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  • she really song this song! and she looks great!

  • this is one of her best story line vides everrr in my opinion

  • i love this song it shows what is going on these days now and it's inspiring to any women who are getting abused by their punk boyfirend/husband.

  • when you put yourself on Ashanti's shoes in the video... it's mind explosive when it comes to dealing with women abuse... time does heal, but like the video, the pain is real

  • Love this song reminds me of someone suituation.

  • love this video... the feeling it too familar

  • Where the FK has Ashanti been at =(

  • thus video is deep as hell mann....make you think..

  • wow this vid feels familar,makes me hate the guy so much grr

  • lyrics hit it on the spot.

  • omg i just love ashanti's songs

  • i feel like this in my relationshit ug its so hard

  • Wow, this video is deep! A lot of Ashanti's videos make you think. I've been a fan of hers from the beginning, but it's been a while since I watched this video. Larenz Tate is an amazing actor. Love Jones is one of my all time favorite movies.

  • This is such a great video, well done Ashanti. This was very much underplayed when it was released

  • does anyone know what they said to eachother at the end?

  • "It's over."

  • love this song so goddamn much she took the words right outta my mouth

  • wow...... ♥

  • Too bad her new songs aren't as up there as this! I think she should sign on to another label or something, def not being recognized same as jarule, no hits! These 2 were my fave in highschool!

  • shoot the beginning makes me kinda nervous...

  • she had some great songs

  • ManNI fFEeL yHu bU sOmEtYmEs yHu GotTa LoOk OuT 4 YHuR sElF...................

  • powerful video for ppl who went through the same... shouldve kicked him out in the video

  • omg i used to love this song just saw it on mtv n had the impuls to watch it again lol

    aww, great vid ^.^

  • i know how shes feeling this song helps me get through a lot i just hope i can have the courage to leave some day i know some of ma gurls knw what i mean

  • Rain on me.

    Lord, wont you take this pain from me?

  • I'm so tired of people making fun of ashanti bc she has unwanted hair! Welcome to the celebrity world, filled with haters and everything. I don't know what celebrity doesn't have "gossip".

  • and i gotta say Lorenze Tate played the hell outa that role in this video....man he was realistic as hell.....good ass actor

  • He's very good at these kind of roles!! :)

  • i got chills watchin this..some real shit

  • yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees

  • this song should have definitely gotten a grammy.

  • no doubt about that....this song is intense and im a guy lol

  • yea this song never played on the radio and i think if it did alot more people would jave knew that she had another good song lol

  • mannn, i miss 2003 D'''':

  • i no me s brings back good memories and songs lol

  • damn...I love that song

    and the sample: Isaac Hayes` "Look Of Love" OoooOOo...

  • I just love dhis sonq...women qo throuqh this everyday...and i qlad Ashanti made dhis sonq for the women dhats qoinq thru dhis...Good messaqe.

  • @ Emo

    keep ur head up sweetie. its not gonna be bad like that forever! i dont know u but i feel so bad for you! I wish you the best of luck in the future!

  • Ilove her

  • i agree u cant love sum1 who hits u its not rite 4get da love an concentrate on ur life

  • girl y would you let a man hit you. you crazy as hell. why would you love some one who dont love you?

  • she has the same voice when she be talking just lyk christina millian sometimes..lol..i just realized dat

  • fuck u youtube bitches. u aint shit..bout u a strong woman. fuck outta here

  • This video is good but confusing he said you dont spend time with me but he left her alone at the awards I think he just couldnt handle that she was a strong woman and didnt need him

  • i dont know what to do :"(

    im in love with my boyfriend, like seriously, i love him with all my heart, with everything i got....

    but he doesnt treat me the best, he cheats on me and he hits me, but i dont say nothing cuz i love him.... I wish it would just rain on me :"(

  • we will pray for you......and him. u speaking here is a start.

  • girl I was in your shoes and that isnt love. I know your not going to leave until some dramatic happens and you had enough but when it does and you move on your going to look back like why did i let myself get abused by that clown cause thats what he is . good luck and get out why you still can

  • hell yes!!!!!!!!!!

  • You can still love,and leave him too. You don't deserve to get hit and cheated on too. Find someone who loves and who will treats you like a queen:)

  • he dont love you, so why should you love him. beat his fucking ass. i couldn't get hit. let me at him. men that hit women are punks.

  • And women that hit men are hypocrites?

  • But what if the women hit the first tho!!

  • this song reminds me of a relationship that i was in an i use to play it all the time girls we are to beautiful for putting up with the bull shit that these man put us through its about to be 2010 keep our heads up high and look good for ourselves

  • i feel u shawty but it aint always us niggas it be yall blamin us 4 sum bull dat we dnt do yall gotta undastand a nigga jus like 2 chill wit his potnas sometimes and not be under yall all the time we all need space male n females

  • I really like her song the way that I love you but it has too much bass or something I wish she or someone else would redo it

  • perfect video; SHE COME HARD WITH VIDEOS

  • That shit by the window was hot...

  • yo juss hush 4 uh min, all it meant was dat yall women kno how 2 get 0n pplz nurves 2 the point where ya'll say madd disrespectful shyt outta ya'll mouths so datz how i meant it, nd n0 i'm not slow, but itz crystal cl3ar h0w slow u r sweety, nah but i aint 2 argue, th0.. aim FLOW, FREAKLICOUS/ only if u wanna learn sumthin new..... lmf@0

  • just watch the extended version and you will kno why he was hitting her......and it wasn't her fault

  • dis nigga on here gon get stuck!!Im nno playin!lol jk

  • no dats Isaac Hayes beat jayz stole it from him

  • No its not on jay z can i live its slow mo in the beginning but the rest of the song is a different beat so its only the same beat in the beginning of jay z can i live...........smart

  • Dis video was the perfect fit 4 diz s0ng.

    ii l0ve ashanti....

    haha she slapped tha shyt outta his s0rry ass.

  • hell naww... he cheated on her.. i would have whooped her and his ass!

  • same beat as jay z can i live

  • shettt mann that mann looks kinda like trey songzzz!! o.O

    or am i trpiin'

  • all aside tho im tight dat niggaz really think dey kould take the pain away by having make up sex trust me it aint alwaii gonna work i've tried honestly it worked like abt 14 times then shorty startd 2 realize shyt s0 it kinda faded sumhow

  • listen i under stand dat most women dont deserve 2 b3 abused but majority of yall juss b3 askkin 2 4 an ass whoopen. so if couples knew h0w 2 agree 2 disagree without physical abuse den shyt would be a lot easier. but lifes not dat simple. so bytch keep ya mouth shut or juss ur words and actions wisely nd i wnt have 2 wrry abt puttin my hands on u

  • @Dennizred "but majority of yall juss b3 askkin 2 4 an ass whoopen" fuk is yuh tlkin bout !! Dennizred no women asked to get hit !!!! damn are yuh slow !

  • ....i hate to say it...bt tht was exactly me...he told me all the same stuff...:(

  • poor thing  ; (( i know what you feel

  • hey girl me 2...

  • i luv dhis s0ng, vide0, pers0n!!!

    ugh dhats 0ne reas0n y i luv ashanti...cuz she makes dhese gud asz vide0s. make yuh get in tew dem like its a mini clip 0r sumthing...l0l

  • any man who treats a women like that deserves to be smacked around by someone 5 times there size and they can see how they like it all them niggaz are is a bunch of pussys

  • I know that's how you know Tate is a good actor, he makes you believe he do that in real life like you wanna go find him and beat him up lol

  • no woman deserves dis !!!

  • Ike Turner

  • oh my god..

  • not rlly if she doing the wrong things all the time oh well =\

  • so u telling me that if a girl is doin something rong she deserve to get beat up by her man i realli want to kno wat u thinking

  • what type of man would beat woman u only gots 2 b a pussy

  • Ashanti's so beautiful, i love most her songs but she's a very underrated artist - even though she's talented her songs are not well advertised/marketed/promoted infact this video clip is far better than any rhianna vid clip combined bt not as popular.. o well mary j blige, aaliyah, beyonce and ashanti still all the best in r&b

  • dayumm ; he fxkdd dupp ; cuss i'wouLdvee beat hiss ass ! loL

  • hmm ...can anyone telL me ...

    what does she say on 5:30 ?

  • She says "It's Over"

  • SHE SAID IT'S OVER

  • lol dont loud talk ....stop loud talking !!! lmaaaaaaaao .

  • love this song, so sad, makes me think of a guy who treated me bad, but kept going back to him

  • how bout this keep ur hands to urself

  • I Mustve Missed The Bit Where He Hit Her Coz All I saw Was Him Bear Hug Her, Nothing Wrong With A bit Of Bear Hugging is There??????

  • lol

  • Damnn she showed himm whos boss :)

  • you can show me too

  • larenz tate is hott! bad guy and all. Great video!

  • Sorry if this sounds bad but i think it sexiest when everyone freeks out when a guy hits a girl :s ? .. but a girl can it a guy ^o) hmm i fought with boys before xD ? .. i think if a girl or anyone of any sex think there big enough to take someone on for whatever resson then thats them

    but i dont think its right too hit anyone for no resson and that if you get what i meen :s ?

  • i think when a somebody hit somebody like a men, then somebody can put in like a men!

  • -dhiz iz mii sonq

  • yes domestic violence is not okay but what if your both mazd and the girl is hitting him over and over and it sets off his temper? what if he didnt mean to and what if she was hurting HIM?? everyone has a right to defend themselves

  • I hear what u sayin, but you may want to look up the definition of defense is. Bcuz a 120 pound soakin wet 5'6 woman trippin and hittin her 6'0 cocky cheatin man on his chest and him punching her in her mouth and throwing her itno a wall is not defending his self. Its called over reaction. If he called the cops or even pookie from up the street she would have gotten her an equal consequence, but him putting his hands on her like that over shadows any baby hits she threw at him. If he was in

  • true..

  • such a dire need for "defense" he'd call the cops. If he was screwing bitches in my bed, he'd need some defending. He'd have to do more than kick in a bathroom door. Bu thats juss my opinion

  • What about me trying to hold her back

  • man i love lorenze tate such a cutie

  • No the two women in this video Ashanti and the model. Look very different from each other. I also think that when the guy is smoking the cigar. He kind of looks like Nas.

  • i love this yum yum yum!!!!

  • Domestic Violence is very common! It even happened with young multimillionaire superstars in the industry earlier this year! Ladies, don't stand for it! If a man hits you, pack your stuff and leave!

  • It is not like it's only men that abuse, women abuse men. Maybe not as much (as men) but it still happens.

  • That's true...I've abused my man a few times.. ugh :(

  • i love this music video.!

  • is she playin both female parts in the vid.??

  • no...well at least i dont think so....it doesnt seem like it

  • look at the girl when she's getting off his lap.. she looks JUST like ashanti

  • Did I hear Jay-Z's Can I Live?

    From Reasonable Doubt?

  • yes, they both sample the isaac hayes class "the look of love"

  • wow that video made me so angry, poor ashanti haha

  • yeahhh!! yo ass just got dumped!! playin shanti like that...

  • HE FINE!!!

  • n hiz movies he alwayz tried 2 act Hard but guess jux got DUMPED..LMFA0!

  • the best video from her till date.....

  • stop loud talking stop loud talking lol

  • i wuzs abt in da 3rd grade when dis song came out...n i remember i had just got off da bus n it wusz rainin n i had started singn disz song!lol.....bt she did disz song doe!

  • goin out looney like o-dogg

  • beautiful song i love her

  • wot man is he is mad

  • Yo.....really an Truly. Anyhow I Ever Seen Ashanti walking, I'd Hail her up, Chop her buck up wit her, drop a SEED an Wife It UP! STR8 Goods Yo! 1 TIme! An I'ma Toronto Nigga in Canada.

  • yeah it is pretty hot i agree

  • i know its bad but that shit is hot i like when the man takes control

  • dat man wouldve hitt me like dat u wouldve saw me on america's most wanted and him inda' ground ycause he wou;dve been dead i wouldve went 2 da' funarel 2 den gett madd juz lokin @ hiZ face an stomp him down 6 mre ft. im worser den madea trust me

  • my favorite video , i love ashanti she knows about that heartbreak .

  • dis iz 4 mi babii dad........ dnt lyke him nd cnt stand him kuz hez abusive nd datz y i got up nd got tha hell up outa dat relationship. men r stronger den women so dey shuldnt put dey handz on us kuz it ain kool

  • yes, these people have a point of being treated equally.

    but i still think that women should be treated with respect, because men are stronger then women, and can hurt them much more. so you should be treated with respect, but then again. women have to treat guys with respect too.

  • omg gosh do yall know how cryin she probably did

  • ashanti is veryy talented i miss her!

    she needs to make some more music.love

    the video and song

  • sometimes men accuse and beat they women of doin stuff and cheating when it really be them doin the cheatin.

  • good song.. idk why women let them abuse them.. women are suippose to be treated as queens

  • you're right

    everyone should be treated equal

    however

    because women are so oppressed

    treating them like queens is the only way to equalize the difference.

  • Your comment is Probably the Most Intellegent thing I' ve ever seen any1 write on U Tube.

  • haha

    thank you.

    but can't take all the credit...

    Roseanne Barr kind of said it first :]

  • i know it doesnt matter i was just stating due to the video. men and women are both abused . i dont think its right but if theres a reason to it then i guess let it be

  • she REALLY outdid herself on this one.

  • Love this song... its one of my favorites shes done...

  • one of her best songs

  • ashanti did it on this one

  • LOVE this sobg brings back memories

  • DAMN ASHANTI DI IT IN THIS ONE !!!

  • I like this video it really relates 2 all the cheaters out der.. and its gd Ashanti left da guy in the video. Big video i remember this!!

  • This video is the top shit. Even though she hasnt came out with anything in a while. SHe is still meh 4th top R&b singer! [: ADonis A ganGstA :]

  • I luv thiz song......

  • you are probably thinkin of aaliyah! she died in 2001 in a plane crash!

  • shat lav jashak unes xosk chka dranum

  • only thing i can say is that guys r..........BIG TIME FUCKING ASSHOLES!!

  • who said she dead???

  • ashanti aint dead

  • for yu ashanti fans she is not dead..she is in la recordin her next album..as of october 26th she was one of yahoo's top searched musicians..she is no longer linked with irv gotti or murder inc..and 2010 she will return with "original" music..and will hopefully bring rnb back!!

  • well that sucks, most of her best material is from her Murder Inc days.

  • i have heard it before...i hope it isnt true he is fine lol

  • That......has got to be a lie!

    as a matter a fact a girl said to me that the guy who plays Uncle PhiL from fresh prince!, AND JAHEIM are gay 2!

    How many Niggas are really in the closet?!?!?!?!?!

  • FYI she didnt die

  • HUH? RIP ?

  • There are rumors going on the streets she died in roller coaster accident.

  • well that rumor is not true ASHANTI is alive. if she died then it would of been ALL over the news

  • Stop Beliving the gossip

  • a rumor she died in a roller coaster accident? lol wtf

    thats worst than the time when people said Nelly shot and killed Chingy.

  • thats true ?stop send this kind of comments if is not true

  • proof or it didnt happen

  • I have not heard this. Produce the headline or stop repeating rumour.

  • Wow. nive vid and the song is nice to. lol