GirlTalk :Episode #1 "Mr.Sexually Impatient"

[lepetit84]

Also, honesty is alway the best policy and don't make excuses for not wanting to sleep with someone- it's YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE!!

[lepetit84]

As young adults, the social climate is one that encourages us to keep people in our lives that are not necessarily healthy for us. Thus, this leads to dating men who expect sex by a certain time etc etc. People should realize that it is better to have 5 good people in your life than 100 toxic ones - this rule applies the men you end up being interested in as well. True love is rare, so don't expect everyone to be your match!

[PiinkBeautyy]

cant wait till your second episode! =)

[KittnKAbooDle81]

Hey Cutiepie! glad ur enjoyingthe episodes, it depends on when I'm emailed the next topicto cover so ifyouhave any feel free to email them to my girltalk email adress,it'scmpletly anonymous.

[caskew7]

UR HAIR AND NECKLACE IS TOO CUTE!!

[ingrid717]

SEX brings complications you have to be ready. I didn't have anyone to talk to me about thatsex. I think there should be more role models for teens and adults to look at and feel they don't have to do that. The image of sex has changed since the 50 and 60. In that era, it was unheard of. In the 70's until present people glorify FREE LOVE. There are a lot of negative images out here that says, it's o.k. for you do have sex.

[KittnKAbooDle81]

I agree.where we may differ Is I believe women who want to lead their lives in an open sexual way can have sex just like men and shouldn't have to feel we are loose or dirty.I personaly don't ,but belive sex is not this bad thing when done the correct way in terms of readiness and saftey.What makes sex bad is the people who have it,how unready and iresponsible they can be

[s0yummy]

this is an awesome topic to start with!! i personally believe that u should date around n see who's fit for you and will understand and respect ur personal beliefs. you should follow ur mind and heart and just be honest with whomever u date or get in a relationship.

[KittnKAbooDle81]

I thought so too,a great topic so thankful to have been able to discuss it.There are tons of cute and wonderful guys who would respect this decision,hey just youtube Jason Castro,lol

[blklacquer]

she should not do it until she is sure that they both know whats going to happen after they are done. i got this from a man n its true. they need to both understand the consequences..jessie you gave very good advice

[KittnKAbooDle81]

Thank you and thank you for being a part of girltalk,keep the awsome topics coming in nothing is off limits!

[nycbarbie03]

Hi Jessi, great first topic! I wasnt active until i was 21, and i didnt have that awkward first experience that most of my friends did in jhs/ hs because i felt emotionally mature and ready to take that step. Also, i have only been with 1 man, seeing as how i married my first and only, no regrets. It wouldnt feel half as special imo. I say waiting till you are ready. your partner should understand, and support your decision!

[bluepryncess66]

The best advice I can give is to do what is best for you. You shouldn't let someone deter you from what you want. If someone really cares for you then they will understand your situation. I am 24 years old and I am still a virgin. I've been in my relationship for 2 years now and from day one I was upfront with my boyfriend about sex. Remember you are worth waiting for and if he doesn't think so then someone will. Sex shouldn't define your relationship. I know it's hard trust me LOL.

[KittnKAbooDle81]

So true,when I talk to my bf about sex it's funny how men view it s differently,I think that's when issues come to play because they see it differently than us females.

[xcatherinesbombx]

You are so beautiful, inside and out. Thank you for doing this, I really like this series so far. You gave some really good advice!

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3/4 of my friends are sexually active, and we're still so young! (15-17) I honestly do not feel like I am ready at all for sex and I make my beliefs known.

[KittnKAbooDle81]

Thnaks so glad to see you stop by! I always say think of yourself first, your decisions impact others as well as your path. I love making pros and con lists when your are stuck,sounds silly but it can help.Any topic is open for discussion so if you have one email Girl Talk!

[yumcheesy5]

i want your necklace!

[KittnKAbooDle81]

It's so old,just started to wear it really.

[KittnKAbooDle81]

Extremely well put! Thanks for joining in, any topics are open for suggestion as the next topic so spread the word girltalk is everyones mini movement.

[daniellebourey]

this is a really good video. honest no bs and from every point.

btw, i freaking love your hair!!

[KittnKAbooDle81]

Thank you I wanted to givediff views.I'm glad you enjoyed it. I had actually just come from a photo shoot for Cibu International's new Spring Roll Collection(curl and hydartion products).Check them out here on youtube(cibu17,cibustyleloung)

[mishelleAKAmishy]

show interest in me... a lot of times it's my way to get them to leave me alone LOL. But there are MANY guys who have been accepting, and in many cases even if we don't end up dating (because I am just TOO picky) we do become friends and with every guy I hear from them that I am someone they could trust. Just as us women like a man to like/love us for who we are and not for sex.. men do too. She can always become 1 of us, but we can never ever become her again! She's got something we can't buy!

[mishelleAKAmishy]

A guy will wait when he's ready for substance. The truth is you can't turn a whore into a housewife. And just as guys cheat, women do too! Guys that are not "playboys" or tired of life without substance end up being hurt by girls who live in that mentality. I was a virgin until I was 23 and wish I had stuck to my guns better. I am now turning 29 and have a history of 1 (my son's father who died many of years ago) and 1 mistake (40 seconds shouldn't count LOL). But I am upfront with all guys who

[MichyGW]

I meant to say "he may wait on her" but "not with her".

[MichyGW]

I think all people should understand that there are only two things in life that's sure:

1. You will be cheated on and you might

2. You will die.

If she wants to wait, do that but don't think he will wait with you. I think girls who wait tend to have a fairytale view of life and relationships and they forget the first simmply fact which is we are sexual beings.