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  • why im watching this im not a stuipid gay 0_o

  • Great Video!

    I'm.. Kinda In A Relationship Right Now I Suppose. But I Honestly Feel Nothing, Were Completely Different People.

    Every time I Try To Be Romantic, She Always Changes Subject.. It's Annoying :c

  • relationshit! LOL :D

  • I broke up with my bf 3 times. He told me last night, he still loves me. The reason he can't get back to me is that he's afraid if his family know he's gay/bi. We still love each other. But I must leave him 'cause I can't make him my friend. I'm so very very sad. I feel like dying! :'(

  • I broke up with my bf 3 times. He told me last night, he still loves me. The reason he can't get back to me is that he's afraid if his family know he's gay/bi. We still love each other. But I must leave him 'cause I can't make him my friend. I'm so very very sad. I feel like dying! :'(

  • Great video Dan!!!! "Relationshit".......I think we find ourself in those sometimes even with our friends!!!! I'm glad you realized you deserve more that you had with him!!!!

  • Throwing that diary/journal was the best thing you could do :D Goodbye relationshit!

  • That was amazing and so on point :)

  • Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can totally relate to everything you just said. I spent a year living with a guy that wouldn't hold my hand at pride, and only kissed me when he felt like it (rarely). It was definitely a relation-shit! :)

  • Good video

    Sounds like my ex... He always said he had no clue what I was talking about... Or was just pretending to be blind to the fact

  • My ex was just like that too. He was "blind" to the fact though or atleast he pretended to be.

  • That looks like my journal I started when me and my gf broke up. :( lol

  • Well not longer than two weeks anyway (say for Brad Pitt or sommat). I guess it comes down to that better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all saying, and that's the truth.

  • Hey Dan!!! I've been away from youtube for a while but still love you're vid's.

    What you say is sooooo very true and I think that everybody can relate to what you're saying (gay or straight). Lots of love! AnneRose

  • You are 100% on the money, fact you are the first person I have heard put it so well.. Have a gret day! ~Russ

  • Love your bit on 'relationshit.' So true!

    Is that Tori's Comic Book Tattoo in your collection?! If so, come to the US and date me! Love Aussie men.

  • @one4music658 It sure is and it made it back safely! I think I have every album and single she ever released!

  • Thank you what you said in this video, you're right. Multiple times I've found myself in relationships where I'm the only person doing the loving, and with people who don't want me to touch them or kiss them. Thank you for talking about this, because I really identify with it.

  • COMIC BOOK TATTOO!!!! Omg you just gained about 10,000 points.

  • Greak ups are pretty hard, huh

  • Have fun back in Melb! I'm a Canuck, and my Aussie BF is going back to Melbourne too for a short while in July, but I'll be coming to see him soon enough. LDR's suck, but we've been together for 4 years, still going strong :D

  • good subject we dont talk about much. carry on wayward son

  • Sad you are leaving, good luck and make vids all over the travel!!

  • you're talking out of my soul mate ;)

    btw. like your hat and you are cute ;p okay that just sounded weard @_@

  • i totally agree with you Dan.. you have to date yourself for awhile..

    see you soon Dan

    

  • @ExplorationB The only reason the friend thing works with us is because I think our third just seemed like a roommate.

    The Facebook friend thing is hard with an ex sometimes because seeing someone move on and have fun can be hard. I'm friends with my ex wife on FB, we get along but I'm waiting for her to drop me because she can't handle the gay.

  • @calicurajim Cheers, and no I left him. He kept holding the possibility of him breaking up with me over my head, so it got to the stage where I said "Okay - lets break up" I don't need to feel on edge

  • @larsenwolf Total Toriphile but I do have a collection of comics too :-)

  • Dating yourself? Sounds like masturbation to me! Good times.

  • I've been broken up with. </3

  • @LauraCuthbert I think it's par for the course. :-)

  • Wii!!!

  • @ssybrik A BLACK ONE!!

  • Good to see, you seem to be in a healthy head space at the moment.

  • @vegemitegrrl Thanks Louisa!

  • You perfectly described my last relation-shit. I didn't realize it in the moment but looking back you are right on target. *hugs*

  • @vinceinburque *high five* for being aware some guys are douches

  • Great advice!

  • @evmoneyTV THanks buddy :-)

  • a relation shitt hahaha that was funny

  • @esmith46461 ;-)

  • As a thespian I can't condone the disposal of emotion. That "Relation-shit" may not be where your are today, but without those experiences your current person wouldn't be possible. You mustn't dote on the past but without it how could we learn and grow from our misfortunes

  • @PoeticPoppa I'm an Artist and Actor too, but I can let go of that. When you're 30 I guess you have had enough misfortunes to be able to move on.

  • @ExplorationB Does moving on have to be a complete dismissal of things passed?

  • @PoeticPoppa Sometimes yes. And although I threw out the journal I can still remember the relationship.

  • @ExplorationB Touchez. 

  • lol

    

  • We will miss you sweet man have a good trip back home :)

  • @mike2327 Why will you miss me?

  • @ExplorationB Have enjoyed your videos etc ;)

  • I wish you didn't break up with Vancouver - it loves you just the way you are! ;-)

    Great vid Dan... loved what you did with that book.

  • @JoshRimer YAY! INTO THE BIN OF SHAME!!

  • welcome back to Melbourne, enjoy the 3 season a day weather!

  • @rollingdownfalling YAY! Last time I was snowed on with sleet, drowned then overheated all in 3 hours!!

  • I was watching other people's videos wondering if anyone will ever make videos of a more serious nature on more "serious" subjects. Even though Im not in a relationship I appreciated the effort.

  • @havaneezer Thanks :-) A lot of m y vids are serious

  • Super advice Dan. I have to say I don't envy your task of having to sort and pack before the move.

  • @beththebookworm It's been a task!

  • this explains the last three relationships I've had :( I think I'll just be single forever.

  • @DirBlair It's not as bad as it seems lol

  • totally thank god i broke up with mine- he didnt like kissing/hugging or even holding hands in public he was always like WTF when i did and he was older than me so he had no excuse - i need someone more mature ^.^

  • @GaaraSabuka Yeah maturity is key, and age doesn't always make someone mature!

  • @ExplorationB tell me about ¬¬

  • :) love the part u threw the diary away. Yea, throw the relation-shit away! :)

  • @valianted GOOOODBYE DUMB RELATION-SHIT

  • have you got a new camera. The quality is great

  • @hamy525 Yeah Bloggie Duo, best $150 I ever invested!

  • The 2 dislikes come from Dan's ex. He was enough of a prick to do it twice. No, but honestly, If he didn't appreciate you for who you are, he didn't deserve you.

  • @bumbro07 LOL I think I know who they are from.

  • LOL, I gasped out loud when you tossed your journal in the bin. Totally was not expecting that.

  • @breakingthisdown YAY! for throwing away shitty feelings

  • @ExplorationB Haha, for sure. I just don't think I'd be able to, personally. I've never kept journals, etc, but anything like letters, notes, etc - they always end up kept in a box, etc, and stashed away somewhere. I have a hard time letting go. =/

  • weird quirks makes a person, you, and everyone out there lovable n special and I am totally with you dan, if somebody cant see it, you're in the wrong relationship, and soooooo much better off single ;) mucho <3

  • @DevilwearinVans AMEN! I think it's important to remember that!

  • 0:55, waheyyyy I see what you did there ;). 1:35 if he doesn't know what he's lost already then it isn't worth trying to show him, good riddance. Sounds like he hated all the things in a person that you should love and find cute (quirks etc.). I hope I'll be strong enough to break it off if I experience a relationship like this when I start dating.

  • @Fr4yTheStrings Yeah just be aware that if someone isn't letting you be yourself, there the trouble starts...

  • your ex was a dumb birch lol

  • @josephjuvenile hahahahaha yeah I guess you're right

  • the thing I love the most about my friends is their flaws, i celebrate them, because that's what actually makes them unique, and that's what I love...

    I send you all my love xx

  • @giovanniimperiale Yeah when you love someone you love all of them, not just the good parts.

  • Geez that sucks your ex did not appriciate your for your quirks and your videos. Oh well his loss! People trying to make someone change or controlers is what drives me the most nuts! You're good the way you are so DON'T CHANGE! :)

  • @thatoneshyguy20 Cheers buddy, controllers are insane. I have lots of stories. My life is like a dating sitcom lol

  • Lol BINNED! That's good advice. I think that's how I felt with my ex so dating myself is so much better :)

  • @UKClosetGuy You know it Ste. You should be alone till you find the person who you connect with as an equal.

  • Solid advice, Dan. It's an honor to watch YOU grow, because it definitely has helped ME grow.

  • @TheGayVlog THanks buddy!

  • LOL the beginning was very funny...So now the BIG truth did you guys really have car problems or was it the boyfriend...???

  • @depfox Ahhh! You know what? It was def a combination of both. He was downplaying the car problems and I was telling him we needed to take it in so he refused and took us on a drive, far away - the tire got shredded and we had to return to exchange the car... I took the car to get fixed that morning but they needed him - it was all a mess and I was suspicious why things were taking longer than he said.

  • So glad you didn't change. You are wonderful just the way you are and one day someone will see that in you. Until then love yourself and I love ya so you're set. Stay sweet <3

  • @HotMissa You too missa xox

  • hahaha. I'm glad that you are over him. However, I actually do want to know more about what you're taking to Aus with you. It doesn't seem like much at all. Why are you only taking that little bit of stuff? What aren't you taking and why? I've moved back and forth from university in the same country and took more with me than you are. How can you not have more things to bring? You have your whole life to bring. I hope your whole life doesn't fit into that small box. :-/ Please let us know. :-)

  • @SereneFire88 LOL So curious. I am taking a few books, I have about 30 DVDs out of their cases, 15 CDs, photos and paperwork, my baseball my nintendo wii and games and also my clothes (that are not there) The other stuff I am giving to friends.

  • @ExplorationB Hahaha. Wow. You are certainly a light traveler. But it's really nice to give things to friends. That's generous. I wish I had more friends like you. Thanks for the response. :-D

  • WII FTW!

  • @0503892811 YEAH! Come play!

  • My partner and I were in a triad and the third broke up with us last December. It was the best for all of us, and my partner and I are much happier with the two of us. We just hung out with him and are happy that we don't consider him our ex anymore... He's just a friend

  • @cdnsee The logistics of that are mind boggling, but that I would say is because I'm not Poly and I don't think I could. I have enough trouble getting along with one guy let alone two. lol. We were doing the friend thing - till he deleted me off face book for no reason.

  • Omg my boyfriend and I made a journal when we started dating in the exact same kind of notebook! Baha great video.

  • @iJulianS One day I will have one to give someone, maybe :-)

  • I had a bf like that. I wondered how much he actually liked/was attracted to about me.

  • @Bwsq70 yeah thats a good sign it needs to be over.

  • OMG you're responding live - I feel strangely connected.

  • @dothedeed LOL No I am waiting for my friend to come over for her Bday drinks

  • Your ex is totally going to hate you for this lol

    Great advice Dan!

  • @TheAndyLoraProgram He doesn't watch youtube so I am safe lol. He was all "Do you lip synch?" and then never saw a vid of mine that he liked.

  • @mrocean365 I am too old to be an ideal of someone else's xoxox

  • Ahh he wouldn't let you touch him :( wtf? 

  • @dothedeed Yeah, who wants that relation-shit? LOL

  • Dan, we love you! < So you don't need a relationshit after all :D

  • @8Cadden I love you guys too! I couldn't imagine being anyone else.

  • may I say that I would so let you kiss and touch me...can I say that here?

  • @topup73 LOL You sure can :-P

  • Very well said!

  • @MartiniGuy84 Thank you!

  • Wherebouts do you live? How's the rent? I want to move down there but can't find anywhere I like :(

  • @dfan I live in the west end and it's 785 but a steal. Took me ages to find it.

  • @ExplorationB Any tips for finding a place in the same area??

  • YAY! I just realized I threw it away. Fuck him and fuck anyone who makes me unhappy.

  • @LEROYG1963 thats hot lol

  • @YourGayNews Hells yeah, that's why they are an ex

  • I soooo agree with you Dan, about the breaking up thing! Once I realized that I was being treated like a doormat by my boyfriend, I just turned myself into a magic carpet and fly away!! Of course I dream of meeting my Alladin who will treat and love me right someday. LOL!

  • @doc2log Cheers mate, we all deserve to fly

  • @hecateunderworld Sexy Gay Jeans, Take them off!! lol you saw that vid huh? lol

  • Lolllolol I needed this advice like a month ago lol.. I hope everything goes well with your move... I LOVE your vids Dan:)  -Quincey:) -

  • @Modalsh1ft Thanks! It's tough but getting er done! Thanks for watching mate, I know people say that but it's why I respond to everyone. I mean that I love you guys!

  • You're breaking up w....Vancouver? How many journals did you have to get rid of, bro?

    Will you be closing this channel?

  • @brotherdarek NO NO NO! This channel is being taken with me! Just one Journal. I used to jounral any relationship I was in love with that person and when I went back to aus I threw out a lot. The vids will get even better. No joke. Better locations and more issues and more about my past! It's a wild past!

  • @ExplorationB Oh, good. I will continue to watch.  Vancouver will miss you though, I'm sure.

  • Why would anyone want to change those quirks they're adorable.

  • @jpofgs1 Y thank you! :-D

  • Well, (hug).

  • @SugarInHisBlood ROCK IT!!

  • @ExplorationB I thought you said Melvin looks sexy in gay jeans..

  • what a wonderful full of advice video!!!

  • @xxlipzxx Y Thank you boy loeb...

  • I had a couple of very brief relationships like that, but I ended them right away when I knew they were wrong. Why stay in a relationship that isn't the right one? Going on 24 years now with my SO.

  • @onyxman8 EXACTLY! Rock on!

  • Um ... wow someone totally hit the "totally muh fuckn relate" button :) nicely done sir

  • @emixvol20 Y thank you sir/

  • I bet he is the one that forced you to stay on a diet... D:

    *Spots a Wii*

    Oh, lol! *Flies to Australia*

  • @ShuYinOnTheWay lol well not forced but now I am happy being fat till I need to slim down for the police force next month.

  • YES Melbourne is ready for ExplorationB return the read carpet is almost rolled out.

    

  • @MrNeko11 AWESOME lol

  • I really identify with the scene where you threw away the journal as a way of completely letting this person go. I'm in a really good relationship, but there are times I think back to my exes. Luckily, I've maintained good feelings with most of them, but there are a few that apparently wanted nothing to do with me again for some reason. And those were the ones that I wanted back.

    But every time I read a text from my new guy, I think to myself..."fuck the rest, they aren't worth the thought"

  • @Lanedude08 even without those textx the dignity of not putting up with peoples shit is so beneficial!

  • So true, so true. This is probably my fav. video on youtube now. Thanks for making this Exploration B

  • @Stanford9009 Thank you! That's an honor. I love making people explore their own lives ;-)

  • Dan, that was great advice. I love the dramatic tossing in the trash bin scene! I got a giggle out of that because I know the feeling. Good for you!  1 more reason for me to come out to Australia

  • @bulldawg570 YAY! I would love to host you dude! Yeah I was all "Do I do it or do I turn it into a part of a book?" then I was like "He doesn't deserve the honor." Granted I took out the two tokens for free drinks out before I tossed lol

  • @ExplorationB - totally doesn't deserve the honor...but I'm glad you took the tokens! LOL

  • Preach! Great Video.

  • @bfg2099 AMEN lol

  • Relation-shit, I'm gonna start saying that :P Great advice, I wish I knew all that when I was 18. It would have saved me so much trouble!

  • @ItsDianaSkye ugh I wish I knew it too. Save a lot of heart break!

  • Love you video!! Great points!!!

  • @jojo20to1 Thanks mate!!

  • Did u get a new cam?? the video looks better.

    ps: UR HOT!!

  • @buqoqa LOL Thanks! Yeah I invested in a Bloggie Duo so now on it's HD all the way baby!

  • @ExplorationB Hell ye! :-)

    

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