxiety
pinkorangesoda 1 year ago
@pinkorangesoda totally agree with you
miyaaz 1 year ago
@pinkorangesoda totally agree with you . attractive people with social anxieties are more common . sometime being invincible is better . you dont have to care how people think of you because they dont focus on you .
miyaaz 1 year ago
@pinkorangesoda totally agree with you . attractive people with social anxieties are more common . sometimes being invincible is better . you dont have to care how people think of you because your not the attention . but again every girl wants to be pretty . and by being pretty means getting used to attention .
miyaaz 1 year ago
Obviously we are not alone, but the thing is that it is very hard to control and especially overcome situations where you get anxious. Great technique/video though. I will definitely use this the next time I get anxious. Wait, is this the only technique you use?
imoutbro 1 year ago
I've got a severe case of social anxiety due to the fact I've held grudges against people for ten years after they've done me a great deal of wrong.
RyanFresh 1 year ago
You are very pretty, and I love your accent, where are you from
vwaudi914 1 year ago
damn ur gorgeous gurl!!!!!!
420JohnnieBoi 1 year ago
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Goddard50 1 year ago
Your technique is great, because thoughts are energy, they give you what you attract. I can see you are very socially intelligent person and you have a big heart.
nir8vana 1 year ago
Anxiety is fucked up because i know/ we know it makes no sense but its almost impossible to stop it. Its like over stimulation, constantly anaylzing shit you know its stupid. For example if im driving in my car im always surveying everything form looking in the review mirror i see someone notice me noticing them. Now oh shit they see me looking at them i gotta look away oh no they see me looking away now theyre wondering why im looking away so ill look back but then what if they see me WTF!!
CantWeedThis 1 year ago
Can you wait until the mower stops, sheeeit
1Solace 1 year ago
this sounds a lot like NLP which are very effective techniques for changing a person's outlook
IHighLikePlane 1 year ago
@IHighLikePlane Oh the brainwashing technique i remember that one, some idiots apparently still use that.
broadcastmyass4u 1 year ago
@broadcastmyass4u Anyone who thinks that NLP and other methods of changing your outlook are brainwashing is an idiot. The definition of brainwashing is having your thoughts/outlook being manipulated by someone other than yourself (tv, radio, news, an interrogator, etc.). People who use words without knowing what they mean are stupid.
IHighLikePlane 1 year ago
@IHighLikePlane hey true dat
broadcastmyass4u 1 year ago
LOOK PEOPLE IN THEIR EYES no one gave you SAD, not even you did. its just are bodies reaction to things we dont wanna say or do...when u care too much of what people say YOU ARE GIVING THEM POWER THEY DONT DESERVE. just bounce back, and i promise the biggest thing that will help and helped me. look people in their eyes, i know its uncomfortable but you will notice they are doing the same thing to you..eye contact..simple and effective, you will notice yourself connecting, a wonderful feeling..
EWalk131 1 year ago
@EWalk131 this is my issue i have, i cant look people in the eye.. i feel im going to scare them as i feel nervous & anxious from the social anxiety.. in my eyes will show im not comfortable & im anxious & i just feel if sum1 catches my eyes theyl maybe be scared.. or made uneasy as im looking in theyre eyes with an anxious look, so now i go out with either sunglasses, or clear lens glasses to try hide my eyes, its upsetting for me as i know im a nice mannerd guy just S.A.D makes me feel so bad
TheVamp1res 1 year ago
Dads doing the lawn is he?
mantooth3245 1 year ago
Beautiful personality and looks.
Dilaltastic 1 year ago
Damn. I can't remember the last time I saw someone this beautiful. Love the way you speak clearly. Keep it up; these videos are no doubt helping a lot of people.
waspy89 1 year ago
@121Guns hehehe is this an r&b song you're singing?
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago 4
@NoSocialAnxiety Thank you very much. it really helped. I have gone to many psychiatrists, psychologists and doctors but that was really amazing.
mrnetvideos 4 weeks ago
wow this is exactly how i feel sometimes. thanks for talking about this, ive always felt like people are judging me at all times, are you comfortable with yourself now?
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Chriomuz 2 years ago
I have learned to use techniques such as that on my own over the years, and I've made significant progress. It's always good for people with S.A.D. to know that their not alone. Good advice, although it is definitley easier said then done, especially for individuals with more severe cases. I gotta say you are extremely beautiful by the way. I gotta agree with what that other guy said. It is ridiculous how good looking people end up with such disorders. If your ever in Hawaii girl, look me uppp.
kpchawaii 2 years ago
Lovely girl.
acidglow 2 years ago 26
Good video, makes sense :)
joshua87497 2 years ago
great outlook! , and yes your right , it is human nature to look at others, although a feeling of 'standing out" is not always comfortable.. weather that's by being attractive or just plain weird.. lol...... sometimes it would be nice to "blend in"
I think you will grow to be a VERY wise person!, hope you continue your path to helping others. Keep reading your books, you should check out
Deepak Chopra
Wayne Dyer
Eckhart Tolle!
Stay bright !!
Bluesage2009 2 years ago
Just remember you do not have to be PERFECT.. It is true, very attractive people do tend to feel more anxious, as they feel they are being watched constantly... Sometimes it might feel like you can't just have a OFF day, or feel grumpy, or not worry..
Never try to be perfect, as you ALREADY are.. don't mix yourself up with your IMAGE, always remember your naturally beautiful!!......even on shitty days :) there are many of other reasons however..
But it seems you have mastered anxiety! :)
Bluesage2009 2 years ago 7
Hey =) I have changed my interpretation of people looking/staring at you. Now I think, It is simply human nature to look at & stare at people, & don't judge others, & it's none of my business what others do. Sometimes I look at or stare at people too, I think for me it's because I admire their fashion or think they are cool, or cause I'm curious about the all different types of people. I just have to accept it is human nature to look & stare & theres better things to do than worry about it :)
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago 9
@NoSocialAnxiety Nice explanation, i like it
niwasazuke 1 year ago
you are very pretty. if you look at me on the eyes i probably just blush and i become very serious. that will be funny because i would never imagine that you also have SAD. I think we should just loosen up...
luis33162 2 years ago
wow. I thought that whole fear of "staring into the eyes of an image of someone" thing was just a silly thing only i did. doesn't happen to me with videos, but it does with pictures in an album or yearbook or something of the sort. Great video, i'll definitely try that technique next time i'm feeling anxious.
MajorasWindWaker 2 years ago
Hey, link not working for me.
your vids are Great by the way!!
matthewdk1 2 years ago
Thanks for the unique technique and advice, but people with severe anxiety, trying to out think something just won't work.... Of course, if you are comfortable with something obviously you won't feel anxiety, but it's not so easy. I think it's like toastmasters..
Cavin21 2 years ago
Oh yes, I understand what you mean, and perhaps you are right. Maybe a person cannot feel comfortable with a situation until their belief that they have an irrational attitude about it is strong enough which may take time. I don't know. But You can do anything in your imagination including bringing up an image of what you are afraid of, and seeing yourself not caring or feeling comfortable and experiencing it in your imagination.This just helps with the outer experience.
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
LOL well I did start to panic at first thinking I was being criticized or insulted or whatever but it's all good ^ ^ Thanks
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
"Narcissism describes the trait of excessive self-love based on self-image or ego, as well as lack of empathy for others." So no it isn't narcissistic to put your own video as a favourite because it does not include lack of empathy for others. I think I have good videos for helping social anxiety!
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
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thorkyll 2 years ago
Hi,
Thanks, I think you have given some really good and practical advice in this video.
By the way, those social stategies to which you provide a link --- are you recommending buying the audio series on that page? Have they helped you?
Kind Regards
thorkyll 2 years ago
Thankyou very much for the feedback =) Yes. I recommend buying it. I have it myself there's some really good practical things in there that will only help & have helped me. (Some techniques I hadn't heard of anywhere else) Dr Thomas Richards Overcoming Social Anxiety is also excellent & I recommend it too.
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
Hiya,
Oh right, thank you; I've now bought the strategies, although don't have time to listen just yet. You mentioned that you had tried therapists -- I was just wondering, may I ask if that was in any way helpful, please? I've been thinking about doing that or medication or something but have no idea if they are helpful. No problem if you don't know.
thorkyll 2 years ago
Hey, That's awesome. All the best and I hope you get a lot out of The Social Strategies there are some good techniques! I have visited a couple of therapists, not one health professional, including doctors, seemed to understand or know what social anxiety disorder is. My own research, reading, and other products have been the real cause of my recovery. Therapists - yes, but find one that people with S.A recommend. Dr Thomas Richards in the USA is very good.
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
Thank you for making this video; I think you made a lot of sense :)
BluesyMagus 2 years ago
You're very welcome. Thank YOU for watching !
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
I know what you mean about walking down a road with cars driving past. You can't see the driver because of glare on the windscreen and you feel like people can see you without seeing them back.
Good video, well done
PurePhrancis 2 years ago 2
I think a good attitude might be something like "Oh people might be able to see me from their cars...so what?" And just feeling like this is normal, no big deal, & enjoying your walk with a good mood & care-less attitude cause what they think doesn't matter, you have to care about yourself & you're out for a nice walk to enjoy the exercise, or sights & sounds, not to impress people
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
Thankyou :)
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
Thankyou :)
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago
Hey please give me a piece of feedback about what I could improve on so this video so it would be better, more enjoyable and helpful. Thanks!
NoSocialAnxiety 2 years ago