@THEPALSCHANNEL "I clearly say 'Will I marry outside my race? I don't know. If I find someone I love, I probably WILL'". At 4:44 you then follow that statement with, "But my loyalty is to my Black men and if that makes me an idiot I'll just be an idiot." My statement stands.
waitaminute! This isn't an "ode" or "love letter"...It's a backhanded way of saying "no matter how fucked up BM are, we're still with you...no matter how much abuse you hand out to us, we'll still love you unconditionally" The implication is that we BM are just on bullshit and pulling BW down. I guess I imagined all of the beligerence from BW and keeping BM from interacting with his children...
@swpdisciple Exactly. I'd also like to hear some elaboration on this idea of "loyalty." A
lack of options does NOT equal loyalty. It's interesting that the speaker said she's "dated" non-Black men but wouldn't "marry" a non-Black man. Why? Does the fact that a Black AMERICAN woman "dates" interracially but stops short of interracial marriage constitute loyalty? Does she even have the OPTION of marrying interracially? Alot of N-BM would "date" a Black AMERICAN woman but never marry one.
@SavMacCauley I didn't say I wouldn't marry a non-black. I clearly say "Will I marry outside my race? I don't know. If I find someone I love, I probably WILL". Please pay attention if you are going to retort. I was ENGAGED to a white man. I was raised in a place that had a LOT of interracial dating, so it was no big deal. I have options to marry any race I choose... but I would PREFER a Black man because we have a shared HISTORY and UNDERSTANDING. That is MY choice...you have yours
@swpdisciple If that's what you get from that, then you don't know the meaning of UNCONDITIONAL. If you have some PERSONAL issues with someone keeping you from your kids, then you should deal with that, rather than looking for a HIDDEN MESSAGE in the video. I have a WOMAN'S Perspective and you have a man's which automatically makes our views OPPOSITE. So again, I STILL love the Black Man unconditionally.
@THEPALSCHANNEL No, they DON'T HAVE TO BE AUTOMATICALLY OPPOSITE. you basically say that BM are abusive and neglectful and BW stay with BM regardless of the bullshit. I'd say on balance BW have been WORSE to BM than the other way around. The numbers and complaints seem to indicate that. It's just that BW gravitate toward poor men (and OFTEN the SAME men) so that muddies the argument but that situation has the 80/20 rule written all over it. And no I'm 32 and have no children
@swpdisciple I don't BASICALLY say anything. I CLEARLY state my position, and stand behind it. If you want to read more into it, that's your choice. PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE. Regardless of RACE. Hurt is NOT exclusive to BLACK people. BM aren't VILLAINS and BW aren't VICTIMS. It just is what it is. I made this video because "I" felt the need to say, "I FORGIVE YOU and STILL LOVE YOU". Perhaps you didn't watch the video where I asked the BM to FORGIVE US BW? I guess not. Why not do that?
@THEPALSCHANNEL "I clearly say 'Will I marry outside my race? I don't know. If I find someone I love, I probably WILL'". At 4:44 you then follow that statement with, "But my loyalty is to my Black men and if that makes me an idiot I'll just be an idiot." My statement stands.
SavMacCauley 1 month ago
@SavMacCauley And so does mine.
THEPALSCHANNEL 1 month ago
waitaminute! This isn't an "ode" or "love letter"...It's a backhanded way of saying "no matter how fucked up BM are, we're still with you...no matter how much abuse you hand out to us, we'll still love you unconditionally" The implication is that we BM are just on bullshit and pulling BW down. I guess I imagined all of the beligerence from BW and keeping BM from interacting with his children...
swpdisciple 1 month ago
@swpdisciple Exactly. I'd also like to hear some elaboration on this idea of "loyalty." A
lack of options does NOT equal loyalty. It's interesting that the speaker said she's "dated" non-Black men but wouldn't "marry" a non-Black man. Why? Does the fact that a Black AMERICAN woman "dates" interracially but stops short of interracial marriage constitute loyalty? Does she even have the OPTION of marrying interracially? Alot of N-BM would "date" a Black AMERICAN woman but never marry one.
SavMacCauley 1 month ago
@SavMacCauley I didn't say I wouldn't marry a non-black. I clearly say "Will I marry outside my race? I don't know. If I find someone I love, I probably WILL". Please pay attention if you are going to retort. I was ENGAGED to a white man. I was raised in a place that had a LOT of interracial dating, so it was no big deal. I have options to marry any race I choose... but I would PREFER a Black man because we have a shared HISTORY and UNDERSTANDING. That is MY choice...you have yours
THEPALSCHANNEL 1 month ago
@swpdisciple If that's what you get from that, then you don't know the meaning of UNCONDITIONAL. If you have some PERSONAL issues with someone keeping you from your kids, then you should deal with that, rather than looking for a HIDDEN MESSAGE in the video. I have a WOMAN'S Perspective and you have a man's which automatically makes our views OPPOSITE. So again, I STILL love the Black Man unconditionally.
THEPALSCHANNEL 1 month ago
@THEPALSCHANNEL No, they DON'T HAVE TO BE AUTOMATICALLY OPPOSITE. you basically say that BM are abusive and neglectful and BW stay with BM regardless of the bullshit. I'd say on balance BW have been WORSE to BM than the other way around. The numbers and complaints seem to indicate that. It's just that BW gravitate toward poor men (and OFTEN the SAME men) so that muddies the argument but that situation has the 80/20 rule written all over it. And no I'm 32 and have no children
swpdisciple 1 month ago
@swpdisciple I don't BASICALLY say anything. I CLEARLY state my position, and stand behind it. If you want to read more into it, that's your choice. PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE. Regardless of RACE. Hurt is NOT exclusive to BLACK people. BM aren't VILLAINS and BW aren't VICTIMS. It just is what it is. I made this video because "I" felt the need to say, "I FORGIVE YOU and STILL LOVE YOU". Perhaps you didn't watch the video where I asked the BM to FORGIVE US BW? I guess not. Why not do that?
THEPALSCHANNEL 1 month ago
@THEPALSCHANNEL ok I'll check it out...
swpdisciple 1 month ago
love you back queen
NobleMoorishScholar 1 month ago
We luv u too!
mktking 1 month ago