About fetishes, I see all kinds of usually masochistic oriented stuff. Like piss, shit, stink, hermaphrodite fetishes are popular ones I see. oh yeah and the debu fetish >x>
Lol I should prooobably keep this to myself but. I will say there are quite a few japanese women with sizes beyond D. well beyond. of course in japanese porn!(not illustrated real, to be specific usually found in debusen or gaimen kijou porn. heheheh ^x^)
About the breasts, how can I say this, umm there are plenty of C size breasts.In a survey the average size was B, not A, which yeah a bit surprising. So if the average size is B that means there are equal numbers of A and C, hence the average
I have to say I absolutely love your videos, I am a black women who wants to go to Japan and I find your vids always so enlightening whether they be about embracing my inner beauty or telling me about your experiences in Japan. I absolutely love what you are doing and hope you keep it up :D
Do Japanese people have a problem with black women because i live in the New York area and i rarely see them talking to black women. At least the people who where born in japan????
YES! about the work thing...the art of looking busy...because you're "expected" to stay late at work...grrrr! had some frustration with this one today....
Talk about bra sizes...I could not find a pair of shoes to save my life. I wear an 8-81/2 and the largest size women shoe was about a size 5 in US measurements. I had to shop on base or online for most of my items. Especially jeans....
When it comes down to the size of a persons body part , it is dependent on a persons preference . Size to me doesn't matter as long as that body part does what it is suppose to do . Penises are used for pleasure and making babies , not saving the world from an evil alien race , so why does it matter really?
Do we really want to bring political correctness into the bedroom? Have we gotten so bad that we can't even have sex without thinking that we might insult someone? So much for talking dirty *sigh*.
During the Empire Era of Japan (ended after WW2) Women were not people. They were property to be treated as men pleased. While the Japanese Constitution guaranteed equal rights for women this was not followed until the 60's. Even today many people who see themselves as "Tradionalists" or in more extreme cases "Pure" Japense have much distaste for the equivalent treatment of men and women.
Domestic Violence was the number one source of crime until 2001 due to harsher sentencing on domestic abusers. However it is still rampant.
As stereotypes go many of them stick because they are based on uncomfortable truth. And like all stereotypes we will be long dead before it disappears.
funny how there's so much important stereotypes that have been mentioned here that should be paid attention to and learn from and yet the biggest topic that's been focused on is the size of a particular race's penis..interesting:)
Exactly!That's because dudes want to compete with each other. But some dudes aree hung and can't screw while u have some dudes that are small and they know what to do.
@killakimchi Nah, we can't rely on porn from ANY country as a reliable indicator of racial penis size. Porn is a business, and more specifically an entertainment business that hires employees based on whatever image/talent requirements the business is currently looking for. Therefore, porn actors cannot be taken as a representative sample of the general population.
@killakimchi In addition to what I was saying about specific job requirements, Japanese and American porn are different industries with different histories. The image of men sought by American porn has been almost totally opposite from that sought by Japanese porn for many years. So the frequently out-of-shape-looking and small-sized men hired in Japanese porn don't represent real Asian men any more than the monstrous-sized black men in American porn represent real black men.
@dissolutedog@dissolutedog lol..."monstrous-sized"....haha...that's all relative...i'd consider it normal size...but anyway so what you're saying is that the japanese porn industry has a different image than in America...so they're looking for "out-of-shape-looking and small-sized men" to hire?...that's hard to believe...but then again i could be wrong...and its just a cultural difference...and if you googled japanese porn a large percentage of the guys you'd fine are "small-sized"
@killakimchi I agree that there are some normal-size black men in porn who make "general"-theme videos. However, I'm talking about the race- and big size-genre porn that American black men are most known for. And the particular black performers hired for that very popular "niche" are nowhere near average size. Not even people in the porn industry would claim those guys are "normal size."
@killakimchi And yep, the Japanese industry SELECTS those male performers that they use. The American and Japanese porn industries feature some really weird fetish themes. Analogous to how American porn often places penis size higher in regard than hiring a guy who has a handsome face or a lean body, Japanese porn often uses the "mediocre-guy-with-pretty-girl" theme in its videos.
@killakimchi Another thing is that with the increasing influence of all things Western to other parts of the world, the Japanese porn industry is gradually becoming more similar to American porn now. You can see this in the way that the videos are shot, the way that the actors trim themselves, and yes, in the regard that some of the younger/newer Japanese male performers are comparable to their American counterparts.
So~ Do they have a big problem with child porn in Japan? [Surely it's illegal?] Or do they just dress grown women up as little girls? That's a big difference...
that's really true. unbelievable. then again in this country(US) the age of consent is much older. yet some people have started even younger than that, disheartning.
are oow births and stds as troubling over in Japan, as it's pretty much run rampart over here.
One thing I find disturbing in Japanese culture/Asian culture is the high rate suicide. I wonder if the strong belief in reincarnation contributes to it. It you fail or think you are a failure and can't bring honor to you family some encourage you to kill yourself. Very little life is a marathon not a sprint type of mentality, or pick yourself and dust yourself of and try again. With everything tied into family, work, school it seems like if you disappoint anyone everyone is responsible for you.
The breast thing bothered me in Japan... I have very large breast. Even though Japanese tend to be shy and modest... no one seemed to be when it came to my breast. Women were always telling me I had a sexy body or even wanted to touch them in public O_o... Men would stare pretty hard, some were afraid of me because of it. Once a older guy ran into a huge pole in mall while he was staring. Kids would even point out the boobies... especially at the onsen. You're also right about the bra issue.
Of course all black people don't know how to dance and sing, my father and sister are perfect examples God bless hm they try. lol
Size might be genetic but I think it has a lot to do with diet, we in the US has so much hormones pumping into our meat and poultry. Plus our diet has a lot of protein and fat compared to the Asian diet I bet that whose of Japanese background brought up in America don't have the breast issue. Size is relative if you don't know what to do with it it's a non issue.lol.
=/ I'm confused, you mention that breasts in japan are smaller because it's genetic. Yet for male genitalia you don't say whether they are smaller or not because you think its a stereotype? It's genetic! I'm just confused on why you were willing to talk about one and not the other since I consider them both to be in the same vein on this topic.
very true. The difference is that its a VISIBLE fact that the breast thing is true. I hear the small penis asian man thing from other men, not women who have slept with them. Then with that I wouldnt exactly listen to a girl who has only slept with one or two asian guys then made a judgment about all of them either. lol I can see how you would be confused so no worries
I think the issue is that either there haven't been enough studies on race/genital size relations or they aren't reputable enough. I've seen studies for both sides and neither ever seem reliable enough to quote. Once we get the facts straight I suppose then we could have a conversation, but it is of my opinion that based on genetics, genitalia will differ slightly among races. And for me, I hear the penis thing from both genders, maybe being gay is why. I don't see why I got the thumbs down lol
I agree with your point that asian penis size could easily be genetic, but, of course, it's not something that is easily observed on a large scale. It's much easier for Alafia to encourage people to simply not stereotype about the body part rather than argue a point that she would have little to no data to support...
Well for one, I'm sure that Japanese men don't walk around with their business hanging out so there's no difinitive way to determine the penus size of most Japanese men. Bust size is much more clearly visible, all Alafia had to do was walk into the underwear section of a store and look around at other women while she's going about her day to notice that most Japanese women are not that busty.
I agree with you that bust size is must more easy to determine. However I think there are ways to figure it out if one guys thing is smaller than someone else's simply by comparative measure. It doesn't have to be two straight guys comparing (that probably doesn't happen) but from several sexual encounters with members of different races or gay guys... kind of just will notice during sex by comparison.
(cont'd) I personally think that penis size correlates to the size of the man overall. This could explain why asian men are stereotyped to be smaller down there and black men bigger, since asian men tend to have smaller bodies overall and black men bigger bodies.
Truth be told...There's some big guys with small penises and some small guys with big penises.
But there are some dudes that are hung and don't know how to do shit with their penis while u have some man that are small and they know what to do with it.
About fetishes, I see all kinds of usually masochistic oriented stuff. Like piss, shit, stink, hermaphrodite fetishes are popular ones I see. oh yeah and the debu fetish >x>
charcharyin 4 months ago
Lol I should prooobably keep this to myself but. I will say there are quite a few japanese women with sizes beyond D. well beyond. of course in japanese porn!(not illustrated real, to be specific usually found in debusen or gaimen kijou porn. heheheh ^x^)
charcharyin 4 months ago
What a random ending!
IWantMyVisionBack 5 months ago
glad you tried to clear things up ;-)
TheUnprofitable1 9 months ago
Well ur bigger than a C so...
blackknight11111 1 year ago
About the breasts, how can I say this, umm there are plenty of C size breasts.In a survey the average size was B, not A, which yeah a bit surprising. So if the average size is B that means there are equal numbers of A and C, hence the average
wingwaabuddha 1 year ago
I have to say I absolutely love your videos, I am a black women who wants to go to Japan and I find your vids always so enlightening whether they be about embracing my inner beauty or telling me about your experiences in Japan. I absolutely love what you are doing and hope you keep it up :D
Cutiepiekyo 1 year ago
LMFAO "they always commit suicide whenever they fail"
oishitomoro 1 year ago
@oishitomoro that sterotype originates from a japanese story from the 1600's
Xxibanez619Xx 2 months ago
uhh... isn't it generally common for guys to like big breasts anyways?
lightlessstars 1 year ago
I must touch on that bra subject(that sounded creepy) one word Fuko.
AnbusKi 1 year ago
You drive in Japan? Do you rent a car or did you buy one and how hard is it to get one?
mariafolife 1 year ago
i heard that people in Japan don't like Christians or try to kill them, it that true? oh and why did you move to Japan?
RaesAnimes 1 year ago
once i heard that in Japan and in china that they kill any Christian that they find, is that true?
RaesAnimes 1 year ago
about the "not being able to find a bra thing"
I was wondering about the size system there. Because in magazines it shows girls who have size F cup!?
dizziemd 1 year ago
If I remeber correctly an f cup in japan is like a B lol they have converters online so dont quote me on that
intro2the1 1 year ago
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lol ohhhh.
and I love your videos!
dizziemd 1 year ago
Do Japanese people have a problem with black women because i live in the New York area and i rarely see them talking to black women. At least the people who where born in japan????
yobiworld 2 years ago
I have some Japanese friends, they're very nice to me. I live in Florida.
kaikauruwashii 1 year ago
LOL i saw this on an Episode of King of the Hill where you have to ask lots of people questions just to get one answer.
yobiworld 2 years ago
the V......it will stick with you for life....I visited japan for less than a month...came back......and it was embedded in my brain.
bellchap 2 years ago 2
haha i know what you mean. i was only there for a couple WEEKS and it hasn't gone away.
candidomoattack 1 year ago
what about the stereotype that japanese people are the most racist around
zairekrieger 2 years ago
that milk thing is creepy.if a dude i dont even know would do that to me i would slap him
punca 2 years ago
YES! about the work thing...the art of looking busy...because you're "expected" to stay late at work...grrrr! had some frustration with this one today....
annajapana 2 years ago
Im so glad the skirts aren't that short! :D
Paulismyhero777 2 years ago
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japanese horny im i right ?
FIGHTFANNERD3 2 years ago
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V for vagina
DrCockStar 2 years ago
Talk about bra sizes...I could not find a pair of shoes to save my life. I wear an 8-81/2 and the largest size women shoe was about a size 5 in US measurements. I had to shop on base or online for most of my items. Especially jeans....
oneblkwoman 2 years ago
When it comes down to the size of a persons body part , it is dependent on a persons preference . Size to me doesn't matter as long as that body part does what it is suppose to do . Penises are used for pleasure and making babies , not saving the world from an evil alien race , so why does it matter really?
kenyasquest 2 years ago 23
HE HE HE , funny comment. And a wang shall save us all. LOL
rawman18 2 years ago 4
@kenyasquest you have no idea how much I loled at this comment! XD
deztructicus 1 year ago
WOW this is my first time seeing your video and I must say this is very good. Look forward to seeing the rest.
milanimonroe 2 years ago 2
omg i just about died when you did the grabby hands and milk thing! you hardly ever make faces like that in your vids lol
mercatorblue 2 years ago 15
my head would be all messed up if i saw someone jump in front of a train
BlackDreadBoy 2 years ago
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Suicide Stereotype comes from Seppuku
Hope that helps show you where some of the stereotypes come from
nerdycub 2 years ago
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On sex stereotypes.
Wait waht?
Do we really want to bring political correctness into the bedroom? Have we gotten so bad that we can't even have sex without thinking that we might insult someone? So much for talking dirty *sigh*.
nerdycub 2 years ago
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During the Empire Era of Japan (ended after WW2) Women were not people. They were property to be treated as men pleased. While the Japanese Constitution guaranteed equal rights for women this was not followed until the 60's. Even today many people who see themselves as "Tradionalists" or in more extreme cases "Pure" Japense have much distaste for the equivalent treatment of men and women.
nerdycub 2 years ago
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Domestic Violence was the number one source of crime until 2001 due to harsher sentencing on domestic abusers. However it is still rampant.
As stereotypes go many of them stick because they are based on uncomfortable truth. And like all stereotypes we will be long dead before it disappears.
nerdycub 2 years ago
I'm sorry....but I hysterically laughed at the kid that jumped out the window because he lost the game of simon says....awe man.... =/
Iheartnihon 2 years ago 3
funny how there's so much important stereotypes that have been mentioned here that should be paid attention to and learn from and yet the biggest topic that's been focused on is the size of a particular race's penis..interesting:)
tweety0bird8 2 years ago 6
Haha I know I noticed that too. It wasnt even mentioned in the video. Shows that some people will still stick to stereotypes regardless.
shany9988 2 years ago
sad isnt it?:P but c'est la vie
tweety0bird8 2 years ago 2
There is an ounce of truth in stereotypes.
peezhead 2 years ago
I never fully understood why a man would put so much time and concern into the size of another man's Penis. . . . Good call on skipping it.
VTEC313 2 years ago 7
@VTEC313
Exactly!That's because dudes want to compete with each other. But some dudes aree hung and can't screw while u have some dudes that are small and they know what to do.
peezhead 2 years ago 5
Can you post a link to your blog?
Great video by the way, I really liked it.
(5 stars)
KaliRawks 2 years ago
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I think if some people are into Japanese porn I think they could get a good grasp of penis size in Japan.
killakimchi 2 years ago
you know i never thought about that! but i figure size doesnt matter anyway if you dont kno what your doing lol.....TMI sorry
intro2the1 2 years ago
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@killakimchi Nah, we can't rely on porn from ANY country as a reliable indicator of racial penis size. Porn is a business, and more specifically an entertainment business that hires employees based on whatever image/talent requirements the business is currently looking for. Therefore, porn actors cannot be taken as a representative sample of the general population.
dissolutedog 1 year ago
@killakimchi In addition to what I was saying about specific job requirements, Japanese and American porn are different industries with different histories. The image of men sought by American porn has been almost totally opposite from that sought by Japanese porn for many years. So the frequently out-of-shape-looking and small-sized men hired in Japanese porn don't represent real Asian men any more than the monstrous-sized black men in American porn represent real black men.
dissolutedog 1 year ago
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killakimchi 1 year ago
@dissolutedog @dissolutedog lol..."monstrous-sized"....haha...that's all relative...i'd consider it normal size...but anyway so what you're saying is that the japanese porn industry has a different image than in America...so they're looking for "out-of-shape-looking and small-sized men" to hire?...that's hard to believe...but then again i could be wrong...and its just a cultural difference...and if you googled japanese porn a large percentage of the guys you'd fine are "small-sized"
killakimchi 1 year ago
@killakimchi but then again...thats all relative too...because the "average male penis" is 5-6 inches
killakimchi 1 year ago
@killakimchi I agree that there are some normal-size black men in porn who make "general"-theme videos. However, I'm talking about the race- and big size-genre porn that American black men are most known for. And the particular black performers hired for that very popular "niche" are nowhere near average size. Not even people in the porn industry would claim those guys are "normal size."
dissolutedog 1 year ago
@killakimchi And yep, the Japanese industry SELECTS those male performers that they use. The American and Japanese porn industries feature some really weird fetish themes. Analogous to how American porn often places penis size higher in regard than hiring a guy who has a handsome face or a lean body, Japanese porn often uses the "mediocre-guy-with-pretty-girl" theme in its videos.
dissolutedog 1 year ago
@killakimchi Another thing is that with the increasing influence of all things Western to other parts of the world, the Japanese porn industry is gradually becoming more similar to American porn now. You can see this in the way that the videos are shot, the way that the actors trim themselves, and yes, in the regard that some of the younger/newer Japanese male performers are comparable to their American counterparts.
dissolutedog 1 year ago
@intro2the1 lol
killakimchi 1 year ago
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dissolutedog 1 year ago
come to korea sometime ;)
aLexander4o8 2 years ago
It's not boring at all. Ten minutes isn't even that long :)
DirectlyHere 2 years ago 4
So~ Do they have a big problem with child porn in Japan? [Surely it's illegal?] Or do they just dress grown women up as little girls? That's a big difference...
visualxjinsei 2 years ago
the age of consent to have sex is in japan 13 thats way to young
sailorxxc 2 years ago 4
that's really true. unbelievable. then again in this country(US) the age of consent is much older. yet some people have started even younger than that, disheartning.
are oow births and stds as troubling over in Japan, as it's pretty much run rampart over here.
ayers01 2 years ago 3
I can concur on being a busty woman in Japan. Folks stare, some ask to feel you up and when they get drunk... watch out!
I quick slap away of the hand usually stop the offending behavior.
And by the way, you CAN find any bra size in Tokyo just be prepared to pay a pretty penny for it.
LittleDirtyfromDC 2 years ago 6
See thats where i just give up and buy them on ebay. I cannot imagine the pricetag on a bra my size
intro2the1 2 years ago
One thing I find disturbing in Japanese culture/Asian culture is the high rate suicide. I wonder if the strong belief in reincarnation contributes to it. It you fail or think you are a failure and can't bring honor to you family some encourage you to kill yourself. Very little life is a marathon not a sprint type of mentality, or pick yourself and dust yourself of and try again. With everything tied into family, work, school it seems like if you disappoint anyone everyone is responsible for you.
JamConcerned 2 years ago
The breast thing bothered me in Japan... I have very large breast. Even though Japanese tend to be shy and modest... no one seemed to be when it came to my breast. Women were always telling me I had a sexy body or even wanted to touch them in public O_o... Men would stare pretty hard, some were afraid of me because of it. Once a older guy ran into a huge pole in mall while he was staring. Kids would even point out the boobies... especially at the onsen. You're also right about the bra issue.
GnyseGirl 2 years ago
Of course all black people don't know how to dance and sing, my father and sister are perfect examples God bless hm they try. lol
Size might be genetic but I think it has a lot to do with diet, we in the US has so much hormones pumping into our meat and poultry. Plus our diet has a lot of protein and fat compared to the Asian diet I bet that whose of Japanese background brought up in America don't have the breast issue. Size is relative if you don't know what to do with it it's a non issue.lol.
JamConcerned 2 years ago 4
haha, now milk got a whole other meaning
yourstereotype 2 years ago
=/ I'm confused, you mention that breasts in japan are smaller because it's genetic. Yet for male genitalia you don't say whether they are smaller or not because you think its a stereotype? It's genetic! I'm just confused on why you were willing to talk about one and not the other since I consider them both to be in the same vein on this topic.
itsdaveyj 2 years ago
very true. The difference is that its a VISIBLE fact that the breast thing is true. I hear the small penis asian man thing from other men, not women who have slept with them. Then with that I wouldnt exactly listen to a girl who has only slept with one or two asian guys then made a judgment about all of them either. lol I can see how you would be confused so no worries
intro2the1 2 years ago
I think the issue is that either there haven't been enough studies on race/genital size relations or they aren't reputable enough. I've seen studies for both sides and neither ever seem reliable enough to quote. Once we get the facts straight I suppose then we could have a conversation, but it is of my opinion that based on genetics, genitalia will differ slightly among races. And for me, I hear the penis thing from both genders, maybe being gay is why. I don't see why I got the thumbs down lol
itsdaveyj 2 years ago
I agree with your point that asian penis size could easily be genetic, but, of course, it's not something that is easily observed on a large scale. It's much easier for Alafia to encourage people to simply not stereotype about the body part rather than argue a point that she would have little to no data to support...
Kilee33 2 years ago 3
Oh and another thing that came into my head. There probably aren't any studies because the whole issue really doesn't matter lmao
itsdaveyj 2 years ago
nice try lol
Gouki213 2 years ago
lol I wasn't "trying" anything. I just had a disagreement =)
itsdaveyj 2 years ago
Well for one, I'm sure that Japanese men don't walk around with their business hanging out so there's no difinitive way to determine the penus size of most Japanese men. Bust size is much more clearly visible, all Alafia had to do was walk into the underwear section of a store and look around at other women while she's going about her day to notice that most Japanese women are not that busty.
Hajalin 2 years ago
I agree with you that bust size is must more easy to determine. However I think there are ways to figure it out if one guys thing is smaller than someone else's simply by comparative measure. It doesn't have to be two straight guys comparing (that probably doesn't happen) but from several sexual encounters with members of different races or gay guys... kind of just will notice during sex by comparison.
itsdaveyj 2 years ago
(cont'd) I personally think that penis size correlates to the size of the man overall. This could explain why asian men are stereotyped to be smaller down there and black men bigger, since asian men tend to have smaller bodies overall and black men bigger bodies.
Kilee33 2 years ago
Truth be told...There's some big guys with small penises and some small guys with big penises.
But there are some dudes that are hung and don't know how to do shit with their penis while u have some man that are small and they know what to do with it.
peezhead 2 years ago 3
Yay, part 2!!
studyingjapanese 2 years ago
LMAO...that was soo funny...milk, milk!
eritreasunshine 2 years ago 7
That was a crazy, interesting, funny, quick 9min 37secs! lol
RoCoLaNe 2 years ago 5
"slurp slurp - MILK!" Ha ha ha. That's funny as hell.
JazzyZenBrotha 2 years ago 4