I was raped by my older brother and by another family member. I was too afraid to say anything for years. It kept happening for years, until one day I got up enough courage and told my family. I wanted to die. I was so ashamed. I know it wasn't my fault, I know I didn't cause it but I still carry it. I'm 22 now. When I told my family I was still a little girl of 9. Sometimes I cry about it but I hope that I can help people that have gone through the same. Stay strong you guys. We made it. =)
I was by a guy I was dating at the time, during my senior year of college, on May 28, 2005. I was (and still am) too scared and ashamed to report it. I was a virgin prior to that. What's really scary is that he was attending my same university, studying to become a social worker.
Visit RAINN's website rainn.org, and click the online hotline under the Get Help tab, or call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). You don't have to report it, but I encourage you to het help.
i was rapped 3 you know what the police didnt do shyt n iv watched videos on here bout ppl thinking rape is a joke um its not a joke u think its a joke ur as sick as the mother fuckers who do this to people rape is no joke when a girl or boy says no it means stop not keep going i was rapped oct 4th 2010 the reusults came back but i didnt wanna go to court so the police wouldnt even arrest the mother fucker he said i wanted it!!!!! no noone in this world ask to be rapped
I was sexually assaulted. but I am afraid to speak out about, that some how someone someone will say it was my fault. It happened so long ago, but it still affects me every day.
@love2Spark - I completely understand; that's a big part of why I never reported mine, and unfortunately, it is a shared feeling for many of us. There's a real fear of not being believed or being blamed for what happened.
i was 2 years ago and i'm now getting help and looking at pursueing charges against him for some charge or another ...i will not sit back and let him do this to another girl again
My friend was raped by a man she had dated. The man was visiting my friend's home one evening, and he wanted to have sex and my friend didn't. He strangled her throat and raped her. She went to the police in her small town to report it. The police asked her, "Have you ever had consensual sex with him before?" She said yes. The police would not pursue it. They said that it would be his word against hers. The police did not even so much as go and talk to the guy. This makes me sick.
if you are raped or sexually assaulted, please report it to the cops. even if it never goes to court, it will be on their record if they are ever charged again. and it will make them think twice.
So effective! I was also. Thanks for reminding the world that we carry the scars forever. And to the guys who do it and lie about it, there is always someone who knows.
I just found out that one of the bastards that raped my wife was recently convicted on no less than 5 counts of rape. God I hope that bastard rots.
My wife has 2 sessions of counciling and will talk about it now, she's finally realised she is not alone. Rape effects us men too indirectly, I don't think anyone could understand how shattered I was when I found out my wife was a victim.
I am often ashamed to be a man knowing there are bastards in this world that prey on women such as yourselves
Almost 30 Years ago when she was still an innocent virgin my now wife was pack raped by no less than 4 men who'm I knew at a party where they stood around and laughed at her responses and in experience. It haunts her terribly to this day and any time she feels aroused it brings back horrid memories of that night.
NEVER stay silent PLEASE talk to someone it WILL help.
August 1979, I was.
commodorefan2 3 months ago
I was raped by my older brother and by another family member. I was too afraid to say anything for years. It kept happening for years, until one day I got up enough courage and told my family. I wanted to die. I was so ashamed. I know it wasn't my fault, I know I didn't cause it but I still carry it. I'm 22 now. When I told my family I was still a little girl of 9. Sometimes I cry about it but I hope that I can help people that have gone through the same. Stay strong you guys. We made it. =)
Pinguikamarble 1 year ago 2
I was by a guy I was dating at the time, during my senior year of college, on May 28, 2005. I was (and still am) too scared and ashamed to report it. I was a virgin prior to that. What's really scary is that he was attending my same university, studying to become a social worker.
trickieb89 1 year ago
@trickieb89
Visit RAINN's website rainn.org, and click the online hotline under the Get Help tab, or call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). You don't have to report it, but I encourage you to het help.
commodorefan2 3 months ago
i was rapped 3 you know what the police didnt do shyt n iv watched videos on here bout ppl thinking rape is a joke um its not a joke u think its a joke ur as sick as the mother fuckers who do this to people rape is no joke when a girl or boy says no it means stop not keep going i was rapped oct 4th 2010 the reusults came back but i didnt wanna go to court so the police wouldnt even arrest the mother fucker he said i wanted it!!!!! no noone in this world ask to be rapped
hottie200448 1 year ago
January 1 2007 I was...
TheLozzalo 1 year ago
I'm 23... & February 25th, 2007... I was.
nylotus 1 year ago
I was sexually assaulted. but I am afraid to speak out about, that some how someone someone will say it was my fault. It happened so long ago, but it still affects me every day.
love2Spark 1 year ago
@love2Spark - I completely understand; that's a big part of why I never reported mine, and unfortunately, it is a shared feeling for many of us. There's a real fear of not being believed or being blamed for what happened.
trickieb89 1 year ago
I was
PunkCabaretFTW 1 year ago
I was...yesterday, infact...
KimIsMissing 1 year ago
I was
nancypants90 1 year ago
i was 2 years ago and i'm now getting help and looking at pursueing charges against him for some charge or another ...i will not sit back and let him do this to another girl again
livefaithlove88 1 year ago
My Daughter was. It hurts me deeply.I wish I could undo all her pain. PLEASE don't keep it a secret , tell someone.
MrWalt1949 1 year ago
I'm 17. and I was.
all through my childhood. and through the majority of my teen years.
17brokenbutterflies 1 year ago
@17brokenbutterflies Is there someone you can confide in ... such as your school counselor? I hope you can find the safety to get help.
strawberryseason 1 year ago
I Was.
jamiemarie08 1 year ago
I was :(
shezabigzipper 1 year ago
This video made me almost cry. I hope there is justice and peace for all of you victims.
Sutemi 1 year ago 2
My friend was raped by a man she had dated. The man was visiting my friend's home one evening, and he wanted to have sex and my friend didn't. He strangled her throat and raped her. She went to the police in her small town to report it. The police asked her, "Have you ever had consensual sex with him before?" She said yes. The police would not pursue it. They said that it would be his word against hers. The police did not even so much as go and talk to the guy. This makes me sick.
strawberryseason 2 years ago 3
Almost the same thing happened to me, it makes me sick too.
Leanan101 1 year ago
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ThatGirlJewel 2 years ago
i was
sisalo 2 years ago
i was,too
askannie2000 2 years ago
I was. Several times.
veevee305 2 years ago 3
I Was.
debie01 2 years ago
I Was.
debie01 2 years ago
I was.
KellyRowanFan 2 years ago 2
I WAS
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I was
Stellar195 2 years ago
i was
ComplicatedSurvior 2 years ago 3
i was.
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I was.
FireThought 2 years ago 2
i was.
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I was.
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I was
kallistra 2 years ago 2
wow this video gave me chills and made me tear up. Amazing.
lovedre 2 years ago 3
I was
yamagoof 2 years ago 2
God bless them all! Please! Please.
carissadm31 2 years ago 2
someone i love more than my own life was. she couldn't go to the police, but she survived it. i hope the perps rot in hell and on earth.
carissadm31 2 years ago 2
I was...
bear908 2 years ago 2
i was...but now im not a victim anymore...im a survivor! i needed that pain to get to where i am now... :-)
ristophy 2 years ago 3
wonderful said..i was,but im not a victim anymore
same here
PinkWerewolf1 2 years ago 2
if you are raped or sexually assaulted, please report it to the cops. even if it never goes to court, it will be on their record if they are ever charged again. and it will make them think twice.
leiapeison 2 years ago
It's easier said than done when a cop does it.
darlingdino 2 years ago
I was
questadurron 2 years ago 3
i was
BiancaJayde93 2 years ago 3
i was
piperleoeternally 2 years ago
So effective! I was also. Thanks for reminding the world that we carry the scars forever. And to the guys who do it and lie about it, there is always someone who knows.
InabaML 2 years ago
I wasnt raped, but something. who would believe me anyways? silence.
KimIsMissing 2 years ago
@KimIsMissing
I would.
and I was.
Britzilla91 2 years ago
This is such a powerful commercial. It breaks my heart to see the sadness in those women's eyes.
This has to be one of the most effective things I've ever seen in my life.
toadster749 2 years ago 3
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I just found out that one of the bastards that raped my wife was recently convicted on no less than 5 counts of rape. God I hope that bastard rots.
My wife has 2 sessions of counciling and will talk about it now, she's finally realised she is not alone. Rape effects us men too indirectly, I don't think anyone could understand how shattered I was when I found out my wife was a victim.
I am often ashamed to be a man knowing there are bastards in this world that prey on women such as yourselves
mozzmann 3 years ago 2
I was..
kaimone16 3 years ago 2
i was
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I was
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KarlSalameh 3 years ago
Almost 30 Years ago when she was still an innocent virgin my now wife was pack raped by no less than 4 men who'm I knew at a party where they stood around and laughed at her responses and in experience. It haunts her terribly to this day and any time she feels aroused it brings back horrid memories of that night.
NEVER stay silent PLEASE talk to someone it WILL help.
mozzmann 3 years ago 24
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mozzmann 3 years ago
I Was
mandyleeccne 3 years ago 3
This is the most powerful rape awareness ad I have ever seen.... it made me sad, yet feel like it's more of a problem than people know...
KimIsMissing 3 years ago 7
i really was
bananagirl2010 3 years ago 3
I was
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i was
askannie2000 3 years ago 5
I was.
AngeDeMusique 3 years ago 3
i was...
DRArtist88 3 years ago 3
I was.
lettakatherine 3 years ago 2
i was.
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I was
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I was.
purebloodjiselle 3 years ago 3
I was
johnnecron 3 years ago 2
i was.
luveyduvey965 3 years ago 2
I was.
sweetsolitude99 3 years ago 2
exactly a year ago from today... i was
nylotus 3 years ago 4
I WAS.
kirbiewuzzat 4 years ago 2
I was.
GlitterGirl6 4 years ago
I was.
stephiestephiebaby 4 years ago
i was.
DiAmOnDz21 4 years ago 2
I was
DorieEmma 4 years ago 3
I was.
AngeDeMusique 4 years ago 2
I was.
7survivor 4 years ago 4
I was, I am a male human being.
peaceonearth777 4 years ago 21
@peaceonearth777
I was. I was just a boy. Now I'm a stronger man and a better person. but still, I was.
commodorefan2 4 months ago
I was
neakblue 4 years ago 3
that was so sad. it's horrible how people go through all this and are scared to tell someone
messinwithit 4 years ago 8
I was but silent NO MORE ! ~fania simon
1yesayah 4 years ago 5
I was.
kristenvogt24 4 years ago 5
i was.
MsBuddhaFly 4 years ago 6
i feel like this victimizes survivors a tad bit
pamBBB 4 years ago
No. When we state that we are survivors of sexual violence it is empowering because silence is what keeps us victimized.
MsBuddhaFly 4 years ago 11
this is true
neakblue 4 years ago 4
Yes. Silence is always the best friend of injustice.
You are 100% right.
afansi 3 years ago 2
Every 2 and a half minutes? Wow... More women got raped than the rape/sexual assault prevention videos I've watched i the past hour? sad.
slimjohnny 5 years ago 7
great video and its so true
PeacefulKrasimir 5 years ago 4
Gee...how disturbing.
whizkidforte 5 years ago
thats not disturbing, its true!
sunnydame21 5 years ago 4
This is sad but true. I hope something is done to turn this statistic around.
thevirginbec 5 years ago 5
This video is awesome! 1 in 6 women was a victim of sexual assault and this shows how true that statistic really is. everyone is affected.
gethapi79 5 years ago 8