Black women need to step up too and stop blaming all black men for their fuck ups. Is it the nice guy's fault that you always have an attitude ? Is it the nice guy's fault that you are always in drama ? Is it the nice guy's fault that you always want to mess with the thug ? A lot of these black women need to take accountability for their own actions instead of pointing fingers.
WOMAN WHO ARE DEALING WITH YOUR SORRY BUTS .thats exactly what alot of brothas mean by adittude.her disrespect to us brothas wasnt cool. so what happens next then brothas start bringing up the black woman adittude thing.
@5:30 This sounds good in theory, but the reason that so many men are resistant to this mindset of mentoring other men's kids and the whole "it takes a village" philosophy is because the women that say it until it serves them. Life is hard enough as it is without dragging other people along. We all make out beds that we eventually sleep in.
Brothas these SCRONG black women dont seem to understand that there being setup to be lonely and desperate later in life. I have a degree, im a black male, so do other people, BW are the only ones shouting about their piece of paper and independency. Productibe Black men I know we still love our women but if you cant find one, date outside its not worth waiting for an eternity to find love SERIOUSLY.
I hate stupid bitches like this, yes I said bitch. I have been a productive black male all my life, (27yrs) went to college, make good income, self sufficient,no children etc. And dumb fuckers like this female make it bad for men like me society thinks we are all losers and are non productive. Imagine in the 1960s if MLK, was just fighting for mens right only would that have been fair, BLACK WOMEN ARE NO LONGER IN OUR CORNER. Eurocentric views have fucked, SCRONG black women up big time.
Ok all this talk about men steppin there game up, what about the "Black woman" y'all depend too much on a man to take care of y'all handle everything. Yea I agree that a man have to step up and handle somethings but a woman is suppose to be that backbone. And that's why a lot of black men date outside there race.
If black men havent been taught how to treat black women.. who taught black women how to treat black men? If both genders come from a broken home how can a single mother teach her daughter to make correct choices in men? This video needs to address both men and women.
lol my niggas always said i was lucky to have a white mother....and now i see why...damn lady why is it only black women complaining about black men. maybe YOU guys just don't know how to keep a man, thats why white women r talkin all the black dudes and everybody's lightskin lmaooo
You are right. Most of these men have no clue on how to treat a woman. The good ones are a very small minority. Just look at most of the comments on this video.
Hey, at least most of the guys are willing to tell the truth. Women lie about everything, and that's all there is to it. Your views are too biased, you're always trying to say what the men isn't doing right or not knowing like women are absolutely perfect and they know everything about a man. Nothing is gonna change, black people as a whole are too f'd up. Look at the environments. Gangs, drugs, violence and murder. It's never gonna get any better for black people thanks to history.
BW raise their daughters nowadays to be strong aggresive and independent but cant raise their son to be the same way? dont get me wrong, nothing can subsitute a positive male figure in rearing a child, but a good single parent can most definitely teach their child the qualities of a man/woman and if they cant, that reflects their inabilities as a person and parent.
I have a good black man, because thats what I chose. If you choose the hustler and the player then you take that risk. If you choose a man that is standing on the corner with his pants hanging off his ass, then you have yourself to blame.
This is bullshit you have no idea what you are talking about. STEP UP? ARE YOU SERIOUS? Why is it always our fault? Y'all know if a nigga ain't shit but y'all still fuck with em, so y'all step up, my dad left when i was 2 n i have NEVER been arrested, NEVER used drugs AT ALL , lady you are sad VERY SAD. WOW OMG, LADIES BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX WITH A MAN PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO, AT LEAST 3 MONTHS, I KNEW MY GIRL FOR A YR B4 WE BACAME SEXUALLY ACTIVE STOP BLAMIN' US FOR Y'ALL FUCK UPS
@TheFastFreddy Wow...lol, I detect a lot of bitterness. First, I am NOT attacking Black men, I am giving a lot of them who need it a reality check. Two, if you have watch any of my over 140 videos, you will see that I spend way more time fussing at the ladies and telling them to do better with their choices. You have a point, I do not dispute but what I am saying to the men still remains relevant even with great men like you out there who grew up with no father
@TheFastFreddy and still made better choices. Great for you but unfortunately this is not the story for a lot of guys so someone needs to shed light of where a mind shift needs to occur.
@lovein30days When my pops left he always called nd song and told me he love me nd sent me money. He lives on the otherside of the U.S. and we still stay in contact to this day and im now 25. My MOTHER made sure i know who my father is. Then i had my UNCLES who didn't play that thug shit (disipline me) then i got involved in music, boxing, wreastling and basketball (Mothers suggestion) my whole fam is proud of me and my MOM because SHE SHE STEPPED UP MY FAM STEPPED UP AND MY DAD ALSO
@lovein30days Ok so why do you say BLACK MEN as if white and other races of men don't need to step up, you should say MEN PERIOD, I know plenty of great brothas out here and i also know thug niggas to but it takes two to tangle. Y'all stop lusting, women lust just as hard as we do. Im not bitter at all it jus pisses me off when BLACK WOMEN talk like that. Y'all all have a choice, to deal with a sorry nigga or to deal with a guy that would keep it 100 with u and that meets your standards. DUH!!
@TheFastFreddy Well Freddy only hit dogs holler. If you are not one of the BLACK MEN I speak about then you should NOT be offended because you know I am not speaking to you. I am not addressing other races of men because the statistics are showing an overwhelming amount of BM dropping out of school, not being fathers to their children, in jail and so many other negative things that spill into relationships. I think your position is immature. If I am correcting my son ..
@TheFastFreddy and he looks over and says "but what about what my sister does?" I look at him and remind him that at THIS present moment, I am not speaking to anyone but him and that I am sharing a message that is for him to learn and get right now. If he is busy focusing on what I need to say to someone else, he will miss the lesson. As, I stated before, you can and will not say that Shay Your Date Diva is biased against men or unfairly attack Black Men when ...
@TheFastFreddy I have so many videos telling women to do better about the way they treat good men and how there are GREAT black men out there (I happened to be married to one). If the message doesnt apply to you then change the channel but there are men who it applies to and who need to hear what I am saying to them!
@lovein30days The problem is not BLACK MEN, who's raising these BLACK MEN? Ding ding ding BLACK WOMEN are raising these BLACK MEN. All i hear is stupid sayings and slogans imma diva im independent, i speak my mind, yea, well give me my Sons then and you be independent by yourself let me raise my Son stop being so quick to put us in the system, shut up sometimes and grow up, learn to listen. I don't need a diva i need a wife that would let me take lead, im the point gaurd nd QB this is my team
It cracks me up..lolHow Black Women have the recipe to Black Men,But don't have the recipe to be attractive,pleasant,and have class and don't know what to do to keep a man.Like all of the other groups of women in the U.S. seem to grasp on too.You notice there are'nt any shows talking about,"WHY WHITE,ASIAN,LATINA,MIDDLE EASTERN WOMEN CAN'T FIND A MAN!..LOL Unbelievable!
@chenderson30 Technically your right..there are no "shows" talking about the problems other women of races/cultures have. Doesn't mean they don't have issues because they do. Asian, Latin and Middle Eastern have serious male/female relationship problems..they just don't air their dirty laundry. I'm not even going into the fact that the media loves to portray black people in the worst possible light as if we're the only disfunctional group of people on the planet. Don't drink the kool-aid.
@spankybighead cont'd..Asian women typically ride in the back of the family car...try getting a sista to do that. Latin men treat their women like crap..I know I've dated latin women. Middle Eastern women? Do I even need to explain anything..they come here to the U.S. and happy they get to vote, drive and go to school. Even with that said they're still dominated by their men. Now how can I prove my point about us being an open book of bad press by the media?
@spankybighead con't ..Well let's see. Name one inherent disease prevelent in the Asian, Latin, Middle Eastern, East European or South European people. No ask them if they aware of any disease prevenlent amoungst people of african discent? I bet you they'll tell you sickle cell. You know why? Because we're the open book. We're the cash cow that the media and the powers that be consistenly promote as disfunctional, criminal or sickly. Again I say don't drink the kool-aid. They have "dirt" too.
@chenderson30 I agree, it is not that Black women can't find good Black men because they certainly can find men to impregnate them. The fact is that Black women give it up for the most frivolous reasons and will get pregnant at the drop of a hat then expect the dude to automatically become a responsible being. Stop giving your boyfriends babies and get to know the fellow and that will prevent a lot of this garbage... that's my belief! God invented marriage for child bearing use it!
@nalalag I agree that BW should not have children with boyfriends. Better yet, they need to just stop having boyfriends and actually date without having sex. Sex is reserved for MARRIAGE not dating and the boyfriend/girlfriend concept is BS! What is ignorant about the post is it is one-sided and prejudges all BW to be the same way. What do you have to say about BW who don't fit into this stereotype? Also, some BM don't know how to treat women and too many don't even finish high school.
The Black Men who were raised in a Matriarch system,Will not cause he has no clue,How to do so,Why?No male figures in the house.Now sure you can bring up exceptions,But are those exceptions the large part of the Black Community?No!Next Black WOmen are screaming role models,WHY?You did'nt get pregnant by the guys who were ROLE MODELS,So why do you want them now?Remember your,STRONG AND INDEPEDENT.That's right!You want Black Men whoa re doing the right things to play CLEAN UP!.
Conti-The Black Women raised these boys,But when they get older,They tell them to step up and BE A MAN!How's he going to do that,When he's never been taught by a man?You see this is what happens when this whoel IM STRONG AND INDEPEDENT,I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF,I DONT NEED A MAN.These slogans have came back to bite Black Women in the behind.Now you want Black Males to STEP UP??The Black Men who don't have kids,Are'nt going to step up for a woman who has kids,And the Black Man who was raised conti
What's funny to me is that alot of Black Women have been talking this same mantra for years.Never to take in consideration that since only so few of Black Men have father figures who understand the concept of manhood vs A black man who's been raised by nothing but single mothers,And I'm speaking about the mentality that alot of Black Men that do have or are going to have because they have no concept of manhood,Cause all they ever seen is Womanhood in the household..lol conti
@MrPrettyBoyChina thats true if u live in an area with uneducated ghetto ass people...being that ur name is "mrprettyboychina" im gona assume u do...plus its popular to be a sellout right now if ur a black dude, u sound like u are one, so I cant even take what u just said seriously
FINALLY, A woman CAN NOT BE DOGGED UNLESS SHE GOES OUT OF HER WAY TO BE DOGGED. Your right, about one thing in this video. AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN NEED TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES. However, they need, to have the need, TO LEARN TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES. Meaning, if their Mothers made BAD CHOICES, and NEVER DEVELOPED THE ABILITY TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES, and Black Female wants to LEARN TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES IN AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN, She needs to FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TEACH HER HOW TO MAKE THAT CHOICE.
10) As far as the Africa American Kid that grows up without a positive Male roll model in his life that may grow up to HURT one of my kids or me. Well, I've toiled with that as I watched this problem develop over the years, and I long ago sworn to myself that if that happened or was about to happen I would WITHOUT A DOUBT have to KILL HIM. Not hurt, but kill him, So he would not be able to do it again, to my kids or me. I decided I would just have to do my time in jail so my kids could live.
9) A MAN that handles and takes care of what is his, IS NOT an "Ignorant mindset". THAT'S WHAT MANHOOD IS ALL ABOUT. It's called BEING AN ADULT MALE, WITH AN ADULT MIND. Your view of MANHOOD is TWISTED. Yes, MEN OF ANY RACE do have a responsibility to their WIVES, CHILDREN, AND COMMUNITY. However, if THE FEMALE SECT of his community REFUSES TO ADOPT THE SAME IDEOLOGY, you have no stable structured society that will help those Men too maintain there responsibility.. Because the need to is gone.
8) As far as Good African American men stepping up and taking "The Roll" as the King, The Men, The Leaders in the households that do not have that presence, because we can't afford to continue this negative cycle. Bottom line on this point, You "Strong, Independent, Black Women", with kids and on welfare, CHOSE YOUR MEN, LEADERS, AND KINGS. However, you are finding out that they WERE NOT WHAT YOU THOUGHT THEY WERE, and they are just GRAVEN IMAGES that you now have to live with. Like it or not.
7) You stated That "As a community for us to be able to elevate collectively on another level, socioeconomically, spiritually, mentally, physically. We're going to have to adopt a communal sense when we're approaching our community". Our Community HAD JUST THAT. However, After Integration, The African American Female decided that what WE had STRUGGLED AND DIED FOR, wasn't good enough IF IT WASN'T WHITE ENOUGH. Clothes, Skin, God, Food, hair and now men. You women started rejecting it.
6) You stated "It takes a village to raise a child, It's A Community,We always had a village tribal mindset and unfortunately as we started to Integrate, we started to lose that mind set". It does take a village to raise a child, and The African American (IN MOST CASES), STILL DOES HAVE A VILLAGE AND TRIBLE MINDSET. However, IT WAS THE AFRICAN AMERICAN FEMALE who chose to leave the customs of the African American tribal/village mindset.
Case and point? Just look at your hair. Understand now?..
5) The "Never Ending Cycle" of producing African American MALES AND FEMALES, Who don't "STEP UP AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES" can be stopped tomorrow. If, The African American Female WOULD STOP PRODUCING OFFSPRING BY (MALES OF ALL RACES) WHO DON'T GIVE A DAM ABOUT THEM, OR THE AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY. The African American Man SHOULD NOT bare the BURDEN of THE OUT OF CONTROL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN FEMALE. Bottom line here is, YOU CAN'T FIX STUPID, ONLY CONTROL IT.
4) The Question is WHY WERE 62% OF AFRICAN AMERICAN KIDS BORN TO SINGLE AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN. There's no excuse for that. IT'S THE African Americans Females fault. Unless you can show that ALL THESE BIRTHS were Rapes, or EMACULANT CONCEPTIONS, It's CLEAR That the African American Female CHOSE TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH THE MALE or MEN who helped produce those 62% of UNWED CHILDREN. You CAN'T say they didn't know, Because the Information is EVERY WHERE.
1) A Man, is not a "Boo Boo". He is a MAN, Sir, or Mr. Not a "Boo Boo". If a Woman of any race referred to me as a "Boo Boo", She's history. She can keep her street talk in the street as far as I'm concerned. 2) Most of the Black Males who don't know how to "Treat a lady", Never had Positive male roll models in their lives to learn from. The blames on their MOTHERS. Who DIDN'T know what a Good Black Man was. 3) If a woman wants to be treated like a "Queen", she needs to act like a "Queen".
i love how in this vid she adresses black men she's slammed by everyone...but in her last video where she adresses black women everyone amens...youtube is a hevily populated with idiots....i think im gona delete my acct.
Ok can you direct me to your vid where it speaks only to all the bw who dont know how to treat a bm? I have interviewed many many bm who say most bw they've dated have no clue of how to treat a man so they need a vid also.
I say the black man have limited options!!! By the you factor in Attitude, materialistic, kids, fat out of shape,Diva complex, weave,goldigger, The black man is working with less than 10% of the black female population. Black woman are not raised properly, why they the only group of woman complaining about how they can' t find a husband.
@amastara to be honest most black woman live up to the sterotype. Black men get it 3 times worse than black woman.Being put down don't have any thing to do with not being wifey material. Black woman don't act like a lady. They so busy trying to be strong. Being strong work for corporate America and school but not for a relationship. I don't want to talk about black woman. All they do is mess up my good vibration.
The reason women feel Black men and many other men don't know how to treat a woman is because they find fault where there is no fault. They want a the to be manginas who bend over backwards to treat them like Queens. When the woman finds it laughable to the idea treating her man like anything other than a beckoning servant. Black men don't need to step up Black women need to step down and be beside their man not over.
I think you have it really confused. The reason men don't date women with kids, is because many of those women are out of control and have emotional vendettas against men. Usually the children are often disrespectful as well ( U saw the Doritos commercial). Those same women often cling to a man who gives them any attention (thus kids with different fathers). Outside of being a widow I wouldn't date any woman with kids.
I had to comment and say I appreciate your positivity and I encourage you to continue moving forward regardless of what the naysayers say, they are watching youtube because they think youtube can fix their negative mindsets... they are the ones that will have to make that change and then they can see that whole new world that us positive folks have been living in! Keep up the good work!
This is what I do not like. What you are babbling about is called BULLCHIT!! Right from the start, all you kept saying was, I'm not going to get into this and I am not going to get into that. But that is all you did from beginning to end. And why should anyone have to be "taught" how to treat a lady? Respect is mutual. A man can treat a woman like a queen, but if she's a bimbo, she's a bimbo. And then you are going to say that woman are just as responsible as the men.
@ruebenshaw yeah thats a good point. it would be easy for the many people they're involved with to just express that, to be fair. so not to waste peopl's time, having them strung. thats not cool, and i know thats how most people are living now
Part 2 of my comment. God shared Behold I Make All Things New who do you think he's talking to. My comments are for everyone. Everything is going to change or it will end. All lies will be made known to everyone. those that hang on to lies will have to pay the price of it with there life by there own hands.
The Blackman was to be put to sleep and to wake up.come alive and rule the planet in a righteous way. We are now living in this time.The black women may not understand this because they had to do what they could until we wake up.So its very hard for some to even see or hear what is taking place.They can only see what is in front of them at the time.However if the black woman do not put herself in check before this time she has a price to pay.She is sleep however the blackman is mentally dead.
You must be drunk!!! "This is not an attack on men." Brothers out there who just so happened to listen to this crap sound is you beleive she is attacking men. This sister really is speaking about her self and she is trying to find a way to feel better about her self because she is the one who does not really know the answers that she claims in her theorpist so called want a be.
Boo your presentation how you speak and dress in your video is good and professional. In the beginning of your video you say that you are not going to get into the drama and the negative part of the comments. However, you are doing exactly that. You think your being positive or trying to trick people into thinking your being positive be all you doing is the same thing other ignorant sisters are doing. If you step your game as you say on the professional level as you protray you will see that
Good advice and I’m glad that you are not bashing Black relationships like the media. Every Black person need to see this and come to the conclusion of R-E-S-P-E-C-T for self and others. Not all Black men are bad or unworthy, it’s just certain ones that Sistas pick. I’m glad to see a lot of Black celebrities getting married even if it is they ‘baby mama’.
You can't get facts from "interviewing" less than 0.1% of the black population. Stop watching the stereotype local news networks and read a newspaper as a substitute for at least a month and frequently eat at restaurants outside of your hood and expose yourself to some REAL WORLD media blackenterprise tv-video.
Maybe it's because I don't watch much domestic news media, but my perception is different. I was raised in a predominantly upper-middle class black neighborhood -- likely why perception is different. Therefore, you are speaking based on what YOU SEE in your "hood" and on entertainment TV. What you're staying reflects whites more so than blacks -- they're the majority population, but they do a good job at hiding it by keeping it off the air waves and not mocking it to the world.
For the record 'uky1985' is a racist bottom feeder who gets off inciting friction between black men and women. How do I know this? After reading the comment below I went to this scum bag's page and saw all the negative things he has to say regarding black people.
I've been watching a lot of these blk men vs blk wm videos. I'm starting to see a pattern. that pattern is one of circular arguments on both sides. the african american community is like a boat with one oar. we're just going in circles. the blk men blame women, the blk women blame the men. there really is no solution to this problem. everyone is screwed up on both sides. good points in the video, but it is typical rhetoric from the black women side. black men must be the saviors saving a blk wm
most men like the women just dont have that respect..now even inside all that that i have said its a broad spectrum in this as in all things in the world it has a base..it alll starts from somewhere.. and the cure we all are lookin for..these many needed,desired answer are in your past..the history..and not the history of a race..but the history of a people ..and in that realize we all are one and lets deplete the judgement...why not judge what is only required to us..
that is simply foolish but it is apparent...its not that they want thugs but it is that they want someone who has a back bone as you stated before and someone they can work on "thug passion"if you know what that means.the thug just so happen to be that condemned house with a good landscape... plus they have the most confidence self esteem aint talk about and being a man is earned...n that in itself embodies a certain demeanor and demand for respect...and the sad reality is most men
Honestly .....i believe you were just making a point...and for some reason ppl feel the need to address...and emphasize the negativity....there is never a case where ALL men or ALL men of any race are "no good".....I totally agree with this video...its a very intelligent the way this view point was displayed....I came from a good AA household had a mother and father.....and as for BW....don't blame every AA man ...for that one sorry brother u chose....come on yall ...we know better!
so how do we do better? if we were never taught then how do we do better? black men are so far fucked that even with men in the house we dont live up to the expectations to not only black women but anyone in the country!!!! do we need to be more european? what constitutes a good black man? im a 28 yr old veteran, college student , and entrepreneur with no kids. am i good? what if i told u that i paid for 4 abortions in 7 years from 4 different people then what? am i still good? where did i learn
the don't wanters are the one's who would take a trailer park over even an intelligent, beautiful black woman. it's sickening. my town is fool of these weak men. i'm getting older..my biological clock is tick tocking, and their's not a suitable candidate within a 50 mile radius. what do i do ms..einstein?
The plan has been for filled. West Virginia, 1612. Every BLACK MAN and BLACK WOMAN should know that date, If we all knew what had transpired on that date we would not be going through the many issues we the Black People and People of color must confront in our daily lives here in America and the entire world!
Oh fuckin well if I don't want to take care of another man's kids,not MY kids NOT MY PROBLEM.Women always want some total stranger to take care of another mans kids,how pathetic,if that bastard tries to harm my kids they'll be a dead ass bastard,
Your know what chrisinft, I think youre out of line. What about the women who have two children by one man who decided to leave his family? What about that? She's only speaking the truth and the truth hurts doesnt it? The way the black relationships are is not the black woman's fault. Instead of taking responsiblity you men blame everything on the woman just like in the bible. If we as black people dont stick together this is going to be an on going cycle. That's something to think about. Peace!
This lady is off base. She fails to talk about the sorry females out there who think they are a queen but they have 3 kids by 3 different men. Come on ladies.
The probably is that Black men aren't being leaders. I know it's a lot to ask, but I think brothas are capable. It takes two people to create a child, so why is a woman always to blame because she gets stuck with the child??? Black man step up!
@m0renachula704 So you think I'm supposed to treat a woman with multiple kids by numerous men as a queen? What a joke! Only a pathetic man would do such.
@chrisinft Youtube really needs to revise its block feature. No, to me whats sad is people like you who sit on your high horse and judge people. I don't see how others live their lives or what they do effect you. And if you want to know what kind of woman I am, feel more than free to check out my channel, I hide nothing! Lastly, you can continue to reply to me if you like, but when I see your name in my inbox I'm just going to delete it. I don't have time for you. So you have a nice life.
@m0renachula704 You started with me now you want to cry foul. I don't care what you have going on with your life, that's your business. I simply made a comment about some women not being queens. A true queen does not have babies out of wedlock and/or multiple baby daddies! And I care because I pay taxes that support women on welfare. If these women kept their legs closed they wouldn't need government assistance.
@chrisinft . I don't thinks she meant to attack black men and I don't think she is talking about these uneducated low class hood rat vaginas on heels. She is talking about level headed female looking for good men
@chrisinft No one should be considered a queen or a king when you first meet them. Regardless if they have 3 kids by 3 different men, 3 kids by one man, no kids by no one. Both parties should be treated with respect which can be done without giving them queen or king status. That has to be earned. Shoot you could meet a single no kids person out here and they be morally corrupt or what have you.
@uky1985 I am not sure of your experience with AA men but you will not use this channel to promote your hate. Not all AA men are worthless and I happen to have a great one who is not in jail, who is not a thug and who believes in taking care of his family. Instead of dismissing ALL AA men, let me teach you how to attract and choose the right one!
@uky1985 Who cares if you don't like black men you are one less skank to worry about,go to your redneck and let him treat him like the slave that you are.
@uky1985 I am a young black man that supports and loves his family. I've been married once and divorced her because she (black woman) was unfaithful. Everyone has a perception and it is never quite true as we think. I wanted to give up on black women but I haven't...there is nothing like the sista's. Ericka Bydu has a song out called bag lady... what a great song!.
@uky1985 --- although he said it jokingly Katt Williams said it best when it comes to women with your generalization of all black men... if you are over the age of 25 walking around saying black men aren't $hit then you need to figure out what it is about you that keeps attracting ain't $hit men instead of the good ones.
I agree with what your saying,Im 19 and BW talk to me all the time...its just that when they find out I dont like rap im no good anymore...Or if they don't mind they still have an angry nature about them. I asked one why she was always upset and she replied "I don't like people" So then i asked why do you talk to me then...and (silence) So I its kinda hard to find a BW even if you come with your game "pre-stepped-up"...Ive seen her yell at people yet give me the VIP treatment...but cant say why.
Black women are probably the race I would least like to date. Just because they remind me of my mother, who is black, and they have an angry or at least, annoyed vibe about them. Does depend on the individual of course. I could be eating me words at anytime.
Ayatron34 is a faggoty ugly African BLACK ! ! This crap loves the Batman Who is a manly handsome white man. This shit is a abnormal homosexsual BLACK GAY. ! !
did u interview every black women, white women etc, that's how i know what your saying is bullshit. your no better than everyone on youtube. your just saying the same sterotype bs!! i bet if i said there's not enough good black women then u would have something to say. remember it's 70% of of bw that r single. if blackmen r the problem why aren't u girls dating white men , black men r not the only men that exist!
u see that's the problem with i have with some black women, u said there r good bm, then u said there's not enough. how do u know there's not enough, have u met every black man in the entire world? bm don't only live in the usa there're all over the world!
1986toronto, your comment makes no sense. If she says there are good black men, but there are not enough, obviously there are not enough in her locality. Who cares if there are black men all over the world! that's irrelevant. So if, say, there were no good black men anywhere in the world except in, I dunno, GHANA, do you expect her to 1) go there to verify this and 2) for all the women in the world who don't have access to a "good black man" to all emmigrate there to get one?
she shouldn't say there's not enough good blackmen period! u can't make statements like that! i met quite a few black women in my area who definitley r no good, but i still don't think there are a lack of good bw. i bet if blackmen were going on tv complaining about being single and blaming bw y'all would be putting the blame on us!
Im stepped up! Now what do you do when you are already doing well at 26. I love strong black women but dang this world has to be going down the drain. I don't lie cheat or nothin. I am a man all the time and women are ladies around be because I will not have nothin less. Women are so easy or so difficult that men go after the easy girls and don't need too much game. I love challenges but why should a man work hard if he don't have to.
People make allot of mistakes when they are free of baggage and don't care about their future until they get baggage. Im lucky I am successful no kids and I do my best to do the right thing. Most women ask me or tell me how independent they are these women are usually broke and all they have to offer is baggage. I want to do better not worse. Easy broke women bore me.
There are not enough good black women either. Black women know majority of the time that a man is no good before she fucks him but most black women feel that they can change a man and what not but once that dude knock your ass up and leave then don't sit here and bash all black men because you made a fucked up choice. Black women need to start being responsible for their own actions. If that man got to be responsible and wear a condom then you all need to be responsible and take birth control.
You said at 3.40 62% of black babies are born to unmarried mothers. Now what you understand that to be , is 62% of black men wont help raise their kids. But what I understand it to be , is that 62% of black women are irresponsible. There are more than a few ways to keep a sperm from meeting an egg, including the word NO. So let's stop the brotha bashing , because obvioulsy these women are not being raped. Stop inviting every man out there pretending like he's looking for a wife to your bedroom.
If you gentlmen knew how hostile and angry you sound in this comments below. Have you all seen any of this womans other videos? Obviously not becuase she rides us women harder than she rides the men. the truth is that that black women as well as black men are responsible for the shape our community/children/relationships are in, but she in addressing CERTAIN (if this dont apply, let if fly) brothas, who aint doing that they suppsosed to in this particular video.
Many men have realized they don't want families. They have honed their game. Get her, hit dat and either she leaves or becomes a booty call either way on to the next one.
Telling this guy you are on birth control when you are not just to get his baby will not make you happy.
i been trying 2 tell all ya'll, 4 years these trifulling blax femmes ain't worth anything, a toothless stripper with a bad case of hookers foot holds more value n integrity than these slaved out, ragga muffin headed, no culture having tricks...what delusion, i can't c myself wifing any benadict arnold!
So fuck that "village" mentality shit or whatever it is. You only use that argument when it's convenient anyway. Weren't you just talking shit about Black Men and how we don't know how to date anyway?
And now you want us to "step up" for problems that we did not create? Hell outta here.
You'd have some sort of foundation upon which to build an argument if it were Men who were responsible for choosing relationships. But seeing as to how women hold all the keys, they're responsible for their own doing.
If %62 of black women are too fuckin' stupid to choose a good man, that's their problem.
all this talk about, women maturing faster than men, is a joke. as i said b 4, if this was true, why do women, keep going from " 1 BADF RELATIONSHIP, 2 ANOTHER ". SCIENTIFICAALY, IT'S THE WOMEN, & NOT US MEN. SO, WITH THAT BEING SAID, WOMEN NEED 2 SEL--EVALUATE THEMSELVES. WHAT'S CAUSING THEM 2 TO CONTINUE, THIS NEVER ENDING CYCLE OF ABUSE. UNTIL THEN LADIES, DON'T STICK UR FOOT, IN UR MOUTH. ONLY U CAN MAKE THAT CHANGE ".
Many, but not all, black men suffer a lack masculine virtue. Job, responsibility, integrity, ambition, courage, etc. (although they do tend to be athletic intially) Many , but not all, black women suffer a lack of feminine virtue once they get out of their teens. For example, they lose their bootylicious curves and start growing a beer belly and accumulating babies and baby daddies. So in effect, black women and black men end up turning each other off due to their lack of sexual virtue.
and the comment about children who come from single parent homes. nt all of them are like I said (im from one too) but i look at the majority and whats around me everyday....i c it
We live in a day where sex is like recreation. Some men just want sex not children. A mother deciding to have a child against the mans will, does nothing but create underprivileged, non productive children with messed up values and morals. We have been trying (unintentionally) single parent households (for some time) and we see the results. Its not working! Simply put, be responsible w/ your vagina. And selective who u give it to.fathers leaving is dishonorable. but women if u get prego ur stuc
I am a black man. I do agree that women do need to raise their standards. I agree that women need to be more selective with who they laydown with, i also beleive that BOTH men and women have to make a decision to have a child. Its is not the womans right to make a man participate in father hood if he dosent want to. Women should not to decide to have children if the man dosent and they cannot provide themselves. (no state help) If you dont want kids use contraceptives.
I feel you 100% bro.I will not "Step Up" and take care of someone else's responsibility.The fuck I look like, taking care of someone else's child because of a so called "Village Mindset". You need to find that brother thats your baby daddy and reconcile or find a brother thats into the whole "Pre-fab" family type of thing.I can't believe its expected of brothers with no kids to "Pitch in"helping develop another persons child.I think yall should "Step up"and find better fathers for your children.
I have to say that some of what u said was on point. But the part about bm needing to raise someone elses child was a bit ridiculous!!! Come on sis, be serious...I can understand mentoring and being coaches,etc but bw won't even look at a brotha riding the bus let alone be all happy bout raising some other females child. Take a breathe and think bout that one a lil more. And the diva thing is played out...be a sista not a diva
Sorry the one thing I don't agree with is taking care of someone else childern I don't like or ever want childern. I don't hang with hoodrats that treat women badly, I think the black men that say that there are no good black women are only going by a womans looks and nothing else
Our people BM and BW alike have lost a lot of morals which is why we're lower than low. We came from a history that was very spiritual and high in morals and values. Once we conform to this oppressive system all of the qualities we once had that made us whole went out the door. Once we get our true spirituality back and refine ourselves mentally, physically, and spiritually the BM and the BW will be one again. I hope to one day see this b/c I just love my sisters death.
but if you ask me theres not alot of bw thats marraige material either.
And just because a bw has a college degree and a good job doesnt mean thats she is not a whore.I know plenty of women like that.But i hear what you are saying and do agree with you to a point but dam i think it goes both ways
all ya do is bash black men puerto ricans are more loyal thats why i dropped my last woman she was like u and the fact that u would say im not much of an asset proves my point
@ brownskinking, she isn't bashing black men in this video I have to agree with her 100% on this b/c us BM do need to step up and be MEN and stop being pussy whipped, teenage acting mama's boys. This is one of the few videos in which she explain both sides of the coin, and BW need to understand that the so-called thug/rough neck/ bad boys are nothing but LOSERS that isn't able to provide and protect a family. I gotta give her a heads up on this one!
Women stop having babies with men you are not married to. living on the child support trying to come up.
SnakeDoc1272 1 week ago
Black women need to step up too and stop blaming all black men for their fuck ups. Is it the nice guy's fault that you always have an attitude ? Is it the nice guy's fault that you are always in drama ? Is it the nice guy's fault that you always want to mess with the thug ? A lot of these black women need to take accountability for their own actions instead of pointing fingers.
e84fresh 3 weeks ago
WOMAN WHO ARE DEALING WITH YOUR SORRY BUTS .thats exactly what alot of brothas mean by adittude.her disrespect to us brothas wasnt cool. so what happens next then brothas start bringing up the black woman adittude thing.
coolmonkey1987 1 month ago
@5:30 This sounds good in theory, but the reason that so many men are resistant to this mindset of mentoring other men's kids and the whole "it takes a village" philosophy is because the women that say it until it serves them. Life is hard enough as it is without dragging other people along. We all make out beds that we eventually sleep in.
fistoffries 2 months ago
Brothas these SCRONG black women dont seem to understand that there being setup to be lonely and desperate later in life. I have a degree, im a black male, so do other people, BW are the only ones shouting about their piece of paper and independency. Productibe Black men I know we still love our women but if you cant find one, date outside its not worth waiting for an eternity to find love SERIOUSLY.
esmooth200 2 months ago
I hate stupid bitches like this, yes I said bitch. I have been a productive black male all my life, (27yrs) went to college, make good income, self sufficient,no children etc. And dumb fuckers like this female make it bad for men like me society thinks we are all losers and are non productive. Imagine in the 1960s if MLK, was just fighting for mens right only would that have been fair, BLACK WOMEN ARE NO LONGER IN OUR CORNER. Eurocentric views have fucked, SCRONG black women up big time.
esmooth200 2 months ago
Ok all this talk about men steppin there game up, what about the "Black woman" y'all depend too much on a man to take care of y'all handle everything. Yea I agree that a man have to step up and handle somethings but a woman is suppose to be that backbone. And that's why a lot of black men date outside there race.
430mason 2 months ago
shay you be sayin some real shit so ima keep listening ! and it is wat is and ima man
action539 3 months ago
shay you be sayin some real shit so ima keep listening ! and it is wat is
action539 3 months ago
There's a lot of hit dogs hollering in these comments *side eye*.
disdainface 3 months ago
If black men havent been taught how to treat black women.. who taught black women how to treat black men? If both genders come from a broken home how can a single mother teach her daughter to make correct choices in men? This video needs to address both men and women.
ErikandAndreea 5 months ago
Love it
thisispoloa 5 months ago
Love ir
thisispoloa 5 months ago
im not no thug and im trying to find me a real woman
REALISTMAN20 6 months ago
white guys do the same thing black guys do ! only thing is white girls don't bitch about it...
337429 8 months ago 2
@337429 ROTFLMAO!!!
blaquelovely1 1 month ago
lol my niggas always said i was lucky to have a white mother....and now i see why...damn lady why is it only black women complaining about black men. maybe YOU guys just don't know how to keep a man, thats why white women r talkin all the black dudes and everybody's lightskin lmaooo
337429 8 months ago
@337429 I agree black men think white women are easy and stupid than black women.
BRKS627 5 months ago
@BRKS627 i agree black women are dumber than a 10 day old dead fish
ballsdanglin 4 months ago
You are right. Most of these men have no clue on how to treat a woman. The good ones are a very small minority. Just look at most of the comments on this video.
Five star video!
BigBlaqueKat 9 months ago
Hey, at least most of the guys are willing to tell the truth. Women lie about everything, and that's all there is to it. Your views are too biased, you're always trying to say what the men isn't doing right or not knowing like women are absolutely perfect and they know everything about a man. Nothing is gonna change, black people as a whole are too f'd up. Look at the environments. Gangs, drugs, violence and murder. It's never gonna get any better for black people thanks to history.
kltiswhoib 9 months ago
BW raise their daughters nowadays to be strong aggresive and independent but cant raise their son to be the same way? dont get me wrong, nothing can subsitute a positive male figure in rearing a child, but a good single parent can most definitely teach their child the qualities of a man/woman and if they cant, that reflects their inabilities as a person and parent.
boo843348 9 months ago
I have a good black man, because thats what I chose. If you choose the hustler and the player then you take that risk. If you choose a man that is standing on the corner with his pants hanging off his ass, then you have yourself to blame.
m0renachula704 10 months ago
Haha LMMFAO!!! TO THE PERSON BELOW ME!
xxxsleepingawakexxx 11 months ago
This is bullshit you have no idea what you are talking about. STEP UP? ARE YOU SERIOUS? Why is it always our fault? Y'all know if a nigga ain't shit but y'all still fuck with em, so y'all step up, my dad left when i was 2 n i have NEVER been arrested, NEVER used drugs AT ALL , lady you are sad VERY SAD. WOW OMG, LADIES BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX WITH A MAN PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO, AT LEAST 3 MONTHS, I KNEW MY GIRL FOR A YR B4 WE BACAME SEXUALLY ACTIVE STOP BLAMIN' US FOR Y'ALL FUCK UPS
TheFastFreddy 1 year ago
@TheFastFreddy Wow...lol, I detect a lot of bitterness. First, I am NOT attacking Black men, I am giving a lot of them who need it a reality check. Two, if you have watch any of my over 140 videos, you will see that I spend way more time fussing at the ladies and telling them to do better with their choices. You have a point, I do not dispute but what I am saying to the men still remains relevant even with great men like you out there who grew up with no father
lovein30days 1 year ago
@TheFastFreddy and still made better choices. Great for you but unfortunately this is not the story for a lot of guys so someone needs to shed light of where a mind shift needs to occur.
lovein30days 1 year ago
@lovein30days When my pops left he always called nd song and told me he love me nd sent me money. He lives on the otherside of the U.S. and we still stay in contact to this day and im now 25. My MOTHER made sure i know who my father is. Then i had my UNCLES who didn't play that thug shit (disipline me) then i got involved in music, boxing, wreastling and basketball (Mothers suggestion) my whole fam is proud of me and my MOM because SHE SHE STEPPED UP MY FAM STEPPED UP AND MY DAD ALSO
TheFastFreddy 1 year ago
@lovein30days Ok so why do you say BLACK MEN as if white and other races of men don't need to step up, you should say MEN PERIOD, I know plenty of great brothas out here and i also know thug niggas to but it takes two to tangle. Y'all stop lusting, women lust just as hard as we do. Im not bitter at all it jus pisses me off when BLACK WOMEN talk like that. Y'all all have a choice, to deal with a sorry nigga or to deal with a guy that would keep it 100 with u and that meets your standards. DUH!!
TheFastFreddy 1 year ago
@TheFastFreddy Well Freddy only hit dogs holler. If you are not one of the BLACK MEN I speak about then you should NOT be offended because you know I am not speaking to you. I am not addressing other races of men because the statistics are showing an overwhelming amount of BM dropping out of school, not being fathers to their children, in jail and so many other negative things that spill into relationships. I think your position is immature. If I am correcting my son ..
lovein30days 1 year ago
@TheFastFreddy and he looks over and says "but what about what my sister does?" I look at him and remind him that at THIS present moment, I am not speaking to anyone but him and that I am sharing a message that is for him to learn and get right now. If he is busy focusing on what I need to say to someone else, he will miss the lesson. As, I stated before, you can and will not say that Shay Your Date Diva is biased against men or unfairly attack Black Men when ...
lovein30days 1 year ago
@TheFastFreddy I have so many videos telling women to do better about the way they treat good men and how there are GREAT black men out there (I happened to be married to one). If the message doesnt apply to you then change the channel but there are men who it applies to and who need to hear what I am saying to them!
With Love,
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 1 year ago
@lovein30days The problem is not BLACK MEN, who's raising these BLACK MEN? Ding ding ding BLACK WOMEN are raising these BLACK MEN. All i hear is stupid sayings and slogans imma diva im independent, i speak my mind, yea, well give me my Sons then and you be independent by yourself let me raise my Son stop being so quick to put us in the system, shut up sometimes and grow up, learn to listen. I don't need a diva i need a wife that would let me take lead, im the point gaurd nd QB this is my team
TheFastFreddy 1 year ago
It cracks me up..lolHow Black Women have the recipe to Black Men,But don't have the recipe to be attractive,pleasant,and have class and don't know what to do to keep a man.Like all of the other groups of women in the U.S. seem to grasp on too.You notice there are'nt any shows talking about,"WHY WHITE,ASIAN,LATINA,MIDDLE EASTERN WOMEN CAN'T FIND A MAN!..LOL Unbelievable!
chenderson30 1 year ago 18
@chenderson30 Technically your right..there are no "shows" talking about the problems other women of races/cultures have. Doesn't mean they don't have issues because they do. Asian, Latin and Middle Eastern have serious male/female relationship problems..they just don't air their dirty laundry. I'm not even going into the fact that the media loves to portray black people in the worst possible light as if we're the only disfunctional group of people on the planet. Don't drink the kool-aid.
spankybighead 7 months ago
@spankybighead cont'd..Asian women typically ride in the back of the family car...try getting a sista to do that. Latin men treat their women like crap..I know I've dated latin women. Middle Eastern women? Do I even need to explain anything..they come here to the U.S. and happy they get to vote, drive and go to school. Even with that said they're still dominated by their men. Now how can I prove my point about us being an open book of bad press by the media?
spankybighead 7 months ago
@spankybighead con't ..Well let's see. Name one inherent disease prevelent in the Asian, Latin, Middle Eastern, East European or South European people. No ask them if they aware of any disease prevenlent amoungst people of african discent? I bet you they'll tell you sickle cell. You know why? Because we're the open book. We're the cash cow that the media and the powers that be consistenly promote as disfunctional, criminal or sickly. Again I say don't drink the kool-aid. They have "dirt" too.
spankybighead 7 months ago
@chenderson30 AMEN!
secondshen 3 months ago
@chenderson30 I agree, it is not that Black women can't find good Black men because they certainly can find men to impregnate them. The fact is that Black women give it up for the most frivolous reasons and will get pregnant at the drop of a hat then expect the dude to automatically become a responsible being. Stop giving your boyfriends babies and get to know the fellow and that will prevent a lot of this garbage... that's my belief! God invented marriage for child bearing use it!
Jstar141957 3 months ago
@chenderson30 Honestly, this post is just full of ignorance.
blaquelovely1 1 month ago
@blaquelovely1 not really its true...
nalalag 1 month ago
@nalalag I agree that BW should not have children with boyfriends. Better yet, they need to just stop having boyfriends and actually date without having sex. Sex is reserved for MARRIAGE not dating and the boyfriend/girlfriend concept is BS! What is ignorant about the post is it is one-sided and prejudges all BW to be the same way. What do you have to say about BW who don't fit into this stereotype? Also, some BM don't know how to treat women and too many don't even finish high school.
blaquelovely1 1 month ago
@chenderson30 all i gotta say is WOW! good point.
coolmonkey1987 1 month ago
The Black Men who were raised in a Matriarch system,Will not cause he has no clue,How to do so,Why?No male figures in the house.Now sure you can bring up exceptions,But are those exceptions the large part of the Black Community?No!Next Black WOmen are screaming role models,WHY?You did'nt get pregnant by the guys who were ROLE MODELS,So why do you want them now?Remember your,STRONG AND INDEPEDENT.That's right!You want Black Men whoa re doing the right things to play CLEAN UP!.
chenderson30 1 year ago
Conti-The Black Women raised these boys,But when they get older,They tell them to step up and BE A MAN!How's he going to do that,When he's never been taught by a man?You see this is what happens when this whoel IM STRONG AND INDEPEDENT,I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF,I DONT NEED A MAN.These slogans have came back to bite Black Women in the behind.Now you want Black Males to STEP UP??The Black Men who don't have kids,Are'nt going to step up for a woman who has kids,And the Black Man who was raised conti
chenderson30 1 year ago
What's funny to me is that alot of Black Women have been talking this same mantra for years.Never to take in consideration that since only so few of Black Men have father figures who understand the concept of manhood vs A black man who's been raised by nothing but single mothers,And I'm speaking about the mentality that alot of Black Men that do have or are going to have because they have no concept of manhood,Cause all they ever seen is Womanhood in the household..lol conti
chenderson30 1 year ago
Another scapegoat for the irresponsible black woman
TRA2k7 1 year ago
@MrPrettyBoyChina thats true if u live in an area with uneducated ghetto ass people...being that ur name is "mrprettyboychina" im gona assume u do...plus its popular to be a sellout right now if ur a black dude, u sound like u are one, so I cant even take what u just said seriously
amastara 1 year ago
Please read from bottom up.
Thanks.
commonman80 1 year ago
FINALLY, A woman CAN NOT BE DOGGED UNLESS SHE GOES OUT OF HER WAY TO BE DOGGED. Your right, about one thing in this video. AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN NEED TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES. However, they need, to have the need, TO LEARN TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES. Meaning, if their Mothers made BAD CHOICES, and NEVER DEVELOPED THE ABILITY TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES, and Black Female wants to LEARN TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES IN AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN, She needs to FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TEACH HER HOW TO MAKE THAT CHOICE.
commonman80 1 year ago
10) As far as the Africa American Kid that grows up without a positive Male roll model in his life that may grow up to HURT one of my kids or me. Well, I've toiled with that as I watched this problem develop over the years, and I long ago sworn to myself that if that happened or was about to happen I would WITHOUT A DOUBT have to KILL HIM. Not hurt, but kill him, So he would not be able to do it again, to my kids or me. I decided I would just have to do my time in jail so my kids could live.
commonman80 1 year ago
9) A MAN that handles and takes care of what is his, IS NOT an "Ignorant mindset". THAT'S WHAT MANHOOD IS ALL ABOUT. It's called BEING AN ADULT MALE, WITH AN ADULT MIND. Your view of MANHOOD is TWISTED. Yes, MEN OF ANY RACE do have a responsibility to their WIVES, CHILDREN, AND COMMUNITY. However, if THE FEMALE SECT of his community REFUSES TO ADOPT THE SAME IDEOLOGY, you have no stable structured society that will help those Men too maintain there responsibility.. Because the need to is gone.
commonman80 1 year ago
8) As far as Good African American men stepping up and taking "The Roll" as the King, The Men, The Leaders in the households that do not have that presence, because we can't afford to continue this negative cycle. Bottom line on this point, You "Strong, Independent, Black Women", with kids and on welfare, CHOSE YOUR MEN, LEADERS, AND KINGS. However, you are finding out that they WERE NOT WHAT YOU THOUGHT THEY WERE, and they are just GRAVEN IMAGES that you now have to live with. Like it or not.
commonman80 1 year ago
7) You stated That "As a community for us to be able to elevate collectively on another level, socioeconomically, spiritually, mentally, physically. We're going to have to adopt a communal sense when we're approaching our community". Our Community HAD JUST THAT. However, After Integration, The African American Female decided that what WE had STRUGGLED AND DIED FOR, wasn't good enough IF IT WASN'T WHITE ENOUGH. Clothes, Skin, God, Food, hair and now men. You women started rejecting it.
commonman80 1 year ago
6) You stated "It takes a village to raise a child, It's A Community,We always had a village tribal mindset and unfortunately as we started to Integrate, we started to lose that mind set". It does take a village to raise a child, and The African American (IN MOST CASES), STILL DOES HAVE A VILLAGE AND TRIBLE MINDSET. However, IT WAS THE AFRICAN AMERICAN FEMALE who chose to leave the customs of the African American tribal/village mindset.
Case and point? Just look at your hair. Understand now?..
commonman80 1 year ago
5) The "Never Ending Cycle" of producing African American MALES AND FEMALES, Who don't "STEP UP AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES" can be stopped tomorrow. If, The African American Female WOULD STOP PRODUCING OFFSPRING BY (MALES OF ALL RACES) WHO DON'T GIVE A DAM ABOUT THEM, OR THE AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY. The African American Man SHOULD NOT bare the BURDEN of THE OUT OF CONTROL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN FEMALE. Bottom line here is, YOU CAN'T FIX STUPID, ONLY CONTROL IT.
commonman80 1 year ago
4) The Question is WHY WERE 62% OF AFRICAN AMERICAN KIDS BORN TO SINGLE AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN. There's no excuse for that. IT'S THE African Americans Females fault. Unless you can show that ALL THESE BIRTHS were Rapes, or EMACULANT CONCEPTIONS, It's CLEAR That the African American Female CHOSE TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH THE MALE or MEN who helped produce those 62% of UNWED CHILDREN. You CAN'T say they didn't know, Because the Information is EVERY WHERE.
commonman80 1 year ago
1) A Man, is not a "Boo Boo". He is a MAN, Sir, or Mr. Not a "Boo Boo". If a Woman of any race referred to me as a "Boo Boo", She's history. She can keep her street talk in the street as far as I'm concerned. 2) Most of the Black Males who don't know how to "Treat a lady", Never had Positive male roll models in their lives to learn from. The blames on their MOTHERS. Who DIDN'T know what a Good Black Man was. 3) If a woman wants to be treated like a "Queen", she needs to act like a "Queen".
commonman80 1 year ago
i love how in this vid she adresses black men she's slammed by everyone...but in her last video where she adresses black women everyone amens...youtube is a hevily populated with idiots....i think im gona delete my acct.
amastara 1 year ago
If u keep downing blk men y should we step up if u keep puttn us down ask ya self
alphy881 1 year ago
@alphy881 .........you dont think black men put us down....?
amastara 1 year ago
Hello people!! this is the 21st century!! Were living in the last days!!
cilwaycofe 1 year ago
Ok can you direct me to your vid where it speaks only to all the bw who dont know how to treat a bm? I have interviewed many many bm who say most bw they've dated have no clue of how to treat a man so they need a vid also.
MizzEboniePrincess 1 year ago
I say the black man have limited options!!! By the you factor in Attitude, materialistic, kids, fat out of shape,Diva complex, weave,goldigger, The black man is working with less than 10% of the black female population. Black woman are not raised properly, why they the only group of woman complaining about how they can' t find a husband.
MrPrettyBoyChina 1 year ago
@MrPrettyBoyChina because we"re the only group of women that is downed as much as we are by society...we get it the worst by far...
amastara 1 year ago
@amastara to be honest most black woman live up to the sterotype. Black men get it 3 times worse than black woman.Being put down don't have any thing to do with not being wifey material. Black woman don't act like a lady. They so busy trying to be strong. Being strong work for corporate America and school but not for a relationship. I don't want to talk about black woman. All they do is mess up my good vibration.
MrPrettyBoyChina 1 year ago
The reason women feel Black men and many other men don't know how to treat a woman is because they find fault where there is no fault. They want a the to be manginas who bend over backwards to treat them like Queens. When the woman finds it laughable to the idea treating her man like anything other than a beckoning servant. Black men don't need to step up Black women need to step down and be beside their man not over.
ProphetGuardian 1 year ago
I think you have it really confused. The reason men don't date women with kids, is because many of those women are out of control and have emotional vendettas against men. Usually the children are often disrespectful as well ( U saw the Doritos commercial). Those same women often cling to a man who gives them any attention (thus kids with different fathers). Outside of being a widow I wouldn't date any woman with kids.
ProphetGuardian 1 year ago
We're not stepping up-we're stepping out to Brazil and Dominican women.
ApollosInsight 1 year ago
I had to comment and say I appreciate your positivity and I encourage you to continue moving forward regardless of what the naysayers say, they are watching youtube because they think youtube can fix their negative mindsets... they are the ones that will have to make that change and then they can see that whole new world that us positive folks have been living in! Keep up the good work!
Reddigitalmusic 1 year ago
Women plz get ya life together and worry about whats goin on around u instead of bitchn about men all the time
uuuop1 1 year ago
This is what I do not like. What you are babbling about is called BULLCHIT!! Right from the start, all you kept saying was, I'm not going to get into this and I am not going to get into that. But that is all you did from beginning to end. And why should anyone have to be "taught" how to treat a lady? Respect is mutual. A man can treat a woman like a queen, but if she's a bimbo, she's a bimbo. And then you are going to say that woman are just as responsible as the men.
CheckmateBuddy 1 year ago
@ruebenshaw yeah thats a good point. it would be easy for the many people they're involved with to just express that, to be fair. so not to waste peopl's time, having them strung. thats not cool, and i know thats how most people are living now
lovechild0716 1 year ago
Part 2 of my comment. God shared Behold I Make All Things New who do you think he's talking to. My comments are for everyone. Everything is going to change or it will end. All lies will be made known to everyone. those that hang on to lies will have to pay the price of it with there life by there own hands.
NewMan826 1 year ago
The Blackman was to be put to sleep and to wake up.come alive and rule the planet in a righteous way. We are now living in this time.The black women may not understand this because they had to do what they could until we wake up.So its very hard for some to even see or hear what is taking place.They can only see what is in front of them at the time.However if the black woman do not put herself in check before this time she has a price to pay.She is sleep however the blackman is mentally dead.
NewMan826 1 year ago
You must be drunk!!! "This is not an attack on men." Brothers out there who just so happened to listen to this crap sound is you beleive she is attacking men. This sister really is speaking about her self and she is trying to find a way to feel better about her self because she is the one who does not really know the answers that she claims in her theorpist so called want a be.
ruebenshaw 1 year ago
Boo your presentation how you speak and dress in your video is good and professional. In the beginning of your video you say that you are not going to get into the drama and the negative part of the comments. However, you are doing exactly that. You think your being positive or trying to trick people into thinking your being positive be all you doing is the same thing other ignorant sisters are doing. If you step your game as you say on the professional level as you protray you will see that
ruebenshaw 1 year ago
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bitch you ain't no queen.
billyripp 1 year ago
@billyripp true what queen you know spind they time complaining and attacking a real queen sits at the thrown and gets worshiped.
ruebenshaw 1 year ago
@ruebenshaw I agree.
billyripp 1 year ago
Good advice and I’m glad that you are not bashing Black relationships like the media. Every Black person need to see this and come to the conclusion of R-E-S-P-E-C-T for self and others. Not all Black men are bad or unworthy, it’s just certain ones that Sistas pick. I’m glad to see a lot of Black celebrities getting married even if it is they ‘baby mama’.
ducevenom 1 year ago
You can't get facts from "interviewing" less than 0.1% of the black population. Stop watching the stereotype local news networks and read a newspaper as a substitute for at least a month and frequently eat at restaurants outside of your hood and expose yourself to some REAL WORLD media blackenterprise tv-video.
Par5Birdie 1 year ago
Maybe it's because I don't watch much domestic news media, but my perception is different. I was raised in a predominantly upper-middle class black neighborhood -- likely why perception is different. Therefore, you are speaking based on what YOU SEE in your "hood" and on entertainment TV. What you're staying reflects whites more so than blacks -- they're the majority population, but they do a good job at hiding it by keeping it off the air waves and not mocking it to the world.
Par5Birdie 1 year ago
This lady must not live in the black community.
lakechaney 1 year ago
For the record 'uky1985' is a racist bottom feeder who gets off inciting friction between black men and women. How do I know this? After reading the comment below I went to this scum bag's page and saw all the negative things he has to say regarding black people.
Wood490 1 year ago
why white women dont tell the black men step-up and it's only the black woman who are making that statement?
NixonYounge 1 year ago
I've been watching a lot of these blk men vs blk wm videos. I'm starting to see a pattern. that pattern is one of circular arguments on both sides. the african american community is like a boat with one oar. we're just going in circles. the blk men blame women, the blk women blame the men. there really is no solution to this problem. everyone is screwed up on both sides. good points in the video, but it is typical rhetoric from the black women side. black men must be the saviors saving a blk wm
ikanipo 1 year ago
most men like the women just dont have that respect..now even inside all that that i have said its a broad spectrum in this as in all things in the world it has a base..it alll starts from somewhere.. and the cure we all are lookin for..these many needed,desired answer are in your past..the history..and not the history of a race..but the history of a people ..and in that realize we all are one and lets deplete the judgement...why not judge what is only required to us..
spitah15 1 year ago
that is simply foolish but it is apparent...its not that they want thugs but it is that they want someone who has a back bone as you stated before and someone they can work on "thug passion"if you know what that means.the thug just so happen to be that condemned house with a good landscape... plus they have the most confidence self esteem aint talk about and being a man is earned...n that in itself embodies a certain demeanor and demand for respect...and the sad reality is most men
spitah15 1 year ago
Honestly .....i believe you were just making a point...and for some reason ppl feel the need to address...and emphasize the negativity....there is never a case where ALL men or ALL men of any race are "no good".....I totally agree with this video...its a very intelligent the way this view point was displayed....I came from a good AA household had a mother and father.....and as for BW....don't blame every AA man ...for that one sorry brother u chose....come on yall ...we know better!
icisprincess09 1 year ago
so how do we do better? if we were never taught then how do we do better? black men are so far fucked that even with men in the house we dont live up to the expectations to not only black women but anyone in the country!!!! do we need to be more european? what constitutes a good black man? im a 28 yr old veteran, college student , and entrepreneur with no kids. am i good? what if i told u that i paid for 4 abortions in 7 years from 4 different people then what? am i still good? where did i learn
painhousing 1 year ago
the don't wanters are the one's who would take a trailer park over even an intelligent, beautiful black woman. it's sickening. my town is fool of these weak men. i'm getting older..my biological clock is tick tocking, and their's not a suitable candidate within a 50 mile radius. what do i do ms..einstein?
watermelonguzzer 1 year ago
Shay-you're so on point with this post. Big ups!
PorknBeanJuice 1 year ago
The plan has been for filled. West Virginia, 1612. Every BLACK MAN and BLACK WOMAN should know that date, If we all knew what had transpired on that date we would not be going through the many issues we the Black People and People of color must confront in our daily lives here in America and the entire world!
masterdeeable1 1 year ago
what you said from 6:04-6:19 is something that should be understood.
Jrobinson2009 1 year ago
Love who loves you.
vford43 1 year ago
Oh fuckin well if I don't want to take care of another man's kids,not MY kids NOT MY PROBLEM.Women always want some total stranger to take care of another mans kids,how pathetic,if that bastard tries to harm my kids they'll be a dead ass bastard,
blodachia 1 year ago
Your know what chrisinft, I think youre out of line. What about the women who have two children by one man who decided to leave his family? What about that? She's only speaking the truth and the truth hurts doesnt it? The way the black relationships are is not the black woman's fault. Instead of taking responsiblity you men blame everything on the woman just like in the bible. If we as black people dont stick together this is going to be an on going cycle. That's something to think about. Peace!
illl7775able 1 year ago
This lady is off base. She fails to talk about the sorry females out there who think they are a queen but they have 3 kids by 3 different men. Come on ladies.
chrisinft 2 years ago 31
@chrisinft
The probably is that Black men aren't being leaders. I know it's a lot to ask, but I think brothas are capable. It takes two people to create a child, so why is a woman always to blame because she gets stuck with the child??? Black man step up!
PorknBeanJuice 1 year ago
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@chrisinft true she sound stupid man!!! and she think she is clever. Trying to come accross like she is some type relationship theorpist. Real idiot
ruebenshaw 1 year ago
@chrisinft That doesn't make a woman any less a queen. Sorry, it just doesn't!
m0renachula704 10 months ago
@m0renachula704 So you think I'm supposed to treat a woman with multiple kids by numerous men as a queen? What a joke! Only a pathetic man would do such.
chrisinft 10 months ago
@chrisinft Thats your personal opinion and you are entitled to it, just like I am entitled to mine. Have a good day.
m0renachula704 10 months ago
@m0renachula704 I suspect you fall under the category of woman I was criticizing. Sad.
chrisinft 10 months ago
@chrisinft Youtube really needs to revise its block feature. No, to me whats sad is people like you who sit on your high horse and judge people. I don't see how others live their lives or what they do effect you. And if you want to know what kind of woman I am, feel more than free to check out my channel, I hide nothing! Lastly, you can continue to reply to me if you like, but when I see your name in my inbox I'm just going to delete it. I don't have time for you. So you have a nice life.
m0renachula704 10 months ago
@m0renachula704 You started with me now you want to cry foul. I don't care what you have going on with your life, that's your business. I simply made a comment about some women not being queens. A true queen does not have babies out of wedlock and/or multiple baby daddies! And I care because I pay taxes that support women on welfare. If these women kept their legs closed they wouldn't need government assistance.
chrisinft 10 months ago
@chrisinft . I don't thinks she meant to attack black men and I don't think she is talking about these uneducated low class hood rat vaginas on heels. She is talking about level headed female looking for good men
divalaudyana 10 months ago
@chrisinft You are right. She's trying to put polish on a turd.
LLCoolTurd 8 months ago 3
@chrisinft No one should be considered a queen or a king when you first meet them. Regardless if they have 3 kids by 3 different men, 3 kids by one man, no kids by no one. Both parties should be treated with respect which can be done without giving them queen or king status. That has to be earned. Shoot you could meet a single no kids person out here and they be morally corrupt or what have you.
spankybighead 7 months ago
Black men are nothing but garbage to me. They are worthless and good for nothing. Black men love incarceration and being nothing but thugs.
uky1985 2 years ago
@uky1985 I am not sure of your experience with AA men but you will not use this channel to promote your hate. Not all AA men are worthless and I happen to have a great one who is not in jail, who is not a thug and who believes in taking care of his family. Instead of dismissing ALL AA men, let me teach you how to attract and choose the right one!
with love
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 2 years ago
@lovein30days keep up the good work, this video made so many excellent points..
TheSaleschamp12000 1 year ago
@lovein30days
Well ma'am, as a black man, I agree with you and I agree with the other lady. Not all black men are like that, but majority of us are dogs.
GTpanik 1 year ago
@uky1985 Who cares if you don't like black men you are one less skank to worry about,go to your redneck and let him treat him like the slave that you are.
blodachia 1 year ago
@uky1985
Kiss my ass. I hope you're not Black, and if so your card has been revoked.
Adios bitch!
PorknBeanJuice 1 year ago
@uky1985 I am a young black man that supports and loves his family. I've been married once and divorced her because she (black woman) was unfaithful. Everyone has a perception and it is never quite true as we think. I wanted to give up on black women but I haven't...there is nothing like the sista's. Ericka Bydu has a song out called bag lady... what a great song!.
ganniston 1 year ago
@uky1985
ganniston 1 year ago
@uky1985 --- although he said it jokingly Katt Williams said it best when it comes to women with your generalization of all black men... if you are over the age of 25 walking around saying black men aren't $hit then you need to figure out what it is about you that keeps attracting ain't $hit men instead of the good ones.
Quest4Redemption 1 year ago
@uky1985 im not a thug, i got love for my thug niggas that i kick it with, but all AA men arn't like that
TheFastFreddy 1 year ago
How you treat your mom is how you will treat your lady right?
Ghostkid202 2 years ago
I agree with what your saying,Im 19 and BW talk to me all the time...its just that when they find out I dont like rap im no good anymore...Or if they don't mind they still have an angry nature about them. I asked one why she was always upset and she replied "I don't like people" So then i asked why do you talk to me then...and (silence) So I its kinda hard to find a BW even if you come with your game "pre-stepped-up"...Ive seen her yell at people yet give me the VIP treatment...but cant say why.
PhilxEulogyx 2 years ago
*DEAD* Liquid Sunshine!!! WOW!!!
keepthapinit 2 years ago
@keepthapinit
LOL. I laughed at that one too.
PorknBeanJuice 1 year ago
Black women are probably the race I would least like to date. Just because they remind me of my mother, who is black, and they have an angry or at least, annoyed vibe about them. Does depend on the individual of course. I could be eating me words at anytime.
Ayatron34 2 years ago
Agree with you brother
Ghana02 2 years ago
Ayatron34 is a faggoty ugly African BLACK ! ! This crap loves the Batman Who is a manly handsome white man. This shit is a abnormal homosexsual BLACK GAY. ! !
6676plentybody 1 year ago
did u interview every black women, white women etc, that's how i know what your saying is bullshit. your no better than everyone on youtube. your just saying the same sterotype bs!! i bet if i said there's not enough good black women then u would have something to say. remember it's 70% of of bw that r single. if blackmen r the problem why aren't u girls dating white men , black men r not the only men that exist!
1986toronto 2 years ago
u see that's the problem with i have with some black women, u said there r good bm, then u said there's not enough. how do u know there's not enough, have u met every black man in the entire world? bm don't only live in the usa there're all over the world!
1986toronto 2 years ago
1986toronto, your comment makes no sense. If she says there are good black men, but there are not enough, obviously there are not enough in her locality. Who cares if there are black men all over the world! that's irrelevant. So if, say, there were no good black men anywhere in the world except in, I dunno, GHANA, do you expect her to 1) go there to verify this and 2) for all the women in the world who don't have access to a "good black man" to all emmigrate there to get one?
cocobrowny 2 years ago
she shouldn't say there's not enough good blackmen period! u can't make statements like that! i met quite a few black women in my area who definitley r no good, but i still don't think there are a lack of good bw. i bet if blackmen were going on tv complaining about being single and blaming bw y'all would be putting the blame on us!
1986toronto 2 years ago
Im stepped up! Now what do you do when you are already doing well at 26. I love strong black women but dang this world has to be going down the drain. I don't lie cheat or nothin. I am a man all the time and women are ladies around be because I will not have nothin less. Women are so easy or so difficult that men go after the easy girls and don't need too much game. I love challenges but why should a man work hard if he don't have to.
bigrlp111 2 years ago 2
People make allot of mistakes when they are free of baggage and don't care about their future until they get baggage. Im lucky I am successful no kids and I do my best to do the right thing. Most women ask me or tell me how independent they are these women are usually broke and all they have to offer is baggage. I want to do better not worse. Easy broke women bore me.
bigrlp111 2 years ago
message to black women-we dont want divas,queens and backbones...we want a black wife
juseph29 2 years ago 12
There are not enough good black women either. Black women know majority of the time that a man is no good before she fucks him but most black women feel that they can change a man and what not but once that dude knock your ass up and leave then don't sit here and bash all black men because you made a fucked up choice. Black women need to start being responsible for their own actions. If that man got to be responsible and wear a condom then you all need to be responsible and take birth control.
William82oct 2 years ago
You said at 3.40 62% of black babies are born to unmarried mothers. Now what you understand that to be , is 62% of black men wont help raise their kids. But what I understand it to be , is that 62% of black women are irresponsible. There are more than a few ways to keep a sperm from meeting an egg, including the word NO. So let's stop the brotha bashing , because obvioulsy these women are not being raped. Stop inviting every man out there pretending like he's looking for a wife to your bedroom.
tbursee 2 years ago 2
CHURCH!!!
William82oct 2 years ago
"Step up and be a father figure to some one elses child" yeeeeaaaa...im gonna have to say Noooo. Sry, but any good man has a right to a fresh start.
LawlessLaw 2 years ago 5
If you gentlmen knew how hostile and angry you sound in this comments below. Have you all seen any of this womans other videos? Obviously not becuase she rides us women harder than she rides the men. the truth is that that black women as well as black men are responsible for the shape our community/children/relationships are in, but she in addressing CERTAIN (if this dont apply, let if fly) brothas, who aint doing that they suppsosed to in this particular video.
ljsrmissy 2 years ago
Good subject.
Many men have realized they don't want families. They have honed their game. Get her, hit dat and either she leaves or becomes a booty call either way on to the next one.
Telling this guy you are on birth control when you are not just to get his baby will not make you happy.
torrid426 2 years ago
Just us as usual huh Lovein ?
All of us need to band together.
Stop putting it all on the Men .
KoolDa1 2 years ago 2
i been trying 2 tell all ya'll, 4 years these trifulling blax femmes ain't worth anything, a toothless stripper with a bad case of hookers foot holds more value n integrity than these slaved out, ragga muffin headed, no culture having tricks...what delusion, i can't c myself wifing any benadict arnold!
muveenon 2 years ago
So fuck that "village" mentality shit or whatever it is. You only use that argument when it's convenient anyway. Weren't you just talking shit about Black Men and how we don't know how to date anyway?
And now you want us to "step up" for problems that we did not create? Hell outta here.
StraightOuttaDC 2 years ago 11
All this trash is conjecture.
You'd have some sort of foundation upon which to build an argument if it were Men who were responsible for choosing relationships. But seeing as to how women hold all the keys, they're responsible for their own doing.
If %62 of black women are too fuckin' stupid to choose a good man, that's their problem.
StraightOuttaDC 2 years ago 19
Word to the " MUTHA BROTHA ".
all this talk about, women maturing faster than men, is a joke. as i said b 4, if this was true, why do women, keep going from " 1 BADF RELATIONSHIP, 2 ANOTHER ". SCIENTIFICAALY, IT'S THE WOMEN, & NOT US MEN. SO, WITH THAT BEING SAID, WOMEN NEED 2 SEL--EVALUATE THEMSELVES. WHAT'S CAUSING THEM 2 TO CONTINUE, THIS NEVER ENDING CYCLE OF ABUSE. UNTIL THEN LADIES, DON'T STICK UR FOOT, IN UR MOUTH. ONLY U CAN MAKE THAT CHANGE ".
PEACE OUT.
fervent66 2 years ago 2
she meant that the good black men should step into the young black boys life to teach how to be a man. these black women need to be taught too.
peacemakerandrebel 2 years ago
I like you bringing up the concept of community; "it takes a village to raise." This is very essential point.
choicelover01 2 years ago
Many, but not all, black men suffer a lack masculine virtue. Job, responsibility, integrity, ambition, courage, etc. (although they do tend to be athletic intially) Many , but not all, black women suffer a lack of feminine virtue once they get out of their teens. For example, they lose their bootylicious curves and start growing a beer belly and accumulating babies and baby daddies. So in effect, black women and black men end up turning each other off due to their lack of sexual virtue.
JesusChrist5000 2 years ago
and the comment about children who come from single parent homes. nt all of them are like I said (im from one too) but i look at the majority and whats around me everyday....i c it
1ShadowMoses 2 years ago
We live in a day where sex is like recreation. Some men just want sex not children. A mother deciding to have a child against the mans will, does nothing but create underprivileged, non productive children with messed up values and morals. We have been trying (unintentionally) single parent households (for some time) and we see the results. Its not working! Simply put, be responsible w/ your vagina. And selective who u give it to.fathers leaving is dishonorable. but women if u get prego ur stuc
1ShadowMoses 2 years ago
I am a black man. I do agree that women do need to raise their standards. I agree that women need to be more selective with who they laydown with, i also beleive that BOTH men and women have to make a decision to have a child. Its is not the womans right to make a man participate in father hood if he dosent want to. Women should not to decide to have children if the man dosent and they cannot provide themselves. (no state help) If you dont want kids use contraceptives.
1ShadowMoses 2 years ago
Why don't you tell the men who laid down with you to STEP UP and take care of HIS kids?
You'll sugar coat for the women though.
215workhard 2 years ago 6
I feel you 100% bro.I will not "Step Up" and take care of someone else's responsibility.The fuck I look like, taking care of someone else's child because of a so called "Village Mindset". You need to find that brother thats your baby daddy and reconcile or find a brother thats into the whole "Pre-fab" family type of thing.I can't believe its expected of brothers with no kids to "Pitch in"helping develop another persons child.I think yall should "Step up"and find better fathers for your children.
DaSurreal1da 2 years ago 5
I have to say that some of what u said was on point. But the part about bm needing to raise someone elses child was a bit ridiculous!!! Come on sis, be serious...I can understand mentoring and being coaches,etc but bw won't even look at a brotha riding the bus let alone be all happy bout raising some other females child. Take a breathe and think bout that one a lil more. And the diva thing is played out...be a sista not a diva
blackceaserleo 2 years ago 2
Sorry the one thing I don't agree with is taking care of someone else childern I don't like or ever want childern. I don't hang with hoodrats that treat women badly, I think the black men that say that there are no good black women are only going by a womans looks and nothing else
erictbrown1 2 years ago
Our people BM and BW alike have lost a lot of morals which is why we're lower than low. We came from a history that was very spiritual and high in morals and values. Once we conform to this oppressive system all of the qualities we once had that made us whole went out the door. Once we get our true spirituality back and refine ourselves mentally, physically, and spiritually the BM and the BW will be one again. I hope to one day see this b/c I just love my sisters death.
TheWackyWorldofO 2 years ago 5
I hhear you love in 30 days
but if you ask me theres not alot of bw thats marraige material either.
And just because a bw has a college degree and a good job doesnt mean thats she is not a whore.I know plenty of women like that.But i hear what you are saying and do agree with you to a point but dam i think it goes both ways
MrCHICAGOSFINEST1975 2 years ago 2
preach!.....
BlaccBoii 2 years ago
Whats your definition of good bm?
One that has eurocentric standards?
MrCHICAGOSFINEST1975 2 years ago 2
but i must admit ur very attractive
brownskinking1 2 years ago
all ya do is bash black men puerto ricans are more loyal thats why i dropped my last woman she was like u and the fact that u would say im not much of an asset proves my point
brownskinking1 2 years ago
@ brownskinking, she isn't bashing black men in this video I have to agree with her 100% on this b/c us BM do need to step up and be MEN and stop being pussy whipped, teenage acting mama's boys. This is one of the few videos in which she explain both sides of the coin, and BW need to understand that the so-called thug/rough neck/ bad boys are nothing but LOSERS that isn't able to provide and protect a family. I gotta give her a heads up on this one!
TheWackyWorldofO 2 years ago 3
this is why i dont date black women anymore
brownskinking1 2 years ago